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I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO!! I am soo frusterated ok so heres the deal. I meet this guy at a church camp I go to and we hung out the whole camp week but my friend was kinda jelouse but I still hung out with him because its only 1 week right? And during the week I kinda got a hint that he liked me because he sat by me at dinner lunch and breakfast sometimes and moved closer to me when we were sitting next together. And then he asked to be my swimming buddy!! I was so HAPPY!! them at the end of the week he admitted that he (likes likes) me and gave me a stuffed animal monkey. I REALLY REALLY like him but I only have his address and I already sent a letter 2 months ago and no reply! does he still like me, is there another girl were he lives? Was he pretending PLEASE HELP ME I AM SO CONFUSED!

by lettmana on 8/4/2013 8:01:47 PM


I have a crush on this guy but I am not really sure if he likes me how to i tell without giving myself away?


Hey chica! Unfortunately, there's no way of knowing for sure! Sometimes guys are flirty and friendly if they like a girl, but some guys can be shy and a little awkward.  See if he treats you differently from other girls (like your friends or other girls in your class).  If he does, it may be a sign he likes you! Good luck! xoxo 

Kate G.

by katnissla13 on 8/2/2013 11:53:38 AM


So theres this boy I've been crushing on for about 2 months . Ive been making sure this is who i want to date . And I'm really shy . But my best friend made a bet with me to text him & it was summer . So i did the bet . So since that day we've been texting at least once every week . So he asked me "is it true that everyone says you like me" & i said yes . So he told me he has barely ever saw me . But my friend said that he told her that i was cute . So was he lying or was she lying ? But I'm afraid to talk to him when school starts back in person . & i never know what to say when we are texting each other . Any suggestions ?

by Ntari2 on 6/17/2013 1:11:12 AM


i became good friends with this guy last year and this year we went to the movies and bowling just us. he asked me to be his girlfriend over facebook and we get along really well. The thing is is that when we are at school its always extremely awkward and we are always uncomfortable to approach eachother or when we even start talking. Other girls talk to him and he doesnt always respond to my texts... i dont know what to do because neither of us have been in a relationship before but theres no one i'd rather date... please help me?


Hey lovemee123, I don't think he doesn't want to talk to you, he is just interested in a lot of girls, including you. So since he's not ready for anything serious, settle for just being his friend. I know it will be hard, but you can do it. There are no other cuties you're into? Xoxo Smile 

Lynae P.

by lovemee123 on 6/14/2013 5:12:47 PM


I'm in a really difficult situation with my love life. There's this guy that i'm interested in but we only have one class together .Since hes taking only gifted courses next year I wont be in any of his classes. However, he's called me cute and beautiful unintentionally and doesn't realize that when i playfully giggle, that i'm trying to hint that i like him. Unfortunately, one of the guys in our class likes me and keeps trying to push on me and i feel like my guy sees this, and feels like i might be disinterested since i let the guy that likes me get too close. That's not the case at all! I just really need advice on how to possibly pursue/ flirt better with him. The years almost over, and i really want to hang out with him over the summer. Do you know how i would be able to hint that i wanna hang out with him without being to obvious? Hope you get back to me because i'm really indecisive atm!!

by JojoR on 5/27/2013 6:49:22 PM


so I've liked this guy for two years and we've been in the same class both of those years. It started out as just a joke and then when May came we flirted super much and I guess he was going to ask me out on the last day of school, but I was at the airport so he couldn't. After that its been super hard trying to get back what we had, and now May is here and the same thing is starting to happen again. I want to go out with him but he sends me mixed signals and I've been told I do too. I really like him and it gets frustrating when we both care and like each other and the intensity is super much. What do I do before the year is over?

Hey girlie,

Are you able to hang out as friends over the summer? Maybe you could invite him to hang out with your friends in a group sometimes over the summer to keep getting to know him as friends and see how he acts around you, and then after that maybe you could hang out alone, too. If you do want to ask him out before the month ends, there's definitely no rule that guys have to ask out girls, so if you're sure you want to let him know how you feel, it's totally okay to go first. He might feel the same way, and if not, at least you won't have to see him for a few months!

Meghan D.

by casden on 5/10/2013 9:05:06 PM


1. Think of your crush.
2. Make a hand heart.
3. Kiss it.
4. Put it over your real heart.
5. Tomorrow your crush will ask you out. YAY! <3
6. This only works if you post this on your favorite article

by jillybean1998 on 3/23/2013 11:19:16 AM


HELP! So there's this really cute guy I mean really cute but he's always full of him self and his looks really don't match his personality. He was mean to me on the past be I belive that people can change. now days be can be nice and he can be mean. my best friend also likes him and we both have since the beginning of 6th grade basiclly and it's hard because he flirts with both of us and we both want him to only like us but its hard cause were best friends. then there's this other girl he met from a different school and he always talks about her to us! is he trying to make jelous! he hasn't told us but I'm pretty sure he knows we like him... but good thing he doesn't make things akward or ovious! anyway it's hard to like him because our other friends don't like him because he's a mean guy so the disapprove of us likeing him the other day my friend told me to stop flirting with him. is this because she doesn't want me to like him or is she jealous? please respond! anythjng helps!!

by gymnasticsgurl29 on 1/13/2013 9:56:55 PM


1. Think of your crush.
2. Make a hand heart.
3. Kiss it.
4. Put it over your real heart.
5. Tomorrow your crush will ask you out. YAY! <3
6. This only works if you post this on your favorite article.

by Nikkibaby71410 on 1/10/2013 3:00:19 AM


Alright so I already said this but what are some things I should text him? He likes basketball... and are there some flirting tips? And finally: I'm usually really hyper and I'm afraid I'm annoying when I text him because he replies with one word and never texts me first. I just need help!!

Hey girl,

If he doesn't text you first, maybe you could take a break from texting and try talking to him in person. The Ice Breakers link includes tons of flirting tips, but the most important thing is to just be yourself! If you let your personality shine through you will be more comfortable in conversation with him. If he likes basketball, maybe you could go to one of his games (and then tell him how great he was afterward!). If you have a class together, you could talk about that or even study together. You could also talk about school or TV...once you start a casual conversation, it will flow naturally!

Meghan D.

by goofyball2246 on 11/23/2012 11:13:10 PM


I REALLY like this gug and hes super nice and all but the problem is my parants dont let me date. how can i tell her?


Hey btr211233, maybe if your parents are introduced to him, they may change their minds. Also let them know that you two will only be friends, nothing serious. Hope this helps! Xoxo 

Lynae P.

by btr211233 on 11/16/2012 12:40:53 AM


on my computer some of the words on the right are cut of how do i retrieve them. thanks MOD MOD MOD MOD

Hey girl,

I would try refreshing the page or maximizing the window, but I'm not sure exactly what you mean since I can't see your screen, so I would ask a parent to help!

Meghan D.

by hgrules on 10/20/2012 9:23:48 PM


Sorry I'm posting this but I want to all I can to get crush to like me

1. Think of your crush
2. Make a heart with your hands
3. Kiss the heart
4. Put the heart where your real heart is
Tomorrow your crush will ask you out
This will only work if you post this on your favorite article

by lol154 on 10/9/2012 7:31:08 PM


There's this boy that I like and I got my friend which is his cosion to ask if he likes me he told her no but a few days later i got someone he didnt know and I got him to ask and this time he said kinda... kinda?! I asked him what he meant he said im funny cute does that mean he likes me or not?

by lol154 on 10/9/2012 7:23:41 PM


this article is my favorite one

by amyrose125 on 9/28/2012 9:51:09 AM


Sorry I'm posting this but I want to all I can to get crush to like me

1. Think of your crush
2. Make a heart with your hands
3. Kiss the heart
4. Put the heart where your real heart is
Tomorrow your crush will ask you out
This will only work if you post this on your favorite article Smile

To DestinyStar1517 yeah he totally likes you!!! You are so lucky! No guys are like that about me... Frown ive been reading all the flirting tips I can!

by turnonthemusic1 on 9/18/2012 3:58:58 PM


So there's a guy I've been friends with for 3 years. This year we've become extremely close, and he tells me everything, even more stuff than he tells his guy friends! Well, anyways. Every single day for like 3 weeks straight in our 7th hour he tells me I have pretty eyes. He even said they were a prettier blue than the sky. And a few days ago, he told me I was looking cute that day. He is a bit of a flirt, though. Like 15 people have told me that he likes me, but I don't see it. I actually think he likes my other friend that's in our 7th hour. He calls me, FaceTimes me, and tries to come over a lot. What do I do?!? I'm so confused!!

by sailordowden on 9/12/2012 5:22:02 PM


mkay so i like this guy who use to be a junior and i was an 8th grader bout months ago and he started explaining to me bout the highschool i was going to and ever since then i liked him. now im a freshmen and he's now a senior. i dont think he remembers me, but i had the courage to said "hi" to him and wave and he waved and smiled back and went to his car and now i really really like him more than before and im wondering if i just keep saying 'hi' to him? but he keeps hanging out with this girl but its not his gf i know that, and i really dont like saying hi to people when they r with someone so what should i do to be his friend??? Just to be his friend is all i want. PLEASE HELP D:

by DemDem4Life on 9/8/2012 4:15:52 PM


so there is this guy that i like in my science class. the other day he was wearing a purple flannel shirt so i was like like "nice shirt" he was like "thanks'' so then next day i was wearing a hot pink hollister shirt and he was being a smart elech and he goes "nice shirt i like it" and he started laughing we talk sometimes alone while we are walking to the busses (we dont ride the same bus, tho) and he is nice. My friend Julian says he is respectful to the girls he dates and he no's how to treat a girl.. which makes me like em even more...... so should i make a move... if so.. wat move!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! please helpp! do u think he likes me???


Hey southerngirlswagg, yeah he sounds like he could like you. Start convos with him in class and ask him about different things, like his other classes and interests he has. Take it slow and continue getting to know him. Hope this helps! Xoxo 

Lynae P.

by southerngirlswagg on 9/2/2012 7:03:55 PM


I really really like this guy. I have liked him since the first day we met. However, I was convinced he liked my best friend. But just recently, we have been texting a lot and he has been dropping confusing signs. He came to hang out on a friday night, and through text, he asked if he could call it a date. Then we hung out on Friday with my cousin, my best friend, and his friend, but he stayed right next to me all night and we kept looking at each other and smiling. He also offered me a snack and no one else. He also kept moving me out of the way when we walked by sprinklers. At the end of the night, he only hugged me and none of his other friends when he left. I sent him goodnight right at the exact moment he sent the very same message. WHAT DO I DO? I have butterflies and I am not entirely sure if he likes me, or is playing with my emotions, because I thought he liked my friend, but he actually ignored her all night. I'M CONFUSED! Do I ask him out, or see if he asks me? Please help!!

by DestinyStar1517 on 8/25/2012 3:00:00 PM


I met a guy at a party and we hit it off and kissed at the end of the night. We then texted all of yesterday (the day after the party) and I really like him but am not sure if he actually likes me or was just playing me. And what does it mean when a guy calls you "extremely good looking" instead of pretty or hot???

Hey girl,

If he talked to you at the party and the day after, he probably likes you! And pretty and hot aren't the only words guys can say to girls -- if he said you were good looking, that's a great compliment and sounds even better than pretty or hot! If he's a nice guy, give him a chance! It sounds like you both really like each other Smile

Meghan D.

by rae117 on 8/24/2012 8:55:25 PM


Mod. Mod mod mod mod mod ok I need your help I really like this guy he is Blondel with blue eyes and his name is Jeffrey but I just met him Monday today is Thursday and we are in the same guitar class and everytime the teacher says something Jeffrey looks at me and smiles so I smile back. We have talked to each other before and I have a small crush on him but idk if he likes me back and we only sit a few chairs away from each other. What do I do??????????

Hey girlie,

Definitely try to talk to him when you get the chance so you can both get to know each other better! If you grow closer as friends, it'll be way easier to figure out if he likes you, if you have a shot, if you have enough in common, etc. Check out these articles for tips on how to do it! Smile
Lauren C.

by larriah12 on 8/23/2012 5:36:01 PM


I have had a little crush on this guy for a while now. We talk quite a bit and he is rally funny and so so sweet but he is also very shy. He is home schooled but I see him all year because we are both distance runners so I see him all summer and after school but just not during the day. I am not a very good flirter especially since he is really shy. I don't know what to say to possibly spark an interest in me. I would also love to start hanging out but I don't know how to ask him if he wants to. Any advice??


Hey chica! Since you both run, ask him to go for a un for you on the weekend and ask if he wants to grab a smoothie after.  If he's shy, you need to be a little more forward, so don't be afraid to make the move and ask him to hang- he might really appreciate it! xoxo 

Kate G.

by immarunner1881 on 8/21/2012 1:17:36 AM


So I really like this one guy. I met him at a camp this summer, and was really close with him for 2 weeks. Except the camp was in a different state, that is really far away. I understand there is no possible way to date him, and that it is illogical to still like him a month later. We occasionally text. If nothing else happens I still want to stay close friends with him. What should I do???? I don't want to look desperate by texting him 24/7, but I don't want to lose all contact with him either!! Please help me!!??!!?!?!?!
Thank You!!!!!

Hey girlie,

Just keep it casual! You're right, you shouldn't be texting him 24/7 - but you don't need to be texting constantly to stay friends. Try adding him on Facebook if you have one. Send a text, message, or email once a week and just say something like - "Hey! How have you been?" or "Hey! What's up?" Catch up every few days, so you always have something to talk about and you don't come on too strong. Over time, your friendship will develop if it's meant to be! Smile 
Lauren C.

by Katiew on 8/16/2012 6:42:50 PM


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by camigal on 8/4/2012 4:40:14 PM


omg i love this article so much!

by quiggledoodler2000 on 7/31/2012 6:21:07 PM


omg love this!!!!!!

by quiggledoodler2000 on 7/31/2012 6:17:52 PM


ok so I realllly like this one guy, and we have a bunch of mutual friends, and he compliments me all the time, and one of our friends told me that he was going to ask me out on the first day of school this year! but my mom says i'm not 'emotionally ready' to date about the rumors being spread about me, but I know I can handle it! how can I convince her to let me date???

Hey Girl!

Your problem is a common one. Maybe you and your mom can strike a compromise. He can come over for an afternoon or group dates but no solo trips to the movies. Maybe then she'll warm up faster to the idea. Ultimately, try and respect her opinion. 

best of luck!  
simone s.

by emonade on 7/31/2012 4:25:37 PM


1. Think of your crush.
2. Make a hand heart.
3. Kiss it.
4. Put it over your real heart.
5. Tomorrow your crush will ask you out. YAY! <3
6. This only works if you post this on your favorite article.


by windheart13 on 7/31/2012 12:30:39 AM


Hey gals!
any questions on crushes, guys or anything else for that matter, don't hesitate to ask me! i would love to answer any question you might have! just look up advice queen sunbreath and ask away! ttyl!

by Sunbreath on 7/25/2012 3:22:54 PM


plz read and respond!!! So theres this one guy who i met at a soccer camp. Turns out he goes to my school, and he obviously has a bunch of the same interests as me. We talked a lot and on the last day I asked him for his #. So now we text... and I really want to see him again... but not alone. I want to have a BBQ with some of my friends and invite him... but idk if my parents will let me have a co-ed party, even with only about 10 people. Even if im allowed, will it be pointless if he says he cant go? i dont know what to do next!!! someone plz help me!!!

by minimunchkin1 on 7/21/2012 8:47:08 PM


My crush and I are musicians and I would love to express my feelings toward him in music. How do I do it?


Hey girl!

That's easy...write him a song!!! Whether you're singing or just playing on an instrument, a song can convey all sorts of feelings and emotions to your crush. Don't write an obvious "I love you" kind of song, but write a somewhat vague song that subtly implies your feelings for him. Don't go too Taylor Swift-y when expressing your feelings for the first time. 

Catherine C.

by luvleylady13 on 7/20/2012 12:09:50 PM


Okay, I've been reading other comments On this article asking for advice with their crush. I'm asking that too but it's different. We have math together, and my math teacher is one of those teachers tht is NOT strict and u can get off doing anything. Also we sit wherever we want at desks ad we can drag them in whatever groups we want each day. In math, me an my friends are crazy and funny and always talk and I can't really explain but we r the "stars", I guess, of the class, mostly me being crazy, but my crush DEFINITELY knows me. Not to be conceited but like everyone at school knows me for being funny and easygoing and friends with like everyone. Plus my crush and I talk alot in other classes too. My math teacher always teases us that we like eachother and we always deny it, but I'm wonDering if he likes me too. All my friends and some ppl I'm not tht close with tell me omg he was flirting w u today! Even without knowin I like him. Does he like me? How do I get his #?


Hey chica!  Ask for his number, if other people think he's flirting, he probably is.  Ask if he wants to study together for your next test and if he says yes, ask him for his phone number so you can text to figure out a time.  Good luck!   

Kate G.

by SuperJaguarr! on 7/17/2012 12:00:16 PM


Hi your cute! Im Amanda, you should try to get to know me. wow!!! cute and funny!!! i could see me just doing that randomly know ahhhhh.... perfect

by <3AliceC on 7/14/2012 12:52:54 PM


help!!!! i feel like whenever im going out with someone i like someone else. am i a player or is it normal? what should i do?

by savvypace1 on 7/13/2012 6:09:03 PM


Help please!!!!!! There is this guy I have been liking since the beginning of last school year. He is going into his senior yr (17 yrs old) and I'm going into my sophomore yr (15 yrs old). Recently I have noticed him trying to talk to me a little more. So I decided to take the opportunity to ask him for some help with a rap that I'm writing! And he got really excited and said yes. Then my friend asked him if he would ever date a 15 year old and he said of course! I was wondering how I could get his number because I get really shy around him and freeze up and how to eventually tell him I like him? Please help! Thanks!

by Dancingchickrox on 7/11/2012 1:30:49 AM


83. Next time you see your crush, give him one long glance in his direction. Make sure to make eye contact for a good three seconds then look away.
Just earlier today my crush did this so i did it back. We were at the pool and i was in a place where only my friends and i were for that day and he kept looking at me then looking away. I did it back and it showed me he might like me!

by radiogirl on 7/9/2012 9:11:14 PM


Help! I used to sit by my crush in homeroom. We would talk whenever we could and do really stupid things to make each other laugh. He was totally turning into my BGF. Then one day we were talking to much and my teacher moved him away from me! He pays no attention to me now. He doesn't even look at me when I pass him in the hallway! It's like when he moved seats he forgot everything we had done together. How do I get his attention again?

by turnonthemusic1 on 7/8/2012 5:10:19 PM


I am moving schools, and the guy that I like is going to a different school, but I still want to stay in touch, but how???

by scruffythecrow on 7/2/2012 12:42:21 PM


1. Think of your crush
2. Make a heart with your hand
3. Kiss the heart
4. Put the heart over your real heart
Your crush will ask you out tomorrow but only if you post this to your favorite article.

by drama_mama12 on 7/2/2012 12:20:01 AM


1. Think of your crush
2. Make a heart with your hands
3. Kiss your hand heart
4. Put it where the real heart is
5. Your crush will ask you out tomorrow
6. This only works if you post it on your favorite article

by myth_lover on 6/27/2012 7:24:55 PM


how do you text a guy who you had your first kiss with and have broken up over a year ago, but its obvious we both have feelings for eachother???? PLEASE HELP ME!!!

Hey girl!

The best thing you can do is just text him! Something as simple as saying "Hey! What's up?" or starting off with a little something you two have in common can get the conversation going. And when the time is right, I think you should totally tell him you still have feelings for him. You'll never know how he feels if you don't say something. You can never regret telling people how you feel.  
Rachael A.

by vballluver17 on 6/22/2012 2:10:21 PM


What should you do if you like someone that is a 4 year age difference than you, you don't want to date but are scared f rumors and what people will think. Should you keep it a secret?


Hey girl! I would turn to the BFF on this one. A 4 year age difference is pretty big, especially for younger girls. Even talking to a trusted adult like your mom might be helpful. They should have a lot of good advice on what to do, especially since you know you don't want to date. 

Catherine C.

by tickytack on 6/22/2012 2:37:28 AM


I REALLY like this boy thats in some of my classes. School is practically over now, and we're gonna be seniors next year. I want to go to prom with him, and I don't think he has a date. But what I really want to do is ask him out. We talk a little bit, and it's friendly conversation, and I try to find ways to talk/hang out with him. I don't want it to be weird around us if I ask him out, and I'm afraid of him rejecting me. I was thinking of waiting till next year, and maybe trying to flirt more to see what happens (im really shy) but I'm not sure. This uneasiness makes me want to do nothing about it! But I like him so much, I don't know what to do. Please help? Thanks!

Hey girly! Rather than flat out ask him to prom, I'd work on getting closer to this guy. Talk to him, and invite him to hang out in a group sometime. Maybe, a group trip to the movies, or somewhere fun this summer. The more you talk to him and get to know him, the better chance he'll have to see how awesome you are!

Becca G.

by sweetari95 on 6/17/2012 10:41:16 PM


Okay well, I really like this guy and we text each other sometimes, and when i was texting him today he said " so who do you like" and i said ' well this may be kind of awkward but .. you. So who do you like?" and he was like " i knew you liked me for a while but i just wanted to hear you say it for real, oh and no-one" and the i said "Ohh" and he said " yea, sorry , i mean i kind of like you but its summer so nothing is going to happen" What should I do? i might not go to that school next year either because we are moving. i just really need help!

by Keilei12 on 6/17/2012 6:19:16 PM


1. Think of your crush
2. Make a heart with your hands
3. Kiss your hand heart
4. Put it where the real heart is
5. Your crush will ask you out tomorrow
6. This only works if you post it on your favorite article

by toribear101 on 6/12/2012 8:20:57 PM


i like my best friend and now he is moving away to a different school because he moved to a different house he finished the rest of the year at my school and i didnt even tell him goodbye! hes been my crush scince he started talking to me in 4th grade then on the bus he decided to switch seats to sit with me sometimes on a bad day he would sit across. does he like me? i cant stop thinking about him!

by jhutchersonfan on 6/11/2012 8:54:53 PM


I went to school with this guy in fourth and fifth grade. We talked alot (he even let me and one of my friends paint his nails, fof fun ;D) Now we are in the sixth grade and we don't even talk. I see him every once in a while in the hall ways, but we still don't talk! One day I was wearing a boot cuz I had just broke my foot, and he said something about it, and I squeaked a reply. It was embarassing! I don't know how but I have started to like him. But I heard some rumors that he is going out with some girl! What do I do????

Hey Girly!

It's no fun when we lose touch with good friends. Try reconnecting! You have a crush on him now which will make it harder to talk to him than before. Remember, you got along before so you don't need to be shy now. Approach him in the halls and bring up some old memories then tell him you would love to catch up sometime. Find out if he has a girlfriend, and if he does you'll have to wait your turn. Start out as friends. 

Marisa D.

by unicornmagic123 on 6/5/2012 4:39:23 PM


My friend and I have been BFFs since we were like 4 or 5 yrs old. She knows who I like and she says he's bad news because he called her sister some really ugly words. This was a while ago. I still really like him though. Is that bad??? I want to confront him about what he said to her sis but idk if that's the smartest idea...what should I do?

by BeachBarbie on 6/5/2012 11:57:36 AM


Need advice?? well im always willing to help! Smile

by cc-time on 6/5/2012 10:19:03 AM


Okay,It's 2 days before school ends, new school and all, but I found this guy that I like. We kind of had a rough start, but afterwards, I showed an interest, and he texts me every single day. I asked him if he liked me, and he said as a friend, and then asked me. I told him that I did like him. He flirts with me in a subtle way, and I kind of flirt, but we don't really talk or hang out at school. So, my question being, does he like me? And should I try and flirt with him a little more?

by Kristle on 5/30/2012 11:14:49 PM


Hey, I have this monstrous issue. I have a crush! I had a dance with my class and he was my first slow dance. I tried to get his number but choked and asked my friend for his. She gave me his and she gave him mine. I am afraid to text it because it has been a while since I got him number and I just really want him to text me! But idk what to do. HELP! I have lunches with him and my friend but I don't really say much around him. And I read about this eye contact thing online and i realized we do a lot of eye contact flirting but not talking flirting. And I am super shy and he is the shy conservative type soo... And we don't have any classes together but I want him to at least know how I feel about him before school lets out next Friday. And I don't want to put him on the spot, either. And I know that texting is suppose to be low key but it makes me nervous. Someone, advice please!!

by cutieford87 on 5/30/2012 8:34:52 PM


MOD MOD MOD MOD!!!!!!!!!!
ok so i like this kid in my science class and about a month ago my teacher changed seats and i got to sit right next to him. we would always talk in class and he always insisted on sharing his textbook. i was so happy until my other friend who also likes him ( she doesnt know i like him )kept giving me a death glare in class. my other friend also wanted to switch seats with him so she could sit next to him. she lied to the teacher complaining that she couldnt see the board so my crush and he switched seats. im so upset now because i missed a great oppertunity to get to know this kid and now i think he thinks that i dont like him. i regret this so much and i dont know what to do. i guess i will just have to hope he will sit next to me next year. uggg im so upsett
what should i do
help me

Hey babe,

What's to say that you two can't still talk even though your not sitting next to each other anymore?  Make him your partner on the next group project, walk with him before or after class, maybe even snag his number for help on homework one night.
Jordan S.

by wowza13579 on 5/26/2012 6:37:01 PM


Hey A7xisAmazing, thanx girly glad I could help! Smile

Thanks Lynae! You're awesome. (: By the way, your name is so pretty! Lynae P.

by A7XisAmazing on 5/26/2012 1:28:15 PM


Hey A7xisAmazing, oh this boy defintely likes you! No need to be shy. Remember this guy feels the same way about you. So it won't hurt to flirt a little. Let him know you like him too. But so far it sounds like you're doing a good job. Xoxo

I am soo confused. I met this guy and everyones telling me he likes me, but idk! I told him he should text me, so he asked for my number and texted me. We were joking around about if we could beat each other up, and he kept saying "dear" and "sweetie" but idk if he was just joking around. He doesn't text me first though, but he said he always feels like hes bothering people. He drove me home from school yesterday, and i told him he had road rage and later i saw he tweeted "Apparently i have a bit of road rage(:" He also said hed pick me up in between exams next week so we can hang out. Sometimes i would catch him staring at me at lunch. We sit at the same table, but dont really talk because my ex sits there and theyre friends. Also, Im super shy around him. How do i stop?? Thanks in advance (: Lynae P.

by A7XisAmazing on 5/26/2012 1:20:16 PM


I like this kid in my school and so does my best friend. i didn't tell her because i dont tell anyone anything! and so i got his # from her because i just said that i needed the science hw and he is in my class. i got it but i still havent texted him. he doesnt know that i have his #. should i text him or give him my # first?
i dont know what to do
thanks for much


hey! You're welcome! go ahead and text him, it'll be a subtle hint that you like him without having to say it Smile 

Helen S.

by wowza13579 on 5/25/2012 6:52:59 PM


1.think of your crush
2.make a heart with your hands
3.this kiss your hand while still making a heart
4.then put the heart where your real heart is
5.tomorrow your crush will ask you out
6.this will only work if you post this on your favorite article

by bostonbaby on 5/25/2012 3:46:40 PM


OkAy so I don't like him but I'm attracted to him. He got really mad at me because supposedly I was talking crap and then he ignored me for three months and I ignored him. But then three months of ignoring he starts bothering me,,, he starts messing up my hair and making comments like " your phones falling out" or " can you move a little faster?" and then he just laughs about it after like if he's playing around. So I just wanna know. What's his problem? Does he wanna be friends again? Does he like me?

by Opensesame101 on 5/25/2012 3:35:40 PM


my crush (Maliki) walks by my house after his football practice, but he knows i like him. He flirts with me a lot but he doesnt like me that way. How can i give him my # without embarassing myself in front of his friends? Please reply asap and thanks in advance

Hey girl!

Hmm, are you sure he doesn't like you that way? If you are, then you don't need to give him your number. Give him some space. If you want to be friends, start making simple conversations when he walks by your house. Maybe it will turn into something else. Then you can get his digits.

Marisa D.

by YayaYuiki on 5/24/2012 12:57:30 PM


Dear glamgirl7,
I toats know how you feel.It is really hard to figure out that your guy friend likes you... just be a fan on my advice queen page and I will soooo help you!
baby bugs

by baby bugs on 5/23/2012 4:13:21 PM


I'm totally going to try number 41! brilliant!! and 53, prefect!! i get to stare in his eyes and him in mine but not in an awkward way!!

by ckemp on 5/21/2012 6:36:20 PM


there's this guy in my class, and I just found out he likes me! But I only like him as a friend, and now it's all awkward and I'm scared to talk to him now, knowing that if one thing comes out wrong, I may give him a false impression. We have a 3-night 4-day trip to Ottawa coming up, and there's a dance on the last night there. I'm worried he'll ask me- I don't feel comfortable saying yes, but everyone is saying I should accept to be nice! The thing is, I'd feel reall weird, and everyone would tease me and stuff. What do I do?
P.S. I'm in the 7th grade (13 yrs) and I've danced with a guy before.

by glamgirl7 on 5/21/2012 8:17:08 AM


wow! over 500 comments! thanks for the tips!

by ego4fashion on 5/21/2012 2:23:42 AM


Theres this guy that i like and I need to know if he likes me. I didn't really know him untill like 2 weeks ago. One day he sat next to me and untied both my shoes and then tied my shoelaces together. I laughed and he smiled at he and me said well gotta go and walked away. Then me and a few of my friends were playing Red light green light (we were REALLY bored) and he came over and pushed me so that I stumbled but didn't fall. Then I was playing volleyball with one of my friends and he joined us. My friend ended up playing basketball with another girl and me and my crush were playing with just us and when his friend tried to join in he got kinda angry and he told him to go away. And btw he doesn't know how to hit a volleyball. At all. But anyway I want to know if you think he likes me and if you think he does, what should I do??? There's only 4 days of school left!!! And I don't even have any classes with him!!!! Help!!!!.

by Gracie254Q on 5/17/2012 10:03:51 PM


I have a guy that I like and I think that he likes me and I tried to spice it up by flirting a little but he still won't make the move. I tried asking my guys friends and they said the wait and I'm getting mad because he isn't doing anything!!!!! What should I do?

by samo11 on 5/12/2012 8:27:25 PM


MODMODMODMODMODMODMODMODMODMODMODMODMODMODMODDMODMODMODMOD!!!!!!!!!!There is this guy... I have a crush on... no one, NO ONE, knows... He is one of the populars and I'm obviously one of
the ugly losers....... but... this may mean nothing, but it meant a lot to me. He said, "Hey [my name]" when we were walking side by side to our 5th hour. You know, it excited me cause he actually talked to me... sad, right? Basically hes surrounded by all his guy friends, all the time, ht sometimes when we pass and its just me and him (rarely ever happens) he will say hi to me. Exciting for me. I just want a way to break the ice and... get a way for him to like me. He has dated all the pretty girls in the school- or asked- but never me... he asks so many 'cute' girls out in front of everyone and it seems like a joke when the girl says no. I want a way to tell him I love him, but I'm uber-shy and I cant confront. I'm only 12, turning 13 in August. Am I to young to date?

