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My ex and I broke up recently, and Facebook is making it much harder to deal. My feelings for him are still going strong. I...
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by liv4dance<3 on 8/1/2010 10:48:54 PM


MOD MOD MOD There's a guy that I've been crushing on for about a year and he knows it. I don't know if he likes me or not because all of my friends are like "He likes you!" One of my friends said that she was listening in on one of there conversations and that there were all like "What do you think of Sally?" My name in this story is going to be Danielle, And then they said "What do you think of Danielle?" and then my friend said that he said " She's taken" and then smiled. He's also shown other signs like when I was in line and then a kid in that period butted me and then my crushes name will be Kameron, and then Kameron said " Hey! Let the lady's go first!" and shoved him! He let's me go in front of him but I'm kind of weird and I feel like I'm part of the Nerd Herd. Does he like me or is he just joking and being nice? Sorry for the length! <3


Gosh, boys are so hard to read!  I can't say for sure that I know what he's thinking, although doing favors is always a good sign.  I swear by these tips: for how to tell if a guy likes you. 

Marie H.

by sassygirlh20b on 7/22/2010 8:37:02 PM


MOD!MOD!MOD! okay i like this boy but my bestfriend told my crush that i like him.i was very sad but a day or two he still talked to me and then he sat by me! what does this mean?


Hey! Maybe he likes you Smile

Helen S.

by hp22364 on 7/17/2010 4:44:54 PM


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by carynna on 7/14/2010 9:51:54 AM


- Kiss on the Forehead: We're cute together .
- Kiss on the Cheek: We're friends.
- Kiss on the Hand: I adore you.
- Kiss on the Neck: I want you, now.
- Kiss on the Shoulder: Your perfect.
- Kiss on the Lips: I LOVE YOU...
- Holding Hands: We definitely like each other.
- Holding you tight pressed against each other: I want you.
- Looking into each other's Eyes: I like you, for who you are.
- Playing with Hair: Let's fool around.
- Arms around the Waist: I like you too much to let go.
- Laughing while Kissing: I am completely comfortable with you.
- If you were thinking about someone while reading this, you're definitely
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- Add this to ur favorites after reading!!
Or you will have a bad year of Relationships.
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by gleekgirl6 on 7/9/2010 2:36:17 PM


1. Which is your favorite color out of: red , black , blue , green , or yellow ?

2. Your first initial?

3. Your month of birth?

4. Which color do you like more, b ! lack or white?

5. Name of a person of the same sex as yours.

6. Your favorite number?

7. Do you like Flying or Driving more?

8. Do you like a lake or the ocean more? &n bsp;

9. Write down a wish (a realistic one).

When you're done, scroll down. (Don't cheat!)


1. If you choose:
Red - You are alert and your life is full of love.
Black - You are conservative and a ggress ive..
Green - Your soul is relaxed and you are laid back.
Blue- You are spontaneous and love kisses and affection from the ones you love..
Yellow -You are a very happy person and give good advice to those who are down.

2. If your initial is:
A-K You have a lot of love and friendships in your life.
L-R You try to enjoy your life to the maximum & your love life is soon to blossom.
S-Z You like to help others and your future love life looks very good.

3. If you were born in:
Jan-Mar: The year will go very well for you and you will discover that you fall in love with someone totally unexpected.
Apri l-June: You will have a strong love relationship that will not last long but the memories will last forever.
July-Sep: You will have a great year and will experience a major life-changing experi en ! ce for the good.
Oct-Dec: Your love life will not be great , but ev entually you will find your soul mate.

4. If you chose:
Black: Your life will take on a different direction, it will seem hard at the time but will be the best thing for you, and you will be glad for the change.
White: You will have a friend who completely confides in you and would do anything for you, but you may not realize it.

5. This person is your best friend.

6. This is how many close friends you have in your lifetime.

7. If you chose:
Flying: You like adventure.
Driving: You are a laid back person.

8.. If you chose:
Lake : You are loyal to your friends and your lover and are very reserved.
Ocean: You are spontaneous and like to please people.

9. This wish will come true only if you send this to five people in one hour. Send it to ten people, and it will come true before your next birthday

by colie18 on 7/1/2010 3:06:55 AM


so this guy i like i think likes me back. there was a rumor last year that he liked me and there was another this year. he always looks at me, and i used to sit next to him in class. and i think we both know we like each other, and im wondering why hes not asking me out. and im also wondring if i should do it. HELP!!!


