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I kissed my BFF!

There's this new girl that came to school this year, and we became friends and had sleepovers. Last night, I had a sleepover with her...
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If you kiss a girl and you get those feelings in your down there like when you're kissing a guy does that mean you may be bi? I am not sure but one close friend said it happened to her and now she is wondering. There may be a difference between getting physical and mentally thinking your bi. I am going to try a find out more about it and what it means.

by fashionqn on 12/6/2012 11:23:41 PM

 
 

I once had my two bffs over and my sisters had about 4 girls over and my friend and i did an open dare cuz we didn t think it would be so bad. we thought they might have just made us like smell eat others feet or something which was pretty gross to us! LOL. But instead, they dared us t kiss each other! We didnt end up doing it though cuz i luv her as like a sister but not enough to kiss her! We both said that we cant do it becuz we see each other every day! But, if i were u i would just maybe talk it out. ask her if it was as wierd as it was for u!

by carlsonmegan on 5/28/2011 12:08:13 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD MOD A lot of my friends are apparently bi or gay and i ask them how they know and they say they just know. ive been thinking about it and i dont wnat to cuz i really dont want to be gay. i mean ive never even thought of girls and i still dont. but if i think about it i can picture it and it doesnt really gross me out as much as it should. but im not gay! I mean i would never have SERIOUS feelings for a girl. im so confused. how do u know? becuase i dont know but what if i do. i mean i think i dont. OMG I NEED TO STOP THIS DEVELOPMENT WHICH MIGHT NOT EVEN BE DEVELOPING MOD!

 

 

Hey girly! It's totally, totally normal to be confused. And, it's normal to wonder and have questions. However, it seems like you're only questioning it because your friends are saying that they are. Meaning, you probably hear about it a lot... so it's easy to think about it, like anything else. I think you'd know for sure though, if you liked the same sex. And if you did, that would be totally OK.

xxx

Becca G.

by sayali123 on 4/24/2011 6:43:32 PM

 
 

okay, don't panic. You're okay. i mean It's only a dare. If you find out she's into into you then just tell her If she is you're real friend. she'll understand.

by scissorluv101 on 2/14/2011 3:23:16 PM

 
 

MODMODMOD
now that ive read this i am starting to question my own sexuality because i did this with my best friend and after it none of us said anything after it and i know that shes not bi or les i need help!!!!



Hey girlie,

It's normal to want to experiment, but this is between you and your BFF. Talk to her or an adult you trust to help sort out your feelings, and don't worry too much about it!

Clare W.

by justinbieberlover22 on 1/20/2011 3:10:40 PM

 
 

I've kissed my friends, but then again, I'm bisexual.Smile

by P.i.N.K(: on 1/8/2011 8:08:18 PM

 
 

hscmith
This is no laughing matter

by ashley19rose on 1/7/2011 4:12:34 PM

 
 

that would be awful if it spread around the school. One of my friends had the same thing happened to you but it spread around the school. The girl that was really mean saying that she and this girl were dating and that my friend was leisbian.



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by bieberfever945 on 9/27/2010 5:18:13 PM

 
 

It's just like the song,
"I kissed a girl", "Just to try it!"
Ha Ha Ha LOL LOL LOL

by hscmith on 8/15/2010 10:10:00 PM

 
 

All these people are saying that others that say it's gross are immature but it truly is. The girl who wrote the story was tricked into seeming like she's bi or les, but she did it blindly. The friend manipulated the harmless game and could've even spread nasty rumors about her being bi. And she probably was bi or les and thought that the girl felt something for her and thaat was her way of the first step, but to this girl it had no emotion behind it. If my friend said that I'd say no and ask if she was straight.

by luvlautner1999 on 7/2/2010 7:12:10 PM

 
 

1. take a deep breath
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by Brooke'sBFF4Life on 6/4/2010 1:48:43 AM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD please Answer!!!!!!!

