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MOD! i am scared to walk home after i get off the bus cause i think i am going to get kidnapped. there are so many child abduction notices at my school and stuff they send home reports saying that to girls encountered a man trying to take a picture of them for no reason and then drove away. it was really close to my neighborhood, kids that went to my school! please help me with my fear of strangers -Gwen

Hey girly! You have every right to be nervous. And, it's good, because it means that you'll be on guard. Make sure to walk home in groups of friends if you can, rather than by yourself. Maybe, you could even talk to some friends, and everyone's parents could take turns giving you rides home.

xxx

Becca G.

by Gwenguin on 10/27/2010 7:54:57 PM

MOD,
I just want to say thanks so much for this post!

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by lip_gloss12 on 8/8/2010 5:20:11 PM

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i have to go get a check up at da dr. for school and im SO SCARED i just want to cry and i dont no why

Hey girl, it's okay a lot of girls get nervous when they go to the doctor. It's good to remember that the doctor is not a bad person, he or she just wants to help you and keep you healthy. Remember that you want to be healthy, and going to the doctor is the best thing you can do to make sure your body is functioning the way it should.

Megan R.

by mississippigurl on 8/4/2010 4:45:18 PM

MOD HELP! I don't know if my friends parents like me! My friend Malley's dad never talks to me, and sometimes, her mom says that I think that I know everything and I've never even been to her house! And Nelly's dad seems cool with me, but Nelly's mom gives me dirty looks sometimes! What can I do? Please pretty please help me! It's killing me! ~Khlole

Hey girl! I would definately talk to your friends about this and tell them that it's bothering you. Or, you can try and talk to their parents directly and let them know what a great person you are. You can also ask one of your parents to talk to them. They should know what a fab chica you are!

by cheerrox1111 on 7/24/2010 7:56:22 PM

MODerator,
I haven't been able to sleep lately, and iv'e cried every night i havent been able to sleep. I have a feeling it has something to do with my angst, but i dont even know what my angst is about. can you help me out please.

Hey! Sometimes we just get sad, even if we don't know why, and that's ok. Try writing your feelings down in a journal. Even if you feel like you don't know why you're sad, writing it out might help, and a journal won't be judgmental of you. Hope that helps!

Helen S.

by prettyotter on 7/2/2010 2:23:24 AM

hi peeps!!!
so, i get these sort of panic attacks sometimes, and it starts in the pit of my stomach, then i just get this feeling of despair. i usually fall asleep after them because i'm so worn out. and after they start up, i feel scared and alone all the time, even in a room full of people.
what i've found is that they are pretty much entirely linked to my period. yep. so it's kind of like instead of getting sad to deal with the hormones, my body's getting scared. i just try to surround myself with people i love and ride it out. it'll all be ok!!

by izameow11 on 5/10/2010 1:46:45 PM

This happened to me too. I bet what I had was a phobia. And the thing was, whenever I watched a scary movie about kidnapping or devilish things (like the exorcism), I use to get sick and vomit. And the night I felt sick is when I watched World of Wars, the one about the Aliens. I think why I got all emotional and unstable is because I thought these things would happen to ME. Sooooo.... yeah.

But, I'm over that =D I don't do that anymore. I hope you're ok =] I'M HAPPY!!!! I bet people think Imma freak now, right? lol.

by FrenchMani<3 on 4/5/2010 5:14:06 PM

Ya that happens to me to I just get up and out of bed and start crying even if I was listening to really relaxing music. It happens when I think about death and other things like my parents and sister. Even my animals... I still do it on occasion but music helps.

by Bleach_girl101 on 3/25/2010 7:18:45 PM

OMG!!!!! i cry over lots of stuff too--i got ovr crying evry single night but i totally remember goin thru a stage of being scared of EVERYTHING!!!! i talkd w/my mom bout it and she sed it was prob just a phase. im ovr it now, evry once in a while ill get freaked out but im pretty good

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by foreverpeace17 on 3/2/2010 8:27:06 PM

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I have been getting panic attacks since 3rd grade, and i never told ANYONE because I didn't know what they were.. Then I looked them up and now know. I havent gotten them in a year, and now i'm in 7th grade and got 2 in one night, one yesterday, and one today. I got scared that i've startd getting them again, because when i do get them, i cant control myself. I've only told my 4 bestest friends, so that when they're with me, they know what to do. And it's scaring my friends, and they're treating me different, like, when we're walking home, they'll go, oh, i'll carry your backpack. but the thing is, is that they've known me since I've started getting them, and i've tryd convincing them i'm still the same. and i rly dont like the negative attention, so i dont want to tell my parents. But wat i RLY want to kno is, is it rly a big deal and do i RLY need to go to a doc? Do i need to tell my parents? And how?
PLZ Help this is scaring me
thanks
sarah

Hey girl! First thing is that you need to tell your parents so that they know about it and then maybe you should go to a doctor.

