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Dancing Queen 14, For some reason...I don't believe your story. But if it's true, then of course you should tell someone! It's called sexual assault and he could be arrested!
by Faith265 on 6/13/2011 9:32:41 PM
i dont mean to be rude or anything but WAT THE HELL!!! thats crazy why wud you have a crush on a creepy security guard thts just gross grl
by tinkerbellea96 on 10/16/2010 12:15:14 AM
by turtles_in_africa on 9/3/2010 11:49:24 PM
Dream Guy Im just doing it for fun. Most of the facts below are based on my crush. 1. Age/ Grade:1-3 years older 2. Height: 4 to one inches taller 3. Body Structure: Abs maybe, at least some muscle in his arms, broad shoulders 4. Hair: length & color: Any color, short hair or skaterboy hair. NO PONYTAILS! 5. Eye Color: Any color 6. Athlete: yes/no: YES! 7. Musician: yes/no: NO! 8. Personality? (Funny/Shy/flirty):Funny, not a jerk to anyone, smart, someone who I can work with easily. 9. Interests: Sports, girls not guys(dating wise), spending time with friends, focusing on school work 10. Hobbies:Who cares!
by sushigirl_5 on 7/2/2010 11:53:48 AM
by brooklin175 on 6/30/2010 4:13:47 PM
I have been through a lot. My male science teacher made creeper comments like...hey, you look hot.. and he reached under my skirts.. one day i go to school he says i need to talk to you in private i thought maybe i failed a test but he said " i want u ur so hot and ur boobs are huge he reached under my shirt and my bra and played with them and he tried to have sex with me should i tell someone.
by Dancing Queen 14 on 5/21/2010 11:52:33 PM
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by purpledancer733777 on 3/30/2010 11:25:07 PM
at my school our English teacher is a pervert and my mom had him as a teacher she even said he was like that and everyone thats had him as a teacher says that. it makes me nervous to wear shorts or any low cut shirts to school so i mostly wear jeans and t shirt. there r 4 cheerleaders in our class and he lways seems really happy on the days we have to wear our uniforms to school its realy creepy. since its getting warmer out im gonna be wearing more skirts and low cut shirts so im gonna fell really uncomfortable in his class. any advice???
by mooneye123 on 3/24/2010 4:11:36 PM
WAIT... Staring at someone=harassing them?
by Glamno5 on 3/22/2010 9:50:24 PM
by randomrachel3223 on 3/19/2010 6:12:08 PM
HEY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! CAN YALL HELP ME? HOW DO YOU MAKE A PICTURE FOR UR COMMENTS????
by BEACH GRL on 3/13/2010 12:44:05 PM
hey i'm all with you!! next year im starting middle school and from what i hear from my friends that already go there is that the janitor is a regiestered *** offender. I'm nervous about starting middle school with these problems on my mind...... any body got any good advice?????
by bree123 on 3/12/2010 11:35:29 PM
That's weird. No offence, but, how can you like him if he gives you the creeps? Maybe you should tell a trusted adult.
by HorseRider101 on 3/9/2010 7:48:09 PM
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by soccergirl524 on 3/1/2010 7:09:54 PM
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by rubynelawafer on 3/1/2010 4:06:49 PM
by twilightgrl22 on 2/27/2010 10:20:23 AM
by soccergirl524 on 2/27/2010 7:59:27 AM
if you like him andu think hes creepy then thats not very good plus how in the world would it work out to like like an adult!!!WEIRD!!!!!!!!!!!
by coly33 on 2/26/2010 11:25:15 PM
by gina!gina!gina! on 2/26/2010 9:41:54 PM
mod mod mod my best friend's dog just died. i didnt even like him that much but i find myself crying about it a lot. i am trying to write a poem about him but how do i know what is going too far and might give the family a mental breakdown? i love her and her family but what do i say when they are on the verge of tears? i am so sad and i wish i was nicer to the poor dog it is so hard.
by gina!gina!gina! on 2/26/2010 9:11:36 PM
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by Hollerbackgirl on 2/26/2010 4:42:30 PM
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by zeoli x19 on 2/26/2010 4:14:01 PM
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by soccergirl524 on 2/26/2010 9:33:11 AM
He creeps you out, yet you like him?? Um, okay.
by soccerchick06 on 2/25/2010 10:50:43 PM
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by bakerGirl508 on 2/25/2010 10:49:45 PM
Hey everyone has fun seeing hot older guys right? But the truth is; is that this guy creeps you out. If you truly have a feeling for him then you might want to sort things out. This is a red flag! STEP AWAY!
by popsweet838 on 2/25/2010 4:00:03 PM
by soccergirl524 on 2/25/2010 10:34:01 AM
ummmm..
by readerhi1234 on 2/25/2010 12:29:48 AM
wow your not very....... Smart apparently. because if you like him and he's creepy to you y like him?!?!?