Hey girlie,

This isn't sad at all! He wouldn't say hi to you for no reason! We can't know for sure exactly how he feels since we don't know him, but it means he wants to talk to you - and that's awesome Smile The "right" age to date is different for everyone, so take this slow and make sure it feels right before you jump into it. Try talking to him more often (texting, online, in person) and getting to know him as a friend. Ease into it and become closer over time. Then you can get a sense of how he feels about you - and figure out when the time would be right to spill the beans about your feelings Smile 
Lauren C.

by napstarr on 5/10/2012 9:44:07 PM


Hey guys. This boy asked me to go to our spring dance with him. I like him a lot and am good friends with him- we have a lot in common. I don't like him as anything more than a friend, but I'd like to go the dance with him as friends. I don't want to give him the wrong impression! What should I say?

by penguin995 on 5/7/2012 5:32:39 PM


MOD HELP SO IM IN 5 GRADE AND WHEN I WAS ABOUT 5 I USED TO HAVE A CRUSH HE DIDNT LIKE ME THAT MUCH NOW I LOOK BACK AT THAT AND I THINK that i was silly and i got into love thing too early now my friend just told me she has a crush shes in 5th grade too should i get back into love thing agin or should i wait until im older i dont want to be 14 and think wow i was so silly to get a crush or boyfriend help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Hey girlie,

I think the best way to do this is to NOT think about it so much. Sure, it'd be great if we could plan out every part of our lives, decide when we loved someone and when we didn't, etc. But that's not realistic! It's better to go with the flow and take things as they come. Don't force yourself to find a crush, just because you're in 5th grade and your friends are crushing on boys. But also don't avoid crushes either, if you find yourself falling for a guy. Let things happen naturally and if you're meant to get back into the love thing, you will! Smile Be open to new chances at love and see where life takes ya! 
Lauren C.

by chocolatehorse on 5/5/2012 10:33:59 PM


Ok, so there's this one boy I've liked for about 2 years. Everything was perfect and I thought he liked me too. But then one day in my one class I was talking about him with my friends and they told me he knows that I like him. My enemy had told him and I had never even told her or any of her friends. So I thought that my one friend had told him but she said she didn't. I didn't believe her because she lies to me all the time. But then the next day my crush texted me saying that it was my enemy that told him. I didn't know what to say because he just admitted that he knows. So he texted me the same thing 12 more times in a row and that made me cry. I finally texted him and said "I'm sooo sorry. I know you hate me." He said he didn't and we can still be friends but everytime I'm around him I hide behind my friend. I can't get over him and IDK what to do!!! HELP!!!!!

Hey girlie,

You need to relax, babe! This is not the end of the world! You've liked him for a long time, so it was bound to happen that he found out eventually. But he knows about the crush and he's still talking to you - and even said he wanted to still be friends. So take a deep breath and stop letting him see how embarrassed it makes you! Fake the confidence until you really feel it. Act normal around him - be laid back, chat like you would with any other friend, and don't freak out. The best way to get everything back to normal is to treat him as a friend and remind yourself that you have nothing to be ashamed about. You definitely shouldn't be hiding behind your friend - you did nothing wrong and he didn't even freak out when he found out, so you shouldn't freak either Smile
Lauren C.

by hockeychic72 on 5/3/2012 7:29:57 PM


School's almost over and I wanted to tell my crush that I have a crush on him. Should I? Long story short I think he likes me too. I'm not sure of I want to exactly date yet. So is it okay if I tell him that I like him? It would be like the third or second to last day of school. I really don't want this year to end!


I suggest you ask him to tell you a secret. Its my patented technique and almost always has good results. So ask him to tell you a secret and see what he says. Promise him a secret if he tells you one. Also if you end up telling him i suggest you act super casual about it. Dont act like it will be the end of the world if he doesnt like you back (cuz its not) but just act casual about it. Good luck!! xoxo kerra 

Kerra S.

by Gabriella123 on 5/2/2012 9:06:00 PM


I sit next to this guy in 3 classes. We kissed over the summer, but it never turned into anything. The other day, though, we were playing this game that we always play which is basically steal-each-other's-stuff-till-the-teacher-gets-mad. I took his watch, he ask for it back, and I said "What's the magic word?" trying to be funny and looking for an answer like Harry Potter or something. He tried please, I said no, and then he goes"I love you?" Stunned by these particular "magic words" I gave the watch back and stuttered that it wasn't what I was looking for but that it would work. He told me later he didn't mean anything by it, and was blushing furiuosly. Should I take it seriously or just forget about it?

Hey girl,

It would probably be way easier to laugh it off! You could take it super seriously or pretend it didn't mean anything, but the best thing to do is something in between. This "game" you play is kinda flirty, so the "I love you" was probably also just a flirty thing to say. We can't know exactly what he meant by it, so don't let it freak you out and try not to assume he meant something really serious. (If he did mean it, you'll know because he'll keep flirting, talking to you, getting to know you, etc.) Treat him like you normally would the next time you see him - play the game, flirt, laugh, stay calm, and don't be awkward. That's the best way to act after he dropped the L bomb Smile 
Lauren C.

by chitownaussie on 4/28/2012 9:50:54 PM


MOD i am kind of cross eyed well only one of them is. and there is this boy lets call him tony and he gives me mixed signals. like one day he's always like flirting and playing with me and looking at me up and down. then another day he's like all quiet and not talking to me. we only have 3rd period together so what it mean and does like me or not


hey! It's hard to tell without asking him but just smile and be friendly toward him and see what happens ; 

Helen S.

by tsmacklin on 4/20/2012 8:22:56 PM


Im in 6th grade and i really like this guy. He lives behind me but we are both to shy to go close to each other or even talk! We have liked each other since last year but im not sure if i should ask him out, or if i should wait for him to ask me out! I want to text him and talk you him more but he doesnt have a phone! I really like this gjy and i even dream about him every night! Pleasee help!!!

by Polkazebra99 on 4/18/2012 8:03:04 AM


MOD MOD MOD I like this guy, and he barely knows who i am. We used to talk a little on Facebook, but then one of my friends told other people i like him, and they asked him if he thought i was hot, he said yes, but then he unfriended me and we havent talked since. He recently asked out one of my friends, but she said no, but he still likes her. How can i get him to fall in love with me, like i fell in love with him?

Uh-oh, babe, it doesn't sound to good.  The way he unfriended you is actually really rude, and I don't think he handled the situation well at all.  It sounds like he may not be interested, especially not if he's still crushing on this other girl.

You can't force feelings, but you can try to move on or befriend him and see if you can get close.
Jordan S.

by Pinkfoo on 4/14/2012 1:48:27 PM


So i like twin boys that are 2 years older than me. And I swear that at least one of them likes me back. One of them winked at me on Valentine's day and the other one said hi to me once and he smiles at me all of the time. I really don't know what to do! It's almost the end of the school year and next year they won't be going to the same school. HELP!!!!!!!

Hey girl! The thing with twins is that you have to pick just one. And sometimes that can be the hardest part. Chat it up with one of them and see how it goes, but make sure that you end up picking the right one, especially if they are identical.  
Ana D.

by SarJJ on 4/13/2012 11:34:59 AM


So I'm in seventh grade and I've liked this guy in eighth grade all year. A friend of mine gave me his number ( they do swim together ) and I finally texted him on Friday night ( my friends threatened to do it while I was sleeping if I didn't ) and we had like a twenty minute conversation through texting. Its Spring Break right now, and we go back on Tuesday. What should i say to him, if anything? I realllllllyyyyyy like him!

Hey girl,

That's awesome! You took that first scary step and texted for the first time - so pat yourself on the back for making the first move Smile On Tuesday, try giving him a smile and saying a casual "Hey" when you see him in the hallway. If you're in the lunch line together or see him walking after school, make some small talk and keep it laid-back. The important thing is to act normal and not awkward, so he feels comfy around you and looks forward to talking to you - in person or through text. Over time, you can text him again and start talking about deeper things (likes, dislikes, hobbies, family, friends). You'll get to know him even better so your convos in person will get better too!
Lauren C.

by Apple <3 on 4/8/2012 6:11:17 AM


I dont really like any of the guys at my school...most of them are jerks, and the ones Im friend with I dont like. What are some places to meet cool guys my age (8th grade) outside of school?

Hey girlie,

Try joining a town sport or theater, getting a part time job, meeting some of your friends' friends that go to other schools, joining a church youth group, hanging out at a town pool/park/mall, going to the movies, etc. It's all about being out-going and speaking up - introduce yourselves if the moment seems right and see how it goes!
Lauren C.

by summergirl21 on 4/5/2012 4:54:15 PM


amazing it worked

by Mimi11 on 3/24/2012 9:18:28 PM


Hey taytay1212, it could be two things. Maybe he's not sure you like him. Have you made it clear you're interested? Or he could be waiting for you to make the first move. Hope this helps! Xoxo

I am positively, absolutely sure that this guy likes me... I know this because he has told me. We text and talk all the time, but he wont ask me out. Whats going on????? Lynae P.

by taytay1212 on 3/24/2012 2:32:27 PM


I really really reallly really want a phone, but my mom say i cant get one till i need one. How can i convince her?

Hey girl,

Unless you really need one, your mom might have a point. Do you have a reason you need one, like you have to spend time alone after school and feel unsafe, or need to call her to pick you up sometimes? Try coming up with a reason you might actually need one and you'll be more likely to convince her!

Meghan D.

by raeshrimp on 3/23/2012 9:54:15 PM


Hey gurlys out there
tomarrow me and my friends r making a statement
Hurls r always getting in trouble for there bra straps showing
So why not guys why do they get to have dropout pants and boxers showing
tomarrow the 21st wear depopulate pants with boxers showing
Don't 4 get to notifly ur bff's and post everywhere u can think of
hope u c this soon

by ealaplante on 3/20/2012 6:49:19 PM


Thank you so much!! Smile I forgot to say that in my last post.

by Katiew on 3/18/2012 12:01:48 PM


ok- so way back in the fall me and my best friend liked the same guy. He always talked with me and always smiled at me and acted like he liked me, then in November-ish he asked out my best friend, and of course she said yes because she liked him. But while they were dating he still acted like he liked me, and my best friend who was his gf, thought so too. Then he broke up with her like a week ago. And I still really like him and almost everyone is certain that he likes me, and I really want to go out with him and ask him out and stuff, but I don't want to ruin my friendship with my best friend, now his ex. So I was wondering would it be ok and fair if I asked him out? And my best friend is pretty sensitive. I am 95% certain he would say yes.

Hey girl,

I think I would have to give this LOTS of time. Show that you support your BFF, care about her feelings, and want her to get over this breakup in a healthy way. Basically, be a bestie and make sure she knows you care. Don't swoop in and snatch up her ex just yet - give it time for her to move on. Keep talking to him and growing closer to him, but hold off on dating just yet. After some time passes and your bestie seems to have moved on from him, you could always give it a try and subtly start dating if you both still feel the same way <3
Lauren C.

by Katiew on 3/18/2012 12:00:40 PM


yea i have crushes on maybe 2 or 3 guys at the moment so i mite try these hope they work!!!!!! Laughing

by krazykaratechick on 3/15/2012 8:16:55 PM


mod mod mod!
how do i make friends outside of school? i go to an all girls school and it's hard to make friends. how do i make more friends outside of school? i'd like to actually have some guy friends, how do i make guy friends too? thanks!


Hey girl! Take up an out of school hobby. If you're into sports, try a club team or a clinic. If you're into arts, try taking a scrapbooking workshop or something like that! This way you'll make super friends and you can meet their friends and so on. Another fun option is joing a youth group. This way you'll meet tons of people! Good luck! xo, Erin M.

erin m.

by loveyoulongtime on 3/15/2012 1:50:12 AM


I'm super confused (This is a complicated story)
I asked one of my guy friends (GF1)who my crush liked, and he said my crush liked me.
Then, GF1 told everyone, including my crush and another one of my guy friends (GF2) told me GF1 had no idea who my crush liked, but then I asked GF1 and he said it was definitely me.
But a lot of my friends say that my crush likes me.
What should I do? Thanks

by stephzhang9 on 3/12/2012 5:29:15 PM


mod mod mod
my crush and i are very close friends im afraid if i tell him i like him our friendship will be ruined

by rue0710 on 3/11/2012 8:01:27 PM


Idk if some of these will wordk....mainly bcuz i am in 6th grade and we don't work or go to dances or anytrhing so....any other tips?

by ilovetaylorl0001 on 3/5/2012 7:42:41 PM


I like this guy who whent to my elementary school but now we go to dif schools he liked me but now that he goes 2 a dif school I'm afraid he forgot me. We emailed 4 awhile but not any more and2 of my friends like him!!! Help me

Hey 11littleboo, you should try emailing him and seeing how he's been. Tell him you miss talking to him and wanted to know how he was doing. I'm sure he'll be glad to hear from you. Hope this helps! Xoxo

Lynae P.

by 11littleboo on 2/29/2012 5:26:32 PM


plaese go to my clue: Boys being mean get back at they get fit.
i miss spelled the name of my clue soooo the name i was going for is: Boys being mean get back at them get fit.
Luv. Schoneboom<3

by schoneboom on 2/28/2012 3:23:58 AM


mod mod mod i really like this guy and when I tell my friends they say he likes me. The other day while we were hanging out whent some of our friends said he likes me, he denied it and said he liked another girl at his school(by the way we don't go to the same school) anyway I'm really confused, I really like him but I'm not sure if he likes me.


Hey girl! It sounds like he might be afraid to admit that he likes you. Remember that guys can be shy, too, and don't always want to admit to their feelings. It's a tough situation, but I would suggest backing off a bit to see what happens. You can still hang out with him and be friends, but I wouldn't ask him any more about who he likes. If you give it some time, he might finally tell you how he really feels (he might just be embarrassed right now if everyone knows his crush!).

Colleen K.

by neveragain224 on 2/27/2012 10:08:17 AM


For Some aparent reason i switch on and off to one boy to another in like a month suddenly i met a boy whos likes all the same stuff as me makes me laugh, all my bffs think likes me back but one friend has a crush on him too she is trying to spilt us up and thinking i will go on to another boy but i have TRUE feelings for him and i think he has them for me to, do i run off cuz of my bff our stay in this serect love which i could possible ask before he does, Thanks! -FashionQueenz301

Hey girlie,

I think this article, "Boy or Bestie," will really help ya figure out what to do in this tough situation <3 Talking to your friend about this could really help! It's not great that she's playing dirty and trying to split you up, but in the end - if your friendship matters more than your chances with this guy, it might be smart to step aside and take the next guy. Since you said you switch from one guy to another so often, it's not like you won't find someone awesome soon! Smile
Lauren C.

by FashionQueenz301 on 2/25/2012 10:41:06 PM


I have a silly but serious question. When everybody says "ask him out" what exactly doe that mean? Do I ask him, wanna go out? I feel so silly asking that

 Hey chocolateworld12, yup you're just asking the guy if he wants to go out. It's like a guy asking you out, only you're the one doing the asking. It's like you two switch places. If you don't feel comfortable doing it, you don't have to. You can wait for him to make the move or drop hints that you want him to ask you out. Hope this helps! Xoxo

Lynae P.

by chocolateworld12 on 2/25/2012 7:02:13 PM


MODMOD Hi, I've never had a boyfriend before, all of my friends have but me. Not to be concetied, but i am a pretty girl. I'm athletic, and I get good grades. People think I'm a "goody goody" thats what guys tell me. And worst of all, my crush likes my best friend. my bff has a bf. I've asked him out and he said no. Everyone comes up to us when we are hanging out and tell us that we should date. Well this is like 293048 problems in one, but what do you think i should do? Thank youu


Hey erichmo, I don't think you should change who you are to get a boy to like you. Being a good girl is something to be proud of. It's better to be smart, athletic and nice than trashy, promsicious and focusing on the wrong things. So if the boys you know want that, then let them have it. You'll find a guy who likes you for you. It may be a good idea to start looking for guys outside of your school. Everyone knows you there, but you may be able to find a guy on the outside who will appreciate you for you. So grab your girls for a night out and head to the movies, skating rink, bowling alley and mall and see if you spot any cuties. Hope this helps! Xoxo

Lynae P.

by erichmo on 2/24/2012 7:10:49 PM


There is a super cute guy and I think he is maybe going to ask me out but I'm scared because my mom wouldn't like me dating but I really want to if I sneak I think she will catch me wat should I do he is my friend

by bootlover on 2/24/2012 9:00:17 AM


If a guy is around his friends an make a rude comment about you don"t take it on because he is around his friends and dont want to be embarrassed by his friend and i little tips your crush can be so nicer when he by him self so go for it and dont let no one stop you =)

by CuteSmiley21 on 2/23/2012 3:51:50 PM


So there's this kid I like and he likes me back. We're in English class together and he always comes into the cafeteria when I have lunch. We txt everyday and kinda flirt in school but he won't ask me out yet. I feel like I keep annoying him whenever I text him but he says I'm not. What should I do?


Hey loveyababe, well he's probably taking this time to know you before he asks you out. So use this time to do the same. If he doesn't make the move you might have to girly. Hope this helps! Xoxo



Lynae P.

by loveyababe on 2/18/2012 5:04:36 PM


1. Say your name 10 times.
2. Say your mom's name 5 times.
3. Say your crush's name 3 times.
4. Paste this to 4 other quizzes. If you do this, your crush will kiss you on the nearest Friday, but if you read this and do not paste this, then you will have very bad luck! SEND THIS TO 5 QUIZZES IN 143 MINUTES. WHEN YOU'RE DONE PRESS F6 AND YOUR CRUSH'S NAME WILL APPEAR IN BIG LETTERS ON THE SCREEN. THIS IS SO FREAKY BECAUSE IT ACTUALLY WORKS
by Niccer13 on 11/25/2011 1:14:32 PM

by aayesha ash on 2/17/2012 5:33:53 AM


theres a guy..he is my bros best friend...he is sooo heart stops wen i see him...i told my frnd in scool and she right away told him on fb about all the story....she also told about my another close frnd and now he is after her...he sent her msgs like:
s e x y A
and the A is the initial of my name.... then he said her to add him as frnd and they'll both go on dates blah blah...but she blocked him...when i told my bro that my friend is getting msgs from his frnd he told dat his friend is already engaged and he cant do things llike that(i didnt tell my bro that i like his frnd) he is a canadian (my bros frnd) and he also said that he'll take my close frnd to canada....even though i now know that HE IS ENGAGED i still love him
i was thinking of telling my brother i liked his frnd SO...

by aayesha ash on 2/17/2012 5:23:10 AM


I really don't know how to strike up a convo with the guy I like without being awkward... 'cause I wanna get to know him..... and I have like NO experience with guys. AT ALL. Sooo yeahhhhhhh........... I need help with this.

Hey girlie,

You'll feel more confident once you actually give it a try and practice! Try starting a convo based on the things you know he likes - football, jazz band, swimming, a certain band, etc. The easiest way is to ask a question about one of these subjects (or something else you have in common, like homework for a class). That way, he gets to talk about a hobby and you'll sound interested in what he likes!  Smile
Lauren C.

by jaymarie on 2/16/2012 6:09:32 PM


Hey fun lovers! Smile I need some...guidance/ anyways, I have a hopeless crush on someone at my school. I'm a freshman and he's a junior. We do play on the same tennis team, so I'm..acquaintances...with Andrew. So my friend told me that he liked her, which I'd bull crap because she just tries to bring me down, and she's a bipolar lying beeeoch ...but anyways! Tennis season ends in April! I talk to Andrew, but not a lot...actually just this morning he had a casual conversation with me...he started it Smile but he doesn't really show much emotion I he's UBBER Hard to read! He also talks reeeeealy I just kinda smile and nod lol. We're talking more and more each week, but we aren't even like Facebook friends ...I was planning on him adding me first...but anyway ...what are some ways I could talk to him more and try to get him to notice me (don't even say wear a cute outfit because i go to a Catholic school .. uniform.) But yeah.a

by ctiloveyou4711 on 2/16/2012 1:04:38 AM


Mod mod mod mod mod mod mod mod mod
how do you get a guy to notice you I am homeschooled so I don't see him in school(obviously) I see him at church I barely see him though cause he is in youth i dont really know himFrown his mom teaches my Sunday school he is a grade higher than me and he plays guitarSmile

Just go up to him during you down time at church and start a conversation. 
Amanda P.

by Cupcake_queen_101_ on 2/15/2012 3:14:20 AM


STEP 1 : Get to know the guy before even thinking about dating him

by Dark Wolf on 2/14/2012 8:20:51 PM


theres a guy i like in one of my classes, the class is small and we are partneres for a planner check. He seems to have figured me out since i am really shy and dont talk much. and he is really friendly and talkative to otheres, but i don't know how to get his attention. He already knows that i am shy and seems to talk to the others more than me. once he asked me to help him with his homework, however; i got ineterupted and had to go work on a project with one of my special ed teachers. how to i get him to notice me more, so i can spend more time with him?


Talk to him! that will really get his attention - especially if youre shy. xoxo kerra 

Kerra S.

by future moviestar on 2/14/2012 7:43:37 PM


Hey pinkylove<3 that's kind of tough, well if he has a girlfriend and he is flirting with you for real then he's just a player, and not worth the risk of a broken heart. Hope I helped.

by smith0507 on 2/12/2012 7:35:24 PM


MOD MOD MOD!!!!!!! So there is this guy that i REALLY like. But i dont know if he likes me. I mean he will flirt with me and all but then other days he doesnt talk to me at all. I really want to take this relationship to the next level but i dont know how. I would talk to my best friend about this but she likes the same guys as me so it would be awkward if i did. But trust me we would never let a guy get in the way of our friendship. Please help!!!

Hey babe,

If he does like you, he probably doesn't want to come on too strong by flirting every day. Or maybe he's busy and has other stuff on his mind those days! It's possible he only flirts when he feels like it and doesn't actually have a crush, but you'll never know unless you try to get to know him better and flirt more. Have you ever hung out outside of school as friends? Done homework together? Chatted online? Texted? Try doing new things over time to spice things up!
Lauren C.

by mibizzy0524 on 2/11/2012 10:30:44 PM


Hi abi

by swearias on 2/10/2012 8:17:37 PM


MOD MOD MOD!!! I REALLLYYY like this guy at my school. but we dont have any classes together Frown!! I try to catch his eye and smile at him during lunch, but he's never looking my way. Any tips? Also, I really want to snag him on Valentines day, so could you help with that as well? Thankx!


Hey xlllx, you're going to have to really put yourself out there with this guy chica. For example, during lunch when you see him get up and get in the lunch line, go right behind him. If he throws something in the trash just happen to be throwing something away too. Don't be too obvious, but try to get close to him whenever you have a chance. For V-day try to catch him before or after school, pull him to the side and ask him to be your Valentine. Hope this helps! Xoxo

Lynae P.

by xlllx on 2/10/2012 6:41:56 PM


I <3 boys!!

by swearias on 2/10/2012 3:27:26 PM


ADVICE PLEASE!!!! Ok, so this guy Brandon goes to my church,i really like him but 1.i promised myself that i wouldnt get a bf until im done with school 2. Im not really allowed to date and 3. IM SCARED! I like him and he's sweet and helps out at church but i dont know what to do!

Hey girly! I know its tough, but if your parents dont let you date then it is probably a good idea not to pursue a relationship with this guy. Start by just coming good friend with him and maybe, one day when you are allowed to date, you two can take it further and become more than just friends.  
Ana D.

by swearias on 2/10/2012 3:17:02 PM


I don't know what to do because I like this guy and when he found out. he was awkward around me and kind of mean, but now I got over my crush and he started flirting with me and now I like him again and I am afraid that if he finds out again he we act like he did before. He is my type and so sweet to me and I really like him what should I do.

by lilpunkgrrl on 2/8/2012 2:14:46 AM


I fell in love with my bestfriend, whish is also my ex, which my bestfriend likes. the thing is he doesn't like my best, he told me that he likes me the best in the girls, but I don't know what that means.
We both flirt, but I don't know if he wants to be friends or more, and with Valentines day there is even more pressure.
I want to be more than friends again, but I don't want to ruin our friendship.

by romanticspark on 2/6/2012 5:27:31 AM


I am inlove with my bestfriend, which is also my ex. I think he likes me, he always tries to talk to me, and we always laugh about this really annoying girl that also likes him. The problem is that, I flirt, and i think he flirts, but I dont know how to proced! I don't know if I should tell him or not. And with Valentines day coming up, I thought I could tell him and then kiss him, but I don't know how he will re-act!
Plus, all my girl friends will kill me, they all like him too, they dont know i like him! HELP!
Help, I want to be more than friends, but I also odn't want to ruin our friendship.

by romanticspark on 2/6/2012 5:21:08 AM


There's two boys i like. There not considered cool or popular or anything so I don't think there used to people liking them. But I don't know which one to ask out and how to them out. please help.

Hey girlie,

Don't pressure yourself to choose right now! It's ok to have two crushes. Spend some time talking to each of them, getting to know them, and maybe even hanging out outside of school. See which one you "click" better with - which one makes you laugh, respects you, makes you happy, is the most interesting, etc. You'll know in your heart which one to choose, once you grow closer to them! 
Lauren C.

by actingqueen on 2/4/2012 10:13:13 PM


I really need some advice, so there's this guy who I work with, we flirted non stop an text each other everyday for months but he and my best do not get along because it turns out he had a girlfriend which broke my heart and my friend trying to support me said he had lead me on cause she had seen what we were like around each other and how keep kepting making suggestive hints for me to go down to his place, we stopped speaking for a while and now he's lovely to me again and he's super flirty all he time, but he has another girlfriend (this one I was told about) he is waiting on me after work, flirting with me all the time, telling me he loves me in a playful/joking kind of way..... Does he really like me? Pleeeeeease help me! X

by Pinkylove<3 on 2/3/2012 9:02:18 PM


How do you flirt with an awkward kinda guy. I've known him since 1st grade and we used to be friends but we've sorta grown apart. Anyways...he's sorta awkward when girls are super flirty so how do you subtlety get him to notice me more??? Without being totally OVER THE TOP!!!

Hey girlie,

That's kinda great that he's awkward. That means you know he's not a flirt or a ladies man - he probably won't lead you on. And he might be relieved if you make the first move, because usually being awkward also means he's shy. Instead of being flirty with him, try to get to know him as friends. Be chill and ask him about his interests, himself, etc. Talk online or through text sometimes since that might be less stressful for him. That way, he can warm up to you as friends first! Then he'll be comfy around you and you can flirt a little then Smile
Lauren C.

by izzygirl13 on 2/2/2012 10:03:31 PM


Our school is having a Valentine's dance soon and my crush will be thereSmile how can I snag a dance with him without looking desperate or embarrassing myself? Thanks!Smile

Hey girlie,

Play it cool! Try walking by him and saying in a flirty way, "Hey! You better save a dance for me!" Then flash him a smile and walk away. See how he reacts - does he smile? Do his eyes light up? Or does he look kinda uncomfortable, in a bad way? Based on his reaction, you can decide whether you should come back later and say, "Can I get that dance now?" Remember to SMILE and stay relaxed. If you're laid back, he'll pick up on your vibe! <3 
Lauren C.

by aidenator on 2/2/2012 6:48:28 PM


I really like this guy, and we have just one class together. We're friends, and talk to each other all the time. There's a valentines day dance coming up, and i really want him to ask me. Should I let him know i like him?

by singrizme on 2/2/2012 4:55:50 PM


I already know this stuff... but I read it anyway to see if I'm doing it right. I go to church with my cutie on sundays for three hours (we're the only two in the same grade and we're the oldest) and on wednesdays we go to youth group together. We have been friends since third grade (summer camp BFFs) and now i like him. Should i still flirt with him? I am thinking about taking him and his peeps to go with my peeps (kind of like a 10x10 date) to see Journey 2 The mysterious island. Wolud that be enough to get him to be my date to the Valentines Days dance? Help me out here girls!

by rosemadison99 on 1/29/2012 11:11:21 AM


Hey Katiegurll;), I think you should get him something for Valentines day. A card with some chocolate would be nice. Maybe inside the card you could write a little message to him asking him out with your phone number at the bottom. Hope this helps! xoxo

MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD!!!!!!!!!!!!!
ugh!!! i TOTTALY still have this HUGE crush on this "bad boy" in homeroom!!!!!!!!!!!! all of my friends say he likes me but..idk... i just dont think he'd ever like a girl like me! he's the kind that goes around dating grade 8ers and 9ers! should i ask him out around valintines day?!yes or no?! oh and my friends keep sayin that i should write a note..not put my name on it..and stuff it in his locker!!! i REALLY like this guy!!! what should i do?!Frown
PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Lynae P.

by katiegurll;) on 1/28/2012 4:46:31 PM


Hey 199natalia1998, check out this great article about 100 things to say and do to talk to your crush. I think it will help since you got a little competition. Xoxo

I realy like this guy and I want to ask him to the dance.The problem is that I am extreamly shy and that a lot of other girls like him to.I cant talk to other guys but when I'm around him, my mind goes blank.what should i do? Lynae P.

by 199natalia1998 on 1/27/2012 6:01:29 PM


Hey swimmersweetie1999, continue talking to him. You could even go to some of his games. Whenever you and your friends hang outside of school, invite him too. Maybe walk him to his class or meet in the morning before school starts. Hope this helps! Xoxo

sooo i like this guy..hes really cute and hes only in 8th grade and is on varsity for basketball..hes a year older than me, and he's kinda started to hang out with me and my group of friends during lunch hour.. I asked my friend if she thought we could ever date and she said we'd be cute together..ive started talking to him a little bit.. any ideas on how to get closer with him? im a little shy though... Lynae P.

by swimmersweetie99 on 1/27/2012 3:55:51 PM


i don't think any of these tips will in high school been flirting for awhile...i promise you these will only work it you guy is legit "PERFECT."
no guy is "PERFECT"...not to put a damper on any of y'all

by colorguard1227 on 1/26/2012 11:27:33 PM


yeah now i can get him to notice me!!!! thanx sooo much gl....yippy!! so excited!!!

by julia2938 on 1/26/2012 6:44:46 PM


OMG thank you soooooo much for the response!!! I'm totally gonna use that!