Hey gurlie, you crush could be majorly shy and unsure of whether your really like him or if it is all in his mind. Don't be afraid to make a subtle move to let him know you like him via showing interest in him or going out of your way to talk to him or see him. 

Paige T.

by amazing1114 on 6/26/2010 10:47:28 PM


mod mod mod help!
ok well my boyfriend just broke up with me a couple of days ago, and we have been dating for 9 months! I asked him why he did it and he said he didnt remember! it was only a week ago! i know i should probably get over him but i still have feelings for him what do i do?

That's pretty tough, especially because it sounds like he didn't give you a legit answer.  That's not fair to you... Ask him if you could sit down one day to talk this over again.  Make sure he knows this isn't a plea to get back together, but that you just want a legit answer to why he wanted to break up. 
Katie R.

by Lizzie01408 on 6/25/2010 2:51:30 PM


My boyfriend recently broke up with me the day before school was out. Supposedly he thought that I didn't like him anymore. But I did and it is killing me. I have tried anything to get him off my mind, but I can't. I nearly cry myself to sleep because he was my first boyfriend. (meaning first kiss, first slow dance, EVEN FIRST HUG FROM A BOY) How do I forget him and let him go when we dated for over a year!!! How do I forget him? And nothing seems to help when my dad is really good friends with his mom and they teach together. And everything I say or do gets to our parents and becomes a big argument. And I can't text him or call him because he doesn't have a phone. How do I stay good friends with him and forget our relationship without my parents getting involved??????

by curlyactress on 6/21/2010 9:52:10 PM


I want my crushs # cause we graduating this yr and goin to hs so no year books. I try to be bold but the only bold thing i asked him is if he was going to miss me (he said yes!) so idk how!


Hey girlie, since he's already said he'll miss you then you have a perfect reason to want to see him over the summer. Tell him that you want to keep in touch and exchange numbers.

Lauren T.

by graceygirl77 on 6/18/2010 6:47:45 PM


MOD MOD MOD! what are some signs that a guy likes you? thanks!


If he is making an effort to be around you and talk with you, teases you, and makes eye contact, those are all good signs!  Check out this article for more:

Marie H.

by lollipopgirl98 on 6/17/2010 4:08:45 PM


I was at the beach with my 2 best friends 3 days ago and they decided to text my crush to see if he liked me, he said he liked me at the end of the school year but now he just wanted to be good friends, (he doesn't know I know they texted him because they told him I was asleep). Did he just say that because he was scared or does he really mean it. He acts like he likes me. Now I'm disappointed and confused. Please Help!

Hey girl, 

I know it's always hard to tell with these kinds of things.  Maybe he's just as confused as you are though, and he doesn't know what exactly is going on with his feelings for you right now.  It is possible, though, that it's time to move on from your crush because you do deserve someone who knows he like you just as much as you like him! XOXO 
Fallon M.

by edypedy on 6/17/2010 1:44:29 PM


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by sassykitty60 on 6/17/2010 12:38:40 PM


hahaha!! xD thats me right theree.. everytime I get on facebook I can't help looking at my ex's profile.. but we're still really good friends & still like each other but decided 2 wait.. Tong

by Ana Paola on 6/17/2010 12:31:37 PM



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by soccergirl524 on 6/17/2010 11:21:40 AM


Hey girls!!!! I am totes good at answering qs about boys!!! All my friends come to me for advice! I check my wall many times a day so leave me tons of post and ill answer them ASAP!!!

by dramaqueen92798 on 6/17/2010 11:21:33 AM


okay so my bgf told me that he liked me after textn back and forth for a while. During the conversation he said some of the nicest things any boy as ever said to me and when he asked me whether or not i liked him i couldn't answer because for one i wasn't sure (lol i was really confused about everything) and two he has a gf so i dont wanna be expressing feelings to someone else's bf. so at the end of the day we decided to stay friends, though i realized almost after that i liked him (oh the irony). he texted me first three days straight and we didn't text on the fourth day but he texted me on the fifth day so on the sixth day i decided to text him first but no response! so i waited for almost five days we havn't talked at all. if i can't have him as a bf i still want him as the good friend i had but i don't want to text him after the fact he didn't respond to me. what should i do?

