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My BFF and I are drifting apart

I've been best friends with this one girl for 8 years. Last year, I moved to a new school and now we barely talk. How can I keep this friendship going?
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I have this friend who is friends with my other group of friends. She says I'm her BFF. BUT i don't believe her because the other group of friends treat me really mean and whenever I try to hang out with them they ignore and don't even care I'm there and I told my friend this, but she just stands there and still hangs out with them. Today @ lunch my friend usually sits with me, but she didn't. I was going to sit with her, but the other group of friends were there. I went up to her and I said I told you that you guys didn't care if I didn't sit with you. I'm really mad and sad and crying all the time. Not just cause of this, but of other things and I told my friend she doesnt know what i'm goin through. Now she's all mad at me like I did something wrong!! What do I do! I still want 2 b friends with her!!




Hey girl! To me it sounds like your friend is also in a bit of a sticky situation. Try and get her alone with out all of her other friends and really talk to her about it. If you still really want to be friends with her try and hang out with the other group some more. And make sure to make an effort to talk to them and be nice. They may just be threatened because you are closer with her than they are. Give it a try and see how it works out.
Ana D.

by liljade26 on 9/22/2011 10:25:52 AM

 
 

MOD... so i have these 2 friends 9lets call them Maddie and Emma) and they had been really close but 2years ago Emma moved away then ended up moving back after a couple months. and ever since she has been back her and maddie haven't been as close. They are still friends but they never hang out and maddie has found other friends too. Emma talks to me about how she feels left out and how she doesn't know what to do. how can i help her?? thanks!!!!!

 

 

Hey chica! I would try to bring them together as much as you can. Invite the two of them over for a sleepover, and go out on weekends when you can. Maybe, if they spend more time together, they'll realize why they were such good friends in the first place! And, you can always bring up funny memories to make everyone remember as well Smile

xxx

Becca G.

by laxgirl3300 on 11/14/2010 8:20:17 PM

 
 

Trist me i knoe how it feels. Me and my bff we like always talking in the begining of the school year,towards the end of the year we made friends with 3 other girls. As moths past i felt like if we were drifting apart i also tried confronting her but she said i was talking behind her back. I had only told 2 people that i felt that we were drifting apart. IDk what that means but i was confused i tried to explain to her but i guess she just didnt care. It still bothers me now that she just left me after we shared all thoose secrets. Today she ignores me. I am recently moving to a new school and hope theres a new start for me.

by weebethlovesu on 8/15/2010 11:55:59 PM

 
 

i HAD A SITUATION JUST LIKE THAT MY BFF AND I HAVE ALWAYS TALKED BUT SINCE MIDDLE SCHOOL WE DONT TALK OR SEE EACH OTHER. SORRY ABOUT EVERYTHING BUT HOW I GOT OVER IT WAS SURROUNDING MY SELF WITH NEW FRIENDS.

by ElvisTwente on 7/29/2010 9:08:31 PM

 
 

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i really need some about a friend were good friends but she plays volleyballl and im not really that great of friends with her volleyball friends. Sometimes exspically during volleyball season i feal like she will only hang out with her volleyball friends and only if shes not busy with them she will hang out with me. And i kind of feel like im becoming the fall back friend. And i cant exsacly join volleyball because its really competitive at my school and im not that good. And i really wana hang out with her and make friends with her other friends with out it being aquard. Do you have any tips?




Hey girl, I think you should tell your friend this. Have a heart-to-heart and say 'hey, I know how much you love volleyball, but I kind of feel like we're drifting apart. Maybe I could come to one of your games and you could introduce me to the team?' — just something little like that can make a big difference.

xoxo
Alyssa B.

by Newyork8998 on 7/26/2010 11:19:06 PM

 
 

MODMODMOD! i have this 'friend' who is always lying and starting fights i've tried to patch things up so many time that it just isnt worth it anymore. i want to "break-up" with her.i kind of want to do it in an email because i would NEVER be able to do something like that face to face. We are in the middle of a fight right now.....what should i tell her in the email that won't come on harsh or sound like im a suck up?

 

Hey girl! Don't do it in an email. If you can, do it in person. If that's too hard, than do it on the phone. But if she's causing more stress than fun, it might def be time to call it quits.

xoxo


Liz

Liz L.

by metrostationluvr on 7/19/2010 12:09:27 AM

 
 

MOD!!!
Ok so this is kinda a strange situation I guess but I'm spending the night at my best friends house and I'm going to be there for a while. Well we're both not very talkative and theres alot of silence. I want to end the silence and become closer to her. What all can we talk about and how do I bring things up? I'm not very good at starting conversations. Hopefully this makes sense and you can help asap. Thanks SO much!!!




Hey girl, talk about anything! What you like to do, music, sports, movies, school, boys, etc. There are endless things to talk about. Just pick a topic and dive in. Don't worry! =] 
Lauren R.

by Misbubbles on 6/28/2010 8:09:12 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD
I am losing my best friend or at least that's what it feels like any way! My best friend and I have been best friends since second grade ( were in 5th grade now) and we are in differnet classes now and have been for two years! She became friends with a really nice girl who's also my friend but I feel like the other girl is her best friend and I am only her second best friend! She is still my best friend but I am not sure I am hers! Should I ask her about it or leave it be? Also we have best friend rings which are these rainbow rings that we both have on our middle fingers on our right hands we both still wear them but I feel that they lost their power on one end (my best friend's end in this case). We haven't been hanging out for awhile and I've been hanging out with my second and third best friends a lot more! I have also been hanging out with my crush too because were best buds too! Also sometimes when I rest my arm on her shoulder (I do that to everyone because I am SUPER tall) she tells me to go away! Do i tell her it's rude and do I ask her if I am still her best friend? PLEASE ANSWER ASAP!! Thanks!!

 

 

Hey girl, it looks like you need to get your feelings out, whether it's face-to-face or in a letter. Sometimes a letter works better (haha that rhymes!) because it lets you say everything you need to say the way you want it to be said. When I express how I feel to someone, sometimes my emotions get in the way, which in this situation it seems like it could happen. Give the letter to her, and then talk to her about it. Good luck!

emilie b.

by i_heart_taco on 6/12/2010 2:56:35 AM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD
My best friend moved away 6 years ago... We kept in touch for a few years but she kept moving around so we kinda lost the communication. I've gone through a bunch of bad friends without her, and I miss her sooooo much! Is there any way I can find her???




Try to find her on facebook or see if you have her address so you can write her. Dont give up. Youll find her Smile xoxo kerra 
Kerra S.

by LottyDa on 6/2/2010 11:04:17 PM

 
 

i need help...
i know this girl and she is obsessed with me! and i really dont like her but i dont want to be mean! what should i do?????

by carell on 5/29/2010 9:08:06 PM

 
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