1. Think of your crush.
2. Make a hand heart.
3. Kiss it.
4. Put it over your real heart.
5. Tomorrow your crush will ask you out. YAY! <3
6. This only works if you post this on your favorite article

by jillybean1998 on 3/23/2013 11:19:16 AM

1. Think of your crush.
2. Make a hand heart.
3. Kiss it.
4. Put it over your real heart.
5. Tomorrow your crush will ask you out. YAY! <3
6. This only works if you post this on your favorite article.

by Nikkibaby71410 on 1/10/2013 3:00:19 AM

by btr211233 on 11/16/2012 12:40:53 AM

Sorry I'm posting this but I want to all I can to get crush to like me

1. Think of your crush
2. Make a heart with your hands
3. Kiss the heart
4. Put the heart where your real heart is
Tomorrow your crush will ask you out
This will only work if you post this on your favorite article

by lol154 on 10/9/2012 7:31:08 PM

this article is my favorite one

by amyrose125 on 9/28/2012 9:51:09 AM

HELP PLEASE.!!
So there's a guy I've been friends with for 3 years. This year we've become extremely close, and he tells me everything, even more stuff than he tells his guy friends! Well, anyways. Every single day for like 3 weeks straight in our 7th hour he tells me I have pretty eyes. He even said they were a prettier blue than the sky. And a few days ago, he told me I was looking cute that day. He is a bit of a flirt, though. Like 15 people have told me that he likes me, but I don't see it. I actually think he likes my other friend that's in our 7th hour. He calls me, FaceTimes me, and tries to come over a lot. What do I do?!? I'm so confused!!

by sailordowden on 9/12/2012 5:22:02 PM

by southerngirlswagg on 9/2/2012 7:03:55 PM

If he talked to you at the party and the day after, he probably likes you! And pretty and hot aren't the only words guys can say to girls -- if he said you were good looking, that's a great compliment and sounds even better than pretty or hot! If he's a nice guy, give him a chance! It sounds like you both really like each other

by rae117 on 8/24/2012 8:55:25 PM

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by camigal on 8/4/2012 4:40:14 PM

omg love this!!!!!!

by quiggledoodler2000 on 7/31/2012 6:17:52 PM

1. Think of your crush.
2. Make a hand heart.
3. Kiss it.
4. Put it over your real heart.
5. Tomorrow your crush will ask you out. YAY! <3
6. This only works if you post this on your favorite article.

I HOPE THIS WORKS

by windheart13 on 7/31/2012 12:30:39 AM

plz read and respond!!! So theres this one guy who i met at a soccer camp. Turns out he goes to my school, and he obviously has a bunch of the same interests as me. We talked a lot and on the last day I asked him for his #. So now we text... and I really want to see him again... but not alone. I want to have a BBQ with some of my friends and invite him... but idk if my parents will let me have a co-ed party, even with only about 10 people. Even if im allowed, will it be pointless if he says he cant go? i dont know what to do next!!! someone plz help me!!!

by minimunchkin1 on 7/21/2012 8:47:08 PM

by SuperJaguarr! on 7/17/2012 12:00:16 PM

help!!!! i feel like whenever im going out with someone i like someone else. am i a player or is it normal? what should i do?

by savvypace1 on 7/13/2012 6:09:03 PM

83. Next time you see your crush, give him one long glance in his direction. Make sure to make eye contact for a good three seconds then look away.
Just earlier today my crush did this so i did it back. We were at the pool and i was in a place where only my friends and i were for that day and he kept looking at me then looking away. I did it back and it showed me he might like me!

by radiogirl on 7/9/2012 9:11:14 PM

I am moving schools, and the guy that I like is going to a different school, but I still want to stay in touch, but how???

by scruffythecrow on 7/2/2012 12:42:21 PM

1. Think of your crush
2. Make a heart with your hands
3. Kiss your hand heart
4. Put it where the real heart is
5. Your crush will ask you out tomorrow
6. This only works if you post it on your favorite article

by myth_lover on 6/27/2012 7:24:55 PM

by tickytack on 6/22/2012 2:37:28 AM

Okay well, I really like this guy and we text each other sometimes, and when i was texting him today he said " so who do you like" and i said ' well this may be kind of awkward but .. you. So who do you like?" and he was like " i knew you liked me for a while but i just wanted to hear you say it for real, oh and no-one" and the i said "Ohh" and he said " yea, sorry , i mean i kind of like you but its summer so nothing is going to happen" What should I do? i might not go to that school next year either because we are moving. i just really need help!

by Keilei12 on 6/17/2012 6:19:16 PM

i like my best friend and now he is moving away to a different school because he moved to a different house he finished the rest of the year at my school and i didnt even tell him goodbye! hes been my crush scince he started talking to me in 4th grade then on the bus he decided to switch seats to sit with me sometimes on a bad day he would sit across. does he like me? i cant stop thinking about him!

by jhutchersonfan on 6/11/2012 8:54:53 PM

My friend and I have been BFFs since we were like 4 or 5 yrs old. She knows who I like and she says he's bad news because he called her sister some really ugly words. This was a while ago. I still really like him though. Is that bad??? I want to confront him about what he said to her sis but idk if that's the smartest idea...what should I do?

by BeachBarbie on 6/5/2012 11:57:36 AM

Okay,It's 2 days before school ends, new school and all, but I found this guy that I like. We kind of had a rough start, but afterwards, I showed an interest, and he texts me every single day. I asked him if he liked me, and he said as a friend, and then asked me. I told him that I did like him. He flirts with me in a subtle way, and I kind of flirt, but we don't really talk or hang out at school. So, my question being, does he like me? And should I try and flirt with him a little more?

by Kristle on 5/30/2012 11:14:49 PM

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ok so i like this kid in my science class and about a month ago my teacher changed seats and i got to sit right next to him. we would always talk in class and he always insisted on sharing his textbook. i was so happy until my other friend who also likes him ( she doesnt know i like him )kept giving me a death glare in class. my other friend also wanted to switch seats with him so she could sit next to him. she lied to the teacher complaining that she couldnt see the board so my crush and he switched seats. im so upset now because i missed a great oppertunity to get to know this kid and now i think he thinks that i dont like him. i regret this so much and i dont know what to do. i guess i will just have to hope he will sit next to me next year. uggg im so upsett
what should i do
help me
thanks