Hey babe, I think you should text him. It shows you're mature about the situation and know what you want. You want him as a friend and you want things to be normal between the two of you, in order for this to be the case, you have to be bold and tell him how you feel, communicate.  
Megan R.

by queenie14 on 6/16/2010 8:19:06 PM


Last summer i met this guy at an overnight camp i went to for a week. on friday (the last day of camp) there is usually a dance. anyway, i noticed him looking at me all week and he asked me to the dance.i really liked him and the problem is when we got to the dance that night i couldn't find him! It was dark and there were TONS of people.He probably hates me now because he probably thought i stood him up. Im going back to that camp this year in a few weeks.If i see him, how do i approach him? I don't want him to be mad. Do i just forget that it happened? HELP!!!

hey girl! He doesn't hate you.  Just be honest and let him know there was a miscommunication!  He'll understand!  
Megan R.

by chocolatebunny12 on 6/16/2010 6:16:14 PM


ok, so i have this crush, and at some times, he seems like he likes me bac as a crush, sometimes he seems like a friend, sometimes he seems to ignore me, and ocasionally, he seems to hate me. he's going to a different skool after the skool year ends, and the nxt time i see him, itz gonna be in high skool, so idk....should i tell him i like him...or not....or express more flirting to him than usual?

Hey girly,

If you're not going to see him for a while, it might be best to just remain friends! I think you should try to keep talking so that you can keep your friendship going in high school! 
Alissa S.

by OMG123 on 6/16/2010 2:49:22 PM


Girl, just get away from that computer. The world has six billion other people in it! Go find someone else, other wise you will never be able to let him go. So get out there and flirt, life does NOT last forever. Plus, if he has already moved on from you, he is just another heart break that this world does not need. Trust me, i haven't met either of you and I already know that you can do better than him.

by bigsis54321 on 6/16/2010 1:57:57 PM



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by soccergirl524 on 6/16/2010 1:18:16 PM


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by sassykitty60 on 6/16/2010 11:06:54 AM


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by RockNROllx3o on 6/16/2010 10:52:24 AM


Well i like this guy and im planning to tell him i do this comming weekend since theres only 3 days left of school. But i dont think he likes me even though my friend says he looks and smiles at me alot i mean i don't know what to do. if i tell him i like him and he doesnt like me then it would be awkward and i would just be disapointed Please help thx

Hey girl,

I think you should ask him if he wants to hang out sometime, and see what he says. That might be a less risky way of finding out how he feels about you! 
Alissa S.

by cutielittlestar on 6/16/2010 10:36:04 AM


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Everyone gets their period at a different age, normally between the ages of 9 and 15. If your mom got her period at 13, it's likely you might get yours around the same time because of genes, but there's no saying that will happen for sure. You could ask a doctor next time you have a checkup, but it seems like everything is normal so far! Check out for all your period Q's!
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by **iheart?**m2 on 6/15/2010 4:46:27 PM


I HAD THIS PROB EXCEPT it was with my cuz we used 2 b really close then he grew up and wen he was 15 or 16 i rarely saw him now he is 22 and i rarely c him but then he deletec his facebook recently i still wish we were closer <3

by emandemf on 6/15/2010 1:57:27 PM


1. Say ur name 10x
2. Say ur mom's name 5x
3. Say ur crushes name 3x
4. then paste this in 4 other spots, if you do this your crush will kiss you on the nearest friday

by ballerina.allie on 6/15/2010 1:30:56 PM


hey i know its tough gf! hang in there cuz the same thing happened to me........we all go through it at some point right?! there will be plenty of guys out there that you will have feelings for but one special guy will make you feel different(in a good way Smile ) from all the others!!!! good luck with everythin sista!

by rachellie24 on 6/15/2010 10:45:32 AM


MOD MOD MOD MOD! i was in a relationship w/ a guy named mike. i was talk'n to a friend (rodney) & he said he will be at a graduation for his brother. i was going too for my cousin. i saw him there & i started have'n feel'ns for him. & later tht day i felt bad bout think'n bout another guy because i hardly liked mike anymore.. so we broke up. the next day i went over to a friends house (devin)& throughout the night i flirted w/ him & i started have'n feel'ns for him. im so confused. awhhh, its crazy how many boys are out there. im not sure wht i should do anymore. im not sure wht i should think anymore. any advice on this?

Hey girl, I think you need to be single for a while. It's totes natural to get crushes on guys, but what divides a crush between a guy worthy of dating is getting to know him and watching those feelings intensify over time. Take some time for yourself and chill with friends for now. All those guys out there? They'll be around when you're ready and certain you've found the right one.

