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Busting bully behavior

I go to a school where there’s this one girl who made me mad to the point where I wanted to beat her up twice...
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taylorcrazy123, I know what you mean! I have gone to teachers and my principal, and other adults but noone stops her! :/ I know how you feel.

by kity9743 on 6/11/2012 9:21:34 AM

 
 




Mods I need advice! There is this bully in my school and she is overweight and she bullies EVERYONE! I used to be her best friend when we were very young, but I started hanging out with other girls and she got jelous and stoped being my friend. I used to be sad but then I relized I didn't miss her being bossy or mean. I still miss a few things about her, but I am happy with my new friends. She always gossips about me and says I stole her friend(I didn't! I am just friendly and we happen to be very good friends!) and she yells at me and swears. She bullies everyone and no one bullies her to her face, but she is unkind to everyone. How should I stand up to her? She probably thinks she needs to stand up for herself because she is overweight, but if she was nice no one would pay attention to her weight. What is a nice way to tell her to stop verbally and pysically abusing people, but still get her to listen?




Hey girl!

It's great that you have a solid group of friends that you can count on. The reason your former friend bullies others is because of her own insecurities, whether it's her weight or her dissatisfaction with her social life. If you ever have a time where you're alone with her, it might be a good thing to gently explain to her how her bullying is affecting other people. Tell her how much you used to value her as a friend, how great she was. Maybe that will make her look back and realize how much she's changed--and not in a positive way. Explain to her how bullying hurts other people. Plus, the best way for her to reestablish some friends is to be nice! Good luck!

 




 
Rachael A.

by kity9743 on 6/11/2012 9:19:29 AM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD MOD
If you don't want to talk to the guidance counselor, who do you talk to? I'm in a complicated friend mess. I don't know who to talk to....... What should I expect and how do
I ask?
Thanks,

 

 

Hey girly girl! If you can't talk to a guidance counselor, then I'd suggest your rents. If you can't talk to them, maybe a teacher that you trust, or an aunt or other relative. And, just be honest with how you feel. You'll feel better after getting it off your chest  Smile

xxx

Becca G.

by fashiondramamusic on 4/10/2011 4:45:43 PM

 
 

I get bullied too. it really gets annoying!!!!! I just want to beat her up. I never do because that is acting like her. She is also being mean to my friend. The principle knows and we have talked about it but it dose not work. Anyway, I know how you feel.

by taylorcrazy123 on 1/21/2011 10:49:11 PM

 
 

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The guy my friend, Danielle has been crushing on (and dating) said I was going out with him! Now Danielle is ignoring me! I tried SUPER hard telling her that I didn't want to steal Denver from her, but she said I am! I don't know what else to do! My older sister, Faith said I should just wait till she figures it out. Should I? Please help!
~ Hannah




Hey Hannah,

It's probably smart to follow Faith's advice and give Danielle some space right now. It's tough because you don't want her to think you went behind her back, but she's upset right now and won't listen to what you have to say. In a couple days, it might be helpful to write Danielle an email to explain the situation. Instead of harping on the fact that he lied to her (because she wouldn't want to think that either), instead tell her how much she means to you and how you would never hurt her. Tell her you respect her feelings and support her in anyone she likes - you would never have agreed to that at all, let alone without talking to her first. Be honest and I'm sure it'll all work out <3 Good luck babe.

Lauren C.

by cheerrox1111 on 1/10/2011 7:58:17 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD!!!!!!!! Can you help me?! School feels terrible!! I walk the halls troublesome. I can't say anyone is my true friend because they change, like i feel so left out! I know alot of people but it's like they hardly reconize me. I don't have a BFF like everyone else does. It's just me, and some of my friends completely forget about me sometimes, and sometimes they talk to me. It's like on-off I'm tired of being left out of everything, I don't know who to turn to, I don't think I have someone to turn to. It's either someones to sassy to be my friend or they're too...not me. Or they're already taken. I can't find atleast two BFFs and my definition of that is: they are by you side all the way, they actually care for you, they won't let you down, and they're helpful. I'm not just recieveing, because I'm nice to everyone! I say hi to people And they barely even look at me. I feel SO invisible sometimes. Cry please help!!!!

 

Hey girlie! Feeling alone at school really stinks. Talk to your friends and tell them that you feel like you're being left out. They probably don't intend to do it, and would be glad to include you if you bring it up!

Clare W.

by puppyinwonderland on 1/8/2011 4:25:18 AM

 
 

MODMODMOD there is this one girl at my school and she is mean but doesn't physically hurt me. Last year I was in the middle of a conversation with my friend and she pulled her away and said it was a private conversation. My friend was aware of that and felt badly for leaving me. She has also done that a few other times with different people. This year she will say something mean to me and then she tries to make a joke out of it. I will just be talking normally and she will start saying calm down over and over. I told my friend and the girl did that to her pretended it was a joke but it wasn't funny the way that girl said it. I told her I was calm one time when she did that to me but I and not sure what to do.




Hey chicky, I’m a busy bee facilitating all the G-Blog jazz. Although I’d love to answer and chat with all ya gals, it’s just not possible at the moment. I’m sure our lovely bloggers here would love to help ya out with some great advice! Thanks for understanding. , Your Blog Patrol Babes

Jessica W.

by peaceluvsmile on 12/24/2010 2:01:07 AM

 
 

MOD!MOD!MOD!MOD!
hi! for seventh grade we have to do the science fair, and i was just brain storming right now...i want to do the respiratory system, but what exactly should i talk about? i was thinking about how it works and the diseases and stuff...sound good?




