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I can't stop thinking about wanting to cut and committing suicide. Last year I was a cutter and I tried to commit suicide and I...
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if ur surrounded by haters who mock u....remember this saying and say it to urself: HATERS GONNA HATE. I DONT EVEN CARE. they just want to be you even if ur life is bad...no offense to any girl hater who reads this

by loppyears12 on 6/21/2012 9:09:13 PM

 
 

i have been thunking about cuting myself for a will and feel really depressed and i want to tell my friend but she might tell she rents wich will tell mineand they will freak out cuz iv been acting out these last year and im just really sad help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!




Please read our section on Tough Stuff which can help you a great deal: http://www.girlslife.com/post/2008/08/04/HELP!2.aspx 




Brittany G. 
Brittany G.

by goobergiri on 7/12/2011 7:37:14 PM

 
 



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I was having a really hard time so I told one of my friends about it. I found out it really upset her and she tried to kill herself because of how upset I was! Now I feel like a murderer! She refused to tell her parents so she is deciding to talk to me until school starts and she can tell the counselors but it doesn't just hurt her. It hurts me. I've dealt with so many suicidal friends that it's starting to really affect me. I've never cried this much in my whole life! I don't want to tell my friend not to tell me thing because I'm the only person that gets it but it upsets me so much... What should I do?




Hey girl,

First off, DO NOT think that this was your fault. Sure, you shared your feelings with her and she was compassionate, but no one tries to commit suicide - a very serious, permanent decision - without also having her own dark thoughts and depressed feelings. Basically, I'm just saying that she most likely had many problems or conflicts on her own and it was not you that did this! So shake off that guilt. Then, try helping her out by giving your school a call. There is summer school and other jobs to be done even though you guys don't have classes, so chances are the counselors are still at school and available to help out. If not, try calling a local church (even if neither of you are religious) to see if there might be a counselor or trusted person to chat with there. Summer is a long time to keep these issues between the two of you - the faster you get them out and discuss them with someone older and better equipped to handle them, the better off you BOTH will be <3
Lauren C.

by TheMentalistgurl on 6/9/2011 6:33:30 PM

 
 

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I have been depressed for a while and I cut myself. I don't want to tell anyone because everyone already thinks I'm messed up. I don't need them to know I am depressed. I know once school is over, I will have no one to tell. My parents won't care or will think it's just a phase. What should I do?




Hey girl, talk to a guidance counselor now before school ends. Talk to someone as soon as possible because what you're going through is serious and something you shouldn't have to go through alone. It's a really tough place. As for telling people, know everyone won't know. A true friend won't make fun of you but will try to help you -- it's so important you're not afraid to lean on others during this time because support systems are what help propel people through their darkest times. So don't be afraid to speak up and get help. It's the first step to beating this thing! Stay strong!

xoxo 
Alyssa B.

by spunkygirl03 on 5/19/2011 8:50:30 PM

 
 

MODMODMOD I have been feeling depressed for a while now but I haven't told anyone, not even my best friend. I feel like my friends won't believe me because I act happy around them and I'm less depressed at school then I am at home. I just don't know how to bring it up. Sometimes I just start crying because I feel so alone.

 

Hey girlie -- the most important thing you can do right now is talk. Talk to your parents or even your school's counselor (as he or she my be more equipped to deal with such issues). It's also important to realize you are not alone, even though you may feel like it, and that there are people out there who can help.

 

Brittany G.

