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My parents always fight!

I love my parents, and they love each other. But when they get mad, they are a millisecond away from ripping each apart. Every vacation is ruined because of this.
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I know what you feel.My famliy is like tat.But some things you should not absoulty do is walk away from when they fight even if it hurts you a lot when they argue.Also try to add nice things into their fight. Even if they yell at you, you should know that will help the situation.never ever ever cry when they argue instead try to help.If one of then is saying that they are going to leave and take one of the cars make them had over the keys and have them take a breather and remind them that it is not good to run away from your problems it will probley even make then worse. if one of them do leave the house just go to your room and do not confrunt the other parent and let them have their space.If you think it is your fault remeber that everyone has bad days and they love you and will always want the best for you.But if they hit you you have to call the police even if you do not want to it may just be the best thing to do.if you call the police tell your parents that is the best thing

by hot cakes on 8/30/2010 12:36:06 PM


My family was thinking of going away for my dad's birthday, but aren't sure if they are going to bring me and my little sister. I really want to come with them. If we don't go, we have to stay with our grandparents. I love my grandparents, but i hate sleeping over their house. I don'tknow why, but its like a fear of mine. I want to get rid of the fear, because i used to get so excited to sleepover there, but recently i don't as much.
How can i convince my parents to bring me on the trip, and how can i stop the annoying fear?


Why are you worried about it? Think about why you have that fear and then try to think about things that aren't scary about it - for example, your grandparents will be there! Smile Maybe you could talk to them about wanting to go and fun things you'd like to do, but don't make them feel too bad if they want a little "getaway." I think it's normal for parents to sometimes go on short vacations alone. And, you'll have your sister with you at your grandparents' house if you go - and you can probably come up with fun things to do!

Vanessa J.

by haleyhay3 on 8/28/2010 12:37:31 PM


when i was 8 my mom was diagnosed with cancer and it spread really far. the doctors said she wouldnt make it past 2 months but its been 7 years which is GREAT! but because it had spread into her bones its never really gone unfortunatly my dad doesnt believe that. he makes her do everything (and me too) he screams at us all the time but never does anything to help. my mom recently got sick again and ive been taking care of her non-stop and my dad hasnt helped at ALL and im NOT exaggerating. the other day pressure got to me and i broke down (in private) and started crying. my dad caught me and said that i needed to face it my mom is dieing (which isnt true.) and that i needed to get over and move on with my life and take care of him because he wont take care of me. my mom has said (and still says) she wants to divorice him but she cant because she needs the insurance and she cant work. i really dont like my dad and ive tried talking to him nicely before. what else can i do?


Hey girlie, you are definitely and a tough situation. I'm so sorry about your mother's illness. I will pray for her. I think you should talk to any other family members like grandparents, aunts, uncles anyone to confront your dad about his behavior. Don't feel like you have to carry this burden alone. 

Paige T.

by froggie1995 on 8/14/2010 11:58:19 PM


Mod. I recently moved to Florida. At first it was pretty hard, but I've made some friends and now things aren't so bad.. until now. My mom wants to send me to a different school then the one all my new friends go to. I'll only know one person there, and it's muchh bigger than my old school. My mom still hasnt registered me at school yet, so there's still some hope that I can go to the other school with my new friends. I tthink I'll be much happier there, but people keep telling my mom negative things about the school I want to go to. They don't mention that the other school is actually worse. I try talking to my mom about it, but she never wants to discuss it. It's really frustrating. I know she just wants whats best for me, and to be happy, and I really think I'd be better off at the school I want to go to!! What should I do?? :/


Hey girl, you should def sit down and have a serious talk with your mom, and try to reach an agreement.

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by soccer babe <3 on 8/10/2010 10:31:34 AM


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I've known my step-dad since I was 5.And my mom and him have been recently fighting,and they put me in the middle!My mom hangs out with her friends every week and my step dad always says "Im sick and tired of her going out.When am I gonna get to do something?All she does is go to bars probably"And thats not true!Im always shocked to hear that!And my mom alawys says "He never lets me do anything!!!"and more things like that.I don't want them to fight,they had my brother together and he's only 2 and I don't want a huge custody battle either!Can you help please?Please don't say most kids parents break up/divorce.I need help fast!