Alyssa B.

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by java on 6/14/2010 6:31:53 PM


Ok this may not be about checking exs facebook
but every time i try to browse a new avatar for my gl profile... it doesnt work!! HELP

hey girl, it could just be your internet connection? 
lauren r.

by java on 6/14/2010 6:22:34 PM


does anyone know of any good summer camps on the east coast??? coed and has to be under 2800 dollars

Hey girl, there are a bunch of different summer camps. It depends what age group you are looking for. Glenelg Country School has an awesome day camp (in Maryland), there's a Circle D Day Camp, and I know there are a bunch of tennis camps in Bethany Beach, Delaware.
lauren r.

by love.sarah.hope on 6/14/2010 5:46:26 PM



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by soccergirl524 on 6/14/2010 5:26:44 PM


Thx very very much for responding, but there is a problem with that. We don't do much of anything with yearbooks, and there are no movie theaters around here. Pool parties are basically unheard of here, and I also don't know whether he likes me or not.
Thx again Smile

Maybe you can throw a party at your house? A small get together with your closest friends.  There has to be SOME way that you two can hang out.  You don't need a movie theater, a pool party, or a yearbook...make your own fun!  But, before you spill your heart out about you liking him, make sure you hang out one on one first! 
Katie R.

by milkyway7117 on 6/14/2010 3:52:52 PM


Tomorrow is the last day of school, and I wanna ask my crush out. Do you mind suggesting some ways that are creative and not completely girly?

If you haven't already signed yearbooks... When you sign his yearbook, ask him out! Or maybe when you're leaving your last class with him, ask him what he's up to this summer, and if you two will be at the same pool parties.  And if you're feeling daring, ask him to a movie! If he doesn't know you like you, don't freak him out by asking to be your boyfriend.  Start with a movie date... and who knows where it will go from there! 
Katie R.

by milkyway7117 on 6/14/2010 3:37:43 PM


To get your mind off your ex at first, you should probaly stay offline. An easy way to do this is to make friends with your girls or family and do activities you love, especially since its summer! And when you hang with them you may even find a cute guy to start a convo with! Good luck!

by LuvYourself on 6/14/2010 3:35:28 PM


just for everyone out there with crushes you should just go for it!

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by sweeto101 on 6/14/2010 1:05:06 PM


ok i want ur opinion on the guy im crushing on.
well ive known him for 2 years and he knows i like him. he just only likes me back as a friend. im almost certain that he liked me last year, but i didnt like him back. (sadly) my bff told me that he may just be getting me back for not liking him last year. so im kinda confused but oh well. the reason i like him, is because hes very funny, and sweet. but he can be mean. luckily hes never been mean to me Smileand whenever he is mean, he only stays that way for short period of time. and i think thats kind of a good quality in a guy because if some other dude starts messing with u, u want him to be protective right? also, hes smart! hes in my g.t. class with me, and we play the same instrument in band. one problem, he makes jokes about smoking weed and getting high and stuff. and im not sure if hes just making jokes to get his friends to laugh, or if he actually does do that stuff. so, whats ur opinion? should i forget him, or wait for him?

Hey girl,

If he only likes you as a friend, maybe you should just concentrate on being his friend. But if you think you're friend's right and he really does like you, try asking him if he wants to hang out and see what he says. As for the other stuff, maybe ask him directly or ask his friends if he does it, and if so, he might not be the best person to hang out with. Good luck!

Alissa S.

by sassykitty60 on 6/14/2010 12:13:47 PM


i was in the same situation as you are. i would just remove him as a friend, thats what i did. and it'll make you stronger and move on.

by carolinedearest on 6/14/2010 12:06:50 PM


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by sassykitty60 on 6/14/2010 12:03:09 PM


wao. i mean ive heard of dat bfor but wow im speechless.

by fashionchicc on 6/14/2010 10:59:34 AM


ok thnx but one of the problems is that i dont have the same feelings for any other cute guy than i did with robert! how can i feel the same way for someone else?

by justinbieber4eva on 6/13/2010 11:42:58 PM


MOD i like my bgf and have decided to tell him because i cant hold it in and i was wondering if there was anything you would think would make it less awkward for both of us?


Hey girl! Just bring it up really casually and not as a big deal. It might help the awkwardness.



