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4 secrets to avoid makeout mishaps

Kissing is like dancing: you have to let the boy lead. But here are a few tips that’ll take your kissing to the next level...
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Mod what are the chances of getting mono


It depends, Girly. Have you been in contact with someone who has mono? Did you smooch them? Share a drink? Its spread through saliva so you'll only get it if you've come in contact with that.


Hannah H. 

Hannah H.

by I Luv Carson on 1/22/2013 4:13:55 PM


Mod mod mod
Hi I talked to you before. I don't know if I want to kiss my bf or not but he keeps asking but I'm really nervous. What should I do?


Hey girl, if you're not comfy with it yet, don't do it! It's natural to be nervous before kissing someone for the first time. But if you're really uncomfortable and don't want to, then its okay. Smile 

lauren r.

by Unicorn puke on 1/6/2013 12:44:39 PM


Mod mod mod
Is 12 to young for a first kiss?

Hey girl,

I think it really depends on the situation because it is different for everyone! There is no "right" age for a first kiss, so go with what feels natural for your relationship and don't rush into anything you aren't ready for!

Meghan D.

by Unicorn puke on 1/5/2013 9:30:13 PM


I did

by Unicorn puke on 1/5/2013 5:34:16 PM


Hey,me and my boyfriend have been together for 4 1/2 months and we still havent kissed.We have talked about it a lot but we are both VERY shy and never did kiss.But in class he is ALWAYS looking at my lips and licking his.I wanna kiss him but I dont know when the right time is.I just want to fiqure his actions out.

by BeDifferent_ on 12/11/2012 6:51:54 PM


Ya I already told u that I'm going out with my BF to the movies and that I think he's gunna kiss me but we've missed a few times (like 2) before so he might use his tounge but how am I supposed to use mine? And how do u do that nibbling his lip thing? Thanks <3

Hey girl,

I'm sure you will be fine Smile Just go with what feels comfortable to you, because kissing is different for everyone! If you've struggled before, you might need to take your relationship slower until you are both comfortable! And don't worry about the specific tips in this article, just go with what is right in your relationship.

Meghan D.

by fantastic8805 on 8/3/2012 10:50:47 PM


I'm going out with my BF tonight and I have a feeling he's gonna kiss me. Any tips?

Hey girl,

I'm sure you will be fine Smile Just go with what feels comfortable to you, because kissing is different for everyone!

Meghan D.

by fantastic8805 on 8/3/2012 9:38:03 PM


So here's my prop: I really like my BGF and both of our fams are really close. I dream abut us kissing a lot too. We go to the same school and are in the same grade and classes and we see each other tons in the summer since I have a pool. He says he likes my BFF but they never talk and she doesn't like him. 1How do I get him to like me. 2 How do I hint to him i like him without being obvious. P.S. We are 11. P.S.S. I love this site and the advice!!
Thanks for any help!!!

Hey girl!

There's no way to force a guy to like you, unfortunately! The best thing you can do is just keep spending time with him and having fun together. You can try flirting with him too, and see how he responds. Compliment him, laugh at his jokes, invite him to do more things with you besides the pool, things like that. Touch his arm when you say something to him, and maybe even wear some super cute outfits to get his attention. Hopefully this will show you're into him! 
Kelly G.

by Katnissgirlhg on 8/1/2012 10:44:21 AM


who else felt awkward reading this?

by gretathegreat on 5/17/2012 10:39:36 PM


I am 11 and my bf said that he was going to kiss me tommorow and he asked me if i wanted lips or cheek,tongue or regular,and more.But he was being so considerate because he said he doesnt want me to be uncomfortable.But I dont want a planned kiss,I want a real first kiss.But Im still excited to kiss him!! Should I kiss him?

by ladyanime5100 on 12/13/2011 7:17:22 PM



I have a bf and I still fantasize about kissing, most of the time its about my bf and I but sometimes its about kissing another guy. So, Yes, its normal to fantasize about kissing and that happens whether you have or havnt ever kissed a guy before. Kissing is so much fun but so is fantasizing about it too.

by luckykel on 11/28/2011 5:38:59 PM


Girls! Don't Worry About Your First Kiss I Didn't Get Mine Until This Year And I'm 18 So Don't Worry About Rushing It! Smile Let It Happen Naturally Smile Me And My Boyfriend Were Alone For One Of The First Times And We Just Kissed Smile P:S If Anyone Needs Any Advice I'm Here Ask Me Anything Smile

by Colorful1 on 11/17/2011 7:50:35 PM


well, did you know kissing is GOOD 4 U? how wierd. something about how the extra saliva prevents tooth and gum decay! My Math teach does all these random facts. the reason i hate lipstick...

by tunebird on 11/17/2011 5:53:09 PM


I don't have a boyfriend but I will sometimes fantasize about kissing. But the thing is that I have braces. I think that makes me unattractive...does it?

My friend, a few years ago, he wanted to get braces because a girl he liked had them.  So, no it definitely doesn't make you unattractive.
Jordan S.

by f21chic on 11/14/2011 2:22:15 AM


I am 12 and can't stop thinkIng about kissing a boy. I'v never had a bf and keep thinking of my first kiss. Am I too young or is it normal if I had my first kiss???????

by Lolabola on 11/9/2011 7:09:18 PM


MOD MOD MOD Me and by boyfriend have been together for a month now but he still won't make any moves to kiss me- it's always me that makes the first move, even for goodnight pecks! I talked to him about it and he says he won't make the moves because he doesn't want to push me into doing somthing I'm not ready for or don't want to do. I want to make out with him but me still won't make the moves so we can. How do I let him know I'm ready to make out with him (while we're kissing???)

by nicole0418 on 11/5/2011 1:26:15 PM


Mod modMod mod mod mod My BGF confessed that he likes me and I like him too!!! I'm so happy and I can't believe it still! Since I'm not allowed to date, I told him that he could be my boyfriend during sophomore year in high school; I'm doing this because I don't want to have to tell my parents that we are BF and GF. I figured that if we stayed friends, I wouldn't be lying when I told them that we are just friends. I'm in 8th grade, so I also believe that I'm not old enough to date alone. Him and I have hung out and went to the movies before, but it was just as friends. He was asking if we could express PDA and I told him no because we wouldn't do that If we were just friends. I don't want to wait and I really want to kiss him and act like BF and GF. What should I do? I don't want to wait, but I'm afraid of what my dad would think; what should I do?! thanks a million!


Hey girlfriend, I think a little kiss here and there isn't bad. It's just a kiss, and you guys do eventually want to become bf/gf. Just make this the only thing you guys do. Smile Smile

Lynae P.

by Lbradshaw35 on 11/2/2011 6:56:52 PM


My BGF confessed that he likes me and I like him too!!! I'm so happy and I can't believe it still! Since I'm not allowed to date, I told him that he could be my boyfriend during sophomore year in high school; I'm doing this because I don't want to have to tell my parents that we are BF and GF. I figured that if we stayed friends, I wouldn't be lying when I told them that we are just friends. I'm in 8th grade, so I also believe that I'm not old enough to date alone. Him and I have hung out and went to the movies before, but it was just as friends. He was asking if we could express PDA and I told him no because we wouldn't do that If we were just friends. I don't want to wait and I really want to kiss him and act like BF and GF. What should I do? I don't want to wait, but I'm afraid of what my dad would think; what should I do?! thanks a million!

by Lbradshaw35 on 11/1/2011 10:51:51 PM


hey can someone please answer this question on my profile so i haven't had my first kiss yet:/ and neither has my ex and i was wondering if it would b weird if we kissed and didn't date just once to get it over with??

by Knightsoftball97 on 10/27/2011 8:38:43 PM


Saphire124, Heck no you arent the only one interested in those things. I have a bf so I can kiss and be kissed when I want but there are times when I am in class when I just start thinking about kissing him and I just need to do it, its normal.
And I like romance novels too, sometimes I just search online for good romance stories on blogs and other sites, and Im not the only one doing that, so thats normal to.

Its just our age and what we are interested in! boys and romance.

by luckykel on 10/21/2011 10:38:11 PM


Awesome. I'm hoping to get my very first kiss this year. This is TOTALLY gonna help me.

by angelicjade on 10/17/2011 4:11:56 PM


Keep it in mind. Smile

by indesicive1 on 10/16/2011 11:58:34 AM


am i the only one who has dreams about kissing and is always searching for romance novels. plaese tell me i'm not cray for wanting to be kissed so much!!!!!!!

by Saphire124 on 10/5/2011 5:17:35 PM


That's good advice. I have a boyfriend i have been with for a year and 8 months. i kiss him all the time and I fell for him when I talked to him.

by johns1stgirl on 9/24/2011 10:58:42 AM


I really like this guy, and i think he likes me back. i used to text him a lot, but now once in a while he doesnt respond. should i be worried???


Hey girlie,

Nah, this isn't a cause for concern just yet. Guys are kinda bad at keeping their phones on them all the time (or recognizing when we want a response back), so if he doesn't text back once in a while, that doesn't mean he doesn't like ya. Try to text a lil less often and see if he initiates the convo once in a while. If not, it's still no big deal. Just make sure you aren't coming on too strong by texting too often/too quickly - because that could make a guy wanna end the convo before it's even started!

Lauren C.

by ponygirl134 on 9/22/2011 7:24:20 PM


So there is this guy I REALLLY! like. And he likes me to! We always talk and tell eachother how much we like eachother. Well my friend asked him when he was going to make it official with me and he said after we go on a date to make sure he really does like me. Well we went on our date and he still hasn't asked me out even though he tells me he likes me all the time! What should I do to hint to him that I'm waiting, or wanting him to ask me to e his girlfriend. Any ideas??? Smile

by Alexis_love on 9/19/2011 11:15:20 PM


A guy told me he liked me, and I know he actually did because he kept staring at me. He would wave to me and was really shy around me. I started liking him and then he asked out this other girl who he was friends with and I recently became friends with, now they're dating. Is he just dating her to make me jealous or what?!?!? I'm really confused :/

by SiErRa <3 on 9/14/2011 3:08:36 PM


put your hand over your mouth
make a wish
post this on 10 other polls
look at your hand

by NellieJ. on 9/10/2011 12:49:25 PM


I'm going out with this boy, and I'm falling for him hard, but I don't know if I want to kiss him yet. My best friends can be really annoying when it comes to relationships, and they never leave me alone about it. If and when I kiss him, I want it to be private, and just us, but they always end up finding out anyways. What can I do to make them shut up about it?

