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My best friend is self-centered

Recently, I’ve noticed my best friend is kind of self-centered. Most of the time, we talk about her or whatever she wants to talk about...
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I have a friend who makes it all about her. One day I told her something and she said"oh but my problem is way worse." It really made me feel different about her. She does this all the time. Now she does that and ditches me for boys. It's so SAD.

by summer23 on 5/18/2011 10:27:09 PM


I have a friend who says that she likes me but she is really mean! She punches me all the time. And then when I ask her why she did it she just says, "Cause I could...." She also likes this guy that is one of my friends, and the other day he was messing around on the bleachers and she pulled on his leg and made him fall! I dont even know what to do about her anymore! She can be so mean and annoying. And when I try and talk about it she just says, "When did I do that?" and she tries to avoid it. What should I do?


Hey girlie, that's a tough situation to be in! If she's not listening to you when you talk to her about it, tell her that if she doesn't stop this behavior, you're not going to be able to be her friend anymore. She has no right to treat people like that!

Clare W.

by Aregorn337 on 2/22/2011 3:10:23 PM


help!!my friend is really annoying and lies to me but says the lies were jokes. i told her to stop being mean to other people but she wont. and when i tell her to plz be nicer to me cause i dont want to befriends if shes mean she starts rambling on about "what did i do? then i wont have any friends !!" i dont want to be friends any more but she always gets mad at me and STILL stickes to me like glue. i REALLY dont want to be herfriend anymore but she always makes me laugh right before i try to tell her. then i would look so mean if i told her i dont want tobe friendright after she makes me laugh!!!! im so confused what should i do?? and i really like her fam!!!!

by caez on 8/26/2010 7:55:52 PM


When you are talking and she relates the story to her change the topic back to you =]

by dancer8637 on 8/12/2010 4:05:32 PM


MOD MOD MOD!!!! My best friend (and my only friend) isn't really acting like my friend. She called me once, to tell me what time I could go to her house and that was it. while I was at her house, she was telling me how her mom wants her to call me a lot more often, and she said that she doesn't want to. I think she thinks that I'm never going to leave her because I haven't changed on her or left her like all of her past friends, but it is really starting to bug me that she is taking that for granted because now she thinks she can treat me however she wants and I'll stil be her friend because I have no other friends. I really like her and I don't want to lose her, but I feel lie she's not really my friend. what can I do? and is there any way I can like test her to see if she really wants to be my friend? thanks a lot!! Smile


I'm so sorry to hear about the friend troubles.  I would talk to her about the way she has been treating you.  Tell her that you care about her, but that when she says stuff like that it really hurts you.  If she is a true friend, she'll be willing to change her ways.  But you deserve to be with people who do want to call you and hang out with you.  Try to reach out to new people, and think about joining an after-school activity to meet new people.  This is a new year, and a great opportunity to make new friends.  Best of luck, xoxo

Marie H.

by colorCute4 on 8/12/2010 3:46:52 PM


HELP PLEASE!! my best friend since the first year of preschool just got appcepted to an advanced school called tag. now she thinks she is so much better then me even though I am smarter then her!! I tell her that I would have gotten in too if I tried out but I didn`t want to which is the truth but she justs rolls her eyes and says "mmmmhhhhmmm" like she doesn`t believe me!! Can someone help me soon!!???? PLZZZ anser on my profile!!! thanks IN ADVANCED!!!

by kpianoplayer on 8/9/2010 6:31:18 PM


Okay so my BFF was a down to earth sweet girl...well she used to be. Now she only cares about what other people think about her. She has a new friend that wants me out of the picture. We is like in LOVE with her and she doesn't realize how I feel when she always leaves me for her. We have inside jokes so when she's around her new "friend" and I mention one of our inside jokes, she rolls her eyes at me and looks at me like I'm some pathetic stranger! She knows she's acting all that around people just for attention. Example: she said she don't like JB around her new "friend" and when we were on the phone with our long time super close bff she acted all lovey dovey for JB.


Maybe you could explain to your friend about how you don't like that she acts differently when she's with different people. I would continue to be friends with her if you like her, but you don't always have to stay friends with someone once she's changed. Maybe you could start spending time with some of your other friends that will act the same no matter who's around and appreciate spending time with you.

Vanessa J.

by Cheergrl3100 on 8/7/2010 1:41:56 AM


MOD!My best friends of 9years is dating my ex bf who i totally loved.Now i have a waay better bf who loves me alot but i just cant beilieve she said yes to my ex.i mean im nt jealous or anything but still,it feels like she doesnt care about how i feel.i asked her why she said yes cuz she NEVER liked him infact she hated him.so she said that she likes him a little.and she also said that this time she doesnt care about wat anone thinks and she only cares bout herself in this.she has also got this obsession of 'looking hot'.we're just 13 and she has been acting very slutty.she's changed and broken my trust.wat do i do?..

Girls experience a lot of changes during their teen years, so your friend could just be going through a phase.  Wanting attention from guys seems to be much more important to her than her friends and family.  It can be annoying that she's dating your ex, but don't let it get to you- you have a new BF who sounds great! If your friend is acting out, and you are really concerned about her, talk to her.  Ask her why she said yes to your ex, and why she all of the sudden is acting differently... Talking to her in person is the best way to solve your problems! 
Katie R.

by SOInLove on 8/3/2010 9:45:59 AM


I have always been the popular girl of my class. Me, and a few other girls. One of them went on vacation for a month, and I heard that she spread a bunch of rumors about me. Over the month, I grew to really dislike her. When she came back, the whole group hated her. She was all alone, and had one friend. When she finally questioned us, we explained how she said things about us. She said she heard that we said stuff about her. We didn't. Then we made up, but didn't hang out. Everyone in class hated her, including my crush. I started to feel bad, and tried to hang with her more, but she was happy with her friends, so I was happy for her. Then one day she started to socialize. With my friends, my crush...and everyone else that said they didnt like her. I went on facebook later that night, and she had updated her account with new pictures with my crush and best friends. Plus, she has been gossiping about me with them. How do I regain myself ?
~Claire $$


Hey Claire, It sounds like this girl really turned on you and is not a true friend. You should reach out to your real friends find out what is going on and leave the fake friend alone. 

Paige T.

by chewcharm on 7/23/2010 9:18:39 PM


MOD!!!! wen ever i get in trouble my friend leaves me an puts al the blame on me because shes a goddie goddie and its gettin on my nerves

Hey babe, you need to tell her to cut it out and that you both should take the blame equally. 
Brittany B.

by peacelove99 on 7/22/2010 11:27:19 AM


that sounds like one of my frends. she is awesum but she always says im this and im that and ur this then she laughs and says jk i know she means it in a joking way but it isnt right

by DanceFreak99 on 7/21/2010 1:28:47 PM


mod mod mod my friend is always braging and its getting in my nerves wat do i do


Hey! The next time she does it let her know she sounds a little concieted. She'll appreciate it in the long run. Good luck!

