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I like this guy, but he's pretty popular. I sit next to him in 2 classes. He seems like a really sweet guy, and he flirts with me. Well, I think it's flirting anyway. He gives me a look that makes me blush and totally makes me all butterflyie. He always is SOOOO nice but I tried texting him and he doesn't reply. He knows who I am but he says his pone doesn't work. Gosh my bffs love him too and I can't get over he's going to see me in the Talent Show! I'm Singing One Thing by 1D. And if he sees it, he won't like me anymore! Help help help help!!!!

 

That sounds complicated but if I were you I would focus on being true to myself. Sing the 1D song! He'll probably think your voice is good instead of noticing its 1D. Aside from that try talking to him more and seeing where things go. Good luck hon!! xoxo kerra 


Kerra S.

by coolchic2280 on 4/2/2013 9:47:53 PM

 
 

I have a crush on my BGF and he does all those things that acts and seems like he's into me, even our friends have asked if we r dating. But when I told him I liked him, he said he just wants to be friends and now he is dating my BFF. It hurts and I have cried over him too much. Help!

Hey girlie,

If he is dating your friend and told you he's not interested in a relationship, it's best to stay friends with him for now. If she's your bff, I'm sure deep down you want her to be happy, even if it hurts right now! Try being supportive of them and hanging out in a group of other friends when you see them so you don't feel like a third wheel, and focus on schoolwork and family/friend relationships to take your mind off of him. There might also be some cuties at your school who you hadn't considered before, so keep your options open!

Meghan D.

by xogillian<3 on 3/24/2013 12:51:44 AM

 
 



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So there's this guy I like.. We've known each other since the beginning of last school year and have pretty much been friends since then. When we text, he seems flirty but sometimes he'll just stop responding randomly. We both play xbox and like the same games and everything, and when I told him I liked xbox he told me to marry me..
Do you think he likes me? And my friend keeps telling me to tell him that I like him, but I'm afraid!




Hey girlie,

It's totally normal for guys to be on-and-off sometimes. It's not always the case, but sometimes they just approach texting/talking differently than we do! It seems like he's nice to you, you have a lot in common, and he's flirty most of the time. Keep talking to him and letting him get to know you better. Hang out if you can and compliment/tease him in a playful way. Over time, you'll get a better idea of where his head is at... and then you can decide if you wanna tell him or not Smile 
Lauren C.

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MOD MOD MOD !
So there's this guy I've known for like 3 years now, and I've had a crush on him for pretty long. Anyway, we both were really close at first but then we kinda "drifted apart" I guess? .. but then we became kinda close friends this year and he's been acting pretty different than before. Well , he's actually nicer than before .. he comes by my class everyday at school and says hi, and last night he texted me for the first time!Lol, anyway, he does flirt alot too , but then again, he's a big flirt as far as I know and I don't know whether to take it seriously or not. We IM every night and he's always like I missed you and all that .. haha I could go on and on Smile ,but those are just a few things .. and I just wanted to know, is it possible he might like me?
Sorry, I know its really long :\, but I just wanted to some advice .. thankyou Smile




Hey girlie,

It definitely sounds like he could like you! It's hard to tell for sure if he just sees you as a best friend or wants to take it to the next level, but the fact that he's talking to you every day, initiating convos online and in person, and flirting are all clues! Flirt back and enjoy the ride Smile
Lauren C.

by innu on 9/18/2011 12:24:05 PM

 
 



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Well, I happen to like my best guy friend. I want to ask him out, but I don't want to ruin our friendship. Everyone says he's flirting with me, and people have asked us if we're dating, but we always say no...because we aren't. If he says no, what can I say so it doesn't ruin our friendship. What are some cute ways to ask him out? Thanks.




Hey girlie,

You could try to make a joke about it the next time someone asks if you're dating. Say something like, "Geez if everyone thinks we're dating, maybe we should just go out on a date to show them what it would be like!" and laugh a little bit. That plants the idea in his head and shows him that you might not say no if he asked you out, which is a huge concern for guys. But he also could just like you as a friend and, if so, he probably will just laugh this suggestion off and continue on to something else. It's a win-win Smile
Lauren C.

by quirrelmort on 9/9/2011 11:33:19 PM

 
 

I am offering up all of my clubs to other people, because I am not in a position to keep them running. Instead of deleting them, I would like to transfer ownership. Here are the ones that are up for grabs:

Helping Out Club
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Performing Arts Club
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by basketballcutie11 on 8/21/2011 9:19:07 PM

 
 



MODMODMOD
my friend is like in love with this boy and can barily talk to him and wants to date any advice i can give her please!!




Helen S.

by wedingbell on 8/19/2011 5:38:21 PM

 
 

I'm in middle school and I really like this guy. One day all the guys were playing this dating game and were asking out random girls and this other guy asked me if I wanted to go out with my crush and I said no cuz I knew it wuz a joke. Later somebody came all the way across the gym from where my crush was to where I was and asked me if I wanted to go out with my crush and I said no cuz I thought that they were still playing the game so I said no again. The next day he acted like he wuz kinda mad at me. He just kept looking at me and I kept looking at him but we didn't talk. I told my friend to text him and ask him if he was mad at me. Then she told him that I liked him. What should I do????

 

Hey girl,

If I were you, I'd text my crush myself and explain what happened! Everything sounds better when it comes from the source!

Kelly H.

by Salkehatchie on 6/9/2011 12:17:23 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD i need advice i have a huge crush on a boy and i have no clue how to tell him i like him any suggestion?




Hey girlie! A good way to show a guy you like him is to ask him out. Use the techniques in this article. He wouldn't say yes if he didn't like you too. Although there a bunch of different ways to tell a guy you like him, sometimes if you just want to be straightforward with him. Of course, you don't want to use that type of technique if you're not already really comfortable with him. Make sure you get to know each other well first! 



Rhea R.

by Maggar on 5/27/2011 2:52:54 PM

 
 

Hey, so I have a mega crush on my friend's BGF. I'm pretty sure he likes me back - I COULD list all the signs, but I don't feel like it. So, how do I know for sure if he likes me besides walking up to him and saying "Hey Matt do you like me?" cuz that's kinda awkward - at least for me, it is. PLEASE HELP!




Hey girlie! You said you've noticed signs that he likes you, but there's no way to know for sure if a guy likes you unless you ask. If you keep spending time with him, it's possible he'll let you know how he feels without your asking. Also, you should make sure that it's cool with your friend before you make any moves. 



Rhea R.

by Rebeca.rox on 5/20/2011 3:51:42 PM

 
 

MOD Mod Mod!!! lots of help please!
So its another one of those I need help telling my crush I like him questions.....lol
Anyway theres this boy Ive known since the 5th grade and have liked mostly loved him since then and now its the end of the 8th grade and I dont know how to tell him.Im pretty sure he likes/loves me back because weve always been very close and evry1 asks if were dating, hes always asking if Im ok makes me laugh when Im havin a bad day, or flirting with me and you know the usual stuff when a guy likes youSmileIdk if he thinks I love him or not. So can you help me because theres only a week of school left and I dont want to lose touch over the summer going into highschoolSmile and Im not gonna lie... looove<33 to date him! So how can I?? thanks soo much!!!! <3 ya!




Hey, Girl! Sorry for the “stock” message. We’re psyched you’re here but since this is a super busy time, mods aren’t able to answer personal advice or contest questions. We’re approving your comments now so the girls can start offering feedback right away! If you still have questions, please come back, we’re happy to help…or just let the other chicas answer now! (They give awesome advice, trust us!) Love and thanks! ♥, Your Blog Patrol Babes 
Alyssa B.

by i_rock_pink22 on 5/19/2011 7:04:33 PM

 
 

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PLEASE, PLEASE, PLEASE, HELP. I like this guy and I think he may like my, too. But we are both really shy, never talk to each other, and I really want this to prosper, but I don't know what to do. But I can't move on either I really like him NOT just the kind of "OH he is cute" kind of thing. I like every bit of him. Again PLEASE HELP!

 

Dear Lovestruck! If this boy is too shy to ask you out, you might have to fight your shyness and pop the question! Ask him to dinner or to go see a movie! The more time you spend together the move comfortable you will become with each other. I know this sounds scary, but think about how happy you will be once you are with him! It is very natural for you to be nervous, but you both like each other so it'll be so worth it in the end!

Lili T.

by Zoe is cool on 5/19/2011 8:36:11 AM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD!!!!! My ex dumped the day after vday and i was soooo mad at him!!!! Now i really wanna be friends with him and my freinds have told him that and he said he was sorry for being a jerk. But whenever were around each other its still mega awkward!!!!! any tips on how to break the ice? THANKS!!!!!!!!!!

 

Hey girl, If you really wanna be friends, you just gotta push through the awkward part - it's pretty normal that it feels weird when you start talking again.  Don't bring up issues from the past, just talk about things you have in common - whether that's movies or just plans for the weekend.  Think about how you talk with other friends, and try to copy that - since that's what you hope to have eventually with him, too.  Good luck! 

Marie H.

by paramoregurl on 5/7/2011 6:42:59 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD Hey, so I have this crush and he used to like my friend, I'm ok with that since it was a long time ago but we dont have any classes together and I want to get to know him better but I dont know howFrown

 

 

Hey girly! Do you see him in the halls still? If so, you could start saying hi to him again that way. Then, after a little while of that, you can start talking to him. Asking how his weekend was, etc. Smile

xxx

Becca G.

by heavenly1221 on 5/1/2011 9:39:51 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD MOD im in LOVE with this kid hunter he know's i like him and i text him alot because he thinks im creepy i just wanna talk to him and dont so how me texting him often is creepy? and last year i was almost just like a guy i always wore sweatshirts and like never did my hair but this year im the excact oppisite i just want him to listen and realize that but he wont! what should i do!!

 

 

Hey chica! If he thinks you're "creepy," then I'd refrain from texting him too much, as you don't want him to get further weirded out. I'd work on being friends with him. Maybe, hang out in a group with him.

xxx

Becca G.

by mckey101 on 5/1/2011 8:02:56 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD!!!!! Okay, I have a crush on my best friend! I have liked him for seven years. And people ask if he and I are dating and his response is I don't want a girlfriend until I'm seventeen. But I can't wait ten more years!! What can I do??? I can't believe I have had seven years in silence!!! Smile SmileThanks!!!

 

 

Hey chica! I'd definately tell him how you feel!! Even if he doesn't feel the same, you'll know that you tried.

xxx

Becca G.

by phoebeloren00 on 4/30/2011 8:54:39 PM

 
 

MOD- So me and my BFF are inseprable and I love her to death. The only thing is, she's sooo pretty. And as we all know, the first impression of someone is how they look like. She's got flawless skin and pretty eyes. I've got pimples, and glasses. She's awesome, and like a sister to me, I'm just extremely jealous. All guys like her first, cuz she's so pretty. After they get to know me they like me too but how do i get them to notice me before they start crushing on her without coming on too strong??? Please help!!

 

Hey girlie -- everything is based around confidence. You have to believe in yourself that you look amazing, and everyone will see it too. If you are concerned about your acne, try using a oil-free face wash. Aside from that, always remember you are amazing Laughing

 

Brittany G.

Brittany G.

by bikini_babe on 4/30/2011 1:49:57 AM

 
 

MOD~
Ok so it seems like every guy goes for the girls that are (I hate to say it...) trashy. I don't want to be like these girls but I want to have some kind of relationship!! I feel empty without one Frown Any advice on what to do??
Thankss

 

Hey girlie!The best advice is for you to stay the same, That is the only way that you will attract someone worthwhile who is into you for you Smile


 

Brittany G.

Brittany G.

by iluvlax99 on 4/29/2011 9:58:23 PM

 
 



MOD
So I had a crush on a guy who asked me out, but I said no because I wanted to stay single at that time. However, he still has a crush on me but I don't like him anymore. He keeps asking me to go to the movies with him, but I don't really want to go. He's one of my really good friends and I don't want to ruin our friendship. How should I gently let him know that I'm not interested in dating?




hey! just tell him you want to stay friends Smile 
Helen S.

by katethegreat1011 on 4/29/2011 6:53:14 PM

 
 

MOD**MOD**MOD*** I like this guy,he knows I like him.He told my friend he kinda liked me.We hugged a lot in the hall at school but 1 day he stopped answering my texts.He told my friend that a girl told him I was controlling,and had mood swings and not to date me.Then he got over it and told my friend he really liked me.Last week I told him I still liked him and he said he kinda liked me, but later that week he told my friend the same thing about the girl.My friends tried to talk to him about it and I tried to text him and apologize but he stopped responding.We haven't talked in a week.HELP!!!Please I need advice!!!

 

 

Hey girly girl! I'd talk to this guy yourself... and confront him about how he's acting! It sounds like he may be on the fence about liking you, and you shouldn't have to deal with his moodiness.

xxx

Becca G.

by edypedy on 4/24/2011 5:55:59 PM

 
 



MOD MOD MOD MOD
So if a guy notices something different about you, as in your hair, and asks you if you got a haircut, is that a sign he likes you or is paying more attention to you? Thanks! Smile




Hey girlie -- maybe, but the best way to find out is to ask him or someone he's close to Smile




Brittany G. 
Brittany G.

by Pro_Gymnast_32 on 4/23/2011 12:18:01 AM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD -
well i like this guy named dalton and we flirt and stuff and friends think he likes me but he doesnt show any signs of it so my friend asked him if he liked me and he said no...i really like him..PLEASE HELP ME I REALLY TRULEY LIKE HIM AND I WANT TO GO OUT WITH HIM...and to tell you the truth...none of my crushes have never liked me back in my whole entire life );

 

Hey girlie,

I think the best thing to do would be to ask him to hang out with you and see what he says. If he did tell your friend that he doesn't like you,then there might be a chance he doesn't feel the same way that you feel about him. But I would go for it and invite him to hang out! Good Luck!


 

danielle D.

danielle D.

by babych on 4/21/2011 5:54:41 PM

 
 



MOD!MOD!MOD!!! ok so there's the same guy and i just had my bgf tell him how i feel. all this guy said was, oh. ok. she really does? and then my bgf asked him out for me...... i still dont know the answer even though this happened at like 5:000pm. how do i get a straight up answer from the dude i like?




Hey girl,

Sometimes the best way to get a straight answer is to be straight with him in the first place. That means not asking someone else to talk about you, ask if he likes you, or ask him out... but, instead, doing it yourself. I know it sounds scary, but that's really the best way to go if you want honest answers in return. And a lot of times, it's better to do it in person so you don't have that awkward waiting around! 
Lauren C.

by runforever on 4/18/2011 10:35:06 PM

 
 

MOD there is this boy I like and my best friend keeps saying you should ask him out because she said we're perfect for each other. But I can't because my dad said I'm too.young to date. Is there something else me and my crush can do to hang out that's outside of school? Thanks a bunch! Smile

 

 

Hey girly girl! You could invite your crush to go to the movies with you and a group of friends. Or, bowling or somewhere else fun Smile

xxx

Becca G.

by cupcakek99 on 4/17/2011 10:43:24 PM

 
 

MOD!MOD!MOD! i like this guy and i dont know if he likes me. we have really interesting conversations and he's sweet to me. however, he has a rep for being a jerk. i wanna ask him out but im afraid of what he'll say and my mom won't let me date!! im in 8th grade and i fell ready. but please please please help me!!!!