Okay, so today a guy who used to be in my class came back to visit us. I have a crush on him. He asked me to give him a hug, but not the other girls as far as I know. I did and at the end he said that it was a lame hug(in a laughing tone, not upset), so he obvs wanted more. Then laughed at everything I said and sat near me and kept staring at me. It is possible that he likes me? Thank you!

by purplegirlae on 5/19/2010 1:13:52 AM

 
 

I did the same thing thing with my BFF...so we had this sleepova and she dared me to kiss her but on the cheek so i did. and during the night she told me if i ever kissed a girl i said no so she wanted me to try so i did....(LIKE) but i felt a little quilty and bad. BUt now we're still BFF but we dnt hang out as much and i think she likes girl lol....should i ask her?

by gly4ever on 5/17/2010 3:39:05 PM

 
 

i were have never did da dare unless someones payin me 100 $$!

by MzChicaSwagg14 on 5/15/2010 3:48:39 PM

 
 

uh and what part are u guilty about

by swimmerxox on 5/13/2010 7:36:06 PM

 
 

Well I think that it's normal, I've heard of people who have done the exact same thing before... And if she turns out to be bi or a les then that's that, there's nothing you can do about it... And it doesn't mean you shouldn't still be friends... things happen!

-Nat

by Bandlover827 on 5/12/2010 9:22:13 PM

 
 

wow people saying its gross and nasty and all that other stuff are being really immature theres nothing wrong with kissing a girl if u wanna explore ur feelings its fine...she did and she found out it wasnt wat she wanted...enough said...

by Gemi*84 on 5/12/2010 8:07:21 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD
So I just found out today that my neighbor is gay. I've known him since I was 3... and I don't know how to approach the situation. Most of the kids at school know, and when I asked him if it was true, he said yes, and not to tell my parents because they'll tell his parents. Should I ask my neighbor a bunch of questions, completely ignore the situation, what should I do??? I see him every day so it's hard to ignore it, and once something gets spread around the school, it gets EVERYONE talking for at least a month. Help!!!




Hey girl! It's great that he is starting to be comfortable in his own skin, but it is his decision when to tell his parents. It's likely his parents already have some kind of clue about his sexuality.  I think you should continue to be his friends, but don't start spreading his secret. It's his to share and he can tell whoever he wants and choses to tell!  You could tell him you're worried about rumors if it's on your mind...let him know you're worried that a rumor will spread about it because a couple people know.  
Megan R.

by purplefantastic1169 on 5/3/2010 7:56:10 PM

 
 

she may be bi....
i would kind of keep my distance, but i wouldn't tell my other friends in case they would make fun of her or make up rumors about her.

by gretathegreat on 4/28/2010 8:34:02 AM

 
 

wow i wouldnt have done it but i dont think its gross.
im straight but people who r against bi and lesbian people are rude!

by emilypizazz on 4/14/2010 3:33:15 PM

 
 

im sorry but who ever is saying its gross thats really offensive to people. if your against gay or bi or lesbian people thats really mean and rude.


but i would have loved that. im bi. live with it people

by kokopuff678 on 4/14/2010 3:31:07 PM

 
 

you should tell her how you feel and to not speak of it again. p.s. never play truth or dare again with her when it is only you two ALONE

by hailbop16 on 4/9/2010 7:40:12 PM

 
 

i wish i were u i would have loved it *wink*!

by Ladybug863 on 4/4/2010 11:13:49 PM

 
 

wow! thats so mean of her to dare u to do that and you could have said no though. u neeeeeed to talk to her. maybe shes lesbian and wanted to try it out. you all can ask for advice on my profile

by calliegallie42 on 3/24/2010 1:54:08 PM

 
 

its totally ok. whoever is saying its gross needs to grow up. just because of that doesnt mean ur a lesbien and if u r so what? rember the past is the past and good luck Smile!

by brodwaygirl on 3/7/2010 4:59:58 PM

 
 

This girl is not good for you! If a friend asks you to do this and you are not like that then you need to talk! Maybe she feels something? It's hard to tell. Ask her! Don't ditch her! If she was a great friend she can still be one but you would need to except her. If it's hard for you tellher. This is something you need to sort out. You should have had that RED FLAG up when she dared you.

by popsweet838 on 2/25/2010 4:43:46 PM

 
 

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by SuNsHiNe_LuVeR on 2/16/2010 3:51:07 PM

 
 

well it depends on weather you liked it or not.

by kittykat35 on 2/15/2010 10:35:44 PM

 
 

MOD MOD ****MOD**** ok so, im starting to talk to this one girl, E. were going to c a movie next weekend and i kinda dont wanna just go her and me. how can i casually invite one of our mutual friends without looking wierd? Thanks

 