Hey babe,

What's to say that you two can't still talk even though your not sitting next to each other anymore?  Make him your partner on the next group project, walk with him before or after class, maybe even snag his number for help on homework one night. Jordan S.

by wowza13579 on 5/26/2012 6:37:01 PM

Hey A7xisAmazing, oh this boy defintely likes you! No need to be shy. Remember this guy feels the same way about you. So it won't hurt to flirt a little. Let him know you like him too. But so far it sounds like you're doing a good job. Xoxo



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I am soo confused. I met this guy and everyones telling me he likes me, but idk! I told him he should text me, so he asked for my number and texted me. We were joking around about if we could beat each other up, and he kept saying "dear" and "sweetie" but idk if he was just joking around. He doesn't text me first though, but he said he always feels like hes bothering people. He drove me home from school yesterday, and i told him he had road rage and later i saw he tweeted "Apparently i have a bit of road rage(:" He also said hed pick me up in between exams next week so we can hang out. Sometimes i would catch him staring at me at lunch. We sit at the same table, but dont really talk because my ex sits there and theyre friends. Also, Im super shy around him. How do i stop?? Thanks in advance (: Lynae P.

by A7XisAmazing on 5/26/2012 1:20:16 PM

1.think of your crush
2.make a heart with your hands
3.this kiss your hand while still making a heart
4.then put the heart where your real heart is
5.tomorrow your crush will ask you out
6.this will only work if you post this on your favorite article

by bostonbaby on 5/25/2012 3:46:40 PM

by YayaYuiki on 5/24/2012 12:57:30 PM

I'm totally going to try number 41! brilliant!! and 53, prefect!! i get to stare in his eyes and him in mine but not in an awkward way!!

by ckemp on 5/21/2012 6:36:20 PM

wow! over 500 comments! thanks for the tips!

by ego4fashion on 5/21/2012 2:23:42 AM

I have a guy that I like and I think that he likes me and I tried to spice it up by flirting a little but he still won't make the move. I tried asking my guys friends and they said the wait and I'm getting mad because he isn't doing anything!!!!! What should I do?

by samo11 on 5/12/2012 8:27:25 PM

Hey guys. This boy asked me to go to our spring dance with him. I like him a lot and am good friends with him- we have a lot in common. I don't like him as anything more than a friend, but I'd like to go the dance with him as friends. I don't want to give him the wrong impression! What should I say?

by penguin995 on 5/7/2012 5:32:39 PM

You need to relax, babe! This is not the end of the world! You've liked him for a long time, so it was bound to happen that he found out eventually. But he knows about the crush and he's still talking to you - and even said he wanted to still be friends. So take a deep breath and stop letting him see how embarrassed it makes you! Fake the confidence until you really feel it. Act normal around him - be laid back, chat like you would with any other friend, and don't freak out. The best way to get everything back to normal is to treat him as a friend and remind yourself that you have nothing to be ashamed about. You definitely shouldn't be hiding behind your friend - you did nothing wrong and he didn't even freak out when he found out, so you shouldn't freak either

by hockeychic72 on 5/3/2012 7:29:57 PM

It would probably be way easier to laugh it off! You could take it super seriously or pretend it didn't mean anything, but the best thing to do is something in between. This "game" you play is kinda flirty, so the "I love you" was probably also just a flirty thing to say. We can't know exactly what he meant by it, so don't let it freak you out and try not to assume he meant something really serious. (If he did mean it, you'll know because he'll keep flirting, talking to you, getting to know you, etc.) Treat him like you normally would the next time you see him - play the game, flirt, laugh, stay calm, and don't be awkward. That's the best way to act after he dropped the L bomb  

by chitownaussie on 4/28/2012 9:50:54 PM

Im in 6th grade and i really like this guy. He lives behind me but we are both to shy to go close to each other or even talk! We have liked each other since last year but im not sure if i should ask him out, or if i should wait for him to ask me out! I want to text him and talk you him more but he doesnt have a phone! I really like this gjy and i even dream about him every night! Pleasee help!!!

by Polkazebra99 on 4/18/2012 8:03:04 AM

by SarJJ on 4/13/2012 11:34:59 AM

by summergirl21 on 4/5/2012 4:54:15 PM

Hey taytay1212, it could be two things. Maybe he's not sure you like him. Have you made it clear you're interested? Or he could be waiting for you to make the first move. Hope this helps! Xoxo



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I am positively, absolutely sure that this guy likes me... I know this because he has told me. We text and talk all the time, but he wont ask me out. Whats going on????? Lynae P.

by taytay1212 on 3/24/2012 2:32:27 PM

Hey gurlys out there
tomarrow me and my friends r making a statement
Hurls r always getting in trouble for there bra straps showing
So why not guys why do they get to have dropout pants and boxers showing
tomarrow the 21st wear depopulate pants with boxers showing
Don't 4 get to notifly ur bff's and post everywhere u can think of
hope u c this soon

by ealaplante on 3/20/2012 6:49:19 PM

by Katiew on 3/18/2012 12:00:40 PM

by loveyoulongtime on 3/15/2012 1:50:12 AM

mod mod mod
my crush and i are very close friends im afraid if i tell him i like him our friendship will be ruined

by rue0710 on 3/11/2012 8:01:27 PM

I like this guy who whent to my elementary school but now we go to dif schools he liked me but now that he goes 2 a dif school I'm afraid he forgot me. We emailed 4 awhile but not any more and2 of my friends like him!!! Help me

Hey 11littleboo, you should try emailing him and seeing how he's been. Tell him you miss talking to him and wanted to know how he was doing. I'm sure he'll be glad to hear from you. Hope this helps! Xoxo

by 11littleboo on 2/29/2012 5:26:32 PM

by neveragain224 on 2/27/2012 10:08:17 AM

MOD!
I have a silly but serious question. When everybody says "ask him out" what exactly doe that mean? Do I ask him, wanna go out? I feel so silly asking that