Don't tell them Smile

Brittany G. 
Brittany G.

by mcnewsted27 on 9/10/2011 12:04:33 PM


How do I tell a guy I really like him, I know he likes me too.


Since you know he likes you too, tell him when the two of you are together Smile

Brittany G.  
Brittany G.

by SwimmerGirl17 on 9/10/2011 11:01:53 AM


I love my BGF as a brother and this summer I thought I was falling for him as more than a friend, but now that school has started, the sparks aren't there. I have a crush on him when we text and hangout alone, but once we hit the halls at school, it's just not there. I think he likes me back, but I don't want to wind up not liking him and hurting our friendship. What should I do????


Hey babe,

If you're still lukewarm and unsure about your feelings, keep it totally on the friendship level for now. You're right - you don't wanna hurt your friendship over something you might think is a crush, but aren't totally sure about! Wait until those feelings grow stronger (if they ever do) to make a move <3

Lauren C.

by lbradshaw35 on 9/8/2011 9:56:42 AM


Ok so yesterday my bgf became my bf and all I can think about is kissing him. How do I know when it's the right time to kiss? And how do I bring it up in a casual, nonchalant way? I don't want to be all, "Hey. Let's kiss!" I want him to get the hint without me really having to say anything about it.

by armychic97 on 9/3/2011 4:52:06 PM


Okay, so I have this really awesome BGF and I want to take things to the next level, but I'm afraid of what people will think about me, especially my dad. Here's why, a few months ago, I kept telling everyone that I didn't believe in middle school relationships because they never worked out, but now that I could possibly have a sweetheart, I changed my mind. What could I tell them and what should I do?

Tell them that your opinion has changed since you've fallen for someone Smile

Brittany G.  
Brittany G.

by lbradshaw35 on 9/3/2011 10:41:05 AM


So, you guys always do articles on how to snag your crush when you've never talked. But, what about us girls that have a BGF crush?
So here's my problem, I really like my BGF, his name is Morgan, and he is coming over to my house to hang out on Labor Day. We've hung out before, but this time, I'm going to try and, sneakily, tell him I like him. Any tips? Also, he's 6'2" and only 13, and I'm 5'5" and 12, but because of the height difference, how would we kiss if we were to become...closer?

And have him lean down Smile

Brittany G. 
Brittany G.

by lbradshaw35 on 9/3/2011 10:36:33 AM


How do you drop hints that you want a boy to kiss you? I am kinda dating this boy and I want to kiss him. We already hug and hold hands and that stuff, so I think we're ready for this. I'm pretty sure he wants to kiss me too, but I want him to do it first, so how do I get him to go for it? Anything I can do to make it happen or drop hints really? Thanks!! (:

You guys will probably get opportunities where things are calm and you have a  silence. Thats when a good opportunity will be. Also you could talk to him about it and tell him youre ready. Good luck! xoxo kerra
Kerra S.

by happyness101 on 9/2/2011 6:59:46 PM


Okay, so I have this really awesome BGF, and I really like him. But, I think he like me back, but I'm not sure. He is always playfully holding my hand and getting close to my face. He also is 6'2" and huge, so he also picks me up a lot. He believes that I don't like like him, but I do. He thinks that because I've told him I do because I got nervous. What's a cute and fun way to tell him I like him? Also, if he doesn't like me back, will our relationship be awkward? HELP?!

Hey babe! It sounds like your friend likes you! I think it would be cute and fun to ask him to your back to school or homecoming dance. Why don't you bake cupcakes that spell out "Dance with me?" If he doesn't like you back and he really wants to be your friend, then your relationship probably won't be awkward. If he gets weirded out and doesn't talk to you anymore, then this dude isn't the kind of friend you want anyway. Good luck girlie! 

<3, Devin  
Devin A.

by lbradshaw35 on 8/30/2011 9:25:36 AM


MOD MOD MOD!! my bf and I have been dating for about 5 months now and we still haven't gotten further than just kissing. I know this may sound like I'm taking things too fast but I want to kiss him a little more seriously but how do i get him to cooperate? I can't just ask him, what should i do to hint to him that i want to take things further?

Hey girlie,

If you want to kiss "more seriously" (like French kissing or whatever), you kinda have to go for it! Use your tongue to hint to him that you want to - lightly lick his lip in one spot as you're going in for your normal kiss. I know it sounds silly but you're not giving his face a dog lick - just a light little touch. Do this every so often and he'll get the hint Smile
Lauren C.

by tay12zdot on 8/26/2011 6:49:59 PM


MOD? MOD? MOD? this isnt rlly about the article...i dont want to sound mean or anything because i absolutely LOVE GL...but why is there nothing about lesbians? we are girls too?? sorry if this sounds mean but im just a little confused. thank you! Smile


Hey girlie! I'll pass your comment along to the other editors. While we do feature some lesbian-specific stories (usually focusing on identity), we tend to focus on the guys aspect of dating, as you've noticed. A lot of the things we write about, though--date ideas, asking someone out, dealing with crushes and breakups--are applicable to everyone, though.

Brittany T.

by lovefromadistance on 8/25/2011 2:28:18 AM


Hmm. This stuff is actually sorta gross. Think about it: shoving your tongue into some guys mouth? Okay, so I'll have my dog lick my mouth first cuz then we'll be able to have a THREE way saliva exchange! I mean, really. OK, maybe I'm just bitter cuz I don't have a BF . . . LOL!! Smile

by happydays!:-) on 8/24/2011 10:40:32 AM


Hi I really need help I'm 13 and me and my bf hav kissed be4
And madeout be4 and last time we were kissin and we were in my room watching tv
He kissed me when we were on my couch and then he tackled me
And was starting 2 pull up my shirt I was like wat r u doin he said I just really wanna
Touch ur boobs and he took his shirt off I said I don't want u 2 and then he started...I'm confused was this sex?


Hey babe. It doesn't sound like it, so no, it wasn't sex. But the next time he pushes you to do something you're uncomfortable with, tell him "No" and push him away. If he doesn't listen, get up and walk away. Guys should respect you--and you them--no matter what. If you're not comfortable with him touching you or kissing you, then he shouldn't be doing that, end of story.

Brittany T.

by marisars10 on 8/23/2011 9:40:58 AM


How to KISS More???

My bf and I kiss but I dont get enough, a lot of times I feel like we didnt do it long enough where he must feel like we did. I cant make him kiss me more so what are some ideas to get him to want to do it more. I know some guys just arent into it as much as we can be. And its not because he is a bad kisser compared to other guys, but he just doesnt want to do it long enough. What to do?

by luckykel on 8/18/2011 11:55:17 PM


I start school next week and I'm going to see my crush for the first time since summer started. Anyways, I had 8th grade graduation before break started and afterwards there was this party back at the school and I asked my friend who also happens to be really good friends with him if she would ask him if he wanted to dance with me. She told me the answer a week later and he had said yes. Later in June she was hanging out with him and she called me saying he wanted to talk to me. We also used to sit together in a couple classes and laugh and joke along with another friend. Anyways my question is, do you think he may possibly like me? I mean like like?

Hey chica!

I definitely think it's possible that he could like you, but I don't know what he's really thinking! Keep talking to him and flirting a little bit. Who knows, maybe something will happen! 
Katelyn L.

by Katynmolly on 8/18/2011 4:02:22 AM


MOD MOD MOD!!! I know a secret and I need advice with this one my in 8th grade has a boyfriend totally normal but i know a secret not a rumor- a secret so my friend and her boyfriend have been having "it" if you know what i mean hopefully she told me to tell know one but shes not telling her mom she even has a boyfriend a few weeks ago my friends boyfriends brother said that he knows a secret so it all came out he wanted advice but what should i say gosh i need help but i cant tell an adult my friend is preg i 100% believe this he told me this cuz he and his brother (my friends boyfriend) saw that my friend took a preg test and the rsults were positive what should i do i cant tell anyone but i pretty much have no other choices

Hey chica!

This is definitely a situation an adult needs to handle. I'd say you should talk to your friend first. Don't accuse her of anything, tell her how much you love her and that you're concerned for her. If it turns out she really is, then she needs to tell an adult so she can get everything figured out. Don't let her keep this a secret. Be a support system for her because she's going to need you. 
Katelyn L.

by diva8952 on 8/18/2011 1:06:33 AM


My parents say I cant start dating until I am fifteen ( i am 13) but I really like this one boy and I think his feelings for me are the same. What do I do?!?

Hey Girl,

Whatever you do, don't try to date this boy behind your parents back. It won't work out, and you'll lose your parent's trust (it could go from 15 to 18 -- don't go there). Instead, talk to you Mom or Dad, and maybe you can come to a compromise. Your parents just want what's best for you, so if the answer's still no, listen and be patient. 15 will come sooner than you think.

Sarah G.

by bela1997075 on 8/17/2011 2:10:05 PM


MOD MOD MOD MOD I've never kissed before so I'm not sure.... Everytime I ask my mom questions like theses she flips and starts asking me private questions which get on my nerves..... Anyways I was just asking what age is appropiate to start kissing?


There is no exact age that is "right" to start kissing - I know people who had their first at 13, and others that didn't till they were 20!  What matters is that you feel ready, and it's someone you like and trust. Smile

Marie H.

by cooljsb on 8/13/2011 3:47:06 PM


So yesterday me and some friends went to the movies (my bf came too) we went to see a movie and my bf kissed me (not the first time) then after a bit we started making out! My mom told me to watch my PDA's while I was there... and I didn't, now I feel sorta guilty. I don't want to tell her cuz she might tell me I can't date anymore, plus I forgot to text her about when the mvie would end so she's already slightly upset at me...
What do I do?
Also, do you think 14 is to young to make out?

