My best friend used to be shy but then i came along and changed her shyness. I am absolutley not shy. Trust meh. I say the most random crazy things. One of my sayings is "Imma three toed sloth, rawr, fear meh." another one is "R U cereal" (serious) "no im french toast get it right." everyone laughs. my advice is to say random things. it always helps meh. i am also really loud, but that doesnt help much cuz i get in trouble. if my friends are down i always cheer them up. especially my one friend. i always say, "Stroke his back hair, he'll be your friend." ( i have a stuffed animal gecko ) if she laughs i'll say, " no laughing" and whack her with the gecko. ( not hard don't worry.) we have alot of fun. BE RANDOM!!! .... BANANAS!!!!....

by 3c1999 on 9/21/2010 9:26:34 PM

I have the same problem, theres always that one class where I have no friends, i these tips will help

by ybrat0912 on 8/24/2010 1:53:49 PM

Modd MODD MODD,i am very shy at school and i only have one friend that is moving away for another school district,i try to make new friends but i say something and either walk away or laugh at me,part of it is that in 3rd grade we were doing a project and we had to show our talentt,i dont have a talent but i like to sing,so i sang for it and then a few days later my only friend told me that people were making fun of me and were calling me mulitable names behind my back.then i cryed for a week,and was never really able to start a convo,and then my confodince went down. so yesterday on Facebook one of the people that i have on my friends list but is not a friend(that is a long story),tagged me a the "Shy One",so then i didnt know what to do,i dont talk to people on facebook.i dont know what to do.help?

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by iDance4Him on 5/9/2010 9:56:37 PM

Say your name 10 times.
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by XC BINZ on 5/9/2010 7:16:51 PM

Hey girl, your not alone. I am shy too! Sometimes I feel really stupid when I try to talk to new people. I just go with the flow and talk about things we might have in common or just tell them about yourself. The more you try to be cool and not be a dork, the more uncomfortable you will feel.
Hope this helps,
Shan

by puppyluv16 on 4/30/2010 6:51:16 PM

Hey girl, believe me, you should go and try to make an effort to talk to your classmates and try to make friends.... i see that shyness is your problem, but believe me just try it and you will learn that there is really anything to be shy about if you try new things, your fears are most likely to go away... i know by personal experience.... just try something new and you will realize that you have missed out on a lot of fun

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by fullmetal1 on 4/25/2010 9:47:03 PM

im not a really social person. i dislike people in general. i dont make friends easily and dont like talking to people. there was a dance a while ago and i stood in the back the whole time. my friends begged me to come out to the dance floor but i would rather just stay by myself. people think im a brat or snob or shy but the truth is im more of a loner and i prefer to be that way. im tired of gettting teased for it.

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by soccergirl524 on 4/8/2010 5:07:59 PM

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by summerlover562 on 4/8/2010 6:07:30 AM

1. Say your name 10 times.
2. Say your mom's name 5 times.
3. Say your crush's name 3 times.
4. Paste this to 4 other quizzes. If you do this, your crush will kiss you on the nearest Friday, but if you read this and do not paste this, then you will have very bad luck! SEND THIS TO 5 QUIZZES IN 143 MINUTES. WHEN YOU'RE DONE PRESS F6 AND YOUR CRUSH'S NAME WILL APPEAR IN BIG LETTERS ON THE SCREEN. THIS IS SO FREAKY BECAUSE IT ACTUALLY WORKS

by randum1998 on 4/7/2010 10:38:09 PM

Its fine to feel uncomfortable, but girl you cant let it disrupt other people from getting to know yah Think of your classmates as your equal, they arnt going to judge you right of the bat if you have the confidence to be yourself. Everyone is different and being shy is just who you are but try to build confidence by doing these three tricks.
- look them right in the eyes (it makes them seem easier to talk to)
- use a calm voice and speak to them as if your speaking to your family
- talk about similarities you share and try to avoid and delicate subjects ( such as a view in politics)
Good luck! &&remember to live life with no regrests

love&&rockets

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by GoGreenGoPeace on 4/6/2010 6:30:51 PM

MOD,
Me and this guy Matt dated last year for 5 months. Then he broke up with me. This year we dated for 5 months. We broke up mutually. About a month after we broke up, he started dating one of my best friends. Matt and I don't talk very often anymore. Matt texted me last night and said he had to tell me something. I asked what and he said "I don't like you anymore.. People say I do and you might think that, but I don't.. I'm sorry." And I told him it was okay because I didn't like him anymore either! Then he said Okay We still friends right? And I said yes and that I wanted to still talk and everything, Then he said "First off, as friends of course, I'm sorry for being a jerk." I asked for what and he said "Just everything. Especially for breaking your heart." I was like "Matt you didn't break my heart! Is that what you've been thinking this whole time? I'm glad we broke up for good this time and he said o... alright... and I asked what was wrong and he said "idk i just... idk i thought we actually truly loved each other.. guess not :p" Then I said "What did you want me to say? I'm not still in love with you, you have been dating my friend for 2 months.. you love her.. and He said "yea :p i know you don't " and i said "i still love you after all we've been thru together and everything, (we have been friends since Kindergarten) but obviously i didn't love him in the same way we used to love each other" he said yeah.. same.. then i told him i was going to sleep and we could talk later. So. What should I do? It's like he wants me to still be in love with him, which is confusing because he just said he didn't like me, and he is dating a different girl. We are good friends.. And I will always have a little something for him but I don't wanna date him.. I love him as a friend. What should I say?

