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Is he teasing or flirting? Here's how to tell

I always get teased by a couple of boys. My friends say itÔÇÖs because the boys like me. Is that true?
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What if one of my guy friends calls me booger 'cuz that's what i called him once? And one time he told me i had nice boobs? What's the deal with that?

by greenie98 on 1/25/2011 9:51:46 PM


1.think of´╗┐ your crush

2.make a heart with your hands

3.then´╗┐ kiss your´╗┐ hands while still´╗┐ making the heart

4.then´╗┐ put the heart where your real heart is

5.tomorrow your´╗┐ crush´╗┐ will ask you out

6.this´╗┐ will´╗┐ only work´╗┐ if you´╗┐ post this´╗┐ to your favorite article

by LissieLou on 1/22/2011 2:11:21 PM


yh there teasin you cause your beautiful and prob harder to get then other girls so there gonna be jerks to you just let it roll of your sholders theyll stop soon =)

by PrincessHay123 on 1/18/2011 7:22:17 PM


Hey Everyone!
come check out my profile!!
post a rockin comment or question!
My profile is used to ask me questions that never get posted in the comment.
i will answer your question in my profile and on yours!!!

by kmn21 on 1/17/2011 7:35:45 PM


MOD MOD MOD!!! okay... so i have a best guy friend... we've been friends since we were born..... and i know he'll be there for me no matter what. but i sorta like him.... but i'm scared it could ruin our friendship. and he likes my cousin.. but knowing her it won't last long. what should i do? i really like him. but i still wanna be friends. help me?

Hey girlie. Try giving it some more time. Sometimes, we appreciate a guy in our lives so much for being such a good friend that we immediately think it could be more than friendship. Give it some more time before making the move.  
Elizabeth P.

by CourtMarie4815 on 1/14/2011 10:31:06 PM


MOD MOD MOD!!! Yesterday my boyfriend dumped me, but i wasn't really upset at the time. The same day, my best guy friend asked me out, and i said yes because he's well.. my best friend. Now i'm starting to realize that i miss my ex.. and i'm not ready to have another boyfriend. what do i do?!


Hey girl! If ya think you are rushing into things then maybe be honest with your bf afterall he is your best friend! If he is a true friend he will understand that you need some time to think things over! Goodluck girl! XOXO

Blaine D.

by -neversaynever on 1/11/2011 4:35:13 PM


Don't worry the same thing happens to me. They wouldn't tease you if they didn't like you. So try to talk to him. Try to make him laugh.

by Tpuppies on 1/9/2011 4:36:27 PM


MOD MOD MOD! Please help me!
Boys make fun of me at school and it is really hard to ignore them. They do it everyday and every time they get a chance. I just want to curl up in a ball and cry! They are all so rude! What do I do?

Hey! I'm so sorry they do that, what jerks. I know it's hard to ignore them, but think how stupid they'd feel if their teasing ACTUALLY didn't bother you. Try being nice to them. I know it sounds weird, but it totally throws bullies for a loop when you smile and wave at them or see how their weekend was. I'm not saying approach them with this stuff, but if they say something rude just  laugh and act like you think they're silly. it can prove that you don't let them under your skin. good luck! 
Helen S.

by nerdisthewurd26 on 1/9/2011 2:35:33 PM


I know what you mean.Guys always make fun of should just stick with your friends and be yourself.don't change so boys will like.they should like you for you!!! your awesome the way you areSmile

by gymgirl1998 on 12/30/2010 10:20:35 PM


Well they could like you. Beacuse, why would they waste their time talking to you if they didn't like you?

by b723sarah on 12/30/2010 7:13:05 PM


MODMODMOD MOD!!! Ok so there's this one boy who I think has a crush on me. He always talks to me but I'm not sure if he likes me or he's just mocking me because his other friends seem to do that a lot. What should I do?



