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i have this same problem, im desperate...
Hey girlie, don't be too anxious about it. It will come when you meet the right guy and you feel ready. Until then, just keep meeting guys and getting to know them.
by iluvsqrls5 on 7/7/2013 5:44:34 PM
It's fine! It's better then going off and really doing SOMETHING
People are so dramatic there is nothing wrong with it
and it is NOT a sin
by redvelvetluv on 2/14/2013 9:05:16 PM
by fashionqn on 2/7/2013 2:20:54 PM
It's not gross it's better then actually having u know what
If anything I think it helps just make sure u wash your hands
Its not something to be ashamed of a lot of girls do it
Don't worry I think in a way in it helps With hormones
by redvelvetluv on 1/11/2013 3:34:27 PM
Omg, I've been doing this since I was really little (at first it was accidental), and I always thought I was crazy or sick! But after reading some articles on this site, I realized that what I do is normal and perfectly fine. I really must thank girlslife for the help it gave me. Meghan D.
by radkid985 on 9/29/2012 1:42:11 PM
by Rainbows_rawr on 7/5/2012 6:49:58 PM
by Danerka on 4/5/2012 5:21:33 PM
If you have a bf or are just attracted to them I think simulating sex and acting it out is going to happen. I think its natural and as long as you dont simulate it too much(like that is all you think about)its normal. My mom never said I was going to do it but we did talk that I would wonder what it feels like and simulating it, but not doing it, with a guy is a safe way to be curious without getting pregnant.
Guys have their way and we have ours, and its just a part of growing up.
by luckykel on 2/6/2012 3:01:33 PM
Simulating Sex is Natural, Safe, and Fun in my opinion. It's human nature to feel like that, but please wait until you find that special someone to actually have sex. Although everyone has different beliefs and views, and I's important to respect them all.
I definitely choose this over getting pregnant or diseased.
I love how this website is open to actual issues, like so.
by GermanGirlsFTW on 1/31/2012 5:35:15 AM
im dealing with the same thing to and i feel sick and still doing it
by redkeys on 1/21/2012 11:08:00 AM
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