MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD. This summer I was growing a friendship with a girl who made me laugh and I had very good times around her. In August I lost contact with her for a good while - I later found out from a trustworthy friend that this "friend" of mine had called me a 'greasebag' behind my back. Now we're back in school again, and I always find that she looks at me as if I'm a puny little speck. Its as if she forgot all of our good times together in a wink! Now the same girl is hanging out with my best friends more.. I want to know how to become friends with her again so that I can join in when my best friends & her hang out. I hope you can help me with this crazy situation! xoxo, taylorswiftfan

 

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I have a friend who is making some really poor decisions in life, she is one of my best friends, and i am really worrying, i promised not to tell anyone about her problems, what should i do??

 

Even though you told her you wouldn't tell anyone, sometimes telling someone trustworthy is the better thing to do, especially if the decisions are really hurting her life and will have bad long- or short-term effects. I would talk to your mom about the problems to see what she can do. Let her know that you weren't supposed to tell anyone, but you need help and trust her to help you know what's best for your friend. I wouldn't talk to other friends at school about your friend's problems, though. You could also try to talk to your friend about the decisions she is making or suggest that she talks to someone if she is going through a rough patch.

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hi!this year one my besties from middle school (we've been buds since 6th grd) and i went to different HS's (lets call her amy). My other friend from elementary school (who i've stayed close to) went to the same high school as my other bud (lets call her mary). so i was talking to "amy" on the phone the earlier and i mentioned something about how mary and i were talking and their APHG class was way ahead of ours. anyway, it ends up mary sits behind amy in math and amy thinks she a weirdo! when she asked her last name and i told her, her immediate response was "wait does she have some acne on her nose and not wear any makeup?"enough said. she told me how mary is obnoxious, etc which bothered me cuz ive known her since kindergarten and shes a great friend. amy is just being judgemental and she doesnt even know this girl! i dont know what i should do cuz i don't want to start a rift but i dont want her judging mary. i doubt she'll give her a chance. any advice? thanks so much! xoxo

mod we had to split up into groups in social studies today. There was no paper near my desk before we split up, but when I can back there was a yellow paper near it. One of my guy friends told me that something bad was written about me on it. It seems like he might have a crush on me(I know this not just from this experience). Do you think he was trying to tell me something?

 

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I want to be the best friend ever- i've made some big mistakes with my friends, so i really want to make up for it, i want to start over. How can i be an amazing friend ?

You have to be there for your friends. Always be supportive and always be willing to listen. Also NEVER talk behind their backs. EVER. It always back fires. If youre sweet and honest and a good listener, youll be a great friend. Good luck! xoxo kerra