Hey girly! I would try to talk to him as much as you can, without his friends around. Get to know him and see where that takes you Smile


Becca G.

by melissa423771 on 12/30/2010 5:37:52 PM


Thanks Becca, sorry for posting it twice! It didn't show up the first time.

by LoveingLizzie on 12/29/2010 8:41:00 PM


Mod. Okay,so there's this boy who I've known since I was 2.We went to preschool together(and went to the came church), and we were pretty good friends. Then when we graduated from preschool we went to different elementary schools.Now in 7th grade we are at the same school, and we have many classes together.I thought we would be friends again since I knew him so well from when we were little, but now he seems like he's out to get me! He's always teasing me, and getting me in trouble in class! He bugs me alot, and is just plain mean sometimes! We've had talks with teachers about it(even his dad!), because my favorite teacher notices it, but nothing seems to change! Everyone knows he hates me, and he actually likes my best friends and hangs with them alot! I don't know what to do! I don't like when he bugs me, because alot of it hurts! I have trouble ignoring him, because he's my partner in math.(My teacher won't move us)Please give me some advice with ways to ignore him!Thanks!



Hey chica! Maybe you shouldl talk to this guy and flat out ask him what his deal is. It's possible that if you confront him like that, just the two of you, something might get solved. If that still doesn't work, I would pretend like he means nothing to you. Don't be rude, but don't be friendly either. Just pretend like he doesn't matter at all to you. And, I would talk to your best friends about it and ask them to stick up for you!


Becca G.

by LoveingLizzie on 12/29/2010 8:27:59 PM


I think that somebody likes you!!!!

by AppleFrizzle22 on 12/28/2010 10:09:01 PM


ugh, I have the same thing with this guy I like, him and his friends will bug me every were I go

by Izzydizzy on 12/23/2010 9:30:08 AM


Ok well im 12 and i just got a bf. I asked him out and he said yes. Now he is not talking to me like he usually did before we were dating. Its not even been a week yet becuase he said yes to me on thursday.Does he like me? Or he wants to break up? Or he might have a problem with his family? Help PLEASE!


Hey chica. I'm not sure why he is not talking to you, but why don't you ask him. It does no good just wondering.

Elizabeth P.

by snowwysnoopy on 12/21/2010 3:45:56 PM


Okay, well to start off, I'm good friends with this guy and last year he used to tease me a lot (in a flirty way) and now he still teases me (but not as much) and sort of flirts with me. I really like him but it also seems like he flirts with other girls. So does he like me or not, or how do I find out?

Hey girlie! Well it seems like he does like you, but he probably likes a few other girls too. Since you really like him, keep flirting with him, and see if you start to take priority over the other girls. 
Marly Z.

by redgrl on 12/21/2010 1:55:17 AM


MODMODMOD! ok so at school my crush like me to play chase at recess. ok yeah i like to play it with him. but latly he's been getting too close. Saying some things that are hurtful. And getting so close to me we almost kissed. He told me he didn't like me back when i asked him if he liked me. Was he liying to me? I don't really mind this behavior cuz he's my crush but i know it's wrong. What should I do????


Hey girl, If it's wrong or hurtful, then maybe it's time to step away from the game for a while.  It's possible that he does like you, but if he's saying things that are hurtful, that's not right.  Find another game to play for now.  xoxo

Marie H.

by rockchic99 on 12/21/2010 12:10:26 AM


Come and join club911!
There is advice about everything. It is a great way to express your thoughts and feelings why you still mess around with the girls. Come and join right away. Can't wait to see you there!

love always,

by club911 on 12/20/2010 11:42:13 PM


there was this kid in my class and we were friends like i called him with my friends and we hung out outside of school. some moron said i liked him so i said that i didnt like him and he was too short. Now he has turned into a jerk to me only, calling me ugly and making fun of me. I ask my guy friend to get him to stop, but all he did was hang out with him more so me and my bffl have stopped talking to both. My bffl is the only one that will stand up for me. (my other girl friends would but they are never around when the boys are)

by coolchick98 on 12/20/2010 7:13:12 PM


mod mod
ok so i really like this guy but my close friend likes him to [she told me] and the guy asked me out. my friend and i never made a pact that she would go out with the guy if she got the chance, but i just fell weird saying yes. i never told her i liked him to cause i didnt want to hurt her feelings but now with hole he asked me out thingy im not sure a little help plz!!!