Hey girlie, 14 is an appropriate age as long as you feel ready for it. You don't have to tell your mom this time,  just try to  be more careful next time. 
Lauren T.

by stormysea on 8/11/2011 5:11:15 PM


MOD MOD my mom won't let me go anywhere alone with my friends. shes SUPER overly protective. She says that I have to tell her BEFORE I kiss a guy. She won't even let me go in the upstairs of my house alone with my bgf. Its like she doesn't trust me at all.

Hey girl,

Talk to your mom and tell her that it really hurts your feelings that she doesn't trust you at all. Ask her what you can do to earn that trust, or why she thinks you haven't earned it already. Try to make a deal with her, like if you don't fight with your siblings for a whole week or get good grades than you can go to the mall with just your friends. Or, you can also try seeing if she'll let you go somewhere with them for an hour or two, if you make sure to call her every half hour or so. x0x0 
Casey L.

by Swimgirl96 on 8/10/2011 3:01:53 PM


Hey girls! If you like to read, write or both could you please join my club "Bookworms & Writers"? I am trying to reach at-least 55 members by the end of the week and right now I'm at 43. I would really appreciate your help! Smile

by LexilicousCandy on 8/9/2011 10:21:25 PM


Hey LaurenAwesomness, i'm going into 7th grade and i'm 12. i totally understand where you're coming from (i've been dreaming of my first kiss since 5th grade!) and i think it's up to you to decide when it's time. if you feel ready, you are ready. and don't get freaked about it, just relax. your mom is right-the moment will come when both you and your bf are ready. and most likely, it will be the best first kiss ever. good luck girl! xoxo

by MusikRox1999 on 8/8/2011 11:49:33 PM


I am 12 years old and going into 7th grad this Fall. I have a boyfriend who is also my best friend and we hang out all the time. Sometimes I daydream about my first kiss and sometimes I am scared. I talk to my mom about it and she says that I am at the normal age and that the moment will come when I am ready. I think I am but I am not sure. Am I too young?

by LaurenAwesomness on 8/8/2011 10:23:54 PM


I know that you suppose to just "let the moment happen" when you kiss, but HOW do you do that?? Do you just randomly kiss him like in movies? And what if he doesn't want to kiss you back? And would it be weird to kiss when your only 11? Please help! Thank you so much!

"Letting the moment happen" means not thinking, stressing, etc. about it and just letting it happen. As far as age, it's totally about your comfort level.

Brittany G.  
Brittany G.

by spicyllamachick2120 on 8/5/2011 7:45:59 PM


I have never been kissed before but it's cool cause I'm only 11. So, now I'll know what to do when the time comes, thanks!

by tweety2238 on 8/2/2011 4:19:34 PM


im 13 and i have a boyfriend. we kiss but we dont really make out. he keeps trying to shove his tounge into my mouth though and it feels rude to push him away and i feel like i will hurt his feelings if i tell him not to do that. also, i am only 13, is it weird that me and my boyfriend kiss??

Hey babe,

It's not weird at all - but it's also totally dependent on what you feel ready for! That's fine you're ready to kiss, and also fine that you aren't ready to make out. Instead of pushing your BF away mid-kiss when he tries to go further than you want to, try telling him how you feel sometime when you're just hanging out. While he has his arm around you watching TV or something, just say "Hey can I ask you something?" He'll say yes, then tell him "I really like kissing you and I'm so glad I have you as my boyfriend, but I don't think I'm ready for full-on making out yet. Do you think we can just keep it at kissing for now?" Be sweet and make sure he really knows how much you value him as your BF - it's not that you don't like him, it's just that you aren't ready to take it to that next step. Be honest <3 
Lauren C.

by volleyballgirl7799 on 8/2/2011 12:17:02 AM


ive never been kissed so idk how it feels but im madly in love with one of my guy friends and i wanna tell him. any advice how i can ask him if he feels the same way?

by cat3dog on 7/30/2011 4:58:21 PM


yea thank you for that advice. I realize that we prob shouldnt kiss yet lol

by kitkatluver12 on 7/26/2011 11:53:48 AM Tong

by Alle93 on 7/25/2011 1:30:30 PM


mod mod mod ok so i have two things to ask: 1) i'm going into 7th grade and i'm 12. is it weird to feel like you want to kiss someone at that age? am i too young to be thinking that? 2) my school has a dance with all the other schools in the area and i like a guy that's going to one of the schools that we're having the dance with. i want to ask him to dance but 1, i know his friends will make fun of me and he's far from a romantic, and 2, i know he likes someone else. should i ask him to dance? am i too young to ask a boy to dance? please help and thank you in advance.


Hey chica!

1) Nope, it's not weird!  We all develop at different ages, even including what we want with guys.  But rest assured, that's normal!

2)  If you feel weird asking him to dance, you could always just try talking to him when he's taking a break from the action.  If you do wanna ask him, slow dances are always a good bet.  Besides, if they do make fun of you, that's there immature problem, not yours.  xoxo

Marie H.

by MusikRox1999 on 7/23/2011 1:28:42 AM


You don't have to let the boy lead... If you feel like taking control and making out with him, go ahead. Stop promoting sexist ideas like the girl has to submit to the guy and only the guy can initiate kisses! Girl CAN have control.

by LessThan3 on 7/22/2011 10:10:30 PM


I agree, when I nibble on my guys lip, he loves it. It drives him crazy and I love getting him like that. Maybe thats bad I like doing it.

by luckykel on 7/20/2011 11:53:00 PM


Some of you girls may being saying you'll never nibble on a guy lip....just a little tip: When I nibble my guys lip, it drives him crazy and keeps him wanting more. Give it a little try. ;)

Check out my profile. Laughing

by ineedalifeoh56 on 7/20/2011 3:26:57 PM


Hey girl,

Just take it slowly and relax. Also, make sure you're ready for it, because if it comes too soon, you might feel uncomfortable, and don't let him pressure you into kissing, only do it when you're ready. x0x0
Casey L.

by peytonbrooke on 7/19/2011 2:20:09 PM


ok, my bf's parents don't want us to kiss, which is cool. But I kinda want to kiss him. When I asked him if he even wanted to kiss me he said "idk".
So I was going to let it go and just forget bout it, but when we are together, he puts his face really close to mine and he looks at me.
I'm confused! if he doesn't want to kiss me, why does he keep acting like he does?!?!?!?

Hey girly, 

It sounds like he might want to, but he knows his parents won't like it. If you really like him and respect his parents, then you should follow the "no kissing" rule, as hard as that may be. Think of other things to do, like hold hands or tell him how much you like him to show your affection, instead of kissing. x0x0
Casey L.

by kitkatluver12 on 7/19/2011 10:58:45 AM


Can you breathe through your nose when you're kissing? I mean, you obviously can't breathe through your mouth, but do you really have to hold your breath?


Hey babe. You can totally breathe through your nose. Just remember to come up for air!

mary h.

by dancerbabelylas on 7/5/2011 9:58:10 AM


Uhg!!! at my school we have dances.. and when formal came my bf texted me that he was going to kiss me... well he never did then on my birthday he said he wud kiss me and agian he never did!!! shud i just kiss him one day?? or talk to him about it??? im torn!!!

by Ava-Scarlet on 7/2/2011 12:26:17 AM


I let my bf lead most of the time but there are times he doesnt initiate the kissing and I do, is that bad? And he sometimes doesnt act as romantic and intimate and I want him to and there are some tricks I can do to give him hints but it sometimes feels weird when I do it.


Hey! it's fine for you to initiate  and just be open and honest about how you feel. You don't have to hide your feelings from your own bf Smile

Helen S.

by luckykel on 6/29/2011 5:49:21 PM


MODMODMOD! so my boyfriend is like six foot , and i'm not even about five feet. i am not sure if it will be awkward kissing him, when the time comes... anything to help i don't think picking me up would be an option. LOL. but please help me! (: thanks so much!

Hey girlie,

I know it seems like a huge deal, but for me height really never meant much when you get to know the person better! In fact, it'll probably seem cute, not awkward, when it comes time for your first kiss together. You'll probably be able to laugh about it and it'll break the ice so it's a relaxed, comfy, natural experience Smile 
Lauren C.

by farmer's daughter(: on 6/27/2011 9:31:09 PM


i feel like guys only want to be friends with me. and when they want to be with me, (more than friends) i've been used by most of my boyfriends i've had, so every time i get a boyfriend i feel like he's using me every time. its really discouraging, and i just need some advice to help me through this!!

by colleenk25 on 6/20/2011 11:31:44 PM


So today my boyfriend kissed me after school and it was infront of a couple people. It was my first kiss. He already had his first kiss and he has been trying to kiss me for a while. When we kissed, i felt like i didnt even kiss him. It was so quick, but i did kiss him. But now that it happened i keep on thinking about if he liked it or not. How do i find out if he did like it?!

Im sure he liked it Smile just wait til the next kiss comes and dont freak out! Theres no reason to. xoxo kerra 
Kerra S.

by etta404 on 6/15/2011 11:54:18 PM


I have a bf. Theres a problem though. It's so awkward between us and we hardly talk! we're working on it but its pathetic! PLEASE HELP!

The only thing you can do is talk to him about it and try to work things out.

Brittany G. 
Brittany G.

by LegallyBrunette on 6/14/2011 5:04:09 PM


MOD OH MY GOD I'M FREAKING OUT! Yesterday my bf tried to kiss me... He's the one, my future husband (I'm 16 and yes I'm 100% he's the one) I don't know what to do! I panicked at the very last second and he got my cheek right next to my lips... I wanted to kiss him... but I panicked! It would have been both of ours very first kiss as you can see from previous pleadings for help on this page, and I panicked! I don't want to hurt my guy with rejection, but how can I kiss him if I keep flipping out and panicking when he tries to? I also was wondering how to breach the subject next time I see him, I don't want him to think I don't like him, but he was so hurt when he walked away... I didn't get a chance to talk to him. PLEASE tell me you have some ideas to keep me from flipping out and freaking and hyperventilating next time! I want to kiss him so badly... but I wigged (internally I was just frozen on the outside)! HELP ME ASAP!

