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What to give my BGF?

I really like my BGF and he likes me too. We aren't dating but we might soon. With Christmas coming up, I was wondering what...
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My bgf and I really like each other a lot. We found out we both like each other in December, but since then nothing different has happened like no hugs or anything, just talking on the phone a little more often. It is starting to feel like nothing is going to happen differently and I should just give up on him. Help!


Hey chica! Hmm...I think I'd ask him what's up! He told you he liked you, then nothing. That's not fair! Find out if he has any intentions on being more than friends or not, that way you're not just waiting around. You need to make sure your happy and silently waiting for a change probably won't get ya there. Good luck, girl! Hope this helps Smile

Caitlin F.

by rahrah351 on 2/25/2011 11:13:46 AM


my noyfriend and i dont really talk much and i always have to send the first text! i feel like im annoying him so i stopped texting him for a week but i couldnt do it what should i do?!?!?! help!!!!

by haileyxoxo5 on 1/13/2011 8:26:11 AM


MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD my bgf who i like but i dont know if he likes me started like... playing footsie with me the other night at a party during a movie, i thought it was an accident, so i walked away and talked to another friend and came back and he did it again, hes really not the kinda guy who would to this as a joke, and i dont know what to think of it! HELP what do you think it means?!?!?!

Hey girlie, I definitely think he likes you but he is afraid to admit or make the first move  
Paige T.

by craziness123 on 1/2/2011 9:32:16 PM


ask him if he got what he wanted for christmas. Then ask him what he wanted that he didn't get.then if it's to expensive by him somthing he would like but cheap.

by maddieson on 12/27/2010 12:49:40 PM


I got my bgf a mix tape since he's really into music and i made it myself! simply take his or your favorite songs, download it to a Cd, and then call it something cool! If you've got questions on how to do this just comment on my profile!

by candy13133 on 12/24/2010 12:27:12 PM


Christmas is extremely close. My boy friend promised that he would buy me a Christmas gift, but I don't know what I can get to match up to his gift. All I know is he's buying his off a cruise!

by nutmeg22 on 12/23/2010 5:53:24 PM


Mod mod mod Sorry. I'll be kinder in the future. Ive got somthing else bothering me and i got really diva just then. Im sorry!



Hey chica! No biggie, I totally understand. We're all stressed out this time of the year. If I had the authority to moderate your profile, I totally would. But unfortunately, I don't. Hopefully whatever is wrong works itself out soon Smile


Becca G.

by ♄ThePerfectPerson♄ on 12/22/2010 7:51:19 PM


MOD MOD MOD MOD Dude. I made this profile Monday night. Its not fair for you guys to "moderate" it for 3 days. It doesnt take three days to read a profile. More like 3 minutes. Lets pick up the pace. Please? If anything, just one of you mods moderate it right now! Lets get snappy. Thanks, Bette.



Hey chica! For future reference, if you want someone to do something for you, then typically you ought to be nice to them. Otherwise, people aren't going to want to do nice things for you. The Girls' Life offices are closed for the holidays, actually. That's why it hasn't been moderated yet.


Becca G.

by ♄ThePerfectPerson♄ on 12/22/2010 7:33:54 PM


okay so i have a boyfriend, who is super sweet and i am in love with him. anyways, what should i get him for christmas?? I'm freaking out because i cant find a gift!
thanks! <3


Hey girlie. Do you know his favorite sports team or perhaps any hobbies he interested in? Does he enjoy books? If so, find out his favorite author and get him a book. It's all about paying attention. What does he talk about when he around you? Go from there...

Elizabeth P.

by mrsjonas3 on 12/21/2010 6:07:17 PM


MOD MOD MOD... so i have a bf for almost a year now. but i think i like my guy best friend, thing is, we dont talk much anymore because my bf hates it. i sometimes would sneek around with my bgf w/o my bf knowing. i dont know what to do. i really love my bf so much. but i hate not being allowed to talk to my bgf anymore. ive known my bgf for almost 3 years now. its really hard. whats going on? idk what to do?!!!!


Hey girl, I'm so sorry to hear about the confusing sitch.  I would definitely recommend talking to a close pal who know the guys.  They can give you their perspective on the sitch.  First, it's probably best to make a decision about your relationship with your bf.  If you love him, you need to decide if it's worth giving up your relationship with your bgf, or if it's time to move on.  I know it's hard, but the decision is ultimately up to you.  xoxo

Marie H.

by shortiezone on 12/20/2010 8:46:18 PM


okay so long story short, i was texting my crush and i told him he better not have been naughty for christmas, and he said what would happen if he was and i told him he would get coal in his stocking
so i got him this toy coal thing, and i don't know how to go along giving it to him, should i tell him to come to my house to get it, or leave it on his car? i don;t know help me out thanks!