Hey girlie,

If you both never made any kind of agreement that you wouldn't go out with him, there's nothing necessarily keeping you from saying yes. But I think you do owe it to your friend to talk to her first and ask her how it would make her feel. Tell her that you do really like him and want to get to know him better since he asked you out, but you value your friendship too and wouldn't want to hurt her. Just be honest with her and see how it goes <3

Lauren C.

by lulurockshard on 12/20/2010 4:33:35 PM


MOD MOD ok so word got around that this guy is going to ask me to the winter formal.. i dont really know this guy that well, i mean we were partners in a few classes and my friend said she thought he liked me..but all my friends are telling me i should say no because hes weird. but i dont want to say no to him just because of what ive heard about him.. but then again i dont want to say yes to him incase he is weird like they say. im not really sure what to do. i dont really have that much time to get to know him because the winter formal is in two weeks.. Help!!

Hey chickie,

Sometimes, when it comes to guys, we have to take risks because we don't know everything about them before going out on a date or to a dance or whatever. But it's only a few hours with him! You'll be dancing, all your friends will be there, and when it's over you can head out. So if he ends up being fun and interesting, you'll be safe - and if he ends up not being your type, you won't have to commit for TOO long. If you wanna say yes because you might wanna get to know him better, I say go for it! Smile

Lauren C.

by Cherries51 on 12/20/2010 4:15:36 PM


Okay, so there's this guy that told my friend that he likes me. (For the second time in one month) My friend asked me if I liked him. I told her no, but I did a really me thing and told her to tell him I did. He asked me out and I never answered. I like him a little bit, but my other friend said it was a bad idea and I shouldn't go out with him. She also said she liked him. I don't know what to do?! Can you tell me what you would do?
Thanks, Have a Merry Christmas/Happy Hanukkah Laughing <3

Hey! you should tell that boy that you don't have feelings for him and you should apologize. That might not be easy but that is the right thing to do. good luck! 
Helen S.

by CharleneMariie1999 on 12/18/2010 4:28:08 PM


How do you ask out a guy indirectly? I play tennis with a guy and im pretty sure he likes me and i like him, but we are both shy, and i dont want to just ask him out right out of the blue. any ideas?


Hey girlie, the key is to be casual, talk about maybe a tennis event and how you don't want to go alone then say hey are you free to go...

Paige T.

by horsestar8 on 12/18/2010 1:35:33 AM


NEED ADVICE?! im here chickas!
just comment chicks!

by frizzheadgal on 12/15/2010 7:53:08 PM


Ok so my friend asked out my crush and he said yes! But I still have that nervous feeling when i'm around him and its really hard for me to talk to him. What can I talk to him about? I don't want him to slip through my fingers like sand! Please help! Please dont say something about a sports game! TY!


Hey girl. Just ask him what he is into and what his hobbies are. Then joke about a fave tv show you both watch or maybe what of your funny friends. Good luck. 

Elizabeth P.

by icebreaker373 on 12/14/2010 8:22:56 PM


MODMODThere's this guy I like that I go to these meetings with. My friend, who also goes to the meetings, says he likes me, but I can't tell! And worse of all, I can't go to the meetings anymore! I've always been to much of a wimp to ask for his number, and now I'll never see him again! WHAT SHOULD I DO?!

Hey girl. If you are feeling like you want to give him your number do this: Write your name and number on a piece of paper and give it to your friend to give to him at the next meeting. If he doesn't call, who care? You don't have to see him anymore. But if he does call, then you can see what happens from there : ) Good luck.
Elizabeth P.

by Viva-La-Cheesecake on 12/14/2010 4:41:31 PM


to SAMUELSBABE: Don't take this the wrong way, but you're in 5th grade. Your bgf who "loves" you doesn't really, what he means is that he likes you. Also, 2 years???? You started dating in THIRD GRADE !! Maybe you do really like him, but I think you're hormones haven't kicked in fully because if they had, the other guys wouldn't be enough to shake up a two year relationship. Just remember that you're only 10 ; nothing's serious then. Good luck Smile

by leftysrule11 on 12/14/2010 2:42:04 PM


MOD MOD:This guy that i like is kinda a bad-boy. I'm not really a trouble maker but i decided to go for it anyway. Sometimes he will start a fight with guys but never with girls.I'm only 12 and he's 13 or 14.My friends almost make it obvious that i like him to HIM.I'm worried about how he feels about me because there is a height difference. I only go up to his shoulders.What i wanna no is...will our different heights and ages affect the way he feels about me.