Hey chica, you could pick a movie that you know one of your friends really want to see. That way it will look like you can't turn your friend down and she will have to go. Smile

Lynae P.

by jesusfreakhrdcore on 2/12/2010 10:18:47 PM

 
 

OMG That happened to me too! Me and my BFF were at a sleeover playing truth or dare. I got dared to kiss her, and I did! I forgot about it, until it came back up in conversation.

by erriderri on 2/11/2010 9:35:56 AM

 
 

1. Say your name 10 times.
2. Say your mom's name 5 times.
3. Say your crush's name 3 times.
4. Paste this to 4 other quizzes. If you do this, your crush will kiss you on the nearest Friday, but if you read this and do not paste this, then you will have very bad luck! SEND THIS TO 5 QUIZZES IN 143 MINUTES. WHEN YOU'RE DONE PRESS F6 AND YOUR CRUSH'S NAME WILL APPEAR IN BIG LETTERS ON THE SCREEN. THIS IS SO FREAKY BECAUSE IT ACTUALLY WORKS

by oochoo on 2/7/2010 8:03:13 PM

 
 

i think it's totally normal, if u liked it...
but if u dnt want anyone to konw just tell ur bff to dont say anything about what happened.

by daisy251746 on 2/5/2010 8:03:24 PM

 
 

why did she want u 2 kiss her ?:S i mean why would she dare u 2 do tht

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by bumblebeexo1 on 2/2/2010 8:13:47 PM

 
 

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by sunkist5555 on 2/2/2010 7:14:13 PM

 
 

All you can really do is put it in the past and live in the present!!!

by mosawesome on 2/2/2010 6:49:42 PM

 
 

Everyone is different, some people are just curious and want to experiment. But that is not for me, I am 100% into guys and so are most of my friends. But we do have an inside joke because we did discuss what may make you bi or just like girls. My friend blurted that out in front of my mom one day and she just gave us the look. But it is important to be respectful of everyone no matter what they like.
Hallie R.

by luckykel on 2/2/2010 4:50:21 PM

 
 

well first of all its ok girl its just important to cinsider every decision before you make it but its ok we all make mistakes. now, im lookin for someone to follow me and support me through my workout goal. if theres anybody who is trying to reach a workout goal too we could support each other. thxxx
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by i<3colesprouse on 2/2/2010 3:27:30 PM

 
 

I think almost everyone commenting on this article is being extremely immature. It is normal for some people to want to explore their sexuality in different ways than others. Also, if she is lesbian or bisexual, there's nothing wrong with that. Its how she is and honestly, if you care about someone and they care about you, too, does it really matter who the person is?

by yola purple princess on 2/2/2010 2:55:40 PM

 
 

Its ok!! Its best for and your friend of you dont do that again...I hope you all feel normal again!!<3 Abby

by doodlebug789 on 2/1/2010 8:55:35 PM

 
 

Eww. I would feel guilty to. But if shee keeps accting like that tell your parents or ask her about it in a pilite way.

Hope it gets better

Hannah Smile

by hannahbanana814 on 2/1/2010 8:17:26 PM

 
 

tht is kinda creepy. i never want to kiss my bff. maybe a hug but a kiss on the lips. eww.

by supergirlsis27 on 2/1/2010 7:37:38 PM

 
 

that's no right

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by bluehair on 2/1/2010 12:10:17 PM

 
 

thnx eryn

by cubbiesluv101 on 1/31/2010 6:46:54 PM

 
 

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Under fun stuff and then contests 
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by cubbiesluv101 on 1/31/2010 6:40:36 PM

 
 

where on the website are winners posted? thnx luv ya

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Hey I can't remember the name of that club that hels you find clubs. Do any of you remember? It was like clubfinder or something and its really bugging me. If you know it just post the exact name. Thanks!

by katiekins130 on 1/31/2010 5:41:46 PM

 
 

Hey girlfriend, if she keeps acting this way it may be best to talk to her parents. Let them know she's acting up again and she may have to go back on medication. Just try to be there for your friend. When she's around you be sure to watch her. Smile

Lynae P.

by julianna7 on 1/31/2010 2:56:26 PM

 
 