Hey girl, what your parents are doing to you isn't fair at all. While most couples have fights (so it doesn't necessarily mean they're going to get a divorce or separate), it isn't right for them to put you in the middle of an adult conflict. Explain to your parents that it hurts you to see them argue and that you don't want to be in the middle anymore. Let them know how much it hurts you — chances are they don't realize the effect their behavior is having on you and the rest of your fam.

Alyssa B.

by Randafanna2 on 8/9/2010 10:32:56 PM


Mod Mod Mod:
This is so embarrassing ,but I have two moms who are married to each other. I am so happy for them ,but I don't like to invite my friends over thinking they might make fun of me. What should I do?

Hey girl, that's great first of all, and I'm happy for your parents. It can be hard when your parents' lifestyle is a bit different for your friends, but trust me, if you tell them ahead of time, they will be polite. I've had friends come out to me, and while it took me a while to get used to, once I did, it became no big issue and just normalized. Your mothers def want to meet your friends and be part of your life though.

Alyssa B.

by texter11 on 8/9/2010 10:04:27 PM


Uhhh some one help me!!! Post some thinr on my page...this is my story my rents told me if I had a good mood they would buy me a car so I had a good mood still no car! Then they told me save up money so I did and noooo car then they told me to clean my room and no car!!! I can't stand my family and I am sick of them never Doing what they say What should I do????

by sydy_kidy on 8/8/2010 9:53:47 PM


Mod mod mod my brother wont stop fighting with me! i try to be nice and then just blow up help!


Hey chica! Ugh, brothers can be so obnoxious sometimes (or, all of the time!). Have you told your parents about this? Not to be a tattle tale, but sometimes sibs just need the rents to tell them what's up, rather than you having to deal with it. You could try doing something super nice and unexpected for your brother to help him out, and see how he reacts after that. If that doesn't work, then I would ignore him and walk away when he starts fighting with you. I know it can be hard, but don't give him the time of day if he's going to treat you like that.


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by purseluver on 8/2/2010 1:44:41 PM


MOD MOD MOD!!!!! OK my dad says grow up to me and stop being a baby sometimes im a little childish but my friends say were not kids anymore im 11 years old for a few months ive been now but am i still a kid??

Hey girl, as someone who's 19 (and whose parents still consider her a kid), I'd say yes — but that's not a bad thing! Enjoy being a kid because you really are only a kid once. It's not bad to be 11. Make the most of it and know you'll be a kid for a while but that's totally alright.

Alyssa B.

by bigpandabearhug1 on 8/1/2010 5:07:59 PM


MOD!MOD!MOD! I hv a big prob tat is my dad.He is a total drunk and i want to get away from him.He does not fulfill my needs nd causes violence .I just want to get away from him and plead my mom to divorce wid him but she wont listen to me...i just dnt want to waste my teenage struggling with my dad.PLEASE HELP!!:[


Talking to your mom was a good step. You could try again, making sure you speak with her in a respectful and polite tone about why you have a problem with your dad. Maybe you could also talk to your dad about how you feel about the things he does- drinking, violence, etc. It's not OK to have to deal with these things, especiailly violence!! Talk to a counselor or psychologist if you need help, too.

Vanessa J.

by Pri-rockz on 7/31/2010 3:08:46 AM


MOD ok im so SAD! my dads brother came from iraq hes ok and they planned to go to a baseball game my brother him and my dad are going im sad cause he siad i couldnt come and they keep talking abought like glueting well it sounds like it and i feel completely awful! he wants to bring back a souvenier but i was mad i said to my brother (bear with me) I DONT WANT A STUPID SOUVEINIER and if i do got one ill throw it away i feel really sad btw i said it to my brother not my dad. last year i missed another one too so sorry for my ranting on and on its tomorow and my grandma says we'll go somewere fun but i dont want to. sorry! so long

Hey! They're being unfair to you, you're right. I think you should ask them why you aren't allowed to come. It could be because they just want some quality guy time. While it's mean that they're excluding you, you can't make them invite you so I think you should let your dad know that you'd really like it if you guys could go to a game another time. Good luck!  
Helen S.

by chewygummybear on 7/30/2010 1:22:27 AM


MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD plz answer asap1!!!
I am using my brothers computer bc mine was struck my lightning... I was typing in a web address And I found a website I had never heard of so i clicked on it and I it a porn website.... WHAT DO I DO??? i can't ask my brother bc he is with his friend for teh rest of the week...


