Hey elizabeth!
sorry for sooooo many questions! so you told me to talk to her face to face, but when ANYONE tries to talk to her (like a teach) she will be all nice for a period, then go back. or if a friend tries to talk to her she will make up an excuse saying, "whatever. i did it because he/she irks me!" (irks is her word for bother)
so i am going down the other path of trying to separate from her. how do i do that if she follows me and my friends where ever we go?
thanks for at least trying!!!!

Hey girlie. Hm. That is tough. Try talking to her and saying that you think she is mean sometimes that you don't want to hang out with someone is always mean. Say if she does not try to be nicer then you are going to distance yourself from her. Maybe that will motivate her to be nicer so she doesn't lose all of her friends.  

hey elizabeth! before you answered my question about my "friend" needs moere friends, but the thing was that she has a lot of friends, she just is mean to them, just unrealizing the insults she does? what do i do now?

Hey girlie. Have you tried talking to her about it--just you two? If so, then maybe you can just slowly drift from her and hang out with girls that you are nice and not insulting.  

moderator!!! please help me out!!!
so i have 2 questions!
1. well at my school, every one likes hugs. even when they arent in a relationship! i am not the hugging type so i feel awkward when friends hug me. I wouldnt mind if i havent seen this person in a long time, but i see them everyday... maybe even last period.
2. also, i feel really nervous when my basketball coach talks to me. i think is because was on his basketball team, so there was a lot of yelling. and since i was the best player, i alway get yelled at. he wants to come to one of my basketball games for a different team, but i dont want him to yell at me when i am not even playing for him... but ovverall i dont want him to go at all. no one else seems nervous around him, so why do i? and how do i prevent the weird butterfly feeling?
respond ASAP PLEASE!

Hey girlie. Unfortunately, the butterfly feeling is apart of life--But you can talk yourself out of being super nervous. First of all, if you don't like the hugs, then maybe just tell your friends that. Or you can try to embrace them! I used to not be into hugging but then I tried to be really enthusiastic about it and ended up liking them a lot! But do what you are comfortable with. As for your coach, I don't think he will yell at you if he is no longer your coach.I think he just wants to see you play because you are talented! Don't be nervous--just play your best.  

MOD...I really like my bgf but i don't know how to tell him or if i should tell him. How can i find out if he likes me back without blurting it out? He says really sweet things to me and he is really nice but i just dont know.

Hey girlie. I wouldn't rush things. Try spending time with him alone and see if you two connect. If you think you both do, then just tell him that you think you two may be good as more than friends. I know it's hard, but sometimes, it's best to say what you need to say. 

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Ok so my BGF, Let's call him bob. He is constatly flirting with me, he also invited me to go to prom with him. And today my friend we'll call her sue, went to talk to him and see how he felt about me. He kinda said he's gonna think about asking me out. Then he ignored me for the rest of school. And now he's texting me. And asking who I like. Ummm I'm a LITTLE CONFUSED. Please decode. Thanks (:

Hey girlie. I think he is into you. He was just embarrassed after your friend asked him if he liked you because he wasn't sure how you felt. But I think he definitely into you! Do you like him, too?!