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Hey girlfriend, you could try the wall stretch. That's just when you put two hands up against a wall, one leg bent and the other straight behind you and push against the wall. Try the heel toe exercise by walking across your room with your forefoot on the ground and walking backwards on your tiptoes. Ever do the compartment stretch? That's when you stand straight up, bend one knee and bring your heel towards your but and grab your foot. Hope these help ya out!!! Smile

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by RayGurl14 on 1/31/2010 1:38:40 PM

 
 

if she says that than she is problble lusbo thats like so gross

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by cubbiesluv101 on 1/30/2010 9:42:40 PM

 
 

hey,dont feel bad...we all make stupid mistakes...we just got 2 get up and brush our shoulder off...u will b ok k...

by halogurl on 1/30/2010 8:50:34 PM

 
 

Okay, i guess if some people think it's alright, it's fine with them... but if she asked you to kiss her, even tho its truth or dare, who does that? I sure dont ask my friends to kiss me, that's kinda gross

by ConverseCutie/AlexaT on 1/30/2010 7:05:46 PM

 
 

0_0 girls dont kiss girls. sorry but ewwwwwwwwww! oh and for all of yall who are sayin that we r being immature about this just cus we think its gross, chill out. we all have our opinions.

by Pinkdramaqueen<3 on 1/30/2010 6:34:51 PM

 
 

wow, a lot of people are being really immature about this.

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by soccergirl524 on 1/30/2010 3:50:21 PM

 
 

*************MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD****************
I think I have anxiety and when people talk about something like this I get overcome with dread. I think it is because when I was younger something similar happened to me. I feel so guilty, please help!

by JBamazesME on 1/30/2010 12:46:36 PM

 
 

MOD!!!!
I think I have anxiety and when people talk about something like this I get overcome with dread. I think it is because when I was younger something similar happened to me. What should I do?

by JBamazesME on 1/30/2010 12:36:14 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD!!!
Me and my friends birthdays are coming up. A bunch of my friends including her are putting money in to a whole load of things. Of course, me and my friend spilled what we were getting for eachother. She REALLY hates what we were planning on getting her, and now I understand why. But whats something useful that we could buy her for her birthday?
Thanxx!




Hey girl! I'm not sure. Ask her if there's something she really wants. If not, figure out what she's interested in and get her something to go along with that.

xoxo

liz 
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by xoallie13ox on 1/30/2010 11:23:24 AM

 
 

Okay, being honest here. I would probably have done the dare. One: it was sleepover, you have lapse of judgments when at them. Just think of how many times you regret calling your crush at a sleepover, yet you still did it. Same thing with kissing a girl at a sleepover. Two: It wasn't in public, so nobody's gonna know unless you tell them. Three: It was your best friend! She probably feels exactly the same as you did after the kiss, unless your absolutely sure she's a lez, so she wouldn't say anything to anyone. And, Four, it was a dare. You chose dare, you do the dare, my rules in truth or dare. I kissed a girl before on a dare and that doesn't make me a lez. My friends have danced on each other and pretended and every other thing they could possibly do without getting too lez. It's normal truth or dare, if you ask me.

by sunay on 1/30/2010 10:59:45 AM

 
 

It was just truth or dare, so that doesn't mean ur friend is a lesbo, it was just she dared u, thats all

by Samantha V on 1/29/2010 7:57:19 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD!!!!
Mod...
HELP ME!!! i like, around 2-3 guys at the time! i don't know how to act around them! i always get emabrrased when i'm around them!!! and i try to be myself! but it's HAAARRRDDDD!!!!!!! HELP ME! PLEASE!

by emma_emily on 1/29/2010 7:40:47 PM

 
 

lol, I'm mormon too and i think thats a bit weird also! Wait, was it on the lips,or on the fleshy cheek?

by smurns on 1/29/2010 7:09:54 PM

 
 

Well think about this hun- she asked you to kiss her...she took advantage of TOD. I think your BFF is kinda lesbo....:O

by justinbieberloverrr on 1/29/2010 6:51:46 PM

 
 

THAT IS SOO NOT COOL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
. . . .. . . . . . . . . .I'm lds(mormon)and usually people think my opinions are extreme.....soo maybe i'm overreacting. . . . . .

by Hollerbackgirl on 1/29/2010 6:41:45 PM

 
 

MODMODMODMODMODMODMODMODMODMOMODMODMODMODMODMODMOD!!
there's this guy i really like and i only have two classes with him, but every other time i look up he's looking at me (or at least in my direction)
should i tell him that i like him? Or should ijust let it ly?

by Hollerbackgirl on 1/29/2010 6:39:47 PM

 
 

Most girls have their first kiss with another female. don't worry. it doesn't mean she likes girls. maybe your BFF wanted to practice so she could have the best kiss with her boyfriend someday. My first kiss was with my friend. We were eight though... anyway its normal. don't sweat about it!

