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by artsy1997 on 12/15/2011 5:50:04 PM
by impi on 9/28/2011 7:37:04 PM
I need help
I have the same situation, bu I'm the meanie. I just lost my 3 best friends and I feel so bad I anm changing but I need help. How do I get them back???? please help me!!
by scissorluv101 on 8/7/2011 10:51:00 PM
My BFF is the EXACT same. She can be mean, but she can also be really nice. She stopped being friends with one of my other BFF's because they were lying to each other. I'm still friends with both of them, but when one of them finds out that I was at the other person's house, they freak out on me. Another one of my BFF's is really close to the one that can be mean. She can be mean too. One time, they gave me part of a piece of gum that was one yard long. They said they had saved it for me. I figured something was wrong with it. I took it anyway, though. I didn't think there was anything they could do to it. I put it in my mouth, and they started laughing at me. Turns out, it had been in the garbage for about an hour. I was mad! A week ago, they ditched me when we went shopping: We rode our bikes. On our way back, I looked behind me. They were gone! I want to tell them that I don't like the way that they treat me, but I'm afraid. HELP PLEASE!!!!!!!
by 7jsoodsm on 7/18/2011 8:20:27 PM
by Girl8 on 7/12/2011 11:36:24 AM
by MaddieGirl2012 on 7/6/2011 9:22:31 AM
I just had an issue yesterday. I thought my friend was my friend but i found out in the beginning of the year she was writing notes about me with curse words on it i got so upset at her and she now thinks im her bestie. how can i break the news to her that i dont like her anymore?
by soccer911 on 5/18/2011 5:18:02 PM
by BumbleBee247 on 4/23/2011 1:43:47 AM
by ckse820 on 3/14/2011 3:21:54 PM
by SelenaTisdale22 on 3/1/2011 12:25:40 AM
by bridoll on 2/26/2011 2:14:54 PM
that happens with me and my best friend all the time. in my situation, my best friend is hurt easily and thinks im insulting her when im really not, so if you politely ask her why she is being mean, then maybe you'll find out something you said hurt her feelings.
by nikkiisawesome on 2/21/2011 11:10:29 AM
by soccercastle on 2/20/2011 6:24:59 PM
by thecheshirecat119 on 2/20/2011 2:05:23 PM
by guineapiggirl101 on 2/15/2011 11:46:31 PM
by 1willynilly1 on 2/13/2011 5:36:38 PM
This has happened to me before, and this is what you should do: when she is being nice and you guys are having fun bring up something like "Hey, you know ________? The other day she was being kinda mean to this one kid just cause she ___________! I felt kinda bad."
Then after she responds say something like "The other day I kinda felt like you were kinda doing the same thing." and then is she laughs or doesn't agree with you say something like "No, Im serious, It kinda made me feel bad" (you can word it how ever you want) Then if she goes off on you make sure to stay calm and DO NOT yell back. that will just make things worse. and if she wont stop, just walk away. That's right, I said just walk away and try again next time.
by pianist11240 on 2/1/2011 8:13:59 PM
by ilovedance32000 on 2/1/2011 9:15:09 AM
by livvy ann on 1/30/2011 1:23:05 PM
MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD!!!!!! PLEASE HELP!!!!
SORRY SO LONG!
okay so ive been friends with this girl for almost 4 years but she has severe jealousy issues and gets mad easy so i went over my friend house and she came and sd can i come too then i sd no cuz i was invited i cant just invite other people sorry :/ then she sd were not friends and avoids me at school and i miss her so much that i burst out crying in class that she is in also and now she talks behind my back and says she is gonna smack me in the face! I dont wanna tell my mom and she always asks HELP!!!!!! i still wanna be friends but when she's mad she does this and all my friends say dont be friends with her but i really want too!!!! :"(
by gummydinosaurs on 1/27/2011 2:12:15 PM
by sophiesingsalot on 1/27/2011 1:12:49 AM
by soccercastle on 1/24/2011 10:51:10 AM
by katieglamgirl03 on 1/18/2011 6:28:01 PM
You need to tell her what her problem is or she won't stop or you can tell you parents about it.
by oreoflurries on 1/18/2011 2:10:55 PM
by swiftfire on 1/17/2011 4:26:04 PM
My friends and I are always having parties with each other to just hang out and chill, but after my most recent one my friend told me to kick some of the people out! I told her she was being really selfish and about how she would feel is she were those people.
by Bich0nstar on 1/9/2011 3:55:39 PM
i have had a meanfriend before to so just let them go and find a new friend
by lady antabella on 1/6/2011 7:28:59 PM
My best friend always makes her news always more important than mine also she always acts like every crush she has likes her if they just talk to her I am not jealous of her I just think it would be best for our friendship if she was more interested in my news how can I tell her to stop doing this without being mean
by Penguinsrule12 on 1/3/2011 10:25:49 PM
I have a best friend who can be super sweet and funny and other times she is super mean like not talking to me and when I walk upto her she runs away. I dont know what to do I mean I want to still be friends but when something is wrong it is impossible to fix. Please help me!
