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Will asking out my BGF ruin our friendship?

I really like one of my guy friends, but I’m scared to ‘fess up my feelings…
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MOD!MOD! MOD! I cant tell if i like my bgf as a bf or as a brother! im confused on my feelings. how can i sort them out?

hey girl,

Only you can really know...if you feel like you want to share with him about other boys or crushes you have, and you don't mind him talking about other girls, then he's probably more of a friend.  But if you feel like you don't want him to be dating other people, and you don't even want to talk about other boys when you're with him...and he kind of gives you butterflies sometimes...then you may be starting to like him as more than just a friend Smile  
Ruth S.

by runforever on 4/23/2011 9:05:54 PM


OMG! I really liked my BGF and one day I found out that he found out! I was so depressed that was friday... and when we talked about it on the way out to the bus he said it wouldn't change our realtionship but he still wanted to talk to me... more in depth so monday after school we talked... and HE ASKED ME OUT! Now he's my bf who I love.

by DrummerChick513 on 3/27/2011 4:04:36 PM


A few months ago I found out this guy who rides my bus has a crush on me. We are really good friends and over the past few weeks I have started to like him back. I don't know if he knows that I like him and by now I don't even know if he still likes me like that.He is a year younger than me and is in 6th grade while i'm in the 7th. I really want him to ask me out but i'm starting to think that maybe I should make the first move. Please help!

by lilmbram on 3/23/2011 9:22:34 PM


I have a boyfriend and we've been dating for like 5 months and we're both really silly we goof off all the time but sometimes I'm afraid I do something too goofy. What should I do?

I think you should  be yourself and if hes a good boyfriend he wont mind Smile trust me. youre ok Smile xoxo kerra 
Kerra S.

by quesadillia47 on 3/20/2011 2:38:24 PM


I'm totally head over heels for the guy I sit beside from in class, and get this- he likes me too! His best friend said he wanted to ask me out! And we always act really goofy, but in a flirty way, around each other, and when we see each other we always smile! But he's too shy to ask me out and I can't stop thinking about him. I need help! What should I do?

Hey girlie. If he's too shy, you should try to make the first move. Ask him out! Good luck girl. 
Marly Z.

by Lil' Devil on 3/16/2011 2:07:24 PM


Hey people i got something to say

Well one time i was on the bus talking to my friends when i hear a kid from my homeroom shout " Yo Kailee want 2 go out with ______( insert BGF name) ?" At first i was a little stunned i didnt really think of us as more than friends but he was kinda sweet so i said( more like shouted across the bus) yes then i found out later he only asked me out cuz he lost oreo that made me REALLY sad ( and mad ) so then i went and yelled at him for only asking me out cuz he lost oreo then i found out he actually did like me i wuz just misinformed so then he was mad at me 4 yelling at him and that is how my BGF became my ex-BGF

Sad right? i know ( sigh ) - Kailee Frown

by loveTC247 on 3/15/2011 11:19:38 PM



Im like in luv with my bgf and ive been wanting to ask him out, but im not sure he likes me like that. I have no clue what to do! please help!!!

by mookie98 on 3/15/2011 6:13:57 PM


Mod! I had a best guy friend and I really liked him and we talked all the time, so I asked him to our winter formal, but he said no. Then he didn't talk to me for about a month, and after a month he started talking to me again and we were ok. Now he's doing stuff that he used to do when we were best friends, like taking time out of class to talk to me, and following me around when we I'm looking for a book in the library, and asking me to be in groups for science with him and his guy friends. Does he feel guilty about blowing me off or what's going on? What's he thinking? Thanks in advance.



Hey girly! It's tough to say what  he's thinking. He could feel guilty, or he could just miss you as a pal!


Becca G.

by Aranel on 3/12/2011 7:47:02 PM


MOD!!!! I think I have a crush on my BGF everytime I think about him i get a "tingly" and everyone at my skool keep asking if we're going out wat should i do?