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by SuperStyle96 on 1/29/2010 5:34:03 PM

 
 

she practically asked you to kiss her! i think she wants more than friendship...NO OFFENSE TO GAY OR BI PPL Laughing

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by soccergirl524 on 1/29/2010 4:37:07 PM

 
 

Dont worry i did that once it is realy gross.I dont even know why i did it but i was only 6 at that time.Never going back agin!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

by meme4115 on 1/29/2010 4:11:28 PM

 
 

wow thats...gross...

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by CLUB BOY CRAZY<3 on 1/29/2010 6:44:46 AM

 
 

Well, the fact that she dared you to kiss her is kinda weird... did she just want to practice kissing or is she in to girls??? hmmmmm

by ConverseCutie/AlexaT on 1/28/2010 10:04:45 PM

 
 

no big deal really. just talk to her about it and make sure she does not tell anyone becuase you seem embarrassed. (DONT WORRY I WOULD TO!) its normal to feel guilty and its also normal to kiss a girl. dare or not. my bff and my good friend practiced kissing on each other and it was my bffs first kiss! actually more than half of girls will have their first kiss with another female! so dont sweat it

by dancer10196 on 1/28/2010 9:25:36 PM

 
 

thanks mod! sorry it was so long! XD

by luvlautner on 1/28/2010 9:18:55 PM

 
 

MODERATOR! hey! i'm kinda stuck in an awkward situation! i was afterschool earlier this week and a guy my friend used to like was there too but no one else i know was there! he recently got a car and got to drive it that day so he took me out to see it! afterwards he gave me ride back to the front of the school! as i was getting out my mom pulled up behind him! now she doesn't trust me but i never planned to get into his car! she told me she's going to get people's opinions on whether they think we're just friends! i kinda like him but no one except another friend knows that!the friend that liked him last year, and some of my other friends including the one who knows i like him, are coming over tomorrow! i don't want my mom to bring it up but i don't know whether to ask her not to or tell my friend that liked him what happened. if i don't tell her i don't want her to think i was hiding it and i don't want my mom to think that i was hiding it from my friend! i don't know what to do!please help me!

 

Hey babes,i dont think it is that big of a deal. He just took you for a spin in his car! I would just tell your mom that its nothing and you would really appreciate it if she didnt bring it up cause some of your friends might be offended and you wanna keep the waters smooth. xo JANA

jana k.

by luvlautner on 1/28/2010 8:25:04 PM

 
 

wow kissing a bff? i understand the truth and dare but dont do it!!!!!!! its like wrong to do to ur bfff!!!

by hwada1 on 1/28/2010 8:07:57 PM

 
 

I would not wanna do that its gross.

by kate100 on 1/28/2010 7:57:31 PM

 
 

Forget it was a girl that is gross i would of passed.

by kate100 on 1/28/2010 7:55:51 PM

 
 

That's Ok if it was a boy but that is Ok that it was a boy.

by kate100 on 1/28/2010 7:54:06 PM

 
 

why would she want you to do that?

by cvfan on 1/28/2010 7:48:22 PM

 
 

Well, me and my best friend (ever) neither of us know how to kiss a guy sooo we practiced on each other. We felt awkward at first but now we're perfectly fine. AND now we can sing the song 'i kissed a girl' and it's true LOL u'll get over it trust me!

by HannahLola on 1/28/2010 7:37:30 PM

 
 

Okay. Umm,first of all,to the people who are saying it's gross,it's really not. It was a silly dare. I mean I would definatly feel akward the next few days I'd see my BFF if I kissed her,but then I'd finally remind myself-It was just a dare. Not anything real. So yeah

by xXTINKERBELL2009xX on 1/28/2010 7:36:06 PM

 
 

I did that once when me and my friend were playing 'The Little Mermaid' when we were 8.