 

 

Hey girly girl! Maybe, you could have a friend see how he fees about you. That way, you won't have to directly ask him yourself, in case he doesn't feel the same.


xxx

Becca G.

by runforever on 4/17/2011 8:00:57 PM

 
 

HELP!! I think one of my guy frineds likes me cause he's always close to me and talking or walking with me during free time in class or in the hall. Sometimes he'll even come to my locker and wait for me. What confuses me though is that he's always talking about his gf. Does he like me and trying to make me jealous??

by ♥♦sassmaster♦♥ on 4/12/2011 7:47:54 PM

 
 

Help plz! There's this guy I really like I think I see him stare at me from across the room an he always tells me that I'm weird and stuff like that and I say that he's weirder back to him and he always smiles when he says those kind of things to me. Also he always riches my arm whe. He walks around me and he never does this to anyone else! I'm confuse bc idk if he likes me or not and I've liked hom from the first day I met hom lime 6 years ago. I only see him like twice a week and it's bothering me bc I really want to tell him tht I like him and stuff! Does he like me? And what should I do? Plz help thx!

by Iwuzherre! on 4/11/2011 8:59:48 PM

 
 

Omg! Help please! I have this guy I'm crushing on and I keep seeing him stare at me froma across the room. He always touches my arm when je walks by me and is always messing around with me. But he keeps telling me that I'm crazy and super weird so I say that he's weird as well and he just says that I'm way crazy andsort of smiles. I dont kno of he likes me or not! Some one please help! Thx!

by Iwuzherre! on 4/11/2011 8:43:23 PM

 
 

I need major girl help!!! There is this guy and he has been my best friend since the fourth grade! I am in the sixth grade now and me and him have dated in the past. I have this huge crush on him, and im not sure wether he likes me or not. He has been giving me mixed signals and he is cocky and he has dated a bunch of other girls in the past. He jokes around alot when he flirts. I think he likes me though. I always catch him looking at me and when i look back at him he smiles! I really want to ask him out but, i dont know if he likes me or not! What should I Do??? :/

by cheyranell on 4/6/2011 7:52:05 PM

 
 

Guys can be majorly confusing. I understand that. But the thing is,if he doesn't like you he'll show it with his actions. Like if he acts like he likes you and u hang in the same crowd of friends and actually talks to you n tries 2 make u laugh, he may be into u.
But if he shows no sign of concern whatsoever and doesn't talk to you like a crush should, im sorry but its not him.
*Briar-Rose*

by Briar-Rose on 4/5/2011 4:51:18 PM

 
 

Grrrrrrrrr. There's no way the boy i like would EVER agree to go out with me. Frown But i sit across from him in math, and he seems to flirt all the time. but im confused. :/ PLEASE HELP

Bonjour chicky! Honestly, it's all about confidence. If you act like the hottest girl in school, then he'll believe it. I know it sounds so cliche but it works! Being shy is a major turn off for a guy so flirting back with this kid from math class will really get you far!

Jessica W.

by Micky<3 on 4/5/2011 9:03:53 AM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD There is this guy I really like, who seems to like me a lot too, but I am too nervous to ask him out. The reason, is that I've asked out guys that I liked before, but even when they seem to really like me, they never say yes. I've been rejected really cruelly at least 5 times. Any advice?

 

 

Hey chica! Maybe, you could have a mutual friend talk to him to see how he feels about you first?

xxx

Becca G.

by iluvchorkies on 4/3/2011 8:27:06 PM

 
 

My crush likes me i know for a fact, because hes always touching my butt or my hips. And hes told me I want to ask him out but I dont know why i wont do it

by cheyranell on 4/3/2011 8:07:02 PM

 
 



Mod mod mod
I like his guy I've Not really talked to!
On facebook I said hi for no reason I don't know what came over me he he and he said right and I was like sorry I'm bored and I said I'm bored and he said that makes two of us then (is that flirty to try talk to me?) and I said up for a chat since were both bored he didn't say anything but then he went offline I dont know what this was about but I'm shy and I'm only ok with people is on facebook and he is shy to! but in the halls In school he looks at me we aren't in the same classes but some of his classes are near mine so when he's outside of class he will look at me and things and the other day we had eye contact for a few seconds but then we both nearly fell into the class doors! How do I talk to him and find if he likes me thanks mod sorry it's long xx





Helen S.

by Insideoutkid on 4/2/2011 4:49:13 PM

 
 



MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD!!!!! there's this guy in my class, and he sits right across form me. I think he's so cute!His name is Austyn. i'm not sure if he likes me, and he's the type of guy to be shy to tell anyone who he likes..... i don't know how to find out if Austyn likes me without telling him that i have a crush on him!!!! Frown It's hard to tell because he tries to make me laugh all of the time, and during class sometimes he'll look over at me. But, that may not mean he likes me at all. HELP! D:




Hey girlie -- check out this article about how to find out if a guy is into you:  http://www.girlslife.com/post/2009/09/16/advice-love-crush-dating.aspx : )




Brittany G. 
Brittany G.

by emily270 on 4/1/2011 10:44:05 PM

 
 



MOD MOD MOD, kay, im i like this guy, but hes only in one class of mine,and hes also shy, but when i glance up i usually see him looking at me, but hes shy-ish, and has lots of friends that are girls and well, he doesnt walk me to class or lockers (cuz mine isent that close to his) but how can i tell if he likes me?




Hey girlie! Check out this article on how to tell if a guy is into you: http://www.girlslife.com/post/2009/09/16/advice-love-crush-dating.aspx Smile




Brittany G. 
Brittany G.

by aqua_sunflower23 on 4/1/2011 9:55:23 PM

 
 

Hey girlll!

 

I think it's great that you feel comfortable sharing boy stuff with your mom. Moms can offer a lot of insight on boy issues. I would continue to talk to this boy at school and get to know him.  If you want to ask him out, I would suggest inviting him to join you and your friends the next time you go to the movies or on another fun group outing. A lot of girls text or ask out a guy first, it there is nothing weird about it.  Do what you are most comfortable with. In my experience, it is also better to ask a guy to hang out with you in person, instead doing it through a text message. Good Luck Smile


 

Danielle D





 

MOD MOD MOD!!!
There is this boyy in my grade... I have had a crush on him sense we ate at Applebees after Cross Country State.... Jokingly he'll call me sweety pie like when I gave him my notes yesterday to copy off... And my mom thought he had a girlfriend and I told her he didn't and she said I should go after him.. ha. kinda weird from your mom... i thinkk... but some boys a few weeks ago like my cousin were at wrestling state and were playing a joke on me that he liked me so i started texting him and was going to ask him out.. but i didn't cause i thought it would be weird coming from a girl... so how can i have him text me or should i make the first move??? What should I do????

danielle D. danielle D.

by MakeItOrBreakIt:)) on 3/31/2011 2:15:26 PM

 
 



MOD MOD MOD!!
ok theres this guy i like at my school. hes an 8th grader and im a 7th grader and we kind of just met. i mean have have bumped into each other sometimes and alot of people talk about him. he sounds like a great guy and recently my friend has set me up with him. she talked to him on facebook and he said he wants to ltalk to me at school. to tell you the truth im not as attractive as the girls in 8th grade and what if he doesnt like me back?
help plz... so nervous




Hey girl,

Just try to relax! There's obviously no guarantee any guy will turn into "something more," but you can't let the fear of that ruin any great experiences you may have with him! But I don't think you have anything to worry about - chances are he's interested since he's chatting about you with your friend ;)
Lauren C.

by darkness29292 on 3/28/2011 8:03:49 PM

 
 

ok so there is a new guy at school well he's not really new anymore i guess if he has been there for 3 months. But he is really cute and i started liking him since the day i saw him but we haven't even talked. Now he knows i like him but i didn't tell him one of his friends over heard me talking to mine about him and know everytime i walk around his table at lunch everyone says "here he is! come and get him" or something else really embarrassing! he stares at me all the time now and smiles but i don't know if he is just kidding around with his friends or he really likes me! help!!!!

by dill_pickle_luver97 on 3/26/2011 4:46:43 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD the guy i like found out and now its awkward! help

 

Just don't act like it's bothering you and he'll get over it Smile

Helen S.

by ladyknight on 3/26/2011 1:30:42 PM

 
 



Mod mod mod mod mod mod mod!!!!!!
Please help me!
So I really like this guy. I only known him for a year, but for me it was love at first sight. He has a gf, but she is leaving next year and my crush is a year younger, so he is the same grade as me.
We are partners for an afterschool sports program, and he asked me to be his partner again.
Sometimes he does things for me. Like he would let me cut him in line for water and he gave me a birthday present. (he handed to me. It wasn't wrapped or anything. He probably didn't know it was my bday at all)
I want to know if he likes me.
But I also want to know how to tell if he is being nice to me because we are partners or because are friends. I dont think that we will ever be close friends because we never have a convo about life and when I say hi, he just says hey, like he doesn't know me.
Please help me!




Hey girlie -- check out this article on how to tell if a guy is into you:  http://www.girlslife.com/post/2009/09/16/advice-love-crush-dating.aspx Smile




Brittany G. 
Brittany G.

by sjz2016 on 3/26/2011 12:06:58 PM

 
 

MODMODMOD!!
As much as I hate to say it, I have the hugest crush on the guy who flirts with ALL the girls, and is always asked for hugs from all the popular girls. I've liked him since December and I get butterflies in my stomach when he flirts with me. For example, today in science he brought me my stuff and smiled. I wanna ask him out, but he may like someone else, and I've never asked someone out before. So byttom line is, should I ask him out? And if I should ask him out, should I ask him out myself or have one of y friends do it? Or how do I do it? Please don't just give me a link to this, I want a personal answer please. Thanks so much!
~Hopeless Crusher




Hey girl, first of all, if you're going to ask someone out (doesn't matter who), do it yourself. Do NOT get a friend to do it for you. Now on to this guy: if this guy is a player, you're more likely to get hurt asking him out then gain a BF. Before you ask him, really gauge whether you're just one of the girls or if you're THE girl he really has his eyes on. If it turns out, you're the former category, don't bother.

xoxo 
Alyssa B.

by IndigoPopsicle on 3/24/2011 9:54:19 PM

 
 



ModMODMOD
The guy i like is 14 and im 12 are parents are good friends. My crush likes me too like we like each other alot but he's kinda old school and said i have to ask my dad but my dad scares me like im afraid to ask him......PLEASE HELP
Thanks -Maddie-




Hey Maddie,

Just catch your dad when he's relaxing on his own and be calm about it. Tell him you were talking to your crush (mention him by name since your parents know him) and were thinking about going to the movies together sometime. Tell him you wanted to make sure he'd be ok with it - he's your dad after all, and you respect him. Sharing this with him will make him feel like you respect him, which is great! It'll make you nervous, but you won't be able to date your crush if you don't ask anyway... so what's the harm? Smile Good luck! 
Lauren C.

by maddielynn98 on 3/21/2011 10:00:18 PM

 
 

MOD!MOD!!!!!
Ok, I'm really sad because i broke up with my boyfriend and now he's dating my friend. What should I do?

 

Hey girlie, that is definitely a tough situation. The best thing you can do is try to move one 

Paige T.

by Sumbody2Luv on 3/19/2011 2:42:30 AM

 
 



MOD! (:
Okay. So here's the dealio. This guy has been one of my best friends for about 2 years now. However, he's one year older than me, and most importantly, he's my bestttt friend's cousin. I'm afraid that she would hate me and things would be awkward if anything happened, because the two of them are like brother and sister. Plus, he can be shy at times, but whenever we hang out in groups he's always trying to get ME to laugh. we have so much in common, we even play the same instrument and are both really good. He sometimes talks about this other girl, but whenever I talk about other guys he gets weird, like he's jealous. Do you have any idea how to see if he really does like me? Do you think it'd be a bad idea to go out with someone who's family with my bff? Do you think it's even worth it? Thank you so much, and sorry this was so long!
-Cool beans (: Thankies!, Smallfry120





Helen S.

by smallfry120 on 3/18/2011 8:51:38 PM

 
 



MODMOD!!!
so i like this guy and hes been flirting alot and i have been flirting back. lately hes been flirting even more is there any way to hint that i want him to ask me out??
thank you!!





Helen S.

by iheartyew12 on 3/18/2011 8:14:06 PM

 
 

Mod Mod Mod!
Okay so I'm not allowed to date! Ever! It's not my religion, I undersatnd but its not fair! All my friends are doing it and its so annoying how they talk bout guys all the time. I mean when I see a hot guy i'll say he;s hot, but if he asks me out, i have to say no! Also my parents won't let me hang out with my friends outside of school, go to parties, wear shorts, or go on trips over night (school trips). It's getting really annoying and its affecting my social life! My parents are not willing to conprimise! Help!




Hey girlie. I'm sorry to hear about your situation. Religion is a big part of life for some people, and you have to take it up with your parents. I wish I could be of more help, but this type of situation is totally one for the rents. Good luck. 
Marly Z.

by icy184981 on 3/16/2011 6:36:52 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD
So theres this guy in my english class and im kinda new here. Anyways we started talking alot and i really like him but im too scared to ask him. My friends dont wanna ask either. Is there anything that i can do to face my fears???




Hey girlie. Did you mean ask him out? You could try and give him a hint that you want him to ask you out, so that way you won't have to be the one actually doing the asking.  
Marly Z.

by katynmolly on 3/16/2011 6:31:40 PM

 
 

MOD!!
I have a HUGE crush on a guy that I met in Karate and we go bowling a lot and yesterday, he came 2 my honor choir performance! He kept on bugging his dad 2 take him. idk if this means he likes me or not. he gave me his # a year ago and 2 months ago he gave me his email (I gave him my # the same time he gave me his and i gave him my email the sam time he gave me his). What does all of this mean? PLEASE HELP ASAP!




Hey girlie. It means that he wants to talk to you more to get to know you. This could mean that he likes you, so keep up talking to him and see where it goes. Good luck. 
Marly Z.

by Girl10 on 3/16/2011 3:48:56 PM

 
 

Okay, so this Guy friend of mine that i REALLY like is giving me all the sings that he likes. literaly ALL of them! so i asked him out and he said hes liked me since the day we met and i said aww same here! and then the next day i asked him if it was a yes and he gave me a hug and sorry my parents won't let me date. is that normal for a 14 year old boy not being able to date, or is he just trying to make up an excuse. because honostly i didnt think he liked me that way..

by samchika on 3/15/2011 1:15:07 AM

 
 

MOD!!! MOD!!!! MOD!!!!! ok so i have a HUGE crush on my old bgf. Lately hes been acting flirty with me but hes a huge flirt with just about everyone. We sit at the same table in art and when i look at him he always seems to look at me at the same time so our eyes meet. Then a few days ago he said my the picture i drew was beautiful. Then the art teacher caught me chewing gum and when i spit it out he patted me on the back. The today he was plaing with my hair. Is he flirting or is he being nice? Sorry so long, but i need to know!!!!




Hey girlie. It sounds like he's flirting with ya! 
Marly Z.

by polkadot2312 on 3/14/2011 6:36:57 PM

 
 

MOD!MOD!MOD!

Yesterday I sent my crush an email askin him out, so I waited to get a reply all yesterday and he even came on then got off real quick so I thought he responded but he didnt! So I've been waitin more but he still hasn't responded! What does this mean and what should I do?!

by dance_party!_:) on 3/13/2011 3:13:49 PM

 
 



MOD!!! MOD!!! MOD!!! MOD!!!
i need help. for the last three years, i've had this HUGE crush on my brother's best friend. he's two years older than me, so it seems doubtful that he likes me at all, but we(our families) went on vacation to florida together last summer and while we were there he was flirting with me majorly, like trying to put his arm around me and ignoring my brother so he could talk to me. i'm still not sure if he likes me though or if him and my brother were just bored and messing with me, or if it was some weird inside joke. what do you think? thank you!!!
ps. sorry it was so long!




Hey girlie,

If a guy likes you, he will show it through his actions and he'll find ways to hang out with you!  It may be a little awkward for him since he is good friends with your brother, but if he really wants to be with you, that shouldn't be a problem.  So just pay attention to the way he acts around you, and if something's meant to happen, he'll make his intentions and feelings obvious to you Smile  
Ruth S.

by misskonstantine on 3/13/2011 12:33:45 AM

 
 



MOD please!(:
I saw this boy do a solo in choir, and i've talked to him once or twice but we don't realy know eachother. we're friends on facebook, so i messaged him saying what a good job he did, 'cause i kind of have a crush on him. And he said thanks, and that's all. do you think it's too weird to keep the conversation going? We have no classes together, (not even choir, i was there with a friend) so... some advice? is it worth it? Thanks! (:




Hey girlie,

It doesn't hurt to keep the conversation going, but if he is interested, he will also try to keep the conversation going.  Try to talk to him more face to face also when you get the chance!
Ruth S.

by 1cutiepie24546 on 3/12/2011 11:47:03 PM

 
 



MOD MOD MOD*** I like this 8th grade guy. and im in 7th grade. I really like him and i really want to go out with him!! the only thing is we leave school for summer break on May 25. Then after that he will be in a new school (for high school!) and i wont see him till i go to high school. what should i do?




