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I'm nervous! My dude's into drugs

I finally found the boy of my dreams. He’s nice, popular and cute. The problem is, he uses drugs and alcohol. He says he’s trying to quit...
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MOD MOD MOD! My former BGF has just become friends with a boy who's into drugs. The boy who's into drugs somehow managed to give some marijuana to my former BGF. He got high and started eating at least 8 packs of sour patch kids and was whacking another kid with his uniform bag(he's in marching band ans so is the boy who's into drugs). NowI'm very worried and concerned about my former BGF. What should I do?




Hey girl,

Your BGF is lucky to have you as a friend. Since you're concerned, the best thing to do is have a one-on-one conversation with him. You should probably do it somewhere private, like after school, so you don't make a scene. Politely and gently tell him why you're upset. The calmer you are, the less he'll see you as accusing him of being bad. Chances are, he is confused about what he's doing, and you can show him how to do the right thing. Good luck! 
Rachel N.

by girlygirl/tomboy on 11/9/2011 10:25:35 AM

 
 


Hey girl, to be honest, it isn't sips that are bad, it's going overboard and drinking too much, which so many kids your (and my age — college) do. You should not let other people pressure you into behaviors like that. Drinking is illegal because your brain is still developing and alcohol impairs that growth; your brain won't be fully developed until your early 20s (hence the 21 drinking age). I think it's important you think through who you're making these decisions for. It's so much more important you make decisions for you and off of what's right rather than what your bf is doing. He likes you as you are now. Why change that?

xoxo
Alyssa B.

by Qt Mouse on 8/25/2011 9:27:54 PM

 
 

i think you should folow your heart and see what happenes because i would breakup with him because i would be kind when i did and tell him why.

by lalagigi on 3/28/2011 3:09:54 PM

 
 

MODMODMODMOD
My friend is in to drugs. she gets high every day before P.E., and its kinda scary. well be walking and shell yell "OH MY GOD THE SKY'S GREEN!!!!!!!!!!!!! So you see that cloud? it looks like a smiley face! woah..." on a blue skied, no cloud day! one day she was REALLy tripped out and was mumbling "2 ounces! i did 2 OUNCES" (of marijuana) what do i do??

 

Hey girlie, that's always a tough situation to be in. Unfortunately, as you get older more of your friends will want to try different things like drugs and alcohol. Try talking to her about how much it's hurting her and the people around her. You can always talk to a school guidance counselor about what to do, and they will certainly have tips for you.

Clare W.

by MalibuCheetah on 2/18/2011 1:22:29 AM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD MODMOD I met a girl who is really nice and I thought might eventually become my friend, but she revealed to me that she drinks, smokes pot, and is pressuring her bf to have sex. Can I help her without making her hate me, especially because I don't know her very well?

 

Hey girl, Since this is a chica you don't know very well, I would proceed with caution.  It's unlikely you can really change her behavior, especially if she's not looking to change at the moment.  You can still be friendly with her and chat at school, but it's probably best to leave it at that.  You want to spend time with people who make smart choices.  xoxo

Marie H.

by doomgrl31 on 1/24/2011 10:46:24 PM

 
 

how do you send ur "questions" into carol or bdill and dave? plus idk how ot get over my ex bf. i really need help. he wanted to iss me. (frist time, awkward much?!?!)But 3 days before the dance he cheated on me. I should beable to get over him but for somme reason i can't. I think it's because he was the only guy that ever asked to kiss me. We split up 3 onths ago so i really REALLY need help.

by native<3 on 1/24/2011 8:35:49 PM

 
 

PLEASE DON'T READ THIS, YOU WILL BE KISSED ON THE NEAREST POSSIBLE FRIDAY BY THE LOVER OF YOUR LIFE. TOMMORROW WILL BE THE BEST DAY OF YOUR LIFE. NOW YOU'VE STARTED READING THIS, DON'T STOP, THIS IS FREAKY.

1. Say your name 10 times.
2. Say your mom's name 5 times.
3. Say your crush's name 3 times.
4. Paste this to 4 other quizzes. If you do this, your crush will kiss you on the nearest Friday, but if you read this and do not paste this, then you will have very bad luck! SEND THIS TO 5 QUIZZES IN 143 MINUTES. WHEN YOU'RE DONE PRESS F6 AND YOUR CRUSH'S NAME WILL APPEAR IN BIG LETTERS ON THE SCREEN. THIS IS SO FREAKY BECAUSE IT ACTUALLY WORKS


by tor626 on 1/24/2011 12:40:00 AM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD!!! ok so last year i liked this guy and he said he had trust issues and shared why. i always felt kinda special that he told me that cause he hates to talk about it. we were pretty good friends and then my friend told him i liked him. he said that he wasn't "ready for a girlfriend" at the time. things kind of got awkward between us after that and he stopped talking to me as much. but this year he's in my history class and we're friends again. he's really friendly to me and gives me high fives and talks to me all the time, but he does that to other people too. but sometimes he acts shy and doesnt give me high fives when he gives them to other people!! my friend says she thinks we flirt & sometimes i catch him looking at me in history or p.e., but what if it's just a coincidence? i really like him but i'm afraid to say something because i don't want to lose him as a friend like last time. i dont think i would get him back as a friend again. i don't know what to do!!

 

 

Hey chica! As tough as it is, I would hold off for now on telling him how you feel. He knows that you like him, since your pal told him, so the ball is in his court. If he feels the same way back, then it's his turn to make a move.

xxx

Becca G.

by shineyourlife on 1/23/2011 4:44:26 PM

 
 

if i was you, id make him choose, don't let him take to long to answer, if you does say good bye and go your separate ways

by BriBri14 on 1/20/2011 5:36:57 PM

 
 

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