Brittany G.

by kat13 on 5/12/2011 7:32:55 PM

 
 

She strikes a pose but dies inside. Nobody knows she's a beautiful suicide........

by the Russian Queen on 5/2/2011 7:47:36 PM

 
 

I have gone through this. I am still going through it. It took me a year to go from super happy to trying to kill myself. Anyone suffering from depression needs to tell someone. Even if you think no one cares, they do. Break down and cry in front of someone if you don't know how to start that conversation (That's what I did and it worked). The process of recovery is so long, so don't wait to start it! Life is worth living! Listen to the song Hero by Superckick. Smile

by XxForget_Me_NotxX on 4/20/2011 8:46:57 PM

 
 

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I have been depressed for a while, and at first I could have fun with friends and be depressed later, but now a bunch of my friends are trying to drop me from their group. I liked them, but they're really judgmental and it scares me because of my low self esteem. Now they only talk to me when their friends aren't around. It makes me really angry and I have the worst temper. I try not to talk to them, and make it obvious that they hurt me. My other friends make fun of cutters because it's stupid to them so I go along with it, but I do cut. I'm starting to hate EVERYONE in my school and I have a second house in another state. I want to move there. This doesn't seem horrible because I don't have good friends, but the school there is missing something. I've already brainwashed my to think I'm going to die before I get to college, so every time I think maybe I could go to that school, I 'realize' I'm not living that long. Why do most other people get to be happy, not me?




Hey girl, trust me when I say you're not the only person who has those feelings, but it's so important you talk to an adult about that. Talk to a guidance counselor. Your thoughts may be in a dark place and your friends may come off as intentionally insensitive, but so many people care about you. You've just gotta let them know what's going on so they'll know to help. Depression is a dark road and one that should always be taken seriously. Talk to a parent or trusted adult and don't be afraid to talk about how you feel. You can get through this, but the support of others will be invaluable along the way. Stay hopeful!

xoxo 
Alyssa B.

by taytay724 on 4/14/2011 9:07:47 PM

 
 



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I think i may have an eating disorder!!!! I was on this website, and I accadentally clicked on his add. It took me to a page about eating disorders. I was bored so i looked at it. One eating disorder described me PERFECTLY!!!!!!!
I'ts called "Binge Eating Disorder" it's when you eat and eat and eat just because your stressed, depressed, or even happy. I do this all the time!! I was really worried so i looked at it more and learned that I could get type 2 diabetes!I know that sounds extreme to think about, but i allways have been rather chubby. Also, I might have inherrited a panic disorder so, learning that I may have an eating disorder is making me go balistic right now!!!!! Im so scared and confused!!!
PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!




hey! it sounds to me like a chat with your doctor might be in order. he or she can help you decide how to live a healthy life. good luck Smile 
Helen S.

by coffeepanda on 4/9/2011 3:45:25 PM

 
 

me 2 but instead nothing not even a consolier would switch my thoughts around i never want to grow old and die old Frown

by articwater on 4/5/2011 11:04:19 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD I cut and scratch myself, but...how can I hide my scars this summer? It gets really hot and humid so I can't wear long sleeves forever...maybe arm warmers or gloves

 

 

Hey girly girl, I know that you're asking how to cover up your scars, but the way that you got them is really concerning me. if you purposely self-harm, then I'd say that you need to talk to someone, or at least tell someone. That's NOT healthy at all, and rather than making your problems go away, I guarantee it will create more for you. Please, please talk to someone you trust about this... if not your parents, then a teacher that you trust or a guidance counselor.

xxx

Becca G.

by CursaLeStrange on 4/3/2011 6:21:57 PM

 
 

I dont know you.
But you are an amazing person. Not worthing losing it. My dad commited suicide 8 months ago. My goal is to help people who are going through the same thing my dad did. You dont need to keep it all bottled up. Just know that someone always loves you. Suicide is never the answer. Its a permanent solution to a temporary problem. Keep living. (:
You never know you'll get relief from your problems if you commit suicide.

Someone Loves you.

by ashleygirl6857 on 3/30/2011 7:55:58 PM

 
 

I'm 12 and i'm kinda overweight for my age i'm also pretty tall. I always try to eat healthier and exercise more, but i always get distracted or just give up. When i started puberty i gained a lot of weight and i have these stretch marks on my inner thighs. So i can't wear shorts that a lot of my friends wear because my stretch marks will show. I play volleyball and i'm going to start going to a gym for teens. Sometimes i wish my life would end because all the girls that are skinnier always seem to be happier. Any advice would be helpful.




