GirlsLife.com - Wanting to Belong

CAN SOMEONE PLEASE HELP ME WELL THIS IS THE STORY I WAS IN 5TH GRADE I HAD TO CHOSE SCHOOL FOR MIDDLE SCHOOL AND THEY DIDNT ACEPT ME ON ANY SCHOOL SO THEN SINCE THAT HAPPPEND I COULD CHOSE ANY SCHOOL FROM THE WHOLE BRONX SO I WANTED TO GO TO ANOTHER SCHOOL BUT I WENT WITH MY SO CALL BFF BUT I WAS NOT IN THE SAME CLASS AS HER ON 6TH GRADE I MET THIS REALLY CUTE/NICE GUY HE Was in my class so then few months later he was going out wif some gurl then my new friend like the same boy and was jelous no one knew but i was 2 then in the middle of the year my friend went out wif him they really never seem like a couple but then all the the time i was his friend we were cool and all that to my friend and him broke up then at the end of the year my crush best friend told me if i like the boy i like i said idk he said yes u do because i know and then he told me my crush really like i didnt know wat to do so i told him it was a lie the next day my crush didnt come 2 school because he went to P.R the whole summer vacation i thought and thought that i really really like my crush so now that im in 7th grade i was still cool wif my crush so then some 2 months past this girl was going to was going out wif my crush this was a new girl so then i they broke up and i told my crush i really like him since then we stop talking its been 5 months i havent talk to him but now i just want to be friends....but around 2 months ago my crush told me he didnt like me so loud my friends try to convince him but nothing but so alot of things had happend between these months but like 1 weeks ago my crush was going to say sorry etc but i was scared so i didnt go but just before that he got hit in the face with the football so we didnt have time to talk but the day before my friend herd that he said he hates when i hide and i do but yesterday we had to finish some class work we came up from lunch and i saw him and we stare at eachother for like for 1 mn and he was like watz up with his head HELP ME IDK WAT TO DO!!

MOD MOD MOD

While we encourage an open environment on Girlslife.com, some blogger babes may find your comment offensive or inappropriate. Please discontinue to ask or comment about this subject and talk to a parent, trusted friend or guidance counselor. Love and thanks! ♥, Your Blog Patrol Babes

Marie H.

by magzy4 on 7/8/2010 5:20:10 PM

hey girls!!! anyone need advice? believe me, i've been there - and I survived!!! Luv, Bella Abby C.

by aribella505 on 6/21/2010 3:19:59 PM

MOD!!! Okay so the group of 7 girls that i hang with are totally awesome. But we all were in diff. classes so I got close with some other girls in my class but my other group doesn't like them too much. They aren't mean to them but they are sooo much diff. then they r when around me.... I have no idea what to do and we go back to school like September 3rd so I guess there is time but still.... Help me if you can!!! -Confused Bestie

Hey! If your friends don't get along it's no big. Just hang out with them separately. If your friends get jealous just explain that since you guys have different classes you've met some new people but that doesn't mean you'll stop hanging out with tham. Hope that helps!

Helen S.

by flyforever9023 on 6/19/2010 3:32:38 PM

Mod! i need help badly, okay so iv been friends with this group of girls but i got fed up with one who's constantly insultin me so i stayed away from themsince my friend who insults had been trying to sit with us more often so id have no place to sit. i started to think that they didn't wanna be my friend anymore. i figured bcs of this none of my friends utside my class would wanna be my friend anymore so i stayed away from them but i talked to them from time to time. then 1 gurl who had left but came back was on my bus so i started to hang out with her. so i only had 1 friend bu in class id get lonely so my old friends told me i should start to socialize more often. after 3wks i actually tried but they won't talk o me that much and when i try to change my seat 1 boy would tell me to move and i do cuz im tired of him. what should i do. im sry dis is long but i need ur hlp.

Hey girly! I hate sitches like this. At least school is ending soon. I would just keep being friendly and nice to everyone. Next year, get involved in some activities where you can meet new people to hang and be friends with

xxx

Becca G.

by emygirl11 on 6/5/2010 7:31:56 PM

MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD!!!
Well I am 12 and half Cuban and half Black. My Cuban grandfather's mom is from France and her Mom is from the U.K. I know I have some Irish in me (considering my Aunt has a disease only irish people get).
Anyway... I was watching some youtube videos and I came across Irish Dancing. I watched a bunch of videos with the gothard sisters and Healy Irish Dance School. It seems so fun and exciting! Plus it seems like a great way to exercise! I wanted to start some classes this Spring Break, but there is one problem... I don't know if I will be the only Black girl their (I'm not that dark, more like carmel). I have a thing when people stare at me just cause I'm a different color. Plus they don't know my background so they don't know me!
I use to take ballet (still do) and I am one of three black girls there. And there is 23 girls in the class. I am always scared of being in that situation again. Every YouTube video I see there is never any black girls. I don't want to stand out! So what should I do? I am sooooo scared! Please help me!

Hey girl, you shouldn't worry at all about what other people think of you. So what if your different? Being unique is beautiful. You don't wanna be like everyone else. I know I do! Go for it! If you want to do it don't let what other people think get in the way. I'm sure everyone will be impressed that's what you want to do! Be brave I know you can!

Lauren R.

by LolaVolleyball on 3/27/2010 1:06:18 PM

Well I am 12 and half Cuban and half Black. My Cuban grandfather's mom is from France and her Mom is from the U.K. I know I have some Irish in me (considering my Aunt has a disease only irish people get).
Anyway... I was watching some youtube videos and I came across Irish Dancing. I watched a bunch of videos with the gothard sisters and Healy Irish Dance School. It seems so fun and exciting! Plus it seems like a great way to exercise! I wanted to start some classes this Spring Break, but there is one problem... I don't know if I will be the only Black girl their (I'm not that dark, more like carmel). I have a thing when people stare at me just cause I'm a different color. Plus they don't know my background so they don't know me!
I use to take ballet (still do) and I am one of three black girls there. And there is 23 girls in the class. I am always scared of being in that situation again. Every YouTube video I see there is never any black girls. I don't want to stand out! So what should I do? I am sooooo scared! Please help me!

by LolaVolleyball on 3/27/2010 1:05:40 PM

by crazy4lyfe on 3/13/2010 1:42:37 PM

all the hot guys flirt with me but they have gf tht are my frands and they are all taken and im talking to ppl from McEwen but i dont want to date someone from another county

by hot shot1023 on 2/23/2010 10:25:50 PM

MOD
No single guys are attractive at my school! Just Bob.....

Hey babe! Guys will mature and change over time. You could always try meeting guys outside of school too!

Megan R.

by lexibear41 on 2/23/2010 8:46:18 PM

************MODMODMODMOD*****************
Ask anyone who sees. The guy I like is flirting back. One problem: HE HAS A GIRLFRIEND!!! She doesn't go to our school, and I'm glad for that. This guy that I like (let's call him Bob) Bob flirts with me. I'm not misreading signals. He LIKES me. Today, he sat on my lap randomly and leaned back. Against my BOOBS! So I know he does. Yeah. What do I do?! HELP!!!!!!! Can I have some pointers on how to draw him away from her to me?

Hey babe! It's not fair to you or his girlfriend to be flirting with him. If he is taken, avoid him! He's a player and if he'll do that to his girlfriend, he'll backstab you the same way. Unless they are totally done, I wouldn't flirt with him because he'll likely hurt you! Try flirting with single guys instead!

by lexibear41 on 2/23/2010 8:41:24 PM

Lauren R.

is modding

Add Your Comment!

Wanting to Belong

ADD A COMMENT