by JaimeBreana on 2/24/2010 9:37:49 PM
by r3animated on 2/24/2010 8:32:01 PM
by soccergirl524 on 2/24/2010 7:18:47 PM
CREEPER ALERT!!! That's totally creepy. I would quit basketball if there was a security guard who stared @ me during practice. I mean WOAH Anyways, Good luck with that and check out my profile andz comment! Luvz ya! B. Jones
by sillymost on 2/24/2010 5:41:12 PM
i don't think eye and hair color really matters.
by rupertgrint014 on 2/24/2010 4:57:49 PM
NO a definite no girl!!
by Irish Girl on 2/24/2010 4:37:15 PM
um WOW that's creeping me out. :~O um good luck with that...i think? :~O
by j4zm09 on 2/24/2010 1:20:19 PM
hmmmmm hopefully hes not a creeper! my ttown dosen't even have a security guard which kind of creeps me out.......then again if u push a little on the wall it creeks so ya.
by teamJasper22 on 2/24/2010 1:17:30 PM
That is SOOOO true and I REALLY don't think that way about the seceraty guard at my school. PS- VISIT MY PROFILE!!!!!!!!!!!
by supercards12 on 2/24/2010 7:41:18 AM
wowwww....i totally agree with Olga B. because her advice and all of ours is so right. And also, the age is really of key...and might be dangerous if fooled with. lol, but how much older is he than you? if he is a teenager, than that may actually be totally cool and great...but older like he/s in his late 20's or in his 30's, NO!!!! lol, dont do it! but just wait for the guy to come, you will find your MR. Right soon.
by gossipgirlfan101 on 2/24/2010 4:13:20 AM
Ewww ok grl hes a security guard and an ADULT. No way on earth is it ever a good idea to like someone that is so much older then u. Go for some cutie at ur skool that doesn't creep u out please.
by fashionstar2be on 2/24/2010 1:55:53 AM
We all usually crush on an older guy especially guys we cant have like some actors and musicians and sometimes we even have crushes on teachers and other guys but you should be careful with this guy. Like I have a teacher who is very hot and I have had dreams about him and that creeped me out. So I think being creeped out is because you might be scared to have thoughts about an older guy, because I think that is what happened to me. I love the idea about making a "Book of Guys" and I cant wait to do this with my friends at our next sleep over. I think I am going to come up with a list of hot guys we all crush on and we are going to grade them on those items and more. Most will be guys 2 or 3 years older but some might even be older but it will be fun to do. What an awesome idea, thanks GL! But I also think its normal to crush on older guys because they are more mature, just like we are.
by luckykel on 2/24/2010 12:07:53 AM
by summernight_dreams on 2/23/2010 10:57:03 PM
And sounds like a good idea to have a "book". just for fun though, I dn't have a type. I"ma fill out that thing about my bf just to though! haha 1. Age/ Grade: He will be 16 next month (A year, one month and 4 days older than me 2. Height: Well he sure is taller.. 3. Body Structure: He's... normal. Muscular. 4. Hair: His hair is usually in between.. I personally secretly like it longer. 5. Eye Color: *siiiggh* the most beautifulest shade of brown. With flecks of greenish.. 6. Athlete: Yup. Cross Country, Football basketball. 7. Musician: He sings (really well), he wrote me a song. He plays guitar (yes.. yes yes!), and he is an actor! 8. Personality? (Funny/Shy/flirty): He's funny, slightly shy when you first meet him, he def flirts with me, we just flirt back in forth its like a huge game, but I've never seen him flirt with otha girls. 9. Interests: ME. Hehe I intrest him apparently 10. Hobbies: Acting.. and such.
by reeg-a-lene on 2/23/2010 10:20:44 PM
Great advice I see here.. And Its totally creepy.. Sometimes when a guy likes you (even if you really think about and he's really gross) you think you're crushing on him.. It just happens.. Its like you think you should lik ehim back just cuz he likes you.. But when you stop and truly seriously think about it, it all straightens out. Check out my profile girls (I hate doing this but I haven't had comments in a while and I'd liked to talk to ya'll) I give advice, mostly on guys and esp flirting. And I love to just chat too.
by reeg-a-lene on 2/23/2010 10:13:33 PM
haha!! in my last comment i spelled "would" and "graduation" wrong!!! im smart(:
by verenice<3 on 2/23/2010 10:10:41 PM
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by Cherries51 on 2/23/2010 9:48:46 PM
OMG thats disturbing! For the love of god, please dont choose him! sounds like a harasser to me. STAY AWAY!!!!
by gurdigirl123 on 2/23/2010 9:41:29 PM
stay away from him!! how can you even like him?