 Hey chocolateworld12, yup you're just asking the guy if he wants to go out. It's like a guy asking you out, only you're the one doing the asking. It's like you two switch places. If you don't feel comfortable doing it, you don't have to. You can wait for him to make the move or drop hints that you want him to ask you out. Hope this helps! Xoxo

by chocolateworld12 on 2/25/2012 7:02:13 PM

There is a super cute guy and I think he is maybe going to ask me out but I'm scared because my mom wouldn't like me dating but I really want to if I sneak I think she will catch me wat should I do he is my friend

by bootlover on 2/24/2012 9:00:17 AM

by loveyababe on 2/18/2012 5:04:36 PM

theres a guy..he is my bros best friend...he is sooo cool....my heart stops wen i see him...i told my frnd in scool and she right away told him on fb about all the story....she also told about my another close frnd and now he is after her...he sent her msgs like:
s e x y A
and the A is the initial of my name.... then he said her to add him as frnd and they'll both go on dates blah blah...but she blocked him...when i told my bro that my friend is getting msgs from his frnd he told dat his friend is already engaged and he cant do things llike that(i didnt tell my bro that i like his frnd) he is a canadian (my bros frnd) and he also said that he'll take my close frnd to canada....even though i now know that HE IS ENGAGED i still love him
i was thinking of telling my brother i liked his frnd SO...
PLZ HELP ME...I HAVE A VERY SERIOUS ISSUE...PLZ TELL ME OR I WILL BECOME MAD AFTER HIM..I'M ALREADY HALF MAD AFTER HIM
AND MY PARENTS ARE VERY STRICT ABOUT THESE MATTERS..PLZ HELP ME!

by aayesha ash on 2/17/2012 5:23:10 AM

Hey fun lovers! I need some...guidance/advice...so anyways, I have a hopeless crush on someone at my school. I'm a freshman and he's a junior. We do play on the same tennis team, so I'm..acquaintances...with Andrew. So my friend told me that he liked her, which I'd bull crap because she just tries to bring me down, and she's a bipolar lying beeeoch ...but anyways! Tennis season ends in April! I talk to Andrew, but not a lot...actually just this morning he had a casual conversation with me...he started it but he doesn't really show much emotion I guess...so he's UBBER Hard to read! He also talks reeeeealy low...so I just kinda smile and nod lol. We're talking more and more each week, but we aren't even like Facebook friends ...I was planning on him adding me first...but anyway ...what are some ways I could talk to him more and try to get him to notice me (don't even say wear a cute outfit because i go to a Catholic school .. uniform.) But yeah.a

by ctiloveyou4711 on 2/16/2012 1:04:38 AM

STEP 1 : Get to know the guy before even thinking about dating him

by Dark Wolf on 2/14/2012 8:20:51 PM

Hey pinkylove<3 that's kind of tough, well if he has a girlfriend and he is flirting with you for real then he's just a player, and not worth the risk of a broken heart. Hope I helped.

by smith0507 on 2/12/2012 7:35:24 PM

Hi abi

by swearias on 2/10/2012 8:17:37 PM

I <3 boys!!

by swearias on 2/10/2012 3:27:26 PM

I don't know what to do because I like this guy and when he found out. he was awkward around me and kind of mean, but now I got over my crush and he started flirting with me and now I like him again and I am afraid that if he finds out again he we act like he did before. He is my type and so sweet to me and I really like him what should I do.

by lilpunkgrrl on 2/8/2012 2:14:46 AM

I am inlove with my bestfriend, which is also my ex. I think he likes me, he always tries to talk to me, and we always laugh about this really annoying girl that also likes him. The problem is that, I flirt, and i think he flirts, but I dont know how to proced! I don't know if I should tell him or not. And with Valentines day coming up, I thought I could tell him and then kiss him, but I don't know how he will re-act!
Plus, all my girl friends will kill me, they all like him too, they dont know i like him! HELP!
Help, I want to be more than friends, but I also odn't want to ruin our friendship.

by romanticspark on 2/6/2012 5:21:08 AM

Hey!
I really need some advice, so there's this guy who I work with, we flirted non stop an text each other everyday for months but he and my best do not get along because it turns out he had a girlfriend which broke my heart and my friend trying to support me said he had lead me on cause she had seen what we were like around each other and how keep kepting making suggestive hints for me to go down to his place, we stopped speaking for a while and now he's lovely to me again and he's super flirty all he time, but he has another girlfriend (this one I was told about) he is waiting on me after work, flirting with me all the time, telling me he loves me in a playful/joking kind of way..... Does he really like me? Pleeeeeease help me! X

by Pinkylove<3 on 2/3/2012 9:02:18 PM

MOD MOD!
Our school is having a Valentine's dance soon and my crush will be there how can I snag a dance with him without looking desperate or embarrassing myself? Thanks!

by aidenator on 2/2/2012 6:48:28 PM

I already know this stuff... but I read it anyway to see if I'm doing it right. I go to church with my cutie on sundays for three hours (we're the only two in the same grade and we're the oldest) and on wednesdays we go to youth group together. We have been friends since third grade (summer camp BFFs) and now i like him. Should i still flirt with him? I am thinking about taking him and his peeps to go with my peeps (kind of like a 10x10 date) to see Journey 2 The mysterious island. Wolud that be enough to get him to be my date to the Valentines Days dance? Help me out here girls!

by rosemadison99 on 1/29/2012 11:11:21 AM

Hey 199natalia1998, check out this great article about 100 things to say and do to talk to your crush. I think it will help since you got a little competition. Xoxo http://www.girlslife.com/post/2011/01/26/100-cute-things-to-say-and-do-around-guys.aspx



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I realy like this guy and I want to ask him to the dance.The problem is that I am extreamly shy and that a lot of other girls like him to.I cant talk to other guys but when I'm around him, my mind goes blank.what should i do? Lynae P.

