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Ok so me and my stepdad and mom have been fighting a lot lately. I also wanted to spend more time with her and be able to talk I her more,I told her and she said we would. Nothing has changed I told her that last year and I keep trying to tell her but she doesn't listen, she actually started talking and hanging out with my step dad more! my mOm married my stepdad when I was 3 do we were kinda close. My mon always has put my stepdad before me in anything.he makes fun of me a lot and she knows and does nothing about it. I try talking to her but she always finds a way not to. I was thinking about moving with my dad but he's really selfish and my stepmom is really mean and doesnt like me I don't know what to do HELP!?!?!,

Hey babe,

You need to find a way to force her to sit down and take you seriously on this. It may involve going to your Dad or your Stepdad as an outside force. Let her know just how much you want to do this and that with the way things are you wonder how much she really cares about you, that you just want to be closer to her. Jordan S.

by Haileygab on 5/28/2012 8:02:31 PM

i feel the exact same way thanks for giving advice on this

by kayla8575 on 10/21/2011 3:29:21 PM

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I am thinking of kissing my bf tomorrow but i am scared bc i havent kissed anyone b4. wat should i do? Help!

Hey babe,

Take a deep breath - a first kiss can be scary, but it'll be totally fine! Read our kissing guide for all the most important tips

Lauren C.

by abens1997 on 4/25/2011 10:25:24 PM

i under stand your problem Same with me ive been having silly problems with my dad all the time like when i need to talk to him and he is in pain he just yells and says WHAT!!! and i feel like he dosnt care for me.and sometimes he just gets mad at me for no reason or just not cleaning my room i dont get it i well on my own time but he dosnt have to yell at me!!!??? hes my only parent and he just had a STROKE.that really scares me.he is just being an good parent but he dosnt understand me at all.i really need my space and i cant even talk to him about my feeligs...What do i do????

by mozilla10 on 3/16/2011 10:52:51 AM

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My mom says bad things about my dad to my face, so I tell my dad and then he call's my mom saying "I don't like that you keep saying bad things about me." and then she gets peeved and punishes ME for something SHE said. Help??
(please?!)

Hey girlie, I think you should tell your dad, and ask him what you should do

Paige T.

by love_10 on 2/26/2011 9:59:20 AM

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okay so i'm a 8th grader and i have a freind who is a senior and recently we have gotten realy close and so shes like my sister so her 18th b-day is coming up and she realy wants me to go and i realy want to go to. the problem is i will be one of the youngest. also her dad will not be there but her older brother and his feance will be shaperoning there will also be a cupple other shaperons my parents know her brother and feance and another one of the shaperons. also this is a girl guy allnighter. do you have any tips on how i should ask my parents?

Hey girlie,

Try bringing up the idea of the party to them and explain maturely how much she means to you as a friend. If they seem skeptical or a little hesitant, that's ok. Give them her brother and his fiance's contact info so they can talk to them and ask any questions they might have. Remember to be calm and don't throw a fit, even if they say no. It's their decision at the end of it so you have to respect them... but being 100% honest with them about the entire thing will make them trust you more and they'll be more likely to say yes!

by alaina978978 on 2/14/2011 7:54:54 PM

saammeee heerreee):

by peacelovecandy on 2/7/2011 8:12:58 PM

aww that suckss girliee, i hope things work outt!

by lili545 on 1/23/2011 9:58:16 PM

MOD MOD! PLEASE HELP! my mom is so mean to me! im in 8th grade, and my family just moved a half an hour away from where we used to live, and my mom PROMISED, as in a REAL promise, that we would NOT move until AFTER 8th grade, so i could be with my friends and graduate together and go on a feild trip to cedar point at the end of the year, but she totaly went against every promise she made to me in the past 6 months. she promised that she would drive me to my old neighborhood to see my old friends whenever i needed to,and i know that one is hard, but she stll broke it anyway, and i was just at my friends birthdat party,where she tried to pick me up early (but she ended up being late)just so she could take me home and hang out with her friends, even though i was at my friends party, THAT SHE HAS BEN PLANING ALL YEAR, just so she could go out with her friends(which she decided to do like on friday)!! i always tell her how i feel and she denies it! PLS HELP!

Hey girlie. Talk to her again. Make sure you don't come at her aggressively and instead voice your opinion calmly. If you're still having problems getting through to your mom, try talking to a guidance counselor at school.

Marly Z.

by emscool1234 on 1/22/2011 9:26:54 PM

MOD MOD MOD My mom told me she doesn't trust me anymore since I've been getting in trouble a lot. She keeps repeating stuff like what am I going to do when your 15 and stuff. I really wanna gain her trust back. Any advice?

Hey chica! The best way you can earn her trust back is through your actions. Avoid getting in trouble, and show her how responsible you are. Do well in school, be respectul and follow the rules. And, help her out around the house when you can

xxx

Becca G.

by Soccergirl68 on 1/20/2011 6:43:41 PM

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