Helen S.

by peacelove99 on 7/20/2010 1:55:57 PM


90% of tyhe time you should be listening! that's how you learn, i had a friend how was self-centered (and still is) and she thinks she a great hockey player and sooooo much better than me! well whenever we have races or go against each other in practice, i win! i figured out that she was faster then me but she didn't have skills....she says she want to make the first womens national hockey team, which is a good goal but...well i guess it could happen...but really?

by jazziesgirl on 7/20/2010 1:21:45 PM


wow. this really hits close to home.

by munchkin112096 on 7/19/2010 6:38:20 PM


my friend found out some mean things i said about her and now i don't know how to forgive her plx help

Hey girlie, I think you should just apologize and ask her to forgive you! 
Alissa S.

by coke-cola on 7/19/2010 12:54:58 PM


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by melly219 on 7/16/2010 2:04:06 PM


MOD!MOD!MOD!MOD! me and my bff liked the same guy we both agreed if he asked either of us out we wouldnt care. i meant it but she didnt......... he asked me out and i said yes! i was so happy and couldnt wait to tell her!!! when i did she sounded rele happy for me but had kind of a mean and frustrated tone. a couple weeks later she said she was mad when i told her he asked me out she said she didnt want me 2 i apologized but she didnt forgive me. now every time something happens she says why are u complaining about stuff u hav an amazing boyfriend i feel terrible but i dont no what to do. i wish i never wouldve gone out with him but i rele rele rele rele rele like him and she admitted i liked him way more than her!! and i thout she would be ok with it! i wouldve been! but she also says i wouldve been mad at her too!! i honestly wouldnt have been im with her every sunday and we always get in a fight now!!!! HELP!

That's not cool that your BFF told you one thing, and did the other.  She's probably jealous that he picked you over her.  I know it's probably frustrating not having your BFF to turn to right now, but if you just wait it out, I'm sure she'll come around! Just give her time! 
Katie R.

by melly219 on 7/16/2010 2:01:32 PM


hey girlies!
do you need advice? boy trouble, parents, school, friends, boyfriends, ex boyfriends, angry, dancing, singing, acting, cheerleading, teachers, periods, puberty, makeup, clothes? anything you need! i am awesome at giving advice! i have been through and seen it all! post a comment on my profile and i will respond on yours! i get on girlslife more than 3 times a day! if it is really important put *********** at the top and i will get back to you at the max the next day! if your profile isn't publicly visible i will answer it on my profile! tell your friends!
thanks a ton,
kailey paige
p.s. have a great summer!Laughing

by ilovepoms72 on 7/15/2010 4:44:44 PM


How can i send message to carol?

Hey girl!!! You can find her address here: http://www.girlslife.com/page/Get-Advice.aspx

Just send a letter! 
Brittany B.

by mangochick12 on 7/15/2010 2:14:23 AM






by facebooker1240 on 7/15/2010 12:33:14 AM


Some people are like that. Not being self centered is so much better, plus more people like you. When someone I know starts acting like that I try to get them to stop and start acting less self centered and selfish.

by luckykel on 7/14/2010 5:30:45 PM


hey girl,
i had the same problem! but now i dont...why?....because i confronted her about it!it was very hard but after a while she caught on of what i was trying to tell her....so dont give up on her!cuz remember she is your friend!

by lucky<3!10 on 6/21/2010 10:38:59 AM


Okay so school is going to start in the fall so I need hElp before it start again. I have the best friends in the world, however they don't go to my school. And my school friends aren't that nice to me. They ingnore me when I say something, they don't include me in anything, and my "friend" started a rumor saying my mom strict just because she doesn't like having me wonder around the mall with only two other people she hardly knows. I feel leftout and sad that they don't care about me. What do I do? Please don't say I should tell them because then they will think I'm even weirder than before.

by KMN21 on 6/15/2010 11:29:52 PM


i need advice on pubertyy

by juleziscoolz on 6/14/2010 1:02:17 PM


1. take a deep breath
2.think of someone you like
3.press f10 five times
4.send this to five pages
5.look at your background

by XxlilryanerxX on 6/12/2010 11:58:25 PM


She might not be doing it on purpose. I love to talk, but sometimes i talk to much and people tune me out it hurts.

by brynn97 on 6/10/2010 9:55:27 PM


that is how i feel with my cousin. lke the other day we were making a cake and decorating it and what not. and i was trying to make a correction and what not and she told me, "no this is my cake" and then another time we were mixing the icing with food colorings and she was like "no this is my cake you can pour the food coloring when we make your cake for your birthday" although i love my cousin and we are like best friends she is still this little spoiled rotten brat she was when we were kids. it drives me crazy. she is really spoiled rotten. like she has had her fone for like a year (a new fone) and one day she tells me this fone is old i am going to get a new fone soon. i asked her how old it was she is like "i have had it for a year" but she is so self centered it SICKENS ME I WANT TO HURT HER SOMETIMES SHE IS IS SUCH A BRAT BUT SHE GETS WHAT EVER SHE WANTS THAT IS WHY SHE IS SELF CENTERED. she even tells me sometimes i am not spoiled rotten.(i have never told her she was we were just comparing our selves to like other spoiled people)but in my eye she has always been and always will be a spoiled brat and trust me i am not at all apoiled or rottenso yeah that maybe y ur friends selfcentered becuase she gets whatever she wants and is spoiled that may be why just saying i know that is why my best friend is that way

by Star53 on 6/6/2010 2:17:57 PM


MOD this is about the original dear carol question,
i feel that way about one of my friends too. Sometimes when I'm talking she'll say "I don't care." When I ask her why she says that she says shes being honest. I tell her it comes across mean. I know she somewhat cares, she just doesnt want to listen to me! I focus on my other friends when she says stuff like that to me. Shes a great friend shes just somewhat self centered! I don't know what to say!


Hey girl, it sounds like you're in a tough situation. Maybe you should remind her that she would want you to listen and care about the things she says therefore it's only right for her to do the same for you. 

Paige T.

by divab019 on 6/4/2010 11:00:32 PM


ok so me and my "best friend" were really close last year. i became more outgoing and i got my confidence back and i was happy. and i became friends with this new group. and i did not realize that they had a mean streak and they started gossiping about this one new girl that used to sit at our table. and my friend was friends with her and i stood up for the new girl and sat with them for a few days and moved back to my other new group of friends. since then, the new girl and my "best" friend are best friends and it has felt like i lost my friends. and i am the enemy.
and today when i was talking to my "new" friend about something that i was upset about, she didnt even listen! and my group of friends i made this year exclude me from EVERYTHING! and they backstabb sometimes and i feel as if im getting a snotty attitude and i dont want to be this anymore.


Hey girl, your situation is really complicated and I'm not sure I completely understand. Try hanging out with your old friends again. If you were that close it shouldn't be hard to get back into that group.

Lauren T.

by abbeydiva102 on 6/4/2010 7:43:58 PM


MOD mod
WHen i was little i did beauty pageants. and my mom thnks i need a confudence boster so i started them again, And i am actually a state finalist for this really big one. I really want to win, and im starting to get really in to it, do you hvae any tips? or maybe any ways how to stay calm???


Hey girl, I don't know much about winning pageants, but I can definitely give you tips to stay calm. Listen to some of your favorite music before you go on stage so you feel pumped and you're ready go. You can also take a few deep breaths when you get nervous to calm down.