Hey girlie,

Build up the courage to talk to him and suggest hanging out sometime!  It could be something simple like grabbing some frozen yogurt or working on some homework at a library.  You have nothing to lose, so I would suggest to just go for it.  Put on a cute outfit, be confident, and smile! Good luck, dear Smile

 
Ruth S.

by kutie198 on 3/12/2011 9:38:54 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD so i kinda like this guy but hes in 7th grade and Im in 8th. A few 8th grade guys have dated 7th graders before but never 8th grade girls dating 7th grade guys. We hang out alot and i like him alot. What should i do?

 

 

Hey girly girl! One year isn't a big age difference, so I'd go for it if you like him Smile

xxx

Becca G.

by pinksinger501 on 3/12/2011 8:36:08 PM

 
 

**MOD** Ok, I really like this guy and we text all the time for hours! In school, we talk a lot too, and he's in most of my classes. For my birthday, he gave me Swiss Chocolate (he lived in Switzerland for 5 years) and gave me Swiss Chocolate when my grandma died. He is always super nice to me, but when I, or one of my friends, asks him who he likes, he won't tell them. The other day I was talking to him and we were talking about Kings Island and I asked if he wanted to go with me. He said"Ya that would be a lot of fun" and so we're going sometime whenever it opens! Problem is, I don't know if he likes me as more than a friend. What do you think? Does he like me back? Please help! Should I go ahead and tell him I like him? Help!! Thanks so much! Sorry this is so long, but I'm super confused!!

 

 

Hey chica! It sounds like he may like you. I'd tell him that you like him! Even if he doesn't feel the same way, you'll know, and you can move on and just concentrate on being friends with him Smile

xxx

Becca G.

by ojshorty1112 on 3/12/2011 6:54:59 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD so there's this guy i really like but he was a jerk to by bestfriend. this guy is extremly cute and smart and i think he likes me. i can't picture him doing what he did and i can't stop liking him. what should i do? should i stop liking him (i can't whenever i see him my stomach drops, literally) or should i try to convice my friend to see the good in him?

 

 

Hey chickadee! I'd say it depends on how severe of a jerk he was to her. If he did something really bad, like bullied her or was making fun of her, than I'd say that you're better off without him. Maybe talk to him and get his side of the story of what happened. 

xxx

Becca G.

by soccerbunny00 on 3/12/2011 5:50:11 PM

 
 



MOD!!MOD!!
Hey mod there is this guy that i think may like me. So, how should i ask him?





Helen S.

by ladybugluv on 3/12/2011 3:34:13 PM

 
 



MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD please help!!!
okay well i secretly like this guy and i told one of my friends and she told her boyfriend who told his friend who told MY CRUSH! but then he (my chrush) let me wear his jacket. and he told one of my friends he liked me bak. shouldi ask him or wait until he askes me?




Hey girlie! There's nothing wrong with asking a guy anything! Especially if he has stated that he likes you too Smile




Brittany G. 
Brittany G.

by babych on 3/12/2011 10:14:41 AM

 
 



MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD!!!!!!!!!!
I'm like in love with kid Dylan but he's waaaaayyyyyy out of my league he dated the most popular girl and school and i don't wanna ask him out because i know he'll say no. I don't talk to him much because i'm scared i'll look like and idiot i really like him and he talks to me alot and i catch him looking at me alot but i still don't think he like's me! I am so scared I love him so much and i wanna get to know him but i'm to scared to approach him. WHAT SHOULD I DO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! please help?




Hey girlie -- first and foremost, never think you're out of somebody's league! Start off with small talk: ask about his day, classes, etc. to break the ice. Afterwards, talking should be a breeze and you can take things from there Smile




Brittany G. 
Brittany G.

by mckey101 on 3/11/2011 10:24:33 PM

 
 



mod mod mod mod!!
ok so i have a few things...
first, i want to tell my guy friend i like him. im not sure how or when i should do this tho. also... this girl is really leading him on. a lot. but she has a bf!! i know i cant really do anything but it kinda bothers me. help!!! thanks





Helen S.

by CoolBean on 3/11/2011 5:50:57 PM

 
 

Thanks a lot 4 the tips(:

by taydortot7 on 3/9/2011 8:05:37 PM

 
 

MOD!
I need some advice. I dont think my parents want me having a boyfriend but I really want one(im not desperate or anything. just want 1!). Im 13 yrs old so a lot of my friends have boyfriends. When I mention 2 my mom that so and so are goin out, she'll say "Where do they go out? They cant drive and surely their parents dont drive them somewhere." But my dad sometimes will be like"Whos your boyfriend? Huh? Do you like anyone?" What should I do?!?
Thx bunches(:




Hey girlie. I think when your mom says that, she's just being funny. Using the term "go out" is unusual for their generation and they're not used to it. If you're getting mixed signals from your parents, talk to them about it. See if they're okay with you having a boyfriend.  
Marly Z.

by taydortot7 on 3/9/2011 7:48:42 PM

 
 

MOD!MOD!MOD!
I have a problem. I want to ask out a guy in my class but my best friend has dated him and broke up with him (a long time ago) and wont let me go out with him. What should I do? This guy is cute too! Smile




Hey chica. Talk to your friend again about how much you like him. If she still has feelings for him, I'd give it a little more time. Think about what is more important to you: your girlie or this potential guy. Hope this helps! 
Marly Z.

by Sumbody2Luv on 3/9/2011 6:39:09 PM

 
 

I need help. So I am in 6th grade, and we got a new boy at our school at the begging of the year. (its a k-8 school) EVERYONE likes him and he is the first boy i have actually liked for real. I think it is a possibility he might like me, and he smiles at me. I want to hang out with him (and stuff) but I have 2 problems. He is super popular and is 6th grade to young to "date"?

by txtingirl on 3/8/2011 6:23:22 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD!!!! i had my friend ask this guy i really liked out because i knew he liked me and he said yes but then five minutes(yes literaly) he said he just wanted to be good friends i said ok i mean wat could i say but now whenever i try to talk to him its all akward. wat should i do? thankz

 

 

Hey chickadee! I would definately confront him about it. Maybe try talking to him online about it, if you can't do it in person. You deserve an explaination!

xxx

Becca G.

by LeXi_nicole13 on 3/5/2011 6:13:24 PM

 
 

MOD!! I'm crushing on a guy who I went to junior high with, and I was friends with him then, but now he goes to a private school. We text for 5+ hours a day (!!!!) and he called me his best friend... I'm not sure if he likes me, or if I'm just his best friend.. Help please!!

 

 Hey chica! Boys, they're enough to drive us up a wall! When it comes to decoding guys, there is no easy way to crack it. If he talks to you that much I'd lean towards a yes, but if you want to be sure maybe bring up the subject some time and lightly touch upon how others thing he digs you or something. If this helps you at all here's an article about figuring out boy friends from boyfriends. Hope this helps! Good luck Smile


http://www.girlslife.com/post/2008/08/17/Boy-Friend-or-Boyfriend.aspx Caitlin F.

by ArgarettealaMay on 3/4/2011 12:29:24 PM

 
 

MOD! MOD! I've liked this guy since the end of school last year and he said he didn't like me back. This year he is in my connections and he always looks at me and when I catch him stareing at me sometimes he doesn't turn away. Also he flirts with me sometimes and we kinda talk and he and some of his friends were following me and my friends once. Could he have changed his mind? My friends also think he likes me but idk. Does he ?

 

 

Hey chica! It's possible that he could have changed his mind, however I wouldn't get your hopes up about it. Since he knew that you liked him, it would be his turn to make a move. I wouldn't put too much emphasis on this guy for now. Keep your eyes peeled for other cuties too, and don't focus too much on this guy.

xxx

Becca G.

by MissViolets on 2/27/2011 7:17:53 PM

 
 

MOD!!!!MOD!!! Hey i've known this guy for like 2 years.. i really like him and i think he likes me.... the only time i talk to him is on the bus. i've looked for hints if he likes me. if pretty sure he does. i dont want things to get akward if things dont work out because i still want to be friends if it doesn't. Should i find out if he likes me or ask him out? and how on either way?




Hey chica. If you like a guy, go for it! You can do either. If you think he likes you, ask him out. If you're unsure, then say "hey, so I was wondering who you like?" 
Marly Z.

by JustSmile on 2/26/2011 11:17:31 PM

 
 

MOD!!
I really like my really good guy friend, and i think he likes me too. He smiles at me, tells me I'm funny, and stares at me from across the room. The only problem is i think he has a lot of pressure on him. His (MEGA-hot) older brother is Captain of the Varsity Lacrosse team, and there are other really pretty girls that are basically throwing themselves at him. Is there a way for me to crack his shell about his feelings for me?




Hey girlie. You can just start talking to him about it one day and say "so who do you like?" and hopefully he will answer you truthfully. Sometimes you have to pry that information out of guys. 
Marly Z.

by thatgirlx33 on 2/26/2011 10:24:34 PM

 
 

there's this guy that go's to my school but i saw him at the high school with his friends and we were all sledding and he gave me a hug but thats the secont time he's ever huged me the frist time i gave him candy along with my hole class on V-day then today what dose that mean i kinda like him but dose he like me but if he did that would suck becuase i cant date till am 16 so whats the point in even having a chrush

ps sorry about the spelling Smile

by mazzie on 2/24/2011 11:17:18 PM

 
 



MOD MOD MOD!!!
I like this guy and he knows that I like him and now that he knows that I do he has been acting weird around me. Also, he likes another girl who is one of my good friends but she doesn't like him back. I really like him! What should I do??




Well if hes acting weird hes honestly not worth your time. Guys get really stupid about things like crushes. If hes going to act like that its best to just back off and give him space. If you do that he may realize he likes you back and things may change. If you dont give him space he'll just get worse and worse with the weirdness. xoxo kerra
Kerra S.

by ktrb22 on 2/23/2011 9:16:15 PM

 
 

Mod? so ive had this crush on a guy now for a long time?? he doesnt like me back more than a friend!!! What do i do!!!

 

Hey chica, unfortunately if he's not into you right now, you've gotta let it be :/ Stay friends with him, and hopefully over time it will develop!

Clare W.

by mookie98 on 2/22/2011 3:11:11 PM

 
 

PLEASE DON'T READ THIS, YOU WILL BE KISSED ON THE NEAREST POSSIBLE FRIDAY BY THE LOVER OF YOUR LIFE. TOMMORROW WILL BE THE BEST DAY OF YOUR LIFE. NOW YOU'VE STARTED READING THIS, DON'T STOP, THIS IS FREAKY.

1. Say your name 10 times.
2. Say your mom's name 5 times.
3. Say your crush's name 3 times.
4. Paste this to 4 other quizzes. If you do this, your crush will kiss you on the nearest Friday, but if you read this and do not paste this, then you will have very bad luck! SEND THIS TO 5 QUIZZES IN 143 MINUTES. WHEN YOU'RE DONE PRESS F6 AND YOUR CRUSH'S NAME WILL APPEAR IN BIG LETTERS ON THE SCREEN. THIS IS SO FREAKY BECAUSE IT ACTUALLY WORKS

by popcorn7732 on 2/22/2011 1:28:13 PM

 
 



MOD MOD MOD!!
I really like my best guy friend. We talk a lot and flirt sometime but I don't want to ask him out just yet. How do I get him to take the hint?





Helen S.

by MusicLover731 on 2/20/2011 4:08:45 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD im not interested in any of the guys that go to my school, so where can i go to meet a smart funny cute guy??

 

 

Hey girly! I've totally heard this problem before. Why not join some activities outside of school? Maybe a new youth group. Or, take some kind of new class (like art) Smile

xxx

Becca G.

by xoxo_:-) on 2/19/2011 9:47:18 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD!!!!!!!!!!!!
So I sorta have a MAJOR problem. So none of my friends know who I like, I just wanted to avoid drama. But My BFF has liked my crush a LOT for like, 3 years now!!! He still says he likes his ex who broke up with him a month ago, and he's really good friends with me and my BFF. But I feel like I can't say that I like him, or even flirt with him, cuz I don't wanna piss off my friend. And I think he might like me. WHAT DO I DO!?!? And then there's this other guy. Lets call him Nathan (not his real name). So Nathan's my ex's BEST friend. They're super close. He's also one of my really good friends. But lately I get the feeling that he likes me. Like, REALLY likes me. And I don't want to screw up the friendship, and I kinda like him, but I don't know!!! Please help me I have ZERO idea what to do, about either of them! Thanks and sorry this is kinda long...

 

Hey girlie! If you went after either of those boys, you'd mess up a friendship. Talk to your BFF about guy #1, and maybe you can agree to let him choose who he wants. It's usually a bad idea to go after an ex's best friend, so I'd stay clear of guy #2.

Clare W.

by 4everthefriend22 on 2/18/2011 1:34:54 PM

 
 

MOD! MOD! MOD! MOD! okay so i like this guy i make alot of eye contact is it a good sign if he smiles at me he's done it a few times so ya also he teases me with and stuff but nothing major.And wat other clues if he likes me back? Thanks U r da bomb!




Hey girl, it sounds like he may like you as a friend with those signs: be careful! It's hard to tell sometimes which way his signals go, so I'd suggest just being a friend to him right now and getting to know him right now. It might give you a better clue.

xoxo 
Alyssa B.

by aw22364 on 2/15/2011 9:53:38 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD!!!
Okaay so there is this guy in my science class and lets call him miguel well miguel was sitting next to brendan well Brendan yelled to me Sarah! Miguel told me he wants to kiss you! and miguel would pretend to slap him and he blushed and smiled and he kept on saying stuff like Sarah! miguel said... but then miguel would stop him before he could say something. Also miguel told my friend michele that he keeps on trying to ask someone ou but he keeps on chickening out. What should i do about this??? I already like someone else...




Hey girl, I'd just ignore his remarks. If you don't react, he'll take the hint and stop. If he does ask you out, tell him you're flattered but you're just not interested in having a boyfriend right now. Blame it on timing, but make it clear the answer's no.

xoxo 
Alyssa B.

by Soccer Chic13 on 2/15/2011 9:24:05 PM

 
 



MOD MOD MOD!
I need some guy help. My mom, and this guy I like's mom, have known each other real well since they were like 15. But, the only time I've talked to him was our homecoming football game! It turns out he was glad that I told him who I was. I catch his eye in the hallway at school, and I smile at him and stuff. He smles back too! How do I talk to him more? I want to get to know him, because I want to know him before I ask him out or anything. Plus, he's in 7th grade, and I'm in 8th. PLEASE HELP!




Aw, nice! You already have the subtle "hallway hi" going on, so that's awesome. Next time you see him at his locker, go up to him. Use your moms as a talking point - I know that sounds kinda silly, but laughing about something weird one of them said could totally break the ice! All it takes is one person starting a convo and I'll bet it'll grow from there. Just be yourself and take a deep breath!
Lauren C.

by blrbeagle on 2/14/2011 8:38:55 PM

 
 



MOD!MOD!MOD!MOD MOD MOD MOD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I like this guy that I've been like, really close friends with 4 like a year and a half now, but then he stopped talking to me. I told one of my friends and (without asking me first) she called him and told him he was a a--!!
I really like him a lot, he just broke up with his recent GF but is blaming me for the whole name calling thing! HELP! I want to ask him out, but i at least want to be friends again!