You're welcome! 
Lauren C.

by MuzikLuvrr on 1/26/2012 6:12:38 PM


So I like this guy and he know i exist and my name. (yippee!) and so we have had a few short convos and stufff but thats about it. I see him in two of my classes and he sorta sits nera me. (we have assigned seats so changing seats is NOT an option) and I wanna talk to him but I'm just TO SHY!!! What do I do?!?
PS: I'm eleven so please give like age-approriate advice. Thx Smile

Hey babe,

It's totally normal to get nervous when thinking about talking to him! But you gotta take a deep breath and go for it - there's no shortcuts! Try adding him on Facebook and talking to him on there (or on AIM if you don't have a FB). Get his # from a mutual friend and text him to ask a question about homework...then continue the convo by asking him how he's doing, what's up, etc. Talk to him as much as you can in class and stick with it! <3 
Lauren C.

by MuzikLuvrr on 1/26/2012 5:53:27 PM


Hey kaitlynMD13, no not at all! What does this guy know? You are beautiful, and it's a shame he can't see it. Don't let his mean words hurt you. I wouldn't want to date a jerk like that anyway. If you ask me, he's the one that's ugly. Hope this helps! Xoxo

Guys never like me one time i asked out a guy and he never answered me, i walked up to him to say hello and he said "whyy are u talking to me ugly?!?" then the guys surounding him laughed and laughed and laughed. I feel so ugly! Am i ugly? Lynae P.

by kaitlynMD13 on 1/25/2012 6:41:00 PM


Girls im a guy and i want to give u some advice when u like a guy its best to just tell him that right away most likely he will like itSmile even if he says ''no'' big deal its just a word made out of 2 letter so dont waste ur time say it staight away!!! Hope this im a guySmile

by GUYSadvice on 1/24/2012 3:49:31 AM


So there's this guy and he lives in my neighborhood... hes barely a year older than me and I REALLY REALLY REALLY like him! Hes super nice and kind and understanding and dont forget very attractive... I see him almost everyday and hes a huge flirt... he says he likes me and tells me I'm beautiful and all that and I love it!... there's just one problem... he has a girlfriend... BUT he acts like I'm his girlfriend when we hang out and that's not okay with me... I feel like hes almost pretty much cheating.... I would love to go out with him except (again) he has a girlfriend... and I don't know why he still has a girlfriend... I can tell you veryyyyy honestly that hes not a player... I just need to know what the reasons of him still dating her could be... he said he likes me more then he likes his girlriend... I need help, advice, answers... anything would help I just feel so odd...

by LoveMantha on 1/23/2012 3:05:04 AM


theres this boy who im kinda starting to like.. i think he likes me but im not shure he flirts with me but my friends to.Frown he says im pretty and he likes me but then he says he is joking then he says it again and im like your joking then he says hes not were to shy to talk in school but i dont know what to doFrown
also theres these 2 other boys one of them i met once but we never spoke hes small and cute he broke my heart tho but he likes me again, he says he loves me nd that and i say that to but he has a best friend who is really cute and he loves me like alot!!! hes really cute but ive never met him i dont know what to do!!Frown help!!!!!!<3

by MyLifeMyStory.<3 on 1/22/2012 5:54:54 PM



by Katisha on 1/20/2012 11:59:17 PM


Hey Katiegurll;), yeah I think you should go for it! If he has someone special in his life, he might stop behavin so violently. You'll never know what he feels if you don't make a move, so go ahead girl. Hope this helps! Xoxo

MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
kk writing this for my bff
kk so i REALLY like this guy, he's super hot/popular and is kinda, well, lets just say that he doesnt make the best choices! (drinken,punchen stuff, gettin detention all the time..etc..) but i still REALLY REALLY REALLY like him!!!!!!!!!!!!!! i kinda think that he might like me but im on about 55% sure.... should i ask him out!?!?!yes or no?!?! and oh yeahh, one of he's friends was my step sister so if i DO start goin out with him, she will find out, tell her mom, and she will tell my dad!! bt the problem not exactly allowd to date:S but he teases me all the time for haven a boyfriend!!! should i take a shot at it?!?! PLEASE HELPP!!!!!!!! Lynae P.

by katiegurll;) on 1/20/2012 7:14:51 PM


I accidently did number 3 in class to this one guy. So he was gone the same day I was so we both had to work outside of the classroom on our makeup homework. Let me just say it was very effective on him because now he likes me. He didn't say it but I can definitely tell.

by Gabriella123 on 1/20/2012 4:45:58 PM


Mod! Mod! Mod!
I REALLY like this guy. He's smart, cute, funny, charming, and athletic. I've known him for a year, and we're like brother and sister. I don't know if he likes me or not, and I'm scared to ask him out, because if he says no, our friendship might ge weakened, and things will be awkward between us. I've asked some of his friends how he feels about me, and they don't know! PLEASE HELP!!!!!!


Hey girl!


I'd say go for it. That way you'll know if it could've worked when you tried. Chances are he likes being your friend and doesn't want it to get awkward either, so after you ask him out, mention your concerns and he'll most likely be sympathetic. 

Krupali D.

by RavenclawChick99 on 1/20/2012 1:54:30 PM


i really love this guy n i no he likes me back so wut are some flirting tips that arnt weird?

by jbkcm10 on 1/19/2012 7:52:46 PM


Dear crawfsid...
You're a lucky girl! At least you see him. My guy, Brady, lives 2 hours away and to this day... We still haven't met in person.
I was scared to tell Brady how i felt, too. You're NOT ALONE! I didn't have to, though because his friend and i talked about it and his friend simply told him, and his friend told me Brady liked me a lot.
If you aren't so lucky... give him signs or straight up tell him. With signs, you don't tell him personally, but with telling him straight up... you get it off your chest. Good luck girlie, TELL ME HOW IT GOES!

--Kayla <3

by SunnyDelite on 1/16/2012 6:04:13 PM


Dear iLoveEminem...
Give him a shot. You like him, right? Go for it and see how it goes. You may not regret it ;) Good luck, girlie.


by SunnyDelite on 1/16/2012 6:00:23 PM


Hello people of Earth. I liked this boy since Kindergarten and he likes me back. I know that he likes me and he knows that I like him. What is the appropriate age to date?


Hey girl,

There really is no specific appropriate age to start dating, but if you feel old enough and that you are ready to date, I say go for it!

Kathryn S.

by sofie030201 on 1/16/2012 12:25:30 PM


i have a problem! I only see my crush in 1 hour, i see him in the hallways and he messes around like scare me on the playground, and he sneeks up behind me in the halls. But i guess im scared to tell him how i feel and i want him to be my bf. Any tips!

by crawfsid on 1/14/2012 11:04:26 PM


I REALLY like this guy, and we've been friends since 4th grade, and I just started liking him. I also kinda like one of his best friends, and he just asked me out and I don't know what to tell him! I told him I'd tell him on Tuesday!! I have NO idea what to tell him! I like him, but I like his best friend WAY more....... Advice.?.?.? Thanks(:

by iLoveEminem<3(: on 1/14/2012 10:58:32 PM


Hey agent cheese, no you shouldn't have a crush on your family members. You have to remember they're related to you, but you're defintely not the first one this has happened to. Just try ignoring those feelings. xoxo

I know this sounds weird but a few years ago I used to have a crush on this guy...only problem? It was my cousin. I don't have a crush on him now but now that I think about it, is it normal for girls to have a crush on people that are related to them? I'm just curious, Thanks Smile Lynae P.

by agentcheese on 1/14/2012 4:42:20 PM


at my school, the math classes are divided up by "slow" "medium" and "advanced" im in the medium class and my crush WAS in the slow class but moved up into my class, my bff sits right behind me and when he came into class, the teacher told him that he could sit wherever he wanted, he's the type that would go to the back of the room with all of he's friends but instead, he chose to sit RIGHT BESIDE ME!!!AND I SIT AT THE FRONT!!!! is that a sign?! me and my friend always pass notes in class (oopsSmile) and he always looks at me, then the papaer.... he's always taking my stuff, pencils ,pens ,gum calculater,stiky notes..etc.. and one time he took my pen and that was all i had to write! i asked my friend for a pencil and then he looked kinda embarrassed , then gave it back...does he like me?!?! if he does what do i do?!

Hey girl,

If he's teasing you and taking your stuff, either he likes you or he's just being mean! Why not talk to him after class (about math or about other stuff, like tv or movies) and see if he's interested in talking to you? If he likes you, he'll be happy to chat. If not, maybe you should move seats so he doesn't keep taking your stuff!


Meghan D.

by katiegurll;) on 1/14/2012 11:19:35 AM


Hey Katiegurll;), I don't know girl, it sounds like he may like your friend to me. He could also like you both but is just taking this time getting to know her. But if he does like her, don't feel bad. There are lots of guys out there, you just gotta find them. Hope this helps! Xoxo

ok so, theres this guy that i REALLY REALLY REALLY like, but he punches walls,swears,hangs out with bad people and stuff like that but i just cant help myself! he always stares at me and teases me but then when me and my bff are in class, he'll flirt with her right in front of me!! its only happend twice, but is he just trying to make me jealous, or does he really like her?! she says she doesnt like him but she blushes when he comes around and she flirts with him and its obvious that she likes him!!!! i really like this guyFrown i need SERIOUS HELP!!! btw hes SUPER popular!!! HELP MEE!!!(please) Lynae P.

by katiegurll;) on 1/13/2012 4:56:31 PM


Hey MuzikLuvrr, talk to him about something he's interested in. Does he play sports? If so ask him whose his face team is. Is he involved in a certain club? Ask him what it's like to be apart of it. Just come up with something he likes and chat with him about it. Hope this helps! Xoxo

So my crush knows my name and knows i exist (yippee!) but whenever I talk to him I just end up sounding really stupid. How do I strike up a convo with out him thinking that i like him? Cuz I am 11 and you know if someone finds out my life is over soo,,, Lynae P.

by MuzikLuvrr on 1/13/2012 4:08:39 PM


So there's this new kid who's really cute and I'm interested in getting to know him. However, I only have one class with him, we've never spoken, and I don't see him any other time besides before and after class. What should I do?


Hey girl,

Try making small talk with him before and after class. On a Monday, for example, try saying something to him like hey how was your weekend?

Kathryn S.

by bkwms1 on 1/13/2012 1:59:58 AM


lol. this is scary, i am crushing on a hottie thats in my homeroom...SCARY

by hahaha2005 on 1/12/2012 5:52:33 PM


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by Fashion designer on 1/12/2012 4:21:04 PM


you know, i usually try to have my crush NOT notice me, because if he figures out that I like him, what if he starts HATING me??

by melguzrox on 1/12/2012 11:45:56 AM


Ok, so I've finally convinced my mom to let me wear make-up to school (yippee!), and I'm a little stuck on what to do. Usually, I just wear some eyeliner and some peach shadow, but I'm a little stuck on what to do for the eyeliner part. Currently, I'm a big fan of the cat eye, but was wondering how to tone it down so that I can wear it to school, and other ways to use eyeliner. Can I get some advice please? Smile


You can do a cat eye but tone it down. Dont do as much of a wing and make it more simple. Good luck! xoxo kerra 

Kerra S.

by LittleMissBubbly on 1/10/2012 7:30:49 PM


MODMODMOD! I just got together with my boyfriend and he wants a hug from me but I am nervous since we just got together a few days ago... Help?


Dont do anything you dont wanna do. Only do what youre comfortable with. As time passes youll become more comfortable with the thought of hugging your boyfriend. Dont pressure it Smile xoxo kerra 

Kerra S.

by sarahkc123lovee on 1/10/2012 4:50:11 PM


Okay so i kinda like this really hot guy that my friend said had a crush on me so tomorrow she is gonna introduce us tomorrow. What should i say to him that shows him that im interested in him without sounding desperate?


Just say hi! also tell him its nice to meet him. And then maybe talk about something you two have in common. xoxo kerra 

Kerra S.

by HorseGirl2998 on 1/8/2012 7:39:09 PM


My crush is much older than me but really sweet and i love talking to him (mostly cuz he talks to me)but i have a problem. My friend likes him too. She says she doesnt get jealous 4 which im thankful 4, but i think he likes her alot. im not jealous either, but i really like him! What should i do? Please dont say give him up, i c him every other day!

by Starfire88 on 1/6/2012 10:26:42 PM


so my crush opens doors for me, flirts like crazy,always interested in me,always by me,ive taken tests that say he likes me back,and i could go on forever...
Im going to wait to ask him out/if he likes me;but should i wait till V-day?Do you think he likes me?

Hey babe,

From what you say, it definitely sounds like he's trying to impress you, flirt with you, and spend time around you. Those are all signs that he could be crushing on ya! You could wait til Valentine's Day to make your first move...or you could make a move a little before then so you have a sweetie to celebrate V-Day with! It's up to you. The most important thing is you get your confidence up and be honest about your feelings. GOOD LUCK! <333 
Lauren C.

by lalaloveyou on 1/6/2012 9:25:43 PM


my crush told me he really liked me and even told me that he was sad
he didn't get to kiss me on new years! but he also likes my BFF and I know that
but I thought he really liked me I mean he told me he wanted to kiss me!
anyway he said the exact same thing to my BFF about wanting to kiss her and stuff
in the exact same words! I still really like him and think he's gonna ask me out but should I say no?
is that really bad?
IDK I'm really confused!


This guy sounds like hes playing you and your friend. I would avoid him if i were you. If he says the exact same thing to another girl then he didnt mean it when he said it to you. Sorry hon. xoxo kerra

Kerra S.

by marla1321 on 1/3/2012 8:00:30 PM


I`m 15 and 4 foot 6 and can never get any of my crushes to notice me or even look or talk to me, its like they think of me as a little kid, any advice?

by Scarletwitch on 1/3/2012 6:19:43 PM


Hey hey hey,okay so I'm kinda new in this town.just moved in a couple months ago an there's this reaaaaaaally cute boy who works at the grocery store I go to ,I always catch him smiling at me..he even helped me pick out a Christmas tree an was like laughing with me and my mom like at our jokes n' what not . But
anyway I wanna know how to inteduce myself an possibly get his number .now I'm normally not shy around guys in fact all my friends are mostly boys, just he gives me that feeling ...Soooo help pleases (:

by megansiito on 1/3/2012 4:20:06 AM


my crush has a girlfriend and a really like do i get him to like me or should i just forget him???


Hey Girl,

Since he's already taken, you should probably forget about trying to date this guy, or at least wait for him to become single again.

Kathryn S.

by maddancer247 on 12/29/2011 10:58:47 AM


Hey Dianee, sounds like he defintely liked you before. This time around, make it clear the feelings are mutual. The next time you see him, stop and have a convo with him. Ask him hows he's been and maybe get his number so you two can stay in touch. Always wave and smile when greeting him and text him sometime. He should get the hint. Hope this helps chica!!! Xoxo

by Lynae P. on 12/28/2011 6:05:27 PM


MOD!MOD!MOD! Ok so i really like this guy and my friends told him behind my back about a month ago but the day after they told him i found out i was so embarressed i have concert choir with him and when they pointed at me to show him who i was he smiled and the rest of the week he just kept checking me out and talking to me and making me laugh but its been a month since he hasnt talked to me i wanna know if he liked me before and if he did if he still likes me Help! (:

by Dianee on 12/28/2011 3:57:24 PM


Well there is this guy and hes funny. But he insulted me by saying I might have feelings for his best friend. And he annoys me a lot. And we used to keep in touch. My friends say it's prob the hate/love thing. Wat shld i do??


Hey girl,

It sounds like you're confused about whether or not you like this guy. You said you used to keep in touch, maybe you should first try rekindling your friendship with him and then deciding whether or not you like him as more than a friend.

Kathryn S.

by zee100 on 12/28/2011 10:26:29 AM


#77 will NOT work on a guy. I'm just sayin'!

by katgrace11 on 12/27/2011 8:19:13 PM


There is a guy I really like and I talk to him during school but not that much. I guess you can call us friends but not close. We will smile at each other and I think he likes me. I want him to join my group of friends but my guy friends don't really like him that much (except for one of them). But my gal friends are willing to be his friend. My BFF and I always talk about inviting him to her house but I don't want him to think that my BFF likes him (My BFF used to be his crush). Also my birthday is coming up and I was thinking of inviting him and my group to go somewhere. How should I invite him into my group and get him and my group to go somewhere?

Hey babe,

You can't force your friends to love your crush as much as you do. It's great if they all get along, but sometimes it doesn't happen. No biggie! If your girlies are on board to get to know him better, try inviting him and his group of friends to the mall, bowling, the movies, Starbucks, the diner, etc. Then bring a couple of your friends and have a casual group hang-out! Smile It's easier than trying to bring him into your group totally. He already has friends, so embrace them and use it to your advantage!
Lauren C.

by EpicMckendz on 12/25/2011 10:29:18 AM


MODMODMOD! I seriously like this guy and hes always smiling at me, and when we talk he always gets so nervous, i want to break the ice but how?

Hey girlie,

Just try to be laid-back and casual during your convos! The more relaxed you are, the more comfortable he'll feel Smile Take control of the convo and ask him questions about his interests and background. If you talk a bunch, get to know each other better, and settle into a friendship, things will get way easier! <3
Lauren C.

by miz99 on 12/24/2011 12:50:43 AM


There is this guy who is my friend and we talk a lot. A couple of weeks ago i found out he likes me. i dont want to not talk to him, but i dont want him to like me like that. What do i do???? PLEASE HELP!!

Hey girlie,

Try to relax and treat him like you normally would. Be friendly and warm, obviously without flirting, and keep things casual. If he tries to make a move (or tells you straight out that he likes you), let him down easy - say something like, "You're so sweet! But I think we're better as friends Smile" I know it's tempting to go along with it so you don't hurt his feelings, but this way you let him know that you value him as a friend...but don't lead him on by giving him the idea you like him back. 
Lauren C.

by bootsielover123 on 12/23/2011 11:07:10 PM


So there's this guy that I really like. The problem is that because we live two hours away I hardly see him. When I go to visit I hang out with him, and I talk to him on facebook(he doesn't have a cell). I have no idea how to flirt with him when we do talk. I will see him on New Year's, and have no idea what to say or do. help!!!

Hey girlie,

Just be yourself and play off your natural chemistry! Don't force yourself to flirt - let yourself naturally compliment him, joke around, laugh and even tease him. There's no "right" way to do it and there's no formula. You just gotta go with the flow of the conversation and take a deep breath so you don't stress yourself out. You'll always feel some butterflies when you talk to him...but that's part of the fun! Smile You can definitely use "catching up with him" as a way to chat and flirt more. Since you live far away, I'm sure you have LOTS to talk about! 
Lauren C.

by Bornagain on 12/23/2011 9:17:40 PM


ok so i got this problem , i have a crush on this boy were friends and my friend said that he liked me ......... but he's in 7th grade and im in 8th . so i will be going to highschool next year ..... should i go out with him , he's the best Laughing please help Frown ?

by xxsmilexx on 12/22/2011 10:25:56 PM


MOD MOD MOD!!! I Like this guy, and I invited him to my birthday party.. Well come-to-find-out, my friends had confronted him in the kitchen and asked him is he liked me, if he wanted to ask me out (ect..) Well, He doesnt. But they told him about the time that i cried when he had a GF!! It was so embarrising! Now he wont talk to me. Im really sad about it. I think I Love him. -Loser for love

Well i suggest you move on from this guy. Hes not worth your time. Plus i guarantee you dont love him. So dont let that hold you back. Also you may want to talk to your friends about spilling all those secrets. They shouldnt be cornering any guys you like giving them the 5th degree. That will scare off any guy! So talk to them about that and get them to never do it again. Good luck hon. xoxo kerra
Kerra S.

by Lydia_rose on 12/20/2011 5:26:25 PM


huge problem!
i have this HUGE crush on this really popular guy....i dont know why i like him because hes the type that goes around drinken and punching walls and stuff!! my bff used to sit beside him and said that whenever he has a gf, he really cares about her and is super sweet!!my other bff told his friend that i liked him and he asked out my crush for me when i was right there!! my crush said "ok!! oh wait no i have a girlfriend...." i can even strike up a convo because hes so popular, he would just joke around and be like"do you like me?!haha" i think he knows i like him cause during classes he ALWAYS stares at me and flashes a grin and when we have to work in groups (me,my bff and hes friend are together) he always comes over and jokes around,teases me and shows off...does he like me or is he just playin head games?!?! and if he DOES like me, what should i do?!?!( sorry for how long this is) PLEASE HELP!!!

Hey girlie,

There's something about those "bad boys," isn't there? You know you shouldn't like them, but they're just so sweet when they act affectionate...and they make you fall totally head over heels! We've all been there Smile He sounds like he's a total flirt and can talk/tease girls really well, without acting awkward at all. Because of that, it's hard to tell if he actually likes you or if he just loves flirting itself. Keep on talking to him and flirting with him (teasing him, joking around, complimenting him, etc.) to grow closer as friends. The more you talk and even hang out (?), the more likely it'll be that he'll think about asking you out. Let some time pass and stay persistent!!!!!! <3
Lauren C.

by katiegurll;) on 12/18/2011 8:11:42 AM


I have a problem. I like this guy who I dated last year and broke up with him because he cheeted on me. He hangs out with the same people I do so we see each other all the time. He is 15 and I'm 13 because he was held back a year. He's not the kind of guy I wold normily go for like he does drugs and drinks and stuf like that. But he is alwase mean to me and calling me names, so I have absolutly no idea y I like him. HELP I don't no what to do about this guy!!!


Hey girl, I know it can be so hard to get over a guy, even if you know he's bad for you. Just give yourself time to let go of your feelings. It's best to get over him gradually, then to deny your feelings or get into another relationship with a guy. Eventually he'll be out of your mind. Smile Smile

Lynae P.

by mogan98 on 12/17/2011 8:40:16 PM


Oh, gosh! I have a boyfriend, and my mom doesn't know about him. I don't think she'll take me having a bf so well. Like, she'll ground me forever. HELP! WHAT DO I DOOOO???


Hey chicky, you need to break down and let her know. You'll just get in more trouble the longer you wait. If you introduce them, she may grow to like him and allow you to have a boyfriend. Smile Smile

Lynae P.

by Ionara on 12/17/2011 8:07:44 PM


I have a senior crush, we're in the same university and course but we don't really know each other. until he found out that I like him. he messaged me on facebook and texted me 1 week straight , sing a lot of songs for me over the phone and asked me to go to mass with him but it got cancelled, he even called me "babes" but he said he's just joking. but after a week, he stopped texting me. I'm sseing him in the hallway but Im too shy to say "hi" what will I do? should I let this slip because maybe this is just another december romance? or should I pursue being friends with him? please help Smile thanks girls!

by eliza018 on 12/14/2011 9:19:28 AM


1.think of your crush
2.make a heart with your hands
3.this kiss your hand while still making a heart
4.then put the heart where your real heart is
5.tomorrow your crush will ask you out
6.this will only work if you post this on your favorite article

by eliza018 on 12/14/2011 9:13:45 AM


Mod mod mod!!!
My crush is in like 3 of my classes. I think he likes me and I like him, but my mom won't let me see if he wants to catch a movie or something. The only way we can be bf/gf is if he asks me out. How can I get him to ask me out?

Hey girlie,

Talk to him more! Talk in your classes, flirt, chat online/through text messages, and see if you can plan group hangouts to get to know him even better while also being around friends. The more flirty, interested vibe you give off, the more likely he'll be to follow his heart and ask ya out. He might take a lil while but, if he really does like you, he probably wants to be sure you like him so he doesn't get rejected Smile
Lauren C.

by horseyluver on 12/8/2011 5:01:29 PM


These are good but its hard to do it in real life

by Angelbabi on 12/7/2011 8:37:06 PM


Mod Mod Mod!!
There is a guy I REALLY like but he is two years older and goes to a different school. A friend gave him my number and we text (rarely)but when I see him at school events (like basketball games) he always finds me and comes over to talk-he also teases me a lot and is always stealing some of my food-if i have some with me-Does he like me??


Lynae P.

by cowgirlup7 on 12/7/2011 6:51:21 PM


Mod mod mod!
There's this guy I really like. I've known him for four years and is honestly perfect. I think he likes me, too. We've flirted for a while now, and recently he's been talking to me a lot, explaining things that I don't understand in math, and today, he sat and talked to be until I had to leave for the bus, even though his friends were calling him away from me. ( He didn't leave. ) There's a dance on Friday. Should I ask him, or wait for him to ask me?


Lynae P.

by ziirnn on 12/7/2011 4:53:05 PM


Mod mod mod! Please help me.
I have this major crush on this guy. We have no classes together except lunch and gym. Do you have any idea of how I can talk to him without him thinking I'm talking to him just because I like him? I want to become friends first. Every time me and my friends try to talk to him, we chicken out and it just gets awkward. Any way for me to stop stressing? I really like this guy and he doesn't know I exist..


You just gotta' relax, chica!  Treat it as a friendship, and you'll calm down.  Just ignore the rest for a bit and focus on just being friends.  Then you can avoid stress. Find some common ground and strike up some convos. 

Jordan S.

by mimi_girl12 on 12/6/2011 4:47:27 PM


1.think of your crush
2.make a heart with your hands
3.this kiss your hand while still making a heart
4.then put the heart where your real heart is
5.tomorrow your crush will ask you out
6.this will only work if you post this on your favorite article Ana D.

by SmileygirlLOL on 12/6/2011 8:09:08 AM


@mckenna worden
Hey girly, since your lockers are right next to each other try slipping a note into his. You say he's shy, so notes are a simple way to get him out of his shell. Plus, they're classically adorable. Hope I helped Smile

by French Toast on 12/5/2011 2:40:07 AM


my crush doesn't have a cell phone and i only have one class with him, but his locker is right next to mine. i really want to talk to him but its hard because he is very shy, how can i start to talk to him?

by mckenna worden on 12/4/2011 12:15:24 PM


MOd mod mod
I've known my crush for 6 years and this girl is all over him she in my math class who sits beside me and mine and her crush sits in front of me but on the next table. She doesnt know that I like him. Some of his interest are basketball and football and or fishing. I try talking to him but it's so hard to cause I don't know much about him. He is not my friend I don't think, and how do I make him like me? He is an easy going guy.
Ps I have 4 classes with him and I've tried this article please helP

Hey girlie,

You can't make this girl stop flirting with him (and really, you can't make him like you if he isn't feeling it), but you can totally put yourself on his radar to see what happens! Try asking him for help with homework, chatting about one of his interests, telling him news you heard about a band he loves, etc. You just can't put too much pressure on yourself to have an AMAZING convo the first time you try. You'll get more relaxed with each convo you have! But remember if the chemistry isn't coming on its own, it might just be that you aren't clicking with each other. And that's ok! But you'll never know if you don't try Smile
Lauren C.

by jazzalyn12 on 12/3/2011 10:58:46 PM


MOD MOD MOD!!! my bestie which is a guy asked me out on a date!! i think i like as a bestie better so whith out hurting my besties feelings what shold i say to him. i really want to stay friends too soo help.... ASAP!!


Hey chica, I think you should tell him what you just told me. Let him know you value your friendship too much to ruin it with romance. As long as you're nice about it, he shouldn't be too hurt. Hope this helps! Smile Smile

Lynae P.

by happy*cuz*life on 12/3/2011 6:53:16 PM


My crush is really shy, but i think he likes me too. We dont really talk at school, but we text pretty often. Sometimes i see him looking at me during lunch. Last week, his best friend told me that my crush likes me, but I'm not sure.

by CosmicPuppy on 12/2/2011 5:40:07 PM


The guy I like is really shy, but I think he likes me too. We really dont talk in school, but we text pretty often. Sometimes I see him looking my way at lunch. Last week, his best friend told me that my crush likes me, but I'm still not sure.

by CosmicPuppy on 12/2/2011 5:27:11 PM


MOD MOD MOD!! ok i really like this boy but im to afraid to talk to him he wears skinny jeans and ugly nikes he has deep brown eyes you could get lost in, im not a fan of boys wearing skinny jeans but it sorta works with him he has a lunch nd i have c he dated the most popular prettiest girl in the school for a year like im soo scared should i go talk to him his bus is only a couple away from mine

Hey girl! 