Lauren T.

by ashhagan104 on 6/4/2010 11:39:52 AM


That's very true
I still have to accept her the way she is
But the good thing is that I have other best friends Smile
That's great!

by -I-Love-You- on 6/2/2010 3:43:40 PM


*hey everyone i could really use some advice rite now !!!!!!really bad

by forever23in22my4heart on 5/30/2010 10:01:24 PM


Yeah I have the samme problem girl

by samigurl on 5/29/2010 3:54:19 PM


MOD sorry to keep bugging you, but what if he is just playing me? Amd what about makayla? she is gonna kill me! (if none of this makes sense then read over my other mod and it explains everything!) thanks


Hey chicky, I’m a busy bee facilitating all the G-Blog jazz. Although I’d love to answer and chat with all ya gals, it’s just not possible at the moment. I’m sure our lovely bloggers here would love to help ya out with some great advice! Thanks for understanding. , Your Blog Patrol Babes

Marie H.

by converseRcool on 5/29/2010 11:13:01 AM


MOD ok I am kinda going crazy right now! its the first day of summer. and a guy I really really like was hanging out with me and a bunch of my freinds. and we played truth or dare (figures) and I was dared to hold hands with him for the rest of the party (omg!!) so we did. then we all went around saying who we liked and he said my freind and she said him. then I said him BUT no one heard me. then me him and this other kid skyler got invited to another party and the whole time zak was begging me to tell him who I liked b/c he didnt hear me. But I heard my freind makayla tell him. And I knew he just wanted me to admit it. (jerk) so we were walking over to the party and he is like just so you know hannah even if you think the boy you like doesnt like you he might. and I said that I knew he didnt. and he was like why not? its possible to like two people. ( <3 ) then we were at the other party and we did the game again. but instead he was telling everyone that he liked me (then he told me that he did. wtc!!). then he had to leave early. b/c he had to go to his sisters grad. and he was begging me to go. but it sounded really lame and I didnt want to be like other girls and leave just b/c he is. but then he txt me a Smile and I said do U still like makayla. and he said yes. and i asked him who he liked more. and he said we were about the same,but if he had to save one of us from death it would be me. and so I figured he told makayla the same thing. ssince he likes both of us I cant really trust any of the sweet things he says. I have had freinds who've been burned by guys. and I dont want to get hurt. do you have anys suggestions on what my next move should be? Thank you SO SO much p.s. sorry this is so long, its kinda my first real relationship and I dont want to blow it. (not that there is really anything to blow in the first place) thanks again!


Hey girly, it sounds like he def likes you, but maybe was waiting to hear if you liked him before making any kinds of moves. You should def try to hang out with him one on one....and if he invites you, then go with! Good luck Smile


Becca G.

by converseRcool on 5/28/2010 11:47:24 PM


hey do any of you GL girls need friend advice, and soon, I'd be more than happy to help. Just pop on over to my pro, and I'll answer on yours or mine. Thx!
<3 Sweet Cheeks

by Sweet Cheeks on 5/28/2010 6:36:25 PM


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by sassykitty60 on 5/27/2010 8:14:37 PM


my bff, sam, has been leaving me out of everything. theres a field trip tomorow so me + her were going to try + hang out. I asked her if she wanted to go see a movie that both of us and our other 2 bffs, kate + dani want to see. she said no she was going to see it on saturday. later i asked kate if she wanted to hang on saturday but she said shes going to the movie w/ sam, dani + kate boyfriend tom. i feel like they would all rather hang out together w/ kate's bf then w/ me. it hurts alot, because im going through a tough time in my family. this isn't the first time they've hung out without me.
Please Help!!!!!!

Hey girl, why don't you just talk to your friends about this? Let them know how you feel.  

Kayla C.

by ashh1096 on 5/27/2010 6:45:13 PM


my bff is friends with this new girl and she sat next to her instead of me and it made me sad and she talked to me and she said you are my bbff and that means my bestest bestest friend forever so the next day(today) she did it AGAIN WHAT SHOULD I DO!!!!!!????????

by waltercandjb on 5/27/2010 6:39:54 PM


my bff is friends with this new girl and she sat next to her instead of me and it made me sad and she talked to me and she said you are my bbff and that means my bestest bestest friend forever so the next day(today) she did it AGAIN WHAT SHOULD I DO!!!!!!????????

by waltercandjb on 5/27/2010 6:38:09 PM


Hey! I have a couple of questions. One: Next week, I'm going on this vacation with my best friends +& we are going to an amusement park together for a week. I've never been to an amusement park (I've never even been on a rollercoaster). They all have been to one, including the one that we are going to. I have a tendency to get a little dizzy +& motion sickness. I do have medicine that I can take before +& I don't get as sick. However, I don't really want to go on any big rollercoasters, but they all want to. How can I politely say that I don't want to go on a certain ride without bringing down the fun? Two: The condo that we are staying at has a ginormous pool. The problem? I never learned how to swim. They all know how to swim (obviously). Honestly, I never wanted to learn how to swim because I prefer to lay out by the pool. So, how can not upset them by not wanting to go into the pool? Thanks, (:

Hmm...that is tough, especially since you are going to an amusement park. Just be upfront with them; let them know you will be waiting outside! Again, this may be cheesy but I think honesty is the best policy. Just tell them you want to lay out by the pool and catch some sun.  
Kayla C.

by Tempted on 5/27/2010 5:36:05 PM


Okay so iv been friends with my BFF for a while now and everythings great. But recently she has been acting REALLY wired. Like for example she usually is not into guys that much like she likes clebs and all but yesterday she started flirting with like 10 guys and leaving me out. She now has 2 boyfriends at the same time. At home I called her and asked her if she wanted to come over and take pics n have fun and she said no way I am with my Boyfriends and we always take pics and that. Then today she was on the step crying and I asked her whats wrong,she said nothing and I said your not crying for nothing and she showed me cuts on her wrist!! I do not know whats up with that. Then later on today she was outside making out with her BF..!! I have no clue what to do with her I just called her and tried to have a sincere conversation with her and she was ignoring me! Help I dont know what to doFrown

Hey girl, I am sorry about that. Why don't you try and let her know how you feel. You might also want to check this out if she is hurting herself: http://www.girlslife.com/post/2008/08/04/HELP!2.aspx

Kayla C.

by Ladygaga_247 on 5/27/2010 5:18:21 PM



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~aspiring advice columnist, Lauren

by soccergirl524 on 5/27/2010 5:16:57 PM


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by sassykitty60 on 5/27/2010 4:00:48 PM


HEY GIRLS! DO U NEED ADVICE FAST????? well search no longer because i give advice on almost anything. so ask me any question and ill answer the next day at the latest. so go ahead! post a question!

by sassykitty60 on 5/27/2010 3:59:21 PM


!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!I cannot BELIEVE today's poll! Only 1 percent of you would give it to charity? Whats up with this world!! THERE ARE PEOPLE OUT THERE WHO NEED THE MONEY MORE THEN YOU!!! Seriously guys, we're never gonna change the world if you don't help.

by immaGLEEK on 5/27/2010 2:32:44 PM


My friend does the same thing! I usually upsets me so much I get mad and it puts me in a terrible mood so I stop talking and leave. I find it helps if you have another friend who's always there to talk to you. Talking to my best friend(who's a guy) always seems to help me because he has always been there for me and seems to understand everything and always offers a way to help.

by saraisamazing on 5/27/2010 11:42:10 AM


Well, i know exactly how u feel my bffl always does that i just change the subject and ignore her or i just say when am on the phone i gtg talk, to u later when she starts talking about hersef.

by smiley0208 on 5/27/2010 10:16:31 AM


Smile MOD Smile
Mkay, so we got this pool last summer and now we got it back up! Smile Thank god but, I'm getting so tired of washing my hair everytime I get out of the pool for a while! It's all matted and yucky feeling. Do know any hair products or anything to get rid of the nasty matted hair?