Hey girl!

     It just sounds like your nerves are getting the best of you. Everyone has a first kiss, and your boyfriend hasn't had one yet either, so don't put any pressure on yourself and just let it happen naturally. If something is holding you back, think of what that reason is and talk to your bf about it.  Don't be nervous, just go with the flow and that kiss will happen eventually. Hope that helps! x0x0
Casey L.

by jaybird94 on 6/14/2011 1:40:45 PM


I just recently got a boyfriend and he told me he loves me and I love him too. I was just at his birthday party and hanging out with my best guy friend who was there also. My best guy friend told me that he used to like me for only a small time before I started going out with my BF. I haven't told anyone that he said that but I haven't forgotten about it. Although I can understand that he wants to tell me and let it go. He told me he doesn't like me anymore though. Should I just forget about it and move on?

Hey babe! This is a tough situation. You need to ask yourself if it would make any difference to you if your BGF still likes you or if he was telling the truth. If If it wouldn't change anything, you still only want to be friends with him, then it's probably just better to forget about it. If, however, you are interested in him and now see him differently because he has said this, and see your current relationship differently, you need to talk to him. You need to ask why he said that and if he really doesn't like you anymore.  I hope this helps you figure everything out! Good luck girlie!
Jess W.

by peaceluvsmile on 6/14/2011 10:11:33 AM


MOD Ruth S
It's also his first kiss, so I know he's nervous too. He's also a REALLY shy guy, it took him a whole year to hold my hand. I want to make it easier for him to kiss me when the time IS right... But I want him to actually initiate it. I hate being the first to make a move, it bugs me because I tend to be very traditional when it comes to guys. But I know he's very shy and sweet, and REALLY worried about doing something wrong (I'm his first gf). I also don't wanna drop any huge hints cause I want him to.. well want to kiss me, not feel pressured. Any ideas for hinting without pressuring?

hey girlie,

i'm sure it's a little tough when the guy is shy, so maybe something that will help is to help him feel comfortable around you.  He may feel insecure, so just remind him as often as you can how you feel about him.  Remind him of his strengths, and just let him know what you like about him.  It'll help boost his confidence, which may be the thing that's holding him back from making moves.  I'm glad you don't want to be pushy or pressure him--so just be patient, and wait till he's ready too (because I'm sure he wants it to be special too).  There's no rush--the more comfortable you guys are with each other, the easier things will get Smile
Ruth S.

by jaybird94 on 6/11/2011 2:34:32 PM


MOD So I was talking to my bf the other day and he said something that kinda freaked me out. We're really close and talk about most everything. Well a month or two ago I had a movie night with a bunch of my friends including him. The girls wanted to watch a chick flick and I caved. To make up for it I played Monopoly with my bf to "save him" from the chick flick. While we were playing I teased him about someday having a chick flick marathon, but that I would wait torture him until he got the privilege of make-out, since chick flicks are excellent make-out movies. I was mostly messing with him and he can tell(I always get this grin on my face when I tease him). Well when I was talking to him the other day he asked me what kind of kissing I meant, it kinda scared me. What do I do? What kinds of kissing are there? I mean how hard can it be? Does this hint that he WANTS to kiss me? What if he does try? I'm not sure I want him to kiss me I like him but I've never kissed a guy before. HELP!

hey girlie,

just wanted to let you know that when you joke around like that, it will definitely put thoughts on the boy's mind! so don't tease him about things you may not be ready for...and please, don't feel pressure to do anything you are not ready for.  Something like your first kiss only happens once, and of course you want it to be special.  I am sure that if he is your bf, he does want to kiss you because he likes you!  I think you should be honest with him...just tell him that you've never kissed someone, but you surely want it to be special.  Don't worry, when the time comes, you will know what to do.

Here's an article I hope you will find helpful! 
Ruth S.

by jaybird94 on 6/11/2011 3:44:15 AM


So this guy i know, that I like and that goes to my school and he is a year older than me, added me on facebook. We started talking two days ago. He gave me his cell phone number and started texting me. When my sister had a sleepover, her and her friends took my laptop and went into a locked room. I was logged on to facebook and they started telling him that I liked him and that I talk about him alot. I texted him and told him that it wasn't me who was saying all that stuff but he hasnt respond! I don't know what to do? I really like him! So, what's going to happen now? Should I just wait for him to respond or should I try to talk to him again? HELP! please!!

hey girlie,

don't flood his inbox with text messages--you'll just have to wait on this one.  Be patient, and if he doesn't respond, just try talking to him face-to-face at school!  I don't see why he wouldn't talk to you anymore--since he was the one that gave you his number and wanted to talk to you in the first place.  If he's a good guy, he'll move past this and you guys can continue getting to know each other (and laugh about this one day)! 
Ruth S.

by kwabbey on 6/11/2011 2:43:22 AM


ok well i just got my first boyfriend. hes had other girlfriends before me and even though he never really talks about them and i never knew them i feel like i can never measure up to them. i feel like maybe im a bad girlfriend. do you have any tips for me like on relationships or dating or anything?? thanks!

Hey babe,

Here's the most important advice I can give, all the more because you brought it up: remember that everyone has a past. Your BF has had girlfriends before, but you'll have a healthier, happier relationship if you don't think about them! They're there and they'll always be part of his past, but you are with him NOW. That means he sees something in you he really likes Smile So instead of trying to compete with how great they were, try to be the best GF you can be now! Be easy-going, affectionate, not too clingy but not too distant, and above all BE YOURSELF. Like I said, your BF likes something about you because he decided to date you. Now, ya gotta relax and let things go the way they're meant to go <3 
Lauren C.

by chica12131 on 6/6/2011 11:33:00 PM


MODMODMOD Okay so at this party yesterday I had my first kiss...but then my mom always asks "You haven't kissed anyone yet right?" and I lie and say I haven't because she says "You better not say you have cause I dont want to hear you've kissed anyone." So I understand maybe she thinks I'm young based on when she had her first kiss, but it just happened...I couldn't help it! What should I do? Thanks

Hey girly,
Just don't mention it for now. Eventually, the right time will come when you can tell your mom about your first kiss.

Catie C.

by spazyjazy99 on 6/6/2011 3:44:16 PM


You girls do know that if your nibbling or using tounge its probably not the first time you're kissing him. I've been with my boyfriend for a year (it was a year yesterday<33) and we do that... it's not gross or weird. Its a part of playfull kissing.

by on 6/5/2011 8:20:36 PM



Not weird at all Smile But you've heard the saying - ya gotta crawl before you can walk. That means you usually gotta flirt with guys and develop more comfortable relationships with them before you kiss them! So are you crushin' on someone in particular? If so, keep chatting with him, getting to know him better, and letting him to get to know you. Flirt with him - tease him, touch him in a non-awkward way, compliment him, make him laugh. See how he responds. We get those kisses we love when the guy crushes on us back. It doesn't always happen, but it's so fun when it does Smile
Lauren C.

by greekprincess98 on 6/2/2011 8:28:51 PM



1. Say your name 10 times.
2. Say your mom's name 5 times.
3. Say your crush's name 3 times.
4. Paste this to 4 other quizzes. If you do this, your crush will kiss you on the nearest Friday, but if you read this and do not paste this, then you will have very bad luck! SEND THIS TO 5 QUIZZES IN 143 MINUTES. WHEN YOU'RE DONE PRESS F6 AND YOUR CRUSH'S NAME WILL APPEAR IN BIG LETTERS ON THE SCREEN. THIS IS SO FREAKY BECAUSE IT ACTUALLY WORKS

by TehyaJas on 6/1/2011 4:19:18 PM


1 Think of your crush
2 Make a heart with your hands
3 Kiss your hand heart
4 Put the heart where your real heart is
5 Your crush will ask you out tommorrow
6 This only works if you post this to your favorite article

by nikkistarr10123 on 5/29/2011 10:47:56 PM


I really want to kiss my boyfriend...but not really sure how or when the right moment will be...any tips? Thanks!

Hey girlie -- whenever it feels right Smile

Brittany G.
Brittany G.

by spazyjazy99 on 5/20/2011 8:10:33 PM


MOD MOD MOD thx i'll try again to post my question so here it is.
there is this guy that i really like and have been crushing on for almost 2 yrs. last yr we liked eachother and he was going to ask me out but then summer started and skewl ended and we had no contact over the summer ( which i really regret) now( this yr) we have been seperated on different teams and i only see him in the morning and at lunch. he's only talked to me a few times over the yr and i still like him but im not sure he likes me bak... should i ask him out or not? wat should i do, how could i strike up a convo? also he has dated two girls since the beginning of this school year. thx Smile <3

Hey, Girl! Sorry for the “stock” message. We’re psyched you’re here but since this is a super busy time, mods aren’t able to answer personal advice or contest questions. We’re approving your comments now so the girls can start offering feedback right away! If you still have questions, please come back, we’re happy to help…or just let the other chicas answer now! (They give awesome advice, trust us!) Love and thanks! ♥, Your Blog Patrol Babes 
Alyssa B.

by fashionist090 on 5/19/2011 6:33:10 PM


MOD MOD MOD none of my comments are being answered? not even the comments that i post are being put up! i don't include anything inappropriate or mean so why is it doing this?!

Hey Girly,
Sorry about that. Try posting them again and we'll try our best to answer your questions.

Catie C.

by fashionist090 on 5/18/2011 3:52:00 PM


i went my first date with my bf and afterwards my friends were texting him adn he said he would have kissed me but i was too shy but the thing is I'm the one that held his hadn and I put my head on his shoulder adn he never made one move!

by baibai97 on 5/14/2011 11:14:13 PM


MOD MOD MOD!! So my friends think that my bf is kinda ugly (they rated him 5.5 on the "hotness scale") but I really like him. As shallow as it sounds, I don't want people to judge me based on my boyfriend's looks. I like him a lot and I don't want to break up with him. What do I do???


Hey girlie -- he's your boyfriends, not theirs. The only opinion that should matter is yours. Besides, you wouldn't want him to do that to you


Brittany G.