Helen S.

by Pretty...(desp.) on 2/13/2011 2:45:57 PM

 
 


I like this guy that I've been like, really close friends with 4 like a year and a half now, but then he stopped talking to me. I told one of my friends and (without asking me first) she called him and told him he was a a--!!
I really like him a lot, he just broke up with his recent GF but is blaming me for the whole name calling thing! HELP! I want to ask him out, but i at least want to be friends again!

by Pretty...(desp.) on 2/13/2011 2:45:17 PM

 
 

I like this guy that I've been like, really close friends with 4 like a year and a half now, but then he stopped talking to me. I told one of my friends and (without asking me first) she called him and told him he was a a--!!
I really like him a lot, he just broke up with his recent GF but is blaming me for the whole name calling thing! HELP! I want to ask him out, but i at least want to be friends again!

by Pretty...(desp.) on 2/12/2011 11:37:55 PM

 
 

OMG, I am so going to use that. I am going to a party tomorrow. I need to get a boy to know me so I do not make the same mistake. I want him to realize me. Hope it well help good luck to everyone else. Wish me good luck. Tong

by Brattie198 on 2/12/2011 2:55:27 PM

 
 

MODMODMODMODMODMODMOD!!!!!!!!!!!!!
do you have any ideas for a St. Patrick's Day dance outfit??????????????????????
Smile thanks Smile




Hey girlie, check out green halter top dresses that would be super cute  
Paige T.

by miss_wicked on 2/12/2011 10:35:59 AM

 
 

I want to ask this guy out. Before i go to my locker (his is right by mine)i tell myself what to say. When i get next to him i turn into a chicken and don't say anything. Then i fill like a FAIL! oooo plus I've never ask a guy out. Please help!!!!!!!!!!!!!

by Zoe is cool on 2/10/2011 6:51:12 PM

 
 

Mod Mod
I like this guy and everybody knows, and he likes me but nobody knows that but me and one of his friends. His friend tells me to ask him out because he's scared, but this would be my first date and I'm scared that he's not telling anybody because he really doesn't like me. Help!
-Confused or Oblivious




I think hes nervous as well. Just go with the flow and see where things go. If he asks you out obviously say yes. But dont over think it! Just have fun and be easy going and it will work out Smile xoxo kerra 

Kerra S.

by traptitus on 2/9/2011 9:55:28 PM

 
 

MOB MOB!!!! i need help this guy i like asked me to dance at the valentines dance on friday. And everyone says they think he likes me but he told me no because he dosnt want to ruin our friendship. But i dont know. Do you think he likes me? Please help

 

hey girlie! i'm not sure how this guy feels :/ if he asked you to dance that's definitely an indicator, but if you guys have been good friends for long he may be honest when he says he doesn't want to ruin the friendship by trying a relationship. i wouldn't push him towards a relationship because if it's meant to be he'll realize it. hope this helps, and good luck Smile

Caitlin F.

by xokcxo89 on 2/9/2011 11:27:38 AM

 
 

I like this kid whenever I look at him he reminds me of Taylor lautner( who we all know is hot) so I start to blush and can't talk to him. Anybody got any suggestions about how I could overcome blushing so much? I'd love to hear them.

by Gymnast4eva12697 on 2/9/2011 4:34:46 AM

 
 

MOD!!!
Okay so the valentines dance is friday...
and there is this guy that i really really like. [and we're friends and stuff] that i want to ask to the dance as a date..
but the last [and only] time ive ever asked a guy to a dance, he said no and his friends mocked me for it [a lot] so i am REALLY nervous about asking him out.
plus he's literally the only guy friend i have ever had and he means a lot to me and i really dont want to screw things up.
AND--as a fundraiser at my school they are delivering flowers to people-- and i sent him one... the problem is i they are delivered on monday but the dance is this friday and if he says no i dont want him to awkwardly get a flower from me on monday...
should i ask him out or not? [ i have never had a boyfriend, but i think we are perfect for each other and all my friends think we would make a really cute couple...




Hey girl, why not ask him to go to the dance with you as a friend or friend-date for now? That way it takes the pressure off and you can see how it goes before you ask him out romantically.

xoxo
Alyssa B.

by iluvedward1396 on 2/8/2011 9:26:08 PM

 
 

Okay, help! I posted a similar story somewhere else, don't remember where exactly. Like 100 tips or something. ANYWAY I really like this guy and we have a LOT in common. He's really easy to talk to, super nice, and he's great, but I suck at 1) flirting, 2) starting conversations, and 3) not getting ahead of myself {{if a guy talks to me, i tend to automatically think hes into me}} sooo.... i dont want to look like a stalker. but i want to go out with him. Tips???

by TheOneWithTheFace on 2/8/2011 9:21:20 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD
Ok so, there's this guy that came to my school last year and we have been friends since then. I sorta like him but I just want to be better friends. How can I get closer to him so we can hang out, without him taking it the wrong way?

 

Hey girlie. Ask him if he wants to hang out this weekend and do something fun. Tell him that it's not a date but you just want to chill! If you act casual about it, I think he will think it's just friend bonding!

Elizabeth P.

by creativekid123 on 2/8/2011 8:18:30 PM

 
 

MOD Mod mod okay so #1 i have been best guy friends with this guy for some time now, but i have started to have feelings for him that i hadn't had before. i cant tell if he likes me or not! i wish i could know!!! HELP!!! #2 I like this one guy and my friends are thinking of a plan to make me happy and him. Plan: He asks me out and then when and if he dumps me (cuz i wont dump him) i will be over him! but idk if he is going to do it!!! i really hope he will!!! HELP!!!
ps thanks for some awesome advice earlier!!!

 

hey girlie. You will never know for sure if he likes you unless he tells you. But guys tend to be too shy to express their feelings. I think you should give it some more time and see where things go but if you still feel the same way, be honest with him and tell him. You don't want to go through life wondering, "what if?"

Elizabeth P.

by thetwilightgleek on 2/8/2011 7:51:37 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD!!!
i really like my BGF and everyone always teases us about liking each other (i do, but i dunno about him!! >.<) today at lunch the girls in his class were saying how he told them something and it related to me, and he doesnt want me to know, and the girls in his class wont tell me! i kept bugging him to tell me, then i poked him in the ribs (yes, i know, kinda violent) and he got mad at me... but he got over it quick, but what could the secret be? i dont think the possible one is "he likes me"
also, i sewed him some felt chocolates and im planning to give it to him on valentines day as "friends" will he like it?

 

Hey girlie. I think he will like the gift! But you will have to wait about the secret. Let the anticipation build! It makes things exciting.

Elizabeth P.

by lucky_sunshine101 on 2/8/2011 7:30:17 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD
Please help!
So I thought the guy i liked might like me back, and I was really excited. My best friend just talked to him, and he said he only thinks of me as a good friend. Frown He went on after that to say that he knew I liked him because I made it so obvious. I'm starting to think maybe i'm doing something wrong. I'm almost 15 and I've never had a boyfriend... I know it's not a big deal, but only one of my friends is in the same boat as me (with the no-boyfriend thing) It really makes me wonder if there is something wrong with me, but I don't think i'm ugly or have a bad personality. So why don't guys ask me out?
Sincerely... Confused

 

Hey girlie. Of course it's not you! I know it can be hard being one of your only friends that is single. But the way I see it, you just haven't found the right person for you and you are not willing to settle for a guy who you don't really like. I'm the same way. Honestly, the boys who your friends date, are they guys you would want to be with? I bet not. Own your single status! Don't hide it. When the time is right, he will come around : ) As for the guy you liked...forget him. On to the next one!

Elizabeth P.

by lol_girl224 on 2/8/2011 6:01:30 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD MOD ohmygosh i dont even know how to begin! soo i finially told my crush of 2 yearss that i likedd him after one of my best freinds told me too. and he said he likeed me so we are dating and i couldnt be happier this is my first boyfriend as of tonight! so anyway the same friend that i love told me that she likes him too and i felt sooo badd about the whole thing but she told me to date himm. but anyway she said she wrote him a note about the whoel thing (shes already told him she liked him) andd i was like again ohmygsoh im so sorry. and she goes i wrote it on the shower door crying. so i feel terrible because i love this girl but i love this guy! what do i do?

 

Hey girl, I'm not sure what the best thing to do is.  She said you could date him, so I would think it's okay.  I think you should talk it over with your friend, and let her know why you are confused and concerned.  It sounds like you guys have been great friends to each other, so I'm sure you'll be able to work through this.  xoxo

Marie H.

by coolchick110 on 2/7/2011 9:45:20 PM

 
 

mod mod mod I like this guy, and we both liked eachother a few years ago but i'm not sure if he still likes me. One of my friends said he likes me. My other friend said that if I ask him out he will say yes to be popular. How can I find out if he really likes me for me? Thanks! =)

 

Hey girl!  Talk to him and get to know him better.  And check this out, it's got subtle hints that he's really into you:   

http://www.girlslife.com/post/2009/09/16/advice-love-crush-dating.aspx



Marie H.

by Sarah_sportsgirl on 2/7/2011 8:25:09 PM

 
 

mod mod mod hey i have liked the same guy since kindergarten and we are really good friends. I asked him out a while back and he said yes but the next day he sent me an E-MAIL saying that we should just stay friends b/c we are too good of friends, blah blah blah. I want to get over him but really can't! what i want more is to be with him for more than 11 hours! I think it is a bit more than just a little crush!! What should i do?

 

Hey girl, I think you should be patient for now.  This guy sounds like he is kinda confused about his feelings.  I know it's hard, but just remember that things do work out, and for whatever reason he's just not the right guy for you right now.  Things might change in the future - who knows? Smile  But for now, just be friends.  And keep your eyes out for guys who are ready to date. 

Marie H.

by thetwilightgleek on 2/7/2011 7:22:26 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD ok, so the boy i like and i are really close but hes SUPER shy.. I feel really uncomftarble with asking him out... and we flirt all the time, but as soon as I tell myself I like him when we're flirting I get super nervous and I cant do it! any help?

 

Hey girl, As far as calming your nerves, take a deep breath when you talk to him.  Remind yourself of the positives - he's sweet, and you guys obviously get along really well!  So there's not much to worry about.  You could think about inviting him to hang out with you and your buds sometimes - it shows you want to get to know him better, but it's more laid-back than asking him out.  If that seems like too much or not quite right at the moment, just keep having fun with the flirting, and see where it goes. Smile

Marie H.

by phixxee3 on 2/7/2011 6:47:02 PM

 
 

think of your crush

2.make a heart with your hands

3.then kiss your hands while still making the heart

4.then put the heart where your real heart is

5.tomorrow your crush will ask you out

6.this will only work if you post this to your favorite article

by babysa511 on 2/6/2011 9:40:47 PM

 
 

This is perfect,I am sssoooooo going to try this on my crush tomorrow!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Laughing Thank you sssooo much!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!:]

by dhestwal on 2/6/2011 8:51:38 PM

 
 

This is perfect I am sooooo gonna try this on my crush tomorrow!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!Laughing

by dhestwal on 2/6/2011 8:48:31 PM

 
 

mod mod mod
so i had this friend last year, and then she got mad at me for something that i still dont know. then she sucked up to me and my friends because she wanted someone to hang out with. now it is this year, and my 2 bffs became close with her, so i became "friend" with her. then she got mad at one of my friends and asked me and another one of my friends to shun her. when we didn't she got reeealy mad and ignored us. my friend forwarded 10 texts that my "friend" had sent her about me and my friends. they were reeealy nasty. we started ignoring eachother. now my friend is friends with her! what should i do?! i still havnt forgiven her, but hav tried to appoligise (for what, i hav no idea) but she ignores me! how should i handle this??? and how should i handle my friend being friends with her? she was mentioned in the texts... thanks! 




Hey girlie, just don't hang out with the two of them together. There's no reason to be this girl's friend if she's treating you this way. Let your other friend figure out how to split her time between the two of you. 

Lauren T.

by rach<3kampkohut on 2/6/2011 6:57:52 PM

 
 

I really like one of my BGF's. I'm having a birthday party, and I'm thinking of inviting him. How can I flirt a little with him in a dark room for Laser Tag?

by Ferdie on 2/6/2011 6:51:22 PM

 
 


When getting a guy, you need to say what you feel. Don't hold ANYTHING in. You need to tell him about yourself and then say "I like you, and I wanted to know if you would like to hang out on Saturday?" He most defenitly will say yes.
Please follow my advice. If you need any advice on other topics, please look me up. I will have all your answers.
Thank you,
~ Gwennstefani15 Helen S.

by Gwennstefani15 on 2/6/2011 4:15:28 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD MOD
aghhh, this guy is so confusing! can you help me figure out if he likes me or not?!
#1 We were taking a math quiz and I sighed in exasperation because one of the questions were difficult and his head whipped around and he held is gaze on mine and gave me a questioning head-turn and I just smiled. It happened again and we held each others gaze until we looked away again. Also, in the cafeteria after school, (club meeting), he gets picked up from there and i would say 70% of the time he was staring at me.
#2: He asks me for clarification for quizzes/tests we take. For example, he usually asks this other girl if he got something right or whatever cuz she's uber smart, but this time he GRABBED my bag, pulled me back swirled me around, and desperately asked me the question, even though he could've had the chance to ask the other girl b4 cuz he was talking to her. He made me give him a hi-five cuz we had the same answer but he didnt have the girl do that. thanks!




Hey girlie. Those are definite signs that he does like you. Keep seeing how he acts and you'll be able to tell if he likes ya! 
Marly Z.

by goldenhamsta on 2/5/2011 11:09:42 PM

 
 

MOD!!**
So i really need help. There's this guy i like a lot and my friends were brave enough to go ask him if he likes me (it was last year) and he said he liked me 'AS A FRIEND' . We talked and stuff , he smiles but i want to get him to ask me out this valentine's day. I am not a flirty time and i don't want to sound pushy.. HELPP!!




Hey chica. Unfortunately, if a guy doesn't like you more than a friend, you have to accept it and move on. You can try to hint to him that you like him, but you can't just make a guy like you. Good luck! 
Marly Z.

by snacktimeval on 2/5/2011 10:46:10 PM

 
 

1 put ur hand on ur chest
2 say the person u loves name 4 times
3 put ur finger on ur nose
4 say their name 4 more times
5 put this in 4 articals and tomarow they will say i love u or kiss u on the cheek or tell u they love u <:

by crazymelikwatevr01 on 2/5/2011 10:11:31 PM

 
 

1 put ur hand on ur chest
2 say the person u loves name 4 times
3 put ur finger on ur nose
4 say their name 4 more times
5 put this in 4 articals and tomarow they will say i love u or kiss u on the cheek or tell u they love u <:

by Riptide14 on 2/5/2011 7:50:22 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD Lately, I have been wanting to change my "image" or whatever. I'm in 8th grade and I've never been cool or popular but I've never been a total nerd. I'm what you might call "socially awkward"? I want to get to know guys more and the more popular people. They are nice and not the stereotypical popular people. My friends that I used to hang out with are getting kinda mean and rude and I don't want to get into drama. Basically, I want to meet new people, boys and girls. I really like this guy though and now though and I don't know how to ask him to hang out since I'm kinda a loser or rather I'm not really associated with guys. What should I do?

 

 

Hey girly! I would get involved in some new activities, so that you can meet new people. Try a new sport, join a new club, or take a new class. You'll meet new people and extend your circiel of friends, which will in turn increase your popularity. As for the guy, I'd work on getting closer to him and being friends before asking him out Smile

xxx

Becca G.

by mdo556 on 2/5/2011 7:00:15 PM

 
 

moderator please help me asap!!! so tonight, i play a basketball game and my coach from my school team is coming to watch... the thing is, is that he makes me feel uncomftable! you may be asking why i invited hem, but it wasnt me, it was another girl who plays on both of my teams. like he is always demanding and makes you feel guilty over little thing. like i was taking the picture for the boys team, which he also coaches, was like yelling at me because i happened to be taking picture of the best player while he was posing for the camera while my coach was rearranging the teamates. he started yelling at me and during practices, he would always cuss at the players. he would yell at me during the games, but then told me i did good after the game. i dont want him to yell at me when i am playing. i always feel uncomftable, but i dont understand why no one else feels the same way! please help me!!

 

 

Hey girly, I answered your question when you posted this a little while ago. Did you see it?

xxx

Becca G.

by kmn21 on 2/5/2011 6:19:11 PM

 
 



MOD!
Okay so I like this guy and i think he likes me. He always looks at me in class and when I look up to find him looking at me he looks quickly away. But sometimes he acts like he doesnt know me. So Im confused if he likes me or if he doesnt. He gives me mixed signs. Help?





Helen S.

by Saphire Rose on 2/5/2011 4:51:40 PM

 
 



MODMODMODMOD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I like this but he just had to get staples in his head because he cracked it open because MY FRIEND was showing him something and knocked him backwards! When should I tell him how I feel?????????
Laughing Thanks Laughing
Miss_wicked




hey! maybe when he's feeling better? 
Helen S.

by miss_wicked on 2/5/2011 1:02:26 PM

 
 

i found out my crush really likes me. so what happens from here? who makes the first move? im trying to be patient but it isnt working. he doesnt know that i feel the same way about him, should i get him something for valentine's day?

by funnybunny24 on 2/5/2011 9:21:57 AM

 
 

These are all great idea that help get a BF. I used a few of them when I started liking the guy that is now my bf. Its not playing mind games its just getting to know how guys think and knowing what attracts them.