Hey girl, you could def try dry shampoo. It'll clean your hair minus the shower and water.

Alyssa B.

by socoolkatie on 5/26/2010 10:18:19 PM


MODMOD! so the last time i moded i had a prob wit my friend so i already made her a card and she ripped it up and said she would never forgive me for what i said even though im truely sorry. plz help me

Hey girl, give her time and then reach out to her. Sometimes giving a friend space and time is the best way to get through a tough sitch.

Alyssa B.

by hmmc296 on 5/26/2010 9:49:27 PM


Are you a bookworm or do you despise reading?

by allysonk294 on 5/26/2010 9:28:41 PM


okay. so there is this guy i really like. lets say his name is sam. sam and i are inseparable. we have been BEST friends since i met him when i was like 3.
i really like him. i think he likes me too and all my friends say he flirts with me constantly, but i think thats just how he acts (i would no). he lives down my street and i'm just about always at his house, or he's at mine. i think he likes me to but im not to sure. its all so confusing. can u give me some advice because i'm scared to ask him and if he does or doesnt it could ruin our relationship. please help!!

Hey girl, try hinting in your convos with him you're looking for a boyfriend that's well, kind of like him. See if he picks up the hint and how he responds. If he ignores it, chances are you're just friend zone.

Alyssa B.

by emscool1234 on 5/26/2010 9:13:12 PM


MOD MOD MOD Sorry I forgot to put the MODs at the top...Tong There are two Ukranian girls that were adopted by my teacher that I have known for a while and now go to my school. How do I befriend them? They are shy, but I am also, and I do not know how to become frinds with them.


Hey girl!  If they are new to school, I bet they would love to be included.  Maybe you could try to have lunch with them, or invite them to an after-school activity with you.  If you're shy, this might be a great opportunity to practice reaching out and making new buds. 

Marie H.

by Laceyn on 5/26/2010 8:51:54 PM


There are two Ukranian girls that were adopted by my teacher and now go to my school. How do I befriend them?
They are shy, but I am also, and I do not know how to become frinds with them.

by Laceyn on 5/26/2010 8:50:27 PM



by savvylula on 5/26/2010 8:11:20 PM


MODMODMODMOD ok so i gotta problem me and my bff are fighting cuz she scratched my eye and without thinking i called her a bad word. I've been trying to apologize and today after the bus ride she said she wasnt ever gonna forgive me. That made me really sad. how do I either get rid of this feeling or get her to be my friend again. plz send your answer to my profile thanx HURRY!!!!


Sorry to hear that happened.  If she's your BFF, it might be worth putting in a little more effort.  Maybe you could write her a letter or make her a card to show that you are truly sorry.  Hopefully with a little more time and effort, she will come around to being your friend again. 

Marie H.

by hmmc296 on 5/26/2010 7:57:34 PM



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~aspiring advice columnist, Lauren

by soccergirl524 on 5/26/2010 7:30:22 PM


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by j4zm09 on 5/26/2010 6:10:31 PM


MOD- My best friend and I are running against each other for student council. (president!) I feel like if I win, I'll feel bad for her, and if she wins I'll be heartbroken! I don't no what to do. and for some reason, I think there's a pretty good chance of her winning. Frown


Hey girl,

Wow that is a tough sitch!  It's cool that you two have such common interests, though.  Maybe you two could have a talk about it before the election - promise to support the other, no matter who wins.  Also, you could see if there is a way to get more involved without being president.  Don't be too hard on yourself - the election hasn't happened yet!   

Marie H.

by iluvlax99 on 5/26/2010 5:23:17 PM


hey girls! I give advice on just about anything! I'm really experienced in being an advice giver and help you get out of even the toughest sitch! so post a comment on my profile and I'll be happy to help ya Smile

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by summerlover0116 on 5/26/2010 4:24:25 PM


has anyone else noticed that GL seems to be reusing questions?

by yola purple princess on 5/25/2010 6:18:49 PM



if ur reading this girl talk column, u obviously care about advice. visit my profile, post me a question(if its super important, put ***** at the top) and ill answer in 2 days(max), guaranteed. if ur profile isn't publicly visible, i'll answer ur questions on MY profile(NOW WITH 2000 PLUS COMMENTS!!!). thanks! pass it on to ur friends!

~aspiring advice columnist, Lauren

by soccergirl524 on 5/25/2010 6:00:46 PM


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by Harry Potter Fan Club . on 5/25/2010 5:25:40 PM


mod mod
how are you doing? i need some advice please.
i have a MAJOR crush on this guy. he is every thing i want in a guy. he is very nice funny has a beautiful smile strong has beautiful eyes and is good lookingSmile we have alot in common. and acouple of times i caught him looking at me(i may be over thinkin it cause i never had a bf). should i ask him 4 pizza or something or just keep it a crush.
thanks Smile

You'll never know if you have a future if you don't try. Definitely ask him on a casual date and see how it goes.  
Freddi N.

by hunny-puff87 on 5/25/2010 3:33:36 PM


hey girls! come check out my profile if u need some advice, or just someone to talk toSmile thanks<3

by chlojo98 on 5/25/2010 3:25:20 PM


MOD. Nothing aginst GL...i love it and everything but i need to know how to delete an account. My computer has a virus and i dont want any information becoming avaible. So can you please delete it or let me know how to delete it?


Hey babe, Click "Contact Us" at the top of the page and send a general inquiry. They can help you delete it there.

xoxo Allie

Allie S.

by *Hurley-Gurlie* on 5/25/2010 12:11:32 AM


hey!!!! come check out my profile!!!! i would love to give advice!! any thing at all!

by futureLYNX~35 on 5/24/2010 10:15:08 PM


My friend is always talking about herself and howshe has a boyfriend.i cool with it and everything but she also has problem with these two other girls and one of them made fun of me but that was in Janurury.and now a days that all she talks about,she talk about her bf is cheating on her when he not which is kind of stupid to talk about and she plays way to much and she is very very hype and i need something to help all her promblems. What should i do?

Hey babe, try to ignore her.  She sounds like she's just really self absorbed and into her life, and you should be focused on yours. She's not worth worrying about...she's probably just trying to get sympathy or attention on days when she's arguing with her bf.  Let her know you're there for her, but to stop being so dramatic because everything will work out.   
Megan R.

by i luv? on 5/24/2010 7:59:04 PM


ok so my ex bf likes me agian and i think i kinda like him. the thing is weve been together 3 times already. we talked for over an hr last nite. my bffs say i shouldnt go back but he gave me so many reasons and theyre kinda like signs its so coincedental i freaked out last night. i mean i really like him but i dont want to get hurt. he says we're ment to be and all this but idk... what should i do?

Hey babe! Go with your heart, if being with him makes you happy, then I would go for it.  If the majority of the time you're with him, you're sad or hurting, then it's not worth it.  
Megan R.

by blondie123abc on 5/24/2010 6:53:18 PM


Well Im getting together with my old bff that I haven't seen in six years. What should we do together her?