by gurdigirl123 on 2/23/2010 9:40:25 PM
uh how old is he HEY GIRLS check out my profile and ill check out yours i also give advice and love to help
by wednesday1408 on 2/23/2010 9:18:55 PM
hola, if anyone's looking for advise on guys, makeup, problems (that arent too serious cuz I dont want to mess up your lives), ect. lol, you can leave a message on my profile and I'll reply ASAP! ps, Im 14 (if you're curious) and I check my profile daily so you'll get a quick response! ooh and, if anyone can give ME advise about fixing my hand sweating problem or how to convince my mom to let me see a doctor about it please help! it would be so appreciated! lol
by xamazingxerinx on 2/23/2010 9:12:08 PM
by facebooker1240 on 2/23/2010 8:58:30 PM
eeewww that's just really, really creepy. GL is really right just always be in a group when u go to the basketball games and whatever u do, try to avoid him at all costs
by angel365 on 2/23/2010 8:20:39 PM
by littlemiss139 on 2/23/2010 7:59:20 PM
eeeew is rite
by moonfairy on 2/23/2010 7:47:17 PM
That same thing is happening to me, except it's a janitor instead of a security guard. But I DO NOT like him!
by musicalchik15 on 2/23/2010 7:36:20 PM
by sweetlyssie13 on 2/23/2010 7:12:49 PM
there is a guy who bothers me like that but i try to stay away from him. it works.
by winneconnerocks on 2/23/2010 6:58:56 PM
by ClubMusic&Lyrics on 2/23/2010 6:55:10 PM
by rightfield1 on 2/23/2010 6:54:44 PM
omg that is just ewwww!!!& how can u like him if u think hes creepyy?? weird... where doing these lit circles in reading & i get to go to Mr Smiths class hes so cute but not in that way up there+my crush is in the group in front of me so thats a plus!!
by verenice<3 on 2/23/2010 6:43:29 PM
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by Kristin95 on 2/23/2010 6:40:25 PM
by luvlygurl on 2/23/2010 6:31:10 PM
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by luvlygurl on 2/23/2010 6:28:00 PM
that sounds kinda scary but im not into sports
by luvlygurl on 2/23/2010 6:27:24 PM
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by jbeny on 2/23/2010 6:00:46 PM
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by Club Fashion and Beauty on 2/23/2010 5:43:13 PM
I guess I could see why you'd like a security guard, but since he's staring so creepily at you, is older, and is.. well... a security guard, maybe you should go for a different guy.
by actress456 on 2/23/2010 5:42:08 PM
Ok ew that does sound a bit creepy stick to your boundries grl that's weird LoL i won't go further with this comment haha
by jojoyce_27 on 2/23/2010 5:29:45 PM
and i quote:"he's really creepy. i think i might like him though." my expressions: o.O %-0 >:-/ ('-' ) my first thoughts: are you schizophrenic? bacon. why does your school have a SECURITY guard? ice cream. (sorry, i'm kinda hungry...) check out my profile and i'll check out yours!!! (>^.^)> HUGS FOR ALL!!!
by bustarhythm on 2/23/2010 5:08:17 PM
one word EWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW
by luckychica101 on 2/23/2010 4:47:58 PM
Uh creeeeeeeeeeeeeeeppppyyyyyy
by Photochickie on 2/23/2010 4:23:34 PM
And I agree with kenzie801 lol
by cg1304 on 2/23/2010 4:15:33 PM
you like him even though you say he stares at you, is much older, and creepy?!?
by cg1304 on 2/23/2010 4:14:46 PM
by stagebabe401 on 2/23/2010 3:43:28 PM
why do you have a security guard in your school or where-ever??
by dancergal22 on 2/23/2010 3:24:29 PM
Well if he never talks to you or anything then it's probably nothing. Maybe he's doing that to protect people. But don't like older guys that's just stupid.
by CutieWithGlasses on 2/23/2010 3:12:06 PM
oh that's rich. "he looks really creepy. I think I might like him though." How can you like someone that you also think is creepy?! That's just weird.
by kenzie801 on 2/23/2010 2:56:53 PM
Thats really strange... lol.
by rosebubbles101 on 2/23/2010 2:36:27 PM
Hmm... that does sound creepy.
by grace2985 on 2/23/2010 12:44:17 PM
ew why a security gaurd?
by bluemily on 2/23/2010 9:44:51 AM
Maybe he stares at everyone, including guys? For ur protection. But ew thats gross liking him back when ur complaining about him...no no no! Check out my profile girls, and please leave a comment, thanks!
by SportyGal on 2/23/2010 8:07:09 AM
Thats kinda weird... but good advice!
by decemburr96 on 2/23/2010 8:02:59 AM
1. Age/ Grade: my age/grade 2. Height: taller than me 3. Body Structure: not overweight, a teeny bit muscular 4. Hair: length & color not too long, i hate lon hair, and any color 5. Eye Color: i like blue eyes, but brown or green is super pretty lol 6. Athlete: yes/no i dont want a jock, but i dont want a total couch potato 7. Musician: yes/no maybe, that would be cute 8. Personality? (Funny/Shy/flirty): funny, confident but not too confident 9. Interests: it would be cute if he liked animals. 10. Hobbies: playing the guitar?
by annbug on 2/23/2010 7:56:57 AM
by clubEcofriendly on 2/23/2010 7:21:15 AM
um yuck but I guess they do say love has no boundries just stick with boys in the same age range chica
by clubEcofriendly on 2/23/2010 7:15:06 AM
Truth or Dare?