Hey girlie IDK if you have a virus or not and have know way of finding out so you have to wait for your brother to come back.

Brittany B.

by binkysbaby on 7/29/2010 1:22:47 PM


They are puttng a roundabout thing in where I live, and my mom hates it. She's always complaining about it. wheneer there is something she doesn't like, she complains about it to everyone. I have tried to tell her that being negative about everything won't help at all (in the nicest possible way.) she either tells me I'm wrng and I don't know what I'm talking about, or tells me to stop having attitude. It jut really annoys me that she has to complain about every little thing because it makes her grouchy all of the time, and she tends to take her anger out on other people. Is there anything I can do because it doesn't seem like she will ever listen to me if I talk to her.


Hey girlie,

First off, just know that your questions mean a LOT to me and I’m always here if you need help! Unfortunately, I’m really super busy with modding right now so I can’t give the time to each question that they deserve Frown But there are lots of girls on who offer great advice on their profiles, so if you take your Q there I’m sure they’ll give you great tips on your sitch. Thanks so much for understanding, lovely! <3


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by colorCute4 on 7/25/2010 3:20:05 PM


MOD MOD MOD ok so my phone has been acting up lately and i asked my mom if we could go to the store and see if i can get a new one but alot of people said it is happening to them too so i was just going to see if i could get a new phone. when i told my mom i was thinkin about that she said ok and when i started looking up phones i told her i should have waited because i got my phone for free with a special at tmobile but now she is saying that i am being ungrateful for the phone that i have and that other people have worse phones then me . now she keeps telling me that i am being ungrateful for all the things that i do have even though i pay for some of it. i dont think that i am ungrateful but she does how do i get her to stop thinking that and by the way i am not good with talking it out. HELP please!!!!

Hey girl! Think about all the other girls out there who aren't lucky enough to have a phone at all. Sorry, you're not going to want to hear this, but while your phone is making you angry and upset, you will get a new one eventually.  Try to keep it in perspective, and your frustrations will lessen.  
Megan R.

by iluvcheer217 on 7/21/2010 8:26:45 PM


ok so i have a prob that i need help coping with. ok so last august my dog died of lyme diesese. that was tough. then last november we got a new dog, simon. well we found out today simon has a tumor. and if we dont do anything in 6-10 months hes gonna die! im heartbroken and i just cant go through the pain of losing another dog. they said one upside is that the tumor is slow growing and they have time to get him better but they never know. if he passes i am never gonna want another dog! i am so sad. please help me!

Hey girl, dogs are amazing. They become like members of the family, and I'm so sorry to hear about your luck with the diseases and for your loss.  Try to hang in there, make sure you and your family are supporting one another and can talk about it together. Just because Simon has a tumor does not mean he will pass away, but if he does it shouldn't make you afraid to have a dog.  Things will turn around, not all dogs get diseases and many live for up to 14 or 15 years! Stay strong, write down how you feel, and stay communicating with your fam! I feel for you babe!  
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by ilovepoms72 on 7/21/2010 12:45:05 PM


I am so sorry! Follow the MOD's advice, it is good advice. And yes; be careful when they are fighting... since you said you get abused/voilence occurs, get away from them when they are fighting. Stay strong! I am wishing you the best!

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by fit girls on 7/20/2010 3:05:07 PM


I really HATE my mom! She never would let me go to sleepovers, and when i organize a plan on the computer on a virtual online game (which is a lik time sonce we are ALWAYS of scheduele when we get home) and then she spits a chore at my face! Whenever I try to ask her can i ask her a lil question, she doesnt have time for me! But right after that she has like a 10 minute conversation with my sis! And when I PMS she either says stop my whinning or she yells at me (i dnt have period yet)! What the heck am supposed to do?

Hey girlie, It sounds like you and your mom should try having a talk. It can be really hard to get along with parents, but remember that she loves you! I think you should tell her you need to talk to her and let her know what's bothering you about your relationship! 
Alissa S.

by Kikikim8 on 7/19/2010 12:24:11 AM


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by Arielsabina on 7/17/2010 10:24:22 PM


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I need help. So, my mom decided that she and I should move to Florida at the end of this past school year. We moved down here at the beginnning of the summer. It's been hard being away from the rest of my family.. I miss them all so much.. Some days I feel okay, and other days I just break down & cry 'cause I miss my family and friends so much. I know my mom decided to move here 'cause her and my dad fight a lot.. I just don't feel like myself. I get angry at my mom all the time, about the dumbest things. I know I'm probably just taking my frustration and sadness of moving here out on her, which isnt right. I HAVE made SOME friends here, but I'm feeling even more stressed and scared about the up-coming school year as the days go by.. & I haven't even told my best friend I'm moving here yet. I feel like I have no one to talk to, and that no one understands what I'm going through. I don't know what to do.. please help.