Hey babe!  How about doing a fun craft, like painting pottery or making collages? 
Megan R.

by Misbubbles on 5/24/2010 5:30:41 PM



if ur reading this girl talk column, u obviously care about advice. visit my profile, post me a question(if its super important, put ***** at the top) and ill answer in 2 days(max), guaranteed. if ur profile isn't publicly visible, i'll answer ur questions on MY profile(NOW WITH 2000 PLUS COMMENTS!!!). thanks! pass it on to ur friends!

~aspiring advice columnist, Lauren

by soccergirl524 on 5/24/2010 4:28:38 PM


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by ChelseaCheetah on 5/24/2010 4:17:59 PM


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by ChelseaCheetah on 5/24/2010 4:17:25 PM


p.s. any clubs!! comment on my profile!! i really want to join more clubs!! thanks..

by forever_young21 on 5/24/2010 2:37:51 PM


Smile MOD Smile
Mkay, our (my bro and I) last day of school was last Friday! We are so glad but, we are out of our minds BORED! We arn't putting up our above ground pool until Thursday, Friday or even next week! Any ideas how to have some fun?

Hey girl, school just got out and you're bored already?! Try hanging out with friends, or starting a new project until your pool gets put up. Do a fun craft, go outside and play a game, or if the weather's bad rent a good movie. You'll find something to do, just be glad your not in class! Good luck!
Abby C.

by socoolkatie on 5/24/2010 11:54:30 AM


i am going to a sleepover camp for the first time . Any suggestions?

Hey girl, bring a list of addresses and stuff to write letters to friends and family. Check the camp's packing list, they'll let you know what you need. Bring books to read, and pictures from home to show your new friends. You're going to have so much fun, try not to be nervous, get to know the kids there, and try new things. Good luck! 
Abby C.

by haleyhay3 on 5/24/2010 7:50:06 AM


Not to be preachy, but if anyone's looking for advice on guys, makeup, friend troubles or any other problems you're more than welcome to ask me on my profile! I love to help people, and Im good at giving advice. Im 14 & I've been through a lot.

Head over to my profile && ask away ! (:

by xamazingxerinx on 5/24/2010 12:56:59 AM


I have a friend that i was really good friends with from 2nd grade untill the summer before 6th grade. She would always flirt with my boyfriend and the only thing that stopped me from getting to mad was he would always tell me he was in love with me and wouldnt flirt back. After we broke up she was all over him and thats not the big problem cause me and him might get together agin we said but we want to be single for a little more first but the problem is she does things with other guys and does drugs, ive tried to help but she wont listen and she is a horrible influence. MOD please help me! i dont want to give up on her; but i dont want to keep getting hurt by her. Thanks!

hey girl!You need to talk to her and expalin what she is doing that bothers you. 
Eryn G.

by rachhbunnie on 5/23/2010 7:12:41 PM


mod mod mod!
ok so i wannna write a song but its hard! (i knew it wood be) but do u have any tips? besides for just listen to ur heart cuz trust me i am! thnx

hey girl! Listen to your fave songs for inspiration. 
Eryn G.

by sassykinz on 5/23/2010 6:08:05 PM


Smile MOD Smile
I have two questions.
1. What are signs of starting you period? I have been really moody, tired, and not feeling so well.
2. Is there anything to cover up freekles because I have quite a few and I don't like them.

hey girl! Moody, tired, and cramps. You could try concealer. 
Eryn G.

by socoolkatie on 5/23/2010 5:57:45 PM


Hey I need some advice.  I really want to meet a guy this summer to go out with. I don't like any of the guys in my grade at school, so they are out of the question. Where are some places I can meet new guys (I'm 12)? besides the mall and any place my family will be with me. Thanks Smile

by Sophiag97 on 5/23/2010 5:07:14 PM


Okay, I may sound like any other starstruck girl, but I'm in LOVE with Justin Bieber. I'm really serious about this, and it's killing me that I'll probably never be able to meet him. I feel like I want to die knowing he has no clue I exsist. Please help me... 

by Sophiag97 on 5/23/2010 5:00:26 PM


I know these three girls who just randomly decided that they hate me and my friend. We haven't even ever talked to them. Why? What do I do?

hey girl! I am not sure, but you should talk to them. 
Eryn G.

by myheartsonthestage on 5/23/2010 4:28:37 PM


Okay, today I was bored, so i sent a text to my friend asking her what she was doing today. She said she was just going to be laying outside today, cause it's really hot out. I then asked her if she wanted to hang out with me, and she responded that she was going to be swimming in her pool with her family. Is this just another way for saying "No I don't want to hang out with you?" And if it is, what should my relationship with her be? I'm really confused, and plus I feel like no one wants to hang out with me. Help!!


Hey girlie,

Relax!  She said she didn't have any plans when you first texted, so it's natural that she would want to find something to do to pass the time - like swimming with her fam.  This was just one time when her plans could have changed in between texts.  If she comes up with alternate plans and blows you off all the time though, then I would maybe back off a bit and not ask to hang out so much.  Let her come to you.  But I wouldn't do that yet - just give it time!  You don't need to hang out with friends 24/7, so remember that you should also give her some space.  Ask her to hang out in a day or two and see how it goes <3

Lauren C.

by spirit_101222_ on 5/23/2010 3:15:56 PM


mod mod mod mod mod mod mod mod mod mod mod mod alyssa alyssa alyssa alyssa alyssa alyssa alyssa ok thx so much good idea and srry 1 more q im going to do athletics next year 4 school but i only want to do one sport wat if i dont make the team ? plz help

Hey girl, I'd suggest trying out for multiple teams. Even if you get spots on multiple ones, you don't have to join all of them.

Alyssa B.

by girlzrock123 on 5/22/2010 11:30:03 PM


mod mod mod mod mod mod mod mod mod mod mod mod mod mod mod mod mod mod mod mod mod mod mod mod
alyssa alyssa alyssa alyssa alyssa alyssa alyssa
ok so plz plz plz plz plz plz plz plz help ASAP ok so idk wat to get my friend for her bday ok cuz she told me that she wanted aeropostale,abacrombie, or cherish cift cards ok so then she tells me that she waants something diffrent from me im like dude wat the crud so plz plz plz help wat do i get her
and 2nd problem im sick with a sinus infection and a fever so wat can i do to pass time cuz im sooooo bored plz help alyssa

Hey girl, I'd get her a top from one of those stores -- it shows more thought. Get a gift receipt in case she doesn't like it and then she can have store credit in that worst case sitch to get something else there. As for 2? I'm way sorry to hear that. Why not try reading or writing? Write a story or play to perform with your friends when you get better.

Alyssa B.

by girlzrock123 on 5/22/2010 11:16:04 PM


How do I talk to my mom about "girl stuff" ? I would feel mortified even though we're super close.

Hey girl, I'd try doing it when it's just the two of you and just give her a heads up you have some personal, body-related questions. The convo def doesn't have to be awkward if you don't let it be. Your mom just wants to help and has been through all of this before

Alyssa B.

by purplegirlae on 5/22/2010 10:54:37 PM


MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
everybody thinks im really pretty!like i could be a model..my parents friends even people like at SHOP RITE!? my friends too sometimes..they tell my parents , o better lock her up b4 the boys get her...and stuff like that..THE PROBLEM IS I DONT THINK IM REALLLY THAT PRETTY!! i want to lose some weight even thhough everyone says im soooo skinny! i can even wear JUNIORS clothes! im still in girls! so how can i look at myself differently!?
thx ..ann

Hey girl, when you look at your reflection, play a game. Find five things you like about yourself. For every mean thing you think or negative thought, counter it with two positive ones. Soon enough you won't need a game to keep you thinking positively, you just will be.

