Mods I need advice! There is this bully in my school and she is overweight and she bullies EVERYONE! I used to be her best friend when we were very young, but I started hanging out with other girls and she got jelous and stoped being my friend. I used to be sad but then I relized I didn't miss her being bossy or mean. I still miss a few things about her, but I am happy with my new friends. She always gossips about me and says I stole her friend(I didn't! I am just friendly and we happen to be very good friends!) and she yells at me and swears. She bullies everyone and no one bullies her to her face, but she is unkind to everyone. How should I stand up to her? She probably thinks she needs to stand up for herself because she is overweight, but if she was nice no one would pay attention to her weight. What is a nice way to tell her to stop verbally and pysically abusing people, but still get her to listen?

Hey girl!

It's great that you have a solid group of friends that you can count on. The reason your former friend bullies others is because of her own insecurities, whether it's her weight or her dissatisfaction with her social life. If you ever have a time where you're alone with her, it might be a good thing to gently explain to her how her bullying is affecting other people. Tell her how much you used to value her as a friend, how great she was. Maybe that will make her look back and realize how much she's changed--and not in a positive way. Explain to her how bullying hurts other people. Plus, the best way for her to reestablish some friends is to be nice! Good luck!

 

 

MOD MOD MOD!!!!!!!! Can you help me?! School feels terrible!! I walk the halls troublesome. I can't say anyone is my true friend because they change, like i feel so left out! I know alot of people but it's like they hardly reconize me. I don't have a BFF like everyone else does. It's just me, and some of my friends completely forget about me sometimes, and sometimes they talk to me. It's like on-off I'm tired of being left out of everything, I don't know who to turn to, I don't think I have someone to turn to. It's either someones to sassy to be my friend or they're too...not me. Or they're already taken. I can't find atleast two BFFs and my definition of that is: they are by you side all the way, they actually care for you, they won't let you down, and they're helpful. I'm not just recieveing, because I'm nice to everyone! I say hi to people And they barely even look at me. I feel SO invisible sometimes. please help!!!!

 

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hi! for seventh grade we have to do the science fair, and i was just brain storming right now...i want to do the respiratory system, but what exactly should i talk about? i was thinking about how it works and the diseases and stuff...sound good?

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Yesterday my bf and i were gonna go to the skate park [with some other friends] because i havent seen him in a while ever since he left my school :[ So..the skate park is right next to my grandmas house (im going to stay with her because my parents are going to work) and im going to walk there. What can i tell my grandma so she will let me go? I bet she will because she's not those type of grandmas that are questioning. I havent told my mom yet.. what should i tell them both? ??

Hey girlie, tell her that you're going with a couple of friends and that'll you be safe and accessible via cell phone. Tell her you are interested in learning how to skate, it's a new potential hobby interest.