Hey chickie,

That's cute! It's always best to give gifts in person, I think, so either invite him over to give it to him or bring it with you when you're going to hang out with him sometime Smile

Lauren C.

by dancegirl321 on 12/20/2010 5:01:01 PM


hey thanks for the advice but would it be considered cheating or something like that? and my crush here is really into music but idk what to get him. plus im low on cash and i gotta get my friend a prezzie too MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD

by WeirdChicka7 on 12/20/2010 4:44:43 PM


MOD MOD so theres this guy whos a big player (he literally has a different girlfriend every few weeks).. the other day he asked my friend for her number and they started to text eachother. she confessed to me that she likes him even though i warned her that he was a total player. he asked her out and shes not sure what to say. she asked me for advice and im not sure what to tell her! i want her to be happy, but i dont want her to get her heart brocken. what do you think i should tell her?? and what do you think she should do??


Hey chica, First off, it's so great that you are looking out for your friend!  If you have some concerns about this dude, I think it's okay to tell her.  If she asks for your honest opinion, let her know why you're worried, and give specific examples.  But it's important to remember this is her decision - neither you nor I can tell her what's right!  Give her your thoughts, but also let her know you'll support her either way.  xoxo

Marie H.

by Cherries51 on 12/20/2010 4:25:16 PM


hey i sorta have a bf online when im not supposed to but he lives in NY while i live in South Carolina. Here i have a crush whose 14 while im 12 and i want to get him something for christmas... should i or not? and if so what?!??! plz help me?!?!? MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD


Hey girlie, it's really nice that you want to give him something for christmas I think if you want to you should. Think about what he likes sports, music, video games and get him an accessory relating to that a shirt, a key chain, cd,

Paige T.
Marie H.

by WeirdChicka7 on 12/19/2010 9:26:19 PM


MODMODMOD I recently just got a bf. But idk what to get him for christmas. I was thinking about getting him different kinds of candy. Do you know if there is a store where they sell a little bag of candy thats cheap. Or do i have to go around and buy different candies. Please Help!



Hey chica! Most malls have a candy store where you can mix and match as much candy as you want. Or, you could always bake him some cute cookies Smile


Becca G.

by snowwysnoopy on 12/19/2010 5:08:24 PM


my bgf is this really great, cute guy. I really like him and i suspect he likes me too. I went to a dance last night and he stopped over at concessions and pretended to look at the clean-up list so he could keep glancing up at me.
Another thing is hes really open when we text, but shy in real life. and last night he texted me and asked who i liked. he said he liked to girls and told me one. then, after a few "you firsts" i told him that he would have to tell me person. I dont know what to say if its me or if it isnt me!!! PLEASE HELPPPP!!!!


Hey girlie, well if you like you should tell him that you like him back. 

Paige T.

by heytiger26 on 12/18/2010 10:22:17 AM


i like this guy and he likes me should i get him somthing for x-mas? i'm making christmas cookies for all my friends but he'll be in the room when i pass them out should i give him some? how can i get him to do somthing besides flirt because he is super shy.

by ladykate100 on 12/18/2010 12:00:58 AM


Food! I made my crush chocolate covered pretzels... they were so easy and he loved them!

by sockmonkey49 on 12/17/2010 9:50:49 PM


lately i have been really itchy "down there" and it burns when i pee. i want to tell my mom to get me a doctor appointment but she wont cuz my dads a doctor so she will just tell me to go talk to him but i really dont want to talk about that with my dad! so my questions: 1) what do you think is wrong with me? 2) how do i get my mom to take me to the doctor and not my dad?

Talk to your mom about the issue and explain how youre not very comfortable with the whole issue and telling your dad. Im sure she'll understand how you feel. Good luck! xoxo kerra 

Kerra S.

by rightfield1 on 12/15/2010 9:59:32 PM


I have an idea for everyone, cook something! Cupcakes, cookies, brownies, his fav. food! Its what I'm doing.

by iluBumbleBree on 12/15/2010 9:38:00 PM


NEED ADVICE?! im here chickas!
just comment chicks!

by frizzheadgal on 12/15/2010 7:50:57 PM


MODMODMOD My BGF told me that his ex wants to go back out with him.And he said maybe. Then my BGF said you sould go out with (me) my crush also said maybe. So tomorrow my BGF is gonna ask him out for me at lunch. Idk what to do or who he will pick!! PANACKING!!!!



Hey chickadee! I wouldn't worry too much. Whatever happens, happens. And, if he doesn't choose you, then he's not worth your tears. It'll just free you up to date another cutie!


Becca G.

by snowwysnoopy on 12/15/2010 5:55:38 PM


MODERATOR!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Okay so I have a BF and his b-day is tomorrow and i don't know what to give him. we don't really have any inside jokes so above is not much help. Also i would like to get him something for christmas but i don't know what to get him. also i'm 11 and want to hug him on the bus ramp when we go our seperate waays and i don't feel confortable talking to him 'bout it. Please HELP!