Do u meen ON THE LIPS!?

by Tomatos97 on 1/28/2010 7:32:27 PM

 
 

It's not that big of a deal, really. So you kissed a girl? Big whoop. Also, it's not gross for all the people saying it is.

by Soccer*Chick1997 on 1/28/2010 6:36:15 PM

 
 

when i played truth or dare, we made a promised not to do any of that.

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by pinkandpurple14 on 1/28/2010 1:51:00 PM

 
 

wow, if your regretting it this much you should say this before you do it next time " if u won't do it on a dare then don't dare someone to do it" or simply refuse to.

by violintaekwondogirl on 1/28/2010 10:59:26 AM

 
 

...that's a first. But no worries, I'm not a judgmental person. One of my good friends is actually gay [and engaged to her GF!!]

Hopefully you and your bestie can get past this... and yeah, talking always helps. Kristen's advice is spot-on

by _savvygirl_15 on 1/28/2010 8:40:36 AM

 
 

well that is relly complicated and nasty sorry 2
say it that wat lol

by misscindy on 1/28/2010 4:15:37 AM

 
 

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Okay, sry 4 the MAJOR CAPS lock, but I REALLY like this gorgeous guy who told me he loved me, but then I dumped him (thought he was too clingy) but he went out twice after the breakup and now he's single again. He still texts me EVERY SINGLE NIGHT AND MORNING. I think I still like him. Butwhat if he doesn't love me the way he used to? What if I'm rejected???
THANKS! HELP ME!




Hey girl, you never know until you take a chance. Try flirting with him and see if that old flame hasn't gone out.

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by wei-lan_98 on 1/27/2010 11:51:56 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD!!!!!
Would it be okay if I wore a pad when wearing skinny(but not super skinny) jeans? I mean would you be able to tell that I'm wearing one? Cuz I don't like tampons and usually I have smaller pads, but I'm all out so I have to use regular.. What do you think? Thanks! (:




Hey girl, nope, you'd be fine. I've worn pads with skinny jeans and it makes no difference.

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by Bookworm :) on 1/27/2010 10:55:36 PM

 
 

eww that's a little disgusting....

why would she dare that?!?!

xoxo♥

by Caramel_Apple on 1/27/2010 10:52:54 PM

 
 

Wow. Well, I don't think you should have done it dare, or not, since you're regretting it this much. But, people make mistakes; how else are you going to learn, right? Good luck!

by LaLaLand_Girl on 1/27/2010 10:52:34 PM

 
 

Doink! Cookie bars and all the stars!!! Thats crazy. And discusting I could never kiss a girl.. I couldn't do it. I gag thinking about that. I kiss guys.. Well no not guyS one guy. lol

by reeg-a-lene on 1/27/2010 10:48:56 PM

 
 

ohh that is tough.

by serafinasunshine23 on 1/27/2010 10:03:32 PM

 
 

i kiss my guy and girl friends on the cheek all the time. its just something i do and they are used to it. Smile

by NYCgirl95 on 1/27/2010 9:49:36 PM

 
 

ok kissing a girl ewwwwwwwwww

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by crazy runnah on 1/27/2010 9:49:26 PM

 
 

lol once i was dared to lick a chalkboard and i did it it was nasty blech Smile

by SoftballPlayerO11 on 1/27/2010 9:04:51 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD MOD!!!!
Lately I have been feeling very left out. I have a great group of friends, the thing is they always talk about when they were at someone's house for a sleepover and say things like "you shoud have been there" but she never invites me.
I have tried to talk to them about this but they only deny it and make me feel really bad for days on end. But I really like them it just sometimes feels like they dont like me back. What should i do? thanks! Smile




Hey girl, sounds like they aren't very good friends, huh? You made the right move trying to talk to them, and they're not responding. Their loss. My suggestion is to try to get to know some of the other people in your class; stick to your other friends who don't keep you out of the loop. You deserve a crew that's happy to have you, not one that leaves you and others in the cold.

xoxo
Alyssa B.

by colorCute4 on 1/27/2010 9:01:25 PM

 
 

Doinkers you silly butt, you!!


random idkkk

by CutieWithGlasses on 1/27/2010 8:53:21 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD!
okay so here's my problem. Is it possible 4 ur enemy ( it's a aboy i fight with) to like you? and is it possible 2 like ur enemy? I mean i fight with him almost all the time and i can't get that and him out of my mind! HELP ME IM SO CONFUSED!
Love and rockets
sweettwin95




