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Should I dump my bragging best friend?

My best friend and I have been friends for 6 years. The thing is, she is always trying to be better than me (and she's succeeding, too.)...
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i used to have a friend like that it was really annoying.

by BlackDragon on 10/24/2010 8:04:08 PM

 
 

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by CHEERR on 10/23/2010 2:49:30 PM

 
 

i know how u feel

by fcutiebee16 on 10/21/2010 4:17:27 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD Last year I had two great best friends but this year one of them I don't see anymore and the other one has ditched me for a new set of friends. I made the huge mistake of hanging out with just them and a few other people last year and so this year I'm all by myself. I've started hanging out with some of my friends that I really didn't talk to last year but I feel like I'm pushing into their group and being annoying. This year has been really tough for me and I really need a best friend but now I don't have one! What should I do? Thanks(:

 

 

Hey girly girl! I would continue to hang with your other friends and invite them places. Why not have everyone over to your house for a sleepover? Make an effort to include yourself in their group by planning events for everyone to get together. That should help you fit in better. Also, why not join some other activities/sports to meet some more people? And, that's not just limited to school... you can join community activities, like a youth group, or take a class at a local arts center. You'll meet lots of new people Smile

xxx

Becca G.
Becca G.

by teenagegirl on 10/17/2010 6:58:15 PM

 
 

I want to get in the popular crowd, how do I do it?

by CcGrace on 10/16/2010 6:33:04 PM

 
 

MOD!
My BFF is really weird. She is loud and obnoxious and really embarassing. Alot of people dont like her because she is irratating and shes not a very good friend. She doesnt care about what I have to say she just waits for her turn to talk. Whenever I try to talk to her about this she gets really upset. I only like her because I need a friend and there isnt any better friends there for me. What do I do?

 

Hey girl,

This isn't a very good attitude about your friend! However, a good friendship does involve both people talking and listening to the other one. I know you've said you've talked to her before about not listening, but maybe you could let her know that it hurts your feelings when you feel like she isn't listening to what you're saying, or that you want to listen to her but you also want to be listened to. When she gets upset, you can let her know that it's OK and you are looking forward to the change in the future.

 

Maybe instead of focusing on her bad qualities and why other people don't like her, though, you can think of some of the things you like about your BFF. Somehow you became friends, so there must be something cool about her! Just because other people think she's obnoxious doesn't mean you have to think that, too! You could even try to prove them wrong by having fun with your BFF, which would show that she's a cool person to hang out with.

Vanessa J.

by shyningstar on 10/16/2010 2:06:12 AM

 
 

***MOD***MOD***MOD***
Okay this is going to be long, so my apologies in advance. I've always had a lot of friends. But I've never had any close friends. I have a lot of stress in my life and while girls dump gossip on my that I do NOT want to listen to, I keep quiet and keep my mouth shut. I finally found a great friend who wants to help me. My dilemma? She is always busy. She goes back and forth through boy friends, has band, softball, choir, cheer leading, and she has a super busy family. So she wants to help, but is always busy. I NEED to talk to someone. I need a friend but I'm starting to think I'll never have one. She is the best friend I have and I see her for maybe 10 minutes each day. Even if she does, by some miracle, finally get to talk one on one with me, how do I open up to her? I have very low trust in people.
I'm sorry its so long, but I need help :*(




hey when you get a chance to talk to her be like hey do you have a sec, i need to vent to someone? I'm sure she'll let you open up to her Smile 

Helen S.

by kjl1513 on 10/14/2010 4:55:35 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD MOD Why do people trust me with their deepest personal secrets? What if I accidentally let one slip? The girls at my school LOVE to gossip.(including me.. i know, pretty bad right?)It would eventually get back to the person who told it to me. HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

 

Hey girly! I already answered the first part of this question in your first post. I would try my hardest not to slip up. Gossip can be tempting, but it only comes back to hurt you in the end. After all, if the other girls are gossiping with you about other people, then they most likely would gossip about you too when you're not around.

xxx

Becca G.

by pineapple14 on 10/13/2010 7:29:55 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD MOD Why do people trust me with their deepest secrets? Is it just my appearence or is it that I'm just that trustworthy? I have kept too many secrets!! What happens if I accidentally let one slip? HELP!!!!

 

 

Hey chica! It's probably because people feel comfortable with you, and feel like you're a good person. Which is a huge compliment to you, of course!

xxx

Becca G.

by pineapple14 on 10/13/2010 7:24:02 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD MOD PLEASEE HELP! i have this friend who is acting so annoying! she always pushes me and my friends around and like since her locker is next to min she like pushes me into my locker, spins my lock around while im doin my combo so i have to start again, and takes my things from me at lunch or at my locker!!!!! i dont know if shes just being playful or mean! its so annoying! she can be my friend sometimes but when shes not i get so annoyed!!! sometimes i ignore her but she like pushes me until i talk!!!!!!!! i hate it cauz i always get hurt!!! ( not severly but like it just hurts for like a few mins) HELP ME PLEASEE!!!!




Hey girl, you need to have a heart-to-heart with her. Tell her what she's doing is hurting you — physically and mentally. She may not know her joking is going a little too far. If it's not joking, and she's doing it purposely,  I'd suggest sticking to your other friends. True friends don't treat each other like punching bags.

xoxo
Alyssa B.

by laughlots on 10/12/2010 6:16:00 PM

 
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