Hey girlie. If you feel strongly about it, tell him. See where that leads! 
Marly Z.

by wolfy2149 on 3/9/2011 8:05:21 PM


kay, sooooo, I like this guy, but my friend also likes him and she's convinced he likes her back. She's always bragging about how they always text and how he almost texted her to ask her out. They've gone out before, and he dumped her. I talk to him everyday and we've gotten to be kinda close, I don't know if he likes me as a friend, or something more though. I have his number, but I'm afraid he'll think I'm weird if I text him. He's really good friends with my best friend. He is the sweetest guy I've ever met. Thoughts?


Hey girlie. Unfortunately, because your friend likes him and they have a history, it might be best to not pursue him right now. I know it's hard, but you don't want to cause more drama than necessary. Give yourself some time to be with yourself and get to know you better.

Elizabeth P.

by bexthespy007 on 2/25/2011 11:37:40 PM


I really like this guy..I wouldn't consider us friends but we're really friendly. We tease eachother all time and I thought about asking him out but didn't. But lately he's been acting really weird and my friends and I think he's depressed. Should I even think about asking him out now and should I do something about his depression? Like, by asking him what's wrong be a good way to reach out to him or would it just make me seem nosy and annoying?

by tayswift97 on 2/20/2011 6:19:04 PM


my bff has a crush on my bgf, i mean they r friends but, i am in the 6th gr, adn peps don't really ask each other out. what do i do? she wants 2 wait, and i give every girl flirting advice, but i honestly don't know what 2 do. i mean they r freinds and i don't want that 2 ruin they're friendship, but i don't know if he likes her. i've tried 2 ask, but he won;t even tell his best friend.

by sszuhaj on 2/12/2011 12:08:27 AM


That's awesome, becuase I feel the same way. I think we both kinda dfeel the same way, but we just don't have the courage to tell each other, that we would like to be more than friends. Sometime I think I should be brave and tell him how I feel, and see what he feels and what we should do (:

by faith1263 on 2/2/2011 4:01:43 PM


I really like this guy... I think he likes me but i'm not sure. One night we were alone and he said he kinda liked me but he said it in a weird way. Hes my brothers friend and whenever hes at my house he will walk in my room and talk to me randomly (none of my bros friends do that!!!) and he'll try and be funny around me. When were at school he really doesn't talk to me much but i don't mind. I really thinks he likes me because he talks to me all the time and even invited me to his party i the only 6th grade girl going!!! Does it seem like he likes me? Should I make the first move? MOD
Thanks XOXOXO Smile

Hey girl, he definitely could. I don't see why you shouldn't do something or hint you like him and see how he reacts. Nothing will happen if no one steps up. xoxo 
Alyssa B.

by iluvya(: on 2/2/2011 12:01:06 AM


Help, I have a boyfriend. We have been dating for 5 months. But now Im kind of missing the feeling of being single. Liking whoever you want, ok to like more than 1 guy, not have to worry about balancing boyfriend and everything else, etc. But heres the deal, I still like my current bf... Any ideas of how to get my jumbled brain in place?? Thanks

Hey girl, I went through that phase too when I was dating my bf. I thought the other side looked so much greener. We broke up and when I was single, I found myself wishing I had a boyfriend again. Know either way you stand, you'll want the other thing; the grass always seems greener on the other side. I think you're just having a bit of an itch, which may be a sign you two may need to take a break (not break up kind of break but just still date but focus on other people break) and spend a few weekends with friends instead of each other. If you still like him, I wouldn't dump him because getting him back isn't that easy.

Alyssa B.

by ilovemakeup on 2/1/2011 9:28:40 PM


You need to go for it. Best guy friends can turn out to be great bfs, and if you have the courage to do it, I would because he may want to also but may be too shy or think you may not want to. And if he is truly a friend he will understand if you are wanting him as a bf and if things dont work out you at least tried. Just dont let it turn into a fwb situation.

by luckykel on 1/30/2011 10:26:51 PM


try askin him out i asked out my bgf and it was a yes so go for it and i need some help i am toghther with a guy and i like him aa lot but when i am around him me and him both get very shy and dont know wat to say and sometimes it's like im not even there sometimes i just feel like his friends still he sometimes never notices me please help!!!!!

by girlslife2 on 1/30/2011 2:19:31 PM


MOD! please help. ive liked this boy for 1 year and 4 months, so ive liked him since 7th grade actually. we used to talk as friends in 7th grade, but this year in 8th grade i barely talked to him or even said hello. how should talk to him and let him know i like him before 8th grade ends? and by the way he sometimes stares at me constantly and sometimes he doesnt. please help me. Thank You Smile

Helen S.

by cheergirl499 on 1/30/2011 1:55:46 PM


okay so i really like one of my guy friends and im not sure if he likes me back (im sort of lost in the guy department) i catch him staring at me a lot but whenever i text him he wont answer and cant tell if he likes me back!! help!