by warriorsfangrl on 1/3/2011 10:04:42 PM
carol, theres this friend that i have and she's been acting pretty weird and mean to me lately. i ask whats wrong, but all she says is nothing. She's been ignoring me, and giving me rude remarks and butts into conversations i have with my other friends. I don't know what to do. i don't like to have to fight and i don't like to confront her. Last time i did, she told the whole school and it was humiliating. help me!!!
by ileneluvera on 1/2/2011 10:17:36 PM
My friend of 5yrs is really starting to not talk to me. She gets mad whenever I do anything I was really upset. Most people tell me to find a new friend at school but there is only 20 kids in my grade (8). This is really bugging me that I don't know why she is mad at me when I try and ask her she always says " Well you should know" the worst part is that she makes me do stuff for her like ask a teacher a certain question. I feel I am obligated to do this otherwise she might not be my friend. Should I go solo for a while or should I try and make it up. This has been going on for a while!
by BrookieFaye on 12/27/2010 10:06:17 PM
My BFF and I have been BFFs since 4th grade. Now that we have started 6th grade, lots of things have changed. Im having friendships issues with another girl which is really frustrating because mostly everything that happens between us ends up at my BFF. Then she gets all mad and now everyone says Im the bad guy when Its none of anyones business! My ofther great friends are on the other side of the school so I always feel so alone. Also, my overprotective brother is in 8th grade and trys to act colol in front of his friedns, while making me look bad! As if Im not lonely enough! What do I do?!
by lalaland0001 on 12/26/2010 3:42:59 PM
by satyrcentaur on 12/22/2010 2:35:16 AM
by spazyjazy99 on 12/11/2010 7:36:58 PM
there is this girl on my bus who is 16 and i am only 13 she makes me feel soo insecure and she bullies me and calls me ugly now she has the whole highschool calling me ugly so now i think i am very ugly Plz Help
by bayleabug1 on 12/11/2010 12:26:45 PM
There's this girl who I used to be best friends with but now she's just plain mean. We had a big fight before summer, but she still doesn't get it. She follows me around everyday like a puppy and it's getting annoying! How do I get her to stop following me and thinking that we're best friends?
by HaleyBearAnn on 12/9/2010 11:32:24 PM
by i<3colesprouse on 12/7/2010 4:30:18 PM
im goin through the same thing its okay u either dump em or keep em try talkin to her about her probs say it makes you feel uncomfortable or whatever. tell her u want to b friends but she needs to stop braggin and get real like now HOPE IT WORKS OUT!
by lol1237 on 12/6/2010 6:36:39 PM
Hey chicky, I’m a busy bee facilitating all the G-Blog jazz. Although I’d love to answer and chat with all ya gals, it’s just not possible at the moment. I’m sure our lovely bloggers here would love to help ya out with some great advice! Thanks for understanding. ♥, Your Blog Patrol Babes
by i<3colesprouse on 12/6/2010 5:13:34 PM
by ducttape1999 on 12/4/2010 11:48:05 PM
by Art Crazy52 on 12/4/2010 4:37:24 PM
by Loveit7 on 12/4/2010 4:10:29 PM
by bethluvssoftball on 12/1/2010 11:29:57 PM
by awesomegrl on 12/1/2010 10:24:41 PM
by awesomegrl on 11/29/2010 10:05:24 PM
I just want to say thank you MOD so much for all the advice you give us. I know I am not the only one who has asked what to do about really anything, whether it is boys, friends, family or anything at all. The moderators give great advice and in my opinion, it really helps me to get through things and find out what to do. Thanks so much MOD!
by hawaiigirl624 on 11/27/2010 1:08:47 PM
by hawaiigirl624 on 11/27/2010 1:38:20 AM
by mileyspark on 11/27/2010 1:28:36 AM
by hawaiigirl624 on 11/26/2010 10:22:35 PM
Man that stinks I know how you feel My bff always tries to one up me but when it doesnt go her way she freaks when I am with her I am scarewd fo sucess
by celticsxoxo102 on 11/25/2010 7:50:07 PM
by iski202 on 11/24/2010 7:51:47 PM
by ShiitakeMushr00ms on 11/23/2010 7:26:41 PM
MOD MOD MOD MOD
how do u post like a blush much or something else?
by dancerwithattitude10 on 11/23/2010 11:20:01 AM
by alphabet on 11/22/2010 4:06:28 PM
My best friend is being really mean over this guy i like. she is friends with him but when i told her that i liked him and she got really mad. I decided to delete her out of my life but its really hard. She is one of my best friends but i cant let her go. What should i do? I dont want this guy to come between us and he is not trying to. she chose to get mad herself.
by singer012 on 11/21/2010 1:32:55 PM
by love.hannah on 11/20/2010 9:39:20 PM
by hawaiigirl624 on 11/20/2010 12:23:28 PM
yea i hav a friend like datshe always hits me 4 no reason.it stinks!