Hey girlie. First off, you are beautiful. Don't ever think you're not good enough. To be happy, you need to enjoy things that make you happy. If you aren't happy with your body, talk to your mom and doctor about measures you can take. Also, stretch marks are something almost all girls get. You can try using cocoa butter on them to reduce visibility. Take action to make yourself a happy you! Good luck- and remember- you are beautiful!  
Marly Z.

by ariirocks on 3/23/2011 6:11:47 PM

 
 

MODMODMODMODMODMOD-I have cut myself for about 2 months now,and i really want to stop.I have thoughts of suicide allot.I almost tryed the other day.My friend said if i cut myself again she would tell the principal. I don't know how to stop.Help.Thanks

 

 

Hey girly, I'm so, so sorry to hear this, and it really worries me. I'm glad that you know it's wrong, and want to stop. That's the first step.

Your friend is a good friend too, for wanting to tell someone. I think you need to talk to your parents, or another trusted adult about your problem. They can get you the help that you need to get on with your life and overcome this. Also, check out this site for support, information and other things to help you stop cutting...


xxx

Becca G.

by BSC98 on 3/20/2011 5:12:28 PM

 
 



MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD I've tried to kill myself now 3+ times and everybody thinks I'm making excuses when I try to find what triggered my episodes. They all feel like I'm doing this for attention. Sometimes I just want to get away from it all and cut deep enough on my wrist to kill myself. But those have been my past attempts and my blood clots really fast. I'm really sick of living. I'm scared of myself and what my thoughts are capable of thinking and im really unstable and they won't hospitalize me because they think I'm doing this for attention and making a joke of a really serious matter. It really sucks and I'm scared and unhappy and I can't seem to get my point across without them thinking I'm making excuses. Besides, I was hospitalized before, and after that I felt really stable for awhile and I reallly feel like I need this right now. Hospitalization will help. Not one ER will admit me, and I'm really upset because I know it will help and clear my head. No one will.




Hey love, have you tried talking to the counselor at your school? If not, give this hotline list a look: http://www.girlslife.com/post/2008/08/04/HELP!2.aspx. There are numbers there that have been known to save lives. I know that you feel like the bottom is the only place you can go, but trust me, you can bounce back no matter how bad it feels -- I am a personal testament. 




Brittany G. 
Brittany G.

by violinplayer465 on 3/19/2011 2:04:40 AM

 
 



MOD MOD MOD! I dont know what to do, i have been wanting 2 hurt myself or even kill myself 4 more then a month now and i think about it alot, sometimes i have really bad days when i wanna b happy but for some reason i cant (they dont haappen very often tho), i have talked 2 a school counselor and all she said is that i should tell someone if it happens more often. i usually feel more depressed at home, but it happens at school to. i dont know why i feel this way, i wanna be happy. plz help.




Hey girlie -- you are not alone. A lot of people have been where you are and have made it. You should try talking to your parents or a trusted adult. Try talking to your parents about finding someone you can talk to on a regular basis, such as a therapist -- sometimes talking helps a million. For further help, check out this page on depression: http://www.girlslife.com/hub/tough-stuff.aspx 




Brittany G. 




Brittany G. Brittany G.

by twilightluvr16 on 3/11/2011 9:19:12 PM

 
 

Hey girl, you have so much to live for. If you really feel that way, you need need NEED to talk to someone. I'm including the number of a hotline here you can call, 1-800-SUICIDE (1-800-784-2433) or suicidehotlines.com (more hotlines and resources here: http://www.girlslife.com/post/2008/08/04/HELP!2.aspx). Please talk to a parent or guidance counselor and remember SO many people care about you. Reach out and don't give up.

xoxo
Alyssa B.

by violinplayer465 on 2/22/2011 10:43:31 PM

 
 



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ok. i have been thinking for a long time. i HATE life. although i get good grades in school, i feel so different. i think im fat, even though no one else thinks im fat, im too short, i get no attention, and my parents favor my little bro. i have thought about comitting suicide and i almost became a cutter. i cant talk to my couselor, she cant deal with this stufff, and my parents i DEF cant talk to. i need help!