Definitely go talk to him! The best way you can see if you guys would work as a couple is if you spend time talking to him and getting to know him! And what's the worst that can happen - you might not become best friends? Everything will work out the way it's supposed to. Go talk to him! xoxox 
Devin A.

by peacelova on 12/2/2011 8:24:18 AM


i really like this guy, but so does my friend, shes new so she doesnt know i like him and i have a habit of setting my crusheds up with my good friends i dont know why. Now my best friend and my crush are going out.Im a wreck. I was gonna tell him i liked him sometime this week, because my friend said she knew he used to like me, now hes with her. This guy i know told me to tell him how i feel but i dont know if i can im to chicken. Any advise?

Sorry to hear that sweetie, it's never easy to see your crush with someone else, especially if its your BFF. But since your friend didn't know you liked him and you didn't tell him how you've felt, you've gotta let this guy go, for now at least. Things may change in the future, but its not fair now to your friend to tell her now-BF how you feel about him. Concentrate on kicking your crush for now. Get involved in something so you stay busy, and keep your eyes open for new crush material. Soon enough, you'll move on from this guy. 
Rachel N.

by troubles on 11/30/2011 1:39:50 AM


like 10 and 12!

by JessieH on 11/29/2011 12:47:19 AM


Totally awesome! I'll use this!!!

by bebethany on 11/27/2011 5:48:52 PM


mod mod mod mod
There's this guy I met at the beginning of the school year and he's my closest guy friend. We text literally from the moment I wake up until I go to sleep almost every day. I really like him but I can't tell if he likes me or not! My friends think he does because we talk a lot but I'm not too sure because most of his friends are girls. How do I figure it out? And should I tell him how I feel or wait for him?

Hey girlie,

You DO talk to him a lot...texting all day long is a pretty big commitment, so this guy at least really likes you as a friend. Can you observe how he treats you vs. how he treats his other girl friends? Is there a difference? Is he more/less flirty, more/less considerate, more/less awkward? How does he act when you flirt with him - does he seem into it? Just try to flirt/compliment/tease him more and see how he responds. Then you can decide what to do from there Smile 
Lauren C.

by swazyelover2497 on 11/27/2011 1:19:32 AM


First, we don't go to the same school. Second, he is 3 years and 9 months older than me, but we r both ChristiansSmile R parents work together and r dating and they work together, so we see each other almost every weekend unless he has to work. I've noticed he's only at his dads if I am... We r both REALLY shy so it's hard to start conversation, like when we first met which I think was 2 1/2 years ago when he did talk to me his voice was shaky, he looked nervous like he'd just committed a murder. He has a Facebook, but I don't want to add him cuz more than half of his 500 friends r pretty girls and I don't know if he likes me enough to accept. Should I send it anyways? A few days ago he my family was with his and we played games (if I did good he gave me 5's, flashed a smile, and would say good comments) he also asked if I wanted to share preztles with him (I did Smile) he wanted to come with us to his dads but couldn't. How can I be more sociable with him and DOES HE LIKE ME AS MUCH??!


Lynae P.

by AliKatt on 11/26/2011 6:41:27 PM


I rlly like this guy. Hes sweet and cute and kinda dorky. He plays football basketball soccer and baseball. But his gf is one of my best friends. He flirts with me and helped me with my books wen i had crutches. Wat does this meen? Does it meen anything? We txt and talk all the time. I need help! thnx


Lynae P.

by soccer911 on 11/26/2011 6:00:14 PM


Ok so I really like this guy.. he says hi to me in the hall when we're alone and gives the little "sup" nod. he's in choir and everyone says he sucks at singing but whenever I'm around he sounds really good.. could this mean anything? my friends keep telling me to go for it but im scared to cuz last time i liked someone he found out and things got reallyyy awkward between us and now he acts like i dont exist. i dont want this to happen again. and i dont have any classes with him so i dont see him very much. advice please?? thanks Smile

Hey girlie,

You gotta try to get to know him better! It's impossible to tell if he likes you just based on this info. But if you talked to him more often (in person, online, etc.) and flirted in a subtle way, you could get a much better idea of how he feels Smile 
Lauren C.

by dancerchic_4 on 11/24/2011 10:23:18 PM


kk i need help cuz there are this super hot guys at school i like and they are always slaping and grabing my a$$ i secretly like it but i act like i dont CUZ I DONT WANT TO LOOK LIKE A SLUT IS THATB GOOD OR BAD?,,,AND i no this is an awkard question but why do guys like y butt so much i mean every guy i no tells me ´´HEY YOU HAVE A NICE BOOTIE´´,,,, AND STUFF LIKE THAT AND I DONT KNOW WHY,,,,AND BY THE WAY SOME OF THEM HAVE ASKED ME OUT BUT I ALWAYS SAY NO CUZ IM NOT ALLOW TO DATE AND CUZ I THINK THEY MIGHT BE USING ME ,,,SO WHAT DO YALL THINK???M NEED HELP ASAP...

Sometimes physical attention like that doesn't mean anything serious.  But just as often, it can mean that he may be messing with your head or just wants your body.  Just, be careful.  My advice is very similar to your last question, you just gotta' tread carefully. 
Jordan S.

by im-a-total-hottie-not-lying- on 11/24/2011 3:00:50 PM


kk ,,i just want to ask some thing why is it what when i like someone and they dont even know i exsist(cuz they are like one of the popular guys and im like the one that hangs whit the nerds) then some how they find out i like them they start likeing me and sometimes even ask me out?,,oh and by the way these guys are popular and hot and im not ugly at all im actually training for a model but since i still cant say some words in english some ppl dont like me Frown

I'm sure tons of people like you! These guys are proof enough.  I don't have an answer as to why, that's just how the world works.  Funny, huh? 
Jordan S.

by im-a-total-hottie-not-lying- on 11/24/2011 2:26:27 PM


Omg!!! I love these! Thanks GirlsLife!!!

by WeasleysRule on 11/22/2011 6:01:26 PM


i think these were cute tips.... definetly love them!(:

by cherrykiss900 on 11/20/2011 3:02:19 PM


I have noooo idea what to do. Okay so my best friend has a crush on a guy I have a crush on... but she doesnt know it! he moved to our school last year and I have like him since... but so has she. He is ALWAYS staring at me and when i look over he always looks away really quick. Practically all the girls in the grade like him and practically fall at his feet. I am the only one that acts like he is a regular person- though talking to him makes me have chills. I kinda think he likes me because he always trys to have a conversation with me, though I try not to sound very interested, so he keeps trying. I am really confused....

by Wanjiku on 11/19/2011 3:58:04 PM


So my friend set me up to dance with this kid last night at the school dance. I'm in seventh grade and he's in eighth grade. I fell in love with him last night, and he's really cute. We're going to the same high school. how should I get to know him more. the dances are once a month and we have four more. How should I get him to like me and for me to get his number. help ASAP

Hey girl, why not tell him when you see him next that you had a great time or better yet, ask your friend for his number so you can thank him for the great time you had? You don't have to wait until the next dance to talk to him. Work on developing a friendship right now!

Alyssa B.

by way2qt4u on 11/19/2011 11:41:31 AM


Okay so there's this guy I like (we're both fourteen) and I liked him at the beginning of the year but I was new and he was nice and I'm a klutz and he'd always be nice and help e EVERY time, so I finally decided to quit denying my feelings, but I can't hardly breathe when he's near me and he's started putting his bag next to mine on our shelves at school. I always get so nervous and like he's really cool, as cliche as it is I never can seem to speak English or breathe right around him. How can I act more normal and get to know him better without making myself look like an idiot???
Please help me! Sorry this is so long! Thanks! -Annie

Hey girl, well I know it might be hard, but try talking to him. Even if its just a "hi" or "whats up" every now and again. The more you get to know him, the more comfortable you'll be. So just try and start up a conversation! You'll get more comfortable after a while. It'll be okay! =] 
lauren r.

by AcutieBookworm on 11/12/2011 6:18:04 PM


Okay so I have a crush on this guy school he's from new York . I see him everywhere but we have no classEs together ,he's a junior and I'm a senior in high school but when I see him he's always with some girl, and I get a little discouraged. I talk to him a little on Facebook jus to get to know him but when I see in the hallways I get nervous and don't say anything ,I need some help because I don't want it to be to late!

by Mscarrie94 on 11/8/2011 10:15:24 PM


my friend texted my crush asking if he likes me. He said she's cool idk her well tho.
Is that just the nice way of saying no?
We met on halloween and have hung out once since then but text almost everyday Tong

Hey girly! If he is texting you everyday then he must be into you a little bit. Ask him if he would want to hang out again some day, even with friends is okay. And after spark some conversation about hanging out alone some other day. 
Ana D.

by love.hannah on 11/8/2011 6:25:57 AM


okay so theres this guy i REALLY like but hes VERY shy and quiet.i dont know how to approach him and my friend was being a complete and utter spaz and ran rite through him on ihs way to class and knocked all of his books over.she apologized and tried to help him pick them up but he wouldnt let afraid she startled him.he wont talk to ANYONE!He sits all alone at a lunch table and doesnt go to the dances(atleast not the 3 we've had so far) i really want ot atlest be his friend and maybe later on be his girl friend.hes really nice and super sweet when he does talk,but is always made fun of!HELP ME!!!!!!!(i dated one person before but it wasn't a smart choice)thanks

Hey girl! 

If he sits alone at lunch, why don't you ask to sit with him tomorrow? He probably feels really lonely anyway, and if you're friendly and approachable, he'll probably let you sit with him. Work on building a friendship with him first - it seems like that's what this guy really needs right now. Good luck! xoxox 
Devin A.

by BeastArmadillo on 11/7/2011 1:51:32 PM


Hi. I am going to high school for the first time next year and am not sure what to expect. I was home schooled last year (travel commitments) so I missed what would have been my first year of HS. It is a pretty fancy private school too. I'm excited but nervous. What can I expect? School starts January.
Thank you.

Hey babe,

Well, you'll do a LOT more moving around during the day since you'll go to different rooms for all your classes! But you'll pick up on the vibe/what to expect as you go through the first day. No one really knows what to expect before their first day, but you get the hang of it! The most important thing is to remember this: TALK TO PEOPLE. Chat with your classmates before class, raise your hand to answer the teacher's questions, be outgoing and sit with a group at lunch, join a club or sport, etc. The most important thing is to take charge and introduce yourself to people. You want to make sure you meet as many as possible and don't act awkward/withdrawn. Your best high school experience will be one that is social, fun, and filled with supportive friends Smile  
Lauren C.

by justinbieberrox! on 11/6/2011 4:43:04 AM


MOD MOD MOD! I REALLY like this boy, but we dont have any classes together and the only time i see him is in the hallway. when we go to our classes, we always walk the opposite way and hes with a girl all the time. Most of the time it's the same girl, but some other times its a different girl. BTW, we dont have any lockers at my middle school. We first saw eachother at the beginning of 7th grade and talked sometimes and had some classes together, but now i am in 8th grade and we dont talk at all! How do I talk to him again!?

Hey girl,

It sounds like he might have a GF, so try to make sure he's single before you make any moves. Once you find out he's single, then try to chat with him by asking him a question. Do you share any classes or teachers? Asking him a homework question/advice question via text/online is a GREAT way to break the ice! Or you can ask him about one of his interests, clubs, or sports. It's a great excuse to chat him up Smile
Lauren C.

by vgirlv on 11/5/2011 11:31:34 PM


My crush had a crush on me for years up until 2 years ago & he asked my friend if he could talk to me but she said "No! Victoria would never go out with you! Go away you freak!" b/c she thought I didn't like him. Truth is I DID have a crush on him, but I didn't know what my friends would think or how he felt so I didn't say anything . Last year I stopped liking him, but this year I have a HUGE crush on him. He's funny, sweet, on the football team (and I'm a cheerleader)and cute! Now of course, I don't think he likes me anymore. He asked out a lot of people this year & last year and it wasn't me. He'll talk to me once in a while in music class which is every other day, and he'll be nice * super funny. Sometimes he'll stare at me and I'll smile but then he just looks down. How can I get him to love me again & ask me out very soon? Thanks so much!!

by victorialuvs2cheer on 11/5/2011 10:03:23 PM


This guy I like is like 7 years older then me but I've known him since I was basically born his little Sis was my babysitter. And I always thought he was cute as a kid but it was what ever will now I'm 16 and he's 22 or 23 and works at walmart part time. So of coarse I always go to walmart. and his mom told my mom he thinks I'm pretty and he told my mom I was so cute And was acting really shocked I was about to be 17, everytime I go to walmart he talks to me first and his friend who he works with always nudges him if I walk by even though I act chill like I don't notice him. I don't know if he likes me but I've always had a thing for him but I think I really like him. The main problem is he has a gf and she needs to go. But I just want to know how to get noticed and know if there would ever be anything there? Can you help me ?

by Sliger321 on 11/4/2011 11:07:32 PM


Help! Ok So I like this guy who only shares ONE class with me. I know he likes me and I know he knows I like him. He is goin out with someone. But before he did, he told me he was gunna ask me out. But know he isnt avaible. I always sweat when im around him and I always laugh at his jokes so I REALLLLYY like him and i know it so does he. ow do I stop sweating ao=round him? I know when I sweat it makes me smell bad so I end up carrying round spray which he always compliments me on. Help me!

by Baconluver on 11/4/2011 10:04:17 PM


these will never work.... talk about seeing him run in the other direction.... the fuys in my school would laugh..... i just play it cool, be yself, and i attract all the right people(:

by madelinej8 on 10/30/2011 11:19:58 AM


Should I pick number 15????

by dancelovervictoria on 10/29/2011 9:56:58 AM


HELP! I really like this guy. I dont see him that often, but he is my moms bestfriends son. I am facebook friends with him, but he has a girlfriend. I am a really shy person! I have no idea what to say to him to keep the convo light! Please help me!

Hey babe! 

You don't want to steal anyone away from their girlfriend - that's bad karma points! Instead, try to become his friend. If things don't work out between him and his girlfriend, hopefully you'll be able to come into the picture. In order to keep you on his mind, post a funny inside joke on his Facebook wall, or text him about something you two are mutually interested in. Good luck babes! xoxox 
Devin A.

by thatgirl<3 on 10/28/2011 2:49:35 PM


HELP! I really like this guy. I dont see him that often, but he is my moms bestfriends son. I am facebook friends with him, but he has a girlfriend. I am a really shy person! I have no idea what to say to him to keep the convo light! Please help me!

Hey chica! 

If this dude has a girlfriend, then you don't want to start any unnecessary by stealing him! Instead, try to get to know him better as a friend. If things between him and this girlfriend don't work out, then maybe you can start dating him. Until then, talk about things that you're mutually interested in, or post an inside joke of yours on his wall to get a conversation started. Good luck! xoxo
Devin A.

by thatgirl<3 on 10/28/2011 2:47:41 PM


Okay, so my bestfriend has this huge crush on this guy in out art class. The only problem is that he has a girlfriend. Plus shes convinced that he likes me, when he doesn't. He flirts with her sometimes to which doesn't help. I just don't want her to get hurt or cause drama between him and his girlfriend. Any ideas on how to help me keep her from getting hurt?

Hey girlie,

Try to put your bestie in that GF's shoes. Tell her to imagine that she's going out with her crush. Then, tell her to imagine that some other girl is flirting with him, he's flirting back, and she's trying to steal him away. Ask her how she would feel! Angry, jealous, crazy... just some words that would come to mind. Try to get her to open her eyes to this and maybe she'll back off while he's in a relationship. But remember that, at the end of the day, you're not responsible for her. She's her own person and will do what she wants, even if that means getting hurt. You can't always protect her from bad things - she has to make her own mistakes so she learns for next time! <3 
Lauren C.

by magpiesinluv45 on 10/28/2011 12:24:49 AM


I need help!!! Okay so there is this guy that goes to our Church and I really like him! He stares at me all the time! I only get to see him at youth group on wednesdays and Sundays...I dont know what to say to him though. I dont really know anything about him all i know is he looks really hot and smells What should I do??

by Hannah_15 on 10/26/2011 5:42:42 PM


Okay so I like this guy but he likes someone else
Im pretty sure he's attracted to me since he got to know me
But he has been liking this girl for the past year

by tanvi on 10/23/2011 8:56:36 AM


MOD MOD MOD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Ok, so I went out with this guy for like 8 months and i think i still like him and i think he likes me too but he also likes my other friend and she likes him too. WHAT DO I DO???????????

Hey, Girl, it's always a problem when a guy likes two girls, especially if he's your ex. But remember, he's your ex for a reason, so do you really still like him or do you just miss having someone around? He doesn't sound like a very nice guy if he likes both you and your friend and won't commit to one of you. If liking this guy is going to be an uphill battle where you have to "win" him back, it might not be worth it, so reconsider your feelings before you go through with anything. Good luck! 
Rachel N.

by Bublz on 10/21/2011 11:48:14 AM


Mod mod mod
I have a friend and I like this guy and the guy never really talked to my friend ever since we started 6th grade and she has alot of classes with him and I only have one. Ive liked him ever since third grade and so Im kinda jealous of my friend because she talks to my crush and sometimes he does talk to her too but he never talked to me ever since sixth grade started. How do I make him like me not my friend.

Try these icebreakers for when you guys are around each other:

Brittany G. 
Brittany G.

by jazzalyn12 on 10/18/2011 11:18:46 PM


Ok so I have I crush on this boy in my class, I thought he liked me back because he gave me his Facebook address to add him as a friend and on valentine’s day he gave me a lollipop or maybe he was just being nice because no1 gave me anything that day. I saw his phone number on his facebook profile and I texted him, he texted me back but we didn’t really say much…the next day I texted him and he said “ who is this” and I was so mad cuz I thought he already saved my phone number or he didn’t really care so he didn’t bother to save it, and I texted him back and said “its Lynn I thought u saved my phone number”…he didn’t text me back and the next day at school he didn’t talk to me..we haven’t spoken to each other since then, I was mad at myself for even bothering to text him cuz I think it ruined everything…PLS HELP…I don’t know what I did wrong or maybe he likes me but he is just shy…thanks.

by Sweetizzy on 10/18/2011 9:34:37 PM


There is this guy I really like! I've liked him since the beginning of the school year, but he has a girlfriend and she is one of my friends that is really nice to me. All my other friends are supporting me. My best firnd likes his best friend and he has a girlfriend to. We both can't forget about them they are in our dreams,thoughts,diaries and more but what do we do?

by Girlygirl6789 on 10/18/2011 9:21:21 PM


I asked my guy friend if he would help me with a subject he is really good at and Im not. He said yes. I brought it up the next day and he said he totaly forgot. Does he want to help me or did he really forget. he said we could do it again sometime but Im not sure if he will remember again.

HELP!!! what do I do??!!

by rockstardiva on 10/17/2011 7:14:22 PM


ok, so there is this guy that I like. We are sorta friends. What I mean by that is we talk during school, but half of the time he forgets I'm there and we runs ahead and talkes with his friends. I get that if we arent super good friends we wouldnt want to talk to me all the time right?? He is really good at math and I am horrible so I asked him if he could help me study for our big test commimg up and maybe with my homework. He said yes how about sometime next week? well...... its next week!!! I tried to bring it up today and he is like, oh! totally forgot sorry. Does he really want to help me or does it sound like he is jut trying to be nice?? he said we could figure something out tomarrow but will he forget again??

please help me if you can!!

by rockstardiva on 10/17/2011 7:08:37 PM


Ok so I like this guy, we dated before, but I have reaccuring feelings. U might want 2 know that we broke up before because he wanted 2 date another girl but she said no. He asked me to stay after with him in for school help, but I didn't help him with anything, we just talked. He was thinking of going 2 one of my swim meets. We had a class trip to a haunted hayride last Saturday, it was optional, but I didnt want 2 go, but I asumed that as he wanted me to go to spend time with him. But when I txtd him asking how it was on saturday, he never txtd me back! I didn't send him txt after txt, after he didnt respond 2 my first txt I left it alone. Then I come 2 school the next day and my frind tells me that she talked to him and he said he liked someone but her story wasnt very detailed so he didnt say he didnt like me, but he never said he did.Today he asked my friend "hey ask...if she wants to go to my soccer game, you should go 2 so she isnt lonely" Does he like me? or not?

Hey babe! 

Unfortunately, it seems like this guy is just not that into you. When a guy likes you, he'll always find excuses to hang out with you, he'll text you back, and he'll want to spend time with you (future boyfriends will love to go to your swim meets!) This dude is probably upset that you're not giving him the attention he's used to. Move on and find someone who will treat you the way you deserve to be treated. xoxox 
Devin A.

by limerock12 on 10/17/2011 4:13:13 PM


I just started a club called Making Sense of Guys. The point of the club is to get advice, talk out some of your problems, help others, and just to have fun. If this sounds interesting, please join and I'm also looking for some officers like VP and Secretary.
If you're interested, please send me a message at my profile!

by leesh1312 on 10/17/2011 5:21:16 AM


Modmodmod!Smile dear mod, im in a suckish situation cause this guy liked me for a month and i only liked him as a that i like him he doesnt like me anymore!just my luck haha idk if he doeant like me anymore for sure or he started liking me again because someone told him i like him Frown buti was wondering what signs should i look for? And my more important question is can i have one of my close friends find out for me?Smile thank u!!

Hey girlie,

Signs should include catching him looking at you in the hallway/across the room, complimenting you, teasing you, trying to flirt, acting a lil awkward, etc. All the ways you might act toward him if you liked him, really! And that's exactly what you should do to get a little closer to him again - talk, flirt, and over time grow to be better friends. It's totally fine to ask a close friend to investigate for ya (she could ask him or one of his besties), but remember that you can't 100% trust anybody's word except his about whether he is crushin' or not. Smile
Lauren C.

by swimstarry on 10/16/2011 1:12:31 AM


I have a crush on this guy whos been my friend for about 8 years and now im starting to have second thoughts about him like i think i might like him

by daringdiva on 10/15/2011 3:24:14 PM


so i am elementary school and in 5.Their is this guy who i have a huge crush on.We were in 1 together.He had a crush on me but i didn't really.then he left and came back to my school to 5 grade.He is not in my class but my best friend told me that he lives in her neighborhood and that they are friends.So i told her if she can ask him if remembers me.He said yes! That's all he remembers.He said that i am pretty,funny,cute,and teachers pet.He also said that he wants to see my face again and wants to be friends.I got all excited i started practicing how to talk to him.But when it came to the day my mouth turned to stone and my mouth got dry.i ran away lucky he did not see me.I really want to talk to him and be friends but when i look at him i go to la la land. How can i talk to him and be friends again if i can;t talk to him??PLEASE HELP ME ASAP!!!!!!!

by tana500004 on 10/15/2011 11:30:45 AM


I have a HUGE crush on this guy in my P.E. class.
We play on the same flag football team, so he knows who I am and everything...
Problem is that he is a grade ahead of me, and I don't know much about him (like whether or not he's single).
Also, it's a small school so if I ask around, the news will be sure to get back to him.

What should I do?

by bobrox234 on 10/14/2011 11:21:19 PM


So there is this guy I like. I think he likes me. We used to sight right across from each other in one class, but we got separated for talking to each other. We sit right next to each other in another class. Sometimes we'll hit our arms at each other. And today during civics we were playing footsie in the front of the room. We're always walking together, and he knows my biggest secrets. He's always asking who I like, but he won't tell me who he likes. The other day, my face was a foot from his, and I noticed that his pupils covered almost the entire colored part of his eyes. Does he like me?

Hey girlie,

He really does sound like he might be crushin' on you! Especially because of the physical contact, like the arms bumping and playing footsie. Keep on flirting, teasing him, and complimenting him - drop hints that you like him any way you can! <3 
Lauren C.

by spunkygirl03 on 10/13/2011 9:10:45 PM


modmodmodmod HELP!!! there is this guy i really like i have no classes with him, and he hardly knows me i am a cheerleader and he is on the football team, but football season is over and i only see him in the hallways. how can i get him to notice me, and how can we get closer


Hey chicky, start saying hi and ask him questions about football. See if he's going to play next year and ask him who his fave teams are. Ask about his classes too. Hope this helps! Smile Smile

Lynae P.

by kui on 10/12/2011 8:23:57 PM


love to use these to start up a convo with my BF who i don't talk to alot...but we don't have ANY classes together do u have any tip for good e-mail convo

by bubblyblueberry33 on 10/10/2011 9:28:04 PM


Mod Mod Mod!! I would love to use these tips but I cant. I have drama with my crush and cant really ask to share books or about homework cause we don't that stuff. Any other tips for my prob.


Hey chicky, maybe you could ask him to help you with some acting stuff. If you guys are working on monologues or scenes, ask him to watch and give you feedback. If you guys ever have any tests in that class see if he will study will you. Hope this helps! Smile Smile

Lynae P.

by smartpaws on 10/8/2011 6:24:22 PM


i dont think a lot of these would work on most boys!!!!!!!!!!!!

by LikeOmgx10 on 10/2/2011 5:44:01 PM


So I just got asked out by this one guy I said yes. He seemed really happy and I am really happy. I want to wear a really cute outfit on Monday. I already wore my most killer outfit this week to get his attention and I don't really want to wear it again. What would you suggest for something fashionable, and cute that might get a compliment from him? I was thinking this pink and gray striped tee with a pink tank underneath with skinny jeans, pink boots , light pink eyeshadow, and a ponytail. Does that seem like a cute outfit?

That seems like a very cute outfit Smile i say go for it! xoxo kerra 
Kerra S.

by KatieW on 9/30/2011 5:26:45 PM


NEVER EVER say if we were together right now what would we be doing. thats a recipe for trouble

by butterflygirl14 on 9/28/2011 4:13:58 PM


I like 2 guys and they both giving me signs they like me... what should I do?! Homecoming is in October and IDK who to choose... idk if they know I like them. How should I approach them or choose one!

by qt506 on 9/27/2011 12:14:49 AM


I like this guy but he's poplular and Im kinda in the middle you can say a Im seim cool geek how do I know if he likes me?????

by boycrusher191 on 9/18/2011 6:54:28 PM


So, my parents let me date, but they said that they don't want to find out by facebook. I don't mind telling them. But how should I? I don't just want to come home and be like, "Hey mom, I got a boyfriend today!" Because that would be the most awkward conversation ever. So, how do I do it?

by ngracehart on 9/18/2011 12:43:07 AM


I used to be really good friends with this one guy, and he asked me out. But at the time, I didn't like him that way, but he was really sad and we don't talk anymore. Now he always talks to all of these girls, and I'm really jealous andI hate it! I really like him now, but he thinks I hate him. Is there anyway for me to get him to start talking to me again?

by ngracehart on 9/18/2011 12:35:22 AM


I have another problem, actually several more problems... but that's beside the point.
Anyways, I like this guy, and I almost posiive he likes me back. He always talks to me, and compliments me and stuff. Only problem, he's black. And my dad told me I'm not aloud to date black guys because there all 'punks'.
I really like him, how can I date him without getting in trouble with my dad?

by ngracehart on 9/18/2011 12:27:18 AM


One of my best friends likes this guy, and I like him too, but she doesn't know that. I started liking him first and I think he might like me too, but just out of curiosity I asked her like what she would do if he asked out one of our friends and they said yes. She said she would slap her. I knew she was kidding, but I also know that she'd be mad if I went out with him. Is there any way that I cold date him without losing one of my best friends?

by ngracehart on 9/18/2011 12:14:43 AM


yaa thanks for the tips

by Princess28 on 9/17/2011 4:41:37 PM


So there's this guy in one of my classes who I think is really cute, and he seems nice from what I've heard about him (and learned from some minor creeping haha) We have one class together, but we don't sit next to each other, and we don't know each other through any other way. How can I somehow catch his eye or start a conversation or get him to start a conversation without making it super obvious that I like him?


Hey girlie,

Do you have any mutual friends? Have them hook ya up! Does he belong to any clubs or play in any sports that you could get involved with? Does he have a screenname/are you friends on FB? Try to be creative and think of reasons to talk to him - questions you could ask, etc. It's tough to make that first move but once you do, take a deep breath and just go with the flow of the convo!

Lauren C.

by 31sftballplayer on 9/15/2011 8:30:25 PM


Good advice Smile

by Chyna2000x on 9/11/2011 4:40:14 AM


hello,so i'm an 8th grader.& ive been just like started to be friends with this kid who's a sophmore(10th grade). he is really nice,and i think he is so hot. and for some reason he is nothing like any of the guys i would ever like.. he's just different. but nice,cute,really smart, & very funny. but anyways, i think i'm starting to like him a little bit. like we waved to each other at a football game yesterday and it made my heart skip a beat! no joke! but what do i do? is it possible me and him could ever date or even ''talk'' ?
thank you alot!,

Hey Amber,

This sounds like it could be the start of something! It's totally possible that you two could get to know each other and connect, whether it's on a friends level or something more. But you'll never know unless you give it a try! You're already in contact so just gradually talk to him more and more often in person, via text, online (AIM/Facebook), etc. Take advantage of any mutual friends, common interests/clubs/sports/classes, and get to know him better babe! Then take it one day at a time to see if flirting and even dating could be possible. As long as you get along and have things in common, I don't see why the age difference would matter Smile 
Lauren C.

by ikechick98 on 9/10/2011 9:26:29 PM


stupid fiends. Why are they even in life? Why can't we all be the poor little girl in the back of the room thats sooo shy? UGH they're sooo stressful!!!! :/

by Princess28 on 9/10/2011 7:53:48 PM


Mod!Mod!Mod! My crush used to talk to me a lot. until my science teacher made this girl sit next to him.They talk every time shes next to him. He even interrupts me just to talk to her. What should I do?


