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Fighting parents worry me

I'm afraid my parents are going to get a divorce because they argue all the time.
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MOD!
sorry this is long...
my mom has been crying a lot lately but shes been trying to hide it from me. last night i woke up after dinner from a nap and i heard them arguing. at first i thought it was a nightmare, and then i realized it was real. then my mom burst out crying, saying shes been seeing a therapist and she wants pills because she cant stand the pain anymore even thought she wanted to work through this. my dad called her a p word for crying and said he "did it" and didnt want to be with her anymore. it sounded like cheating. then he started saying about getting divorce but with more hate than ive ever heard. i wanted to know what was going on, but i couldnt stand anymore and ran out my back door and called my friends, sobbing til they came and got me. a couple hours later i finally went home, but i almost stayed over my friends. my parents dont know i heard. i'm scared. what should i do? i almost dont want to know, both my sibling are at college and im 17 and stuck here




Hey girl, you need to talk to someone about this. Start with a friend's mom you really trust: an adult outside the house. Let your siblings know too. It's important you talk to someone outside of this and get that adult perspective. Things sound pretty rough at your place, but know it's not your fault and you shouldn't be afraid of getting help. This isn't your burden to carry alone.

xoxo 
Alyssa B.

by spongebob17 on 8/16/2011 11:11:31 PM

 
 

will someone help me.....i hate my life. i'm always getting picked on :'( being compared to :'( and my parentd always fight :'( did i mention they treat my brother better than me :'( help me i really am under a lot of stress i've aken it out on my brother written in a dirary and cant get away from depression and im only 10! help!!!!!!!!!!!!!

by omegirl on 6/5/2011 2:44:20 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD
please help mee
im really sad and worried.everything is pretty stressfulright now
cuz i have to move house this month
Frown but apart from this, im really down cuz no matter
how hard i try i keep comparing myself. im the only one in my friend
group without a bf or having had there first kiss Frown no pressure! and
also i never get to go out to discos like the other girls do Frown they have such better lives than meFrown they have everything i want Frown what do i do? xcx <3




Hey there babe. As cliche as this sounds, your time will come! It's actually better to have you first kiss with a guy you really like than to settle and have your first kiss with just anyone. Try to start seeing the good in your life. I'm sure there are things you have that your friends admire. Smile 
Marly Z.

by sophXxx on 4/20/2011 7:02:37 PM

 
 

Girlie- I know EXACTLY what you're going through. My parents WERE the same way, but they got a divorce- and things are a LOT calmer. Trust me it may seem scary now but maybe a divorce is what they need to be happier. Add me as a friend if you want to talk more about it.
-Erin-

by cowluver123 on 4/14/2011 7:16:35 PM

 
 



HEY MODS!
I want to thank all of you because u help a lot of girls with troubling probs! Speaking on account of a lot of girls here! SO THANK YOU SO MUCH! Other girls on here, take time to thank the mods sometime! they do a lot!




Hey girlie,

Thanks so much for your sweet words! We're glad we can help you girls out...You guys are awesome Smile
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by squigglegiggle13 on 4/2/2011 10:45:57 PM

 
 

Hey girls! Come check out my profile (with 1,000+ commentsLaughing)if you need some advice or just someone to talk to Smile
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by chlojo98 on 4/2/2011 1:38:18 PM

 
 

I feel ya girl.

I'm 100% sure that the only reason my parents are together is that they had me. They fight all the time, and they have even told me that when I go to college they're going to get a divorce. My mom told me that another reason she stays is because she likes our house to much. It's really hard to live with them sometimes. My mom gets mad over the littlest things and then just goes crazy. Then my dad has to start a fight with her just so she'll stop yelling at me. I feel so bad about this.. I feel like it is all my fault that their lives are horrible. I don't know what to do. Sometimes I wish that they would just get a divorce already so that none of us would have to deal with this anymore.

by wisher45 on 4/1/2011 2:00:28 PM

 
 

Hey! My parents got a divorce like 3 years ago. We have a really good system and I see my dad nearly every day. If they do talk to them, tell them that you want to see both of them the same amount as you see the other. Hope I helped!

