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if ur surrounded by haters who mock u....remember this saying and say it to urself: HATERS GONNA HATE. I DONT EVEN CARE. they just want to be you even if ur life is bad...no offense to any girl hater who reads this
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by kat13 on 5/12/2011 7:32:55 PM
She strikes a pose but dies inside. Nobody knows she's a beautiful suicide........
by the Russian Queen on 5/2/2011 7:47:36 PM
I have gone through this. I am still going through it. It took me a year to go from super happy to trying to kill myself. Anyone suffering from depression needs to tell someone. Even if you think no one cares, they do. Break down and cry in front of someone if you don't know how to start that conversation (That's what I did and it worked). The process of recovery is so long, so don't wait to start it! Life is worth living! Listen to the song Hero by Superckick.
by XxForget_Me_NotxX on 4/20/2011 8:46:57 PM
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by coffeepanda on 4/9/2011 3:45:25 PM
me 2 but instead nothing not even a consolier would switch my thoughts around i never want to grow old and die old
by articwater on 4/5/2011 11:04:19 PM
MOD MOD MOD I cut and scratch myself, but...how can I hide my scars this summer? It gets really hot and humid so I can't wear long sleeves forever...maybe arm warmers or gloves
by CursaLeStrange on 4/3/2011 6:21:57 PM
I dont know you.
But you are an amazing person. Not worthing losing it. My dad commited suicide 8 months ago. My goal is to help people who are going through the same thing my dad did. You dont need to keep it all bottled up. Just know that someone always loves you. Suicide is never the answer. Its a permanent solution to a temporary problem. Keep living. (:
You never know you'll get relief from your problems if you commit suicide.
Someone Loves you.
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by harajukulove7579 on 1/24/2011 2:16:07 PM
Right now I don't feel good about life. I mean what is the point, endless struggle that litteraly get's me nowhere. I can draw real nice , speak 3 languages and counting, get A's but my parent never saticefice with what I get. Right now I'm considering to got to a local art high school (alot of people say I should go) but what is the point really. Compete against 4000 people, kill get a spot for what? I don't even want to be a profesional at art. My dreams are being mocked by my dad.And today he nearly broke my laptop with all my dreams. Nobody at my school like the things I like (which they laugh at me about) etc: HTML,Flash animating, Watching old animation that is made the year I was born and listening to very sad songs like Alice of huamnn sacrifice or servant of evil... I have test like everyday with going to extra classes and going to church every week, but right now I don't want to do anything except for crying and crying.
by NGE on 1/21/2011 7:26:24 PM
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by MelSaysRawr on 1/4/2011 7:27:55 PM
i am the same way .. and i love how this site is anonomus unless you dont want it to be....i feel i can say anything on here thanks guys!
by harajukulove7579 on 1/3/2011 11:59:21 AM
I have no idea how to know if I won the grand prize how can i check that it is not posted??
by Rainapop123 on 12/31/2010 6:58:06 PM
don't. please don't. i know someone who used to cut. it's terrible. you'll regret it your entire life. and you have ot think when you feel this way how will my friends feel,my parents when i'm dead and gone.
by thisisme3 on 12/28/2010 9:17:28 PM
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by nicegurl on 12/20/2010 1:23:39 PM
I was there once, i cried myself to sleep every night, i cut, i was depressed. Nobody knew and i wanted to keep it that way, to this day...only one person actually knew. It's reasonable you dont want to tell a parent or adult figure, so give settle hints to a good friend or something. I survived by thinking about my loved ones and one of my friends comitted suicide, at the memorial service, there were tons of people crying and i realized how many people it would hurt. I have an issue of caring for others and not myself. My pillow was wet with tears every night but i alawys just thought of tomarrow, and know ive made 7 new friends and i got a pet dog, and life is going pretty smoothly (i still cry myself to sleep sometimes) and im soooo glad i didnt give up on myself! People love and care for you, please contact me.