by 199natalia1998 on 1/27/2012 6:01:29 PM

i don't think any of these tips will work...im in high school been flirting for awhile...i promise you these will only work it you guy is legit "PERFECT."
no guy is "PERFECT"...not to put a damper on any of y'all

by colorguard1227 on 1/26/2012 11:27:33 PM

by MuzikLuvrr on 1/26/2012 6:12:38 PM

Hey kaitlynMD13, no not at all! What does this guy know? You are beautiful, and it's a shame he can't see it. Don't let his mean words hurt you. I wouldn't want to date a jerk like that anyway. If you ask me, he's the one that's ugly. Hope this helps! Xoxo



Guys never like me one time i asked out a guy and he never answered me, i walked up to him to say hello and he said "whyy are u talking to me ugly?!?" then the guys surounding him laughed and laughed and laughed. I feel so ugly! Am i ugly? Lynae P.

by kaitlynMD13 on 1/25/2012 6:41:00 PM

So there's this guy and he lives in my neighborhood... hes barely a year older than me and I REALLY REALLY REALLY like him! Hes super nice and kind and understanding and dont forget very attractive... I see him almost everyday and hes a huge flirt... he says he likes me and tells me I'm beautiful and all that and I love it!... there's just one problem... he has a girlfriend... BUT he acts like I'm his girlfriend when we hang out and that's not okay with me... I feel like hes almost pretty much cheating.... I would love to go out with him except (again) he has a girlfriend... and I don't know why he still has a girlfriend... I can tell you veryyyyy honestly that hes not a player... I just need to know what the reasons of him still dating her could be... he said he likes me more then he likes his girlriend... I need help, advice, answers... anything would help I just feel so odd...

by LoveMantha on 1/23/2012 3:05:04 AM

Wowwwwww

by Katisha on 1/20/2012 11:59:17 PM

I accidently did number 3 in class to this one guy. So he was gone the same day I was so we both had to work outside of the classroom on our makeup homework. Let me just say it was very effective on him because now he likes me. He didn't say it but I can definitely tell.

by Gabriella123 on 1/20/2012 4:45:58 PM

i really love this guy n i no he likes me back so wut are some flirting tips that arnt weird?

by jbkcm10 on 1/19/2012 7:52:46 PM

Dear iLoveEminem...
Give him a shot. You like him, right? Go for it and see how it goes. You may not regret it ;) Good luck, girlie.

--Kayla

by SunnyDelite on 1/16/2012 6:00:23 PM

i have a problem! I only see my crush in 1 hour, i see him in the hallways and he messes around like scare me on the playground, and he sneeks up behind me in the halls. But i guess im scared to tell him how i feel and i want him to be my bf. Any tips!

by crawfsid on 1/14/2012 11:04:26 PM

Hey agent cheese, no you shouldn't have a crush on your family members. You have to remember they're related to you, but you're defintely not the first one this has happened to. Just try ignoring those feelings. xoxo



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I know this sounds weird but a few years ago I used to have a crush on this guy...only problem? It was my cousin. I don't have a crush on him now but now that I think about it, is it normal for girls to have a crush on people that are related to them? I'm just curious, Thanks Lynae P.

by agentcheese on 1/14/2012 4:42:20 PM

Hey Katiegurll;), I don't know girl, it sounds like he may like your friend to me. He could also like you both but is just taking this time getting to know her. But if he does like her, don't feel bad. There are lots of guys out there, you just gotta find them. Hope this helps! Xoxo



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ok so, theres this guy that i REALLY REALLY REALLY like, but he punches walls,swears,hangs out with bad people and stuff like that but i just cant help myself! he always stares at me and teases me but then when me and my bff are in class, he'll flirt with her right in front of me!! its only happend twice, but is he just trying to make me jealous, or does he really like her?! she says she doesnt like him but she blushes when he comes around and she flirts with him and its obvious that she likes him!!!! i really like this guy i need SERIOUS HELP!!! btw hes SUPER popular!!! HELP MEE!!!(please) Lynae P.

by katiegurll;) on 1/13/2012 4:56:31 PM

by bkwms1 on 1/13/2012 1:59:58 AM

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by Fashion designer on 1/12/2012 4:21:04 PM

MOD MOD MOD!!!
Ok, so I've finally convinced my mom to let me wear make-up to school (yippee!), and I'm a little stuck on what to do. Usually, I just wear some eyeliner and some peach shadow, but I'm a little stuck on what to do for the eyeliner part. Currently, I'm a big fan of the cat eye, but was wondering how to tone it down so that I can wear it to school, and other ways to use eyeliner. Can I get some advice please?

by LittleMissBubbly on 1/10/2012 7:30:49 PM

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by lalaloveyou on 1/6/2012 9:25:43 PM

I`m 15 and 4 foot 6 and can never get any of my crushes to notice me or even look or talk to me, its like they think of me as a little kid, any advice?

by Scarletwitch on 1/3/2012 6:19:43 PM

by maddancer247 on 12/29/2011 10:58:47 AM

MOD!MOD!MOD! Ok so i really like this guy and my friends told him behind my back about a month ago but the day after they told him i found out i was so embarressed i have concert choir with him and when they pointed at me to show him who i was he smiled and the rest of the week he just kept checking me out and talking to me and making me laugh but its been a month since he hasnt talked to me i wanna know if he liked me before and if he did if he still likes me Help! (:

by Dianee on 12/28/2011 3:57:24 PM

#77 will NOT work on a guy. I'm just sayin'!

by katgrace11 on 12/27/2011 8:19:13 PM

Just try to be laid-back and casual during your convos! The more relaxed you are, the more comfortable he'll feel Take control of the convo and ask him questions about his interests and background. If you talk a bunch, get to know each other better, and settle into a friendship, things will get way easier! <3

by miz99 on 12/24/2011 12:50:43 AM

Just be yourself and play off your natural chemistry! Don't force yourself to flirt - let yourself naturally compliment him, joke around, laugh and even tease him. There's no "right" way to do it and there's no formula. You just gotta go with the flow of the conversation and take a deep breath so you don't stress yourself out. You'll always feel some butterflies when you talk to him...but that's part of the fun! You can definitely use "catching up with him" as a way to chat and flirt more. Since you live far away, I'm sure you have LOTS to talk about! 