hey! I know things can seem overwhelming sometimes, and depression is tough to deal with but you have so much to hope for! You are so young and if things are bad now they have so much time to improve. I'm sorry you feel like you can't talk to anyone, but I really think you will feel better if you tell someone how you feel. Something else that can help is writing about it. You don't need to worry about judgement from anyone that way. I want to strongly recommend that you find help here if things get overwhelming. http://www.girlslife.com/post/2008/08/04/HELP!2.aspx good luck!   
Helen S.

by koolkat21 on 2/20/2011 2:28:15 PM

 
 

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Okay so heres how it goes: I'm 13 and I've all ready tried to kill myself twice. I was hospitalized and now I have no more privacy/freedom in my life. I used to be bulimic and I am still trying to stop cutting myself. Its really hard and I can't talk to my parents about it. They want me to but it makes me really uncomfortable. Right now I'm not allowed at school because of legal issues (suicide attempt at school) and I'm in intensive therapy. And on medications. But I can't help feeling like I'm just a waste of space on this earth. And the need to cut is so intense that I can't stop. I've got scars/cuts all over my body. I just have no idea what to do. HELP!




Hey girlie. I want to start off saying that you are here, on this earth, for a reason. And no, there is no one who is going to point out exactly what the reason or purpose, but know there just being here is significant. If you are feeling down about yourself and the life that you live, you must take drastic changed to make it better. Here is what you are going to do: Paint your room a happy, bright color that makes you feel alive and good when you look at it. Then go online and look up happy, up-beat quotes that also make you feel inspired and worthwhile. Print these out and put them on your walls in your room so that they are the first thing you see when you wake up in the morning. Life can be so great if you just allow it to be. I try to tell myself that there are people who are sick and fighting with all of the might and strength to hold on to their lives, but sometimes, nature takes its course and they fade. Then there are people like you and I, who are so blessed to be given our lives here. Who are we to waste life away or wish we weren't here? There are no limits for you. You can dream your wildest dreams and become the best version of yourself. There are so many great things about you--why not focus on them? Use all of your might to listen to great, happy music, surround yourself with positive people who make you feel alive and remember that this is no dress-rehearsal. Life only comes around once. Let's make it count--make it matter. Let's celebrate being young and being alive. I want you to listen to the song, "Call On Me" by Erik Prydz. It motivates me to live life to the absolute fullest and jump headfirst into the unknown. There is  a reason you are here. Now let's discover what the reason is, yes?
Elizabeth P.

by Violinplayer465 on 2/19/2011 12:41:57 AM

 
 

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okay my last commet i forgot to put mod on it but here it is,shortened
if my friend's dad is in trouble. where would she go? where would her siblings go, they are little, and one of them needs and has a sirvice dog will she get to keep it? is there anything i need to know, she is afraid tpo tell anyone because she is afraid of where her sibs would go




Hey girlie. Wow, I'm sorry to hear that. is your friends mom around at all? If she needs to talk to someone, tell her call the 9 line. 1-800-999-9999. If this doesn't help, write back and we can figure something else out! 
Elizabeth P.

by harajukulove7579 on 1/31/2011 1:43:12 PM

 
 

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What are the laws for verbal abuse?




Hey girl,

Verbal abuse is hard to define because it comes in so many different forms. There actually isn't an official law against verbal abuse in the United States, which makes a lot of people think that it's still ok. But the truth is that verbal abuse can be just as damaging - or even more so - than physical abuse. But if verbal abuse is happening and hurting you, it's important to talk to a counselor or other trusted adult. They're the ones who can help you stop the abuse...and also help you realize that you deserve better than such hurtful words!