Liz L.

by graham14037 on 6/13/2010 10:31:02 PM


ok there's this guy who ive liked for the whole school year, and i liked him like a LOT like i would think about him so much that i wondered if i loved him. but the thing is that hes one of the popular guys, and im sorta the kinda-weird-but-really-pretty girl but at the beginning of the year we met, and i think he liked me just for the first couple months of school but all my friends say that he might have been joking around or trying to lead me on. and i havent tried to talk to him cuz i would get SO nervous around him, like i wouldnt know what to say in order to start a conversation. but five months ago, my friend told me that she told the guy(lets call him robert) that i liked him and he said something like "dude i dont like her" and yet i still liked him! ive really liked him, almost loved him. and since he sed that he didnt like me a long time ago, i wonder if by now hes changed his mind or something because for the last few weeks of school, i would still catch him looking at me. but since its summer now, and i also heard hes not going to the same high school as me(im going into 9th grade) so this means i have to get over him. but i just can't! I still keep looking at his picture in my yearbook, and im like SO sad, almost depressed, that ill never see him again in my life. I really need your advice on how to get over him. thank you so much(sorry if this is so long)


Hey girl! I hate to say it but it's probably best to get over him. The best thing you can do is just find another guy to focus your attention on. I'm sorry!



Liz L.

by justinbieber4eva on 6/13/2010 9:56:04 PM


mod mod
i want to ask my crush out for a first day of summer date. i thought i could ask him to go with me and a few other friends to the beach. my friends are fine with us hanging out together [1 on 1]and having some fun times together [all of us]. is this a good idea?

Hey girl, sounds like it. Just make sure he knows your friends first.

Alyssa B.

by lulurockz on 6/13/2010 8:14:13 PM


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by sassykitty60 on 6/13/2010 7:41:41 PM


Thanks, Alyssa :]

by Kazthespaz on 6/13/2010 5:36:03 PM


I talked to my BFF's cousin on facebook, and he told my BFF that he thought I was pretty cute(from my facebook pics) and funny. The three of us (Him, me and my BFF) are gonna hang out this summer, but I'm afraid he will think I'm annoying in real life or that I only looked good in my facebook pictures, because all the guys I've liked recently have turned me down.

Hey girl, be confident! Not all guys are the same. My suggestion is to not sweat it. Just be yourself. And if he doesn't like you for that? Then he's def not worth your time. You should never have to hide who you are to a guy. 

Alyssa B.

by Kazthespaz on 6/13/2010 5:06:27 PM



if ur reading this girl talk column, u obviously care about advice. visit my profile, post me a question(if its super important, put ***** at the top) and ill answer in 2 days(max), guaranteed. if ur profile isn't publicly visible, i'll answer ur questions on MY profile(NOW WITH 2000 PLUS COMMENTS!!!). thanks! pass it on to ur friends!

~aspiring advice columnist, Lauren

by soccergirl524 on 6/13/2010 4:23:28 PM


I have two problems. Please help?
1. Well, first of all my BF isn't going to be here for more than a month in the summer. We've been dating just over a month, and i really wanna kiss him before he leaves. How/when should I do it? Also,how can I deal with him not being there for that month?
2. My 'friend' likes my BF. She liked him before we began dating, but I never really considered her a real friend. She's quite bossy to be perfectly honest. Anyway, her, another girl, my BF, and I always hung out together before I started dating him. Now, after dating him for a while, those two girls always just invite him places, and never me anymore. They also talk to him about it right in front of me. It makes me feel kind of mad, what should I do?
Thanks!!! Smile


Hey babe,

1. I've done long-distance for two entire summers - it definitely isn't fun.  When you're saying goodbye to your BF for the month, tell him you'll miss him, be careful, you can't wait til he gets back, etc., then just go for it and give him a goodbye kiss.  He'll probably be surprised in an awesome way Smile To get through the month, make sure you call and text a bunch, but also spend time with your buds and plan lots of fun stuff to pass the time.  It'll go by slow, but you'll make it!


2. What really matters here isn't the girls and how they feel about your BF - instead, it all comes down to if you trust your BF.  They can like him and hang out with him all they want, but if you feel confident that he likes YOU and won't be tempted by them, you'll be fine.  Just keep telling yourself that he's your BF, not theirs, and you'll be fine <3

Lauren C.

by NeverLoseHope:) on 6/13/2010 3:44:06 PM


mod mod mod
i really like this boy but hes a year older then me. right now were really the same age but hes 1 grade level higher. i have tried calling him being nice to him and everything else but he just thinks i am a younger weirdo. can i try to get close to him even if hes older?