by Bornagain on 12/23/2011 9:17:40 PM

by Lydia_rose on 12/20/2011 5:26:25 PM

Hey girl, I know it can be so hard to get over a guy, even if you know he's bad for you. Just give yourself time to let go of your feelings. It's best to get over him gradually, then to deny your feelings or get into another relationship with a guy. Eventually he'll be out of your mind.

by mogan98 on 12/17/2011 8:40:16 PM

I have a senior crush, we're in the same university and course but we don't really know each other. until he found out that I like him. he messaged me on facebook and texted me 1 week straight , sing a lot of songs for me over the phone and asked me to go to mass with him but it got cancelled, he even called me "babes" but he said he's just joking. but after a week, he stopped texting me. I'm sseing him in the hallway but Im too shy to say "hi" what will I do? should I let this slip because maybe this is just another december romance? or should I pursue being friends with him? please help thanks girls!

by eliza018 on 12/14/2011 9:19:28 AM

Talk to him more! Talk in your classes, flirt, chat online/through text messages, and see if you can plan group hangouts to get to know him even better while also being around friends. The more flirty, interested vibe you give off, the more likely he'll be to follow his heart and ask ya out. He might take a lil while but, if he really does like you, he probably wants to be sure you like him so he doesn't get rejected

by horseyluver on 12/8/2011 5:01:29 PM

Mod Mod Mod!!
There is a guy I REALLY like but he is two years older and goes to a different school. A friend gave him my number and we text (rarely)but when I see him at school events (like basketball games) he always finds me and comes over to talk-he also teases me a lot and is always stealing some of my food-if i have some with me-Does he like me??

by cowgirlup7 on 12/7/2011 6:51:21 PM

by mimi_girl12 on 12/6/2011 4:47:27 PM

@mckenna worden
Hey girly, since your lockers are right next to each other try slipping a note into his. You say he's shy, so notes are a simple way to get him out of his shell. Plus, they're classically adorable. Hope I helped

by French Toast on 12/5/2011 2:40:07 AM

You can't make this girl stop flirting with him (and really, you can't make him like you if he isn't feeling it), but you can totally put yourself on his radar to see what happens! Try asking him for help with homework, chatting about one of his interests, telling him news you heard about a band he loves, etc. You just can't put too much pressure on yourself to have an AMAZING convo the first time you try. You'll get more relaxed with each convo you have! But remember if the chemistry isn't coming on its own, it might just be that you aren't clicking with each other. And that's ok! But you'll never know if you don't try

by jazzalyn12 on 12/3/2011 10:58:46 PM

My crush is really shy, but i think he likes me too. We dont really talk at school, but we text pretty often. Sometimes i see him looking at me during lunch. Last week, his best friend told me that my crush likes me, but I'm not sure.

by CosmicPuppy on 12/2/2011 5:40:07 PM

by peacelova on 12/2/2011 8:24:18 AM

like 10 and 12!

by JessieH on 11/29/2011 12:47:19 AM

You DO talk to him a lot...texting all day long is a pretty big commitment, so this guy at least really likes you as a friend. Can you observe how he treats you vs. how he treats his other girl friends? Is there a difference? Is he more/less flirty, more/less considerate, more/less awkward? How does he act when you flirt with him - does he seem into it? Just try to flirt/compliment/tease him more and see how he responds. Then you can decide what to do from there  

by swazyelover2497 on 11/27/2011 1:19:32 AM

MOD, MOD, MOD
I rlly like this guy. Hes sweet and cute and kinda dorky. He plays football basketball soccer and baseball. But his gf is one of my best friends. He flirts with me and helped me with my books wen i had crutches. Wat does this meen? Does it meen anything? We txt and talk all the time. I need help! thnx

by soccer911 on 11/26/2011 6:00:14 PM

by im-a-total-hottie-not-lying- on 11/24/2011 3:00:50 PM

Omg!!! I love these! Thanks GirlsLife!!!

by WeasleysRule on 11/22/2011 6:01:26 PM

I have noooo idea what to do. Okay so my best friend has a crush on a guy I have a crush on... but she doesnt know it! he moved to our school last year and I have like him since... but so has she. He is ALWAYS staring at me and when i look over he always looks away really quick. Practically all the girls in the grade like him and practically fall at his feet. I am the only one that acts like he is a regular person- though talking to him makes me have chills. I kinda think he likes me because he always trys to have a conversation with me, though I try not to sound very interested, so he keeps trying. I am really confused....

by Wanjiku on 11/19/2011 3:58:04 PM

by AcutieBookworm on 11/12/2011 6:18:04 PM

MODMODMOD
my friend texted my crush asking if he likes me. He said she's cool idk her well tho.
Is that just the nice way of saying no?
We met on halloween and have hung out once since then but text almost everyday

by love.hannah on 11/8/2011 6:25:57 AM

Well, you'll do a LOT more moving around during the day since you'll go to different rooms for all your classes! But you'll pick up on the vibe/what to expect as you go through the first day. No one really knows what to expect before their first day, but you get the hang of it! The most important thing is to remember this: TALK TO PEOPLE. Chat with your classmates before class, raise your hand to answer the teacher's questions, be outgoing and sit with a group at lunch, join a club or sport, etc. The most important thing is to take charge and introduce yourself to people. You want to make sure you meet as many as possible and don't act awkward/withdrawn. Your best high school experience will be one that is social, fun, and filled with supportive friends  

by justinbieberrox! on 11/6/2011 4:43:04 AM

Hi,
My crush had a crush on me for years up until 2 years ago & he asked my friend if he could talk to me but she said "No! Victoria would never go out with you! Go away you freak!" b/c she thought I didn't like him. Truth is I DID have a crush on him, but I didn't know what my friends would think or how he felt so I didn't say anything . Last year I stopped liking him, but this year I have a HUGE crush on him. He's funny, sweet, on the football team (and I'm a cheerleader)and cute! Now of course, I don't think he likes me anymore. He asked out a lot of people this year & last year and it wasn't me. He'll talk to me once in a while in music class which is every other day, and he'll be nice * super funny. Sometimes he'll stare at me and I'll smile but then he just looks down. How can I get him to love me again & ask me out very soon? Thanks so much!!