Brittany G.

by Diver_girl on 5/12/2011 6:55:58 PM


Well, there's this guy. I am totally and completely head over heels crushing on him. All my friends think that he likes me too. He alwasy talks to me, he comes over to our lunch table blushes and walks away. We are in a play together and he looks at me and blushes when he is doing a lovey scene with someone else. I really really like him and wanna ask him out, but I'm afriad he'll say no and we won't get to hang out anymore. His past relationships have sucked so I think he's nervous... WHAT DO I DO!?!?!?!?


Hey girlie! Ask him to do something very casual -- that lacks pressure -- such as going to the park afterschool. You could even start off even smaller by asking for homework help Smile


Brittany G.

Brittany G.

by bkwormluv7 on 5/12/2011 6:07:56 PM


omigod mod thank u guys so much for ur advice! my crush asked my out, and now we r dating and everything is going great! thanks again!

by piedude on 5/10/2011 3:49:50 PM


Hello Smile ok so im wondering if im in love. I like my GBF on and off and he's really acting like he likes me. He's always there for me and is always so nice and sweet. The thing is, this doesn't feel like a crush on my part. It's not infatuation because i see his faults, i dont think hes perfect or anything. I am still young and im not trying to rush anything. I just wish i knew what i'm feeling. Sorry if this is a little confusing!

Hey girlie! My advice would be to follow your heart, but not to rush into things. Why don't you let him know how you feel, without using the L word right away. If you guys are really into each other, take things slow and see where it leads. It could be very possible that you love him, but you don't want to go ahead and say it if you're not completely sure. Good luck! 
Erin G.

by cecily on 5/9/2011 2:32:27 PM


MOD MOD MOD! My boyfriend's friend told me that he had a discussion with my bf and that he found out my bf was going to kiss me on the last day of school! We've been going out for five months, since January, and we've never hugged. We've held hands and been on dates but I'm really nervous and scared. I want to kiss him but I don't know what to do. I've never had my first kiss and I really like this guy...maybe I love him.



Hey girly girl! Maybe, you should start off slow... with hand holding, or hugging. Or, if you go to the movies, put your head on his shoulder. Then, you can ease into a kiss, rather than throwing yourself in head first! And even when you do have your first kiss, just go with the flow of things. It sounds scary, but I promise that it'll come natural to you! Just make sure that you're ready. Don't do anything that you're not ready, or comfortable doing.


Becca G.

by genniethegummiebear on 5/8/2011 8:35:06 PM


these articles are always so depressing to me...

by the_last_ninja on 5/8/2011 6:28:13 PM


Oh my gosh... I have never kissed a guy, and I have no idea what it would feel like and thinking about it is so weird!

by luhnaynay9 on 5/8/2011 2:48:38 PM


Ok, so I'm 13 and sad to say that I have NEVER kissed a guy before...
My boyfriend on the other hand is a "makeout pro!" I told him I have kissed before just to avoid embrassment. He already tryed to kiss me once but I just quickly hugged him to avoid the kiss...
I think i'm ready to kiss him; but I'm sacred and nervous that I am going to mess up!
I really want my first time to be speical.
Please Help!

hey girl,

don't be embarrassed, you are still young! You'll know what to do in the moment--so don't be nervous.  I really hope your first time is special--you can only have it once!  I really think honesty is key, so if you get really nervous, just tell him you don't have experience, but you like him and you want it to be special with him! If he's a good guy he will respect you and not make fun of you about it or anything.  Have fun Smile 
Ruth S.

by OliviaKatherine(: on 5/8/2011 12:49:35 AM


I really like this guy, but hes really popular and I'm shy and not allowed to ask him for his # (Ma sez its too desperate looking). How do I get him to ask me for my # (or ask me out) with out having to spell it out???

Hey girlie -- do any of your friends know him personally? If so, let them wirk their magic Smile

Brittany G. 
Brittany G.

by romanticbookworm13 on 5/6/2011 11:35:48 PM


1. Think of your crush
2. Make a heart with your hands
3. Then,kiss your hands while you are still making the heart
4. Now put the heart where your real heart it
5. Tomorrow,your crush will ask you out!

by MI girl on 5/5/2011 5:16:03 PM


Why are some guys just better kissers than others? My current bf can kiss well but he is nothing like a few other guys I have kissed. Plus I have to initiate a lot of our romantic stuff and it is getting old, my mom and friends say if I am not happy move on but he makes me happy, he just doesnt seem that interested in the intimate stuff.

Hey babe,

Everyone is different! Even in terms of kissing - a "bad kisser" for you might make another girl weak at the knees! It all depends on personal preference and how well you click with the other person. Have you talked to your BF about this? Just tell him you're a little bit more of a romantic and you'd love if you could work some romance into your relationship. It could be that he's never done it before, isn't as romantic a person as you, or feels awkward/lost when it comes to stuff like that. Help him out and communicate a little. If he doesn't respond in a way that makes you happy, it could be time to move on... but you have to make sure he knows you're unhappy first! 
Lauren C.

by luckykel on 5/2/2011 9:54:20 PM


mod mod!!! ok theres this guy i like who everyone is saying likes me. thing is, i havent told anyone im into him cause although hes a great guy, hes sort of a nerd. im in that popular group, so im afraid that if i say yes if he asks me out (which everyone is saying he will) it will hurt my social status. oh, and to make matters worse, one of my not so popular friends told me today she sorta likes him! i dont wanna hurt her, but hes a really really great guy. i really need help!!! thanks


Hey chica! This guy sounds super cool, even if other people see him as a "nerd". If he's a great guy and you're into him, go for it! Don't worry about social status. But, since your friend has a thing for him too, you should talk to her first to see what's up, just so nobody gets their feelings hurt. Good luck! 
Erin G.

by piedude on 5/2/2011 9:49:17 PM


MOD MOD MOD MOD i've had a boyfriend for about 3 weeks. and we go to the same school. i'm going to a private school next year so we won't be with each other during the school day. i was talking to him about it and he said he would still go out with me next year when i move schools. but the problem is all the girls in my school. you can never trust them. i don't know what to do. break up with him or not?


Hey girlie -- just because you can't trust them, doesn't mean that he can't be trusted.


Brittany G.

Brittany G.

by maaddy.bball34 on 4/30/2011 12:40:03 PM


I really like this guy and i know he likes me because he told me so. He texted me and said i was beautiful. I'd go out with him, but my parents are really strict and wont let me date. I understand because I'm only in sixth grade, but I've never liked a guy like this before. My dad is the p.e. teacher at my school, so he knows all the kids. What do i do? Help me!

hey! talk to your parents about it and see if you can compromise. Smile 
Helen S.

by sab413 on 4/29/2011 7:37:10 PM


1. Think of your crush
2. Make a heart with your hands
3. Then,kiss your hands while you are still making the heart
4. Now put the heart where your real heart it
5. Tomorrow,your crush will ask you out!

by GeminiGirl7 on 4/28/2011 4:41:27 PM


1. Think of your crush
2. Make a heart with your hands
3. Then,kiss your hands while you are still making the heart
4. Now put the heart where your real heart it
5. Tomorrow,your crush will ask you out!

by breecc on 4/27/2011 8:04:40 PM


So there is this guy, lets call him... Drew.
I've liked Drew since idk, 2nd grade (I'm in 7th-8th grade), but he doesn't know that I like him. We used to talk after school all the time and I even met and talked to his mom for a while. People used to say he liked me around 3rd-5th grade but I don't know for sure. But after about 6th grade we stopped talking. But now a year or more later we are starting to hang again and I think I might still like him... ALOT.
The problem is he likes someone else and they went out on a date but the girl broke up with him. He is kinda sad now and I know he still likes her, but should I make a move now and tell him that I like him or should I wait for him to get himself together? IDK WHAT DO I DO?! HELPPPP!
Thx ^_^


Hey girlie. I would give him some time to get himself together. You don't want to be his rebound girl. He will get over her and then maybe you two can see where things go.

Elizabeth P.

by KawaiiAnimeLuvx3 on 4/27/2011 3:31:20 PM


1. Think of your crush
2. Make a heart with your hands
3. Then,kiss your hands while you are still making the heart
4. Now put the heart where your real heart it
5. Tomorrow,your crush will ask you out!

by insideoutkid on 4/25/2011 2:49:36 PM


MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD!!!! im 16 and i havent had a boyfriend or a first kiss, ive never even held hands with a guy, it really hurts because i want this experience so badly but it hasnt come yet what do i do? im really shy and stuff and its hard for me to flirt because of it Frown please help me to become more confident and learn to flirt better i want this before my prom next year at least!



Hey girly girl! Trust me when I say that it's not you... you just haven't met the right guy yet! Try to come out of your shell a bit, and make some new friends. Maybe, your friends could introduce you to some of their guy friends. Or, you could try some new activities, clubs or classes (outside of school). Join a youth group, take an art class, anything to get you around more guys!


Becca G.

by Mandapanda! on 4/24/2011 8:08:59 PM


Ok it says to be prepared. wat r some at hoe remedys to getting softer lips like maybe a lip scrub? something that will help them getmoister besides chapsticl because i use chapttick and it isnt working out so hot.
thanks alot XOXOXO

Helen S.

by volleyballa81297 on 4/22/2011 5:44:46 PM


Omg I rlly needed this!! My bf is going to kiss me on the cheeck for my b-day and on the lips for the spring formal

by RachelB on 4/22/2011 5:15:19 PM


so ive kissed my current bf before (in a past relationship) and now we are back 2gethas and have been going out for about 3 months.......... how do i drop the hint that i wanna kiss him again w/out saounding creepy?

by thevegienator! on 4/17/2011 8:37:22 PM


im in 7th grade and havent had one guy even ask me out or flirt with me i feel like such a loser.

hey girl,

you are not a loser! Guys will ask you out, trust me.  You have so much time ahead of you, so don't even worry about it.  Just focus on friends, staying healthy, doing well in school right now...and boys will come around Smile 
Ruth S.

by fairygirl45 on 4/17/2011 12:04:18 AM


ooohh i love kissing (: but i already knew all this stuff..

by awesomeful on 4/14/2011 10:28:55 PM


MOD MOD!!!! ok so i hav kissed before but i wanna kiss better like i wanna actully like makeout wid my bf, but im to affraid to, cuz ill probley end up messing up and i dnt wanna do that cuz he'll probley end up dumping me.