Hey chica,

This is tough, but you've tried a lot of different ways to get to know him and he hasn't seemed to be very interested.  That's nothing personal - it's just that, right now, age/grade matters so much more than it should.  Instead of focusing only on him, try paying attention to friends, hobbies, and other ways to meet new guys!  You want someone who really likes you for you, not someone who gets all wrapped up in numbers and age!

Lauren C.

by lulurockz on 6/13/2010 3:22:33 PM


Ok so I like this guy. We dated 7 times one and off over the period of 9 1/2 months.He told me that he likes my bestfriend after our lst breakup! I was so upset because I still really like him. Now he and I are not talk but I like him. Last night one of his friends told my friend that he still likes me. The other I saw him at the carnival and he waved. I didnt wave back! I really like him! What do i do?

by lovelessdanceing on 6/13/2010 2:21:54 PM


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by Olivia T. on 6/12/2010 5:51:37 PM


there is this guy i have liked for the hole school year, though i have never been bold enough to ask him out. he is moving in July and i really want to at least tell him i like him but how??



Well, depending on where he's moving, it might not be worth it to ask him out, but to at least tell him you like him, find a time when you can talk, just the two of you, and you can let him know how you feel. The worst that could happen is that he just wants to be friends, and since he's moving away, you can find another guy to like next year. He might be moving away, but some other cute guy could be moving to your town!

emilie b.

by lulurockz on 6/12/2010 10:40:58 AM



if ur reading this girl talk column, u obviously care about advice. visit my profile, post me a question(if its super important, put ***** at the top) and ill answer in 2 days(max), guaranteed. if ur profile isn't publicly visible, i'll answer ur questions on MY profile(NOW WITH 2000 PLUS COMMENTS!!!). thanks! pass it on to ur friends!

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by soccergirl524 on 6/12/2010 10:07:27 AM


ok so it's the end of the school year and the only problem is i need my crushes number! it sounds so simple and easy but in the beginning of the year (when i didnt like him) he asked 4 my number from 3 different ppl and 2 of them didnt even tell me about it and the last on made it like a huge show and laughed at me in skewl when she told her friends. i alrready tried leaving a notecard in my desk with my number and email on it and it was moved 2 a different spot in the desk after he left! i dont want 2 ask his or my friends 2 get it 4 me but im 2 scared to ask my self! what do i do?!
thx so much srry its so long!



Trust me girl, I've had much longer questions, haha! It seems like he likes you, and you like him obvies, so why not ask yourself?! It seems like you don't want to ask your friends or his friends to do it, and it's 2010, and it's just a number, not a date! Casually ask him, and don't make a big deal about it, and you'll feel more comfortable while asking him. Good luck!

emilie b.

by ParamoreRiot on 6/12/2010 6:08:42 AM


I am beginning to consider a career in medecine. I am thinking pediatrician or nurse, but I can't decide which. How do I know which one, or if the medical field is right for me?


Hey girl, you have a lot of time to think about this, consider which one you are most passionate about. Research both occupations and see which one you are most drawn to. 

Paige T.

by jayhawk94 on 6/11/2010 11:01:20 PM


thanks i think i willLaughing How should i ask him????
Thanks again!


Hey girl, why don't you invite him to go out with you to see a movie.

Paige T.

by basketballgirl227 on 6/11/2010 11:00:56 PM


i have liked this guy for the entire school year. its the end if the year and my friends think i should ask him out. i dont know though. im not sure if he likes me. Should i ask him?????????


Hey girl, yes definitely ask!

Paige T.

by basketballgirl227 on 6/11/2010 10:54:33 PM


Hey, the hiding option did not work for me. Broke up with my boyfriend 3 weeks ago. A week after I broke up with him I deleted him from my facebook. A week after that I started dating again. Delete and move on.

by College_Grl on 6/11/2010 9:59:25 PM


Okay, so I have this really sweet bf. And we really want to do something together like a date or something. But the problem is we live in a VERY small town, that has nothing. No movies, we have a a restaurant that isn't very good, and we don't really want to go to each other houses because we kind of just wanna be alone. Do you have any ideas for me? Thank you so much! It means a lot(:


Hey girl, one of my favorite date ideas is to have a picnic with a homemade meal that you guys made together or cooked for each other. Add some music and you guys will have the perfect date. 