Hey chica. Guys are always hard to read, so don't worry- you're not the only one! If he never answers your texts, make sure you have the right number. If he continues not to and you know you have the right number, then I would back off a little. Normally, if a guy ignores your texts, it means he doesn't like you as more than a friend. Best of luck with everything! 
Marly Z.

by LAXluver on 1/29/2011 9:38:43 PM


So I was chatting with this guy thats nice and all, but I'm not interested in. I think he mistook my friendliness for flirtyness! He asked me to go to a dance with him and I didn't answer so I just said I had to go and logged off. What do I do? I don't like him and I don't want to ruin our friendship.

Hey girlie, if he asks about the dance again tell him that you love being his friend, but you're not interested in him like that. It's an easy way into that conversation and he'll probably understand. 

Lauren T.

by Clauu! on 1/29/2011 8:59:02 PM



by ConfusedForever on 1/29/2011 2:52:20 AM


Please help me with this. Frown
My Bgf told my bff that he likes me and he told me that too but he has been joking about it in the past but he says now hes serious but i think he is still joking about it. He says Ily all the timee and he always comes to hangout with me in school. He Leftt his guyy friendss for me and he sayss that he does really likee me but then he gives mixed signals. Im really confused and idk if i like him or not what should i do?

by ConfusedForever on 1/29/2011 2:50:12 AM


hi!! if possible, could you give me good advice on what to do?? thanks!!
Okay well, i have this guy friend, we have been best friends for almost 8 years. About 3 and a half years ago, i started liking him. He found out, so i made up a lie and said i didnt like him anymore, but really i liked him. And that was about 2 and a half years ago. Over the past year, we have gotten closer than ever and everytime we get closer, i start to like him more. as far as i know, he doesnt like me, because he tells me everybody he likes and its not me. im becoming so depressed and lovesick because of him. should i ask him out?? or what should i do?? i cant keep holding it inside because its tearing me apart. please helpp!!! thankss so mucch!!


Hey girlie. I know it's hard but if you feel like he doesn't like you then maybe it's best to just stay friends with him. I know you feel heart sick, but unfortunately, we can't make someone like us. And, honestly, do we really wan to? I think we would rather have someone who likes us on their own and enjoys our quirks and weird habits. I think someone great is going to come into your life--it just takes time. Timing is everything. So stay friends with him, and if you feel like he may like you too, great. But maybe wait and see if he comes to you.

Elizabeth P.

by lnm1996 on 1/29/2011 12:29:31 AM


Okay, so I am trying to help my boyfriend's friend. He is having some girl problems. So, he likes this girl(by the way, this is based on the info my bf gave me) though he doesn't talk to her much. He has known her since 5th-6th grade(we're in 9th) and I'm not sure if he talked to her then or not. I asked my bf if he wants to just talk to her or what, but his friend's answer was "I don't care". He does. I don't know how to help him. So far I have to him to talk to her, but he is scared(my bf told me they don't understand us, and rejection sucks). I told him if he never talks to her, she might get the wrong idea. Please, help me with some more advice to give him. Thank you!!!


Hey girlie. Tell him that it is hard asking a girl to hang out. But he has to do it because the girl is worth the risk of getting rejected. If he likes her, he needs to ask her on a date. Tell him that chivalry is important with girls. So asking her in person and saying it confidently is key. Tell him that there is nothing more attractive then holding himself well and walking up to a girl, telling her that he likes her and that he wants to take her out on a date. She can't say yes if he never asks : ) He can do it! 