Eryn G.

by 1cutiepie24546 on 2/21/2010 5:12:50 PM

wow this happened to me

by Bamboozle95 on 2/19/2010 1:05:24 AM

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ok so my friends always talk to me like i'm really stupid if i do somthing wrong they call me retarded i've told them i don't like it what should i do?

Hey babes, stand up for yourself. Not only is it totally mean to make you feel stupid, the term "retarted" is just an awful name in general and is wrong on so many levels. Dont laugh it off of change the subject, the next time they make a comment about your intelligence be like Listen, I dont think its funny. Stop. xo JANA

jana k.

by koolios on 2/18/2010 11:32:17 PM

awww!!!!! i'm sooo sorry! i really am- i feel for you.

~♥hugs and kisses♥~ ♥♥♥erighn

by erighn♥hannity630 on 2/18/2010 8:59:46 PM

I think you're scared because, you miss your grandpa. another reason, I think you might be scared is because you're not used to being alone without your grandpa living.

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by NaturallyWonderful on 2/18/2010 6:41:45 AM

by NaturallyWonderful on 2/18/2010 6:39:30 AM

The exact same thing happened to me last year

by sweetswimmie on 2/17/2010 10:12:51 PM

yeah i know how you feel I get scared when im alone im scared of being alone because i always feel like if something happened i would be alone and nobody could help me or hear me or anything i always try to keep someone with me or even my pet and the noise from the tv can help distract me too

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by XxClairexX1187 on 2/17/2010 10:13:44 AM

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ok so my 2 friends think i should go out with this guy that they think i like (he's like my best guy friend). i tell them over and over again that i dont like him but they still assume i like him. We are friends! I already told them who i like but they think that im lying. Now almost everyone in my class thinks i should go out with him! we both know we dont like each other that way but now lately thinks have been getting super awkward. My friend Nikki keeps saying,"hey Jeremy, cristal LOVES you! Jeremy, YOU AND CRISTAL WERE MADE FOR EACH OTHER!' i kind of thought it was funny at first but now its getting on my nerves. Im just hoping he doesnt start to think that its true! what should i do and how do i make it stop?! PLZ HELP!
-Cristal

Hey babes, tell them to knock it off again. Be a little more forceful and tell them it annoys you. Your business is your business and your friends have no right putting words in your mouth. xo JANA

by cristal1011cr on 2/16/2010 9:10:11 PM

this is pretty good advice

by JJ25 on 2/16/2010 8:49:43 PM

Moderator;

Thank you so much! I really appreciate it!

by Sary on 2/16/2010 7:35:01 PM

Moderator;
Today in my Literature class, we had a quiz on "The Gettysburg Address". We had to memorize it, and then fill in the blanks. Well, we were supposed to have it last Friday, but it got pushed up to today. So, my teacher said that there was no excuse for anyone to fail it. Well, I got a 42%, and now I don't want to face her tomorrow. What should I do?

Hey babe! Mistakes happen, and bad grades happen. We're all human, it's normal to miss a reading once in a while. No one is perfect! Believe in yourself, just explain you didn't have time and you feel really badly about it. Maybe you can talk with your teacher and see if you can get a make-up quiz!

by Sary on 2/16/2010 7:27:52 PM

MODERATOR!!!!!!!!!!! Is it normal to eat a lot of junk food during your period? I usually eat healthy, but I'm craving junk food now! Is it considered healthy too?

Hey babe! It's definitely normal to crave junk food and to indulge once in a while. Sometimes your body needs certain things, and that's why it craves them. Just don't over-indulge all the time and you'll be fine!

by iloverocknroll on 2/16/2010 6:43:06 PM

I used to do that 2. My dad said it was just an anxiety phase and the panic atttacks would go away and they did.

by allyson1124 on 2/16/2010 3:50:08 PM

yeah i use to be like that ..... but now i'm over it

by camicool on 2/16/2010 2:35:58 PM

Mod I really want a hair-cut, but i dont know what to do! I have brown hair that is a little past me shoulders. It is cut at an angle. I really want something new, but what should i do? Thanks, Haley

Hey girl!

You could try a trim with some layers. It will give your hair extra body and a little zest! Also, if you wanna go more dramatic, try some side bangs. They will be super cute! But remember, bangs mean a little extra work in the morning to get ready for school, so make sure you really want them!

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by haleyhay3 on 2/16/2010 12:27:04 PM

yeah i kno how you feel cuz when i wuz a little younger i waz sorta paranoid that sumone was gonna come and kill me haha but luckily im over it i hope you feel better too

by laughin2hard on 2/16/2010 9:51:41 AM

by koolios on 2/15/2010 10:54:26 PM

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by fireworks803 on 2/15/2010 10:48:56 PM

MOD MOD MOD I have this huge presentation thing next week, I get so nervous! What are ways I can calm down the night before and right before the presentation? THANKS!!

hey girl!

make sure you get a good nights sleep. also, practice in front of the mirror. right before the presentation, take a few deep breathes. and when presenting, focus on a good friend in the room --- as if you were only presenting to her.

you got this! i believe in you!