Alyssa B.

by princess24 on 5/22/2010 10:36:45 PM


(i posted this b4 but u guys were busy)
My best best friend got in a fight over something stupid. it happened on december 25,2009,,yep christmas morning. she yelled at me and we just lost it over the phone. i hung up and she hasnt called since, so its almost been 6 months...i kinda of miss her and she has a troubled life so i always help her. my doesnt really like her though..SO SHOULD I CALL HER BACK OR LET TIME FIX EVERYTHING? plz help!

Hey girl, you can call to see how she's doing but realize sometimes it's a fight that acts as the final trigger to the end. Friends grow apart and sometimes for the better too. xoxo

Alyssa B.

by princess24 on 5/22/2010 9:51:42 PM


visit me!

by princess24 on 5/22/2010 5:24:08 PM


My best best friend got in a fight over something stupid. it happened on december 25,2009,,yep christmas morning. she yelled at me and we just lost it over the phone. i hung up and she hasnt called since, so its almost been 6 months...i kinda of miss her and she has a troubled life so i always help her. my doesnt really like her though..SO SHOULD I CALL HER BACK OR LET TIME FIX EVERYTHING? plz help!

Hey, Girl! Sorry for the “stock” message. We’re psyched you’re here but since this is a super busy time, mods aren’t able to answer personal advice or contest questions. We’re approving your comments now so the girls can start offering feedback right away! If you still have questions, please come back, we’re happy to help…or just let the other chicas answer now! (They give awesome advice, trust us!) Love and thanks! ♥, Your Blog Patrol Babes 
Alyssa B.

by princess24 on 5/22/2010 5:22:54 PM


ok so im pretty sure my best friends bf is about to break up with her and i think she knows it too. she freaking out and dont know wat to say to her. what should i do/say?

Hey girl, well unfortunately all you can really tell her that it's all going ot be okay and everything happens for a reason, and there is a better guy out there for her. 

Lauren R. Lauren R.

by twilightgirl1997 on 5/22/2010 2:30:21 PM


I think I may also be like that.

by sixteengirl93 on 5/22/2010 12:12:59 PM


ok this is sooo important!
well my problem is my mom treats me like a baby! im 14 and she thinks i dont like boys! seriously and she thinks im soo innocent..its not like im a rebel im nice but she thinks i dont want to hang out with friends or go to the mall with my bffs ALONE! and look at guys..she doesnt think i will ever wanna a bf and i cant go anywhere by myself not even a sleepover! only my friends can come to my house and i cant even stay alone at home! i have to get a BABYSITTER! i do good in school im not doning anthing bad im nice and reseptful but i have no PRIVACIY! i cant close my door and i cant have a dairy because she would read it! gosh! Frown sorry i was venting! ahhhhhhhhhhhh! ok

Hey girl! I think you just need to have a heart-to-heart talk with your mom. It's key not to sound rebellious or angry when you do. Make sure she knows how much you appreciate your care, but also mention that you are getting older and explain that your interests are different now. Also try to show that you are being more responsible - you can SAY that you are, but your actions will really show it. Best of luck! 
Kelli S.

by princess24 on 5/22/2010 12:05:12 PM


I think i tend to do that sometimes...

by bff61 on 5/22/2010 12:00:45 PM


My friend does the same thing..UGH! She talks about herself all the time and when I say something about ut she has a little tantrum!And she actss totally different around ppl like she claims she never wants to talk to "ange"(lets call her) Then yesterday shes like we should make plans!! Stuff like that its SOOO ANNOYING!

by cute_wiz_97 on 5/22/2010 11:01:57 AM


i used to hav a friend that was kinda like that a lot of the time she would talk about all of her friends or she would just talk about things like that and whenever i tried to talk about something she would say anyway back to my story or something similar to that and acted like she didnt care wat i had to say

by TwilightRox10 on 5/22/2010 10:39:38 AM


i feel like i'm doing this sometimes. but i'm trying to change.... i really am!!

by kgirlpanda on 5/22/2010 9:32:11 AM


I'm sorry this is long and I'm practicly wasting your time since i think i already know your answer, but it would be nice for a reply, My family life sucks, I might have to repeat a grade, everything is messed up. I don't know what to do? UGH, now I can't go to my friends party, my privacy is never respected, ugh. So now my life is a freaking mess.I hate my life right now!!! Mom is fretining to take my door off, how old fashioned is that???Seriously, I'm supposed to have respected space & privacy, & a life of my own. All I want is to have a normal family that doesn't cuss & hit all the time, go on to highskl in a regular skl, keep my friends , and be happy, but I can't get all of that, I'm just spoiled rotten. I guess this is where you say "sorry honey go see a counselor" yep so they can send me off to a therapy group or put me on pills. Hahaha, just locked my mom out of my room since she has pissed me off saying that I can borrow sumthing for this stupid club i don't really want in anymore, from my sister and she threw a tantrum and attacked my for it and then my mom got pissed at me since I told my sister it was my moms idea and now shes making me wear sum ugly stupid smelly dress to this stupid club, taking away my social life, &&&& any privacy I can get w/ a door on my room which is still very little. Last time I was honest to her about how I was going to tell sum1 that my dad was verbally & kind of phsycally abusing me she went off on my and said she was going to take me from skl and homeskl me so I can't go to any1 and then she went on and on about how bad foster care would be, hahaha. Then she goes on and on about how their parents abbused them worse w/ hair brushes & shovels. She even told me my dad was such a idiot bercause his diabettes makes him depressed & have anger proublems. LOL.
My mom apparently wants me to think I'm smart 2. I know since I accidentally read sum texts she and my dad sent they both thin of me as stupid, annoying, all that horrible stuff. I'm really nice, I have tons of friends, and i know I am not worthless.
I wonder how come the rest of my family stands it i have 2 bros & 2 sis, 3/ 4 are older. I bet my parents don't realise that they are the reason I'm so poor at school.
That and I'm so lazy.
Maybe i'm just blaming random people for my stupidity and maybe my negative freaking view on life.
Sorry, all that above this sentence was venting, I guess i have way too much stress on me & i have no one to talk to. Guess I have to just vent in a diary & pray to god things get better with time.
Should I ask What I should do? i don't want to go and talk to a family member about it they love to backstab, maybe not I'm really paranoid I was practically born paranoid & something tells me I won't be seeing my friends this summer.
What do you think I should do???