by anythingal on 12/13/2010 6:49:16 PM
its okay your not alone i know someone who tried to hurt their self many of times her life is hard and if she can get throgh it then so can. don`t feel alone and im pretty sure your mom can under stand y u want to do these things if u explain it too her .and there are too many people who love and will miss you if u kill yourself. please do not do it it can be the biggest mistake of your life.this world loses millions of ppl every day.and i dont want you to be one of them. you may not love your life but many of ppl love you. i hope you get help soon. and like i said u r not alone. you can sucseed in any thing u want to if you try ( not including causing death) u have so much to live for. im pretty sure you r u a bright,pretty,smart, young, srtong young girl, so please dont hurt your self. because u have no good reason too. think of how your family would feel if u where gone ( not so good) so i wish u the best good luck
by tiana8552101 on 12/6/2010 4:53:32 PM
PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE don't hurt yourself. You have something to offer the world! You have everything to live for! Please don't take it away from yourself!!!!! We care.
by Miss Me1023 on 12/4/2010 10:24:40 AM
by bratzstyleem on 12/1/2010 5:30:38 PM
if u have fam or guys or ANY trouble then contact me on my profile
by c07at on 11/30/2010 5:50:14 PM
This is a horrible way to feel! First of all, cutting has absolutely NO EFFECT on your situation besides making it WORSE. Besides, you already know how it feels to cut. It hurts. Suicide is a horrible thing to do. Death is not any better than the life you`re in now. Imagine how your family and friends would feel if you offed yourself! It`s a terrible thing to do, and selfish. You may THINK that you want to do it, but what about your family? How would your little sister feel if you killed yourself? Your mom? Your best friend? Your pet dog, for gosh sakes?! DON`T DO IT. Do anything you can to make yourself happy, and if you`re still not happy: Fake it until you make it. If you really are still having trouble, talk to someone. Your life could be save just by saying a few words.
by happydays!:-) on 11/28/2010 6:06:57 PM
aww same thing its hard
by cre8tive_2114 on 11/27/2010 1:42:12 PM
We all feel depressed sometimes and feel like we dont deserve to live. People might not admit it, but it happens, even for a second. But you DO have a reason to live, thats why God made you. We all are here for a reason, and to fulfill our destiny. If you kill yourself, how are you supposed to do that? Think about how your friends and family would feel if they knew you were hurting yourself, and if you died. They obviously care about you, and dont want you out of your lives. Stay stong, and God bless.
by ValShmal98 on 11/27/2010 8:48:38 AM
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by cheerfreak on 11/27/2010 1:48:40 AM
i used to be a cutter a bad one and you could ask anyone who knows me you wouldnt be able to tell but last year i got so tired of getting treated like trash i turned to cutting but i relized all those ppl who turned me "emo" found out and tried to help me so they my pe teacher cuz shes 24 and wont over react rite now my bff is "emo" just for fun! im trying to get her to stop but she wont listen. i know something tht mite scare u out of it go to google images and search emo cuts thrs some pretty nasty 1s
by miss awesome 4eva on 11/27/2010 12:13:44 AM
I was a cutter, and a suicide waiting to happen. I just think of the people i love, and friends who neeed me. It only gets better, not worse, focus on the positive
by brokeshopperwah on 11/26/2010 10:54:51 PM
i get in some hard bumps sometimes too, and i always think to myself..."in a while, this will all be over, and it will just be a healed scar...just a memory."
by lijbsinger on 11/26/2010 10:53:54 PM
it is tough i used to have a friend who felt that same way but she got over it because she did something that got it off her mind and it was playing soccer. You should try doing sports are hanging out with your friends it really helps.
by Chripa on 11/26/2010 10:35:45 PM
I'm gonna tell you what my best friend told me in May (sometime around May) when I was telling her about wanting to cut myself the night before. Killing yourself is not going to solve anyone's problems. Hurting yourself won't solve your problems. Find an adult you trust ASAP and tell them you are having those feelings, you may be suffering from clinical depression. As bad as you may feel there is help out there. I remember my experence of wanting to hurt myself all too well. I had told my friend and started crying at lunch. I went to the nurses office and cried for the next hour. Another thing to remember is that everyone will get depressed to some degree at some point in their life so remember this quote "Depression happens, suicide doesn't have to." I hope you get help soon and remember how many people in your life love you for who you are and don't want to lose you.