Elizabeth P.

by Twizzler on 1/28/2011 11:11:38 PM



1. Say your name 10 times.
2. Say your mom's name 5 times.
3. Say your crush's name 3 times.
4. Paste this to 4 other quizzes. If you do this, your crush will kiss you on the nearest Friday, but if you read this and do not paste this, then you will have very bad luck! SEND THIS TO 5 QUIZZES IN 143 MINUTES. WHEN YOU'RE DONE PRESS F6 AND YOUR CRUSH'S NAME WILL APPEAR IN BIG LETTERS ON THE SCREEN. THIS IS SO FREAKY BECAUSE IT ACTUALLY WORKS

by 1willynilly1 on 1/27/2011 8:45:26 PM


MOD MOD MOD MOD please help me Frown
hi so hres my problem Frown i go to this youth club thingy since October (2010) but have missed a goood few weeks. anyway i went with my friends so we could all make new friends too Laughing espsh guys ;) but my friends were to scared to talk to some guys and my oher friends are really loud and nobody can get a word in Tong but now most of us arent goin there anymor ecuz loadsa of girls have quit :/ there is this guy really really like there but i feeel like i messed up my chance t make guy friends and it just makes me feel really bad Frown mos tpeople my age( 13) already have guy friends so wasnt it stupid to ruin my chance ?? xxxxx thank you SORRY FOR LONG MESSAGE Frown <3


Hey chica! If you get along better with girls than guys, it's totally fine. Not everyone has the same types of friends! Are you sure you messed things up with this guy, though? If lots of girls stopped going to your group, you have a better chance!

Clare W.

by taylorswiftxx on 1/27/2011 2:25:51 PM


i like this guy at my school and he liked me for a while but then he says he doesnt like anyone but he stops me in the halls at school to talk to meee,nad the other dayy i asked him if he did and he said yes but he is just soo confusing one minute he likes me the next he doesnt i dont get it. he wants to hang out wiht me and some friends but i just wanna hang out with him and we could talk he said okayy about that so were doing that but im kinda nervous what should i doooo????

by meeeeeeee(;<3 on 1/26/2011 9:54:55 PM


xoxo lol sweet just try to i well if its awkward then wait for the moment

by mozilla10 on 1/26/2011 7:02:42 AM


my BGF asked me to Winter Formal. does that means he likes me? I want to kiss him, but not if it will make things awkward... we're pretty close. so do you think he's interested in me & willing to kiss me?

Hey girl, it sounds like he might. I'd play it by ear though. Say yes and see if the evening is two friends hanging or his attempts at a date.

Alyssa B.

by diver_girl on 1/25/2011 9:05:38 PM


Mkkk I'll try that... Thanks for the advice! Smile))

by goaliegirlz96 on 1/25/2011 8:59:28 PM


I had just asked a question about a dance... Our winter formal (guys ask girls) is in two weeks... but Sadies (girls ask guys) is in 2 months... People from all around go to my school... so we live about 45 minutes apart so it would be hard to hang out one on one... But what do you think about the two dances?

Hey girlie. Well I think you should bring up the winter formal to him. Ask him if he is going and if he has a date. Then say something like, "Well we could always go together if you wanted to?" 
Elizabeth P.

by goaliegirlz96 on 1/25/2011 8:53:25 PM


Hey elizabeth!
sorry for sooooo many questions! so you told me to talk to her face to face, but when ANYONE tries to talk to her (like a teach) she will be all nice for a period, then go back. or if a friend tries to talk to her she will make up an excuse saying, "whatever. i did it because he/she irks me!" (irks is her word for bother)
so i am going down the other path of trying to separate from her. how do i do that if she follows me and my friends where ever we go?
thanks for at least trying!!!! Laughing

Hey girlie. Hm. That is tough. Try talking to her and saying that you think she is mean sometimes that you don't want to hang out with someone is always mean. Say if she does not try to be nicer then you are going to distance yourself from her. Maybe that will motivate her to be nicer so she doesn't lose all of her friends.  
Elizabeth P.

by kmn21 on 1/25/2011 8:50:17 PM


There's this guy that I have been hanging out more with lately and I hope he asks me to winter formal, which is two weeks away. He has walked me from 1st period (which we have together) to my 2nd period since the beginning of the school year and he is so sweet. But I don't want to make things awkward. Should I hint to him that I want to go? OR wait 2 months til Sadies and ask him then?