Hey girl!! A height difference? Don't worry! Height is very rarely a problem, plus most guys are taller than girls! Also, age shouldn't make much a difference either. If he's only a year or two older than you guys are probably about the same maturity level. Don't let either factor dissaude you! Hope this helps ya!

Caitlin F.

by dreamlove98 on 12/14/2010 7:39:52 AM


I really like this guy in my HR and in other of my classes and my friend wants to no if she wants her to ask him out for me but i really afraid of getting my heart broken... Should I let her i havent had a relationship with some1 i actually like b4... I need advice!

Hey babe,

It's tough to overcome the fear of being hurt, but you'll never be able to enjoy a relationship and get to know someone on a deeper level if you don't try! Make sure you really like him and that he makes you happy... and then you gotta take a deep breath and go for it. It might make ya feel nervous and it might scare you, but sometimes we have to do what scares us in order to feel a sense of accomplishment and satisfaction with it all. If you don't, you'll always wonder what it would've been like, won't you? <3

Lauren C.

by icebreaker373 on 12/13/2010 6:28:27 PM


ok so i have been dating this sweet guy for 2 years and now suddenly its the beginning of middle school so two of our schools 5th graders combine to one whole school and this guy has been bugging me a lot during the year and i yell at him to leave me alone now he doesnt bother me but he keeps telling ppl he likes me and now im worried that im gunna get pushed away from my bf cuz ever since the school year started a lot of guys have crushes on me and today a boy who is my bgf told me he loves me and he is dating someone already so now im creaped put plzplzplzplzplzplzplzplzplzplzplzplzplzplz help me im in a serious crisis!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Hey girl,

This is up to you: do you still care for your BF? Are you still committed to that relationship? If so, all of these other guys mean nothing! They can like you all they want but, if you want to be with your BF, they won't be able to ruin that. Just focus on giving your boyfriend your attention and emphasizing how much you care about him Smile

Lauren C.

by samuelsbabe on 12/13/2010 5:29:38 PM


Dear Carol,
I am going to high school next year and i still don't have a boyfriend. How can i get one before freshman year? need sever help!!!!!!!

boy less

by cp445322 on 12/12/2010 8:26:23 PM


I have friends in the eighth grade who have boyfriends. I wander why boys have been avoiding me. Sometimes I wand to scream my head off.

Cheyenne the weird

by cp445322 on 12/12/2010 8:18:59 PM


heyy how's ur holiday been so far? Smile
so, there's a boy i have a crush on, but he's pretty arrogant and obnoxious. sometimes when i text him, i'll tell him that. do u think i should continue to try to shape him? it's so hard having a crush on a boy i hate!
thank you so much!

Hey babe,

Think hard about this situation: what exactly do you even like about this boy? Is it just because you see him as a "project" that you can try to fix? That is definitely NOT a healthy way to approach a crush, so reevaluate things if that's the case! Get involved in a new activity or try to meet some of your friends' friends to branch out from this bad boy. There are all kinds of guys out there, and you can absolutely develop a crush on someone who is actually a GOOD person - you deserve that!