Lauren C.

by harajukulove7579 on 1/24/2011 2:16:07 PM

 
 

Right now I don't feel good about life. I mean what is the point, endless struggle that litteraly get's me nowhere. I can draw real nice , speak 3 languages and counting, get A's but my parent never saticefice with what I get. Right now I'm considering to got to a local art high school (alot of people say I should go) but what is the point really. Compete against 4000 people, kill get a spot for what? I don't even want to be a profesional at art. My dreams are being mocked by my dad.And today he nearly broke my laptop with all my dreams. Nobody at my school like the things I like (which they laugh at me about) etc: HTML,Flash animating, Watching old animation that is made the year I was born and listening to very sad songs like Alice of huamnn sacrifice or servant of evil... I have test like everyday with going to extra classes and going to church every week, but right now I don't want to do anything except for crying and crying.

by NGE on 1/21/2011 7:26:24 PM

 
 

Hey Girls! If you have any type of problems, I will be open to give you advice on what to do. Contact me on my profile anytime and I will try to reply asap.

by MelSaysRawr on 1/4/2011 7:27:55 PM

 
 

i am the same way .. and i love how this site is anonomus unless you dont want it to be....i feel i can say anything on here thanks guys!

by harajukulove7579 on 1/3/2011 11:59:21 AM

 
 

I have no idea how to know if I won the grand prize how can i check that it is not posted??

by Rainapop123 on 12/31/2010 6:58:06 PM

 
 

don't. please don't. i know someone who used to cut. it's terrible. you'll regret it your entire life. and you have ot think when you feel this way how will my friends feel,my parents when i'm dead and gone.

by thisisme3 on 12/28/2010 9:17:28 PM

 
 

Mod ? Mod ? Mod ? Mod ? Mod ? Mod ? Mod ? Mod ? SO i LOVE THIS WEBSITE . But I think that the beauty section should be a bit different . Girls come on here of all different races , backrounds , and things like that . And as u know , African Americans or "darker" skinned people have different hair that is more thick and curly. Maybe you can add more advice to girls that have that kind of hair , or more styles that can pertain to them , because most of the styles or adice here "darker" skinned girls really can't do without damagin their hair with perms or relaxers . I think it would help alot ! and would benefit 4 ur website to !!! Thankkksss !

 

Hey girl, I am so glad you love the site!  Thank you so much for sharing your suggestions. Laughing

Marie H.
Marie H.

by dorigirl116 on 12/20/2010 11:06:08 PM

 
 

MOD
No luck with the phone number:/

 

Really? Did it not go through? Well the next thing you can do is get a school counselor involved to see if your friend will talk to someone. I know not everyone is open to talking, but in my experience, just getting them into the office helps. Offer to go with him if that will make him feel better. But counselors are at schools to help with these problems. If he is thinking about hurting himself, then he really does need to talk to someone. 

Elizabeth P.

by nicegurl on 12/20/2010 1:23:39 PM

 
 

I was there once, i cried myself to sleep every night, i cut, i was depressed. Nobody knew and i wanted to keep it that way, to this day...only one person actually knew. It's reasonable you dont want to tell a parent or adult figure, so give settle hints to a good friend or something. I survived by thinking about my loved ones and one of my friends comitted suicide, at the memorial service, there were tons of people crying and i realized how many people it would hurt. I have an issue of caring for others and not myself. My pillow was wet with tears every night but i alawys just thought of tomarrow, and know ive made 7 new friends and i got a pet dog, and life is going pretty smoothly (i still cry myself to sleep sometimes) and im soooo glad i didnt give up on myself! People love and care for you, please contact me.
~love ya

by anythingal on 12/13/2010 6:49:16 PM

 
 

its okay your not alone i know someone who tried to hurt their self many of times her life is hard and if she can get throgh it then so can. don`t feel alone and im pretty sure your mom can under stand y u want to do these things if u explain it too her .and there are too many people who love and will miss you if u kill yourself. please do not do it it can be the biggest mistake of your life.this world loses millions of ppl every day.and i dont want you to be one of them. you may not love your life but many of ppl love you. i hope you get help soon. and like i said u r not alone. you can sucseed in any thing u want to if you try ( not including causing death) u have so much to live for. im pretty sure you r u a bright,pretty,smart, young, srtong young girl, so please dont hurt your self. because u have no good reason too. think of how your family would feel if u where gone ( not so good) so i wish u the best good luck

your freind,
tiana

by tiana8552101 on 12/6/2010 4:53:32 PM

 
 

PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE don't hurt yourself. You have something to offer the world! You have everything to live for! Please don't take it away from yourself!!!!! We care.

by Miss Me1023 on 12/4/2010 10:24:40 AM

 
 

mod mod MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD!!! this girl picks on me all the time sometimes i feel like that today in english i was with oone of my friends it was a group thing this girl ill call hr "c" well c was with one of my other friends boyfriend and me and ill call my friend"k" k were working together and we were sopposed to loolk up definitions we were look ing up the wrong ones and c came over and is likYOU GUYS R DOING IT WRONG!!! and started to give k all the answewres cuase she was already doneso i said c its our turn to do it were working together she said well you dont deseve to work with k i felt horable i was crying for two periods!!!! and in last period i waas crying and c came up and was like WOW THANKS FOR SPREADING ROMURS ABOUT ME!! TELL ING PEOPLE I MADE YOU CRY IT WAS YOUR OWN FALT!!! it makes me feel horible about my self andi cry all the time from her i wish i didnt half to deal with her sometimes i feel like hurting myself really badd pleases help!!! how do i get her to stop

 

 

Hey girly girl, I'm so sorry that you have to deal with this! She's the one with the problem, not you! Check out these tips for dealing with this mean girl...



xxx

 

 

Becca G.
Becca G.

by bratzstyleem on 12/1/2010 5:30:38 PM

 
 

if u have fam or guys or ANY trouble then contact me on my profile

by c07at on 11/30/2010 5:50:14 PM

 
 

This is a horrible way to feel! First of all, cutting has absolutely NO EFFECT on your situation besides making it WORSE. Besides, you already know how it feels to cut. It hurts. Suicide is a horrible thing to do. Death is not any better than the life you`re in now. Imagine how your family and friends would feel if you offed yourself! It`s a terrible thing to do, and selfish. You may THINK that you want to do it, but what about your family? How would your little sister feel if you killed yourself? Your mom? Your best friend? Your pet dog, for gosh sakes?! DON`T DO IT. Do anything you can to make yourself happy, and if you`re still not happy: Fake it until you make it. If you really are still having trouble, talk to someone. Your life could be save just by saying a few words.

by happydays!:-) on 11/28/2010 6:06:57 PM

 
 

aww same thing its hard

by cre8tive_2114 on 11/27/2010 1:42:12 PM

 
 

We all feel depressed sometimes and feel like we dont deserve to live. People might not admit it, but it happens, even for a second. But you DO have a reason to live, thats why God made you. We all are here for a reason, and to fulfill our destiny. If you kill yourself, how are you supposed to do that? Think about how your friends and family would feel if they knew you were hurting yourself, and if you died. They obviously care about you, and dont want you out of your lives. Stay stong, and God bless.

by ValShmal98 on 11/27/2010 8:48:38 AM

 
 

Last may my dad was cheating on my mom with my best friends mom. In june me and my other friend (lets call her C.) well we both started cutting ourselves, she only did it once.. i did it multiple times. The last time i did it, was when i had found out my moms sister, had gone missing. I told C, and she said she had told her mom and she said that if i kept doing it that we wouldnt be able to be friends anymore. I promised her that i would never do it again and to this day i have kept my promise. My parents stayed together although im not friends with my 'best friend' anymore. It took a huge amount of courage for me to post this but i just want everybody to know that It Gets Better. Trust me. check out katy perry's music video for Firework. it is very inspiring. <3 <3

 

Cutting is never the answer. Thanks for sharing that cutting does not help anything, is not OK and your life will get better and not always seem as bad as it may seem now.