Bonjour chicky! Here are some great tips on how to be an amazing kisser:

Jessica W.

by aeblondie911 on 4/12/2011 12:37:32 PM


MOD MOD!! My bffs boyfriend likes me and i know it. He told me himself and said that we were meant to be together. I used to have a huge crush on him until he started dating my bestie. I asked my bff how the relationship with him was going and she said that he told her that he likes her. He told me the same thing and yet im so confused. CAn you PLZ help. Also i want to tell my bff that her boyfriend is interested in another girl but i dont know how, any advice on that would help also. Thank u all MODS Cece


Hey girlie -- I think, out of respect for your bestie and her feelings, that you should not pursue anything with him. Also, let your bestie know that you have some unfortunatre news and tell her what you know about his interest ithe other girl. Then, let her know that she (or the both of you) is better off without him Smile


Brittany G.

Brittany G.

by kyblue on 4/9/2011 2:21:23 AM


Kissing is healthy!!! How cool

by Insideoutkid on 4/8/2011 6:28:00 AM


so there's this guy i really like and i asked my friends to ask him out for me. he said no but i still really like him.i thought maybe he said no since it was my friend so i tried asking him online and he hasn't responded. does this mean he seriously doesn't like me or he just hasn't had enough time.

by apeltz17 on 3/30/2011 9:27:54 AM


I remember when I thought twisting tongues with a guy was so gross and why would anyone ever want to do that. I know why now and part of it is because its so much fun! And when you get a bf its even better, just make sure you find a guy who likes doing it because some guys just arent that great when it comes to kissing and some dont even like to do it.

by luckykel on 3/27/2011 5:59:46 PM


I had my first kiss a while ago, and it was really bad. i was really nervous. a week later the guy told me he never liked me! i really hated him after that and havent said a word to him since. i feel like my first kiss was ruined. and i also havent had one since. im kind of scared to have a boyfriend because of what happened before.

Hey girlie -- don't let what happened with him ruin future relationships. If you want, you can check out this article on kissing: Smile

Brittany G. 
Brittany G.

by lilriver123xD on 3/25/2011 9:19:34 PM


*mod. I have a similar question as the previous comment. I am 16 years old, but my parents and I argue about this issue a lot. I am in 10th Grade and I am not even allowed to have a boyfriend, let alone be able to hold hands with a guy or KISS someone. What's your opinion on this? Don't you think 16 years old is old enough to be able to kiss someone?



Hey chickadee! Personally, I'd say it's old enough, as long as you're comfortable and ready for it Smile


Becca G.

by SupahSweetMeh on 3/20/2011 9:25:54 PM


Is 12 years old too young to have a first kiss?


Hey girlie, it depends if you're allowed and if you feel comfortable 

Paige T. Paige T.

by GlitterNsparklyDresses on 3/20/2011 9:04:31 PM


Hey, so my boyfriend and I have been going out for a month and a week as of today. We held hands for the first time on Wednesday, but a friend had to literally put my hand in his because I'm really nervous about that kind of stuff and tend to clam up and he's just shy and awkward when it comes to that. But my friend also told me that my bf's friend told her that he planned to kiss me some time this week or something like that. I've never had my first kiss yet and im in 8th grade, lame, but there is something buggin me about that. It's weird but on some days I really like my bf but on some days I don't really do, or i feel he's more of a friend, im sorta confused. Why do I always switch back and forth between really liking him to barely liking him?

Hey girlie! You should take time out to step back and analyze how you feel regarding him, because ultimately, it's your happiness that matters. Also, if you are uncomfortable with anything, you should let him know. 

Brittany G. 
Brittany G.

by inluvwithboyz on 3/18/2011 10:37:36 PM


Ok so my boyfriend is amazing! We did have a problem with not talking but we talk more now but he wants to kiss me... I want to kiss him but Idk when and where!!! And like hed be my FIRST kiss!!! (: I dont know how to kiss though!!! Help!!!!
I try to stick a tampon in but it wont go up... whats wrong???? I put it in the right place even my mom has tried it wont go!!!

Helen S.

by Luvcats2(676) on 3/18/2011 6:34:46 PM


Mod mod mod... So I kind of want to kiss my bf but he is kind of shy. We have been going out for a month now, but he hasn't even held my hand yet. I really like him, but he is so shy that we don't really do any flirty stuff. I feel like it is just because he is shy. How can I get him to open up more and maybe get him to kiss me or at least hold my hand. Thank you! Smile


Hey girlie! You don't want to force anything on him if he's feeling uncomfortable about it. You can try talking to him about how you feel, and ask him how he feels about making the relationship a bit more romantic. You can always grab his hand and hold it, but I wouldn't kiss him until it's clear he feels more comfortable. Good luck! xxx

Clare W.

by curly4q on 3/17/2011 1:18:34 PM


Thanks bunches! Smile

by tjacobbabe on 3/13/2011 9:35:24 PM


Becca- Yeah, I think I might do that. I might go insane if I have to wait a month...and make my boyfriend insane. I'll wait a few days just to make sure I can't get over it on my own. I'd still miss my next period, even though I'm in the pill, if I were pregnant, right?



Good, that's probably your best bet... I think anyone (myself included!) would go crazy having to wait that long. And yes, you'd miss your next period too. I hope it goes well, I'll be thinking about you! Smile


Becca G.

by tjacobbabe on 3/13/2011 9:29:48 PM


Becca- but will it show up if I'm already on my period now? wouldn't I have to wait until like 5 days before my next period?



Hey again chica! Hmmm, that's a good question. I think you may be right. Like I said, the chance is very, very slim of you being pregnant. But, just in case, would you be able to see your doctor? Maybe, you could just tell your parents that you have a cold or something. And then talk to your doctor about everything.


Becca G.

by tjacobbabe on 3/13/2011 9:21:47 PM


but will it show up if I'm already on my period now? wouldn't I have to wait until like 5 days before my next period?

by tjacobbabe on 3/13/2011 9:19:46 PM


MOD Okay, I realize this may be a little mature for this site, but I'm really scared and I don't know where else to go, so if it is, can you just hide my part of the comment and then answer it? I was hooking up with my boyfriend last night, we got to third, and I got some of his pre-ejaculation fluid on my hand. Like fifteen minutes later, I went to the bathroom. I've been on the pill for period cramps for 3 months now anyway, and that would make it an even more regular cycle (even though I was already regular before going on it), so the fact that I was in the middle of my period last night makes it less of a chance I could get pregnant, right? I know it's not really likely, but I'm still TERRIFIED. I've been pretty good about taking the pill at the same time every day, but I have been off by a couple hours lately. Do you think I could get pregnant? :/



Hey girly! This is a toughie. It is possible that you could get pregnant while on your period, and while on birth control, but the chances of both are very slim. Just to be safe though, I'd maybe get a pregnancy test at the drug store. That way, you'll feel way better. And, you can be more careful next time.


Becca G.

by tjacobbabe on 3/13/2011 9:12:18 PM


think of your crush

2.make a heart with your hands

3.then kiss your hands while still making the heart

4.then put the heart where your real heart is

5.tomorrow your crush will ask you out

6.this will only work if you post this to your favorite article

by futurefamous13 on 3/13/2011 8:34:59 PM


I'll have to keep this stuff in mind for when I'm married. xD I ain't kissing any boys 'till then.

by Superleigh50 on 3/12/2011 3:04:09 PM


So, my best guy friend and me just admitted we like each other. We haven't really moved past that yet. We are going to a movie soon, though. his birthday is coming up. What should i get him?? Help please! And thank you!

Hey girlie, a nice card and maybe tickets to one of his favorite events  
Paige T.

by djdangerjonasluver on 3/12/2011 12:52:55 PM


think of your crush

2.make a heart with your hands

3.then kiss your hands while still making the heart

4.then put the heart where your real heart is

5.tomorrow your crush will ask you out

6.this will only work if you post this to your favorite article

by kwoolly on 3/6/2011 8:29:51 PM


MOD MOD MOD please answer i have a bf and i am afraid were moving too fast. Today we were talking on facebook and he told me he wanted too kiss me goodbye. Are we too young were in 5th grade. I really like him though. Any advice? Smile thanks


Hey girlie, if you feel like you guys are moving too fast you should tell him as soon as possible. You never want to put yourself in a situation that you feel uncomfortable with.


Brittany G.

Brittany G. Helen S.

by abbyubetterbeliveit on 3/5/2011 1:06:50 PM


MOD Smile
Ok, so I read this, but I'm still confuzed a bit with the *cough cough* tounging... Tong Could you explain in a little more detail?
Please and thankyou ;)


Hey girlie, I'm not sure sorry you can try contacting GL through their contact page 

Paige T.

by nerdchick on 2/27/2011 9:32:54 PM


think of your crush

2.make a heart with your hands

3.then kiss your hands while still making the heart

4.then put the heart where your real heart is

5.tomorrow your crush will ask you out

6.this will only work if you post this to your favorite article

by StarzComet on 2/27/2011 7:01:45 PM


anyone know if these really work???? hahaha Smile

by greendancer818 on 2/27/2011 5:23:05 PM


*MOD* Sorry to bug you again, Helen...but I have another question in continuation from the last one (please erase this comment too). I don't want other people to effect my decisions on parents just have been very kind and trusting. They have told me countless times they trust me being alone with a boy and know I won't cross any lines. But now I have crossed their "line" and if they find out dad will say "I told you so" and mom will feel like our trust is broken...the thought of that almost seems too much for me to bear.


Hey girly! Sorry, but Helen isn't on right now. I I can try and answer your question though Smile

What was the first part?