Hey girl! I'm really sorry to hear 'bout your sitch. I know you want your privacy and personal space, and it might be hard to do this, but why not just go along with your mom when she does things like that (takes off your door). If you are calm and reasonable and act super mature, once she calms down, maybe she'll realize that you guys just really need to talk. Things are much clearer when both parties are not super angry! Also, to prove to your parents that are you are really responsible and capable of holding your own, I would just try really hard to focus on school - spend the time and effort in your studies. I know you prob don't wanna hear this, but it also might be good to talk to your counselor. That is what they're there for, and they can be some of the kindest, caring individuals you'll ever meet! Hang in there and good luck! 
Kelli S.

by kali♥ on 5/22/2010 2:14:42 AM



im sorry to hear about your situation!!!

what you need to do is have a party or a sleepover at your house with those freinds!!! and you need to talk about you feelings about what they say and how you feel about and if they keep on beeing like that the go out and get to know the people who give you the complements about being smart! hope this helps!!!

by Bugzee6 on 5/22/2010 12:17:21 AM


MOD MOD MOD. add me to yer friends. i am a swimmer if anyone cares. someone talk to me and post something on my profile...;)

by novaswimmer1 on 5/21/2010 10:54:02 PM


dont u fel mad when 1 of your bffs talks 2 much ......... i would

by lol2000 on 5/21/2010 10:27:41 PM


girl if i was u i would ask her to let you talk 4 a while

by lol2000 on 5/21/2010 10:25:28 PM


MOD***MOD***MOD***MOD***MOD*** well there is this guy i like and i wont probably see him that much over the summer and i want to though. i want to text him and ask him to hang out sometime but i dont know how to ask him. plus im kinda scared that he thinks that im some weirdo freak that just bothers/annoys him even though he doesnt act like i annoy him. anyway, how should i ask him to hang out and where?


Hey girly, you should totally ask him to hang out! I know it's scary, but it might be easier if you ask him to hang out in a group first. That way, it won't be as akward, and you can feel comfortable with  your friends there. Invite him to go to the movies with all of you, or to play tennis or something at the park. Good luck Smile

Becca G.

by nobody25 on 5/21/2010 10:17:23 PM


MOD MOD MOD Thanks! But none of them have had boyfriends be4 and now suddenly they all have 1 and it feels like I'm missing out. The other night we all had a Girls Night Out and we went out to eat, and all they could talk about were their bf's and I feel so leaft out. And we all promised we were gonna have our first kisses this summer, and it feels like yeah, they'll get their first kiss, but I wont. Ugh. I do like this one boy, and it kind of seems like he likes me back, but hes just all around really nice and he has tons of girl friends and i just dont know. Please help! Thanks. XOXO Charlotte


Hey girly girl, maybe you can use it to your advantage and see if they can introduce you to any cute boys that they know? They have to have friends, after all Smile


Becca G.

by tinypickle on 5/21/2010 10:10:41 PM


MOD! I want to be a muscian, actress, and do a little modeling in my lifetime. Prob is, I'm almost 14 and have done almost nothing to get there. My parents won't let me audition for commercials, movies or tv shows and refused to let me take a trip to a recording studio. When I mentioned to my mom that one of my friends was a model to ease her into the idea, she snorted and said, "That is so dumb! Why is she doing that at her age?! I know you wouldn't be interested in that, right?" The prob is that I'm really smart. My parents are alreading talking about me getting a degree in vet medicine or medicine. I don't even think they know I don't know if I wanna go to college!!! Please help!!!! I need to start my career young!!!!


Hey girly, you should def look into college. However, you could always check out a performing arts college, or one close to a big city, like New York or LA. That way, when you're taking college classes, you can take enroll in acting and modeling classes on the side. Your parents won't be there with you at college, so it could be your thing. As for now, I would just stay strong and don't give up. Keep expressing to them how important it is to you, and maybe make a deal that if your grades suffer, you'll stop.


Becca G.

by dreamergal13 on 5/21/2010 9:56:01 PM


MOD MOD MOD MOD Hey. I feel kind of alone right now. All of my very best friends have boyfriends. Every.Last.One.Of.Them. And I'm kinda upset cuz I dont have one. I want one so bad, but there are no boys in my school that arent taken who I like. I literally only have 1 friend who doesnt have a bf, and all my bff's are going to the fair next weekend, and they want to bring the boys. Im good frineds w/ all their boyfrieds (I'm the one who set like, half of them up) but I'm still kinda upset. Please help. Thanks!


Hey girly! I totally understand how you feel. You should def ask your friends if maybe you can just hang out every now and with just the girls, and no boys. They should understand. I know it sucks, but someday you're time will come. And you'll meet a great guy. It'll come when you least expect it, trust me.  Smile


Becca G.

by tinypickle on 5/21/2010 9:54:26 PM


MOD MOD MOD can u plz answer my question Smile


Hey chica, I'm getting there, I promise! Smile


Becca G.

by honeyb4 on 5/21/2010 9:37:30 PM


MOD!!! MOD!!! PLEASE ANSWER!!! I Posted this but nobody answered !!! PLEASE PLEASE ANSWER!!!!!! MOD!!!!! Ok, so there is this guy and back in grade 6 we were buds, I mean he wasent my bgf or anything but still. So the summer before I went to grade 7 I Started liking him. The problem is that we werent friends then I liked him because he was kind. He played hockey. He was in the school Band amd also played guitar. He was amazing,.... Then. So know im in grade 8. Im still liking him, but he is so mean to people and he acts as if he is so AWESOME, which hes not. He quit band to be popular (not that there is anything wrong with that, but he turned mean.) So my question 1. I want to get over him, But how ? I have no clue. 2.Do you think that i should want to like him because he is A COMPELTE CUTIE but mean, so i don't know what to do?


Hey girly, if he's being a jerk, then don't waste your time on him. You can find a guy that's nice and kind to everyone! Time is the key for getting over someone. Try cutting back on the amount of time you spend with him. If you see him less, then it'll be easier to forget about him Smile


Becca G.

by Awesomegal on 5/21/2010 9:25:42 PM


***MOD MOD MOD***** me and my friends were teasing each other about boys and got a bit disgusting but only us know its not really like x rated stufff but i lil nasty...well for me not really on my part more on hers but now i feel so awful , disgusting and just plain gross...im so regretting tht we decided never to do tht agen but im telling u i feel depressed plz help me what shuld i do and is this normal ????????/plz plz answer me soon i beggin ya Frown Smile *****mod mod mod***


Hey girly, sorry for the delay! We're pretty busy around here tonight. I would def talk to your friend and let her know that you think you guys took it too far. Don't worry about it. Just learn from it for the future, and don't go that far again. No big deal, lesson learned Smile

Becca G.

by honeyb4 on 5/21/2010 9:24:50 PM



by savvylula on 5/21/2010 9:17:21 PM


plz help me im desparate and (((((CAN U NOT PUBLISH MY QUESTION PLZ)))))00
today me and my friend were teasing each other about boys it got kinda nasty not like fight what we sed WAS so we stopped and then wen me were walking people were like u so nasty and then we were so frightened we both felt sick in the stomach but it turns out it was somethign else the people were talking about some inside joke that has ntn to do with us so they didnt here.. I feel so bbad and depressed we let the teasing get their it wasnt anything x-rated or whatever no bad words and stuff what i said was clean but its kinda disgusting its eating me alive so plz help me what do i do before i cry....im not sure but im very mood swingy so yh

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by honeyb4 on 5/21/2010 9:12:07 PM


Ok, same here but it's not too bad. OK. MOD MOD MOD !!! I have a question and I'm so confused. Ok well there is this guy that I have liked for a few years and maybe he likes me too? He stares at me all the time, and he teases me. He talks to a lot of people and has a lot of friends. But he just seems to exclude me out and kinda ignore me, i guess? One day one of my guy friends was teasing me, saying i could be a man and my crush just laughed along and just thought of it as a joke and encouraged him. But sometimes we stare at eachother and he's real sweet sometimes. DO you think he likes me? And if he does...at the end of the year...maybe I could sneak my e-mail in his binder? What do you think? Plz help!!

by Fanpire19 on 5/21/2010 9:01:53 PM



Ok, so there is this guy and back in grade 6 we were buds, I mean he wasent my bgf or anything but still. So the summer before I went to grade 7 I Started liking him. The problem is that we werent friends then Tong I liked him because he was kind. He played hockey. He was in the school Band amd also played guitar. He was amazing,.... Then. So know im in grade 8. Im still liking him, but he is so mean to people and he acts as if he is so AWESOME, which hes not. He quit band to be popular (not that there is anything wrong with that, but he turned mean.)
So my question
1. I want to get over him, But how ? I have no clue.