by victorialuvs2cheer on 11/5/2011 10:03:23 PM

Help! Ok So I like this guy who only shares ONE class with me. I know he likes me and I know he knows I like him. He is goin out with someone. But before he did, he told me he was gunna ask me out. But know he isnt avaible. I always sweat when im around him and I always laugh at his jokes so I REALLLLYY like him and i know it so does he. ow do I stop sweating ao=round him? I know when I sweat it makes me smell bad so I end up carrying round spray which he always compliments me on. Help me!

by Baconluver on 11/4/2011 10:04:17 PM

Should I pick number 15????

by dancelovervictoria on 10/29/2011 9:56:58 AM

by thatgirl<3 on 10/28/2011 2:47:41 PM

I need help!!! Okay so there is this guy that goes to our Church and I really like him! He stares at me all the time! I only get to see him at youth group on wednesdays and Sundays...I dont know what to say to him though. I dont really know anything about him all i know is he looks really hot and smells good...lol. What should I do??

by Hannah_15 on 10/26/2011 5:42:42 PM

by Bublz on 10/21/2011 11:48:14 AM

Ok so I have I crush on this boy in my class, I thought he liked me back because he gave me his Facebook address to add him as a friend and on valentine’s day he gave me a lollipop or maybe he was just being nice because no1 gave me anything that day. I saw his phone number on his facebook profile and I texted him, he texted me back but we didn’t really say much…the next day I texted him and he said “ who is this” and I was so mad cuz I thought he already saved my phone number or he didn’t really care so he didn’t bother to save it, and I texted him back and said “its Lynn I thought u saved my phone number”…he didn’t text me back and the next day at school he didn’t talk to me..we haven’t spoken to each other since then, I was mad at myself for even bothering to text him cuz I think it ruined everything…PLS HELP…I don’t know what I did wrong or maybe he likes me but he is just shy…thanks.

by Sweetizzy on 10/18/2011 9:34:37 PM

I asked my guy friend if he would help me with a subject he is really good at and Im not. He said yes. I brought it up the next day and he said he totaly forgot. Does he want to help me or did he really forget. he said we could do it again sometime but Im not sure if he will remember again.

HELP!!! what do I do??!!

by rockstardiva on 10/17/2011 7:14:22 PM

by limerock12 on 10/17/2011 4:13:13 PM

Modmodmod! dear mod, im in a suckish situation cause this guy liked me for a month and i only liked him as a friend..now that i like him he doesnt like me anymore!just my luck haha idk if he doeant like me anymore for sure or he started liking me again because someone told him i like him buti was wondering what signs should i look for? And my more important question is can i have one of my close friends find out for me? thank u!!

Signs should include catching him looking at you in the hallway/across the room, complimenting you, teasing you, trying to flirt, acting a lil awkward, etc. All the ways you might act toward him if you liked him, really! And that's exactly what you should do to get a little closer to him again - talk, flirt, and over time grow to be better friends. It's totally fine to ask a close friend to investigate for ya (she could ask him or one of his besties), but remember that you can't 100% trust anybody's word except his about whether he is crushin' or not.

by swimstarry on 10/16/2011 1:12:31 AM

so i am elementary school and in 5.Their is this guy who i have a huge crush on.We were in 1 together.He had a crush on me but i didn't really.then he left and came back to my school to 5 grade.He is not in my class but my best friend told me that he lives in her neighborhood and that they are friends.So i told her if she can ask him if remembers me.He said yes! That's all he remembers.He said that i am pretty,funny,cute,and teachers pet.He also said that he wants to see my face again and wants to be friends.I got all excited i started practicing how to talk to him.But when it came to the day my mouth turned to stone and my mouth got dry.i ran away lucky he did not see me.I really want to talk to him and be friends but when i look at him i go to la la land. How can i talk to him and be friends again if i can;t talk to him??PLEASE HELP ME ASAP!!!!!!!

by tana500004 on 10/15/2011 11:30:45 AM

by spunkygirl03 on 10/13/2011 9:10:45 PM

love to use these to start up a convo with my BF who i don't talk to alot...but we don't have ANY classes together do u have any tip for good e-mail convo

by bubblyblueberry33 on 10/10/2011 9:28:04 PM

i dont think a lot of these would work on most boys!!!!!!!!!!!!

by LikeOmgx10 on 10/2/2011 5:44:01 PM

NEVER EVER say if we were together right now what would we be doing. thats a recipe for trouble

by butterflygirl14 on 9/28/2011 4:13:58 PM

I like this guy but he's poplular and Im kinda in the middle you can say a Im seim cool geek how do I know if he likes me?????

by boycrusher191 on 9/18/2011 6:54:28 PM

I used to be really good friends with this one guy, and he asked me out. But at the time, I didn't like him that way, but he was really sad and we don't talk anymore. Now he always talks to all of these girls, and I'm really jealous andI hate it! I really like him now, but he thinks I hate him. Is there anyway for me to get him to start talking to me again?

by ngracehart on 9/18/2011 12:35:22 AM

One of my best friends likes this guy, and I like him too, but she doesn't know that. I started liking him first and I think he might like me too, but just out of curiosity I asked her like what she would do if he asked out one of our friends and they said yes. She said she would slap her. I knew she was kidding, but I also know that she'd be mad if I went out with him. Is there any way that I cold date him without losing one of my best friends?

by ngracehart on 9/18/2011 12:14:43 AM

by 31sftballplayer on 9/15/2011 8:30:25 PM

This sounds like it could be the start of something! It's totally possible that you two could get to know each other and connect, whether it's on a friends level or something more. But you'll never know unless you give it a try! You're already in contact so just gradually talk to him more and more often in person, via text, online (AIM/Facebook), etc. Take advantage of any mutual friends, common interests/clubs/sports/classes, and get to know him better babe! Then take it one day at a time to see if flirting and even dating could be possible. As long as you get along and have things in common, I don't see why the age difference would matter  

by ikechick98 on 9/10/2011 9:26:29 PM

Hey girly, you gotta win your man back! Think of all the things he's interested in and talk to him about that. If he likes basketball, talk about the latest game that was on tv. It also doesn't hurt to dress up a little bit. Not flashy or revealing, but something cute and fashion forward. Also see if sometimes you can join in on his conversation with the girl. Hope this helps! Let me know if you have anymore questions!!