Hey girl, that sounds really tough! Maybe you could talk to your mom about how you're feeling. While it's unlikely you'll move back to your friends and other family members, it would probably be good if she understood how you felt. You should also tell your best friend and other friends, but agree to keep in touch online and through handwritten notes. In the meantime, hang out with the friends you have in FL and don't be too worried about school - if you already made friends during the summer, it's probably even easier to make friends during school! If you really need someone to talk to, other than your mom or a friend, you could look into talking to a counselor if you think that might help. Maybe after you talk to your mom about the sitch, you can set up a trip to go to your original home state for a visit with everyone. 

Vanessa J.

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by ilovepoms72 on 7/15/2010 4:48:25 PM


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i don't get along with my mom very well and i was wondering what are some good ways to start a good relationship with her so we can stop fighting


Try to see her point of view on everything you argue about.  And tell her that you want to try to improve your relationship so the effort is comin from both of ya
Brittany B.

by aero12 on 7/15/2010 9:41:32 AM


MODMODMODMOD!!!! My birthday is tomorrow and I don't want anything besides gift cards and to take 2 of my friends to a movie and ice cream. Problem is I over heard my parents about having to file bankruptcy. I already knew we were having money problems and my parents always tell me to let them worry about it but now I'm afraid to ask tem about the movies!


Hey! I'm so sorry to hear that! It never hurts to ask, but just prepare yourself mentally that they might have to say no. Try to be understanding and have a good time on your birthday anyway. A cheaper alternative would be renting a movie for you and your friends to watch at home. Good luck!

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Fruits are actually pretty sweet Smile What I like is to cut up some strawberries and bananas and maybe some grapes and put them into a cup. Then, I drizzle on some chocolate syrup Smile) It's delicious and mostly nutritious
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by fashionchicc on 6/30/2010 1:28:29 PM


thats horrible!! when my parents fight my sister and me always thinks its our fault and makes us fell really bad!

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by BelieberBeasts on 6/29/2010 11:38:00 PM


****MOD**** Okay so this a wierd question but here it goes. THere is this guy and he used to be my cousins cousin. So like my second cousin or something. But my cousins parents got divoriced so he isn't related to me anymore. I think i may like him, would it be totally inapropriate or what?


Hey babe, It doesn't matter if there was a divorce, it sounds like he's still a blood relative, so that's definitely not okay. Even if he isn't, it's still a bad idea to mix family and romance. Even if there was a divorce, everyone involved is still your family and will still be in your life, which can be incredibly awkward if you break up.

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by Cali_Babe on 6/29/2010 11:05:50 PM


parents wnt get arrested so nothin to worry bout there

but they cud go to counseling (marrige counseling)

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by soccergirl524 on 6/29/2010 4:53:18 PM


MOOOOODD! I started my period today, and I'm soooo hungry! Well it's not that I'm hungry, I just want to eat! I've eaten half a tub of cool whip, lots of ice cream, a chocolate bar, and for lunch I had a big ol plate of spaghetti! Is this normal/? Please help! How can I stop my cravings??? Thanks!

When you have your period, your body is out of whack.  Make sure you aren't eating unless you really are hungry.  Try drinking liquids to keep you hydrated (sometimes people mistake hunger, for dehydration).  Having these cravings are totally normal (most girls usually crave chocolate!)  
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by lyc13 on 6/29/2010 4:39:01 PM


First comment?!
*MOD* So i have been exercising a fair amount lately but I have problems with the food. I just got my liscense and a starbucks giftcard (my 17th bday is thursday Smile)so I drive to starbucks a lot, and there are sweets at my house and I will eat them. It's like I need sugar. I can eat healthy just not when it comes to sugar. Any tips on how to stop eating so much sugar?

by Cali_Babe on 6/29/2010 4:38:38 PM

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