2.Do you think that i should want to like him because he is A COMPELTE CUTIE but mean, so i don't know what to do?

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by tinypickle on 5/21/2010 8:42:30 PM


i know how u feel, but it's not my bff..it's my SISTER..when i was younger all i wanted to be was just like her..(we are step sisters, so she visits every weekend) even we weren't related by blod i wanted to be skinny, get all the dudes to look and get EVERYTHING..but she moved in with the family (she lived with her mom, so her dad is now my adopted dad) and i noticed all she likes to talk about is HER..she alwats refer to things like "I AM SO BORED" or "I DONT CARE"..i mean i had to c it with my own eyes..even though my mom knew..but idk how to solve it..she is so SELFISH! but i ♥ her..help

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by nickluverjb on 5/21/2010 8:23:23 PM


I'm going to a band concert tonight, but I have my period. I can't use pads, because they'd definitely show. Tips on using a tampon? Cause i REALLY don't want TSS

Don't worry too much about TSS. Just follow the instructions and don't leave it in longer than is recommended. We have a few articles with tips if you are unsure how to use it.  
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by Lala_9 on 5/21/2010 7:16:20 PM


I have a friend named P and she hangs out with this group of people and ''they'' get on her face book and talk to me so there is a guy named T that she says likes me but I don't know if she is telling the truth cause I have never met them before! She has not shown me a picture of them and I just don't know.She showed me a video of T on you tube but that could have been anyone! I don't want to sound desperate and ask for his number or to hang out because I am really shy but I want to meet all of them so bad and she has tired to get me to hang with them....but I can't because I am too scared...I really want to meet him and I don't do much because I am so shy.Please help me get over being scared and just go out there and meet them!(if they are real)I want to believe her but idk I mean why can't I see a pic?Please Help!!! Sorry this is so long and confusing.

Why don't you just ask her to set up a time for all of you to hang out. But because you don't know them, make sure it is somewhere public and safe so nothing bad could happen. 
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by fit girls on 5/21/2010 7:09:58 PM


my bff is really stuck up she always brags and she has a new habit of tryin to be all hardcore and be like im gonna stab u with a screw driver.
i honestly dont want to be her friend anymore. i mean im not stupid i know she's talking about me behind my back. but the big problem is when things were fine i told her she could come with me to a taylor swift concert in a few weeks along with my other friend she hasnt paided yet. but soon will i really dont want her to come shes probably going to ruin the concert 4 me and take my friend away from me and make me feel left out while we're there. my mom doesnt no what to do cause she doesnt want to create a bunch of drama. if i all of a sudden say she cant go and bring another friend....HELP ME PLZ!!!!

I'm sorry girl, she sounds like a terrible friend! I think you should try and talk to her about the way that she is treating you. If that doesn't work, then I would say it might be better to avoid her for a while. Hang out with some friends who are actually nice to you.  
Kayla C.

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by beautiful*smart*brunettte on 5/21/2010 6:20:51 PM


I have this guy friend I've known him for about five years now and we became close like a few weeks ago. Well my cousin told him that I thought he was the best looking guy in our grade which is true but when you tell your cousin something it should be kept secret right? So I sent him an email asking if everything was still cool between us and were still friends an he sent me a two wot reply " yeah sure" so my parents checked my email last night and they read my response wich was a little bit gushy and ended with " thanks you're amazing" they were really Mad because religioously I'm not supposed to be suggesting that I like a guy or dating until I'm am adult. So they've taken away my facebook and cell phone. I'm not allowed to email chris anymore and they're really dissapointed in me. But one of my girlfriends Katie who's done a lot of mean things to me really likes him. My Prents think I'm just doing this to make Katie jealous. But I really just like him as a friend
who happens to be cute but my parents are being so unfair, Katie's mad at me, and apperently I'm doing things
aainst my religion. Help me!!

Hey girl, I don't know about your religion but it seems like what you did was pretty harmless. Maybe you could try explaining to your parents that you really didn't intend to do anything, you were just trying to clear up a situation.  
Kayla C.

by Inshyra628 on 5/21/2010 6:13:11 PM


My guy friend likes me as more then a friend, and I kinds feel the same way. He keeps hugging me, and flirting. I don't want to make our relationship weird, but I like him. Is it worth it to have him as a boyfriend, when I really like him More as a friends, then a boyfriend?

by sporty_chique1997 on 5/21/2010 5:54:42 PM


=O everyone has some self-centerness in them. but great job being such a great listener to your friend, i hope she can be one to u!

by broadway*star on 5/21/2010 5:06:16 PM


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by naturallywonderful on 5/21/2010 5:02:22 PM



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by soccergirl524 on 5/21/2010 4:50:22 PM


i feel lk im self centered cause i always talk about what's happening will me!!

by graceygirl77 on 5/21/2010 4:48:50 PM



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by kittylover101 on 5/21/2010 4:43:58 PM


Same with my BFF! She makes it sound like her issues are sooo much more important than mine, when honestly she doesn't even know what I've gone through this year.

by skichick95 on 5/21/2010 4:41:36 PM


aw that stinks

by coly33 on 5/21/2010 4:41:32 PM


some of my friends are like that everyone can be sometimes

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by abrowneyedgirl on 5/21/2010 4:29:33 PM



if ur reading this girl talk column, u obviously care about advice. visit my profile, post me a question(if its super important, put ***** at the top) and ill answer in 3 days(max), guaranteed. if ur profile isn't publicly visible, i'll answer ur questions on MY profile(NOW WITH 2000 PLUS COMMENTS!!!). thanks! pass it on to ur friends!

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by soccergirl524 on 5/21/2010 4:28:08 PM


I need some advice. I really like this guy (let's call him J). This girl told him that I was going to tell him that I wanted him to ask me to prom. I asked him about it and he said that the girl hadn't said anything like that. Would she lie or would he lie? Now it's been almost a month since we've talked and I really miss him. He hasn't been answering my texts and I haven't gotten another chance to talk to him in person. What should I do? It's stressing me out because prior to the incident, we talked almost everyday. I don't want to lose him as a friend. Help me, please!

Hmm...I am not really sure who would lie in this situation. I would say try to find time to go talk to him about it in person. That would be the easiest/most direct thing, I think.  
Kayla C.

by Chellie-Bellie on 5/21/2010 4:21:52 PM


Every one in school says that i'm smart and they say it to me in front of my friends but when they leave, My friends say Ur not smart ur so stupid and the dumbest out of all of us and when i vent my feelings about this they say oh ur such a drama queen and sure it does and laugh how do i stop them without looking like a sob?

That seems like a toxic situation. Friends should not try to bring you down and make you feel bad about yourself like that! 
Kayla C.

by missainemoreland on 5/21/2010 4:14:54 PM

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