xoxo

sammy d

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by lovedance15 on 2/15/2010 9:55:40 PM

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Hey mod

Quick Question
If your boob poops out of your bra, does that mean its too tight or small??
I wanted to know cuz the new one i got does and its kinda distractin

hey girl,

it means that the bra is too small, or that you have it too tight in the back. or, try loosening your straps

by meliss1212 on 2/15/2010 9:04:05 PM

omg . I get that too !

by olivia13 on 2/15/2010 8:40:28 PM

MOD Hey. So I have a problem. The few friends I have always treat me as second best, the third wheel, etc., etc. despite my best efforts of being friendly, nice, funny, cool... Anyway. Tomorrow is the day of our field trip and I was wondering if you had any ideas of how to not end up being a total loner. Thanks, I really appreciate it!

Hey chica, pick one of your friends to be your buddy for the day and hang out with them. That way you have someone to sit with on the bus and you can enjoy the trip.

Lynae P.

by chic chick on 2/15/2010 8:16:20 PM

Hey girlfriend, you need to get your friend help ASAP. If you guys go to the same school, scheldue an appintment for her and your counselor. If you don't have a counselor it may be best to get her 'rents involved. Let them know what she's doing and that she needs help. She may be a little mad at you at first, but she'll thank you in the long run.

by sammyk115 on 2/15/2010 8:00:09 PM

Hey chicky, I'm super busy right now. I would love to chat with ya, but it's just not possible at the moment. Ask other girls on GL for help, they give great advice trust me. Thanx for understanding. x0x0 Lynae

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by XoxoStaceyXoxo on 2/15/2010 7:56:19 PM

This happens to me too and it's really bad sometimes.
One time in school I was freaking out and was crying so hard I COULD NOT BREATHE...

by zerogravity712 on 2/15/2010 7:48:29 PM

i think this has happens to everyone, eventually it goes away...i actually have written songs about this...and think about other things at night

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by jojoyce_27 on 2/15/2010 6:19:20 PM

i get that way some times too. if i think about my dad dying, i get really sad and cry. i love him a lot.

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Hey chicky, I'm super busy right now. I'd love to chat and answer your question, but it's just not possible at the moment. I'm sure our bloggers would love to help ya out, trust me they give great advice. Thanks for understanding. xoxo Lynae

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by save_the_sharks on 2/15/2010 5:00:07 PM

my little sister gets scared 4 no good reason. it really annoys me. like she wouldnt sleep in her own room cus she was scared-and my mom has to tuck her in bed so she'll go to sleep, wich i think is dum cus shes too old 4 that.shes 9. but anyway-if i start freaking out,i just play my fave video game or read a book and then i forget why im scared. hope that helps

by dozeriscool on 2/15/2010 4:43:14 PM

MOD!!! I need some serious help. I am a good student but when homework time comes i am horrible. I just can not sit down and concentrate and get the energy to do my homework. Please help me

Hey missy, I'm the same way. Homework is really boring to me. What helped me was playing music. I know it sounds wierd but something about the fast beat of th music, kept my energy going and I got my homework done muc faster. Try it, it might help ya out.

by Cali_babe on 2/15/2010 4:19:32 PM

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by wednesday1408 on 2/15/2010 2:06:46 PM

i get scared that happens to everyone just listen to alot of your favorite music just do alot of your fav stuff and think about the positive :}

by mjlover334 on 2/15/2010 1:10:44 PM

i freak out sometimes and think my cat is dying or someone left the stove on at night sometimes. i figured out it was a trust thing. i trust that the last person to to bed (usually my parents) made sure all the doors were locked and the stove was off. just breath and tell yourself it's okay.

by kgirlpanda on 2/15/2010 12:58:56 PM

aquamarine3013,

The same thing happened to me ALL last year!!!!!!!!! I still do it occassionaly but it's a lot better!!!!!!

I§abella

by CutieWithGlasses on 2/15/2010 12:42:41 PM

I know what you are going through. There were a few recent times when I became scared of the dark and I wasnt scared before. But I think in my case I watched a scary movie where someone was attacked.

When that happens you just have to tell yourself you are going to be okay and being scared is not something you want to think about.

by luckykel on 2/15/2010 12:13:28 PM

MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD Ok, so I just got my first boyfriend! Yay! But, since my texting is broke (UGH!) he has to call me. And last night he called me and I just had no idea what to talk about! What do you talk about with a guy on the phone? Any suggestions? Thanks!

Hey girl, I know it can be awkward. You can always try talking about what you did that day, including funny or interesting things that happened to you. If you get stuck, you can always ask him questions about himself, and if it gets really awkward just say you have to go!

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by tinypickle on 2/15/2010 11:56:25 AM

this happened to me last year on sunday nights because i was afraid of what would happen at school the next day. i did this every week for a whole school year. i cried and everything and after while my mom didnt care anymore so she just went to bed. but i finally stopped this year.

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by clubsnickerdoodle on 2/15/2010 8:52:52 AM

i hve panic attacks..its horrible

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