And flings are fun because they sometimes turn serious!

by luckykel on 2/5/2011 12:09:41 AM

 
 

this would have really helped me in the fall, me and my crush (my best guy friend) we hung out all the time and were always flirting, ditching our other friends to walk the halls. I was going to ask him but I didn't believe what all my friends thoughts about him liking me. And now we barely talk to each other Frown

by smile :) on 2/4/2011 11:57:12 PM

 
 

1. Say your name 10 times.
2. Say your mom's name 5 times.
3. Say your crush's name 3 times.
4. Paste this to 4 other quizzes. If you do this, your crush will kiss you on the nearest Friday, but if you read this and do not paste this, then you will have very bad luck! SEND THIS TO 5 QUIZZES IN 143 MINUTES. WHEN YOU'RE DONE PRESS F6 AND YOUR CRUSH'S NAME WILL APPEAR IN BIG LETTERS ON THE SCREEN. THIS IS SO FREAKY BECAUSE IT ACTUALLY WORKS

by r.z0557 on 2/4/2011 11:35:54 PM

 
 

Ok so I like this guy and want to ask him to the dance. Before i go to my locker (his is right by mine)i tell myself what to say. When i get next to him i turn into a chicken and don't say anything. Then i fill like a FAIL! oooo plus I've never ask a guy out. Please help

by zoe is cool on 2/4/2011 5:03:27 PM

 
 

mod mod mod mod!!! omg dear carol,i am like madly in love with this boy but the only problem is he is in 8th grade!! i want ot ask him out but im scared to ask him my self?how should i asked him? what should i say first? and will he maybe feel comfortable dating a 6th grader? need answers asap!!! help!!! thanks Smile

Bonjour chicky! Here's a great article on how to get guys to ask you out and get a yes! http://www.girlslife.com/post/2011/01/18/how-to-ask-him-out.aspx

Jessica W.

by dommy465 on 2/4/2011 1:08:14 AM

 
 

OK, so I'm 14 and there is a couple of guys at school (mainly 1) that i have a crush on. In this magazine they make it seem like you and your crush hang all the time. But what about if the guy you like is your friends brother? And he hardly knows your alive? And you v never been on a date?? Frown Help!

by cammi.xoxo on 2/3/2011 11:38:58 PM

 
 

oh wow if i knew this before this time i would be in a relation ship Smile

by 18hinnale on 2/3/2011 9:39:23 PM

 
 

there is this really cute boy I like and i think he likes me, but i'm not sure. any suggestions on how to find out?

by Palamino on 2/3/2011 5:22:37 PM

 
 

wish I read this a while ago...

this is wat happened:

me(really fast): hey,do you want to go out with me
boy(has hands on hips and looks @ me ) : no.i like u as a friend. don't take it personally.
his friend: *stands with mouth WAY open*
me:*walk away*

by lipsmackergal5 on 2/2/2011 11:42:08 PM

 
 

MOD!MOD! MOD!!!
So I have a majo crush on this guy in my gym class and we got paired up for a tennis tour dement that lasted a few weeks. The only prob? I suck at tennis!!! And I am the reason y we r losing the games...... Will he say no is I ask him out cause of my bad skills?
Plz help




I think you need to be really silly about how youre bad. When you miss something just say "oh no sorry! if only i could hit the ball as well as i trip over my own feet. Then we would be first place!" If you say cute things like that, but dont put yourself down then i think he'll notice how cool you are and be interested. Just remember to not be too negative. No one likes a negative person. xoxo kerra 

Kerra S.

by tennesbug77 on 2/2/2011 10:17:32 PM

 
 

MOD! MOD! MOD! There's this guy who I used to sit next to in 3 of my classes and I REALLY like him. He's part of the popular crowd but he's not as snobby or obnoxious as everybody else in that crowd is. So anyways, when we used to sit next to each other (becuz the teach changes seats every semester) he would always make me laugh. It seemed like he tried to make me laugh. Now since it's a new semester, we don't sit next to each other anymore, so now he doesn't talk to me. Does he really like me like I like him, or was he just being friendly? Thanks! xoxo, Isabelle

 

Hey chica, it's hard to tell what's going threw this guy's mind! Laughing is always a good way to let someone know you like them, but now that you guys don't talk anymore it's hard to judge. Why not try to talk to him on Facebook or soemthing or while you're in the halls and see how he responds? That may give you an idea of how he feels. Regardless, he does seem like a nice guy so you've got good taste! Good luck Smile

Caitlin F.

by izzyrox7198 on 2/2/2011 11:16:27 AM

 
 

omg!!! theres this rly cute guy guy and i think he likes me but i dont know for sure and i dont want to feel like a fool asking him out and getting rejected

what should i do??!!!!!

by atss on 2/2/2011 12:03:23 AM

 
 

I NEED HELP!!!

Okay, so I just asked out cute guy yesterday! But it didn't go so well. Frown Here is how our convo went:

Me: Hey...can I ask you something?
Him: sure
Me: do you want to go out with me?
Him: uhh no thanks???

What did I do wrong?? HELP ME GL!!!!!!

by Aimeebug9 on 2/1/2011 5:49:46 PM

 
 

MOD!!!! MOD!!!! MOD!!!! I really like this guy...and he likes me too...or at leaste according to that aritical...anyways...I want to ask him to the upcoming dance....but I am not sure how...or if he'll even like to go to a dance...what should I do??




Hey girlie. WHy not try talking to him about the dance. Ask him if he is thinking of going and if he has asked anyone yet. Then if you feel like he is being talkative to you, say, "Well I was thinking you and I could go together. It could be fun!" Try to be casual about it. OR you can always talk with him and drop hints about the dance and see if he asks you! Good luck : ) 
Elizabeth P.

by sgae2475 on 2/1/2011 5:32:59 PM

 
 

This is great advice. But right now I don't really like anyone and that's okay because I have more time to focus on fun stuff, like making my projects creative and shopping.

by heyitsdianaa on 2/1/2011 5:32:54 PM

 
 

Thank you! You are right I should talk to him first before I answer. I mean he is my best friend I need to be able to talk with him about anything. Thank you so much you totally cleared up my confused brain. How should I put it when he asks me though? Should I be like " I would really like to go out with you, but I want to make sure that it doesn't ruin our friendship"?




That sounds perfect. Just relax and let him know you like him, you're interested, but you have some worries and want to talk about them with him first. That way you won't start off your relationship (if you decide to go that way) with any doubts Smile

Lauren C.

by curly4Q on 1/31/2011 7:56:51 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD!
I am going to the dance with my crush. We used to be great friends and talked to each other a lot, but ever since he asked me out, we have been awkard around each other! Any tips on how to lighten the mood? THANKS!!




Hey chickie,

Things will only be awkward if you both let them be that way! If you used to be great friends, you already know you have a lot in common and can get along well together. So try to take a deep breath and be friendly, warm, and joke around like you used to. I'm sure he'll take the cue and respond Smile 

Lauren C.

by paramoregurl on 1/31/2011 7:55:43 PM

 
 



MOD MOD MOD!
Okay so I recently found out that my bgf is going to ask me to be his girlfriend after the winter dance in February. I have really liked him for a long time and was really excited when I found out, but now I am second guessing myself. I mean I really like him, but he is also my best friend. If something bad went down while we were bf gf and I lost his friendship I would never be able to forgive myself. What should I do? I really want to be able to have both, but I am not sure that would work. HELP!




Hey chickie,

Yikes... you're right, that's a really tough sitch. You have to weigh the pros and cons of each side. Yes, the friendship is really valuable and I'm sure it's important to both of you, but you both do like each other a lot - and you'll probably always wonder how it would be if you were in a relationship with each other. Personally, I think it might help if you talked to him about it before saying yes or no after he asks. You're both in it together - and hey, if you're gonna be his GF, you should get comfy talking to him about how you're feeling Smile

Lauren C.

by curly4Q on 1/31/2011 7:02:43 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD One of my guy friends (also my crush) and I have this game where we throw (not shoot) hairties or rubberbands at eachother. We stopped for a little but today he started again, we both smile a lot when we do this. Do you think he likes me?




Hey babe,

The fact that you two have a flirty game as a sort of "inside joke" is super cute...and definitely could be a sign he likes ya. Try amping up the flirt factor a little bit more when you're talking to him and see how it goes. If you get comfy enough, you could even ask him to do homework together or hang out outside school. Give it some time and see how he responds! 

Lauren C.

by pandagirl12 on 1/31/2011 5:54:54 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD I sit by one of my guy friends in social studies. Today he was brushing his foot on the top of mine (or "footsie" as some may say). Before that he said he liked my pink shoes. I didn't do anything back because I didn't know what to do. What should I have done? Does he like me?




Hey chickie,

The compliment about your shoes could've just been a friendly comment but whenever guys go out of their way to touch ya, you gotta be a little suspicious of how they're feeling! I can't know for sure obviously, but it kinda sounds like he might like you. To decide how to respond, you have to figure out how you feel in return. Is he just a friend? Do you have a crush on him? Give it some more time and see if this happens again (and also how you feel about it when it does happen). You'll be able to get a better sense of the situation if you're patient!

Lauren C.

by pandagirl12 on 1/31/2011 5:30:16 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD MOD
I went skiing with one of my friends and her BGF brought his eighth grader friend. When he had to throw something away we locked eyes when he walked passed. He's super nice but really shy. On the other hand I'm really out going. Also he's a year ahead of me so #1 he's going to high school so I'll never see him and #2 I never see him now! I want to get to know him better. The only time I'd see him was in the hallway, which is rare. AHH help!




Hey girlie,

You have something in common - you have mutual friends! Since you have this connection with him, take advantage of it. Try to get your friend to organize more group things with her BGF and his friends. That way, you'll get to see him and get to know him better. Then you can keep up the convo through text or IM without being creepy Smile And don't worry about the age difference or the shy/outgoing thing - if ya like each other and have some stuff in common, it won't be a problem! 

Lauren C.

by erginglnwd on 1/31/2011 5:09:24 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD
I just Broke up with my boyfriend and everyone tells me including him that he still has feelings for me and I know that I do, but my problem is is that he doesn't act like it he gives one word replys to everything I say or text. and ever since the breack up he hasn't been coming to the classes we share together. What do I do should I just move on or should I try to sort this out with him?




Hey girl,

He could still have feelings for you, but remember that you broke up with him. He could be feeling hurt, mad, or any number of other things. Try to give him some space right now and don't force any conversation if he doesn't seem into it. As time passes, I'm sure it'll get easier for both of you to patch things up <3 

Lauren C.

by Sammie8920 on 1/31/2011 3:15:24 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD There is a boy that i really like and he is also my best friend but he just broke up with his 3 month girlfriend. he asked me out and i want to say yes but is it too soon?




Hey girlie. Tell him that you like him but you want to take things slow because he just broke up with his girlfriend. You don't want to be his rebound. Tell him you want to hang out with him as friends first. If he really likes you, he will stick around.  
Elizabeth P.

by lalirocks on 1/31/2011 1:49:18 PM

 
 

MODERATOR PLEASE PLEASE HELP ME!
so the other week my girls team played the boys. My friend who goes to school with one of the guys, said that their best player and the cutiest one wants my phone number. I told her it was fine with me. But she never comfirmed it. I dont even know if she actually gave it to him. I want to get to know him. I don't have his number and I can't ask my friend for it without seeming too obvious about liking him. I don't even know if he remembers me at all. I had practice after him once, and he looked at me funny and (to me) it looked like he was showing off. How do I get to know him better? Oh and I don't have a facebook and I don't think my mom wants to have me have one so that isn't an option.
MODERATOR PLEASE PLEASE HELP ME!

Hey girlie! Check out this article. It can give you some great tips for your situation: http://www.girlslife.com/post/2010/03/25/figuring-guys-out.aspx

Jessica W.

by kmn21 on 1/31/2011 1:02:46 AM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD!!!!
So i like this guy and he knows i like him and he likes me and i know that he likes me and we r going to a school tour together just the two of us and my friend says it is a date and i am so nervous. when i try to talk to him he barely says anything and when i txt him he never replys. How do i tell him that he doesnt have to be nervous or afraid to talk to me? and How what should i talk, do on this "date"? o yeah i also think he is going to ask me out What to DO? thanks







Hey Girlie, Just tell him how you feel guys are very simple creatures so just don't make things too complicated for him to understand. Just say hey im interested in seeing how our friendship will hold up if we were bf and gf. 
Paige T.

by FOREVERGIRL12 on 1/30/2011 11:03:12 PM

 
 

PLEASE DON'T READ THIS, YOU WILL BE KISSED ON THE NEAREST POSSIBLE FRIDAY BY THE LOVER OF YOUR LIFE. TOMMORROW WILL BE THE BEST DAY OF YOUR LIFE. NOW YOU'VE STARTED READING THIS, DON'T STOP, THIS IS FREAKY.

1. Say your name 10 times.
2. Say your mom's name 5 times.
3. Say your crush's name 3 times.
4. Paste this to 4 other quizzes. If you do this, your crush will kiss you on the nearest Friday, but if you read this and do not paste this, then you will have very bad luck! SEND THIS TO 5 QUIZZES IN 143 MINUTES. WHEN YOU'RE DONE PRESS F6 AND YOUR CRUSH'S NAME WILL APPEAR IN BIG LETTERS ON THE SCREEN. THIS IS SO FREAKY BECAUSE IT ACTUALLY WORKS

by crusher10 on 1/30/2011 9:42:51 PM

 
 

MODMODMODMODMODMOD! ok, so me and my crush text all the time. hes a sophmore, im a freshman. so we dont have any classes together. but my friend (which is also his best friend) says he likes me. but i dont know if i should believe it. anyways. i need some idea to break the ice between us because we dont talk in person cause we are both too shy to say hi to each other. please help!!

 

 

Hey chica! Check out these ice breakers Smile


xxx

Becca G.

by beccamae23 on 1/30/2011 8:20:31 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD,my crush and me are cool but our friends kinda get in the way.They spead rumors about us all the time and it's tearing us apart.I only get to see him at lunch and after school.A week ago we were walking together,and he asked me if i hated him and i said no. Then he said "people" have been telling him that i did, and he thought that for 2 years! how do i fix this? and how do we take our friendship to the next level?

 

 

Hey girly! I would have a serious talk with your "friends" and ask them to stop. Let them know how much you like this guy, and how they're ruining it. If they are your true friends, then they will. If not, then perhaps you should look for some new, better friends. Make sure to let him know that you don't hate him, and that you're talking to the rumor spreaders about it, asking them to stop. Maybe, you could invite out some weekend to show him that you do like him Smile
 

xxx

Becca G.

by funnybunny24 on 1/30/2011 8:15:44 PM

 
 

MOD MOD! Help me ASAP!! how do you know what "social class" you are at school because these people made a group called the ___ club for cool people. And I was asked twice but I didn't really get the point because I don't think I am that cool. I think people only know me because my friendship with a popular girls and because I am the captian of the 8th grade basketball team, even though I am 7th grade. So an I actually higher than I think I am? Because I am trying to get people to know and like me so I get into leadership next year.
Also, if I am actually cool, I haveto say I am a bit attractive, so is my two friends, but one of them isn't, and she is annoying sometimes. She doesn't really get the whole guy thingy. She makes me feel like a loser sometimes, so should I make some space because she doesn't make me feel like the spot I should be in?




Hey chica. I know status seems really important to you right now, but don't give up friendships because you think that person might not be as "high up" as you. Just because you are friends with somebody does not mean that you won't achieve a leadership position.  
Marly Z.

by kmn21 on 1/29/2011 11:23:24 PM

 
 

mod!!
so i like this guy and he liked me back and we txt all the time and sit together in class on tuesday he asked me to the dance and on wednesday he wanted to hug me then on friday it was the dance but heand he picked another girl to dance with wanted to walk me to my car but couldn't and now he says he doesnt like me anymore because of the publicity and gossip because my guy friends and girls would come up to me and him and say "my crush likes me" or "do u like (my crush)?" and idk what i should do to get him to like me again. or what i should do at all. please help me!!