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by naturallywonderful on 4/6/2010 2:35:52 PM

When i first came to school i was so shy that i couldnt even answer the teacher what my name was but after 1 month i became the popular girl in the class=D!!!!

by punk- princess97 on 4/6/2010 12:45:51 PM

I'll give you advice to not be shy in school.Because that happened to me when I started a new school.All you have do is go up to someone and say your name and hangout them at school all day and they may become friends with you.

by daddygirl on 4/6/2010 11:16:35 AM

Wow, I can't believe there are girls who are actually going through the same sitch as me. You don't really realize it I guess. But yeah, I am really really shy too..my shyness makes me act all weird and stuff...i hate it...and this year I'm homeschooled so I can't really practice(unless I go up to random poeple on the street XD haha just kidding)I'm gonna try really hard to finally break out of my shell in highschool...it's like a new start...scary yet exciting =) ....So, don't worry girl, we GL girls got yo back! =D

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by annaelizabeth on 4/5/2010 11:53:49 PM

im 12, 5'2 and 105 lbs...is that ok..or am i overwheight??

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by daisyskye on 4/5/2010 9:22:02 PM

i am totally shy at skool, my teachers alwys hav 2 make me repeat myself bci talk so softly, i hate gettin in frnt of ppl, like 4 science fair i almst died, and it waz jst in frnt of my clasz, but my bf isin my clasz ad so i looked at him the whole time and he jst smiles at me and whn im wit my bf im all quiet, hes my 1st bf and weve bn 2gether 4 quite some time but i stl dnt kno how 2 strt a convo wit him.

by cooline on 4/5/2010 8:28:39 PM

Good luck girlieee!!!!! I'm not shy at all I'm a really confident fun and outgoing person;)

by chocolatelover13 on 4/5/2010 7:39:35 PM

MOD MOD MOD MOD
ive been really shy since me and my best friends drifted apart and they were my friends since 2nd grade. now i feel that evveryone already has a friend except me. now dont get me wrong, i have a bestie but she goes to a different hs please help thanks

by fashionista49 on 4/5/2010 6:49:49 PM

im soo shy! its crazy! i can never get over it but i do have a few buds! check out my profile! <3

by Breanna J on 4/5/2010 6:29:35 PM

i am very shy too epically towards people i don't really know witch makes them think i'm dumb in my math class i really don't talk to other students so they just join in there own circles and when i try to talk to then the convo. ends so fast its like a minuet or so like there's a lot i want to say and know but i just don't know a right way for it to start so....................yeah it can be very difficult

by sofooq_7 on 4/5/2010 5:39:05 PM

I used to be VERY shy at school, but now i do talk a lot more, so thats good:]

by livepurple on 4/5/2010 4:40:39 PM

I have this exact same problem! I never really thought myself as shy, or outgoing... but I guess I'm both. I'm outgoing with my friends, but shy around people I don't know. I wish I wasn't, but this helps!

by pag53 on 4/5/2010 4:13:26 PM

I am really shy and have like noooo friends. I thought me and this girl and me would be really good friends but then she turned out to be the exact opposite of me. it doesn't help that i live in the middle of no were (half and hour from anyone) and am home-schooled. sorry if i sound like i am complaining.

by Beckles on 4/5/2010 3:56:27 PM

I'm a wallflower and really shy too
I don't really care, I'm not the type of person that wants or needs tons of friends anyways.

by chocoholic4ever on 4/5/2010 2:55:31 PM

sometimes i'm like that. but all you have do is find a group if girls you sort of know (because it would be akward do it to random people) and talk to them.

by aqua girl on 4/5/2010 2:32:27 PM

by yellow_mariah on 4/5/2010 1:51:40 PM

i am very shy. espically towards people i dont really know. im like super fun around my friends, but other people, not so much. for me, it takes time getting to know that person, and be around them. im trying to break out of my shell too. i think that if you ask people questions about themselves works a little. people love talking about themselfs.

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by Writers Corner on 4/5/2010 12:58:06 PM

what made me less shy and more confident is when i won an award for something i love to do and everyone aplauded for me. it made me feel really good. you should sign up for something you love to do. it really helped me.

by crazyshortie13 on 4/5/2010 11:39:36 AM