Hey girl, they say opposites attract. It's def possible to like your "enemy" deep down and fighting may just be a mask for your true feelings. In psychology, this is called reaction formation, where someone does/acts the opposite of how they really feel.

xoxo 
Alyssa B.

by sweettwin95 on 1/27/2010 8:48:06 PM

 
 

wowie. it might've been meant as a joke to ur friend but it crossed your line. yea, i would talk to her about it and def stay away from anything like that next time.

by pearlnagem on 1/27/2010 8:46:34 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD
my bff just told me she was in love with my bf. now she's acting like she's the one going out with him, not me. whenever i text him, she's like "who are you texting? what are you saying?" and when i say that its not really her business she says "i need to know. i deserve to know what you say to him" and she always flirts with him and hes not interested in her. what do i do to get her to stop!?




Hey girl, try sitting down with your BFF and telling her nicely how you feel. Try to keep the peace but be open with your feelings: let her know what's going on and how it makes you feel bad. She's still your BFF and no friendship is worth giving up for a guy. Good luck, girlie!

xoxo 
Alyssa B.

by twiggiebabyyy on 1/27/2010 8:45:53 PM

 
 

Thats a dumb dare... do what me and my buds do:


we say "before we dare anybody we cant kiss anyone, undress, or anyhting that SOOO awful we dont do it"

by BrownEyedBuddy on 1/27/2010 8:40:47 PM

 
 

two words: WOW and GROSS

by aqua girl on 1/27/2010 8:40:03 PM

 
 

Modmodmodmod
I really like this guy and I think he likes me back. He runs his fingers through my hair he smiles when he talks to me
he talks to alot. Even when he's not talkin to me he looks
at me alot and smiles when he does or sees me. The thing is I'm not going to see him for a month after I last did. We got clos then but I'm not sure how
he felt. Does he like me? And how do I start a conversation with him since it's been so long?




Hey chicky, I’m a busy bee facilitating all the G-Blog jazz. Although I’d love to answer and chat with all ya gals, it’s just not possible at the moment. I’m sure our lovely bloggers here would love to help ya out with some great advice! Thanks for understanding. ♥, Your Blog Patrol Babes 
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by Inshyra628 on 1/27/2010 8:35:16 PM

 
 

I think the friendship is over. no offense. but i think this girl has got more on her mind than friendship..or is just...weird. I mean, she ASKED you baisacaly. i have nothing agaist gay or bi people. im just SAYING. unless you enjoyed it and are planning to do it again...
i would end the friendship.

sorry for the spelling mistakes!

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by soccergirl524 on 1/27/2010 7:23:11 PM

 
 

personally, i don't think it's that big of an issue. i think i've kissed all of my close friends. (no, i'm not gay) but, i've had a truth or dare experience or one of my friends and i would kiss in front of guys to impress them (i know i'm a "flirty", or worse, person).... i just don't think that kissing another girl on the lips is that big of a deal.

by drummergirl13 on 1/27/2010 7:20:40 PM

 
 

Thats Ok! I kiss my BFF everyday and I'm not gay! nobody sees us though! And I kiss her on the lips and its fine if u know the person for a while like if u had known her for 1 day it would be weird but if u had known her for a year that is ok i think! Its actually really funny!

by rubygem52 on 1/27/2010 7:14:47 PM

 
 

One word..... WOW!

by kat98 on 1/27/2010 6:37:53 PM

 
 

That's disgusting!

by zoerockstar on 1/27/2010 5:53:48 PM

 
 

I am really sorry about that, but it not like you're gonna die, or anything. you'll be fine. If you still wanna be her friend, just forget about what happened. I know it may be hard, but sometimes, you gotta forget the past and move on.Smile By the way, everyone who's reading this comment: STOP WRITING RANDOM THINGS ON PEOPLE'S STORIES!!!!!!! IT IS TOTALLY UNFAIR TO THE PEOPLE WHO WROTE THE STORY, SO STOP!!!! :<

by cooties11 on 1/27/2010 5:49:04 PM

 
 

whoa i don't think i could get over myself if i did something like that! i would feeel sooo guilty

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by urastar94 on 1/27/2010 5:00:21 PM

 
 

hmmm, depends, if it was on the cheek, then don't worry about it cuz in other cultures cheek kissing the same gender is normal and very common but if it was on the lips, EEKK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

just make sure ur BFF likes guyz!!!!!!

by NaturallyWonderful on 1/27/2010 4:43:37 PM

 
 

I'm not gay, but I really don't see the issue in kissing a girl. I personally don't like kissing in general ( boy or girl) but if you kiss your mom, she's a girl as well. I know a mom is your creator and you might say it's a completely different story, but I don't think that because of this incident people should call her gay.