That's a tough situation girlie. I'd let him be for now. That's a silly reason for him to stop liking you, so chances are he still does. If you leave him be for awhile though, he will probably miss you liking him, in which case he will start liking you again. Try it out! 
Marly Z.

by ilyhearts on 1/29/2011 10:50:55 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD kay so Ive liked this guy for 3 years and I dont think hes sver noticed me until now, my parents dont enforce dating so i cant ask him out. hes one grade ahead of me and hes in high school now but when i go to the bball games to watch, hes there and one time i saw him looking at me in a reflection in a mirror, what should i do?




Hey girlie, have another talk with your parents about dating. If you can prove to them that you're responsible, they might loosen up on their rules. 

Lauren T.

by greenxperfect on 1/29/2011 5:12:30 PM

 
 



MODDDDD!!!!!
There's this boy in my class. He asked me to dance with him at our skol dance but i found out months later he wanted to dance wit my friend but his friend wanted to dance with her. but the weird thing is that since i told him tht i knew hes been acting even more into me than ever. he started watching american idol, in spanish we learned about the family tree and we got MARRIED! we both got voted class reps for student council(and the girl he wanted to dance wit lost) . its been kinda freaky and i need to know WHAT NOW? we have a dance in a few weeks...should i do somthing or let him figure it out?




Hey! you have to do what feels right to you. go for it if you're crushin' hard but if you'd rather preserve your friendship maybe wait for him to make a move. good luck! 
Helen S.

by girlfriend99 on 1/29/2011 1:14:36 PM

 
 

MOD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
ok so i reallly like this guy and he might like me but idk! i want him 2 ask me out! but i never see him or we dont talk dat much weve had 2 clases 2ghther! he used 2 sit in front of me in 1 class and we talked alooot! but i want him 2ask me out! but idk if he is... how could i get him 2?
PS dont say flirt! ima terrible flirter when i get nervous




Hey girlie, you don't have to flirt just be direct and try to ask him to go somewhere with you  
Paige T.

by txterluver77! on 1/29/2011 12:58:11 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD
so i think this boy at school likes me. I like him but i have no clue at all! i dont want to ask him if he likes me because last time i did that with another guy we didnt speak for weeks and now i dont like him anymore.HELP ME PLEASE!!

 

Hey girlie. Just be patient. Give things time to happen. It's fine to have a crush but don't go overboard right away. Just try and hang out with him and build up your friendship first : )

Elizabeth P.

by eemmais on 1/28/2011 11:21:45 PM

 
 

u guys go to youtube and type in the badshow 100 and click on hte first one its this awsome dance!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

by Jesus_Freak123 on 1/28/2011 9:40:43 PM

 
 

Ok so I really like this guy that I don't have any classes with. He rides my bus though and when I am getting on he is always smiling at me from the bus window. He also stares at me a lot at lunch. Last year we had all of our classes together and would talk all of the time. I miss him so much...do you think he feels the same? Should I take the chance and ask him out?

by maggie183 on 1/28/2011 6:12:41 PM

 
 

MODMODMOD!!(:
okayy, so i was on facebook and one of my best friends and my best friend's two friends (who don't go to my school) had posted a video on my wall & it was really funnayyy(: hahaha and they were singing a song. So then i looked at my crush's wall and they posted a video on his wall too (since they're good friends with him) and they'd said "okay so, we just left a video for a significant other of yours" and then, "oh yeah, oh yeah, um, you should watch that cause were like singing."
sometimes he acts like he likes me, but other times he doesn't.
what do you think?(:




Hey girlie. Many times guys give mixed signals. I'd say to just keep an eye out on how he acts around you. If he keeps giving you mixed signals, approach him about it. 
Marly Z.

by KayKay123 on 1/27/2011 12:41:30 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD!!!! The guy i like used 2 like me all through elementary. He hasn't been any my classes until now.8th grade. we talk when were by each other and it seems as if he tries to make me laugh. i also catch him like looking at me across the class and like flashing back. u know. i've seen him do like other things like that. Does he still like me? should i ask him out? wait and let him? find out if he likes me? what should i do?




It seems like hes interested! Keep getting closer to him and things will fall into place Smile i promise. Good luck! xoxo kerra 

Kerra S.

by JustSmile on 1/26/2011 11:05:04 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD!!!!
Okay, there's this guy I like, but he *used* to like another girl. My friend told him that I like him, so he asked me out and I said yes. We are only 12. I want to ask him to the movies or Skate N' Shake or somewhere, but I don't know if he really likes me OR if he told his parents about me. (I told mine.) OR if he's using me to get to the other girl!!
-Gennie




Hey girl, I'd say just for it! - Ask him! 

lauren r.

by genniethegummiebear on 1/26/2011 6:35:01 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD MODMOD!!!!! ok so i am pretty good friends with this guy but i REALLY like him how can i get the thought that we could be more than friends in his mind?

 

Hey girl! Why not ask him to go to the movies or lunch. You don't have to say it's a date, but if it's just the two of you he may realize you want to be more than friends. You could also make him a special card on V-Day to let him know how much you care! Hope this helps Smile

Caitlin F.

by countryrose257 on 1/26/2011 4:44:55 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD i really like this guy. we talk anda are kinda friends. we even have a few inside jokes. but i really want him to ask me out, but i dont wanna be obviuos and say hey are you busy on saturday, no one does that at my school. plus we are never alone together. and im a bad flirt. pleaase help! thanks

 

hey chica! Why don't you try and get a group date going? You could have a bunch of people go to the movies together or grab dinner. You don't always have to flirt either! Just casual conversation is a great way to get to know someone. The more you try to talk to him the more he'll get the hint. If you want any tips head over to our Get A BF section in "Guys." There are plenty of suggestions for conversation starters and such! Hope this helps Smile

Caitlin F.

by laxchik18 on 1/26/2011 3:39:07 PM

 
 

MOD MOD
How do you ask your parents if you can go on a date? I would like to start dating, but its a sort of awkward topic for me.

Hey girlie! The answer to your question can be found here: http://www.girlslife.com/post/2011/01/06/Should-I-tell-my-parents-about-my-boyfriend.aspx

Jessica W.

by jellybean427 on 1/26/2011 10:23:17 AM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD
So there's this guy and i really like him a lot. We talk a lot and it's always playful and sorta flirty. I wanna ask him out or at least let him know that I like him without it being super embarrassing. I have his # from my friend I wanna text him but idk what to say without sounding like a stalker.
Thanks!

Hey girlie! Personally, I wouldn't ask him out since guys get a little freaked out when a girl is too forward. Just drop a couple of hints here and there (like how cute you think his hair looks today) to show you're interested, and then him find the courage to ask YOU out

Jessica W.

by warriorgirl100 on 1/26/2011 1:15:16 AM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD
So there's this guy and I reallyreally like him. I feel like I talk to him a lot and it's always kinda flirty. The thing is he's a little more popular then me and it would be soo akward if I told him that I liked him and I don't wanna loose him as a friend. I feel like he might like me back but I'm kinda getting mixed signals when he's with his friends. Anyways my friend gave me his number and idk what to do! Should I text him? And how do I explain having his number without being stalkerish? Should I as him out?

Hey girlie! Just try texting him some of these cute phrases. It won't be too obvious but it may give him the kick he needs to ask you out!

http://www.girlslife.com/post/2011/01/18/how-to-ask-him-out.aspx

Jessica W.

by warriorgirl100 on 1/26/2011 1:04:54 AM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD!!!!
A boy I like is a LOT more popular than me, he is a skateboarder and I don't want to ask him out...but mayyybee ask him to go to a movie with me, using the last tip, but I don't want to just ask, and he makes fun of me (jokingly,) so how could i tie that in to asking him if he wants to see a movie?




Hey girl, by using his joke to add in an invitation teasingly to see how he reacts. How to make that transition? It really depends on how he teases you, but go with what feels natural.

xoxo 
Alyssa B.

by sarahbeelove on 1/25/2011 10:25:32 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD!!!
so sorry about the mess up before, but i really like this guy and i want him as a bf. any ideas to get him?




Hey girl, talk to him. Get to know him and then hint you're interested. Be attentive to his signals back and how he reacts to you. It can say a lot about how he sees you: whether you're friend or something-more material.

xoxo 
Alyssa B.

by lolololol on 1/25/2011 9:26:52 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD
So this guy invited me via FB to an event, but he also invited a ton of other people so I was like oh whatever. But then one of his really close friends wrote on my FB wall telling me I should come to it (and his friend can't like me cause he has a gf), but I couldn't cause I was busy. Do you think that he was using his friend to try and get me to come, in a less obvious way? Thanks!




Hey girl, hard to say, but I wouldn't think too much of it in the scheme of things. It's a Facebook event and honestly, it would have said a lot more if this guy or his friend asked you in person to come. Facebook he could've posted on a lot of people's walls saying the same thing.

xoxo 
Alyssa B.

by Pro_Gymnast_32 on 1/25/2011 9:20:36 PM

 
 

mod mod mod please!!
1) i REALLY like this guy in my band class. he smart funny, cute, and all my fiends think he likes me back. i actually laugh at his jokes cause i think hes funny. does it sound like i like him a lot?
2) if he does like me, how can i take things a step further? or should i just let the chips fall where they may? i have trouble looking him in the eyes, maybe if i made more eye conact that would help? thanks!!




Hey girl, 1) definitely! You should try to talk to him more and get to be friends first and then hint you like him. 2) It would def help if you made eye contact and talked to him. Show you have an interest in him and his life. See if you two can hang out outside of school solo sometime.

xoxo 
Alyssa B.

by karategirl78 on 1/25/2011 9:13:53 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD!!!!! I really like this guy and I think he likes me. I want to find out if he likes me or my ex-best friend. He gives me deep stares and looks me up and down in a good way! The thing is we have a couple of mutual friends...so I try to find out through them. I need help trying to figure out if it's me or my ex-best friend. HELP!!!!




Hey girlie. Do you ever hang out with him? Try talking with him and see if he acts flirtatious! 
Elizabeth P.

by CRAZ3DCH33RGRL on 1/25/2011 8:34:10 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD!!! So I go to an all girls high school and its super hard to meet guys. Our class never meets up with the corresponding boys class and I don't know any of them! I want to have at least some guy friends but I don't know where to meet them. All the guys my friends know are mostly their exes or current boyfriends that they already knew. But I went to a really small middle school. Help?

 

Ooh, that is tough!  See if there are activities in your community were you could meet more peeps (guys and girls) your age.  That could be a coed sport or some other kind of club or activity.  It will give you something new to try, and help you meet new potential guy friends.  You could also see if there are places in your area, like a bowling alley, that does teen nights where you could meet people.  xoxo

Marie H.

by jasperdakeet on 1/24/2011 9:42:22 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD
Ok, now I know girls ask you all the time how to get a guy to ask them out but I really need help. I like this guy and sometimes I think he may actually like me back and then others it's almost like he's not intersted at all. I don't know what to do! I really like him alot and I don't want to ruin anything. HELP!!! Thanks.




Hey girl,

Just try not to come on too strong! Start talking to him a little bit more - give it time, throw in some flirty comments, and give it time. By talking to him more and becoming more comfortable with him, you'll be able to sense if he's into it or not. Try not to overthink it ... just try to get to know him better and the rest will come in time! <3

Lauren C.

by babysa511 on 1/24/2011 8:25:38 PM

 
 

moderator! help me!!!!
please answer the following questions!!
1. how do you get noticed by guys? because people know me. they just dont talk to me....
2. is there a way to make yourself more out going?
3. i like wearing comfy basketball shorts with a t-shirt than a really cute, expensive outfit. for some reason. is that normal? and do guys like stylish gals or more relaxed, comfy gals better???
psss.... make sure you visit my profile! leave a comment!




Hey girl,

1) Getting "noticed" by guys is great, but the sure-fire way of getting a guy to talk to you is by starting a conversation with him first. Be confident and go up to him! Talk to him about whatever you like...it'll def catch his attention.

2) You have to push yourself out of your comfort zone. That's the only way! It might feel awkward and you might feel self-conscious, but be social and warm. You won't regret it Smile

3) Everyone has different taste in fashion - it's not right or wrong. It's just you! Embrace it! What a guy likes depends on the individual guy. What they like most of all is a girl who is wearing clothes that suit her, that make her feel happy, and that make her feel confident. 

Lauren C.

by kmn21 on 1/24/2011 8:21:25 PM

 
 

thaanx soo muchhh!Smile

by lili545 on 1/24/2011 8:14:27 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD!
k, so valentine's day's coming up and i kinda wanna "snag a cutiee" :p. don't get me wrong, i'm not one of those girls who desperately looks for a boyfriend and i'm in no rush, but i mean it would be kind of nice. We've had dances before, but i still haven't had my first slow dance. This is like pretty much the last dance i have at this school (with the whole school) before i graduate middle school! i really want to ask someone to dance but i'm scared i'll get rejected!Frown I know a guy that i'm friends with that would dance with me, but theres a few other guys i have my eye on but they don't hang out with me and are way into other girls. On top of all that i'm kind of scared to slow dance, won't it be awkward? what if i screw up!? I don't know what to do! Any tips on how to get a guy to dance and maybe get him to like me? thaanx so muchh!




Hey girlie,

You still have plenty of time before the dance - use it! Choose one or two of those guys and chat them up. Flirt a little and let them get to know you better. That way, they won't be freaked out if you ask them to dance - they'll feel comfortable around you and might be into it! Smile And you can't screw up slow dancing, promise. Just put your arms around his neck loosely, take a deep breath, and sway back and forth to the music. Follow his lead and you'll be set!

Lauren C.

by lili545 on 1/24/2011 8:04:42 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD!!! i'm intoa super hot guy and don't know how to ask him out im 40 percent sure he's into me




Talk to him! Get to know him better through some good convos - talk about things you like and things that he likes, flirt, and drop some hints that you find him cute/fun/funny/whatever. Then see if he wants to hang out, either to do homework or just watch a movie together. Pick up on the vibes he gives off - are they good?? Does he flirt back? If so, just go for it and ask him! Smile 

Lauren C.

by tangey101 on 1/24/2011 7:21:07 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD
Im trying to get over an old crush . He's the biggest player , but I was in love with him . Now , Im moving on . Do you have any flirting, outgoing tips ? Im kindof known as the shy girl , and Im trying to shake that . So again, if you have any tips or maybe an article I would really appreciate it !
Also , kindof off topic , but I want to gain wait . Im super small , and dont really have a 'chest' or curves . Do you have any advise or tips on how I can gain wait , without being too to unhealthy ?
Thank you so so much ! (:




Hey chickie,

You came to the right place! Click here for our best flirting tips. You'll be back in the game in no time <3 Also, remember that the best way to gain weight is not to pig out on junk food and empty calories. Instead, try eating healthy small meals throughout the day and snacking on smart things in between, like granola bars or veggies. And definitely talk to your doctor about it - they'll be able to tell ya way more tricks than I can! Smile 

Lauren C.

by Pink0x on 1/24/2011 4:09:23 PM

 
 

Mod Mod I need some help I like this guy shocker right? Ha Anyway I work with him I'm 18 and he's 22 I'm pretty positive he doesn't have a girlfriend he's the funniest sweetest thing u ever saw haha I told this girl that is friends with him I liked him she said I should flirt with him he smiles at me and he's given me hugs he hugs other girls too I wanna go out with him but I'm shy when it comes to flirting and talking to guys he's so sweet so how am I just going to randomly let him no I wanna go out with him? And that I like him I can talk to the girls better why can't I ever find much to say to him?? I just need to have confidence which I lack pretty bad or boldness I just need to know how to get through to him and flirt with him and let him know I like him Smile any ideas would be appreciated I feel like I'm gonna loose it over him Im really into him thanks mod

 

Hey chica! Talking to guys can be scary, but it's definitely something you'll want to know how to do as you're getting to the adult years. Here's a post we did a few months ago about a girl who was really shy too. Hopefully this will help you some Smile
http://www.girlslife.com/post/2010/12/07/Too-shy-to-chat.aspx


Caitlin F.

by Colorful1 on 1/24/2011 3:06:06 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD! in my school we can send flowers to people on Vday
is it corny to ask a guy out by sending him a flower with a note on it asking him to go out with you?