Vanessa J.

by jonaslover1418 on 11/27/2010 3:06:17 AM

 
 

OK, I met this boy this summer lets say his name is Zach and he really really liked me, but I had a boyfriend at the time. Me and my boyfriend eventually, like all teenage relationships, broke up. Then Zach steps in and he was there for me I cried to him on the phone and he made me feel better. Zach now is telling me how he feels about me, how he loves me and everything, but I don't feel the same way. I look at him like my Best Friend or a brother. He's hasn't been a cutter in a year until now because of me! He said because I don't like him, he cuts himself. I feel horribly bad and I don't know what to do!! And don't say talk to a counselor or parent!

 

Hey girl,

This is a really serious and difficult situation. I know you said you didn't want to talk to a counselor or parent, but I do think you should consider doing that - this is not something that you should have to deal with alone. I would try talking to Zach and explain to him that you really do like him as a friend and feel horrible that he is cutting. Talk to him about your feelings and how much you do want him in your life as a friend. Tell him it makes you sad to hear that he's cutting himself, and you don't want to ruin your great friendship by becoming boyfriend and girlfriend. If you feel like you aren't getting through to him, talk to his parents about the situation. This is too serious for you and him to deal with on your own. I hope things go well!

Vanessa J.

by cheerfreak on 11/27/2010 1:48:40 AM

 
 

i used to be a cutter a bad one and you could ask anyone who knows me you wouldnt be able to tell but last year i got so tired of getting treated like trash i turned to cutting but i relized all those ppl who turned me "emo" found out and tried to help me so they my pe teacher cuz shes 24 and wont over react rite now my bff is "emo" just for fun! im trying to get her to stop but she wont listen. i know something tht mite scare u out of it go to google images and search emo cuts thrs some pretty nasty 1s

by miss awesome 4eva on 11/27/2010 12:13:44 AM

 
 

I was a cutter, and a suicide waiting to happen. I just think of the people i love, and friends who neeed me. It only gets better, not worse, focus on the positive

by brokeshopperwah on 11/26/2010 10:54:51 PM

 
 

i get in some hard bumps sometimes too, and i always think to myself..."in a while, this will all be over, and it will just be a healed scar...just a memory."

by lijbsinger on 11/26/2010 10:53:54 PM

 
 

it is tough i used to have a friend who felt that same way but she got over it because she did something that got it off her mind and it was playing soccer. You should try doing sports are hanging out with your friends it really helps.

by Chripa on 11/26/2010 10:35:45 PM

 
 

I'm gonna tell you what my best friend told me in May (sometime around May) when I was telling her about wanting to cut myself the night before. Killing yourself is not going to solve anyone's problems. Hurting yourself won't solve your problems. Find an adult you trust ASAP and tell them you are having those feelings, you may be suffering from clinical depression. As bad as you may feel there is help out there. I remember my experence of wanting to hurt myself all too well. I had told my friend and started crying at lunch. I went to the nurses office and cried for the next hour. Another thing to remember is that everyone will get depressed to some degree at some point in their life so remember this quote "Depression happens, suicide doesn't have to." I hope you get help soon and remember how many people in your life love you for who you are and don't want to lose you.

by agforme95 on 11/26/2010 10:15:12 PM

 
 

I know how you feel. And you've probably heard this many times but it WILL get better. Cutting and self-hurting are serious problems that you need to talk to your counselor about. You do not want to have that eat away your life-- you have TONS of fun events to look forward to in the future! If you don't feel comfortable telling an adult, many people on places such as sixbillionsecrets and formspring can help you.

stay strong, you'll be in my prayers <3

by r3animated on 11/26/2010 9:33:40 PM

 
 

i used to be like that. the first time was last summer, and i got over it, and then about a month ago, i fell back into the habit. i am better now. you are in my prayers.

by spunkygirl03 on 11/26/2010 8:47:22 PM

 
 

you know in the past ive done the same thing...yes ive gotten help and i havent done it since like some people said tommorrow is a new day...look foward to it

by lexiswift13 on 11/26/2010 4:48:01 PM

 
 