Lauren C.

by millina*girl on 12/12/2010 7:35:39 PM


Ok, so I had a major cruch on this guy & he & I were great friends. But then, some girls told him I had said he liked me & texted me first all the time, but I didn't say it! I apologized for what they said & he said it was ok, but he hasn't talked to me since. I've tried to talk to him but he gives me a short reply & walks away. My friends keep telling me its because he likes me too and hes nervouse, but I think he hates me. What do I do? I want my friend back.

hey! just try to interact with him like nothing's wrong. If he sees that you're not nervous, he will relax too Smile 


Helen S.

by JBboysRoc on 12/12/2010 3:01:01 PM


I like this guy and two days ago he said he liked me out loud to everyone, but my friends and I couldn't tell if he was just kidding or telling the truth. When I asked him if he liked me, he said no and that he was just kidding. Now I really want to tell him I like him, but I don't want to make a fool of myself if he doesn't like me back! What should I do???????????????

hey! I think you should just wait and see what happens, if he does like you it sounds like he's not too shy about saying it ;) 

Helen S.

by gabbystar on 12/12/2010 1:14:19 PM


Hey Mod, There's this new kid at school that in my science class. He stares at me a lot and at first I thought he was just looking at the girl next to me, but he always come over and tries to talk to me. Then the other day he randomly comes over and knocks one of my books off the table and then walks away. What gives? Thanks.

Hey girlie. It seems like he's trying to get your attention, so he might like you! 
Marly Z.

by GothGirl26 on 12/11/2010 11:47:43 PM


I totally know what it's like 2 b teased by guys! the guys at my school tease me all the time. They would call me fat and ugly, but it was more in a laughing sense cause I am super fit and they all call me pretty behind my back. I learned to get used 2 it and not let it bother me. Now, my life is much happier.

by sszuhaj on 12/11/2010 8:13:47 PM


heya! i have this friend who recently last year started talking to a whole bunch of cute hotties and started dating all of them ( not at the same time) my prob? it was really sudden. i mean i haven't had a bf in two years and shes had atleast 5 in the past 2 years! what gives? thanks in advance! Laughing

Hey girlie. Just because you haven't dated as many guys doesn't mean anything is wrong. If you want to start dating more guys, try talking to them more! Sometimes guys are shy and need the confidence to talk to you, so if you start the conversations, they might feel more inclined to talk more!
Marly Z.

by dreamerwithaheart on 12/11/2010 6:36:17 PM


My friend and I were arguing about my being pretty, I laughed and said nooo! My guy friend turned to me and said Stop, you are far from ugly. This is also the guy who jumps to pick up my pencil when I drop it. This is also the guy who when i told him about an issue I had and why my boifriend and i broke up, he made me clarify that my boifriend and i were broken up out of 4 things this is also the boy who is confusing me, and who I've modded about before. Im just vey confused sorry, and im not good with guys. Thanks again Smile

Hey girlie. Well, if he's confusing you, the only thing to do is to talk to him so you can clarify how he feels. From the sounds of it though, it seems like he has a thing for you!
Marly Z.

by Glikeitornot89 on 12/11/2010 6:26:56 PM


I didn't mean it in a bad way! I really meant the the thanks.

by kazthespaz on 12/11/2010 5:19:50 PM


Ouch, haha. Thanks, Elizabeth P.


 Heyy. I'm sorry, I didn't mean to be! I just want to help you and I do that by being honest. Let me know if you want more advice on the topic and we can figure out a good plan of action : )

Elizabeth P.

by kazthespaz on 12/11/2010 4:05:54 PM


Hey, thanks for answering. I really like this guy at my school, I'm a sophomore and he's a senior. He told me I was cute and he tried to get me to hang out one weekend but I was grounded. But he kind of flirts with all girls he knows (he even told me he has a hard time keeping his eyes on one girl) and he started acting really awkward around me and avoiding me. Recently we started talking again but he seems really shy and awkward still around me and when I invite him to do stuff with my friends at lunch, he usually says no. What could be going on?

Hey girlie. I don't think you should try to be with a guy who "has trouble keeping his eye on one girl." He doesn't sound like that great of a guy and someone who is used to girls flocking to him. Don't stroke his ego by being one of those girls. Instead, want more for yourself-look for a guy who chooses one girl to be with rather than the whole class. Don't waste your effort on him, girlie. You deserve better.
Elizabeth P.

by kazthespaz on 12/11/2010 2:09:45 PM


MOD MOD MOD!!! ive had this problem for a while now. i broke up with my bf recently, and ive been gettng "hate mail" from his goofy friends. at first it was just the funny stares in the hallway and stupid comments, and his friends and i would laugh it off, but one of the guys, as ive gotten to know him, is bad news bears. he goes too far with the teasing, and is mean to girls. yesterday he texted my bffl and i callin us bad words. we blocked his number now, and im deciding to be really strict about talking to him. what else should i do?? im so confused on how to act around this guy now because no guy has ever treated me bad and teased me like that. to make things worse, the ex-bf isnt stopping them at all, he just looks at them tease me from afar... but should i expect him to tell them to stop?? ugh im so confused. help!