Hey girlie! Remember that it's the 21st Century and the rules of engagement have totally flipped around. A lot of guys these days are now too shy to ask a girl out which is why women have started to take control on the dating scene. I love your idea of sending him a flower. Guys love to know when a girl is interested them - it gives them the confidence to make the next step

Jessica W.

by tor626 on 1/24/2011 1:11:03 AM

 
 

Hey moderator! Sorry with all these questions! So I am going to be totally myself tomorrow! Also it's my fashion me week where I dress up for no good reason! So what kind of hair styles can I do that look great that are easy to do in the morning bed head that I have. However I can straighteny hair if needed.

 

Hey girlie, you can try a bump it in the front, french braid or some curls

Paige T.

by kmn21 on 1/23/2011 10:32:25 PM

 
 

Hey moderator, I need your advice! How do you complain without being demanding? Because people at my school are really irritating it bothers me so much.

 

Hey girlie, you can just try your best to be polite while voicing your opinion and feelings

Paige T.

by kmn21 on 1/23/2011 10:07:47 PM

 
 

Moderator help me please!
When you try to get over a crush, do you avoid him? Or do you keep doing the same things? Just wondering because I don't want to fall for him.
Also, about my friend, is it okay to go out with a guy who is best friends with a player?
Thanks moderators!




Hey girlie, I would avoid him and not continue the same things. It could be fine but you want your friend to be alert and see if he acts like a player around his player friend 
Paige T.

by kmn21 on 1/23/2011 9:33:45 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD! Sorry I'm posting somethig close I what I just posted but you only told me how to get his number..
I'm having boy problems. Let's call this boy M. M is extremely attractive, athletic, and hilarious. I only have one class every day with him. I really like him (I have for about a month!) but he doesn't seem to notice me at all. We have two or three inside jokes. My two besties talked to him like a month ago and said he should go out with me. M said he wasn't ready (he had just broken up with his ex) he seems to like me in the class we have togeter (he laughs at my jokes etc) but when we pass each other in the hall and stuff like that he says nthing and I freeze up. Please help?!
p.s. I'm a newbie at flirting and I've never asked out someone! (I want to ask him out)




Hey girlie, I recommend rehearsing, practice in the mirror what you want to say and how you want to say it, flirting can just be a smile and a bat of the eyes or a wave. You can slide him a note asking him out as well. Think of it as you already got him you just need to reel him in 
Paige T.

by IndigoPopsicle on 1/23/2011 9:14:56 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD!
I'm having boy problems. Let's call this boy M. M is extremely attractive, athletic, and hilarious. I only have one class every day with him. I really like him (I have for about a month!) but he doesn't seem to notice me at all. We have two or three inside jokes. My two besties talked to him like a month ago and said he should go out with me. M said he wasn't ready (he had just broken up with his ex) he seems to like me in the class we have togeter (he laughs at my jokes etc) but when we pass each other in the hall and stuff like that he says nthing and I freeze up. Please help?!
p.s. I'm a newbie at flirting and I've never asked out someone! (I want to ask him out)
p.p.s. How do I ask for his number?




Hey girlie, you can get his number via your other friends or if you really want to put the ball and his court give him your number  
Paige T.

by IndigoPopsicle on 1/23/2011 9:06:42 PM

 
 

Theres this guy that im friends with and he does random things. He just flirts with me in different ways. My friends think he likes me and so does my mom. I kinda like him but how do I find out for sure that he likes me? Thnx

by Ravenl on 1/23/2011 3:30:39 PM

 
 



modmdodmod
i need help i realy like a guy but he acts like doesnt "like" anybody but he liked my pic on facebook i need to klnow how to ask him out!





Helen S.

by justinbieberlover22 on 1/23/2011 3:30:23 PM

 
 



PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE HELP ME MODERATOR!!!
So I got a B on my social studies test. Now my percent is 85%!
And I got something wrong on my worksheet so it's just going to get lower! My teacher is really tough. And if you ask a question, she will get really mad thinking you weren't listening when you really were. She doesn't give extra credit. I am really scared because I like the feeling of being one of those few people who gets A's in her class and people get wowwed by that. Also it feels like I am letting my parents and myself down! She is also does her grading really tough and she doesn't things in percents. So even if I do good in a classroom worksheet (not a homework worksheet) it doesn't help me as much as a test, so it will hardly help!
Please give me good advice! Anyone help?




hey! you just have to study more so that you do really well on the tests and homework, good luck! 
Helen S.

by kmn21 on 1/23/2011 2:36:39 PM

 
 

I like this guy but the prob is I dont know if he likes me. He gives me the googoo eyes,and durning a test he smiled at me. Should I ask him out or flirt?

by Laura14751 on 1/22/2011 10:57:36 PM

 
 

MOD! VANESSA J! MOD! I really could use some help! I've liked this guy since before Halloween, and we've talked via Facebook and text a few times and really got into the conversations. Once we talked on Facebook for over 3 hours! I was talking with my friend and she noticed him looking over at me once in awhile in a class where we sat next to each other last semester. I want to keep texting him, but I don't know if he for sure likes me because we haven't even really talked in person. I'm also afraid he'll get annoyed with me if he doesn't like me and I keep texting him. What do you suggest? I could really use the help, thank you!




Hey girlie. You can keep texting him but pay attention to how he responds. If he seems annoyed then don't text him anymore. If he reacts in a positive manner and reciprocates on questions, then keep it up! 
Marly Z.

by baskitbal22 on 1/22/2011 8:54:51 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD!!! I really like this guy. We're both in show choir, and he sits right behind me in regular choir. We've talked via Facebook and text and he's so nice. We used to sit next to each other in our only other class together, and my friend told me that when we(her and I) would talk he would look over at me and then glance down right away. Whenever I get near him he stops talking with his friends, could this mean something? Do you think he may like me? I could really use the help, thank you.




Hey girlie! By the sounds of it, he could have a thing for you!  
Marly Z.

by baskitbal22 on 1/22/2011 5:45:45 PM

 
 

Dear Moderator,
I want a boyfriend, but all of the guys at my school aren't my type. I live in a small town, so we only have one school district. My parents won't let me do anything without them or someone they know really well and are okay with watching me. What should I do?
P.S. Alot of my friends have boyfriends.




Hey girl! You can always meet other guys through friends. Just because you go to a certain school doesn't mean there aren't other guys nearby. You can meet them at the movies or in the mall too! 
Marly Z.

by prettyotter on 1/22/2011 5:29:50 PM

 
 

@7714st, hey u cn just get him something small, or u know something that would mean alot 2 him, but nothing 2 anyone else. tell him that u want a little something more form him. don't b afriad 2 let him know that.

by sszuhaj on 1/22/2011 1:54:26 PM

 
 



*MOD*MOD*MOD*MOD*MOD*
Okay, I posted this yesterday, but I guess you didn't get it because I didn't get an answer. Anyway:
I've been in a relationship with a guy for about 2 months. But we've both liked each other for 5 years. Anyway, I'm a hopeless romantic. And he has issues with expressing his feelings. I read love.givesmehope stories everyday, and I feel like the stereotypical romantic BOY. I feel like I'm expecting to much of him, but I love those stories. And I hate feeling like the guy in the relationship! I got him a super romantic gift for Christmas, and he either couldn't find me anything, or he just forgot. And since I'm also trying to figure out what to get him for Valentine's Day. I don't want it to be something to big or romantic, because I don't know what he'll get me. Any way I can stop feeling like the guy? And any ideas of what to get him? Help please!




Hey! that's tough, my advice is to get him something heartfelt but inexpensive like making him some cookies, and even though you might feel silly, telling him what you want is the only sure way to get him to amp up the romance. Don't pressure or nag him just tell him you're a little bit of a romantic. good luck Smile 
Helen S.

by 7714st on 1/22/2011 12:56:26 PM

 
 

Okay, so I have this huge crush on one of my guy friends. We have known each other for ever but we have never hung out outside of school. We talk a lot and sometimes I get the vibe that he likes me, but he flirts a lot with other girls too, but he says he doesn't think he does and doesn't mean too. Every girl in my class is in love with him, and every other girl in town. He doesn't know I like him yet and I think that's why we talk so much because it's not awkward. He says he doesn't like anyone but he always looks at me during school and smiles. How can I know if he truly likes me or is just being friendly and a little flirty? How can I hint to him that I like him more than just a friend? How do I ask him to hang out in a friendly way (to get to know him better) without it seeming like I'm asking him on a date? Should I date him since every other girl likes him? They are way prettier than me and can twist people around their fingers, do I have a chance? HELP!!!!!!!! PLEASE!!!!!!!

 

Hey girl,


Here's a few ways to see if he likes you: http://www.girlslife.com/post/2009/09/16/advice-love-crush-dating.aspx. Flirting with you is a good sign, and so is smiling at you. Trying to start conversations with you, showing an interest in your life and inviting you to do things would also be positive signs. As for hinting to him that you like him as more than a friend, it would be good to keep flirting. To make hanging out not like a date, you could invite him to hang out with a group of your friends, and not make a big deal out of asking. You could casually ask if he's doing anything over the weekend, and then say, "My friends and I are ..." (whatever you're doing) and then, "Wanna go with us?" or something like that. After hanging out with him, it's more likely that you'd text or chat online more often, too.


 

Also: It's very important to have confidence. Don't think that other girls are prettier than you. Be confident in yourself and how you look. If you hang out with him, make an outfit that makes you feel really pretty (but one that's not overly dressed up). And, whether other people like him or not shouldn't really have anything to do with whether or not you date him. If you do end up dating, just don't rub it in their faces. However, if you really like him, try to get to know him better.


 

 
Vanessa J.

by Esther779 on 1/22/2011 12:16:01 PM

 
 

MODMODMODMODMOD!!!!!!
I like a rather shy and awkward guy. What I mean is, whenever I try to flirt, he usually looks away, or says, what? With an awkward little laugh. He is really cute, and I want to ask him out, but I'm worried his shy guy side will come out. What do I do?

 

Since he seems a little bit awkward with flirting, I wouldn't ask him out right away. I'd try to get to know him a little better first by having conversations with him and talking about things the two of you have in common. You could also throw in a compliment or two. Here's some flirting tips from GL: http://www.girlslife.com/post/2007/11/17/Flirting101.aspx. Some of them are pretty subtle, so maybe you could try to bring some of those into your conversations. Good luck!

Vanessa J.

by mag.luver on 1/22/2011 10:06:55 AM

 
 

So,yesterday I told my guy friend I liked him over texting. I asked if he liked me, and he said I don't know......yet. Do that mean he's interested and he probably likes me? Should I ask him out?I need to know soon!!!!!!!

by ecl.jellybean13 on 1/22/2011 9:23:05 AM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD!!!!!! I like this guy that kinda see all the time in june but I have three problems. He lives two states away, I'm one year younger, I don't have the guts to talk to hime! Please help me!!

 

Hey girl, 

Since he lives two states away, it's probably tough to talk to him in person, so maybe you could start out by talking to him online — on Facebook or Instant Messenger. Sometimes it can be tough to talk to a guy you like, but talking online is a little bit easier. You can always start out with a "Hey, what's up?" or something else really casual. Texting is also more casual than talking on the phone — and there are no awkward silences.

 

However, it can be tough to keep up a relationship if you live so far away, so it might be better to remain friends. Here's a short article about long-distance relationships: http://www.girlslife.com/post/2011/01/12/Long-distance-love.aspx

Vanessa J.

by vicky162 on 1/22/2011 8:47:31 AM

 
 

1. Think of your crush
2. Make a heart with your hands
3. Kiss your hand heart
4. Put the heart where your real heart is
5. Your crush will ask you out tomorrow
6. This only works if you post this to your favorite article
my crush is tate webb!!!

by AuroraThompson on 1/21/2011 11:24:44 PM

 
 

Hey i have a friend(boy) and i call him best buddy and we ride four-wheelers and gokarts with eachother anyways he was dating my best friend but she is really sencitive and he is very shy and at a dance she got mad at him because he wouldnt slow dance with her but would with me cause we are friends and i have a huge crush on him and anyways at the dance at the end she told me to run over and tell him that they were over so i did but a few days after the party i asked him out cause i see him like everyday and we have a bunch in common and i think he likes me but after the party he txted me and siad he would date me but his mom and dad found out so his dad told him to chill on dating but that was a month ago and he wants to date me but i dont know if i should because my best friend(girl)loved him and i really want to date him but i dont want to make my best friend(girl) mad HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

by LOVEBUGS! on 1/21/2011 11:01:40 PM

 
 

Uuugh I am so bad with this kind of stuff. Had a crush for 2 years, talked to him every single day for a year, theen Summer came because I didnt know how to make a move and that was out the window. Then this year a fall for someone, and talk to HIM every day and joke around, but am way to shy to do anything. Even if someone says we are flirting or whatever right to us, I am even to shy to do anything about it... I fail as a girl lol

by evil_pixie! on 1/21/2011 9:47:45 PM

 
 

Hi,theres this guy in my lunch bell that I really like but I'm so scared to talk to him I always talk myself out of it.I know for sure that he doesn't have a g.f. and he sits alone alot in lunch (he's not a nerd and he has freinds).I want to ask him out but I sometimes don't feel pretty enough to even have a B.F. Regardless what people say.What should I do.Help!!!

by cierraw on 1/21/2011 7:39:58 PM

 
 

okay theres this guy in my lunch bell who I'm totally crushing on but I'm scared to talk to him and sometimes I don't feel pretty enough to have a b.f. what should I do.Totally want to go out with him.Help!!

by cierraw on 1/21/2011 7:30:50 PM

 
 

Thanks for the advice!

by nerdyprincessxo on 1/21/2011 4:27:29 PM

 
 

Heyy my friend Likes this guy and we think he likes her he talks to her and when he turns Around he smiles at her and he plays football and she is a cheerleader for his team. DO U Think he likes her

 

Hey girlie! He could definitely like her, but he could also just be friendly. If she flirts with him, and he flirts back, that's a pretty good sign!

Clare W.

by jumping smile on 1/21/2011 4:26:31 PM

 
 

MOD:
Thanks for the advice.

by nerdyprincessxo on 1/21/2011 4:25:34 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD MOD!! Smile hiiya well this is pretty much a typical problem ;) haha theres is this guy i really like but he never notices me and im not shy anyway but wn im near him im soo shy and i dont know what to say to him Frown any tips? thanks!!! xxxxxxx btw thanks SO much for helping my other q's Laughing xxxxx

 

Hey chica! Ask him if he's seen a movie you've been dying to see. It'll start a conversation, and maybe he'll even ask you to go see it with him!

Clare W.

by taylorswiftxx on 1/21/2011 4:01:29 PM

 
 

MOD
yesterday my crush and i were full-on flirting. last night my friend was IMing me and i found out that he dumped his old girlfriend...telling her that she had a crush on me instead. i am completely ecstatic, as you might imagine. however, i'm not sure what to say to my mom when he asks me out! should i tell her about him now or later? the thing is that i made her really hate him...long story. do you have any advice?
thank you so much!

 

Hey chica! You definitely don't want to go behind your mom's back with this guy. Try talking to her about it now rather than later. Explain to her why you like him, and why you think he would be a good boyfriend. Whatever you do, don't get defensive and don't yell at her if you think she's being unfair. She's just lookin' out for ya!

Clare W.

by millina*girl on 1/21/2011 3:47:21 PM

 
 

This is some good advice♥

by michipie205 on 1/21/2011 3:34:07 PM

 
 

mod mod mod:
i really like this guy, Kyle ever since the 1st day of school, when our eyes met. I think he likes me because:
1.He lingers next to me after the bell and walks with my in the halls
2.Even when he’s talking to his friends or even play fighting with them *Maybe he wants me to see how manly he is*, he’ll always look back at me.
3.He always talks to me.
4.I have a monkey keychain named Kyle (it’s on his nametag) and when I told him it’s my lucky monkey, He smiled soooo big.
5.I dropped my monkey and he smiled when I picked it off of the floor. *Maybe because he knows I was playing with it because it’s named after him.
6.Around the beginning of the school year, he said he liked my picture from picture day.
7.All of a sudden, he said “Quick! Guess my soccer number!” and started playing with me.
do you think he likes me?