Hey chicky, I’m a busy bee facilitating all the G-Blog jazz. Although I’d love to answer and chat with all ya gals, it’s just not possible at the moment. I’m sure our lovely bloggers here would love to help ya out with some great advice! Thanks for understanding. , Your Blog Patrol Babes  
Jessica W.

by DanceFreak99 on 12/23/2010 5:42:20 PM

 
 


my friend is getting bullied at school by these girls but she wont let me say anything to them & it sucks cuz i want to help her but she wont let me ... what should i do Helen S.

by FOB_obsession on 12/5/2010 4:51:09 PM

 
 

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Yesterday my bf and i were gonna go to the skate park [with some other friends] because i havent seen him in a while ever since he left my school :[ So..the skate park is right next to my grandmas house (im going to stay with her because my parents are going to work) and im going to walk there. What can i tell my grandma so she will let me go? I bet she will because she's not those type of grandmas that are questioning. I havent told my mom yet.. what should i tell them both? ??




Hey girlie, tell her that you're going with a couple of friends and that'll you be safe and accessible via cell phone. Tell her you are interested in learning how to skate, it's a new potential hobby interest.  
Paige T.

by xXxRawRxXx on 12/4/2010 10:37:30 AM

 
 

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Okay, so half of my class is convinced me and my best guy friend would make a great couple. Secretly, I think so too. How can I either get them to stop teasing (which makes it awkward) or let him know I like him too? I don't want to date, and I have mentioned having another (fake) crush in front of him so that he doesn't ask me out. Please help!

 

Maybe joke around and say you like him and see what he says back?

Lauren H.

by dogqueenie on 11/26/2010 12:01:04 PM

 
 

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Im in highschool, and in class I was really bored and had nothing to do, so i accidently was staring at the girl across the room from me. Now she is saying to her friends she wants to beat me up. What do I do..




Hey girlie, tell her that you didn't mean anything by it. You weren't looking at her intentionally so let her know that. If you're sure that that's what she's saying you can always talk to a teacher or administrator.  

Lauren T.

by chocopuddin on 11/23/2010 5:08:12 PM

 
 

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by ilovemyt on 11/23/2010 1:02:19 AM

 
 

MODMODMOD ok so a few weeks ago i found this guy that i REALLY liked, possibly even loved, and he kept telling me how he had liked me, and how beautiful and amazing i was, stuff like that, then he was talking to my friend, and he told her how he didn't really like me, so i was really "depressed" for like a week. And i have texted him a few times, and he won't replay, and i have said how sorry i was, and that it would be really cool if we could still be friends, and he didn't say anything. Please help, what should i do?




Hey girl,

Why do you still want to be friends with him? I see how you could've enjoyed the attention for a while there, but he lied! He's the one that should be apologizing to you and trying to get you to talk to him, not the other way around. I know it's tough when someone turns out to be different than what you thought, but he's not worth the effort. Personally, I would lay off the texting and focus on yourself, your friends, and meeting someone new. 

Lauren C.

by pocotoco22 on 11/22/2010 10:00:01 PM

 
 

Yeah there's this girl at my school and sometimes I REALLY want to beat her up, but I don't because violence would get me in a lot of trouble. See I have a stutter, except for when I am DEAD ON serious about something I walked up to her and I said

"calling me fat won't make you skinny and calling me dumb won't make you smart, you're a bully because you're insecure, and when you tell people something's wrong with them it gives you the satisfaction of being perfect, you're just as insecure as the rest of us, except you can't hide it" and then she punched me in the stomach....but it felt good to let out my feelings

by icecreamsandwich13 on 11/22/2010 7:26:11 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD Please help. I have this"friend" who is being really mean to my boyfriend. My bf is really sweet and doesnt deserve to be called bad things and said to "you need to get out of here and leave and never come back" and i feel bad and just...what do i do! My bf is wicked ticked and I dont know what to do...Help? Thx in advance -jojo

 

Hey girl!  I think it would be good to talk with your friend.  Tell her it really hurts you when she talks to your boyfriend like that.  Ask her what's up, and give her a chance to talk about how she's feeling, too.  Hopefully that will help get things cleared up.  xoxo

Marie H.

by lilmizzjo on 11/22/2010 5:35:18 PM

 
 

Girl, do NOT hit her. Trust me I know how tempting it is. But teachers are gonna help you with this the MOST. I've never been bullied but I know people who got past the boiling point. . . . And they went WAY TO FAR. You can't let this girl get in your way. Say to her: Leave me alone and everyone else! Hope EVERYTHING works out ;) Katie
Marie H.

by Cupcake1999 on 11/22/2010 5:19:29 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD a girl always yells at me 4 what im wearing ex:pull up ur shirt!...those boots hav 2 much of a heel (i was wearing uggs) and 2day i had hoop earings and she came up 2 my locker and said"those r too big.....then.... RIPPD THE OUTTA MY AND THREW THEM AT ME!! HELP

 

Hey girl, I think this article has some great advice for ya.  Don't be mean or call her names back.  Tell her to stop what she's doing, and ignore her comments.  If that doesn't work, seek out a teacher, counselor, or other adult who can help ya deal.  xoxo

Marie H.

by lolandpeace987 on 11/22/2010 4:17:14 PM

 
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