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by daughtry60763 on 3/28/2011 3:17:56 PM

 
 



MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD... My mom just filed for divorce with my dad and now he wont stop calling and texting and begging for her back its starting to get really annoying... and i was talking with my mom and she said that money is gonna be really tight for awhile.. Please help. What do you think i should do?




 hey! this is going to be hard, but if your dad is trying to put you in the middle of their marriage problems you should tell your mom so that she can ask him to stop. You can talk to him about how it makes you feel too. For the money stuff just be understanding if your mom can't get you all the things she normally does. That'll help her feel less stress. good luck!
Helen S.

by TaylorLea<3 on 3/25/2011 3:17:02 PM

 
 

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I think im failing some of my classes. I have been getting bad grades and idk y. I think its because i think too much about boys. I try not to think about them but its so hard. My report card is coming in next week and ik my grades are bad. I always never try my hardest and i get stressed easily. Please help! I am in one of the highest classes in my school and i dont wanna be in a lower track. I am in sixth grade. PLEASE HELP!




Hey girlie. Try to concentrate during classes. You can think about boys any other time. Also, try talking to your teachers about tutoring. They might be able to help you outside of class. Good luck. 
Marly Z.

by snowwysnoopy on 3/23/2011 6:37:38 PM

 
 



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Recently I sent in a Dear Carol message on the website, when will I get a response, and will I even get I response? The message was really important. Thanks!




Hey girl,

We receive a lot of questions for Carol so, unfortunately, we can't post them all. But we do our best to choose questions that will help the most girls possible. Sorry I can't be more specific babe - just keep checking back and, if you don't get your answer quick enough, try asking the mods for help <3
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by bee309 on 3/21/2011 9:03:46 PM

 
 

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I have 2 questions:
1. I am really sad beause my grandma is going to die. I am not hungry! I have not had ANYTHING to eat all day and im still not hungry. Is this normal?
2. Why is it taking longer than usual for the MODS to answer questions the past 3 days?
Thanks!!!




Hey girlie, It's normal to grieve and mourn your grandmother's death. But you should still try and eat  
Paige T.

by loveforever21 on 3/12/2011 12:20:10 PM

 
 



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my parents announced last night that they're going to separate. My dad is moving in a couple weeks to a little house about ten minutes from where we live now. The weird thing is that i'm totally fine with all of this. I've heard them talking about this for a while. I cried when they first told me and my sisters, but i'm fine now. My parents and sisters keep treating me like i might burst into tears at any given moment, but i don't want sympathy. I am the youngest which could be why, but i hate being treated like i'm broken. is it weird for me to be okay with all of this when the news hit everybody else so hard?




hey! not at all. one of my best friends had the same reaction when her parents separated. You just have to gently let people know that you've had a while to get used to it and you're ok now. They should respect that and believe you.
Helen S.

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by ballet~talk on 3/10/2011 10:41:52 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD Lately, my mom has been calling me "fat" This is really disrespectful, and it makes me feel even worse because people at school think that I'm "way too skinny" or "anorexic" and my mom calls me fat. I hate this. I love my body, but after hearing those things, not so much. What can I say to my mom and the people at school when they taunt me about it?




Hey, Girl! Sorry for the “stock” message. We’re psyched you’re here but since this is a super busy time, mods aren’t able to answer personal advice or contest questions. We’re approving your comments now so the girls can start offering feedback right away! If you still have questions, please come back, we’re happy to help…or just let the other chicas answer now! (They give awesome advice, trust us!) Love and thanks! ♥, Your Blog Patrol Babes 
Alyssa B.

by NinjaDiamond on 3/10/2011 8:42:00 PM

 
 

MODMODMOD! I've rly liked my bgf for a long time andi found out he liked me too. so i texted him and he goes who do u like? and i go well kinda you and he goes oh cool what does that mean? I mean I was at my bffs house when he told my bff he liked me and that was yesterday. Now it's so weird around him what do i do?