Becca G.

by emo_penguin_x on 2/27/2011 5:11:47 PM


think of your crush

2.make a heart with your hands

3.then kiss your hands while still making the heart

4.then put the heart where your real heart is

5.tomorrow your crush will ask you out

6.this will only work if you post this to your favorite article

by hotpinky on 2/27/2011 4:46:26 PM


hey! I think you're being hard on yourself. you only did what you felt comfortable with and that's exactly the right thing to do. Don't hold yourself to the expectations of others, they can't see it on your face. as long as you know what you're comfortable with, you're in control Smile 
Helen S.

by emo_penguin_x on 2/27/2011 4:35:47 PM



by sportscrazy96 on 2/27/2011 4:29:39 PM


ok, I read this and I understand..but what in the world do you do with your hands?

Hey girlie. You can put your hands around him, like you're hugging him. 
Marly Z.

by nerdchick on 2/26/2011 10:34:47 PM


think of your crush

2.make a heart with your hands

3.then kiss your hands while still making the heart

4.then put the heart where your real heart is

5.tomorrow your crush will ask you out

6.this will only work if you post this to your favorite article

by nerdchick on 2/26/2011 10:25:15 PM


I went out with a guy for 10 months and he was my first kiss (which lasted about half a second) he told me it was really special and he would never forget it, but a week after we broke up he ended up going out with a good friend of mine and he always kisses her in front of me. i try not to get too jealous but it seems like i never mattered to him sometimes. do you think this is true?

by samiwhami on 2/25/2011 7:47:01 PM


Ugh. Whatever you do don't have a relationship like mine. Me and my FIRST boyfriend (I was his first girlfriend) kissed once just a small kiss and the next time we hung out we started to make out and with tounge. This was about not even a month after we started dating. Then his hands started wondering. It was pretty bad but kissing was fun. But I think that is all what our relationship was. It only lasted three months. He is a jerk but I'm not over him. I would love to get some advice on how to get over him. ThanksSmile

by Music101music on 2/22/2011 10:52:38 PM


ok so there is a dance coming up this friday and my sorta boyfriend thing is going (i like him and he likes me) and i want to know how to kiss him while we r dancing..i want it to be smooth and romantic..i feel this would really certify outselves in a relationship..also if he makes the first move what should i do?

Hey girl, I think the only way to certify you're in a relationship is by talking about it. A kiss won't do what words can with certainty there. That said, just go with your instincts. When the moment is right, lean in. There's no one way to do it or work-all formula. Just follow your heart and be confident.

Alyssa B.

by girlsjustwannahavefun97 on 2/22/2011 10:17:10 PM


Help me I haven't had my first kiss yet but everyone else has I don't want to be the weirdo what should I do I don have a bf and like in the movies I am waiting for the one guy help!!

Hey girl, there's nothing wrong with waiting, seriously. I have friends in college who have never been kissed and it's seriously no big deal. They're waiting for the right guy and don't want to waste the landmark on a random. You shouldn't either. When the right guy comes around, you'll know and it'll be amazing. For now, however, relax. There's no pressure to kiss some guy. Wait for it to be meaningful.

Alyssa B.

by Sweetbaby12 on 2/22/2011 9:51:38 PM


I just started going out with this one guy and I really like him. He keeps suggesting we have a snuggle party. I really want to but I'm scared. How can I overcome my fears?

hey! just tell yourself not to worry and you'll be fine Smile 

Helen S.

by minnie122 on 2/19/2011 1:09:40 PM


I tried that thing where you like bite his lip to my BF and guess what? he thought it was hot Smile

by livi23 on 2/17/2011 11:55:16 PM


I won't nibble on a guys lip until I am married! I don't want him to breakup with me thinking Im a bunny with a carrot! LOL


by Cupcake1999 on 2/16/2011 9:12:04 PM


aww i love kissing(: but i already new all this stuff.....

by awesomeful on 2/16/2011 3:29:17 PM


I WANT to ask this guy out . But i have a girl who hates me. she is a risk taker , she knows i like him and SHE ASKED HIM OUT. i am so sad. what to do next? i know that girl is a liar but i kind of believe her.....HELPP!!


Hey girlie. So what if she asked him out! Ask him out if you like him. It's not like he is dating her. 

Elizabeth P.

by snacktimeval on 2/15/2011 7:14:29 PM


welljus be ur self

by peacelove2012 on 2/12/2011 5:10:13 PM




Hey girl, I think it's important to have a conversation about this with him.  Let him know what you told me - that you want more, but you don't know what he's comfortable with.  That's what mature relationships are really about - being honest with each other when there's a problem.  xoxo

Marie H.

by luckykel on 2/7/2011 9:59:23 PM




Hey girl, this is a serious topic that isn't really appropriate for here.  Your concerns aren't wrong - in fact, they're completely normal.  But since it's bothering you, I really suggest you talk to someone you trust - a parent, counselor, friend, or another adult.  xoxo


Marie H.

by Phoenix In Flight on 2/7/2011 7:55:18 PM


My bf and I have been together for a couple of weeks now, and every time I try to talk to him but he gets really shy. We used to be friends a year ago and then he would be all fun and himself around me. Now he's just so quiet, what gives? And how can I let him know he can be himself around me?

by emma56 on 2/7/2011 6:13:20 PM


MOD MOD MOD! I have a HUGE guy prob!theres a guy at my school whos amazingly funny,nice,cute. and cuz of tht ive well kinda developed a tiny crush on him(and prob like 20 other girls in my grade)and im kinda keeping it to myself cuz he has a gf whos younger then us.but lately hes been paying quite a bit of attention to me like in bio. ill be talking to my bffs and he'll stare at me and smile wen i look bak. at 1st i thought he was jst tryin 2 figure me out cuz im kinda shy in class, but then he started giving me flirty smiles and joking w/ me. i really want 2 talk to him, but in "jst friends" way so i dont seem like im invading his i want 2 no 1)how can i talk 2 him in tht way and 2)restrain myself from liking him? P.S.he is NOT a guy who would use a girl, so i dont think he knows hes doing this! plz help me!!! thnxx erynn<33


Hey chicky, I’m a busy bee facilitating all the G-Blog jazz. Although I’d love to answer and chat with all ya gals, it’s just not possible at the moment. I’m sure our lovely bloggers here would love to help ya out with some great advice! Thanks for understanding. , Your Blog Patrol Babes

Marie H.

by erynn14 on 2/7/2011 4:49:08 PM


think of your crush

2.make a heart with your hands

3.then kiss your hands while still making the heart

4.then put the heart where your real heart is

5.tomorrow your crush will ask you out

6.this will only work if you post this to your favorite article

by fluffy kittyz on 2/6/2011 11:50:46 PM


ThanksSmile I'm already friends with him and I do talk to him at least once a day but I just can't tell if he likes me because he'll flirt with me ( at least it seems like flirting) but then it seems like he'll flirt with my best friend and I get kind of hurt by that, sorry for bothering you so much I just don't get it.

P.S. Oh and do you think you could give me some tips for getting him to notice me moreSmile

by babysa511 on 2/6/2011 9:51:10 PM


Ok, so I like this guy and I really want to know if he likes me or if he doesn't how to get him to like me. Sometimes it seems like he does but others i have no clue, how can i really tell if he likes me and how do i give him subtle hint s that i like him too. Thanks!Smile
P.S. I'm kind of shy but I still talk to him


Hey girlie, you can recruit a friend to find out if he likes you or you can just start making an effort to say hi or ask how his day is going. Start building a rapport with him and a friendship 

Paige T.

by babysa511 on 2/6/2011 9:36:39 PM


Hey girlies!! Just a quick note. There is no specific age that you should start having intercourse. That is a personal decision. You should never feel pressured or rushed into it. Marly Z.

by emogrl234 on 2/5/2011 11:34:21 PM


MOD MOD MOD all my friends have bfs except for me. And it seems like when I'm with my friends and their bfs show up, they look down on me like I can't get a bf even if i wanted to, which I don't. And when their is a group of guys with their gfs and it seams like they look at me and laugh a lot when I walk past them in the hall. Any advice?!HELP!!!


Hey girlie. Don't worry what they do. If you want to be single then that is your business. Walk confidently and keep smiling because you are content with yourself and that is beautiful and worth boasting about : )

Elizabeth P.

by cowbellkell on 2/4/2011 10:59:41 PM


think of your crush

2.make a heart with your hands

3.then kiss your hands while still making the heart

4.then put the heart where your real heart is

5.tomorrow your crush will ask you out

6.this will only work if you post this to your favorite article

by livelaughlove4eva23 on 2/3/2011 5:12:29 PM


Help me please!! My bf wants me to kiss him the nest time we see each other, which will be soon. Im nervouse beacause this will be our first kiss and also i have braces and he doesn't. The good thing is he doesnt care if I have braces. Should i be nervous or should i just go with the flow?

by Kendra Cinnamon on 2/2/2011 9:33:40 PM


Hey girlies!!! If any of you need advice on anything like boys, family, friends, school, anything, I can help! Go to my profile and comment on what's up and I will reply as soon as possible! I am really good at solving probs so you can always come to me!

by Esther779 on 2/1/2011 9:02:20 PM


modmodmod-how do i tell a stalker i dont like like him at all? hes kinda creepy....and wat happens f like 5 guys ask me out to a dance @ school? its true they might....and also, i don't wanna sound self centered but i have talent! i could b a model or a singer or an actress, but i live in such a small town that noones ever going to 'discover me'

Hey girlie. As for your "stalker" just politely tell him that you are not interested. As for the 5 guys asking you to the dance, just wait til one actually does, and then go with the one you like. Have fun! 
Elizabeth P.

by redfernhat on 2/1/2011 8:13:09 PM


how do i tell a stalker id like like him at all? hes kinda creepy....and wat happens if like 5 guys ask me out to a dance @ school? its true they might....and also, i don't wanna sound self centered but i have talent! i could b a model or a singer or an actress, but i live in such a small town that noones ever going to 'discover me'

by redfernhat on 2/1/2011 12:25:32 PM


So my boyfriend and I have been together for a while but we haven't kissed or anything yet... I want to and I think he wants to as well but neither of us have the guts. I was thinking that on Valentine's Day I'd get him a cute little card and maybe give him one of those Sweethearts that says 'Kiss Me', maybe playing "Kiss Me" by Sixpence None The Richer on my iPod (without the headphones in of course). What do you think? Do I need to be more subtle, is it too cheesy? Please help. I am open to ideas.