by Cutey56842 on 9/10/2011 5:41:29 PM

It's totally normal to remember all of your good times, wish you could have that butterflies-in-your-stomach/lovey feeling again, and have a BF who you can face the world with. But things didn't work out between you and this guy, so try to remember that - even though you had fun, you probably weren't meant to be together. The past is great to remember fondly but, like you said, it won't happen again - you're both older, at a different place in your lives, and won't be able to recreate what you once had. But there's something kinda nice with that - you can always remember those memories and you two shared them, so there's no one who can take that away! And it's great you can still be friends! Just remember that you will have memories like that with other guys and, eventually, will meet one who just keeps the memories on coming

by Tomatos97 on 9/8/2011 4:53:59 PM

by parischick2 on 9/5/2011 8:34:59 PM

This what I'm gonna ask my crush "Would you rather go on a date with me OR kiss me" i hope he says he wold rather kiss me

by Sel201 on 9/3/2011 9:55:54 PM

lol i know right

by JellyBean101 on 9/2/2011 7:47:51 PM

Take a deep breath and follow the tips in the article

by JellyBean101 on 8/30/2011 9:08:24 PM

I'll probably be doing the "on the field" ideas. We both play soccer.

by AlwaysDreamer on 8/30/2011 12:14:21 PM

Some of these scream "DESPERATION!" Will number ten (O.o) and some others look legit? Probably not. Some of these are good flirting moves in my opinion; others... uh... no. Unless the guy is my only reason for living, some of these are almost freakishly desperate. And if some random boy you're crushing on is your only reason for living, flirting with him is the LEAST of your problems.

by Freakout911 on 8/26/2011 8:24:14 AM

GL EMERGENCY! I lovveee this really hot guy that i dont really know. his friend told me that i should flirt with him because he like it.. how do i flirt on an online website to him? plleaase answer i need help!!

by queenra on 8/25/2011 9:52:04 PM

Check out this article: http://www.girlslife.com/post/2011/07/01/BGF-of-BF.aspx

by skyblue120 on 8/23/2011 5:47:45 PM

omg i accually tryed # 52 and it kinda worked i was hanging with my friend at my neighbors party and these 2 boys were playing foot ball (brothers) and i had my eye on the older one (12 im almost 12)and he said heads up cuz the foot ball was comming at me and my friend and i caught it and through it back and next thing i knew we were all talking and he said he was fast and i raced him and almost one and we talked the rest of the night.

by 1218me on 8/22/2011 9:57:32 PM

by vannahb1999 on 8/18/2011 3:08:25 PM

so i like this guy (i have 4 a while) but he's never in any of my classes!

by ashangel26 on 8/17/2011 3:47:39 PM

I LOVE this Cuz this is the stuff that actually works!

by Laurenw23 on 8/13/2011 9:55:33 AM

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by LexilicousCandy on 8/9/2011 10:21:16 PM

by FigureSkater08 on 8/8/2011 12:54:32 PM

MOD so this guy ive really really really liked alot for about 9 months now knows i like him and stuff. But what if hes not in my classes and i know hes not in clubs outside of school hes just in athletics and stuff but were in belles and beaux together but its like a feeling where u cant see him "not in your life" sorta thing and we talk sometimes and stuff but what can i do if hes not in any of my classes? Thanks

by TexasCutie08 on 8/8/2011 12:36:11 PM

omg this actually works!i did this stuff on two guys for practice and now they are head over heels!when i got back to school im going to try it on my crush. ;)

by musicgeneration on 8/4/2011 11:27:42 AM

by Balletgirl1198 on 8/3/2011 1:57:47 PM

Ouch. Personally, since you know how she feels about crushin' on an older sib, I think I'd probably try to let this one go. It's not like you could reason with her and tell her how your feelings for him don't change the way you feel about her - it sounds like she'd be really hurt by this. So try to keep in under wraps and, instead of telling her, tell another trustworthy friend or write about it in your diary. Work through your feelings and remind yourself that it's totally ok to like her brother even if you can't tell her, but that there are also lots of guys out there who could make you even happier! Though this situation could definitely turn out for the best, often crushes on older bros don't even turn into dating at all - so you could lose this friend over nothing, which would be a huge bummer

by la-ucy on 8/1/2011 7:37:33 PM

by lovelikemagic on 7/27/2011 8:13:24 PM

I have a crush on this boy who's in my class but i am worried that he doesn't like me because i am in top sets and also i am not really the most popular girl either! Help? What should i do?
By the way i have never had a boyfriend before and i am worried!!

by Moll06x on 7/26/2011 10:17:58 AM

by Bubbling Life on 7/25/2011 7:49:48 AM

MOD MOD MOD!!!!
me and my boyfriend had been secretly dating for a few months, after a while his parents found out and got mad, and told him he had to break up with me, instead we just called each other, and talke don facebook, after a bit they checked him email and facebook, and forbid communication with me, im 13, and he is 15, so its not like he is too young to date?!?!?! im confused, what i should do, i dont want to break up because i rlly do love him, so any advice? waht should i or he do? pls help, thank you

by uzbekistan on 7/25/2011 6:44:12 AM

hey! boys are fickle, he's probably just being spacey. so talk to him and rekindle the sparks  

by babygirl1265 on 7/22/2011 2:41:03 PM

by katiekat20 on 7/22/2011 12:58:22 AM

come join my club!!!

its called


need boys??

