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My BFF is being a meanie

Bugged by BFF I’ve known my best friend for five years. She can be fun, but then she’ll be rude and mean. She’s smart...
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My friends are starting to show their true colors
1.) lesley, one of my friends, is hanging out with FREAKS! and im not judgeing he other friend its just a Bi-atheist-emo chick lashing out for attention @ my skool she doesn't have a good rep. and i just want to yell and scream at lesley because she thinks im stupid for not being friends with the atheist chick. im just fed up.
2.) Hayley, THE HUMAN COPY MACHINE! she copys everyone,everything, everystyle, EVERYTHING . my guy friend drake doesnt lock his locker he thinks its to much of a hassle to try and unlock it after class (lazy haha) but when hayley saw how much i liked to mess with drake about it she started not locking hers. weird? thts not it. i kept thinking how weird it was so i tested her, i tld drake lock ur locker for a couple days i wanna see what hayley does, i told hayley "drake said to start locking ur locker" AND SHE DID!


I so wish I could offer some great advice. Unfortunately since I’ m not an expert on the

matter, I don’ t want to point you in the wrong direction. Try having a chat with the good

old ‘ rents. I’ m sure they’ ll be more than happy to help you get things squared away.

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Helen S.

by bridoll on 2/26/2011 2:14:54 PM


that happens with me and my best friend all the time. in my situation, my best friend is hurt easily and thinks im insulting her when im really not, so if you politely ask her why she is being mean, then maybe you'll find out something you said hurt her feelings.

by nikkiisawesome on 2/21/2011 11:10:29 AM


MOD MOD MOD! my friend of 13 years is changing a lot. me, my sister, and two of my neighbor besties have noticed that things 'mysteriously' disappear when she comes over. uh-oh. we've had multiple accounts of missing (and pricey) items randomly showing up at here house... and we didn't put them there. and one of my friends got a butt dial from her hearing her mom yell at her for shop lifting something! that friend told her dad about her missing face wash/ foundation showing up at her house and he told her not to invite her over again. how can i get my friend to quit stealing? it's really important to me. thankyou.



Hey chickadee! I would sit your pal down and let her know how concerned everyone is. Let her know that you're all there for her, but if she keeps taking things from you, it's going to be hard to still be her friend. And, maybe mention it to her mom, to let her know how serious it's gotten.


Becca G.

by soccercastle on 2/20/2011 6:24:59 PM


Can you please help me?
I have two friends. One's really selfish and the other is slowly becoming really mean. They're trying to make me watch movies I don't want to watch and get really mad at me when I don't want to lie to my parents. What can I do? I'm already fighting with them and they've begun calling me a baby. I don't want to be friends with them anymore... I'm really confused.

Helen S.

by thecheshirecat119 on 2/20/2011 2:05:23 PM


MOD! PLEASE HELP ME!!! I'm running out of skin. And patience. Whenever I joke around with my best friend, she gets really violent and punches me. Recently, she punched me in the somache and the arm... Twice. I'm really starting to get sick of it and now I'm taking my anger out on my family.
Would you consider this bullying? If so, is there a way to stop it? I really don't want to loose my best friend.

Hey girl, I would definitely consider that bullying. She's no friend if she's hurting you physically. Trust me when I say she's not worth holding onto as a friend. You need to talk to an adult about the way she treats you because it's not OK. Distance yourself and seek other people; get involved in new activities. Friends NEVER hurt each other physically.

Alyssa B.

by guineapiggirl101 on 2/15/2011 11:46:31 PM


MOD MOD MOD My friend (lets call her S) was mi bff but now shes being realy rude 2 me. She just got back 2 skool from the flu & has been hanging out with 2 mean gals (lets call them P & H). & S keeps telling me 2 b P's friend even tho P is a TOTAL JERK 2 me! Bfor this S use 2 b nice, caring & goody-2-shoes. & mi new bff (lets call her K) told me that S was saying realy rude stuff about me bhind mi back. I think that K told me that S said that I was being a TOTAL J-E-R-K 2 every1. I asked about 4 ppl if I was being rude at all & they all said no. & bcause of that, I dont wanna b S's friend anymore. 1 of my other friends told me 2 just ignore S but its realy hard 2. Do u think that I should still b S's friend? If not plz tell me how 2 tell S that I dont wanna b her friend. Ty very much From, Rach



Hey chickadee! I would confront S about it, and let her know what you're hearing. Also, tell her how you feel about S, and how rude she is to you!


Becca G.

by 1willynilly1 on 2/13/2011 5:36:38 PM


This has happened to me before, and this is what you should do: when she is being nice and you guys are having fun bring up something like "Hey, you know ________? The other day she was being kinda mean to this one kid just cause she ___________! I felt kinda bad."
Then after she responds say something like "The other day I kinda felt like you were kinda doing the same thing." and then is she laughs or doesn't agree with you say something like "No, Im serious, It kinda made me feel bad" (you can word it how ever you want) Then if she goes off on you make sure to stay calm and DO NOT yell back. that will just make things worse. and if she wont stop, just walk away. That's right, I said just walk away and try again next time.

by pianist11240 on 2/1/2011 8:13:59 PM


Mod help me! me and my bffl are in a big fight right now, and she sent me an angry email saying "i will never talk to you again!" I've done everything to try to apoloize, but nothing is working. I'm so confused and sad I can't bear the thought of us not being friends. Should I make up or let go? HELP!

Hey girlie. Sorry to hear about your situation. I'd let her have a little time for herself right now so she can cool down. In the meantime, think about how important her friendship is to you. If you want to continue this friendship, keep trying to apologize and talk to her. The more that she sees you trying, the more likely she'll be to forgive you. 
Marly Z.

by ilovedance32000 on 2/1/2011 9:15:09 AM


I have a friend that I have been with for 10 years (I'm twelve and I met her when I was two) and she has been amazing for 9 of those years. But this year, she changed completely. All she does is hurt me, physically and emotionally. She just turned into a complete jerk. She always has to be right, and I can't. I don't know what to do. I've been trying to tell her to stop but she just doesn't listen! She's very strong about her own opinions, and she doesn't listen to anyone else's, especially mine. I don't know what to do anymore.
Sorry it's long but PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!!

hey! it can be hard but it's time for you to move on: 

Helen S.

by livvy ann on 1/30/2011 1:23:05 PM


okay so ive been friends with this girl for almost 4 years but she has severe jealousy issues and gets mad easy so i went over my friend house and she came and sd can i come too then i sd no cuz i was invited i cant just invite other people sorry :/ then she sd were not friends and avoids me at school and i miss her so much that i burst out crying in class that she is in also and now she talks behind my back and says she is gonna smack me in the face! I dont wanna tell my mom and she always asks HELP!!!!!! i still wanna be friends but when she's mad she does this and all my friends say dont be friends with her but i really want too!!!! :"(

by gummydinosaurs on 1/27/2011 2:12:15 PM

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