Paige T.

by Sk8tergrl12 on 6/11/2010 9:55:58 PM


Today was the last day of school and i hugged my crush!! he said that we'd be buddies and he smiled.. i wanna email him this summer.. but what should i say? I don't wanna sound like a stalker.. haha MOD i need your help! Thanks Smile


Hey girl, it's fine relax, the easiest way to get some kind of convo going is email him but talk about yourself a little to get the message going then you can get into general questions about him or his summer. 

Paige T.

by booklover41597 on 6/11/2010 9:29:23 PM


hey girlies!
I know the GL moderators do a great job of answering questions, but they are busy gals! if you have any questions about tough stuff, school work or anything else, come to my profile and I would be happy to see all your fun profiles and stories

by Olivia T. on 6/11/2010 9:11:22 PM


okay so ive been going out with my boyfriend for like a week now im 15 and hes 16. we live by each other so we get to see eachother a lot!! but sometimes i wish we didnt live so close becasue it seems like i never get any time away from him. like everytime im outside he comes outside wat should i do about that?? and also everytime he calls me on the phone i get SOO NERVOUS. but im notreally sure why. the only time i dont get nervous is when my friends with me we talked for 2 hours last night when she was with me but otherwise it seems like we have nothing to talk about like i cant think of anythingg!!!!and i hate awkward silences!! how do i make it better?? and not get so nervous when he calls!! pllz helpp!! thankkks!!! : )


Hey girl, there is nothing you can really do about your BF living so close to you. Why don't you try hanging out with your BF and your friends as a group until you get more comfortable with him.

Paige T.

by jb4eva94 on 6/11/2010 9:01:43 PM


MOD MOD MOD!!!!! How can I ask a guy out without gossip going around the school..... expeicaly if I get turned down? People like to get into my soical life... I wouldn't mind if he said yes though.


Hey girl, try to not tell a lot of people that you're going to ask him out. Hopefully he'll say yes, but if he doesn't he might not mention it to anyone either. If he does then you can't prevent any gossip that comes, but if he doesn't then it depends on who you decide to tell and if you can trust them not to spread rumors.

Lauren T.

by Pugglegirl1008 on 6/11/2010 8:17:01 PM


that is exactly why i cant stand facebook. it ruins people's relationships and people get obsessed and its annoying.....

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by summerlover0116 on 6/11/2010 7:02:41 PM


oh wow that's harsh, good luck!

by hit.the.surfs. on 6/11/2010 5:31:17 PM


hey im travelin alot this summer and i was wondering if you could reccoment some cute cheap luggage sets?? Like the bug bag and like a carrry on??? Id appreciate if they were pink


Hey girl, I think your best bet would be to check big stores like Target and Kohl's that generally tend to have cheaper things. I'm sure they'll have pink luggage too!

Lauren T.

by rcy9 on 6/11/2010 5:15:50 PM



if ur reading this girl talk column, u obviously care about advice. visit my profile, post me a question(if its super important, put ***** at the top) and ill answer in 2 days(max), guaranteed. if ur profile isn't publicly visible, i'll answer ur questions on MY profile(NOW WITH 2000 PLUS COMMENTS!!!). thanks! pass it on to ur friends!

~aspiring advice columnist, Lauren

by soccergirl524 on 6/11/2010 5:02:47 PM


so its the end of the year and lets put it this way im almost 100 percent sure my crush likes me any good ways 2 flirt ? thanx!!!


Hey girl, make eye contact with him when you're talking to him and always be really interested in what he's saying to you. Smile a lot when you're with him so he knows that being with him makes you happy.

Lauren T.

by soccerhet on 6/11/2010 4:56:52 PM


AMEN!!! skewl iz out !!!!! sixth grade here i come!!!!.

Hanna <33

by soccerhet on 6/11/2010 4:55:21 PM


Mod so ever since my ex i've been trying to look for someone else and it's just hard again because no guy likes me again and i don't know if i should continue looking or not can you give me some advice?
Thank you
Kayla xoxo

There are plenty of fish in the see! Although your ex may have seemed like the guy of your dreams, there are plenty of them out there! You're a great girl, and any guy would be lucky to have you!  Sure it takes some searching, but I promise he's out there someone.  Don't give up! Because it's summer, go to pool parties, and other events where you might be able to meet some guys who don't go to your school- it could be just what you need! 
Katie R.

by redsoxlover on 6/11/2010 4:49:01 PM


I am sorry Frown *hugs*

by sixteengirl93 on 6/11/2010 4:26:28 PM


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by chlojo98 on 6/11/2010 4:09:16 PM


well search no longer because i can answer any question and ill respond with an answer the next day at the latest. So go ahead! post a question!