by agforme95 on 11/26/2010 10:15:12 PM
I know how you feel. And you've probably heard this many times but it WILL get better. Cutting and self-hurting are serious problems that you need to talk to your counselor about. You do not want to have that eat away your life-- you have TONS of fun events to look forward to in the future! If you don't feel comfortable telling an adult, many people on places such as sixbillionsecrets and formspring can help you.
stay strong, you'll be in my prayers <3
by r3animated on 11/26/2010 9:33:40 PM
i used to be like that. the first time was last summer, and i got over it, and then about a month ago, i fell back into the habit. i am better now. you are in my prayers.
by spunkygirl03 on 11/26/2010 8:47:22 PM
you know in the past ive done the same thing...yes ive gotten help and i havent done it since like some people said tommorrow is a new day...look foward to it
by lexiswift13 on 11/26/2010 4:48:01 PM
Be smart!! remember that even though right now your life doesn't seem bareable, if you end it now, you will NEVER have a second chance, it will all be gone FOREVER. If something happened to make you this way, you NEED to tell someone no matter how hard it will be, I understand, I've been there. Even if you don't know why you feel this way, you can only find out if you talk about it, what doesnt kill you makes you stronger. Look at all the comments, your not alone, people care about you!! love, Lindsey
by linlybabygirl on 11/26/2010 4:35:42 PM
Girl, I'm glad you understand that this is a serious matter and you are seeking help. With the help of friends, family, and trusted adults you can get all the help that you need and save your life. Committing suicide is never the answer to anyone's problems. You still have your whole life ahead of you, and this is just a bump in the road, this will not take over your whole life. There are always ups and downs in life, but realizing that suicide is never the answer is the first step to getting the help you need. Good luck girlie♥ Elizabeth P.
by michipie205 on 11/26/2010 3:53:19 PM
wow... i am really sorry for you.
REMEMBER: Tomorrow is a NEW DAY!!!! (NOTE: Another reason to keep living! )
by hailbop16 on 11/26/2010 3:12:01 PM
by haleyhay3 on 11/26/2010 2:11:12 PM
Girl, this is a serious issue. Honestly, when a person gets to that point, they need other's help and love. And please don't think that committing suicide will end your problems. It's actually the most selfish thing a person can do because it causes a lifetime of emotional distress for your loved ones. So be brave and tell your mom. Moms are good at not judging.
by Browniej12 on 11/26/2010 1:16:13 PM
im back. Like i said U HAVE ALOT 2 LIVE 4. dont kill urself .talk to your mom, dad, or any trusted adult. I hope this helps save your life.
by nirvana fan on 11/26/2010 1:08:22 PM
Girl, you have SO,SO,SO much to live for. Talk to your mom, dad,or teacher. I hope this helps or saves your life.
by nirvana fan on 11/26/2010 12:52:52 PM
Honey. . . You should get some serious help. Don't tell a friend, please DON'T. They will tell other people and then its just worse.
by Cupcake1999 on 11/26/2010 12:12:01 PM
I know how you feel. I'm the same. But wouldn't you miss all your friends and family? That's what I think of before I start having the horrible thoughts.
by 1willynilly1 on 11/26/2010 11:58:50 AM
Everybody has these days, where it seems as if the nothing goes your way. This is extreme though, so seriously think about these consequences. As another comment states, You were put on this Earth for a reason. You are unique, beautiful, intelligent. People love and care for you, even if you don't think so- it's all true. Please don't give up. Talk to someone you really trust and tell them why you even considered this. I bet they will help you solve those problems. It may seem like a big hassle & you may just want it to end, but trust me, it will be worth it.
Good luck (:
by Prettyinpinkox on 11/26/2010 11:55:33 AM
Ill pray for you. Just because times are hard now just remember you WERE put on this earth for a reason and there will be something coming your way weather its tomarrow or ten years from now. Its coming
by bff61 on 11/26/2010 11:27:32 AM
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by Club Tough Stuff on 11/26/2010 10:09:39 AM
You are so amazing and strong to be able to tell someone about this. You're in my prayers.
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