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MOD!! please help!
i have this girlfriend (i'm bisexual) who's sometimes too clingy and sometimes just ignores me for days. it gets really annoying sometimes and it hurts a lot. she's also a bit manipulative and cheated on me with one of my ex boyfriends (she's bi too). i want to break up with her, but she always says things like "i can't live without you" or "i would die without you". i'm worried because i've never had to break up with someone before, and i don't want her to commit suicide because she's been known to attempt suicides, and almost die because of them.
i'm just really confused, hurt and worried right now. i don't know what to do, please help.
thanks for reading...

 

Hey babe,

This is tough, because you obviously care enough about your GF to want to protect her, but at the same time you don't want her to get away with everything.  You deserve to be treated really well by your partner, whether it's a girl or a guy.  Give her one last chance - sit her down and tell her why you're hurt by the stuff she does.  Then, tell her things have to change or you really can't do this anymore.  If they DO change, then great.  If not, you have to be true to herself and let her go.  Break-ups are ALWAYS hard {especially your first}, but just remember that she knew the consequences of her actions and has to pay the price, like all of us.  If you're worried about how she's going to react, try telling one of her close friends or family members about your concerns so they can keep an eye on her. <3 Good luck.

Lauren C.

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by XxRaNdOmLyXmExX on 4/13/2010 4:32:02 PM

 
 

Ok, no one likes gossip. And if you find who is saying all of this, CONFRONT THEM GIRL!!!! There are girls like th at my school too, my friends over hear them mking fn of me ALL THE TIME! But I will say this, if the rummers get to out of hand, you might want to tell a teacher. Now, I know your probally thinking, "WHAT IS WRONG WITH THIS GIRL, IS SHE WACKO?!?!??!! I DON'T WANT 'TATTLETALE" ADDED TO THE LIST OF LIES ABOUT ME!!!" Don't worry, some of my friends and I did a project on bullying to help little girl scouts. That wouldn't be tattling, that would be asking for help on a problem. And if you don't want the teacher to know who you are, write him/her an anonomous letter. HOPE THIS HELPED GIRL! GOOD LUCK!!!

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by mangochick12 on 4/12/2010 6:29:13 PM

 
 

Moderator ok i looked up Schizoid personality disorder and i think i have it any tips on how to talk to my mom about it?

 

Hey girl! Tough stuff, but something you should talk to her about ASAP. Sit her down and explain what you know. Tell her why you think you may have it and really chat it out with her. You'll feel a lot better!

-Taeler

Taeler L.

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by gwentrent on 4/11/2010 11:00:53 PM

 
 

same with me i just ignore them or make them mad and they go away \(._.)/

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by candynkisses on 4/11/2010 5:14:52 PM

 
 


People talk about me all the time...
They call me a goody-good or a suckup, because I have respect for other people.
Sometimes I say something rude back but it just really hurts to know that people think of my as that and nothing more.

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by emmanade on 4/11/2010 4:57:30 PM

 
 

to catz-r-the-best:
Nikki here. About a guy never noticing you that you like:
I have kind of the same problem but can give you some advice on that. Try making simple conversation with him to get to know him better at first. Then, gradually try to become friends with him. Friendship usually comes before boyfriend/girlfriend stuff, and that would be a good foundation for your relationship.
As for my problem, I like a guy who knows me, teases me, and likes me, but is asking out another girl. WOW!
PS visit my profile, I'm Nikki the Advice Whisperer!

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by xfobrocksx on 4/10/2010 7:53:06 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD*************************
Ok so I really like this guy in my class,and all my friends and I think he likes me too,But Im like,3 inches taller than him so it would be kinda awkward if we went out.But the thing is I really I wannna ask him out,I just don't know when to or how to!!HELP!!!




Well height doesnt matter. At your age ppl go through puberty at different times so he may get taller. Dont worry about the height though, if you like him thats what matters. As for the asking him out, you need to start u pa conversation with him and steer it in the direction of asking him out so that you can casually sneak it in. Good luck! xoxo kerra
Kerra S.

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by FireLilyz on 4/10/2010 6:38:22 PM

 
 

Hey guys, Nikki here to solve all your problems! I can do anything AND everything, babes! All you have to do is post a comment to my profile, and at the top write !NIKKI!. If you're tired of the MODS taking too long to answer things OR never getting back to you ("being too busy"), please VISIT MY PROFILE NOW for advice!
PS RUMORS ARE MY SPECIALTY!!!! been there, done that!
xoxo Nikki the Advice Whisperer

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by xfobrocksx on 4/9/2010 9:14:53 PM

 
 

just because people talk about you doesn't mean that they are jealous of you at all! im not jealous of my step-sis and yet shes the main topic of convo because of her ATTITUDE! not that were jealous

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by gwentrent on 4/8/2010 8:34:23 AM

 
 

hun, i was in almost the same exact situation. only it was before i changed.
ok last year i was like the girl everyone knew. and the one people couldn't stand. i was either to clingy, to annoying, to hyper, to weird or a ton of diff stuff. but this year i like, transformed. i am taller, hair is short and curley, (bigger chest) and i am like "hott" according to almost all the guys. i also hang with diff people. i used to hang with the out casts but now i hang with the sort of preps.
people flirt non-stop with me and i wish i would of changed earlier. guys used to think of me as well "one of the guys" now it's completly diff
girls used to look at me weird, whisper bout me, and started rumors.
little changes to urself can make a lot of difference.
who talks about u behind ur back? is it preps or the (this ain't nice but..) the outcasts?
if it the preps they are either jealous or feel threatened
if it the outcasts they prob most deff jealous
just ignore it and it will go away

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by arsabo on 4/7/2010 5:13:24 PM

 
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