Hey girly, you gotta win your man back! Think of all the things he's interested in and talk to him about that. If he likes basketball, talk about the latest game that was on tv. It also doesn't hurt to dress up a little bit. Not flashy or revealing, but something cute and fashion forward. Also see if sometimes you can join in on his conversation with the girl. Hope this helps! Let me know if you have anymore questions!! Smile Smile

Lynae P.

by Cutey56842 on 9/10/2011 5:41:29 PM


Well, um, my boyfriend said he would tattoo my name on his bicep... I guess we share a special love XD

by Roses&Hearts on 9/8/2011 11:32:05 PM


Dear Mod~~
I dated this guy last year. We liked eachother for around 4 years b4 we started dating, and we dated for 3 months before he broke up with me. I don't know why he broke up with me. I had liked and dated guys before him, but when I met him I knew he was diff than any other guy. I knew he would be the one for me when he threw a pokemon toy at me in 5th grade.. I loved him, I honestly did, which most ppl laugh at cuz Im not even sixteen or anything. We liked each other so much, and even tho we never went past 2nd base, it was a feeling that we had never felt b4. Its been a long time since then, and we don't have feelings for eachother anymore. We're just close friend. Even though we don't like each other, every time I go near him I get flash backs of kissing him and I get chills and I want to be with him again, I just want the past to come back so I can relive it. It will never happen again, he'd never date me again, so how can I stop thinking this stuff about him and move on?


Hey girl,

It's totally normal to remember all of your good times, wish you could have that butterflies-in-your-stomach/lovey feeling again, and have a BF who you can face the world with. But things didn't work out between you and this guy, so try to remember that - even though you had fun, you probably weren't meant to be together. The past is great to remember fondly but, like you said, it won't happen again - you're both older, at a different place in your lives, and won't be able to recreate what you once had. But there's something kinda nice with that - you can always remember those memories and you two shared them, so there's no one who can take that away! And it's great you can still be friends! Just remember that you will have memories like that with other guys and, eventually, will meet one who just keeps the memories on coming Smile

Lauren C.

by Tomatos97 on 9/8/2011 4:53:59 PM


MOD MOD MOD MOD!! There is this guy in my brother's boy scout troop and I really like him. He's a year older than me and goes to a different school... anyway me and him have talked before just small talk or whatever and he let me wear his jacket at one of the meetings. but I'm just wondering how I can start up a convo with him since he's always around alot of other guys when i see him? he plays football so I'm planning on going to some of his games. When I see him I always catch him looking and glancing over at me, which makes me hopeful that he likes me, and one of my guy friends said it sounds like he really likes me because i told my guy friend what we said in the convos. what do you think? and what is the best way o start a conversation when there is lots of guys around? Thank you so much!!


Hey missy, I think he really likes you! You could try calling him over to talk to you when he's with his group of friends, or you could try joining their conversation. Pull him to the side whenever you get a chance. Hope this helps ya!! Smile Smile Smile

Lynae P.

by pinkguitar98 on 9/7/2011 6:34:45 PM


heylo! um.. hi, I'm Alyssa, and i dont feel very comfortable asking about guys, but i was wondering something. There is this guy, and i like him, but I'm not sure if he feels the same. Normally, i would be able to tell, but for some reason i dont feel quite as sure. I used to like him in 6th grade, and it was rumoured (by his friends) that he liked me too. and back then, i felt that he liked me, I could just tell. Now, i am just curious, for if he actually likes me.
1) how do YOU tell if a guy likes you?
2) Why do you think Im not sure of his feelings?

Hey girl, 1) it really depends on the guy. It can be tricky sometimes, but in general they'll go out of their way to talk to you and really make an effort to be there with you. 2) I think you're not sure because it's tough, Alyssa. Boys (people, really) can be very hard to gauge, especially when they keep their feelings to themselves. So follow your intuition here and take cautious steps toward unveiling the truth. You can do it! Hang in there!

Alyssa B.

by parischick2 on 9/5/2011 8:34:59 PM


MOD MOD MOD! I already like this guy, but we havent talked in person. and we just started texting. i dont know what to say! what should we talk about?

Hey girl, talk about your interests or mutual classes. And when you can, def chat in person: so much better than screen convos!

Alyssa B.

by boycrazy635 on 9/5/2011 8:19:05 PM


This what I'm gonna ask my crush "Would you rather go on a date with me OR kiss me" i hope he says he wold rather kiss me

by Sel201 on 9/3/2011 9:55:54 PM


i tried #1: Me "Hey, Wheres room 23?" Him "Right next to your old classroom! Room 24!" He said it like i was stupid or something!!!

by JellyBean101 on 9/2/2011 7:51:09 PM


lol i know right

by JellyBean101 on 9/2/2011 7:47:51 PM


10. cheesy!!!! 89. that takes courage...major courage. Smile

by sweetpea185 on 8/31/2011 11:08:42 AM


MOD MOD MOD! Still, how do i talk to him? I'm so shy!

Take a deep breath and follow the tips in the article Smile

Brittany G. 
Brittany G.

by JellyBean101 on 8/30/2011 9:08:24 PM


I like this really cute guy in my grade in the next class over!!! Last year we were in math and LA together and we talked in math. I see him out of class all the time,but im too shy, so my friends are trying to help me out and push me to talk to him... so what i'm asking is how can i tell if he likes me or when to talk to him and what about. all he does is play soccer during recess and our priciple doesn't want anyone who's not playing off the field.....again: How do i know he likes me and when is the right time for me to talk to him?

Brittany G.
Brittany G.

by JellyBean101 on 8/30/2011 8:54:18 PM


I'll probably be doing the "on the field" ideas. We both play soccer.

by AlwaysDreamer on 8/30/2011 12:14:21 PM


Another mod didnt really help. Do u have another idea? i like this guy and we r starting middle school soon, but hes going to another school. he lives in the neighborhood, but his friendds r total jerks. help me! my parents say im too young to date but some ppl date behind there parents backs, and idk if i should do tht, or wait til im old enough. i am so confused and really need answers! thanks!

by ConfusedGirl123 on 8/28/2011 10:28:57 PM


Some of these scream "DESPERATION!" Will number ten (O.o) and some others look legit? Probably not. Some of these are good flirting moves in my opinion; others... uh... no. Unless the guy is my only reason for living, some of these are almost freakishly desperate. And if some random boy you're crushing on is your only reason for living, flirting with him is the LEAST of your problems.

by Freakout911 on 8/26/2011 8:24:14 AM


MOD! i like a guy thats going to another middle school and moving in december. My parents wont let me date but everyone else dates behind their parents backs. Should I do what they do or wait til im alowed? please answer!

Hey girl, while it's never a good idea to disobey your parent's, as long as you keep your dates innocent, I don't see why you couldn't be boyfriend/girlfriend — at least on middle school terms — for a bit. Introduce your parents to this guy and show them why he's so wonderful. Your parents just want what's best for you, which is why they may be more hesitant about the dating thing.

Alyssa B.

by ConfusedGirl123 on 8/25/2011 10:29:39 PM


GL EMERGENCY! I lovveee this really hot guy that i dont really know. his friend told me that i should flirt with him because he like it.. how do i flirt on an online website to him? plleaase answer i need help!!

by queenra on 8/25/2011 9:52:04 PM


Thank I who put this up because it really helps I am using it on this guy I like at <3<3<3 it

by b3llab3ar on 8/25/2011 5:44:10 PM


MOD!MOD!MOD! It's almost back to school, and I really want my best guy friend know that I wanna be more than friends. What should I do?



Brittany G.

Brittany G.

by skyblue120 on 8/23/2011 5:47:45 PM


wow #10 is certainly dramtic

by Balletgirl1198 on 8/23/2011 2:18:25 PM


omg i accually tryed # 52 and it kinda worked i was hanging with my friend at my neighbors party and these 2 boys were playing foot ball (brothers) and i had my eye on the older one (12 im almost 12)and he said heads up cuz the foot ball was comming at me and my friend and i caught it and through it back and next thing i knew we were all talking and he said he was fast and i raced him and almost one and we talked the rest of the night.

by 1218me on 8/22/2011 9:57:32 PM


MOD!*** Im needing some advice of how to keep a conversation going with my boyfriend cause it seems in the middle of one it just seems to you know..die out! Whats some good conversation starters so the relationship wont be boring when talking to eachother!?

Hey babe,

You gotta play off of the conversation you're having! Instead of answering "yes" or "no" questions, ask more open-ended questions that will require him to think about his answers. Then, respond to that with your own thoughts, experiences, or opinions. Try to keep it going this way - it's all about give and take Smile 
Lauren C.

by KeezyJ. on 8/22/2011 7:55:59 PM


I'm going to middle school this year. If i get a boyfriend, my dad would KILL me! My parents are super strict. I know my mom MAY understand- but how do I tell my mom?

Hey chica!

Before you talk to your mom, wait it out to see if there is a boy that you might want to date. If you find someone that you really like, and that really likes you back, tell your mom. Just say, "Mom. There's this boy that I really like. And I think you would like him too. Would you like to meet him?" Try introducing him to your parents before you ask them what they think about the idea of you dating. If they say no, just go with it. There's no reason you can't still be friends with the guy. 
Katelyn L.

by vannahb1999 on 8/18/2011 3:08:25 PM


Im going on my first date with this guy i kinda like. We're just gonna go for a walk around the neighborhood. I feel like he might kiss me. If he kisses me, what should we do after? theres always a weird moment.

Hey chica!

First dates are always so excited, so good for you! That's awesome! If he kisses you, it will all happen naturally. It's possible that it will be awkward, but don't stress about it. Everyone has awkward moments. You could always try saying something like, "that was unexpected," or you could be really bold and smile and flat out say, "I really like you." Say whatever's on your mind right after it happens. Best of luck! 
Katelyn L.

by MusicLove on 8/18/2011 2:19:34 AM


so i like this guy (i have 4 a while) but he's never in any of my classes!

by ashangel26 on 8/17/2011 3:47:39 PM


Can't wait to try these out when school starts!!!!!

by glitterNswim on 8/13/2011 11:56:14 PM


I LOVE this Smile Cuz this is the stuff that actually works!

by Laurenw23 on 8/13/2011 9:55:33 AM


MOD MOD MOD ok so i like am in the 8th grade & not allowed 2 date. However i want 2 talk 2 my 'rents bout datin this year. Do u hav any tips on how 2 start the convo there and wats a good time 2? THANX

 Ask them if you guys can discuss dating and wait for a time when everyone is in a good mood Smile

Brittany G.  
Brittany G.

by onm1997 on 8/12/2011 9:13:00 PM


Hey girls! If you like to read, write or both could you please join my club "Bookworms & Writers"? I am trying to reach at-least 55 members by the end of the week and right now I'm at 43. I would really appreciate your help! Smile

by LexilicousCandy on 8/9/2011 10:21:16 PM


MOD MOD MOD tonight we have a pool parrty for the new kids at my school to meet everyone else, i know theres going to be a lot of new guys coming and i need some tips on flirting asap!!

Hey girly,
Just smile and show interest in what he has to say. Look him in the eye and don't be afraid to touch him on the shoulder or arm, especially if you think you're hitting it off.

Catie C.

by quinn1218 on 8/8/2011 4:19:33 PM


MOD another thing to my post...when she oes txt him she txts him for hours



Hey babe. Hmmm...With the new school year coming up maybe you can get involved with other gals? I still think you should talk to her though.

mary h.

by FigureSkater08 on 8/8/2011 12:54:32 PM


MOD so my friend has been making me kindof upset lately. When i go over to her house shell txt the guy i like and say it was me which it wasnt and and ask qwestions and annoy him saying its me and i try to stop her but she wont because she likes to do it and so then i sed ok if u do that then ill txt the guy u like and shes like then ill tell the guy u like more stuff. And one time she even asked him if he liked me but she locked me out so i cudnt stop her Frown wat can i doo??



Hey babe. That is so no cool! Talk to your friend about this because it is totally not friend behavoir. She should respect your privacy.

mary h.

by FigureSkater08 on 8/8/2011 12:53:19 PM


MOD so this guy ive really really really liked alot for about 9 months now knows i like him and stuff. But what if hes not in my classes and i know hes not in clubs outside of school hes just in athletics and stuff but were in belles and beaux together but its like a feeling where u cant see him "not in your life" sorta thing and we talk sometimes and stuff but what can i do if hes not in any of my classes? ThanksSmile



Hey babe. You have already told him you like him, so there isn't much you can do. Try to ask him to do something outside of class.

mary h.

by TexasCutie08 on 8/8/2011 12:36:11 PM


uggg! i would never have the guts to do any of these things! all i do is if i catch him looking over look him in the eyes and smile. if he's interested he'll come over. i know that sounds mean but it works for me!

by swimgirl13 on 8/5/2011 2:44:11 PM


omg this actually works!i did this stuff on two guys for practice and now they are head over heels!when i got back to school im going to try it on my crush. ;)

by musicgeneration on 8/4/2011 11:27:42 AM


Hope these work!

by guitarsrsweet55 on 8/3/2011 4:22:10 PM


MOD MOD MOD!!!!!! last year i had crushes on a few different guys and im afraid none of them will be in my classes this year im hoping for the best but what should i do!???

Hey girl,

If they're not in your classes, find another way to see them! See if they're in any after school clubs or activities that you can join. Also, you might have new crushes in your classes this year, so be patient! x0x0 
Casey L.

by Balletgirl1198 on 8/3/2011 1:57:47 PM


i wish these would work. my crush would TOTALLY freak out if i said anything to him like this... ughhhh Frown

by yankeesgirlyfan on 8/2/2011 10:33:53 PM


I like a friend's older brother. She doesn't know. She talks openly about how it's such a betrayal though. I don't know how to tell her, or if I even should tell her. Any advice?

Hey girl,

Ouch. Personally, since you know how she feels about crushin' on an older sib, I think I'd probably try to let this one go. It's not like you could reason with her and tell her how your feelings for him don't change the way you feel about her - it sounds like she'd be really hurt by this. So try to keep in under wraps and, instead of telling her, tell another trustworthy friend or write about it in your diary. Work through your feelings and remind yourself that it's totally ok to like her brother even if you can't tell her, but that there are also lots of guys out there who could make you even happier! Though this situation could definitely turn out for the best, often crushes on older bros don't even turn into dating at all - so you could lose this friend over nothing, which would be a huge bummer Frown
Lauren C.

by la-ucy on 8/1/2011 7:37:33 PM


MOD MOD! So I have this sorta huge crush on this guy in my church. I REALLY like him and I think he might like me but I'm not 100% sure. I'm really shy and very self-consicious around guys and have never had a boyfriend before and he seems shy too, so Im really nervous. And it is hard to catch him alone becasue he is always with his friends. How can I break the ice?

Hey babe! Try to catch him after or before church or whenever you see him. He'll be alone then, as he's arriving or before he's leaving. Just remember to be confident! Check out these links for more tips! xoxo 
Jess W.

by dancerhn on 8/1/2011 12:49:15 AM


i think i like this guy at my gym. i havent really thought about it till a friend brought it up. we both do gymnastics go on the same days and im super close with his coach and like if i bring alot of food one day like cookies than id share with them and stuff and i always catch him staring at me and smiling is that a sign that he likes me too? and we dont really know each other like maybe we've said hi once or twice and he would say something when im talking to his coach and all but nothing really and i know hes a yr older than me and goes to another school. would this work? what should i do to like talk to him more and stuff

Helen S.

by lovelikemagic on 7/27/2011 8:13:24 PM


MOD So im a triplet and im the youngest and we all look ALOT alike but were not identicle and people tend to compare us. And since im the youngest its like people think of me as the "smallest" but im not were all the same height but my sister whos oldest is about 2 inches taller than me and my other sis and people call her the mature tall one and the middles just tht other triplet. but i get all along with my sisters really well but it seems everyone likes my oldest sister the best because shes taller and more "mature" cuz shes the oldest any advice on what i should do?? Thanks



Hey girl. All this business about who is older is silly. I have a close friend who was born an hour before me and I would call her out if she pulled the I'm older card.  Be the best you and try not to compare yourself to your sisters, not matter how often other people do. You are unique and special. Don't let anyone tell you otherwise.

mary h.

by TexasCutie08 on 7/26/2011 12:09:45 PM


I have a crush on this boy who's in my class but i am worried that he doesn't like me because i am in top sets and also i am not really the most popular girl either! Help? What should i do?
By the way i have never had a boyfriend before and i am worried!!

by Moll06x on 7/26/2011 10:17:58 AM


Mod mod mod! So there is this guy I really like, but he is rly popular, and I am not, and I really want him to ask me out, but I'm not very good at subtlleness. how do I drop hints without being really obvious and saying out right that I like him and wish he would ask me out. Also, how do I get him to text me, because I seem to be the one that always starts the convos (we've only texted four times since april, and that seems to be only because I texted him first).



Hey babe. There is no way to make a guy ask you out for sure. The best thing to do is to talk to him more when you get back to school. Feel him out. Also, from my perspective, there is nothing wrong with asking a guy out. This isn't the middle ages, women can do anything men can!

mary h.

by romanticbookworm13 on 7/25/2011 2:04:48 PM


MOD! MOD! OK so there is this guy at my new/old school who's my first bgf at that school. We flirted a lot in the beginning. He let me wear his hat, I let him wear mine. He kisses my watch, lays his hand across my hand, then lays his hand across my thigh! [Which I think is really cute]. And he asks me to chase him, and not his gf he has! He always says 'She doesn't want too.' But then, he and I stopped flirting after he broke up w/ his gf, and we like never talk anymore. We've had more fights than I can imagine, and it doesn't seem like he's my best guy friend anymore. ;( But then one day, he walks up to me in class and asks me very stiffly, "Will you go out w/ me?" I said no since I thought it was a joke, but now... I regret saying it! Please help! I don't know what to do anymore!

Hey babe! He probably stopped talking to you because he was nervous about asking you out. You should apologize for not taking him seriously. Then if you want to, try to tell him that you've changed your mind. If you don't want to be in a relationship with him then tell him that you really want to work on your friendship. From all the flirting you two were doing, it sounds like you like him... Just decide and hopefully he understands and accepts your apology. xoxo 
Jess W.

by Bubbling Life on 7/25/2011 7:49:48 AM


so my bf and I have been dating for like 6 months but about a month or three ago his parents found our cuz we had been dating in secret, now that his parents know they want him to break up, he refuses, but its too hard because they know he wont break up so they have forbidden communication, i rlly dont want to break up with him, i just want his parents to like me and be ok with us, is there anything i or he can do to fix this? i rlly want this all to go away so i can have a normal realationship, pls help Cry

Hey babe! I answered your other post, so check out that one! 
Jess W.

by uzbekistan on 7/25/2011 6:55:47 AM


me and my boyfriend had been secretly dating for a few months, after a while his parents found out and got mad, and told him he had to break up with me, instead we just called each other, and talke don facebook, after a bit they checked him email and facebook, and forbid communication with me, im 13, and he is 15, so its not like he is too young to date?!?!?! im confused, what i should do, i dont want to break up because i rlly do love him, so any advice? waht should i or he do? Cry pls help, thank you

Hey babe! I answered your other post, so check out that one! 
Jess W.

by uzbekistan on 7/25/2011 6:44:12 AM


mod ok so i just got back from school camp yesterday and after i got back i dumped my bf because i didnt want to ruin our great friendship we had before we dated. however when i was at camp i met this amazing boy but he is in the year above me and now that its the school holidays i wont see him for 6 weeks unless i meet up with him Frown i have his fb but i dont know how to ask for his number and if i do get his num how do i arrange to meet up with him. also what would be a good amount of time before asking him out as i have only known him for 8 days but we have already hugged, arms around eachother and i hugged him when he was crying. though my bff likes him too plz help what should i do ?? Frown


Hey chica, I think you should try facebook chatting with him.  If it goes well (there's no specific amount of time, maybe a few chats!), you could try to suggest hanging out.  See if something comes up naturally - like, you're talking about new movies, and there's one you both want to see.  You could suggest going together - that would solve both sitches, as you would get a phone number and a hang-out!  God luck!  Smile

Marie H.

by OWL-city on 7/23/2011 6:34:58 AM


For some reason the boy i like(d ??) he stopped talking to me the way he used to. we have typical convos and He was always funny and a bunch of other stuuf but now hes not. After i told him he was hot we would constantly talk (and flirt!). And now he doesnt talk alot to me. Was there something i did to make him stop talking to me?

hey! boys are fickle, he's probably just being spacey. so talk to him and rekindle the sparks Smile 
Helen S.

by babygirl1265 on 7/22/2011 2:41:03 PM


MOD!! Kay so this I think this guy likes me, but I don't want to be embarrassed if he doesn't! Since late April/early may, he's tried to kiss me... TWICE!, huugged me goodbye probably around 7 times (that's when noone was around), put his arm around my shoulder, sat with me, trapped me in his arms (from the back! In a nice way, of course), and so on!! Im pretty sure he does but another problem is that my friend doesn't like him. I always tell her that I would ne'er let this boy get between us, but she keeps on saying "no, don't get into him".... I think she's either jealous of him liking me, or she's just being very protective (which is kinda good, kinda bad) HELP!


Hey girl. It definitely seems like he likes you! You're right about your friend's signals, they could either be that she's jealous or sincerely worried about losing you as a friend. So before you get into boy drama, show your friend through actions that you'll always be there for each other. And then if you think this guy is a good boy for you to date, take it slow but allow yourself to follow your true feelings.

kara g.

by Goaliegirl1998 on 7/22/2011 12:44:09 PM


MOD MOD!!!!!!!
i was at the pool and my crush was there. we started talking and just hanging out. we were sitting on the side and he started poking me and then one of his friends pushed me in. my crush yelled at him and held out his hand to help me out. after that about 30 mins. later i had to leave. i said goodbye but then he held out his hand and i shook it but then he held onto it for a couple of mins. my friend hugged me goodbye and then he said "Do I get a hug." i said that if he wanted one he had to come get one so he hugged me . i felt so relaxed when we were hugging. but i am scared he was just messing with me. what should i do?

Hey girl, just continue to pay it by ear. Sounds like this guy could like you, so I'd hint to him you like him but I wouldn't assume he's crushing just yet. The line's thin.

Alyssa B.

by katiekat20 on 7/22/2011 12:58:22 AM


ok so my bgf, whom I used to like now I think likes me. Were in fifth going into sixth grade if it helps. He sometimes is mean and bothers me and acts like a know it all but then one time I was busy and he was over at my house he brought me my dinner. Could he possibly like me or not?

Hey girl, I think he definitely likes you as a friend. As something more? I wouldn't be so quick to judge. Try talking to him or flirting with him more to get a better idea if he's flirting or trying to hint he'd like you as his girlfriend.

Alyssa B.

by Nmun2000 on 7/19/2011 11:15:13 PM


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by Tres R on 7/18/2011 4:58:08 PM


Thankss!! I'll def use the partner one! i mean one on one time SmilePERFECT!!!!!!

by bieberlover586 on 7/18/2011 1:23:24 PM


I may go to a new school, and it's going to be so SAD if I leave my little town Frown But new guys, if I move, I'll come back and remember these tips...thanks GL. *Cross fingers for cuties*

by MusicTaughtMeHowToLive on 7/16/2011 11:35:00 PM


There is this guy that I really like but I know that he doesn't back. All my friends tell me to get over but i just can't. He's my first major crush.

by JosieJo12793 on 7/15/2011 1:04:22 PM


My Crush doesnt text meFrown Its kinda my fault though cuz when I went to my friends house (They're neighbors)
I left A note on his front door saying I hid in his closet kissed his teddy bear,Took his man panties,And sniffed his shirts and said they smell like lemons!!!! (YUM!)It also said: To Mr.Hottie which prob made him blush!!!! Oh Yah and in reading I made fun of his old man music he was listening toooooooooooooo!!!!! Hahahahaha Oh Welll

by 526love on 7/14/2011 11:23:20 PM


Thanks! I'll DEF use the compitition one.... Perfect for soccer practice!

by Cra-Z-Brunette on 7/8/2011 2:23:33 AM


Ok so I got this really cute guy's number cause our science teach told him to text everyone reminder to bring something for class the next day. I've texted him before but it was only about a party me and this other girl were throwing but the whole class was invited. So it was no biggie. My BFF thinks he's weird and I don't know what to do. I really like him, I haven't seen him since school got out, and I've never been on a date before or been asked on one. What should I do?!?!?

by Artsygirl98 on 7/6/2011 11:24:34 PM


hey there are new clubs to go to it is sisterhood, dorks, and Army chicks. if you fall in one of these catigories then join now!!!Smile

by kellbell94301 on 7/6/2011 12:29:13 AM


my crush finally asked me out and weve been dating for like 6 weeks.he always texts me and we never talk in person.i feel kind of uncomfortable around bgf told me that he likes me i would rather go out with my mom says that if you date to many guys when your young then you wont have anyone to date in high school even though this is my first boyfriend i dont want that to happen and i dont want to dump my bf cuz he didnt do anything wrong.(sorry about the length)

Hey girl, it sounds like you're really not into your BF right now because he doesn't talk to you. I'd suggest hanging out with him after school sometime. As for the BGF, play it by ear and see who your heart sways to more. Remember, you really need to talk in your relationships. Can you really see this crush as a BF if you never hang together in person?

Alyssa B.

by bballrox21 on 7/5/2011 8:26:27 PM


MOD MOD MOD!!!!!!!!! Ok so theres this guy who like has a serious crush on me, and he has aspergers, but he follows me EVERY where, and he likes EVERYTHING I like, and I think my friend told him that I like him, so hes been saying all these inappropriate things. What should I do about this?!

Try explaining to him that he is a sweet guy, but you see him as more of a friend, as opposed to a boyfriend and, thus, you would like the comments to stop

Brittany G. 
Brittany G.

by kaylaworld on 7/5/2011 7:13:35 PM


MOD MOD MOD MOD!!! I have my crushes number and he dosnt know i have i how should i txt him!!! help please!!!


Hey babe. This depends on the situation. If you barely know the guy this might be a lil weird. If you feel comfortable telling him how you got the number that is probably a sign that its okay to go ahead.

mary h.

by urheartismine2 on 7/5/2011 9:34:52 AM


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by Bootsie753 on 6/28/2011 2:18:16 PM


MOD MOD MOD! Ive been dating this boy for 6 weeks we got out of school 2 weeks ago and he hasnt called or emailed me, but he has a history of cheating. Am I over reacting, is he ignoring, cheating?????????? help!



Hey babe. I would call him and try to sort this out before jumping to conclusions. But be careful. He has cheated before and there is no telling if he will again.

mary h.

by misssayles on 6/28/2011 1:43:29 AM


I got a BF at the end of the year on the last dayhe was sick.
people said he was going to brake up with me should I beleive them?

Hey babe,

He might've talked to other people about his plans, but the only person you should ultimately believe is him. If you're worried about rumors you can always chat to him about it (he's your BF after all, you should be able to talk to him!), but try to keep treating the relationship how you always did unless something changes between the two of you. I know it's hard to push those rumors out of your head, but it'll be better if you do! 
Lauren C.

by sallfun on 6/27/2011 11:48:01 PM


hey so i cant figure out if this guy likes me. We went to semi-formal together as friends and he got me a corsage. Afterwards he said "my mom said you looked beautiful haha" and we have been hanging out a ton at school. My friends have all notice that he follows me around every where... do you think he likes me? also when ever i'm around him and his friends they all go "aww". thanks!

Hey girl,

It definitely sounds like he likes you! If you like him too, then go for it. x0x0 
Casey L.

by rmr16 on 6/23/2011 2:27:51 PM


Ok so i take a shower everyday and every time im in the shower, i shave. i shave my legs and armpits but the next day, the hair grows back!! and there is red bumps on my pits. does this mean i need a new blade? ( i have a razor that you change the blade on every time it gets dull ) and how do i get rid of the bumps on my armpits? sometimes it even hurts to shave my pits. Thanks sooooo much mod!!!

Hey girl,

The red bumps might mean that you need a new blade, or it also may mean that your skin is irritated from shaving too much. Take a couple days off from shaving to give your skin a rest, and in the meantime don't wear tanks or shorts.  Also, don't put any scented creams or lotions on your body, as that might irritate your skin even more. If that doesn't help, you should go see your doctor. x0x0 
Casey L.

by birdgirly11 on 6/23/2011 2:24:23 PM


1.There is this guy who had a crush on me. I didn't know he liked me, so i just ignored every time he tried to gain attention to him. Now, i (kinda) have a crush on him.... Is there a way i can find out if he still likes me?
2.Do you think it's weird if he's shorter then me?

2. No its not weird at all. So dont worry Smile 1. Talk to him! get to know him and establish a friendship. Things will happen from there. 
Kerra S.

by PurplePearlVoice on 6/22/2011 9:53:18 PM


uggh like none of these work!! I go to a private middle school where we have one main classroom where everything is next to it, we have no homework, and keep our supplies at school, and don't even work at desks!!!

by txtingirl on 6/22/2011 10:02:29 AM


mod mod mod
i like this guy but he likes the popurlar girls so now what?

Hey girl, why not introduce yourself to him and get to know him? Make him your friend. You may just surprise yourself -- your personality may be just what he's looking for if you give him the chance to see it and get to know it.