by Tres R on 7/18/2011 4:58:08 PM

I may go to a new school, and it's going to be so SAD if I leave my little town But new guys, if I move, I'll come back and remember these tips...thanks GL. *Cross fingers for cuties*

by MusicTaughtMeHowToLive on 7/16/2011 11:35:00 PM

My Crush doesnt text me Its kinda my fault though cuz when I went to my friends house (They're neighbors)
I left A note on his front door saying I hid in his closet kissed his teddy bear,Took his man panties,And sniffed his shirts and said they smell like lemons!!!! (YUM!)It also said: To Mr.Hottie which prob made him blush!!!! Oh Yah and in reading I made fun of his old man music he was listening toooooooooooooo!!!!! Hahahahaha Oh Welll

by 526love on 7/14/2011 11:23:20 PM

Ok so I got this really cute guy's number cause our science teach told him to text everyone reminder to bring something for class the next day. I've texted him before but it was only about a party me and this other girl were throwing but the whole class was invited. So it was no biggie. My BFF thinks he's weird and I don't know what to do. I really like him, I haven't seen him since school got out, and I've never been on a date before or been asked on one. What should I do?!?!?

by Artsygirl98 on 7/6/2011 11:24:34 PM

by bballrox21 on 7/5/2011 8:26:27 PM

MOD MOD MOD MOD!!! I have my crushes number and he dosnt know i have i how should i txt him!!! help please!!!

Hey babe. This depends on the situation. If you barely know the guy this might be a lil weird. If you feel comfortable telling him how you got the number that is probably a sign that its okay to go ahead.

by urheartismine2 on 7/5/2011 9:34:52 AM

by misssayles on 6/28/2011 1:43:29 AM

by rmr16 on 6/23/2011 2:27:51 PM

2. No its not weird at all. So dont worry 1. Talk to him! get to know him and establish a friendship. Things will happen from there. 

by PurplePearlVoice on 6/22/2011 9:53:18 PM

by fuzzybunny22 on 6/21/2011 11:29:28 PM

by warrior rose on 6/21/2011 3:41:45 PM

by warrior rose on 6/20/2011 11:15:58 AM

Well this is insulting. Almost all of these involve pretending you can't do something (ie playing dumb) to get a guy to like you! I'd like to see feminist version of icebreakers, please.

by TeslaGirl on 6/15/2011 10:20:04 PM

by chismiss on 6/14/2011 7:11:08 PM

i absolutely agree with this 100 ....well it helped me alot .its awesome

by delancy47 on 6/10/2011 5:19:43 AM

by Colierox on 6/8/2011 3:36:02 PM

Hey girlfriend, you guys could go to the movies, go skating, or grab a bite to eat. Do you like any of those ideas? Write me back!

by shrimpsauce on 6/4/2011 9:11:29 PM

Hey girlie--check out this article on confidence:http://www.girlslife.com/post/2010/08/17/i-want-more-confidence.aspx

by Angel07 on 6/3/2011 5:14:27 PM

by Scooby239 on 6/2/2011 9:14:47 PM

#75 would be so totally obvious!!! I thought it was gonna b like, he'll ask u who u like and u tell him. but no, ur seriously asking your crush for tips on how to flirt with him!

by girlsliferocksss98 on 6/1/2011 10:47:26 PM

Is it just me or do those kids look like they're in 2nd grade?

by girlsliferocksss98 on 6/1/2011 10:41:56 PM

There is a guy that I really like but I'm too shy to approach him. He's my neighbor and almost every time I try to go outside I see him with his friends. Sometimes I want to talk to him when I see him outside but I get too nervous. He usually waves and calls out my name but i try not to bring too much attention to myself. What should I do to start a conversation?

by bstep23 on 5/31/2011 6:51:49 PM

Hey girls! I just wanted to let you know that if you ever need advice about anything or just want someone to talk to when you're sad...I'm here. You can tell me anything...I promise I won't judge you. I'll help you figure everything out and help you to feel happy again

xoxo,
Maggie183<3

by maggie183 on 5/28/2011 8:23:07 AM

by emmamae55 on 5/26/2011 2:09:35 AM

by Aoife on 5/23/2011 2:16:02 PM

by Bee12 on 5/21/2011 3:02:55 PM

Theres this guy at school he is a year older then me and ive really liked him for a really long time now.Sometimes i see him stare at me when i pass him in the hall way.He also goes to my church but he only goes because of this popular girl in my grade invited him. He stares at me somtimes at church too.Ive never said "Hi" to him in my life. I really wish that i could somhow get to know him.HELP!

by Mawesome on 5/19/2011 6:18:16 PM

by drama318 on 5/16/2011 11:01:06 PM

hey! just remember how it was when you guys were pals and know you can be that way again  

by ilovepiano15 on 5/14/2011 10:09:43 PM

by heyheyitsbear on 5/14/2011 3:50:18 PM

Hey girlie -- use the time in which you do see him to speak to him, whether it be asking about him, his school or even the weather!

by katiekat228 on 5/13/2011 8:20:17 PM

Hay, girl if u go to his baseball game and he acts diffrent aruond u. From me he likes u, also i'd take it one step at a time.

by madness3699 on 5/8/2011 5:42:48 PM

Umm... what guys like girls who like there plates?

Btw: Go corny jokes!

by 25noodles on 5/7/2011 12:14:00 PM

@horseluver98
lol i was thinking the EXACT same thing when i read #59!!

by rach<3kampkohut on 5/4/2011 10:13:48 PM

by starrgirl130 on 5/2/2011 9:15:55 PM

by fuzzimonki on 5/1/2011 1:49:12 PM

It's always tough to decide if it's worth risking your friendship for something more. But if you DO like him and wanna take it to the next level, you'll always be wondering... and that could drive ya crazy! You really just have to weigh the pros and cons and be honest with yourself about how much you really like him. If you're crushin hard, it might be worth it to go for it Read these tips for figuring him out and good luck deciding what to do next <3

by hawtchik101 on 4/25/2011 11:55:33 PM

hey peeps. im in 6th grade and pretty popular in my opinion, and everyone has started dating. i am an african american girl in a mostly caucasian town, and my friends are pressuring me to date a popular african american guy. the only problem is, i kinda hate him! he insulted me when his friend put him on the spot, and i am too mortified to tell my friends abouth this awful experience.
ANOTHER CURVEBALL-i kinda am crushing on him, but how can i crush on a guy who hurt my feelings so much? HELP MEEEEEE!

by ChisMiss on 4/25/2011 4:37:44 PM