Hey chickie,

It's kinda cheesy, but it's Valentine's Day - you're supposed to share your feelings with your guy and, if you'd like to kiss him on the big day, dropping some hints is totally the way to go Smile You know your BF best, so try what feels right!

Lauren C.

by chessiecat524 on 1/31/2011 8:42:48 PM


hey everyone! im looking for someone alot like me so please look at this and get back to meSmile! heres some stuff about me:

fav color: pink, green
fav subject: social studies
fav tv show: make it or break it, pretty little liars
fav sport: basketball
fav movie(s): i love easy a, sydney white, and shes the man!
something i wanna try: i REALLY REALLY REALLY wanna try gymnastics! i hope i can soon! i have to wait till june thoughFrown!
personality: talkative, a little loud, playful, energetic, friendly, i try to be nice to people!, i have a good amount of friends, im a little lazySmile, i love going on vacation, i really like to talk to people on GL, i am good on computers- but im not all dorky! i just like going on GL and stuff, i love upbeat fun music, i like to eat- but im really skinny since i play a LOT of basketball!

please get back to me if you have a lot in common with me! im looking for someone to talk to on GL! thanks girls!

by laughlots on 1/31/2011 6:45:08 PM


MOD MOD MOD! okay well this is weird but i dont know how to kiss! like im always scared that it will come time where i need to kiss someone but i wont know how! please tell me how and be specific!!!!!! thanks sooooo much!!

Hey girlie,

This article about avoiding kissing mishaps is super helpful! Combined with our Kissing Guide, you'll be all set for your first one when it arrives Smile And always remember the #1 piece of advice for kissing - RELAX!!!!

Lauren C.

by laughlots on 1/31/2011 6:44:51 PM


Okay, so this article helped a little I guess... But how and where do you move your lips.? And what do you do with your tounge?! And please be very specificcc!!! oh and if your just reading this and know a good way to say it write it on my page please!!! (((::: Thanks!

Hey chickie,

Well, you keep your lips on his, unless you wanna mix it up with a lil kiss on the cheek! Usually people will "alternate" lips - like, his top lip will be above you top lip, which will be above his bottom lip, which will be above your bottom lip. Make sense? And what you do with your tongue kinda depends on how the individual kiss is going. If you're French kissing, try starting by softly touching his tongue with the tip of yours. As you get more into it, you can get more creative and swirl yours around his or whatever. Just be subtle and go with the flow!

Lauren C.

by clairee.* on 1/31/2011 5:56:25 PM


so my date to formal kissed me last night (my first kiss), and it went pretty well. but he didn't ask me to be his girlfriend. maybe he will later, idk, but what happens if he doesn't???

Hey Girlie, If he doesn't ask you out don't sweat it just remain friends and someone will ask you out sooner or later. 
Paige T.

by diver_girl on 1/30/2011 10:49:26 PM


Practice Makes PERFECT!
When I started kissing it was just a peck on the lips but now that I have a bf I understand the tongue and lip nibbling and the guys I have kissed love it. Its not for everyone and it depends on what you want to do but there are a lot of advantages on being a good kisser and the only way for that is to practice and practice some more!

My suggestion is when kissing know where to put your hands because that is a big part of it and that just takes time and experience.

by luckykel on 1/30/2011 9:06:13 PM


MOD MOD MOD!!! I know this is ridiculous to get advice on but I'm dating this really sweet guy I like him, but I kinda like another person too. I don't want to be cheating or anything like that but I dont want to break up with him...What should I do? I know its wrong to like someone else, but just a little??? WHAT SHOULD I DO???



Hey girly! Don't beat yourself up over it... sometimes, you can't help how you feel. Whom do you like more? And, do you know if the other guy likes you? You don't want to mess up your relationship with this guy and have that pan out to be nothing.


Becca G.

by KatieBieber on 1/30/2011 7:56:21 PM


my boyfriend and i kinda planned our first kiss for tomorrow do you think that's weird? We just said well kiss tomorrow but it would be sort of spontaneous cuz we wouldn't know when it's going to happen. but is it supposed to be completely spontaneous??

Hey! there's no "supposed to be" with first kisses. if you want it to be spontaneous though maybe you should change plans Smile
Helen S.

by cherrynerd24 on 1/30/2011 4:29:56 PM


Aww Come on you guys! I thought this was cute and helpful! Definitely not gross <3

by TaylorMarie139 on 1/29/2011 11:24:34 PM


I dont know what u guys are talkin about happydays and engineer2be, I think this blog is amazing and super helpful! there are tons of people who make out and use tongue its not gross!! i think its actually pretty hot and when u get into the moment you'll understand!!

by tayatreacy on 1/29/2011 10:57:26 PM


LOL i totally agree with happydays!Smile swapping spit is so gross! totally not romantic!

by lili545 on 1/29/2011 10:45:26 PM


Tongue and lip nibbling? Eeeww!!! Who in the world does that? Marly Z.

by engineer2be on 1/29/2011 10:08:35 PM


I have this boyfriend and I really wanna kiss him.... but how do I know that we are both ready for this?....

by suzthorn11 on 1/29/2011 8:29:59 PM


Umm, gross. Maybe it's just me, but having a 2-way saliva exchange doesn't really fall into the "romance" category in my book. So I'm not going to shove my tongue into any guy's mouth.
PS It's dangerous too! My older cousin's BFF almost died because she choked on her boyfriend's tongue. EWWW! LOL

by happydays!:-) on 1/29/2011 7:57:41 PM


Um... I don't think Ill be nibbling my Bf's lips anytime soon. ♥ But I am going out W/ him To his house! ♥♥ (Again. Kinda Scary...) We've been going out for 3- almost 4 months and haven't kissed. He was scared the first time and we've only been on 2 dates all by ourselves. I'm Kinda- Freaking out 'cuz it's close to Valentines day and have NO Idea on what to give him... Any Ideas?

by Cen on 1/29/2011 7:51:50 PM


Ok, so I'm going to be in 7th grade next year and I wanna learn how to kiss.My bf knows how but I want it to be a surprise.Any tips?

Hey girlie, kissing comes pretty naturally. When you're with your bf and you have a moment of silence, just go for it and give him a quick kiss. That'll encourage him to kiss you more. 

Lauren T.

by Randafanna2 on 1/29/2011 6:43:30 PM


Mod mod mod!!!
Okay so yesterday in gym we had to width ourselves and tell the teacher. I think I'm overweight but my friends say I'm skinny. I look skinny on the outside but I have no abs what so ever and I would like some quick ab burning exerises cuz I start swimming in gym on monday. I know it wont very fast but I really feel self conscious because I know my wiegh but others don't. What is the best way to lose some weight fast? Thanks so much!!!!

Hey girlie, you probably weigh more because of your height or muscle. If everyone says that you're skinny then believe them! For ab exercises try crunches. That'll be the best way to work on defining those muscles quickly. 

Lauren T.

by mypuggl3 on 1/29/2011 5:27:42 PM


How do you know when a guy wants to kiss you? How do I send him signals that I want to kiss him?
thnx xo

Helen S.

by Clauu! on 1/29/2011 4:37:09 PM


I don't think I'll be licking or nibbling on a guy's mouth anytime soon... :/ ick

by musicluva246 on 1/29/2011 4:06:25 PM


So When I text my crush he texts me back, for a while. Then, he just doesn't respond. What do I do?? Thanks! ♥
XOXO~Courtney <333333

hey! don't worry so much about getting a response and pretty sure he'll be wondering why you don't text him back Smile 
Helen S.

by cmn5297 on 1/29/2011 3:53:27 PM


There's this guy at my school that I really like, and my friends say that he likes me too. We have 3 classes together(1st, 3rd, and 4th period). We used to sit next to each other during 3rd and 4th, but every semester we switch seats, so now, I'm not sitting next to him anymore. When we sat next to each other, we would always joke around and tease each other, maybe even be a little sarcastic. It seemed like he would always try to make me laugh. Now, since we don't sit next to each other, he doesn't try to talk to me anymore. Does he like me like I like him, or was he just being friendly since he's part of the "popular crowd"? Thanks!

hey! maybe, but you shouldn't give up. try making the extra effort to talk to him now and you'll be glad you did. 
Helen S.

by izzyrox7198 on 1/29/2011 3:53:25 PM


bble the guys lip? Weird. Haha.

by goldfish123 on 1/29/2011 3:35:31 PM


what happends if you take the whole kissing thing to a whole other level and start ya know making out? Then what do you do especially if your younger than 18?

hey! you just have to make sure you're comfortable and not moving too fast for you. think about what you are comfortable with and not ahead of time so that if you get into a sticky sitch you know exactly what to say. good luck! 
Helen S.

by sweetgrl44 on 1/29/2011 2:55:09 PM


so for the card I'm thinking of drawing a phoenix then put like a heart right by that is flaming and put something like "you set my heart on fire" then happy valentine's day. do you think that'd be good???

Hey! maybe it's coming on a little strong, maybe just the drawing and happy valentines day? 
Helen S.

by *Sigh* on 1/29/2011 2:55:09 PM


Mod Mod!!!!! ********mod mod mod******
so I'm thinking about V-day....I wanna make a card for my crush (I did last year too) and I wanna like do some drawing (I ♥ drawing) but I'm best at mythical creatures but idk how to make something w/a mythical creature that's cute/"romantic"...any ideas??? Thanks so much!

hey! Cupid? Unicorns? a dragon holding a heart? a sea monster writing a poem? get creative girl Smile
Helen S.

by *Sigh* on 1/29/2011 2:03:00 PM


If anyone needs advice on anything come to my profile and ask me! I would LOVE to help out!

by topchef88 on 1/29/2011 1:51:38 PM


I don't really want to 'nibble' on a guy's lip. I think that would just be weird....

by monkeygal22 on 1/29/2011 12:44:46 PM


ew. i will NOT be "nibbling" on a guys lips anytime soon! ugh...

by the_last_ninja on 1/29/2011 11:52:47 AM

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