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by CLUB BOY CRAZY<3 on 1/27/2010 4:07:49 PM

 
 

You shouldn't have anything to worry about, since it's just totally normal. Same thing happened to me once, and i just got over it.

by biskii on 1/27/2010 3:53:15 PM

 
 

uggg

by mycoda on 1/27/2010 3:28:40 PM

 
 

My friends would nvr do that to me and I wouldn't to them. I think she likes u as more than a friend cuz friends don't do that to each other.

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by dancergal22 on 1/27/2010 3:24:54 PM

 
 

MOD The guy I like hugged me today. But I didn't hug him back...it was really a surprise and kind of weird. I think I kind of pushed away, but I don't want him to think I don't like him. What should I do? Thanks

 

Hey missy, why don't you give him a hug tomorrow? That way he'll see you like hugging him and the feeling is mutual! Smile

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by Pigclock on 1/27/2010 3:22:49 PM

 
 

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by lasagna on 1/27/2010 3:17:20 PM

 
 

Ok then...

by lasagna on 1/27/2010 3:16:57 PM

 
 

everyone who's saying thats they're gay, loosen up. i got dared to kiss one my best friend playing truth-or-dare once, and it was funny. there was a whole group of us, and it was a DARE. not a big deal. we're not lesbians or anything, it was a JOKE.

by pmr123 on 1/27/2010 3:15:54 PM

 
 

Awkward....anyway if you didn't want to do it you really didn't have to! (:

by CutieWithGlasses on 1/27/2010 3:08:32 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MODM MOD MOD MOD
I want to tell my crush that I like him. I have liked him for 3 years.
THIS IS URGENT
DO you think I should? Do you have any tips?




Hey Girl! I think that telling him a big risk that you just need to be ready to make. Sometimes telling your crush that you like them in person can be difficult. If you think that might be an issue, try telling him through a letter. That way, you can read it over and edit everything you say before actually giving it to him. Hope this helps!




- Lizzie N. 
Lizzie N.

by girlygirl97886 on 1/27/2010 1:42:18 PM

 
 

Was that really the best thing to do? Next time that dare comes up, run for the hills.

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by *CLUB ANTI-JONASBROTHERS* on 1/27/2010 11:48:07 AM

 
 

ew thats gross no offense.

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by CLUB BOY CRAZY<3 on 1/27/2010 11:02:14 AM

 
 

ewwww! that is really hard i bet. i don't believe in gay marriage or anything but obviously you aren't gay if your freaked out like that..

by xoglitzyglam12 on 1/27/2010 10:52:30 AM

 
 

um hahaha i got dared to do that once but i didn't end up doin it! i was a little too grossed out! Check out my profile and comment! i love giving adivce!

by Kristin95 on 1/27/2010 10:43:21 AM

 
 

i know how you feel. i was playing truth or dare once and ended up kissing a guy i didn't know, and i felt so uncomfortable and grossed out. so i can only imagine how you must feel. (altho if u r gay that's ok!) don't worry, it'll be alright, u will probably be able to laugh about it someday Smile

by cookie_monster9 on 1/27/2010 10:16:57 AM

 
 

yum lol jkjkjkjjk lol haha o man girl if u didnt like it dont ever do it!no seriously!i myself dont support homosexualism so.....lol:/

by bluemily on 1/27/2010 10:01:48 AM

 
 

dont worry its okif you kissed your friend just dont tell anyone because if you do it will spread around the whole school and that would be bad ....!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!LOL Smile
ELIZABETH12

by elizabeth12 on 1/27/2010 9:30:57 AM

 
 

LOL wow a new dare at my next sleepover..jk jk. but I agree with Kristen Y. that you shouldnt let this get in the way of ur friendship and that its nomral for girls our age to "explore" their sexuality.


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