Hey girlie. Hm. If the dance is not for two months, maybe wait awhile. But try to hang out with him one on one sometime and see if you two connect. He can't ask you if he doesn't know you! 
Elizabeth P.

by goaliegirlz96 on 1/25/2011 8:37:49 PM


hey elizabeth! before you answered my question about my "friend" needs moere friends, but the thing was that she has a lot of friends, she just is mean to them, just unrealizing the insults she does? what do i do now?

Hey girlie. Have you tried talking to her about it--just you two? If so, then maybe you can just slowly drift from her and hang out with girls that you are nice and not insulting.  
Elizabeth P.

by kmn21 on 1/25/2011 8:33:15 PM


moderator! please help me out!
how do you exclude a "friends" that you dont really like, but she thinks everyone likes her? because a girl thinks shes like the most amazing person in the entire world (she actually said that)and likes to be part of school groups like jocks, nerds, popular kids, when she really doesnt fit in?

Hey girlie. I think maybe she needs a friend more than you think she does. Invite her over for a sleepover so you two can hang out just you two and see if maybe she is better in private. Maybe she needs someone to take a chance on her. You don't want to purposely exclude someone unless they are being absolutely horrible to you.  
Elizabeth P.

by kmn21 on 1/25/2011 8:20:17 PM


moderator!!! please help me out!!!
so i have 2 questions!
1. well at my school, every one likes hugs. even when they arent in a relationship! i am not the hugging type so i feel awkward when friends hug me. I wouldnt mind if i havent seen this person in a long time, but i see them everyday... maybe even last period.
2. also, i feel really nervous when my basketball coach talks to me. i think is because was on his basketball team, so there was a lot of yelling. and since i was the best player, i alway get yelled at. he wants to come to one of my basketball games for a different team, but i dont want him to yell at me when i am not even playing for him... but ovverall i dont want him to go at all. no one else seems nervous around him, so why do i? and how do i prevent the weird butterfly feeling?
respond ASAP PLEASE! Laughing

Hey girlie. Unfortunately, the butterfly feeling is apart of life--But you can talk yourself out of being super nervous. First of all, if you don't like the hugs, then maybe just tell your friends that. Or you can try to embrace them! I used to not be into hugging but then I tried to be really enthusiastic about it and ended up liking them a lot! But do what you are comfortable with. As for your coach, I don't think he will yell at you if he is no longer your coach.I think he just wants to see you play because you are talented! Don't be nervous--just play your best.  
Elizabeth P.

by kmn21 on 1/25/2011 7:44:14 PM


I really like my bgf and don't know if i should tell him or not. I want to know if he likes me first but everytime i try he doesn't answer fully, he kind of goes around the question. How can i find out he he likes me back without telling him that i like him?

Hey girlie. I would say try to hang out with one on one before professing your feelings for him. Then if you feel that you two have a connection then tell him that you think you may have feelings for him and wouldn't remind exploring them with him. I know it's hard, but if you feel that he may feel the same way, it's worth a try!  
Elizabeth P.

by annamarie97 on 1/25/2011 7:42:44 PM


MOD...I really like my bgf but i don't know how to tell him or if i should tell him. How can i find out if he likes me back without blurting it out? He says really sweet things to me and he is really nice but i just dont know.

Hey girlie. I wouldn't rush things. Try spending time with him alone and see if you two connect. If you think you both do, then just tell him that you think you two may be good as more than friends. I know it's hard, but sometimes, it's best to say what you need to say. 
Elizabeth P.

by annamarie97 on 1/25/2011 7:38:36 PM


Today i told my friend who i was going with to the vday dance. Then she said that she had a "dream" about the guy I was going with. When i asked her what it was about she said ask him. Then my other friend said it was about them kissing on the beach. If my dat knows about the dream, what should i do? Talk it out? Or just cancel? I NEED HELP ASAP CUZ I AM FREAKING OUT!!!!!!! THANK YOU SO MUCH!!!