Hey chica! You could always make him a mix CD of his fav songs or band. Or, give him a gift certificate to a store that he likes. Even more fun, you could bake him cookies and give him a card. As for the hug, I would just lean in and go for it! Smile


Becca G.

by Samlover2247 on 12/15/2010 5:42:25 PM


okay if u have a bf what are u getting him..plz write on my profile bc i have no idea what to get my bf. thnks

by tay12zdot on 12/15/2010 5:14:45 PM


i want to get/make something for my crush, but i don't know what! i honestly don't know much about him except that he's really nice and likes me. do you have any basic ideas that i could elaborate on? thanks!

by the_last_ninja on 12/15/2010 2:32:12 PM


Thanks mod (Alyssa B.)!!!! you're amazing!

by *Sigh* on 12/14/2010 11:58:10 PM


so last year I got my crush a little something for Christmas and this year I'm in the process of making him a hat. At first I thought it'd be a great idea cause he likes to hunt and stuff but now I'm not so sure because he usually doesn't wear beanies just hats w/bills, I thought at first he'd be sure to wear it but now I kinda doubt he will just because he'd like be ashamed just cause he'd get teased alot...but the problem is I'm low on funds and I already made one hat for him but decided it would be too small, then I got half-way done with a bigger sized one and messed up so I had to restart and so now I'm almost finished with the good one and now I don't know if he'll like it! what do I do??

Hey girl, I think he'll love it because you made it for him. Be confident. It's about the thought first and foremost.

Alyssa B.

by *Sigh* on 12/14/2010 11:48:53 PM


I'm nearly 16 and I've never had a bf, been kissed or on a date. Recently a guy asked me out, I couldn't go, but honestly I didn't want too, even though I liked him. He still likes me but I don't like, like him anymore. Now I just want to find a great guy who I actually want to go out with. Why are my emotions all over the place and why can't I make up my mind on wether I like the guy that asked me out?
Please, help!

Hey girl, because you probably don't like, like this guy. I have friends in college who have never been kissed, on a date or had a boyfriend. They're some of the prettiest girls I know, and it's not them. It's just they haven't met the right guy yet. And you haven't either. Don't sweat not having firsts and definitely don't settle. Patience is rewarded, trust me. When the right guy comes around, it'll all be worth it. But for now, focus on you and your friends. They're enough to keep you busy too.

Alyssa B.

by ~liv4dance~ on 12/14/2010 11:05:20 PM


Do you have any ideas for a spa sleepover?

Hey girl, start with a manicure and pedicure and then do facial masks and then a makeover (different makeup, hair). You can always watch a movie after too!

Alyssa B.

by pawprint1001 on 12/14/2010 9:20:54 PM


Haha, i was the one who asked this!! Smile and he finally asked me out!!! LaughingDD but i am not kidding, i did ask this!!Smile

by avolleyballqueen7 on 12/14/2010 7:31:03 PM


How can i make NEW friends?? =D


Go up to girls at school and ask to eat lunch with them. Join a new club or run for a leadership position in school. These are great ways to meet new people. Don't rule anyone out. I become friends with people that I never normally would talk to, and they end up being the best people I know : )

Elizabeth P.

by xxjustinbieberxx on 12/14/2010 7:20:21 PM


My friend has a boyfriend and today I saw her sitting on another guy's lap. Another one of my friends told me that wasn't even possible, and I'm probably the most naive person ever, so is my friend just making this up to get attention and was it wrong for her to sit on that other guy's lap? I'm pretty old fashioned and would never do something like that so I'm wondering if I'm just overreacting, and is it wrong I don't really want her as a friend anymore?


Hey girl. It's hard to say if she is lying or not. But maybe just ask her everything is okay. When people do lie, it's because something is going on in their lives and maybe they are looking for attention in the wrong places. Be a good friend, and ask if things are alright. Otherwise, it's good for you to have your morals about things you do with guys, and you have to decide if you don't mind being friends with girls who don't have the same morals, or if you want to find those girls who share the same morals as you. I'm like you though...old fashioned-keep it classy ; )

Elizabeth P.

by glamourgirl2 on 12/14/2010 6:56:37 PM


MOD♥ My bgf has a huge crush on me and he asked me out, but i have no idea what to say. this other girl also likes him and he said he likes her a little too but he said im the one he wants to be with. im just so confused, i might like him a little but not really enough to want to go out with him. im more in love with the idea of having a boyfriend, then dating him, which is why i might say no because i dont want to hurt him. i dont know what to say though. what should i do? thank you.


Hey girlie. I think you should follow your heart. If you don't think you like him, then you should trust that instinct. Try telling him that you know a girl who likes him and will be a better match for him Smile

Elizabeth P.

by michipie205 on 12/14/2010 5:59:34 PM

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