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well it all started a while ago when my bff started going out with this guy and hanging with this other girl. She started to be really well, not really mean but she just acted like I didn't exist. I tried to talk to her several times but she kept saying she was busy and that she promised someone she'd hangout with them. After a theater group performance we sorta became closer but now she's going further apart again and I think it's going back to how it was before! help!

 

Hey chica! It's such a sucky feeling to feel distanced from your bff. In your case, it's her that's causing the distance. I would suggest that you explain to her how it's making you feel. Tell her that you are hurt by it and that you miss her. Listen to her reasoning. Give her the benefit of the doubt but tell her that you want to feel close to her and talk to her everyday. If she really is your bff, she'd understand and start to make changes. See what happens; if the outcome is not in your favor, you can't force a friendship. 

 

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K so my best friend and I used to sit at this table at lunch and I was included but she kinda wasn't so one day I blew up and freaked out at one girl who was being really mean and we eventually moved tables... Now she barely talks to me and I keep saying we should hang out but she keeps saying she's busy. I recently asked her to hang out this weekend and she said she was going to the cabin and I just found out she was having a double sleepover with two of the people who sit at our table. I feel so hurt so what do I do?

hey! just talk to your friend and find out why she's mad at you. then you guys can work it out

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K so I have a group of 10 friends. 2 of these girls getting on everyones nerves, and they have been getting super awkward and say all the wrong things at the wrong time. All the popular girls tell me we could be as cool as them if we just drop them . But we can't just drop them, that would be so mean in so many ways and we dont want to come across as a group of mean girls. Plus one of them is super self conscious so if we tell her how we feel she will feel so sooooo hurt and probably hate us. But if nobody's really likes them anymore , why should we have to pretend?? What should we do?????

You shouldnt base whether you like someone based on how other people feel about them. If you like the girls and get along well with them, you should be their friend. Think about it only from your point of view. Dont hurt someone because of how other people feel about those girls. Thats no fair, and youre right it makes you look mean. xoxo kerra 

Mod Mod Okay, so there's this girl in my grade (6th) who thinks I'm her best friend. I have 4 really close friends, and none of our parents really want us to hang out with her. Shes had many boyfriends since she was 9 or 10 and her parents are divorced. She gets everything she wants, an iPod, a new phone, a puppy, a shirt. Well, she tells me I treat her like dirt, when I actually honor her thoughts and opinions and care about what she does. Shes so dramatic. Shes not a very good friend and I just want her to get that im not her best friend and dont/cant hang out with her. If i tell her, shell tell the guidence counseler on me AGAIN and ill get a detention. She is hurting my other friends. She complains she has no friends and everyone hates her when she has at least 4 close friends. If anyone dislikes her its cause of her attitude. Another problem: her dad is my neighbor but also her other bff is too. How do i shake her? She thinks we have to be bffs or enimies. Help!