Be smart!! remember that even though right now your life doesn't seem bareable, if you end it now, you will NEVER have a second chance, it will all be gone FOREVER. If something happened to make you this way, you NEED to tell someone no matter how hard it will be, I understand, I've been there. Even if you don't know why you feel this way, you can only find out if you talk about it, what doesnt kill you makes you stronger. Look at all the comments, your not alone, people care about you!! love, Lindsey

by linlybabygirl on 11/26/2010 4:35:42 PM

 
 

Girl, I'm glad you understand that this is a serious matter and you are seeking help. With the help of friends, family, and trusted adults you can get all the help that you need and save your life. Committing suicide is never the answer to anyone's problems. You still have your whole life ahead of you, and this is just a bump in the road, this will not take over your whole life. There are always ups and downs in life, but realizing that suicide is never the answer is the first step to getting the help you need. Good luck girlie♥ Elizabeth P.

by michipie205 on 11/26/2010 3:53:19 PM

 
 

wow... i am really sorry for you.

REMEMBER: Tomorrow is a NEW DAY!!!! (NOTE: Another reason to keep living! Smile )

by hailbop16 on 11/26/2010 3:12:01 PM

 
 

Hey girls!
If anyone wants advice from a girl their age dealing with the same day-to-day things, leave a comment on my profile, and i'll get back to you asap.
Whether you want advice from holiday shopping, to guys, =family, friends, sports, weight, school, or anythins, comment on my profile!

 

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by haleyhay3 on 11/26/2010 2:11:12 PM

 
 

Girl, this is a serious issue. Honestly, when a person gets to that point, they need other's help and love. And please don't think that committing suicide will end your problems. It's actually the most selfish thing a person can do because it causes a lifetime of emotional distress for your loved ones. So be brave and tell your mom. Moms are good at not judging. Smile

by Browniej12 on 11/26/2010 1:16:13 PM

 
 

im back. Like i said U HAVE ALOT 2 LIVE 4. dont kill urself .talk to your mom, dad, or any trusted adult. I hope this helps save your life.
best wishes,
nirvana fan.

by nirvana fan on 11/26/2010 1:08:22 PM

 
 

Girl, you have SO,SO,SO much to live for. Talk to your mom, dad,or teacher. I hope this helps or saves your life.

best wishes

by nirvana fan on 11/26/2010 12:52:52 PM

 
 

Honey. . . You should get some serious help. Don't tell a friend, please DON'T. They will tell other people and then its just worse.

Katie

by Cupcake1999 on 11/26/2010 12:12:01 PM

 
 

I know how you feel. I'm the same. But wouldn't you miss all your friends and family? That's what I think of before I start having the horrible thoughts.

by 1willynilly1 on 11/26/2010 11:58:50 AM

 
 

Hey girl.
Everybody has these days, where it seems as if the nothing goes your way. This is extreme though, so seriously think about these consequences. As another comment states, You were put on this Earth for a reason. You are unique, beautiful, intelligent. People love and care for you, even if you don't think so- it's all true. Please don't give up. Talk to someone you really trust and tell them why you even considered this. I bet they will help you solve those problems. It may seem like a big hassle & you may just want it to end, but trust me, it will be worth it.
Good luck (:

by Prettyinpinkox on 11/26/2010 11:55:33 AM

 
 

Ill pray for you. Just because times are hard now just remember you WERE put on this earth for a reason and there will be something coming your way weather its tomarrow or ten years from now. Its coming

by bff61 on 11/26/2010 11:27:32 AM

 
 

Hey girls!
This is a club made for all of you that have mental/emotional health issues! So if you if you have mental/emotional health issues then comment or ask a question….. whatever you want. Smile Have a GREAT day!! Smile

by Club Tough Stuff on 11/26/2010 10:09:39 AM

 
 

You are so amazing and strong to be able to tell someone about this. You're in my prayers.
Love ya,
Harry Potter Fan Club

by HarryPotterFanClub on 11/26/2010 10:00:21 AM

 
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