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The Big Parental Split

Maybe it would be a stretch to say girls’ lives return to normal after divorce, but usually things do, well, a new sort of normal...
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Mod mod mod! So my mom and my step dad are getting a divorce. My parents split before I was born and I have my dad in my life but I still felt rejected when he wouldn't call so I want to protect my siblings from that as much as I can how do I do that. They told my siblings that they would split the week up and I'm worried about my sister because she thinks that I'll be going to her dads too so how do I explain that to her that I'm not.(I have a 11year old sis and 5year old brother)
Another thing my mom wants to get an apartment and my SD a house but that means that it'll be in a smaller living environment so I how do I help my mom out. What should I do when it's just me and my mom when sibs are gone because this will probly be hard. What should I do to get everyone back up when it's over. (they informed us yesterday I'm not sure how long it will take I just want to be prepared) thank mod



I'm so sorry, babe.  Divorce is one tricky beast.



However, most of these questions shouldn't yours to handle.  Have a talk with your mom and stepdad about making it clear to your siblings that you won't be going with them and that they won't skimp on the attention.  Tell them how hard it was for you to deal with when you were younger and that you want to make sure they don't get hit as hard by it.

As far as helping your mom, you can start by making it easier for her to focus on work and relax afterward.  Make sure that you stay on top of your chores, and maybe offer to help clean or make dinner every now and then.

It's hard but you can get through it!
Jordan S.

by ladyinlike on 3/12/2012 3:49:27 PM

 
 

My parents have been happily married for 13 years and it will stay tht way ! Smile sorry i cant relate to these kids it makes me sad for them );

by livelovelax123 on 1/30/2012 4:40:19 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD I'm an awful girlfriend. Whenever I'm around anyone, I'm this big flirt. I NEVER stop flirting. I hate it because my friend's new friend Alex, I think he likes me. He asked me to a midnight movie thing, but he doesn't know I have a boyfriend, so now I don't know if I should tell him that I have a boyfriend, or just go to the movies and take my chances of him "putting the moves on me". What should I do?

 

 

Hey chickadee! If you have a boyfriend, then I'd take a rain check on the movie with Alex, unless it's with a big group of friends. Just think, would you get jealous or mad if your bf went on a movie date with another girl?

xxx

Becca G.

by sarahsquarepants on 10/10/2010 5:47:17 PM

 
 

ok so the closest person to me in the world died on December 28th 2009 and right after that my parents we're acting really wierd they werent sleeping in the same bed they would rarely talk to each other never kiss or hug each other or tell each other they loved them...i knew something was up i told my best friends that i thought they were divorcing somehow my dad found out my mom and dad told me they werent divorceing my dad told me a month later they were...but my mom didnt know he told me then they told me they were...together ive been depressed ever since december...so depressed i go to a therepist every two weeks it helps for like a day or to then it wears off i get depressed what do i do?

by ilovethelord6398 on 7/12/2010 5:14:18 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD
2 of my friends like the same guy and one of them is my BFF. my BFF is always complaining about how depressed she is bacause of our friend liking the same guy. it makes me really angry when she complains about stuff like that because her life is so perfect and she dosent even appreciate it. my parents split when i was 7 hers are still together, my dad and i fight all the time and she gets nothing but love from her father, i am hit and punched and she was slapped on the hand once when she was little because she bit someone. i want her to see how great her life is but i dont want her mad at me. can you help me please??? thanks!!!

 

Hey girl, just tell her once that she is super-lucky and that while she may dislike her life at some times, she could have it worse.

Brittany B.

by i<3colesprouse on 6/29/2010 11:28:42 AM

 
 

my uncle got divorced and is remarrying soon and all of his three children are ok with it but their first mom isn't happy about it things will work out with us!!!!!!!!

by titanicfanaic on 6/14/2010 6:21:14 PM

 
 

Mod!
I'm sorry this is kinda long but it's the only way i can explain it.
So when i was two my mom left my dad. tHey fought for custody over me and she won, but he has secured visitation. Which means that i would go into a secured area and my mom would leeave and then my dad would come in and we could talk. He has to pay for it though and it's cheap but he hasn't asked for it. My mom and i have been talking and i keep trying to lside her into a conversation of how i would like to see him but hse just doesn't get my clue. Is there any idea that i could try???
Thanks in advance,
Jacobaddict

 

 Hey girl! It's probably best just to tell her flat out rather than hint at it. Make sure she has time for a conversation, sit her down and let her know what's on your mind.


xoxo

Liz

Liz L.

by Jacobaddict on 6/13/2010 11:01:35 PM

 
 

Hey Fellow Teen Girlies,
Im Here To Give Advice, And Answer Questions!
Sometimes The GL Mods Can Get A Bit Busy!
If You Have Any Advice You Need Help With Or A Question You Need Answered, I'm Your Go To Gal.
Please Visit My Profile If You Ever Need Help Or Advice,Have A Question, Or Just Want To Say Hello (:
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by mileycalyx on 6/10/2010 7:08:18 PM

 
 

nd girlies, if yah wana talk to me bout this stuff, im all ears. my dad has never been in my life, he kinda gets to lazy to get involved. yet he asks my mom if shes know places where they sell purses (for his gf)cheap! ugh! and sometimes we will hint to him oh i need this or i have that at school and need parents to help out in the morning, he will say oh i work, or im broke (when he works in the evening or at least can OFFER to help out) but watev, i hav gotten ovr it. sometimes ive gon crying to skewl, i just hate it. but its life, like they say, theres no rose without its annoying thorns

by DanceFreak99 on 6/9/2010 10:17:30 PM

 
 

MOD! MOD! MOD! MOD!
thank u Kerra!!!!!! that really helped, it tuk pressure off having to deal with him, but sometimes he tries to ask me,"How come you don't want to come with me?" sometimes i kind of just stay silent cuz im not one to really talk back. i can fight back if i really wanted to, but i kind of get scared. i duno y. can u help me to confront him?? thank u (nd sorry for so much lolz)!

 

If he asks you why hen you should talk to him about how you feel. Tell him how the things he says make you feel. Good luck girly! xoxo kerra

Kerra S.

by DanceFreak99 on 6/9/2010 10:12:11 PM

 
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