Alyssa B.

by fuzzybunny22 on 6/21/2011 11:29:28 PM


There's this boy in school who usually gets bullied(even though no-one has a reason to) and I want to get to know him and be his friend, but when I approach him, he gives me a look and thinks I came over to annoy him, or something other like that, how do I approach him without it seeming weird, and tell him I just want to be his friend, without him thinking I'm messing about?He usually thinks I'm messing about with these things, cause I usually just have a smile on my face, and laugh a lot, and if I don't, he still thinks I'm messing about? Is there anyway I can reach to him? Thanks for your time if you read this, hope you have a lovely day! Smile x

Tell him that people can really be jerks and that you understand why he might not trust you, but your intentions are good and you just wanna know if he'd like to hang out Smile

Brittany G. 
Brittany G.

by xx<3shygirlzz<3xx on 6/21/2011 4:30:07 PM


hey so um i like this guy and i need super flirty things to say to him something like tip #44 or i lost my teddy bear can u snuggle with me ? i know he likes this type of stuff because he will be all anything for you n stuff like that so any ideas ??? i also flirt by using ;) and stuff

Hey girl,

     Anything cute or funny that you say will definitely come off as flirty, especially if you giggle or smile at him right after you say it. Good luck! x0x0 
Casey L.

by warrior rose on 6/21/2011 3:41:45 PM


MOD MOD MOD I got my crushes number (let's call him Bob) so I texted Bob when i got his number and he texted back and we talk. I decided to text him the second time a month ago and nothing no respons. then 2 week ago i texted him agen and NOTHING. I talk to my BFF in the whole world who is in his class to text him just to c if he will respond and he did right away. She also has told me that he likes me but i live too far but he still likes me. Im going to the area were he lives to visit with my mom. me and BOB go to the same youth group there and what should i say to him when i see him because i want to find out wats up but i don't know what to say or how to start the conversation with him. HELP!!

 Hey girl,

      It sounds like your crush may not be as interested in developing as relationship as you are, so maybe you should just stick to being friends and not hope for anything more right now. But if you really do want to talk to him, ask him if he wants to do something casual, like see a movie or go get ice cream, and then talk to him about how you feel and see if he feels the same way. Good luck! x0x0
Casey L.

by kelly--bum on 6/21/2011 2:59:50 PM


i think i screwed up ok so this guy joe really likes me he asked me out before but i cant date but were flirty a lot with each other ,i know he thinks im pretty n funny n beautiful n sexy cuz he has told me so now last night we were messaging on facebook and we were joking around and i was all wanna make out ? JUST KIDDING and he replied maybe and i said u know i was just kidding right and he said i know but still maybe ..... what do i do!!!!!!! i dont wanna tlk bout it with him though because it makes me kinda nervous i know he has kissed someone before and has had 2 girlfriends also i need more flirty things to say to him so what should i do bout the whole kissing thing and what can i say that will be flirty

 Hey girl! If you don't want to kiss him you don't have to! Just let him know that you were kidding and you don't go around kissing guys that you're not dating. Check out this post for more flirting tips. Good luck babe! 
Jess W.

by warrior rose on 6/20/2011 11:15:58 AM


I'm getting pretty tired of my best friend. She always says mean things and gets REALLY mad if i don't talk to her. we have been best friends since we met...we were probably 7. Anyways what should i do about this? i'm going to a party tonight and she's going to be there so i need help ASAP.
Thanks MOD!! -Birdgirly11

by birdgirly11 on 6/18/2011 2:23:22 PM


Well this is insulting. Almost all of these involve pretending you can't do something (ie playing dumb) to get a guy to like you! I'd like to see feminist version of icebreakers, please.

by TeslaGirl on 6/15/2011 10:20:04 PM


all girls life people use tip#44 it totaly worked we were chatting on facebook n i asked him if we were together right now what would be doing? he said thats a good question i said well then answer it Smile so he said i would be asking you out !
so use tip # 44!

by warrior rose on 6/14/2011 10:34:54 PM


MOD MOD MOD i think a guy likes me but i'm not sure. whenever i talk to him it seems like he wants to smile, but it is supressing it. he really hurt my feelings at the begining of the year and since then i sorta hate/liked him at the same time. am i just another paranoid tween? MOD! SOS!

Try talking to him and asking what his deal is

Brittany G. 
Brittany G.

by chismiss on 6/14/2011 7:11:08 PM


diss really wrks also Smile when he walks by, but casually. Give a short smile that says "Hi, I can't talk right now, but talk to me later."

by adore jaiijaii on 6/11/2011 2:48:54 PM


i absolutely agree with this 100 ....well it helped me alot .its awesome

by delancy47 on 6/10/2011 5:19:43 AM


MOD MOD MOD! ok so I have a boyfriend and i really like him. I just recently started liking someone else! I REALLY dont want to break up with my bf but im just scared that he might find out. What should i do? Thanks mod (: -Birdgirly11

Hey girly,
Give it a little time and see if the crush goes away. If it doesn't then you probably need to part ways with your bf. If you don't want your bf to find out about your crush. Try not to be obvious about it. Act cool and natural around both boys and your guy won't notice. Good Luck!

Catie C.

by birdgirly11 on 6/8/2011 4:39:41 PM


MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (sorry, i posted this already, but forget to write mod on top. heh...) How do I strike up a convo with a guy I used to be friends with, but haven't talked to in a while. I see him at lunch and in the hallways, but he is not in any of my classes. I don't have his number. Thanks! (:

Hey girly,
The best thing to do is just chat about something random. If you're behind him in the lunchline, say something like, yes I love this lunch. If you see him in a shirt you think is cool, tell him. Little things like this will often start conversation in a really chill way.

Catie C.

by Colierox on 6/8/2011 3:36:02 PM


Wow !!!! this advices really work ....... i ♥ these ....tnx GL

by delancy47 on 6/7/2011 11:52:24 AM


DEAR MODD: So me and my crush have been trying to make plans, but neither of us know what to do! I feel weird coming up with a suggestion, but apparently so does he. What should I do?


Hey girlfriend, you guys could go to the movies, go skating, or grab a bite to eat. Do you like any of those ideas? Write me back! Smile

LYnae P.

by shrimpsauce on 6/4/2011 9:11:29 PM


if i did number 48 he would think i was stupid.

by mgw11898 on 6/4/2011 1:24:12 PM


I am going to the town fair and i want to seriously make a great impression I already have an awesome outfit but how can i show amazing confidence? I am shy but i want to break that for this! HELP! ASAP

Hey girlie--check out this article on confidence: Smile

Brittany G. 
Brittany G.

by Angel07 on 6/3/2011 5:14:27 PM


Hey mod! I'm having friend problems. First of all, I wore a skirt this week and my best friend was kinda laughing and snickering at me with her other friend. I didn't talk to her the rest of the day. Next, I have a boyfriend and she kind of talks bad about him. I really like him and know it's not true. She always gets mad when I talk to other people. I think she just feels like I'm not spending enough time with her which I'm kind of not. She always says- "So are you going to hang out with ur best friend?" It really makes me mad. Should I confront her about it? I don't know what to do!! Thanks Mod. Smile

Hey girlie! I think you should explain to your friend that it frustrates you when she makes fun of your clothes and your boyfriend. Take a look at this article: Make sure you spend some time with her doing something you both love. If she won't quit acting acting the way she is now, though, maybe you guys should spend some time apart. 

Rhea R.

by birdgirly11 on 6/3/2011 4:32:28 PM


The guy I am in love with and I have been in love with for years used to like me. I recently found out he doesn't like me. What are ways I can get him liking me back. Our bros and our moms are friends so our families do stuff together every once in a while. Any tips? Thanks bunches, I could really use your help.

Hey girl, I don't know if you can really make a guy feel anything, but you can make a point to hint to this dude you like him too (which might be enough to trigger the feelings' return all by itself). Make a point to hang with him and talk to him one-on-one. Hint you might just see him as dating material now and let him know how much he means to you. He'll get the hint.

Alyssa B.

by Scooby239 on 6/2/2011 9:14:47 PM


I reeaallly like this guy named Jacob Smile he's really cute , but I've only met him once :/ ... In october whenIwent to ahaunted house with my neighbor whose a good friend of mine. Jacob is her cous I haven't told her i like her becauseit'd be a little weird since I met him only one :/ I don't want to jump to comclusions but it kinda seemed like he was maybe attracted to me Smile I'm just hoping he comes to our city ( he lives in a different city not that far away) and we meet again because then I can add him on Facebook lol I'm like obsessed with him I check his facebook page for any status updates Laughing lol he's the reason I'm up at night Smileit's crazy right!? He seems like perfect for me though every girl thinks that. Hes athletic Smile hes outgoing Smile he's lived in London which is where I've always wanted to go!! And, those blue eyes are to die for Smile am I crazy or just a normal teenage girl?Unfortunately im the type of girl who will want to date but say no :/ and I don't knowwhen I can date

by selena_wiz_lover on 6/2/2011 9:08:39 PM


#75 would be so totally obvious!!! I thought it was gonna b like, he'll ask u who u like and u tell him. but no, ur seriously asking your crush for tips on how to flirt with him!

by girlsliferocksss98 on 6/1/2011 10:47:26 PM


WOW. Number 14. Thats all i have to say...

by girlsliferocksss98 on 6/1/2011 10:44:26 PM


Is it just me or do those kids look like they're in 2nd grade?

by girlsliferocksss98 on 6/1/2011 10:41:56 PM


The school year is about to end and summer is almost here but I still have yet to ask my crush for his number. We're friends and our lockers are next to each other so I basically talk to him every day. He teases me A LOT, remembers things I did or said years ago, shuts my locker on purpose, and above all, he seems really interested in me. Plus, whenever I pass his friends in the hallway, they tend to give me this look like they know something I don't and one of his friends even said to my crush, "________, your girlfriend is behind you" when I was walking behind him but they both just smiled. Anyways, since summer is coming up and we won't see each other for a couple of months, I want to start texting him. What is a clever but not awkward way to ask him? And I see him talking with other girls at school and it seems like he likes them but I think I'm the one he talks to most so do you think he likes me?


Hey girlie! Try baking cookies and then going into school and offering him a cookie for his number! A cute way to get his attention Smile

Chelsea B.

by evercole95 on 6/1/2011 8:29:08 PM


There is a guy that I really like but I'm too shy to approach him. He's my neighbor and almost every time I try to go outside I see him with his friends. Sometimes I want to talk to him when I see him outside but I get too nervous. He usually waves and calls out my name but i try not to bring too much attention to myself. What should I do to start a conversation?

by bstep23 on 5/31/2011 6:51:49 PM


Hey Mod,
there is this guy I have a crushed on for three years but i am too shy to admit it. I think he sort of likes me too, but I overheard him talking to one of his friends about him having a major crush on a girl in the other class!!! Any Suggestions?? P.S. I'm an eighth graderSmile

Hey girlie,

The best thing to do is to start talking to him more - get to know him, flirt with him, drop some subtle hints that you like him (through compliments and questions about his interests). See how he responds! If he seems into it, keep on with it. It'll make you much more confident, and then you can eventually tell him how you feel Smile
Lauren C.

by DeniCandy on 5/30/2011 10:14:48 PM


Hey girls! I just wanted to let you know that if you ever need advice about anything or just want someone to talk to when you're sad...I'm here. You can tell me anything...I promise I won't judge you. I'll help you figure everything out and help you to feel happy again Smile


by maggie183 on 5/28/2011 8:23:07 AM


Hey mod!!
I really like this one boy in my homeroom (we're friends)and sometimes I catch him staring at me and smiling - I think he likes me back. And we talk sometimes but not very much because we're in different classes. Can you give me any advice to how to get his attention and how to get his cell number without getting awkward or seeming desperate?

Hey, Girl! Sorry for the “stock” message. We’re psyched you’re here but since this is a super busy time, mods aren’t able to answer personal advice or contest questions. We’re approving your comments now so the girls can start offering feedback right away! If you still have questions, please come back, we’re happy to help…or just let the other chicas answer now! (They give awesome advice, trust us!) Love and thanks! ♥, Your Blog Patrol Babes 
Alyssa B.

by Rebeca.rox on 5/26/2011 6:14:02 PM


Qbot the sports one, me and my crush are in swimming together. How can we talk to each other? Thanks.


Hey girlie! Do something cute like splash him with water to get a giggle out of him or chat it up about the next meet! Good luck!

Chelsea B.

by emmamae55 on 5/26/2011 2:09:35 AM


MOD MOD MOD! theres this guy at my school and i asked him to the semi-formal ( we slow danced and we had a great time) i asked him out afterwards and he said idk. i asked him yes or no and he said yes. everybody is saying he doesnt like me and just went out with me so i would leave him alone. we r still going out and he's ignoring me. i go up to him and talk but he just walks away. when i see him in the hall he walks faster. i dont know what to do! should i tell him how i feel? please help i would REALLY appreciate it. thanks mod Smile

Hey girly,

I think the best thing that you can do right now is give this guy some space. He might be feeling a little bit pressured by your relationship. Just be calm and give him a couple days. Then, try to talk to him. Calmly tell him how you feel and listen to what he has to say. Be sure that you stay calm and collected the whole time. Hopefully you will be able to find out from him what is going on. If he won't talk to you after a week or so, you need to let him go. A guy that won't tell you how he feels or listen to what you have to say isn't worth it.
Good Luck!

Catie C.

by birdgirly11 on 5/25/2011 4:51:14 PM



Hey girlie! It sounds like this guy has interest in you, whether it is interest to be your friend or more. Talk to your bff and see if she still likes him. If not, why don't you talk to him and see how he's feeling? Honesty is the quickest way to find out if he's crushin on you, but you don't have to be completely open. Ask him who he likes or casually ask him if he wants to hang and see how he responds. Good luck! 
Erin G.

by Aoife on 5/23/2011 2:16:02 PM


Mod Mod Mod
I've had a crush on this guy for 4 years. We recently started texting when I gave him my number. But he recently got out of a tough relationship- he still uses smileys and texts me almost everydaySmile He knows I like him. So yesterday I casually mentioned that we should go to a movie sometime and he kinda jumped at the opportunity. He told me he was free tomorrow (saturday) or sunday. And next thing you know we have plans for a movie tomorrow. I don't really know what to say, because he's shy with girls. I REALLY don't want to ruin my chances by things being super awkward. HELP?


Hey! check this out

Helen S.

by boycrazy635 on 5/21/2011 3:36:23 PM


hey mod I really like this one boy and sometimes I catch him staring at me and we talk sometimes but I get super tongue-tied everytime I talk to him. Can you give me any advice to how to get his attention and how to flirt? ps. our school dance is next week and I really want him to ask me to dance so there isn't much time.


Helen S.

by Bee12 on 5/21/2011 3:02:55 PM


Theirs a lot of good ideas here but when i showed my bro, he said some were stalky....Smile i ignored it and now i use them all the time, and it works!Smile

by Spearmint on 5/21/2011 12:29:00 AM


Theres this guy at school he is a year older then me and ive really liked him for a really long time now.Sometimes i see him stare at me when i pass him in the hall way.He also goes to my church but he only goes because of this popular girl in my grade invited him. He stares at me somtimes at church too.Ive never said "Hi" to him in my life. I really wish that i could somhow get to know him.HELP!

by Mawesome on 5/19/2011 6:18:16 PM


this really helped except i like this guy named cody and we r really good friends we laugh all the tim together and we went out once before but everyone say we r perfect together and i really like him but i am a big tomboy so he says " tenictally your a dude" and i laugh a joke but i want him to think of me as a girl not as a guy plz help me show my girly side plz comment give me some tips

by drama318 on 5/16/2011 11:10:30 PM


this really helped except i like this guy named cody and we r really good friends we laugh all the tim together and we went out once before but everyone say we r perfect together and i really like him but i am a big tomboy so he says " tenictally your a dude" and i laugh a joke but i want him to think of me as a girl not as a guy plz help me show my girly side plz comment give me some tips i want to know how too be a girl for once i am one of the boys plz help me chage my outfits and my way of acting

Hey chickie,

You don't want to change your outfits or your behavior - you're acting the way that is natural for you, which is what you're supposed to do! If you like the guy though, think about the things you talk about and share with him. Are you a little too comfy with "guy stuff".. you know, behavior that wouldn't be described as "lady-like?" If so, try to scale back on just how open you are around them (a little mystery doesn't hurt!). Try hanging out with some girls to remind your guy friends that you ARE a lady, work in some subtle flirting when you talk with your crush, and go from there. But remember that no guy is worth changing the way you feel most comfortable. If you get along with guys and are a tomboy, there's nothing wrong with that! And a guy will come along who will love all those things about you, promise ;)
Lauren C.

by drama318 on 5/16/2011 11:01:06 PM


this really helped except i like this guy named cody and we r really good friends we laugh all the tim together and we went out once before but everyone say we r perfect together and i really like him but i am a big tomboy so he says " tenictally your a dude" and i laugh a joke but i want him to think of me as a girl not as a guy plz help me show my girly side plz comment give me some tips 

Hey girl, Please do not include your email address or any other similar personal info in your comments. That is AGAINST our rules! 
Lauren C.

by drama318 on 5/16/2011 10:54:01 PM


i think this guy likes me but im not sure but before i knew he did we would talk and hang out like we were friends now its all awkward how and what can i say to so its not awkward and stuff? thankss!!

hey! just remember how it was when you guys were pals and know you can be that way again Smile 
Helen S.

by ilovepiano15 on 5/14/2011 10:09:43 PM


1. Think of your crush
2. Make a heart with your hands
3. Then,kiss your hands while you are still making the heart
4. Now put the heart where your real heart it
5. Tomorrow,your crush will ask you out!

by ilovesummerfun on 5/14/2011 9:13:49 PM


i really like this one guy, but he called me a stalker. I never actually had a CONVERSATION with him in person but yes I already told him i like him through a text... what are some ways i can make him stop thinking i am a stalker!

hey girlie,

Don't text him if you don't know him--get to know him in person.  Talk to him and develop a friendship first! See if he wants to hang out sometime with you and your friends...have fun, but don't try too hard.  Wait for him to come around--if he is interested he will surely show it and make an effort to see you! 
Ruth S.

by heyheyitsbear on 5/14/2011 3:50:18 PM


MODMODMOD:I have this guy i really like,and he's in all of my classes. i thought he really liked me in 5th grd,but i didn"t like him and that was two years i like him alot,and everyone says we would make a good couple. we're like BEST FRIENDS, and he tries to make me laugh all the time,but i dont know if he likes me.HELP!!!!!!!!!! Smile

Check out this article:  Smile

Brittany G. 
Brittany G.

by maceybug98 on 5/13/2011 9:39:34 PM


There's this guy that goes to a different school but I see him once a week. I like him. How can I get to know him better if I barely see him?

Hey girlie -- use the time in which you do see him to speak to him, whether it be asking about him, his school or even the weather! Smile

Brittany G. 
Brittany G.

by katiekat228 on 5/13/2011 8:20:17 PM


I have a huge crush on a guy and I have tried to ask him out but I am to shy, so I had my friend ask him three times and he did not anwser.please help!!!!!!!!!!!!

by AJRose on 5/11/2011 5:22:32 PM


Hay, girl if u go to his baseball game and he acts diffrent aruond u. From me he likes u, also i'd take it one step at a time.

by madness3699 on 5/8/2011 5:42:48 PM


i have a cutie in some of my classes, and he has sent me youtube video links every couple weeks. i tink he also flirts with me. he also acts different round me. i went 2 his baseball game and he noticed and kept looking over @ me. do u tink he might like me?
tanks! Smile

hey girlie,

when a guy likes a girl, his actions will show it--and it sounds like he wants to be around you and may be interested! just try to get to know him and be his friend first above all Smile 
Ruth S.

by kaidenlefty41699 on 5/7/2011 10:57:45 PM


Umm... what guys like girls who like there plates?

Btw: Go corny jokes!Smile

by 25noodles on 5/7/2011 12:14:00 PM


So there's this guy I like in a few of my classes... So far, pretty much for a couple of weeks, I can't stop thinking about him! He is the biggest crush I've ever had! We are friends and all but how do I know if he likes me? How do I try to become better friends with him??

Helen S.

by beenity6 on 5/6/2011 7:44:28 PM


lol i was thinking the EXACT same thing when i read #59!!

by rach<3kampkohut on 5/4/2011 10:13:48 PM


#59 "Ask him his favorite song to sing in the shower." Yeah, don't do that! That's kinda weird and plus, guys are perverted and will probabaly think you were picturing them in the shower, so just save your breath and the embarrisement and don't even ask that.

by horseluver98 on 5/3/2011 2:00:02 PM


So i need some info. what can be so bad about pre marital sex in high school. i mean im not ready now but later on in a relationship. if your not being pressured into it and your ready and if you use protection, then what are the consequences. im sorry if its a personal question but the more you know about sex in high school i think the more you can decide if your ready or not. i just dont see what it is so stressed. its not dangerous with protection right? thank you!

Hey girl,

Well, you have to consider it in the big picture - the risk of STDs, pregnancy, etc. is really high. Protection helps but is not 100% effective so, to start young, you increase your chances of all of the negative aspects. But in reality, taking part in or avoiding "premarital" sex is a personal choice (often linked with religion). No one can make that choice for you - what matters is considering your values, beliefs, and interests, and making an informed decision that you won't regret <3
Lauren C.

by starrgirl130 on 5/2/2011 9:15:55 PM


Hah! I used #74 on my crush, and he ended up looking at my eyes for hours, then he said "your eyes are grey??" in such a dumb was so cute! Thanks for the tip GL Smile

by lemontwist213 on 5/1/2011 3:36:11 PM


I like this guy but I only see him once a week at Hebrew School. We have texted and talked at Hebrew School, but nothing else really. How can I flirt with him?
<3 fuzzimonki

Helen S.

by fuzzimonki on 5/1/2011 1:49:12 PM


#48 would make you seem dumb as a rock, just saying.

by CupCakers3 on 4/30/2011 10:11:07 PM


So I have somewhat of a delima. I like one of my best friends. There are four of us The one I like is the only boy in our group. The two other girls are in the other class ( we travel with the same class all day even though were in 8th grade) So its always jsut me and him hanging out and talking because he dosent realy hangout with other people in my class. We always are in groups together and stuff like that im just not sure if i should like him or not..he always play flirts with all of us and I really dont want to ruin our friendship if i acted like i liked!

Hey babe,

It's always tough to decide if it's worth risking your friendship for something more. But if you DO like him and wanna take it to the next level, you'll always be wondering... and that could drive ya crazy! You really just have to weigh the pros and cons and be honest with yourself about how much you really like him. If you're crushin hard, it might be worth it to go for it Smile Read these tips for figuring him out and good luck deciding what to do next <3
Lauren C.

by hawtchik101 on 4/25/2011 11:55:33 PM


haha the last five were rip-offs but good article!

by lovey! on 4/25/2011 9:18:28 PM


hey peeps. im in 6th grade and pretty popular in my opinion, and everyone has started dating. i am an african american girl in a mostly caucasian town, and my friends are pressuring me to date a popular african american guy. the only problem is, i kinda hate him! he insulted me when his friend put him on the spot, and i am too mortified to tell my friends abouth this awful experience.
ANOTHER CURVEBALL-i kinda am crushing on him, but how can i crush on a guy who hurt my feelings so much? HELP MEEEEEE!

by ChisMiss on 4/25/2011 4:37:44 PM


At my school, no one goes on dates to get to know guys, its just straight to "going out". I'd like to get to know a guy before I agree to be his girlfriend, but it bothers me because while I have been "asked out" by many guys, I feel its very immature to just hug in the hallways and sit (just sit) next to each other at the movies. Will guys ever get a clue??

by jennntheswimmer on 4/23/2011 1:28:46 AM


MOD MOD MOD MOD! I really like this guy and I think we are friends. We don't have any classes together but we ride the same bus so we talk and he says hi to me in the hallway. Does that seem like we are friends? I want his phone number but I want him to ask for mine. Also, he jokes around with me and I joke too. I don't know how to tell if he likes me or not and I don't know how to get him to ask for my cell phone number. Also, he told me about how he thinks this one girl is unattractive even though she is really pretty, she is way prettier that I am and I don't want him to think I'm ugly. Any advice on how we can become better friends and get him to ask for my number?


I would definitely say it seems like you two are friends. However, from what you described it is too soon to tell if he likes you romantically.  I would get to be better friends with him, and one way you can get him to ask for your number is by inviting him to hang out with you and a group of friends over a weekend. He will need to get the details some how Smile This will also be a great way of getting to know him better. On the bus, ask him what his interests are and tell him about yours. I am sure he will be happy to talk to you!


danielle D.

danielle D.

by freshh123 on 4/22/2011 12:07:17 PM


One day I pulled my hair out of a bun and this kid I knew said "your hair smells good" I was totally creeped out cause this boy has benn my friend for 6 years!

by TheCuteNerd on 4/21/2011 10:13:25 PM


I used to have a boyfriend where i used to live, but i moved and i miss him.i dont think i'll ever see him ,and i dont even have his number.will i see him again???

by gabbygab12 on 4/18/2011 7:01:18 PM


I like this HOT guy in my 4th and 6th period.I kno he doesnt like me cuz i have like a deep voice.lots of ppl make fun of me calling me a man.he looks at me and sumtimes talks to me.i actually dont kno if he likes me.IM CONFUSED.

by gabbygab12 on 4/18/2011 6:58:50 PM


There's this amazing guy in my science class. I have a MAJOR crush on him, but this year in like 2 weeks we are starting sex ed. Im so afraid, its super weird in the first place but with him there it will be so so so weird! What should i do?
- Stressed

by pigletforever on 4/16/2011 6:30:34 PM


Im in seventh grade, and guys dont really flirt with the unpopular girls. But theres this one guy i totally dig and hes not that popular and im not popular. I think he likes me. What should i do to show him i do, and give him signals? I keep asking him questions and talking, and i have been trying to smile at him when he passes but i just cant. What else can i do? THANKS!


Hey girlie! Check out this article on flirting: 


Brittany G.

Brittany G.

by Flamingo333 on 4/15/2011 8:58:27 PM


I used to like a guy from my class but nothing happened although he liked me back. Now he is dating someone and he seems to really like her. He has abandoned all his friends for her. But when she leaves and its just us we have an awesome time! And then she comes back and he ignores me. I feel like the "back up plan"! He doesn't have a clue that I like him though so he can't be using me "just to have fun" while his gf is gone.!!!!!

by Katerina123 on 4/13/2011 2:59:59 PM


Ok so I REALLY like this guy. His best guy friend whos also my best guy friend asked him what he thought about me. He said that I was pretty. But he hides his feelings. I also talk to him and try to make him more comfortable around me. But I need something to do thst will make him not hide his feelings and be more open around me. What should I do?

Hey girlie. Keep hanging with him. The more you do, the more the guy will feel close to you. The more he feels close to you, the more he will confide his feelings to you. So, keep it up! 
Marly Z.

by shizzleQ on 4/13/2011 12:54:20 PM


Those are looking good. i will see how they work

by ces123 on 4/12/2011 9:23:36 PM


this may be a really stupid question... but, how do you kiss? i'm so nervous i'll mess it up or not be good. like how far do you open ur lips? sorry this is weird. :/

Not weird at all! It's natural to be curious (and confused) before your first kiss. Remember to relax and go with the flow - you get better with practice, I promise. In the meantime, read this article. I know it'll help ya!

Lauren C.

by djdangerjonasluver on 4/11/2011 9:02:39 PM


I like this advice but I need to ask one thing.This guy he is not in my class but we are boyfriend and girlfriend but we only talk on facebook and not in school what should I do?

by girlybubble on 4/11/2011 6:02:16 PM


Mod mod mod mod:
I told my crush that I liked him and he said no so, I slapped him but then totally regretted. My friend went up to him and told him to give me a chance but he just said i do not like her...
What should i do now????
i still like him BTW!

Hey girlie. You should prob go apologize to him for slapping him because that was pretty harsh. You can't really make a guy like you, but there's nothing wrong with becoming his friend first. The more you hang out, the more he will get to know you so he might start to like you. Good luck. 
Marly Z.

by angelchick on 4/11/2011 5:15:56 PM


How should I find out more about my bf? Also, I want to spend some more time with him, but hes always busy and I feel like I'm always asking him if he wants to hang out, even though he never can.
Thanks Smile

Hey girlie -- the only way is to talk to him and ask him about himself Smile

Brittany G. 
Brittany G.

by spazyjazy99 on 4/8/2011 9:29:47 PM


ok i like this guy in school. i mean i have for a while but the thing is one of my friends likes him too. it obvious that he doesnt like her because he has told her that.she wil kill me if i tell her that i like him though!! hes super cute but idk wut 2 do plz help!!!!!

by zxy4321 on 4/4/2011 3:28:56 PM


Ok so theres this guy that I like but i dont want to like him because A. he has a gf and B. it seems like all he wants is an intimate relationship. i dont know what to do because we used to be super close and then he started to talk to me in a way different way than what i wanted.... IDk what to do!! HELP ME PLZ! thanks!!

by hahawheeler on 4/3/2011 7:27:48 PM



by nastia123 on 4/2/2011 8:32:10 PM


omg so this is wat happened. My friend said out loud when my crush was coming out from detention if only i was there loud enough for him to hear it and when i was walking past him he smirked at me and looked at me while i waz walking past by him. Do u think he knows? If he does, what do i do! I reely like him? AAAAHHHHAHAHHHHHHHHHHH! Help me pleezee!