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by pointeprincess on 6/11/2010 3:11:28 PM


I would be exactly like this if I had a ex-bf and a facebook. But just resist it! Find another guy to obsess over! Don't dwell on the past! Look towards the future! Be in the now! 1 thing. Guys are stupid

by Photochickie on 6/11/2010 2:57:50 PM


I hope your having a great day!
I am having some trouble in the guy department...
This guy i was crushing on asked me out 2 weeks ago. We 'dated' all the way up to yesterday. I broke up with him because i am not so good dealing with emotions and he was going wayy to fast emotionally saying he knew i was the one, and he bought me really expensive concert tickets 2 months from now! I felt like he was going way to fast and i did tell him to take it slow but he didnt listen. So i told him in not ready for a boyfriend yet. I feel so stupid, i am going into highschool and i cant deal with one boyfriend. I wouldn't even let him kiss me because i was to scared! Oh and throw in the factor i think i like hmy ex's best friend a little bit (but my ex's best friend is also my close friend) I am soo confused , am i acting stupid and to naive?
Thanks for your help!

You definitely aren't acting naive... It can be a lot at a young age to hear from someone that "you're the one."  If you told him that you wanted to take things slow, and he didn't listen to you, that's not cool.  From the first kiss, to the first date- everything with dating is very stressful, and you want to make sure that everything is special.  You weren't being lame for wanting to take things slow- he just needs to understand that you don't want to jump into a relationship.  And about your ex's best friend, if he is your close friend, your probably know each other really well, meaning he would probably respect you and would want to take it slow.  Give it a try...but remember to take it slow!
Katie R.

by impossibility on 6/11/2010 1:49:13 PM


don't be his facebook friend

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by wednesday1408 on 6/11/2010 12:30:34 PM


ok,so i want to delete him off my facebook but cant bring myself to do it. what should i do???

by headoverheels34 on 6/11/2010 11:37:45 AM


A few weeks before summer, I found out that a guy that I kinda like, likes me back. But the guy is someone who my friends won't approve of. He's the annoying kid sitting next to me during class. But it's what makes him so much fun to hang out with. That's one of my problems. I don't want my friends to find out that I like him. Or else, they'll ask questions like, "Why are you going out with him?!" and what not.
Another problem I have is that, when we talk on facebook. Sometimes he asks if I'd go out with him. The thing is, we aren't going to be in the same school anymore. So I don't think a long distant relationship is going to last very long, and if I will go out with him, I don't want him telling everyone that used to go to our school knowing, at all. But if I don't go out with him, he'll probably go out with one of my friends because he knows that she likes him.
I dont know what to do. Should I go out with him, or should I just leave out the chance?

Why would your friends not approve, if he likes one of your friends??? I say go for it- your friends might be jealous that someone is crushin' on you.  If he makes you happy (which it sounds like he does), give it a shot! And hey, if things don't work out, remind yourself that it wasn't mean to be!  
Katie R.

by OMGitsalala on 6/11/2010 11:26:28 AM


I want to permanently delete my profile, is therea way you guys can do that? If not, I could just make it private, but could I get my email address back I used to make this profile so I can make a new one? Thankyou, Aubrey

Hey Aubrey, if you e-mail she can help you out! Just shoot her an e-mail with your name, e-mail address, and maybe user name, and she will delete your account for you! 
Katie R.

by Club Tango on 6/11/2010 10:37:17 AM


and also....
NEED TO COME TO MY PROFILE RIGHT NOW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

by savvylula on 6/11/2010 2:10:38 AM


Those are all very good ideas on what you can try to do to get your mind off of him. I dated a guy and then saw a picture like that to of him and another girl and it was so upsetting so I know what you are going through.

What is very tough is that being online is so addicting, especially if you want to check out a site or read facebook or other web pages. I was told by my mom I spend too much time online and then she told me teens today cant go more than a few hours without wanting to be on the computer. I think she is right.

by luckykel on 6/11/2010 12:11:51 AM

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