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5 healthy ways to get over him

Tears, pity parties and Ben & Jerry’s only get you so far. It's time to quit thinking about him and start focusing on Y-O-U.
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Mod mod mod!!! My crush was my best friend and then he said that he likes me and I told him I like him back. He was really happy about it, and I guess I am too, but I don't know. Things are all awkward between us now, and I want to go back to being just friends. How can I tell him that?

 

 

Hey chica! I'd be honest with him sooner, rather than later. Let him know that while you do have feelings for him, you miss the way it used to be. He should understand, and it's likely that he may even feel the same way. If you do truly like him, though, I'd give it a little time. Every relationship is awkward at first!

xxx

Becca G.

by spicyllamachick2120 on 7/18/2011 1:08:38 AM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD! So I just got back from a two week trip to the United Nations. There were teenagers from Canada, the US, Switzerland and the Netherlands on my bus. We all got really close, especially this guy and I. I think I really like him, a lot. But he went back to Switzerland last week. We're keeping in touch over Facebook, but I don't think I'll ever really see him again. How can I stop myself from liking him? Thanks Smile Oh, p.s. On the second last day about 8 of us were playing Truth (like truth or dare but everyone has to answer the question and there aren't any dares), and someone asked "if you were forced to marry someone on this trip who would it be?" He chose me, and I chose him... Help??

 

 

Hey girly! I'd keep in touch, and then one day, go visit! Or, have him come visit here. It's definitely possible! One of my closest friends lives in central Mexico. I've had a thing for him ever since he was an exchange student at my college, and I've been down to visit him. I know how you feel about missing him, and not knowing when you'll see him next. However, I promise, with time, it'll get easier! Smile

xxx

Becca G.

by o1r2e3o4 on 7/17/2011 9:23:59 PM

 
 



MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD thanks for your time i really like this boy and i might possibly love him .one day i told him i like him and he said he liked me back .i asked him the next day before our student council if he still liked me he said yes,but later on that day at the zoo he said he didnt like me so i finished the day . on monday i asked why he said its better we stay friends (we have known each other since 1st grade)i asked if he liked me he said kinda and then on the last day he said he didnt like me because i joked about him claiming a chair i still like him and he's my facebook friend so i wanted to message him: i know you'll hate this song and me but i feel this way still sorry . so thank for time should i send it please respond soon and i cant get over him i think messageing this is like telling i love him thxs




Hey girlie,

This is definitely a grand gesture and it's sweet of you to think of it, but it sounds like he's going back and forth for more reasons than just the joking around. It sounds like he's hesitant to crush on you and date you because he doesn't want to ruin the friendship you've had for so long! So definitely Facebook message him and give him a heartfelt apology for that whole joking/teasing situation, but try not to push too hard. It's tough but ya gotta respect what he tells you and, if he finally decides it's better for you to stay friends, you have to respect those feelings too <3
Lauren C.

by texastween on 7/11/2011 10:09:10 PM

 
 

Make a playlist of girl-power songs and songs that boys sing to girls when they love them, to make you feel better. Put on a fashion show in your prettiest clothes that make you happy. Sing until your throat hurts. Eat as much ice cream or sweets as you need. Give yourself a spa day. But most importantly, carry your head high, shoulders back, so you exude confidence. It will totes make him regret breaking up with such a self-assured girl.

Now, here's something you should never do: beg the boy to get back with you. Don't. If the guy was a jerk enough to break up with you, you don't need him anyways.

Don't change yourself into some clone of the popular girls to get him back. If he can't accept you the way you are, then he does not deserve an amazing guy like you.

And, focusing on keeping your mind away from him and doing other stuff will help. Flirt with other guys in front of him- show him that you were the best thing that ever happened to him, and he just lost the best girl!!!

by basketballcutie11 on 7/4/2011 7:45:51 AM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD so i was finally starting to feel a little better after my breakup when he texted me. I know he wants us to be friends, and in the long run i do too, but right now im torn between getting over him and losing him forever, or letting myself get hurt all the time, and being friends with him. idk wat to do plz help! thanks Frown

 

 

Hey babe. You need to take care of yourself. If you two are meant to be friends then he will be there when you are ready. Be nice for now, but look out for your heart.

mary h.

by kguyer123 on 6/29/2011 9:25:00 AM

 
 

MODMODMODMODMODMOD!!!
My crush thinks im a stalker because of my friends stupid sister she stole my phone and got his number and started texting him being like omg she is sooo disappointed u wont answer he didnt answer because he was getting stitches!! I am soo mad she ruined my chance with him how can i prove im not a stalker and still let him know i like him but not obsessed??




Hey girl, by just explaining/apologizing to him your sister's conduct. Then from there, text him in moderation: prove you're not a stalker by your actions.

xoxo 
Alyssa B.

by sweetbaby12 on 6/28/2011 8:21:28 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD MOD 4 days ago my first boyfriend ever (im 14 hes 13) broke up with me. He says he still wants to be friends, but idk how to go from being his gf back to his just friend again. idk if i should txt him or wat to do and im so sad and hv been not eating crying and not sleeping since then. We dont get to see each other and dont talk on the phone just text. when we were together, id initiate conversations. but idk what to do now. please help me.

 

 

Hey babe. Break-ups stink, but hang in there! You really should take some time away from each other. Hang out with your buds and these feelings should pass. These articles might help: http://www.girlslife.com/post/2011/03/05/5-healthy-ways-to-get-over-him.aspx http://www.girlslife.com/post/2011/02/22/Survive-being-crushed-by-your-crush.aspx

mary h.

by kguyer123 on 6/28/2011 8:56:37 AM

 
 

The Best Way To Get over A break Up is Not cleaning youur Room or Hitting Books. No It's About you having FUN showing Him that your great and fine without Him. Show Him that you don't care anymore or Didnt care at all. The best Way to Get your Ex back or make him Jealous is To Get more attention Then he usally does or Talk to a new guy and make sure your ex is right there. If anyone say OMG josh broke up with you. You say No he Lost His Dream. MOVE ON. There plenty of Guys out there that are better than that. Just search To find the right Guy. Trust Me On this One. Smile






sincerly: octavia

by klassy_wit_a_k_ on 6/26/2011 8:20:44 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD!! So almost a month ago, my BGF asked me out. I said yes. It was going pretty good up until recently.. It seems like every time I'm in a relationship, I always seem to want to get out of it around our "monthiversary". It's always different reasons. Sometimes I just loose interest. I really want to keep him as my best friend, but I think I want to he's in NY right now (I'm in Ca) and I find myself openly flirting with other guys and I feel guilty, at the same time. Maybe I'm not "girlfriend" girl? What if I'm "dating" girl? My friends say I just haven't found the right one yet... I j need some advice on what to d

 

 

Hey girly girl! It sounds like your friends are right on this one. I used to have this issue when I dated guys, too. However, I promise you, when the right guy comes alone, you'll know, and you won't want to break up with him! As you get older, commitment won't seem as weird and nervewracking as it does now Smile

xxx

Becca G.

by TrippleThreat13 on 6/18/2011 11:27:42 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD
This summer I am doing a youth theater production of the tempest. My ex- crush tried out also. WE had to run scenes and the director chose us 2 to practice the romantic scene between Miranda and Ferdinand. It was really romantic, sweet and totally confusing espially since we had to hold hands and he found out that i liked him. What should I do? P.S. he has a girlfriend




Since he has a girlfriend theres not a lot you can do. Just keep working with him but keep the crush to a minimum because he has a girlfriend already. Good luck! xoxo kerra 
Kerra S.

by Bluejaye221 on 6/16/2011 12:30:34 AM

 
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