Hey girlie! Check out this article on how to know if a guy is into you: If he is, you'll need this one on flirting: ;)

Brittany G. 
Brittany G.

by littleniya on 4/1/2011 9:13:05 PM


rule # 94 me and all my friends have broken a million times!!but what do i do if im not in the same grade as him he is in 8th and im in 6th but all the 8th graders like me and my friends.thats why all the girls in the higher grades dont like us.but i call him gameboy/nintindo,because his intials are DS!!get it ds nintendo ds!!I LUV HIM SO MUCH!!NOT LOVE BUT JUST LUV BIG DIFFERENCE!!!REMEMBER THAT!

by nycdarkqueen on 3/31/2011 10:56:03 PM


MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD so I like this one guy at my school and he went to the same elementary school as me a while ago and was in my class there. Also in sixth grade he was in like ALL of my classes and we talked there but this year I haven't barely talked to him at all. I never really see him...but I still really like him. I get really nervous whenever he talks to me, and I need a really simple way to break the ice...these won't work. thnx bye bye Smile

Hey girl, try complimenting something he's wearing. It's a really nice and easy way to get a convo started. Just be brave and be you. 

Alyssa B.

by kitkat47 on 3/31/2011 10:38:43 PM


i reaalllyyy like this cute guy in my class, but hes popular, and we dont talk outside of school. im friends with one of the popular girls in my school (also his friend) and she told me i should start to talk to him. the problem is, i can easily talk to my guy friends, but when im talking to my crush i get nervous and dont kno what to say, and i end up only talkin about school ): what should i do for an interesting ice breaker (and not the ones here i already read them and they wont work in my sitch.) thxxx!!

by kkgrl5584 on 3/31/2011 4:55:07 PM


How do you know when your falling in love? I know it seems silly, but i never have fallen in love before now...

by Alex924 on 3/30/2011 4:36:56 PM


reply as soon as you can. So this guy i really like asked me out ( i said yes) but im really bad at flirting and coming up with conversation. so do you have any topics and flirty things to say plz!!! help me

Hey girlie. Check out this post: 
Marly Z.

by little duck on 3/28/2011 4:30:50 PM


MOD MOD MOD!one day the boy i like touched my shoulder and i felt we r right for each other.He always stares at me and tries to be as funny as possible.i also try to be funny an i know we both think each other are funny.and i think he likes me too. i want to make a move but i'm to nervous. i also kinda want him to make the 1st move. i SERIOUSLY need some great advice to make a first move!!


Hey girlie, I think you can start to flirt by asking flirty questions about if he likes? what is his type? who does he like at school 

Paige T.

by kittielover518 on 3/27/2011 10:04:39 PM


MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD ok so this guy flirts and jokes and talks with me all the time also he trys to impress me and we walk and sit by each other alot so yesterday i saw him at a store and he noticed me so he was looking at the sun glasses then he looked up and i saw him looking and then i was standing in line and then my sis caught him trying to see if it was me and she looked up but then when she looked down he stared at me .......what do you think that means and how do i flirt over the phone



Hey girly girl! It definately sounds like may be interested. As for flirting, check out these tips, and then use some of them over the phone Smile


Becca G.

by warrior rose on 3/27/2011 5:25:22 PM


there is this guy in my homeroom and he just broke up with his girlfriend and he has spending a lot of time with me but i dont think he likes how do i figure out if he does?

by kelsey1567 on 3/27/2011 3:06:36 PM


Please help me! I really like a guy and some girl told him i like him, i cant say anything to him without feeling awkward. do u hav tips on how i can talk to him without making awkward pauses?

Hey girlie,

Just remember, he's just a normal guy that goofs around and gets nervous at times too! Be yourself and don't try to act a certain way when you're around him...and always flash a smile! Smile 
Ruth S.

by vancasarahc00 on 3/26/2011 10:30:48 PM


I like this guy but he is sooo out of my leage.know how i feel? please talk. Ruth S.

by alicecullenmte on 3/26/2011 10:08:02 PM


MOD MOD MOD i like this guy and he found out, and now its awkward between us. help!


Hey girlie! Just keep it cool and casual for now -- as if it doesn't even bother you that he found out. That way, he'll see how confident you are Smile


Brittany G.

Brittany G.

by ladyknight on 3/25/2011 9:25:35 PM


OMG!!! Today i was talking to my crush and he said to me let's have a staring contest but then quickly blushed and asked his guy friend to have one instead, it was weir

by theatreluver26 on 3/23/2011 7:44:26 PM


so there is this guy we flirt all the time we walk by each other alot we joke around all this time then we sit by each other sometimes like when another girl sits in the chair next to him he scooots over but with me he just stays there and he always trys to impress me and he stares at me so he keep like i will be all can i wear your sunglasses and im like come on be nice ( like joking) but then he lets this girl megan wear them but not me and he never ever flirts with her!!!! whats wrong with him!!

Hey girl,

Guys are totally allowed to talk to other girls... try not to worry about him and Megan. Instead, focus on you and him - if you like him and want the flirting to go further, ya gotta speak up! Compliment him and joke around with him. Try asking around (or have your friends do it) to see if he likes anyone right now. If ya wanna hang out with him, ask him sometime to work on homework together or grab a snack after school. If you're going to worry about him with other girls, it's time to make a move!
Lauren C.

by warrior rose on 3/21/2011 10:19:30 PM


my bestie and i had a sleepover and (my neibhors have a BMX track & our boyfriends ride) my friends bf came to see her, but when i text my bf he says he is doing 'stuff'and cant come over.After a while i call him and i hear his friends and his ex in the backround. what should i do ? should i stay with him or break up with him?


by kimberly =p on 3/19/2011 1:21:16 PM


hey so there is this guy we flirt all the time we walk by each other alot we joke around all this time then we sit by each other sometimes like when another girl sits in the chair next to him he scooots over but with me he just stays there and he always trys to impress me and he stares at me so number 1 how do i ask for his number without planning anything and number 2 how do i act super cute around and lastly number 3 he was sad yesterday so how do i like comfort him if he is sad.thanks!!!!!!!


Hey girlie, why don't you try and ask for his phone and put your number in his phone. Hey girlie you don't have to try and act cute just be yourself you are cute. hey girlie, just be sympathetic to his situation 

Paige T.

by warrior rose on 3/19/2011 11:08:44 AM


MOD MOD MOD!!!!! MOD MOD MOD!!!!!!!!
ok so this guy i like call him j he totally flirts withe me and i flirt with him and we joke all the time and we talk all the time and we walk by each other alot he teases me and he trys to impress me ya so today we did like a hand shake thingy when we were walking towards art do YOU THINK WE WENT INTO THE FRIEND ZONE I HOPE NOT!!

Hey girlie! Check out this article on finding out if a guy's into you: Smile

Brittany G. 
Brittany G.

by warrior rose on 3/18/2011 10:01:16 PM


MOD! ok i have a guy in my classes number. i dont know what to say to him. i dont like like him i waant be his friend though what should i say??? what could we talk about??

Hey girlie, you could talk about class and stay together 
Paige T.

by ALR on 3/12/2011 8:45:15 AM


I love this kid Dylan. But he's popular and i'm not! I really want to go out with him but i am terrified he will humiliate me in front of his friends! I don't think he will i just can't take being hurt badly like all the other boys did (2 but still one cheated on me and the other told everyone he broke up with me but never did) I have no idea how to talk to him without being humiliateing myself! what should i do? thanks for your help!

Hey girlie -- you shouldn't go out with anyone who will humiliate you! Given that you are really sensitive (as anyone would be in your situation), you should start with small talk: asking him about his day, classes and things of that nature. All of these things can help break the ice. Afterwards, talking should come easy in the future Smile

Brittany G. 
Brittany G.

by mckey101 on 3/11/2011 10:36:34 PM


1.think of your crush
2.make a heart with your hands
3.then kiss your hand while still making the heart
4.then put the heart where your real heart is
5.tomorrow your crush will ask you out
6.this will only work if u ost this on your favorite article

by ALR on 3/9/2011 7:00:13 PM


Omg my friend and I used to like the same guy. She wud always flirt with him and then one day she said she stopped liking him. I was rlly happy. Only problem... SHE KEEPS FLIRTING WITH HIM! every time i try and say somthing she always makes fun of me. I confrunt her about it and she says sorry and it was PMS ect ect. I kno she doesnt do it to hurt me but thats whats happening. I feel like when i try and talk to him all she does it but into the convo.

by charliemarie27 on 3/8/2011 7:25:20 PM


I'm totally crushing on this guy. I've never liked anyone like I like him. I know he's different.
I told a friend about him. She started flirting with him. The first time, I just casually mentioned that I agreed wither what she was saying about him and I mentioned I was jealous of her. She told me she was really sorry and that she forgot that I liked him. I thought that meant she wouldn't do it again. A few days ago, she got a picture with him and put it on facebook. He told her she made the picture awesome, and she kept talking about how sweet he is.
It makes me really jealous, and I don't know if she's doing it on purpose. I don't know why she would do this to me. How can I make it stop?

Hey girlie. I'm not sure why she's doing that. There's no reason that you can't hang out with him too though. So, don't be afraid to talk to him. Also, you can bring it up with your friend again and tell her that she is hurting your feelings and ask her if she likes him. 
Marly Z.

by mgrxoxo808 on 3/7/2011 6:07:07 PM


I am in 7th grd but i like this guy in 9th. We've known eachother for like 3 years now and we see each other a LOT because our parents are like best friends (and my parents love him) he comes over to our house a lot and i go to his house a lot but idk if he likes me??? Also would this be too big of an age gap. oh and also whenever we talk, my sister is there (shes in his grade) but he always tells me im prettier and smarter than her.Please answer fast!!

Hey girlie. I'm not sure if he likes you. Try flirting with him more and see how he responds. If he is flirtatious back, then he probably does. 
Marly Z.

by girlsliferocksss98 on 3/7/2011 4:21:23 PM


this helps thanks! Laughing

by Amber22 on 3/7/2011 10:17:56 AM


hey this is good advice ^_^

by 1092chocolatelover on 3/6/2011 10:27:02 PM


What should i do if my boyfriend goes to a different school and lives in a different town? He will go to my school in 2 years but i dont want to wait that long. I only get to see him at least 3-6 times a month. I miss him Frown we want to go on dates or like go to movies and stuff but my parents wouln't let us, what should i do???

by vballchick41 on 3/6/2011 10:24:50 PM


hahahahahahahahahhahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha, i would neva do tht. hahahahahahahahahahahahahaha. yet, Tong

by Orion12 on 3/6/2011 6:47:43 PM


A few of the guys in my class are really rude. They give me names and stuff. One guy is a creep and keeps calling me his girlfriend and tries to hug me. They all laugh when he does that. I tried to ignore them, but I can't. They're really making me self consious and irritated. My friends don't seem to care about it. What should I do?

Hey! you should hug him back and see if he freaks out, if not just handle it by telling him you're not into crazy guys 
Helen S.

by Breezy28 on 3/5/2011 2:35:31 PM


Hey, firegirl1love, that's good advice! I'll have to try that!

by butterflylia on 3/5/2011 2:26:34 PM


At your next school fair go up to your crush and challenge him to something. Balloon darts, hoops, whatever. Say loser buys pizza. MAKE SURE YOU HAVE MONEY. Not all guys are super considerate. If you win and he looks down, say "Don't worry. I'll cover it" if your lucky he'll offer to pay and don't be upset if he dosen't. He'll be touched by your generosity either way. If you lose, challenge him to a rematch. If he refuses say he's a chicken but in a flirty cute way, not in a mean competetive way. Or you could just imply he's scared. If that's not an option, just make a pouty face in a joking way and he'll laugh and a) cover the charge b) say something along the lines of "Don't even try it. I won fair and square!" laugh and pay for it anyway. Few bucks who cares? He'll see you as a fun person to hang with.

by firegirl1luv on 2/28/2011 6:03:04 PM


I am wondering what I should do. My bf only has gym every other day with me and we barely talk to each other. How do I talk to him without it being all awkward between Us? I need serious help.

by blossemblue1 on 2/27/2011 10:27:25 PM


think of your crush

2.make a heart with your hands

3.then kiss your hands while still making the heart

4.then put the heart where your real heart is

5.tomorrow your crush will ask you out

6.this will only work if you post this to your favorite article

by sportscrazy96 on 2/27/2011 4:32:32 PM


MOD!! hi, so my BF always has these cute nicknames for me and calls me babe and stuff like that....I wanna call him cute stuff, too, but I'm worried I'll sound weird or stupid. his name is Mike.....any suggestions?

Hey girlie. You can use the same terms, like babe. You won't sound stupid. It's hard to say it the first time but just say it one day. I'm sure he'll like it! 
Marly Z.

by cheyluhvya on 2/27/2011 12:47:48 AM


What does it mean when a guy gives you a nickname

Hey girlie, whether it's as a friend or a crush, it means that you mean more to him than just any girl. 
Lauren T.

by warrior rose on 2/26/2011 8:01:46 PM


my crush asked me for my number and holds doors for me and waves and smile s at me . but he like a different girl last year ,plus i wrote a bunch of love notes to him last year.

wat do i do now

by ilovedogs336 on 2/26/2011 6:47:21 PM


Mod mod mod my crush dound out i like him and ive been avoiding him all week. Im worried if we run into eqch other he will ask why i like him... He is really sweet and i just dont want to have a broken heart. What do i do???


Hey! boys aren't usually that direct (and neither are girls) so i think you should be fine Smile

Helen S.

by magncheese97 on 2/26/2011 3:34:01 PM


what is poke fun?


Hey! it just means to make fun of something Smile

Helen S.

by warrior rose on 2/26/2011 1:10:58 PM


Can someone explan to me what the point of number 41 is?? my crush likes me and keeps complimenting me all the time and we have no classes together so im trying to find better ways to flirt with him.

by seh97 on 2/26/2011 10:33:04 AM


MOD MOD MOD For over four years I liked this guy. Let's call him "Jake." So I liked jake, and the second year I liked him, he found out that I did. Turns out, he liked me back! I was overly thrilled when I heard. We Poked fun, made jokes, and spent tons of time together at school. Everybody else made fun of us because we are both super smart, and we were both considered "Freaks" by all others. People constanly tried to get us apart, but he was my best guy friend, Then Jake told his friend to tell me he was moving away. I pretended like I didn't care, but on he inside I was in pain. I was in heaven for so long, and when he moved I felt heartbroken. I liked nobody else and had no friends at the time. I totally regret not going out, but I didn't do it myself because I was scared and nervous. Now I am in a very similar situation again. What can I do? Please Help me!!!!! MOD MOD MOD



Hey girly! I would ask this guy out that you like now! After all, you don't want to always wonder what might have happened... like you're now doing with Jake. So, talk to him and let him know how you feel! Smile


Becca G.

by izzywolf1417 on 2/23/2011 8:51:23 PM


how do i casually touch i guys arm *just wondering*

Hey girl, you could nudge him or accidentally bump into him. I think when the moment is right, it'll just happen.

Alyssa B.

by warrior rose on 2/22/2011 9:13:55 PM


ok so how do i ask a guy to text me but not making it obvious?

Hey girl, giving him your number is always a good start or asking if you can meet up with him sometime to study for a class together. Then you can text him first.

Alyssa B.

by warrior rose on 2/22/2011 9:10:40 PM


How can i flirt?? im 12 years old??


Hey girlie! Just be very friendly with boys you like. Compliment them and poke fun at them, but above all be nice!

Clare W.

by mookie98 on 2/22/2011 3:32:22 PM


super mod haha! ok so there is this guy lets call him david i really like david and he is really awesome also i think hes flirting because we will talk and we joke around he catches my eye in chorus ( yeah he is a chorus guy!) but thats my only class with him also he teases me bout this other guy like sayin the other guy is stalking me and he is all where is lets call him jake so he is all wheres jake and i will smile and say oh be quiet. but me and jake have all of my classes. I will kinda flirt back act all cutesy . WHAT ELSE CAN I DO TO FLIRT and IS HE FLIRTING ?????????? *PLEASE ANSWER I REALLY WANNA KNOW!*


Hey girlie! I'm not sure if he's flirting so much as just being friendly. If you wanna flirt with him, give him compliments and poke fun.

Clare W.

by warrior rose on 2/22/2011 2:02:45 PM


Mod mod mod mod My friend "Sally" started going out with this guy "Daniel" on and off for a while. They broke up a final time when I started to notice I had feelings for him. Last year he liked me but I denied him and I regret it. He's sweet and smart and athletic and kinda cute. There have been some signs that he likes me like I borrowed his pen and he let me keep it. We talk a lot in math class. Well now this girl "Allison" likes him and everyone wants him to go out with her so he did. And at the same time Sally tells me she still likes him and gave me his phone number so I can get them back together. I texted him and asked him if he liked Sally or Allison better and he said Allison do you think he really does? He also said he doesn't like Sally at all. Yes!!!! We talk and text and joke around a lot now but he still goes out with Allison and Im too scared to tell Allison how I feel. What can I do to get him mine??? Or should we just stay in the friend zone.


Hey girl, I know this is a total bummer, but for now I think you need to leave it as just friends.  He's got a gf, so you've got to respect that (you wouldn't want some girl trying to take him if he was yours, right?).  Definitely still be friends with him.  It's always a possibility that things will change and work out in the future.  For now, keep your eyes out for sweet guys who aren't involved with someone else.  xoxo

Marie H.

by <3kiari on 2/21/2011 9:47:08 PM


All these guys like me! They always text me and say im cute. But i feel so uncomfortable with this. Idk what to do.

Hey babe,

Some girls are totally boy crazy and would kill to be in your position. But others aren't quite comfy with all that attention...and that's ok!!! Don't feel like you have to choose a guy or even accept it. If it makes you feel weird, it's ok to say something like this back: "Smile thanks, but compliments like that make me feel uncomfortable!" It's friendly but it also lets them know that you'd rather they didn't say it so often.
Lauren C.

by snowwysnoopy on 2/21/2011 5:37:48 PM


MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD!!!!! i like this guy, we talk alot and he hangs out with me at school in my group of friends. i thought he liked me but im getting mixed signals....we used to txt all the time....but they are getting less frequent because he keeps losing his phone. i still think he likes me but i dont wanna ask him out or tell him i like him because im afraid ill get rejected.. im sooo confused! HELPPPPP!!! XOXOXO!!!

Helen S.

by neversaynever1 on 2/20/2011 2:46:52 PM


one of my friends is dating my crush (she doesnt know that i like him) and apparently he is telling her how hot he is... he is usaully so nice sweet and he always does the right thing. hes smart and makes the right decisons, so is this peer pressure or is he becoming obsessed with himself? and what would u do in this sitch? (details?) thank you so much !

Hey girlie. He might be becoming really comfortable with your friend and feel like he can say those things and joke around and know that she won't take him seriously. I'd double check with your friend to see if he might be joking about it. I'm sorry to hear that this guy if also your crush. Unfortunately, for now, you can't do much about it since he already has a gf. So, look around and try crushin' on someone else. 
Marly Z.

by emmiecandy on 2/19/2011 11:50:20 PM


MOD, I've been best friends with a guy, "Sam", for two years. My mom is really strict about boys, and because of this, I have never introduced him to my parents. My dad is pretty easygoing, and he at least knows about Sam, but my mom still practically thinks boys have cooties (hence why I have never told her about him). Point is, I HATE going behind her back when I'm with him. I have to lie when I hang out with him, telling her I'm hanging out with my girlfriends. Sam and I only hug, let alone doing anything worse. I'm very studious, kind, and well-rounded, and that is what my mom expects me to be. But how can I get her to trust me enough to let me hang out with him without having to lie? I feel horrible about being so dishonest...



Hey girly girl! Maybe, if you invive "Sam" over for dinner, or to hang, then she can see how great is really is? Talk to her and tell her how you feel, and offer to let her meet him. Reassure her that you're not dating, just pals, and bring him around the house for her to meet. Maybe, you can talk to your dad and he can help a little Smile


Becca G.

by primaverina on 2/19/2011 11:07:03 PM


no guy would date me im a dcork at my skool.
it makes me feel bad about myself

by skyfire on 2/18/2011 8:16:33 PM


MOD MOD MOD.... i like this guy and we are friends...we hang out at lunch with the rest of our group.. he gives me hugs and we flirt and text .... i wanna tell him...but i dont know if he feels the same way, if he doesnt i dont want it to ruin our friendship

by neversaynever1 on 2/18/2011 9:50:30 AM


how do you flirt with a guy?? please answer back!!!!


Hey girl, here's an article we did on How to Flirt. Also, if you look more in the Guys section there are a bunch of articles on the different ways to talk to guys. Caitlin F.

by ljlove on 2/18/2011 2:19:16 AM


I think some of these are cute and cheesy and others are dumb and some are like stuff you would do with anyone.


by Cupcake1999 on 2/16/2011 9:13:50 PM


This guy I like won't answer my friends when they ask him out for me! What should I do!

by ahichue on 2/16/2011 5:18:46 PM


lol the food thiing is sooo true

by sky:P on 2/15/2011 4:41:53 PM


This guy I like was being really really nice to me today. He was telling me about his hockey tournament, came over to "talk" to the guy who sits behind me, and when I came back from band, he jokingly put both his hands on my shoulders and kinda shoved me. I thought he was being really nice. Do you think he likes me? I don't think he would jokingly shove me like that unless he was looking for an excuse to try and show me he liked me.

Hey babe,

He sounds pretty friendly towards you, doesn't he? Usually guys won't touch a girl that they don't have some sort of interest in - whether that's a crush interest or a friend interest is something you've gotta figure out. Do some investigating... by flirting, of course Smile Amp up the flirt factor in your convos and see how he responds. If he's into you, he'll return the favor!
Lauren C.

by Dogfreak29 on 2/14/2011 8:22:41 PM


think of your crush
2.make a heart with your hands
3.then kiss your hands while still making the heart
4.then put the heart where your real heart is
5.tomorrow your crush will ask you out
6. this will only work if you post this to your favorite article by mycrush21 on 2/8/2011 8:17:30

reportby fashiongymnast102 on 2/13/2011 8:41:47

by AnitaNikole on 2/14/2011 8:53:39 AM


think of your crush
2.make a heart with your hands
3.then kiss your hands while still making the heart
4.then put the heart where your real heart is
5.tomorrow your crush will ask you out
6. this will only work if you post this to your favorite article by mycrush21 on 2/8/2011 8:17:30

by fashiongymnast102 on 2/13/2011 8:41:47 PM


MOD MOD MOD!!! heyy i like this guy but idk if he likes me or even knows me! hes in choir and the school play (same as me) but im not sure, ive caught him looking at me a few times. idk if it would be weird 2 add him on facebook or not. HELP!!!



Hey chickadee! I would totally add him on facebook. No harm there, and you can get to know him more Smile


Becca G.

by twilightluvr16 on 2/13/2011 6:50:36 PM


mod mod mod mod
hi so i'm a gymnast and at the begining of the year i promised my self to get a backhand spring(gym move). Yesterday my coah told me i was ready to do it all alone, i technically did do it alone since my coah just had his arm there but when he told me he would be standing far away i got so scared and wasen't able to do it. Im forced to do it again wednesday but im terrified and i don't know how to overcome this fear im so scared of messing up but my coach said he wouldnt let me do it if i wasen't ready... i'm stressing a lot how can i get over this and set my mind to do it for wednesday?

Helen S.

by nglamour97 on 2/13/2011 4:17:27 PM


Thnx mod! It totally worked, we even slow danced!!!! Laughing

by Artsygirl01 on 2/11/2011 11:02:53 PM


I feel like some of these might work, but all together they just seem like desperate attempts kinda... no offense though... but I feel like stuff like that should come from your own cleverness or kindness, otherwise it's not you telling yourself to do these things, it's someone else. And everyone is different, not all guys like stuff like this, not all girls would ever do something like this... Just my opinion <3

by grballerina on 2/9/2011 11:47:40 AM


Lol some of these are good. It helps when you know what the guy likes. Then strikeup casual convos on it. Or if he comments what about you is cute do that more often *example- my BF likes when i act shy* that will always make him smile

by Navy Brat on 2/8/2011 10:08:31 PM


Grr. im not good at flirting. its really easy to talk to him, but im still not good at flirting. i dont want to look like a stalker by talking to him too much... when we're alone he talks to me a lot. when we're at school we talk, but he always listens to his iPod. none of those hallway tips about the music or whatever seemed right. we have a LOT in common though. i dont have enough confidence to ask him out of anything... uuggghhhhhhhhhhh please help!!! D:

by TheOneWithTheFace on 2/8/2011 8:55:51 PM


think of your crush
2.make a heart with your hands
3.then kiss your hands while still making the heart
4.then put the heart where your real heart is
5.tomorrow your crush will ask you out
6. this will only work if you post this to your favorite article by mycrush21 on 2/8/2011 8:17:30

by mycrush21 on 2/8/2011 8:17:30 PM


All of those sound great!!!

by mycrush21 on 2/8/2011 8:07:04 PM


think of your crush

2.make a heart with your hands

3.then kiss your hands while still making the heart

4.then put the heart where your real heart is

5.tomorrow your crush will ask you out

6.this will only work if you post this to your favorite article

by lesmisfan on 2/8/2011 7:18:02 PM


MOD MOD MOD i have a major guy issue. i like a guy that i met outside of school and i see him every few weeks. hes a year older than i am (im an eighth grader, hes a freshman). whenever we see each other we flirt with each other a lot, and some of his brothers have noticed. my problem is.......he has a girlfriend! i asked his brothers about her, and they said that shes mean, controlling and is sooooo not good for him. i dont know what i should do because i kno i would be a better gf for him than his current gf. they re on and off a lot, but they've been doing that for a while. HELP!

hey girlie. Ask yourself if you want to be the reason that he and his girlfriend break up? I think you are better than that. In life, timing is everything so you just have to wait for a better time when he is single. 
Elizabeth P.

by kkgrl5584 on 2/8/2011 5:57:39 PM


think of your crush

2.make a heart with your hands

3.then kiss your hands while still making the heart

4.then put the heart where your real heart is

5.tomorrow your crush will ask you out

6.this will only work if you post this to your favorite article

by blrbeagle on 2/8/2011 5:19:25 PM


I love these ideas!!!!!

by lalaboopala on 2/8/2011 11:51:20 AM


I like everything in here except for asking him "what's your favorite song to sing in the shower?". That seems kinda invasive and/or kinda uncomfortable, ya know what I mean? So yeah, but other than that, it's great!! Smile

by kitkatt23 on 2/7/2011 10:11:53 PM


MOD!MOD!MOD! Okay so there is this guy from choir and i think he likes me but i cant tell if hes flirting or being friendly here is what he does -he talks with me and always makes me laugh -we joke around - he will start copying what i do -he stares at me a lot -when were singing his voice changed so he will sing all low and make me laugh this is what i do back am i flirting (i hope so) - i catch his eye and look at the ground -i will go and joke with him and tease him -i will start singing louder so everybody else will sing loud the catch his eye and smile WHAT ELSE COULD I DO ? PS: IM KINDA SHY BUT IM BOLD


Hey girl!  It sounds like you are doing a great job flirting!  You could also think about throwing in a few compliments.  Check this artilce out for tips:

Marie H.

by warrior rose on 2/7/2011 9:46:43 PM


Aren't some of these tips cliche? i mean some of them are just down right rude. you don't want to send the wrong messages.

by zoogs97 on 2/7/2011 8:55:54 PM


MOD MOD MOD I have a crush on one of my BGFs (hes one yr older) & i think he likes me, but idk, so i have 2 questions. I asked him if my hair was messed up & he said "its perfect, just like you." & all of a sudden since a couple of days ago, hes been saying hi & smiling at me whenever we pass each other in the hall. ok so heres my ?. 1) Does he like me? How do i know? 2) Should I ask him out or wait for him to ask? (im pretty shy...) THANKS! Smile ((Southern Gal))


Hey girl!  Wow, it definitely sounds like he likes you!  You could also check this article out for sneaky signs that he does:  If you want to ask him out, that's fine!  But I think it's also okay to just wait if you're not sure.  Flirt back a little, and have fun with it. Smile

Marie H.

by mac1255 on 2/7/2011 8:55:28 PM


MOD MOD MOD My crush and I don't have any classes together anymore! We only see each other after school and in the halls. And I know he likes me but I'm way to shy to go up and ask him about that! Please help!!!


Hey chicky, I’m a busy bee facilitating all the G-Blog jazz. Although I’d love to answer and chat with all ya gals, it’s just not possible at the moment. I’m sure our lovely bloggers here would love to help ya out with some great advice! Thanks for understanding. , Your Blog Patrol Babes

Marie H.

by emmyie11 on 2/7/2011 5:27:01 PM


MOD!(hi) I was wondering if there were any links on the site on how to figure out if a guy is crushing on you. I looked but couldn't find anything. Though I might have missed something. Thanks!!!(in advance)


Hey girl!  Yep, and here it is:  It's helped me sooo much! Smile

Marie H.

by engineer2be on 2/7/2011 3:54:35 PM


Hey people plz help me !!!!! I have a crush on the dude i sit across from in pre-algebra our school does a thing on V-day called heart -o- grams. I want to send one to him but i am afraid he will find out it is me, plus if my friends find out the teasing will never end They already tease me constantly about him saying " Kawee is in Wove!!!" Should I send one to him or not?

by loveTC247 on 2/7/2011 3:14:28 PM


MOD MOD I met this guy at a super bowl party and i liked him but im home schooled but im thinking about going to the same church as him what should i do?