Hey girlie. I wouldn't talk about it--could be a bit awkward! Just go and have fun at the dance and forget about the dream : ) 
Elizabeth P.

by paramoregurl on 1/25/2011 7:09:05 PM


Mod! Mod! Mod! Mod! Mod!
Ok so my BGF, Let's call him bob. He is constatly flirting with me, he also invited me to go to prom with him. And today my friend we'll call her sue, went to talk to him and see how he felt about me. He kinda said he's gonna think about asking me out. Then he ignored me for the rest of school. And now he's texting me. And asking who I like. Ummm I'm a LITTLE CONFUSED. Please decode. Thanks (:

Hey girlie. I think he is into you. He was just embarrassed after your friend asked him if he liked you because he wasn't sure how you felt. But I think he definitely into you! Do you like him, too?! 
Elizabeth P.

by kiera1245 on 1/25/2011 6:51:14 PM


So there's this guy who sits near me in English class, and we were just joking around, talking about dances and proms. So, as a joke, he said (to me) "Wanna go to prom with me?" and I took it as a joke. But today, he said that he wanted to work with me on this assignment we got for English, and he actually defended me when his friend said that I looked weird (as a joke). Do you think he likes me, or is this all just some big joke (cuz we do like to joke around)?

Hey girlie. I'm not sure. Just play it out and see if he seems flirtatious with you this week. I'll cross my fingers for ya!
Elizabeth P.

by izzy_pwns_all99 on 1/25/2011 6:13:39 PM


I have an issue too I like my best guy friend what do I do

by 5828MTB on 1/25/2011 6:05:40 PM


My boyfriend hugged me for the first time today and it was kind of akward.. plus I didn't hug back... is that bad??

Hey girlie. At first, those things can be awkward. But I've learned--it's only awkward if you make it awkward. Don't take it so seriously. I say, next time you see him, run over to him and give him a big hug! It should be an exciting things-especially when it's with your boyfriend. : ) 
Elizabeth P.

by Icy4ever on 1/25/2011 5:37:06 PM


My bf recently dumped me for a girl who is two years older in eighth grade. People say he only dumped me because she has big boobs and a big butt. I cannot believe he would do that. My mom told me just ignore it because when she is in high school people will soon realize what kind of girl she really is. Help!!???

Hey girlie. I'm sorry to hear that. But look at it this way: Obviously he is a superficial person. Do you want to be dating a guy who only cares about a girl's appearance? Trust me--looks fade or become rather boring. But when you find a guy who you feel that you connect with emotionally, intellectually and spiritually, his looks and your looks don't matter all that much. Find a guy who sees the inside you--not just the outside.  
Elizabeth P.

by snowwysnoopy on 1/25/2011 5:17:34 PM


hey girlies
if you ever need advice im here just comment on my page and ill answer your question within a day Smile
<3 always

by peace_love_happiness on 1/25/2011 4:57:23 PM


MODMOD Need help NOW!
I was texting a guy from class after school and then he asked me out. I know my parents won't let me since I'm too young and also, I just started this class about a week ago (we get new schedules every semester-last week was the start of the 2nd semester) so I think he's rushing things anyway. I texted back no and what should I do now?

Hey chica. Props to you for not rushing into anything and obeying your parents! You've done all you can. The guy from class might be a little upset, but you can explain to him the reasoning behind your decision, and that should make him feel a little better. 
Marly Z.

by popstar131313 on 1/25/2011 8:56:58 AM


Hey,, good advice!! i will totally use it soon!! Smile Smile Marly Z.

by missbuttercup10 on 1/25/2011 8:50:23 AM


i have a huge presentation in spanish today-in spanish! I know im gonna be super nervous and even now im nervous im gonna stumble on words and pronnouciation. any tips?
i love GL!

Hey girlie. As cliche as this sounds, practice, practice, practice! Usually, the way your practice it is the way you will say it when you present it! Don't be too nervous...I'm sure you'll do great!
Marly Z.

by keri49 on 1/25/2011 7:30:23 AM

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