Hey, Girl! Sorry for the “stock” message. We’re psyched you’re here but since this is a super busy time, mods aren’t able to answer personal advice or contest questions. We’re approving your comments now so the girls can start offering feedback right away! If you still have questions, please come back, we’re happy to help…or just let the other chicas answer now! (They give awesome advice, trust us!) Love and thanks! ♥, Your Blog Patrol Babes 
Alyssa B.

by dakotadog on 3/10/2011 6:40:37 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD
my parents announced last night that they're going to separate. My dad is moving in a couple weeks to a little house about ten minutes from where we live now. The weird thing is that i'm totally fine with all of this. I've heard them talking about this for a while. I cried when they first told me and my sisters, but i'm fine now. My parents and sisters keep treating me like i might burst into tears at any given moment, but i don't want sympathy. I am the youngest which could be why, but i hate being treated like i'm broken. is it weird for me to be okay with all of this when the news hit everybody else so hard?




Hey, Girl! Sorry for the “stock” message. We’re psyched you’re here but since this is a super busy time, mods aren’t able to answer personal advice or contest questions. We’re approving your comments now so the girls can start offering feedback right away! If you still have questions, please come back, we’re happy to help…or just let the other chicas answer now! (They give awesome advice, trust us!) Love and thanks! ♥, Your Blog Patrol Babes


 
Alyssa B.

by rainydays720 on 3/10/2011 3:17:37 PM

 
 

hey girl, i'm sorry too...my parents are divorced and it's very tough. try to push through it ok? remember, your friends are always there for you no matter what

<3
Rach

by rlitke13 on 3/9/2011 10:54:51 PM

 
 

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How can I convince my mom to let me wallpaper my room? It has the same wallpaper since I was a baby, which was there years before I was born, because an old couple lived in my house. Everytime I bring it up my mom yells at me and says, " We've talked about this and you're not gonna do it to your room. Don't ask again." I even tell her i can buy it myself and put it in, but she just yells and gets mad. I'm going to be a freshman next year, and I really want to do something to make the room finally mine. Can you help?




Hey girlie. Try approaching the issue differently. One day tell her that since you're going to be starting freshman year, you really want to do something to your room to match who you are. If she won't let you re-wallpaper, ask her if she has any suggestions as to what you can do.  
Marly Z.

by bball+music=life on 3/9/2011 8:46:44 PM

 
 

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by supersingershannon on 3/9/2011 7:57:07 PM

 
 

Hey Girls!
Come to my profile for advice on anything!
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by ilikelunch on 3/9/2011 7:30:01 PM

 
 

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My parents were yelling at my brother the other day because he isn't turning in his reports that my mom helped him with months ago. They didn't seem to notice me sitting at the table covering my ears. I hate all that yelling. I ant to talk to them but I think they'll just shrug it off. Could someone help me?
~HJ




Hey girlie. Go talk to them. They probably don't realize how much you dislike it, and they probably don't realize that they're yelling that much. Let them know how ya feel! 
Marly Z.

by voucher on 3/9/2011 7:17:40 PM

 
 

I'm so sorry to hear that! My parents divorced two years ago and I know exactly what you're going thorough. It's very hard but everything gets better in the end and at least they don't fight anymore!

by kayla9 on 3/9/2011 5:18:01 PM

 
 

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I need some help, please! Today, my Mom drove me and my brother and my Sister, and I, to school. This 8th grader (I'm in 6th grade) who bullies my brother (who's also in 6th grade) and his friends cornered him and fake hit him but my brother pushed the bully away. And, the bullies friend who's is 6th grade was swearing at my brother and his friends. I HATE fighting, I cant STAND it, there were 2 teacher there, but they were to busy talking to a new girl who needed to find her class. I told my parents and they said it was a battle my brother could fight on his own, and, when I told my sister who's also in 6th grade (I'm a triplet) she said to tell someone. I would, but, I'm to chicken. What should I do? Please help!
~Betsy




Hey girlie. Talk to a teacher. Maybe the teachers who were there didn't notice, but if they knew they would have been able to do something about it. And do feel scared to tell someone. Teachers are always there to help.
Marly Z.

by JBfan97 on 3/9/2011 4:18:44 PM

 
 

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