 

Hey chica! He's definitely sending out some signals. You seem to be dropping hints as well, so if he doesn't make a move soon, be assertive! Ask him to hang out with your friends. When he sees how much you want to be around him, maybe he'll get a clue!

Clare W.

by nerdyprincessxo on 1/21/2011 2:32:58 PM

 
 

someone please help me! so there is this guy i really like jake and so i told my friend clara this so she went straight to work in trying to hook us up cuz thats just how she does itSmile so she chated jake and asked him who he liked and he said iidk she was like WHO? and he wouldnt tell her and then she said fine i know someone who likes you and she told him i did and he said seriously??? and she was like yes! so then he chatted me and asked me to hangout and so we were gonna meet at the library and walk to get icecream and he never showed up and never texted me and i didnt want to be needy so i didnt text him but then he finaly did and said "hey do you still like me? and i fel bad...i dont really have time for a gf rightnowsryFrown" i said ok i understand but thn i saw on facebook that him and this girl were video chatting and saying cute things and everythign:and then they were in a relationshipFrown HOW DO I GET OVER HIM! my friend likes the guy max whi i have always loved sooo ahhhwutdoido

by rowergurlxoxo on 1/21/2011 1:40:50 PM

 
 

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by monkgal124 on 1/21/2011 1:21:24 PM

 
 

AngelicaRose,
flirt with him if you like him! he probably likes you and thinks you don't like him! you just have to show him you like him, by maybe laughing when he makes a joke, or trying to be in his convos. text him sometime. if he likes you back, he'll figure it out

by millina*girl on 1/21/2011 1:20:43 PM

 
 

MOD yesterday my crush and i were full-on flirting. last night my friend was IMing me and i found out that he dumped his old girlfriend...telling her that she had a crush on me instead. i am completely ecstatic, as you might imagine. however, i'm not sure what to say to my mom when he asks me out! should i tell her about him now? the thing is that i made her really hate him...long story. do you have any advice? thank you so much!!

 

hey chica! uh ohhh, sounds like you got yourself a boy! if you don't want mom to hate him you should tell her that when you first told her the different stuff about him that you were just angry. things weren't as bad as they seemed. also, you should tell her all the good stuff about him, and hopefully that will get him an in! maybe plan for them to meet sometime too that way she can see what kind of guy he is. good luck Smile

Caitlin F.

by millina*girl on 1/21/2011 1:02:34 PM

 
 

So, it was the summer before I started the sixth grade. I had just moved back to my hometown from living in California for about a a year. My sixth grade year began. There was this guy that went to the other elementary school, so I didn't really know him. I mean, I only had one class with him. Well, he asked me out, well, actually he had this girl that I had a few classes with ask me out for him one day and when she did, I said no because I had no idea who she was talking about. Afterwords, I found out who he was and I liked him and wished that I would have said yes. Well, we are in the seventh grade now and we still have only have one class together. I still like him, but I don't know if he likes me. Maybe he still does too. Maybe he doesn't. Maybe he is...embarassed or...mad at me because I said no. I don't really know and I don't know how to find out and get him to ask me out again because I am way too shy to even talk to him. I am just a shy person.

by AngelicaRose on 1/21/2011 12:36:51 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD!!! ok so theres this guy who i know likes me but is kinda creepy and i dont like him back. i dont wanna be mean or hurt him but i really dont like him. only prob is i really really like his friend who is usually around when the creepy guy talks to me. i dont want my crush (who i think likes me) to get the wrong idea. he is really funny and witty when we do projects together. any advice? Thx Smile

 

Hey girl! Honesty is the best policy, so why not tell the guy that likes you that you juare aren't interested in him like that? You think he's a nice guy, but there's no spark. Then, if you're feeling bold tell his friend that you do like him, maybe that there's just something about him that catches your eye. Ask him to catch a movie sometime or something like that. Hope this helps! Smile

Caitlin F.

by minimew116 on 1/21/2011 11:09:06 AM

 
 

MOD: I think my crush Kyle, likes me. I've liked him since the 1st day of school, when our eyes met. I think he likes me because: 1.He lingers next to me after the bell and walks with my in the halls 2.Even when he’s talking to his friends or even play fighting with them *Maybe he wants me to see how manly he is*, he’ll always look back at me. 3.He always talks to me. 4.I have a monkey keychain named Kyle (it’s on his nametag) and when I told him it’s my lucky monkey, He smiled soooo big. 5.I dropped my monkey and he smiled when I picked it off of the floor. *Maybe because he knows I was playing with it because it’s named after him. 6.Around the beginning of the school year, he said he liked my picture from picture day. 7.All of a sudden, he said “Quick! Guess my soccer number!” and started playing with me. DOES HE LIKE ME??? Smile

 

Hey girl! It sounds like he might! These are all pretty good clues, but if you want to be sure why not just ask him? He probably knows you like him since you named your monkey after him so he may just be shy. Even if things don't end up working out, at least this way you can say you'll know!

Caitlin F.

by nerdyprincessxo on 1/21/2011 10:53:50 AM

 
 

ilike this amazing guy but im kinda of obbsessed ok not obsessed but i really like him were good friends and stuff and my friends hav asked him if he likes me but he says no but from his body language he says yes which do i believe the valintines dance is comin up and i really wanna ask him to go with me i asked him to the winter one but he had a baseballl tournament soooo confused what do i do

by pumpkin88 on 1/21/2011 1:01:41 AM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD I like this boy and he told me he likes me back, but I'm tired of waiting for him to ask me to be his girlfriend. I also don't really want to ask him out because I've done that sooo many times with other guys. Is there any way I can drop him more hints? I guess if it gets to be too close to V Day I can ask him out, but I'd really prefer him to ask me out. Thank you so much!

 

 

Hey girly! I know you don't want to, but I'd ask him out with these tips! Smile


xxx

Becca G.

by xfobrocksx on 1/20/2011 8:24:24 PM

 
 

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by *Adore*Me* on 1/20/2011 7:42:30 PM

 
 

Hey i need some major girl help!
I really like this who is in 10th grade but im in 8th grade.We ride the same bus and talk alot! he always gives me little hints like he likes me but i cant ever tell if he does.
I want to find out soon..i have had a crush on him since i was in 6th grade.Hes cute and funny ,fun to be with and an all around awesome friend.
Plz help me!

by bbug on 1/20/2011 6:38:03 PM

 
 

MODMODMOD So theres this guy,(how many times have you heard that before?) and i think he really likes me. But we are not able to drive yet and my mom thinks im not old enough to date. So i was thinking that when my bff and her bf goes to our former schools graduation(middle school graduation)that i could bring him along so i wont be like a third wheel and it wouldnt be completely awkward...and i'd also like to rub in the snotty girls that go theres faces that i have a bf and the 10 guys in their grade are wrong that i am nice enough to have one. what should i do??

 

 

Hey chica! I would totally invite him. It sounds like a great idea Smile

xxx

Becca G.

by tessi13 on 1/20/2011 6:37:56 PM

 
 

My crush hates my to pieces... i think. Well meh to him I think hes cute and im obsessed with him anyway...

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by tessi13 on 1/20/2011 6:33:28 PM

 
 

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by Lexi5000 on 1/20/2011 6:28:35 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD This is probably going to be a long question but i need advice- There is this guy and over the summer, he kept texting me and calling me and he would ask innapropriatte questions. well i deleted his number and today i got a text that said really innapropriate things like he wants to do things with me and called me names. I want to tell my mom and he keeps calling me and wont stop! I want to also call the police on him but i think thats too dramatic... What should I do?

 

 

Hey girly! I would definately, definately tall your mom, and see what she says. And, you can always warn this guy that if he doesn't stop, you'll call the police.

xxx

Becca G.

by loveforever21 on 1/20/2011 6:26:23 PM

 
 

AppleFrizzle-revenge never does anybody good. dont do it. Need advice? come to my profile, anybody's welcome! Smile Ask ME! Smile
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by ask me on 1/20/2011 6:07:51 PM

 
 

@applefrizzle22--hey girlie, i had a friend that was the same way. I know u want payback but that SO isn't the way 2 go. U will only hurt urself by sinking 2 her level. Just keep handing out the rope, girl, and sooner or later she'll hang herself (just a figure of speech!) Smile ( i would've posted this on ur profile but it isn't publicly visible) hope I helped!

by Peace*Love*Converse on 1/20/2011 6:02:34 PM

 
 

mod mod mod mod ok, so the guy of my dreams asked me out: problem: my bffl is like MADLY in love with him. i told him id get back to him later and never really mentioned it to my friend. im afraid to say yes, but i know if he were to ask her out shed say yes even if it were to kill her. im afraid this will ruin our friendship, but i still really want to say yes. what do u do???? thanks Smile

 

 

Hey chica! I would definately talk to your friend about it first. Let her know that you're really worried about it, and that you don't want to lose her. And, tell her to be honest with you as to how she feels. You have to ultimately make the decision yourself. Are you good enough friends that you would really miss her as a friend, worse case scenario? Is this guy that great that you would sacrifice a friendship for? I've learned that a new guy will always come along. But friendships are forever.

xxx

Becca G.

by meccaangel on 1/20/2011 5:58:37 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD MOD!! I was reading the Bill and Dave section and I wanted to submit a question but I didn't know if I could. Can I submit a question, and if so, how? Thanks, MOD!

 

 

Hey chica! Here's the address for submitting your questions Smile


xxx

Becca G.

by laramarie on 1/20/2011 5:48:11 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD ok so there is this guys that i like. we only have homeroom and french class together, so i never get to talk to him. my friend asked him if he liked me and she told me that he said he did. i want him to ask me out, but i dont want to be too forward. how do i strike up a convo in class, and what should i say? its kinda hard to talk during class cuz we're always doing stuff, and in homeroom hes with his friends. thanks 4 the help Smile

 

 

Hey chica! Check out these tips for asking him out Smile


xxx

Becca G.

by tinkerella13 on 1/20/2011 5:43:39 PM

 
 

mod! mod! mod! tomorrw is my friends birthday party and we are going to something called late skate. its every friday from 8-11. were all excited. she has a bf who goes to the other middle school in our community (were in 8th grade) and he is friends with my crush, who also goes to the school. he MAY come if my friends bf tempts him. we...(my crush and i)...had a thing b4. we didn't date. but we went though a lot and both liked each other. he stopped liking me...i didn't. I hacn't seen him in a while, so if he does come, what should i say! hes kinda one wordeed and hes not big on really flirty actions. also, how can i convince him to come! ......and if he doesn't....what can I say? I really like him and i think if we hang out we can go back to the good times Smile i dont wanna be too pushy tho... Smile thanks so much..I really appreciate it Smile please answer all questions Tong xoxo-

 

 

Hey girly! You should totally get your friend's bf to encourage your crush to come! What a perfect opportunity. If he does come, why not bring up a funny memory from your past? Or, make a joke that you haven't seen him in forever and missed him. I would relax about it and just let the convo flow. Sometimes, things are better if they're not planned.

xxx

Becca G.

by fashionista37 on 1/20/2011 5:42:16 PM

 
 

i know it sounds hard, applefrizzle, but payback really won't help... it'll just keep things going. I know you know that, but revenge is sooo easy! I wouldn't go for it. And if you absolutely must, I wouldn't bring her mom into it or anyone else for that matter.

by pippip24 on 1/20/2011 5:37:42 PM

 
 

There's this mean girl who is super-duper mean. She said i was a ugly,fat piece of "beep". Sorry Language. Andshe called my friend a Lesbian. So I know she's dating some guy who her mom HATES!!!! And on top of that she's not suppose to date. And this is the perfect chance to get Payback. Should I do it?

by AppleFrizzle22 on 1/20/2011 4:52:58 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD
heyy! another thing. one of my close frends really likes this guy, Brendan, and everyone knows it. But I don't really think he likes her, and flirts with me. And he's so cute and funnyy!! I don't know what to do though..

 

Hey chica!

Whether this cutie likes your friend or not, you've gotta stay away! She obviously really likes him, and you've gotta respect her feelings. Trust me, there will be many more hotties that come around!

Clare W.

by gengen98 on 1/20/2011 4:13:07 PM

 
 

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one of my guy frands likes me but I like someone else. I'm afraid that he'll aske me out cuz it's Valentine's Day, and I don't wanna hurt him!!! Frown thank yuu (:

 

Hey girlie,

If he's told you that he likes you, it would be fine for you to tell him that you're not really interested right now, and that you really want to stay friends. That will probably keep him from pulling a move on Valentine's Day! If he does, let him down easily, but don't feel bad--you've made it perfectly clear that you aren't interested! Whatever you do, just be nice to him and do your best to stay friends.

Clare W.

by gengen98 on 1/20/2011 4:04:09 PM

 
 

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Ok so theres this guy i like and he likes me but he also really likes this other girl. I wanna prove to him that i like him more so i wanna write a song it wld be nice if you cld give me a starter. His name is Logan i think his eyes are gorgeous and wat i see in him ive never seen in other guy and i love him and hes actually taler then me which is hard to find and hes super nice and sweet and i seriously think theres a connection between us i love how he treats me like an actual person and i think his voice is hot lol! and a song that also goes with how i feel is Hey Stephen by taylor swift.

 

Hey chica!

Unfortunately, songwriting is not my area of expertise Frown If you like Tay Swift, use her style--her lyrics are always honest and to the point, so your guy would know exactly how you feel!

Clare W.

by TruBelieber on 1/20/2011 3:32:55 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD!!! ok, so i REALLY like this guy named Brandon, and we went out for 2 days when i didn't even know his name. but now were GREAT friends, and we can tell each other ANYTHING, more than i tell my BFF. Ive been dropping hints like CRAZY and we both admitted that we like each other. how do i ask him out? by note, text, call, face to face? should i word it differently so its not straight forward will you go out with me? or is that exactly what i should do?
thanks so much!

 

Hey girlie,

If you've both admitted that you have feelings for each other, things will be easy from here! Instead of straight up asking him out, let him know that because of your feelings, you want to be more than friends, and see what he has to say about it. If he's ready for a relationship, he'll step up and tell you!

Clare W.

by crazytalk17 on 1/20/2011 2:55:18 PM

 
 

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I really like this guy in my Italian class, but I'm too scared to ask him out. How do I get him to ask me?

 

Hey girlie,

Try talking to him more in class. When you develop a friendship and get comfortable with each other, he'll be more likely to have the confidence to ask you out! Ask him if he wants to hang out with you and your friends one weekend--not as a date. When he sees that you want to be around him, maybe he'll take that next step!

Clare W.

by peachylil on 1/20/2011 1:47:58 PM

 
 

hey girlies
if you ever need advice about anything im here just leave a comment on my profile and ill get to you rite away (im on the site almost everyday)
<3 always
peace_love_happiness

by peace_love_happiness on 1/20/2011 1:47:02 PM

 
 

what do you think is the best way to get a guy to ask you out and your pretty sure he is at least sort of into you?

 

Hey chica!

Start dropping hints--tell him about that new movie you really wanted to see or a restaurant you'd really like to try. If he still doesn't get it, tell him that you'd like to hang out with him sometime, and hopefully he'll initiate the rest!

Clare W.

by Lindsay H on 1/20/2011 1:33:56 PM

 
 

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by HarryPotterFanClub on 1/20/2011 12:34:18 PM

 
 

this is ironic. me and this guy like eachother and he's scared to ask me out. so im gonna ask him out. see i've had boyfriends and he hasn't had a girlfriend yet so haha yeahh

by RockNRollx3o on 1/20/2011 12:26:58 PM

 
 

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OK there is this REALLY cute guy at my youth group every monday. Well one day he like tried to talk to me and stuff. I was like behind him in the chairs and i like pushed him a little and he turned around and all of sudden he looked deeply in my eyes for like almost a minute! then i gave him evil eyes and then he laughed. Then when we were all singing he tried to get my attention. And i think he wanted to know my name cause he was giving signs. what should i do?




Hey girlie! Sounds like you and this guy have a thing for each other. Good for you! Go up to him and introduce yourself. Start making conversation with him! Guys like when girls are the initiators. 




 
Marly Z.

by Ilovesummerfun on 1/20/2011 11:05:29 AM

 
 

Hey girls!

Need advice? Come to my profile and ask me! I would LOVE to help out!

Love and thanks,
Ellie Smile

by topchef88 on 1/20/2011 8:11:28 AM

 
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