by giruiz on 11/20/2010 8:20:08 AM
I had a firend just like that always braging makeing me feal bad about myself bossing me around. we were best friend sence 4th grade but then in 8th grade i realized how mean she was so now we dont even talk and we r half way through 9th grade. I still have not made any new friends sence and i feal all alone sometimes but i think i can do better some day.
by GinnyPotter7667 on 11/20/2010 12:56:35 AM
by hawaiigirl624 on 11/19/2010 10:39:19 PM
by iluvchorkies on 11/18/2010 7:11:34 PM
by coke-cola on 11/18/2010 3:47:07 PM
by cmn5297 on 11/18/2010 6:45:08 AM
by hawaiigirl624 on 11/17/2010 10:57:09 PM
by hawaiigirl624 on 11/17/2010 9:11:43 PM
Okay. Thank you so much. I really appreciate it. ;)
by cmn5297 on 11/17/2010 4:59:12 PM
by cmn5297 on 11/17/2010 6:44:03 AM
My BFF for, like, 3 years has stopped talking to me. Well her additude is really bad. She has been so rude to me and our other friend Autamn. I used to think it was her fault but now i think it is someone elses. please tell me what i should do to get her back
by LaLa Girl19 on 11/16/2010 9:50:19 PM
by cmn5297 on 11/16/2010 7:56:27 PM
i am going through this right now and the best thing you can do is ignore her when she is mean to you, and she will see sooner or later she is hurting you
by mileyluverxx on 11/16/2010 4:16:24 PM
So i was chatting with my friend on FcaeBook one day when she told me she was bi. I dont know what to say to show i support her and i still love her for her!! Please help!!
by Mickie_Jonas on 11/15/2010 6:05:44 PM
by EgirlH.97 on 11/15/2010 8:24:58 AM
I don't like the group of 7 friends I've had for 3 years
I think I'm maturing faster than them because i get bored talking to them and I don't feel close to them anymore
I've been thinking about making new friend for a while but it's so hard in my school people just don't like to
by *:)* on 11/15/2010 7:03:00 AM
by cmn5297 on 11/15/2010 6:50:44 AM
by california9876 on 11/15/2010 12:22:01 AM
girl, i feel you on this one. this happened to me before, you should let her know its bugging you. if she doesnt stop, leave her and get new friends
by Pink Princess <3 on 11/14/2010 10:22:58 PM
by polkadotzrool on 11/14/2010 9:47:57 PM
omg i've had that same problem....mine has gotten in the way of relationships with two of my boyfriends and that guy that i really like!! it can be so annoying and she loves to make me feel worthless too.
by totallyfree2bme on 11/14/2010 9:47:17 PM
by beautiful blondie on 11/14/2010 9:27:14 PM
by love.hannah on 11/14/2010 9:26:34 PM
YA i had the same bff for five years... i was kinda on the quite side (she wasn't though) and she had a ton of family working at the school so she was really popular and she just bragged on how her moms bf was rich and she always talked bad about everyone but everyone was friends with her... i finally told her we were done and now after two years she doesn't have many friends and isn't that popular... but were still friends but we have grown apart a lot... but ya don't put up with it... i wish i had the guts to tell her to shut up...
by maddiejay on 11/14/2010 7:54:20 PM
the same thing happened to me and i was upset then she started gossip about me and i hated it then she said i dont wanna be your friend anymore and that was it. I hated it
by prettyangel1997 on 11/14/2010 6:36:01 PM
i need help!!! im close friends with this boy in my class. my friend helped him to ask me out but i sed no, and he was ok with it. but she keeps tryin to get us to go out or wen we get paired up for a project and go "aaaaaaaaaaaaahhhhhh!" and tell people that we're dating! and once when we were talking she pushed me on him and said "go ahead, make out." its SUPER annoying cuz i DONT absolutely DO NOT like him like that. hes like my brother, he even calls me sis! wut do i do?! i RILLY RILLY RILLY nee help!
by lisi674 on 11/14/2010 6:19:38 PM
omg i feel really bad because this is exactly how i am! but the thing is, most of us smarties dont BRAG about it, although it may seem that way to others. we COMPLAIN about how much work we have and how hard it is. well theres a few people that dont complain but most of us do and its not meant to be bragging!!! it makes us stressed out and we have to talk to someone about it, and we usually go to our friends like anybody else would, but we are not trying to brag!
by acpowers on 11/14/2010 5:39:15 PM
she sounds just like one of my friends. i feel for u trust me. its really hard. my friend acts like im stupid and calls me a lot of mean names. im right there with u
by volleygleek23 on 11/14/2010 5:30:49 PM
Yeah just be honest but not mean
by readerhi1234 on 11/14/2010 5:06:29 PM
park street avanue. ask me about it babes. talk about it to me. Share your side of the story with me. You will be glad you did. I need your help. You can help me by asking me what you need help with. you can trust me. I will trust you. it is a win win deal. you ask me about something, I ask you about something.
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