Hey girlie! Do you regularly go to a chuch like his? If not it may seem strange that you show up at his, unless he invited you, in which case, go for it! I would find him on Facebook or something of the like and start getting ot know him better. Common interests are the best ways to start up a conversation! Hope this helps Smile

Caitlin F.

by cherrypop101 on 2/7/2011 11:45:18 AM


Hey thanks!!!! It was starting to really bother me

by D00dleg4l18 on 2/7/2011 12:28:47 AM


Ok so I have a crush on a guy that's younger than me just by a year(I'm on 8th he's in 7th) is that weird!? Cuz I mean I know it doesmt matter when your older. It seems to make a difference now. Should I forget him or stay with it. I text him allll the time he's literally my bgf


Hey girlie, it's not weird at all

Paige T.

by D00dleg4l18 on 2/7/2011 12:03:05 AM


Hey :] So I know there's no "correct" way to hug, but last month or so, my crush told me "You give terrible hugs.", and it really bothered me. Don't worry, he's super nice and was probably joking/teasing a little, but still! I usually hug him w/ my arms under his (cuz he's taller), but whenever I see him hug other girls, he has his arms around their waist and her arms are around his neck. Should I do that next time? Thanks, and sorry, it sounds like a stupid question...

Hey girlie, yea try it next time also make sure you give a nice strong hug not a pat on the back
Paige T.

by twlight4eva on 2/6/2011 9:48:37 PM


i'm totally afraid of growing up. im not sure why, but i really just wanted to stay tiny and little and carefree forever. my parents seem ready for me to grow up and would let me date but im totally scared when it comes to dating cute guys because well... that makes me think of the future and that makes me scared again. i'm already losing some of my friends, well, most of them actually, and that scares me because if any more ditch me ill be by myself with no one to talk to. i just need some strong advice on chilling myself out and staying relaxed. thankss:/

Hey girlie, whether you want to or not you're going to have to grow up sometime. You may as well enjoy your youth while you have it instead of worrying it away.  Have fun with your friends and date lots of cute boys! Growing up isn't quite as bad as it seems.

Lauren T.

by soccercastle on 2/6/2011 6:11:57 PM


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by maddy18 on 2/6/2011 3:55:38 PM


for #65, my crush and i and probably 2-3 of our friends all have a movie date set...for midnight, july15--HARRY POTTER!!

by bump.set.spike.hannah on 2/5/2011 8:38:20 PM


MOD! Me and my crush don't have any classes together! Frown What are some sweet things I could do for him outside of school. Like at a sports event or something. Because we go to those. Thanks.

hey! maybe get him a snack at a game Smile 
Helen S.

by daughtry60763 on 2/5/2011 2:44:19 PM


Hey allyball66 I TOTALLY agree! Some of the flirts they said to do are a little corny! ;p

by olive101 on 2/4/2011 6:20:59 PM


um, i hate to be negitive, but does anyone else see how cheesy some of these things are!?!

by allybally66 on 2/3/2011 10:47:38 PM


Hey girly! It definately sounds like he's trying to flirt with you. I would keep it up and see where it goes! Those are good signs Smile


Becca G.

by Imastar55 on 2/3/2011 5:14:10 PM


The guy I like is very unique. He's in the grade above me an he's OBSESSED with Lady Gaga. He's a theatre geek and loves to direct his own movies, but at the same time he is one of the most popular guys in the grade. Everybody knows who he is. We have one class together which we talk in every day. He sits on the other side of the room so before class he'll usually come over and talk to me while we wait for the teacher. When we stand next to each other we're always so close that our arms are always touching. We exchange witty/flirty banter a lot but I cant tell if he likes me. Sometimes it seems like it does but other times I can't tell if its just his personality. I've invited him out for a study session before with a few other people but he didnt come. I dont know what else to do to get his attention! On his blog he wrote he's ready to be in a relationship and theres someone he wants. Do you think he likes me? I know he likes me as a friend but idk as a gf. PLEASE HELP!


Hey girlie! He's definitely throwing hints your way, but don't come on too strong. Keep trying to get to know him outside of school, and let him see the kind of person you are. Hopefully it will lead to something!

Clare W.

by avidteenreader on 2/3/2011 1:22:45 PM


MOD MOD MOD! well this was forever ago but im still wondering about it. one weekend three of the most popular guys at my school asked me to go to free skate with them and bring all my friends and i went and saw them they all started whispering looking at us, we were the only girls they invited, but they never talked to us the whole time theyd look at us like they were surprised we actually came. but the whole time they never talked to me. one of them texted me to skate with them, but really? i thought they could come up and talk to me. so why didnt they say anything?


Hey girlie! It sounds like these are some immature guys. Maybe they're interested in you, but don't have the guts to say anything. Truthfully, I would bet you're way more mature than them! If you're into one of them you could bluntly ask him what it was about and se what it answer is. Good luck!

Caitlin F.

by iheartunicorns57 on 2/2/2011 1:20:07 PM


ok i love # 89. its just hey whats up my names blah blah blah you should get to know me!!!
B-) Tong :] :0

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by advice_girlz_13 on 2/1/2011 8:11:39 PM


how do u get a guy to ask you out without being to obvious

by grd123 on 2/1/2011 7:43:03 PM


Mod!!! Mod!!!
my boyfriend and i go to different schools. he's also a year older than me. do you think this is too much to handle? i like him, he's a great guy, but anyway to make the relationship really special, if i don't see him that much?

Hey girlie. It could be hard with the distance. it's up to you but tonight make a list of pros and cons and see if you think it's do-able or not. Life is full of choices!  
Elizabeth P.

by username#1 on 2/1/2011 7:37:16 PM


think of your crush

2.make a heart with your hands

3.then kiss your hands while still making the heart

4.then put the heart where your real heart is

5.tomorrow your crush will ask you out

6.this will only work if you post this to your favorite article

by kittykatkatie on 2/1/2011 7:19:15 PM


I really like this guy but the only problem is he likes my best friend. My best friend on the other hand doesn't even know his name and she likes a completely different guy. The worst part is the guy my best friend likes is a good friend of mine, but a few days ago he asked me out and my best friend finally realized that the guy I like likes her. So now she's going out with him just because she's mad at me and the guy doesn't even know. What should I do with this messed up situation?

Hey chica. This situation is a tough one. I think you should just let it play out. It seems like your friend doesn't really want to go out with the guy you like. So, if she doesn't really like the guy, I'm sure they won't go out for too much longer. Just give it some time girlie. 
Marly Z.

by gidibuboo on 2/1/2011 7:54:38 AM


there's this guy that i was just in a show with and he's really talented & funny & nice(:
one of my best friends (who goes to school with him) came up to me after one of the performances and said "why don't you two just date already?!" and i was like "um, he doesn't even like me." and she was like "then hook up with him!! i'll go get him right now and you guys can hook up in the dressing rooms!" i really like him, and i think he knows that i like him. what do you think i should do?

Hey chica,

Well, I wouldn't just "hook up with him in the dressing rooms" ... if you both actually like each other, you'll want to wait a little longer than that! Smile Instead, try talking to him and flirting. Then you could always be like "I miss talking to you since the show is over! We should hang out sometime" and see how he responds. Do a little bit of work and I think it'll pay off!

Lauren C.

by kaykay123 on 1/31/2011 7:53:09 PM


The guy I a crushing on will know these things are too obvious. Any ideas for a girl who doesnt wanna be obvious, but wants him to ask her out?

by kinaiab on 1/31/2011 6:35:48 PM


awwwwwwwwwwwwwwww !!

by macandchease13 on 1/31/2011 4:15:31 PM


Mod Mod Mod Mod Mod Mod Mod Mod
I like this eighth grader but I'm afraid we don't have a chance. And i see him a lot,but next year his a nineth grader. I'll never see him! Should i give up on my crush? Or keep trying....

Hey girlie! If you really like this guy, you should at least give it a shot so that you don't go through life asking yourself "what if..." Show this guy your are interested. If you are not getting a response back, then it wasn't meant to be but if he likes you back then you can always try a long distance relationship if the chemistry is really sizzling up. Life is all about taking chances.

Jessica W.

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by cfstar on 1/30/2011 10:18:51 PM


1.think of your crush

2.make a heart with your hands

3.then kiss your hands while still making the heart

4.then put the heart where your real heart is

5.tomorrow your crush will ask you out

6.this will only work if you post this to your favorite article

by crusher10 on 1/30/2011 9:54:36 PM


i tried some of these for fun once...

by kalikat on 1/30/2011 9:35:27 PM


I always do the armrest trick with I'm with my boyfriend Laughing He totally leaned into me at the movies, it was great.

by CursaLeStrange on 1/30/2011 9:32:59 PM


So my ex dumped me for some girl that is two years ahead of us. Shes an eighth grader so we are in sixth. He always gives me these 5 second stares and i smile and look down. Hid gf does not seem very into him and sometimes he looks miserable. But when hid gf sees me looking at him she gets mad and starts flirting with him and tries to stand in front of me. I still kind of like my ex. But idk if he likes me. Today he stared at me about 20 times! (i counted Tong). Do you think he maybe still into me?

Hey Girlie, It's very obvious he is still into you. He wouldn't have kept staring at you if he didn't. 
Paige T.

by snowwysnoopy on 1/30/2011 9:09:26 PM


the armrest trick... BRILLIANT!!!!

by icestar321 on 1/30/2011 9:07:35 PM


Mod mod mod mod I got this really cool curling iron for Christmas it's the conair infinti curler ithink. Anyway I wanna use it but it takes forever to curl my entire head. Are there any hairstyles that I could curl only part of my hair? And I've had these pimples all over my forehead for weeks and I wash my face every night. Is there anything I can do to get rid of them? Thank in advance! ~shelby



Hey chica! You could always curl just the underneath of your hair, to give it some volume. Or, you could curl random pieces throughout. As for your face, I would try a clinical strength acne face wash, like Oxy Smile


Becca G.

by Declaration on 1/30/2011 8:15:26 PM


MOD MOD MOD there is this guy i have liked for like 3 or 4 years. I have dated a little in between these years. Now i am in love with him, but think i should stop because he will never like me. He says he hates me. SO SHOULD I MOVE ON OR STICK WITH HIM



Hey girly girl! If he says he hates you, then it's clear that this guy is a jerk, and not worth your time! Smile


Becca G.

by SuperSoccerGurl on 1/30/2011 7:06:49 PM


MOD: How old do you have to be to date? Like, what's the recommended age? If you feel ready for dating but don't know if you're old enough, would you date or not?



Hey girly! I would wait until you're totally comfortable with the idea, and your parents are on board too. There's no set age. Smile


Becca G.

by happydays!:-) on 1/30/2011 7:00:13 PM


MOD MOD MOD MOD okay so there's this guy that I like a lot but he's a senior and I'm a freshman. He and I are in drama club together and we talk and he looks at me sometimes and we laugh at eachothers stupid jokes. Idk if I should make a move cuz idk if he likes me as a little sister or as a gf. Also idk if my parents would let me date a senior. What should I do?



Hey girly! I would be careful with it... as that's a pretty big age gap between you. Senior boys can be into totally different things than girls your age, and you don't want to get pressured into anything.


Becca G.

by Mebeinme on 1/30/2011 6:56:23 PM


MOD MOD i have a huge prob tomarow im going to be squshed in a car for 2 hours with my crush and his parents. im excited and im gonna wear a cute outfit but i have no idea how to talk to him were not in the same grade but we see eachother everyday and we play the same sport in fact weve been stuck with each other all our lives so i know alot about him and he knows alot about me HELPPP



Hey chica! I wouldn't worry about it too much. I'm sure conversation will flow. Does he play any sports? Ask him about them. As him what he did this past weekend, or, if he's seen anything at the movies lately. The more questions you ask, the more you'll have to talk about Smile


Becca G.

by luette on 1/30/2011 6:24:27 PM


Hi Mod: SO. There is a guy I'm friends with (not super close, we don't hang out ever) and he is so adorable. I really like him, but he's kind of shy. I sat next to him when we went to the computer lab in school and we chatted when he said he didn't know where the right link was. I pointed to it and he acted like he still didn't know so I laughed and put my hand over his on the mouse and led him the right direction. I made it seem so casual, but he jerked his hand a little when I touched him. Do you think I creeped him out or just surprised him? I'm nervous because he's the biggest crush I've EVER had and don't want him to think I'm a creeper. D: Should I stick with it or lay off him? Help..?



Hey chica! I would stick with it, but be casual about it. That was a bold move, putting your hands over his, and I would guess that it surprised him more than anything. I would act like nothing out of the ordinary happened, and keep talking to him Smile


Becca G.

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by sweetbaby12 on 1/30/2011 4:55:47 PM


MOD MOD MOD! There is this guy I sit next to and I really like him but it's weird because he keeps asking me who I like and I'm wondering if maybe he is just trying to get me to admit I like him. Please help!!

Hey! sounds that way to me too. you should tell him Smile 
Helen S.

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by It's a Girl's Thing on 1/30/2011 4:22:01 PM


My bf and I have been together for two months now and because of my ex bf who treated my not so great I'm worried hes gonna do the same after 2 months. I've been paranoid hes gonna break up with me when Idk if I should or not because I already kind of screwed up because I caught him/he admitted he had a small crush on the adrianna chick, then he got all scared and thought I didn't like him anymore cuz of it and thought I was mad and I think I made a mistake by making him talk about it for two days and he thinks i made a gap in the relationship and wants me to close it. I havent said anything and weve both forgotten about it.But hes been not in a very good mood lately and Ik hes stressing (dad has cancer, hes also trying to raise his science grade) and so 1. How can I make sure our relationship will last longer, and I'm being a good gf. and 2. How can I make him feel good and know Im here for him?? TY!I never get these answered anymore andIneedit now

Helen S.

by Partyhat on 1/30/2011 2:40:41 PM


There's this guy i really like. I'm scared that if I ask him out, he'll say no and tell everybody! How do I ask him out? What's a great place to go to hang out with friends?

Helen S.

by nerdyprincessxo on 1/30/2011 2:36:57 PM


There's this guy i really like. I'm scared that if I ask him out, he'll say no and tell everybody! How do I ask him out? What's a great place to go to hang out with friends?

by nerdyprincessxo on 1/30/2011 2:36:35 PM


MOD MOD MOD!!! There was this guy that would flirt with me and I think he likes me but now he's moving back to Arkansas this week and I was starting to like him and I already miss him. what do you think I should do?

hey! you gotta find a way to move on, hope this helps: 

Helen S.

by Catee13 on 1/30/2011 2:21:53 PM


Okaay, so lastt yeaar at thiis time i was really poppulaar. noww, im not as much. i get mad when i see my old friends with all the guys now and i really wanna be popular again.. how do i stop feeling like thaat?

Helen S.

by friendsrforever on 1/30/2011 2:10:45 PM


i am going to try 41 all the rest im too shy to do

by babyelephant on 1/30/2011 12:48:33 AM


MOD Ahh! So, this friday I was chattin' it up with my crush. And my BFF was with me and somehow in a random attempt at conversation me and my bestie had an entire convo about the TAMPON SCENE IN SHE'S THE MAN. I HAVE NO IDEA WHY. And afterwards I was like "Sorry for the random convo, that seems to happen a lot whenever we talk." And he said "It's ok, I had no idea what you guys were talking about anyways."
I felt soooooo bad and embarrassed because... well, seriously, the TAMPON SCENE?!?!?! Anyways, I'm seeing him at our swim meet tomorrow morning,and then at school 8th period Orchestra, which is the only 7th+8th grade class at our school and the only time I get to talk to him.
How do I redeem myself? And what do I talk about that is not totally randomm and make him realize I like him without scaring him off? Any tips for when I see him in the hall and want to do somethng cute besides just making eye contact?
Thanks in advance,
<3 BrazilRocks

Hey girlie. You don't need to do anything to redeem yourself. Guys normally don't care about that kind of stuff. You can talk to him about anything. Find out about him and his interests. Hint that you want to hang out with him if you like him! Also, when you see him in the hall, there's a ton of cute things to do. Check out this list 
Marly Z.

by BrazilRocks on 1/29/2011 11:45:30 PM


After you know the guy is attracted to you, complimenting them on their hair and their body works well. I think guys are real weak when you start saying things like that to them.

And so many of the 100 ideas to say to guys to get their attention are really really good.

by luckykel on 1/29/2011 11:17:29 PM


I wonder if boys have a list like this... I would love to see them try it out! Marly Z.

by Elle Belle on 1/29/2011 11:02:15 PM


Sorry, but most of these, if the guy dosen't like you back, he'll just think you are creepy or desperate or both.

by alleycat1996 on 1/29/2011 10:31:35 PM


I've done #82!!!

by engineer2be on 1/29/2011 10:30:49 PM


realy try the whistper and look his w thing he will be left wondering and he will keep asking bout it

by Taj1234 on 1/29/2011 10:26:23 PM


HELP! I really need some help over the summer (of 2010) i kind of fell in love with this guy. it was on total accident. He lives in a different state so i never see him but his mom is best friends with my friends mom so i see him 24-7 in summer the time. the bad part is one day he just never spoke to me again. he told me that he loved me all the time. and our song is kiss me thru thephone because that's usally how i talk to him. Ever since the summer ended i cant stop loving this guy. i've gotten asked out tons and i got a boyfriend but no one can get this guy out of my head.he broke my heart four times but i never think about that, if i do i go into one of those "moods" that makes me sad. when he left thats when i really began to love him and i cant stop. i have no idea how i can get this dude off my mind. we have sooooo many good memories and the 2010 summer was the best summer ever because of him. HELPP PLEASE! get me out of this buggg. Marly Z.

by raerae000 on 1/29/2011 9:32:46 PM


Thanks so much! I think that will work. Also, next weekend I'm going to his house for a superbowl party (Go pack go! haha) and should I act like nothing happened, or continue the flirting? Same thing with school. Thank you!

No prob girlie, glad to be of help! Yay for the superbowl! You should continue with the flirting if you really like guy. That way, he'll get the hint!
Marly Z.

by holliesuxx on 1/29/2011 9:29:03 PM


MODMOD I like my bgf, and he likes me too. Last night, we slow danced together (twice!) but he's super shy, and I didnt know what to say. Anything I tried to talk about ended up in a yes/no question, or just sounded plain stupid. There's another dance coming up. What should I talk about with him? My other bgf told me he wants to ask me out, but he wants to wait. I dont know what he means by that, but I cant stop thinking about him!! Also, when we were dancing, we weren't always looking at eachother. We'd look away, and when we looked back, we'd start laughing or smiling. Is that good or bad?? So just to summarize it up a little, what can I talk about while dancing that helps us strike a conversation? And what can I do to make it clear that I like him, other than my bgf telling him I did?? I dont want to ask him, because he said he wanted to wait. I dont know what he's waiting for, but I just want to let him wait! Help please!

Hey girlie! Sounds like you just need to keep doing what you're doing! Everything you have said is a good sign. It's very common to not know what to talk about when dancing. The best part is you don't necessarily need to talk about anything. You can always rest your head on his shoulder, which will get you out of the awkward silent moments. If you really want to talk, it would be the perfect opportunity for you to hint that you like him. Just try to get to know him. Talk about what he likes to do, what kind of music he's in etc. You can easily play off the music thing and say something like, "I love this this the kind of music you like?" Then, keep going from there! Best of luck! 
Marly Z.

by holliesuxx on 1/29/2011 9:15:08 PM


MOD MOD MOD i'm not really popular, and no guys really like me. My friend thinks that I should like the less popular, shy guys, but honestly, i dont like them, and besides, why should my friends control who my crushes are? I like this one guy, but he's really popular, isnt in any of my classes, and has only said hi to me once, but hasnt talked to me since. It seems like every guy i like would rather date a super-popular girl than me. I feel jealous. What should I do?

Hey girlie, try going for boys who are easier to talk to. There's no reason to let your friends tell you who to like or to have type that you go after, but you want to make sure that your crushes are realistic. Find guys who are in your classes and make an effort to talk to them. 

Lauren T.

by peace&luv09 on 1/29/2011 8:39:44 PM


These are hilarious! I would never do these! They are so so so funny! I would love to see people doing them! Haha...but I bet some of them would work, but others wouldn't. Cool thing though GL!

by topchef88 on 1/29/2011 8:05:41 PM


If I had a boyfriend and did some of this stuff it would be cute. If I did something like taping my crush on the shoulder and then waving he would think I am a random weirdo.

by katiekins130 on 1/29/2011 7:57:05 PM


wow this kinda work some of them don't but a lot of them work

by us-girls-rule on 1/29/2011 7:15:53 PM


I went out with this guy last year but it didn't really go anywhere because I was new at school and didn't know eachother too well. Now we are friends (not best friends, but more than acquaintances) and I like him again. My best friend is dating his best friend so we always hang out together with them, and he always hugs me goodbye. Yesterday I was texting him, here's the gist of our convo: we were talking about how you need to hang out with someone in order to like them, then he asked me if i liked anyone (to which i just said yes), then he asked me to hang out next weekend. does it seem like he might be interested? thanks so much! <3

Hey girlie, there's definitely a chance that he's interested. Try being a little flirty with him and see if he flirts back. 

Lauren T.

by starr022 on 1/29/2011 7:15:11 PM


59 is kinda stalker-ish isn't it?

by Randafanna2 on 1/29/2011 6:27:22 PM


i did the drop the pencil thing but threw it at the kid by accident haha but it was all good

by dancerxoxoxo7 on 1/29/2011 6:23:18 PM


ok seriously, anyone who doesthis kinda stuff is just a complete stalker... the only true part is the last page which no1 should ever do and no1 has done...

by <3nails on 1/29/2011 6:03:24 PM


the valentines day dance is coming up, and there r some rumors that my crush likes me back. I want to ask him (its a girls choice dance) but whenever I go up to him and try to ask, I always get nervous or freeze up. Any tips? and is there anyways to find out if he likes me?

Hey girlie, try asking him as friends. That way there's not a big commitment and if it goes well then you can try to go out with him again. 

Lauren T.

by Artsygirl01 on 1/29/2011 5:59:53 PM


sorry but... most of these r really stupid. guys would think you're a total creeper if you did them

by biffo on 1/29/2011 5:55:29 PM


ummm all of these things sounds seriously dumb and creepy. if i tried these, i'd look way creepy and like a freak.

by monkeyqueen99 on 1/29/2011 5:35:44 PM



by keri49 on 1/29/2011 5:25:01 PM


modmodmod. i got this really cute pair of blck ankle boots and over the knee socks. i want to try wearing them together but i dont know. how would it look ?

Hey girlie, usually girls wear knee socks with boots that come right below them. I would recommend pairing your black ankle boots with jeans and finding something else to wear the socks with. 

Lauren T.

by mackenziec on 1/29/2011 5:15:36 PM


Dude, i'm in an all-girls' school this doesn't work for me.

by soccerhottie9 on 1/29/2011 5:02:58 PM


Wow, sounds like most of these girls (including me) are smart enough to know that guys HATE these kind of things. Girls, definitely don't try these tips!! If you do, there's a 90% chance that he will think you're creepy.

by HarryPotterFanClub on 1/29/2011 4:39:48 PM


None of these tips are good... most of them are really creepy or trying to act dumb or forgetful to get guys.

by musicluva246 on 1/29/2011 4:34:08 PM


I love #89! It is so cool! But i would NEVER do that! But very good trick...haha.

by AnimalHugger1000 on 1/29/2011 4:28:17 PM


MOD MOD! So the Valentines dance is coming up and I am going with my boyfriend. During slow songs, I want to tell him something really sweet and then rest my head on his shoulder. What should I say? Thanks so much!

hey! say "I wouldn't want to be dancing with anyone else right now" Smile 
Helen S.

by daughtry60763 on 1/29/2011 3:25:22 PM


These are sooo horrible. These would probably be more likely to make a guy go talk to his a friend about "that creepy girl that wont leave him alone".

by evil_pixie! on 1/29/2011 3:17:09 PM


Some of these are a bit of a stretch, even for usually a very outgoing person, but i wouldn't be caught dead doin some of these otha thins are really good tho! ♥

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by cmn5297 on 1/29/2011 3:15:10 PM


Haha I'm sorry, but most of these sound really desperate and creepy.

by demilovato on 1/29/2011 2:54:54 PM


i think this guy likes me, but i dont know how 2 tell him do no any ways

Helen S.

by lulurockshard on 1/29/2011 2:43:40 PM


ok, so i reaaallllyyy like this guy, "C". He has gf though, but he's sending me all these mixed signals. he told my brother to tell me not to text him, but we always laugh together in science, and whenever he sees me he blushes and smiles. but his girlfriend is in our art and general music, and when he sees her he completley ignores me! and in science class one time he and his friends were fooling around and singing the spongebob FUN song. he was pointing at me and him when he sand the U and ME part. HELP!!! I reallllllyyyyy like him and I know he used to like me cuz we saw harry potter when it premiered. i thought he didnt like me anymore, but i need to know if he might like me still or not. help!!!!

Helen S.

by fashionqueen722 on 1/29/2011 2:33:26 PM


so im thinking of what classes to take in highschool next year and what sports to play and stuff that will look good on a college application. So i play the violin should i take orchestra again (we get to go to germany junior year ) and i think i will play soccer and run cross country... is it good if you play premier soccer and school team soccer can you give me tips and stuff thanks sooo much Smile

hey! colleges love extra activities, just be sure not to spread yourself too thin. maybe choose one soccer team if you're also doing cross country. orchestra sounds fun too, you should totally take advantage of the opportunity to go to Germany.  good luck!
Helen S.

by liddywitty on 1/29/2011 2:21:59 PM


MODMODMOD two things: crush and i are in the same math class and we both do pretty well, so we always compare grades. he was the one who started the whole comparing grades thing, and sometimes i catch him looking my way during class. do you think he likes me?
and 2. normally i get higher than a 90 on math tests, but i got a B on the mid term. do you think i could use that as an excuse to get help in math from him, if he got an A?

1)  maybe, you should keep chatting and see what happens Smile 2) totally, just make sure you don't "dumb yourself down" for his sake ok?
Helen S.

by risadancer on 1/29/2011 2:21:30 PM


For number 7, you have to be careful about that one because i did that and they think you're a know-it-all with all the answers to give them so they don't have to do lotsa work.

For number 15, you have to be careful too because if you try to do that whole slip your number in his locker, you might get the wrong locker and have some weird guy text you instead or even if he don't know who you are then, he might throw it away.

So really you have to think about it before you try it.

by bluemoon432 on 1/29/2011 2:15:28 PM


umm no offence but these are terrible things to do. seriosly they sound soo cheesy. i mean come on "what song do u like 2 sing in the shower?" we dont wanna sound like creepers!!! woww im kinda dissapointed in this post

by luvs2cheer on 1/29/2011 2:05:45 PM


If I did any of this he would think im (even more) insane. We're like best friends tho... Some are ok but most seem a little...well...really desperate.

by animallover234 on 1/29/2011 2:02:37 PM


I love the hundred's lists!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

by hawaiiancherry on 1/29/2011 1:48:03 PM


Some of those seem really desperate, but I guess they're worth a try. (:

by browneyedpretty on 1/29/2011 1:43:05 PM


I asked this guy to the school dance and he said "I would, but I've never been to a dance before." I haven't either, so that doesn't seem like a good excuse to me! He was smiling when he said it. Do you think he wasn't really into me and he was just trying to be nice or do you think he might be into me? And what should I do about it? Is there any way I could clear up that I haven't ever been to one either without it being awkward? Thanks!

hey!  It does sound to me like he was making an excuse, but that's his problem. You should just worry about having fun at the dance with your friends. good luck!   
Helen S.

by lip_gloss12 on 1/29/2011 1:25:39 PM


Haha, the guy on page 14 is hot... Tong

by HockeyGurl72 on 1/29/2011 1:15:35 PM


Number #77 will definitely REPEL guys!! They HATE it when girls do that to them!! My BFF's are guys, and so I know these things. Smile

by HarryPotterFanClub on 1/29/2011 1:10:07 PM


I think I heard I guy say that they hate stuff like #77.

by Superleigh50 on 1/29/2011 11:35:28 AM


LOL i burp alot my mom says i shouldnt cuz something about guys dont like it or something and she goes eww and i just like laugh then my dad high fives me XD guess guys dont like burping girls LOL ive never really burped in front of a guy soooo... i wonder what happens?LOL

by oreo9347 on 1/29/2011 1:12:59 AM


Omg number 13 was mine!!! Awesome!! Wow unlucky 13 looks pretty
lucky right now!!!

by kmn21 on 1/29/2011 1:01:23 AM


1)I'm going to a concert tomorrow and I am going with a group of people. I need some ideas for what to wear and what would be confortable.
2) Another, Im in gym right now and I dont like it when I have my hair down when we run and stuff. I would pull it up like a normal person would but it leaves a big dent in my hair. Would just a scrunchie work??? Or what else? Thank you sooo much!


Hey girlie. As for the concert, wear some straight legs, a fun shirt and a cool jacket if you have one. Some rugedy boots would be fun, too! As for your hair in gym class, try wearing it in a low ponytail and don't tie it too tight. This will keep it out of your face without leaving the dent. 

Elizabeth P.

by archery on 1/29/2011 12:48:42 AM


i want to earn money. i know how to play piano and i've never babysitted but im already 14 and i really want to. i could tutor too. the only problem is i dont know anyone near me who want those services. i already put up signs for babysitting in the neighborhood but nobody called! helppp please Smile


Hey girlie. Try asking your parents if they have any friends with younger children who need babysitting or tutoring. Use your connections! Also, ask teachers at school if they need any help! 

Elizabeth P.

by partyy like a rockstar on 1/29/2011 12:33:40 AM


I am seriously attracted to this guy in a different grade. He's super cute and sweet. We stare at each other a lot but we don't know each other. How can I break the ice when I'm super shy?


Hey girlie. The best thing to do is take a deep breath, tell yourself that it's just life, and that he's just a guy. Then walk over to him and ask what his plans are for the weekend. I know it sounds bold but sometimes you just have to ask. 

Elizabeth P.

by shyningstar on 1/29/2011 12:26:04 AM


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