Hey girlie. He should tell his friends to stop, but unfortunately, they are all young and immature. I would say, if you are confident enough to do so, confront them about it. Go up to him and say "stop it before I have to get the school involved." You have to stand up for yourself and claim the respect that you deserve as a female and as a person in general. If they don't stop, then tell him you are going to talk to the school about it. There is no reason for him to treat you badly. Ask him why he is acting like this and tell him that he needs to mature and get over it-it's not like you broke up with him! 
Elizabeth P.

by emmybooboo on 12/11/2010 2:08:29 PM


i know exactly what you mean! sometimes it really is true! guys do stupid things and show their emotions in weird ways. sometimes they are just plain stupid and you should just ignore them when they are! some guys can be really down to earth, though! try those guys instead of worrying about the others!

by stargrl2476 on 12/11/2010 12:43:43 AM


hey girls! wasn't sure where to put this, but i need to ask: 1) what is your definition of epic?
and 2) if you could pick one of the epicest (teehee!) things ever, what would it be? (like a book, song, quote, or anything!)
comment yr answers on my profile! Smile

by OrchDork123 on 12/10/2010 11:44:10 PM


i'm going through the same thing! he teases me and all, jokes he around with me, and EVERYONE says he likes me! though i don't like him anyways.

by katiekakes8 on 12/10/2010 10:16:29 PM


How do you know if a guy likes you back when he knows you like him?
So my babblermouth friends told him that I like him! But whenever my friends talk to him about me they tell me that he says Yes! or smiles and walks away. He talks with other girls but... ignores me. I know for sure that he's aware I'm near him when I am(it vibrates off him almost lol) He started to talk with my friend today that was walking next to me about a prostitution debate they were having in class( hes wierd like that) and he looked at me and then looked away. I'm starting to get pissed off. I think I'm going to start taking the longer way to homeroom on Monday using the younger's grade's wing. Help me?

Hey girlie. If he knows you like him and is giving your friends hints about liking you back, then just try talking to him-normal conversation like "hey, how was class," or "what are your plans for the weekend." See if he actually talks to you or gives you shorter answers. If he blows you off by not really responding then I would say find another guy. You can't wait around forever to see if he likes you or is confident enough to talk to you about it. Good luck!


Elizabeth P.

by DianaSiuta101 on 12/10/2010 8:55:30 PM


That happened to me for like a year. At first it was mean but then he got flirty and we ended up dating. He was really sweet too. But if they are saying things painful or hurtful I would walk right up to them and ask why and tell them to lay off. No girl needs that.

by DayÔÖąDreamer on 12/10/2010 7:42:08 PM


MOD, Mod!!
My birthday is next month, and i really wanna have a party i will be turning 14, but the problem is there will be lots of exams and midterms and all my friends and me will be studying Frown so no time for a party , plz tell me what should i do or what are some alternatives Smile and thx


Hey girl. Even though your actual birthday is next month, maybe you could have a joint Christmas/birthday celebration. Or if you would rather have it in January, wait until exams are over to have the party. On your actual birthday, celebrate with your parents and family, then pick a free weekend (exam free) for a party with friends! Try to be flexible. 

Elizabeth P.

by rolapa on 12/10/2010 7:46:36 AM


Hey, i live around guys, they my friends, i got girls for friends to, mostly guys though, You can tell if they like you if its mean ish teasing, but also flirtying like, this guy asked me out, and he kept annoying the heck out of me before. listen to your heart, i can never stay quite, you can mostlikely, be lucky

by Alex924 on 12/10/2010 7:18:54 AM

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