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Hey! Mod is short for Moderator and that's my job, to moderate and check all the comments on the site to keep it safe and fun for you guys Smile If you have a question about anything or need advice start your comment with "mod mod mod" and one of the moderators on duty will get back to you as soon as she can. thanks for the question! 


Helen S.

by rue_prim13 on 3/30/2012 5:49:10 PM

 
 



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I really need help. I was friends with a girl since 5th grade. She has always been kind of mean (she used to physically hurt me) and she made me feel bad. I found some new friends that are nice and make me feel good but I feel bad about ditching her because her mom just left for 6 months to go to rehab. What should I do?
My other problem is that my best friend (a different girl) that I have known my whole life has just started ignoring me. She knew it was my birthday and she didn't even talk to me. It hurt my feelings. I haven't been mean to her at all. How can I get my relationship back to the way it was?

 

Hey! just talk to your mean-ish friend about the way things are between you guys. have an honest discussion about why you're growing apart. Invite your best friend over to hang out and re-connect. 


Helen S.

by sgirl26 on 3/16/2012 7:35:44 PM

 
 

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well it all started a while ago when my bff started going out with this guy and hanging with this other girl. She started to be really well, not really mean but she just acted like I didn't exist. I tried to talk to her several times but she kept saying she was busy and that she promised someone she'd hangout with them. After a theater group performance we sorta became closer but now she's going further apart again and I think it's going back to how it was before! help!

 

Hey chica! It's such a sucky feeling to feel distanced from your bff. In your case, it's her that's causing the distance. I would suggest that you explain to her how it's making you feel. Tell her that you are hurt by it and that you miss her. Listen to her reasoning. Give her the benefit of the doubt but tell her that you want to feel close to her and talk to her everyday. If she really is your bff, she'd understand and start to make changes. See what happens; if the outcome is not in your favor, you can't force a friendship. 


 
Amalia E.

by watevz98 on 10/10/2011 3:41:33 AM

 
 

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by punkydoodle01 on 5/24/2011 8:52:07 PM

 
 



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K so my best friend and I used to sit at this table at lunch and I was included but she kinda wasn't so one day I blew up and freaked out at one girl who was being really mean and we eventually moved tables... Now she barely talks to me and I keep saying we should hang out but she keeps saying she's busy. I recently asked her to hang out this weekend and she said she was going to the cabin and I just found out she was having a double sleepover with two of the people who sit at our table. I feel so hurt so what do I do?




hey! just talk to your friend and find out why she's mad at you. then you guys can work it out Smile
Helen S.

by Chrysanthymum on 5/20/2011 5:07:49 PM

 
 

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ok so i have a really big problem. latley my friend is a BIG PAIN! she annoys me all the time about a guy and she just in general is annoying and kinda mean to people. I started to hang out with someone else to let any problems she might be having cool down. BUT NOTHING CHANGED!! she still is so annoying i asked her if anything was wrong and seh said she was fine. Because ofr her attitude she is loosing all her friends and im thinking im done with her i don't want her to annoy me. Please help me!!!! -THANKS Smile




Hey girl, I'd just ignore her for now when she gets annoying. Chances are this behavior thrives off the motivation she wants attention from other people. If she's hurting you or your friends, however, it's time to have a heart-to-heart with her. Ask what's up and let her know her words do have an impact. If she just shrugs you off, distance yourself. You deserve people who will bring you up.

xoxo 
Alyssa B.

by greekprincess98 on 5/19/2011 9:00:36 PM

 
 



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K so I have a group of 10 friends. 2 of these girls getting on everyones nerves, and they have been getting super awkward and say all the wrong things at the wrong time. All the popular girls tell me we could be as cool as them if we just drop them . But we can't just drop them, that would be so mean in so many ways and we dont want to come across as a group of mean girls. Plus one of them is super self conscious so if we tell her how we feel she will feel so sooooo hurt and probably hate us. But if nobody's really likes them anymore , why should we have to pretend?? What should we do?????




You shouldnt base whether you like someone based on how other people feel about them. If you like the girls and get along well with them, you should be their friend. Think about it only from your point of view. Dont hurt someone because of how other people feel about those girls. Thats no fair, and youre right it makes you look mean. xoxo kerra 
Kerra S.

by Dancerox12653 on 5/8/2011 3:09:47 PM

 
 

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okedokie! This will be short and sweet! okay so sometimes i think i'm too clingy with my friends! please help me not be like this!! Smile thanks so much!<3

 

Hey girlie!! It's great that you care about your friends and that you want to spend a lot of time with them, just try to avoid being overly attached to them -- it's ok to not constantly be texting or IMing them! Good luck!

Katie B.

by Gigilove321 on 5/6/2011 4:43:42 PM

 
 

Mod Mod Okay, so there's this girl in my grade (6th) who thinks I'm her best friend. I have 4 really close friends, and none of our parents really want us to hang out with her. Shes had many boyfriends since she was 9 or 10 and her parents are divorced. She gets everything she wants, an iPod, a new phone, a puppy, a shirt. Well, she tells me I treat her like dirt, when I actually honor her thoughts and opinions and care about what she does. Shes so dramatic. Shes not a very good friend and I just want her to get that im not her best friend and dont/cant hang out with her. If i tell her, shell tell the guidence counseler on me AGAIN and ill get a detention. She is hurting my other friends. She complains she has no friends and everyone hates her when she has at least 4 close friends. If anyone dislikes her its cause of her attitude. Another problem: her dad is my neighbor but also her other bff is too. How do i shake her? She thinks we have to be bffs or enimies. Help!

 

 

Hey girly girl! I'd still be nice to her, but slowly try to break free. Maybe, don't invite her as much anymore if you guys hang out. Be nice if she talks to you, but don't go out of your way to talk to her.

xxx

Becca G.

by stormbeauty on 5/1/2011 10:15:36 PM

 
 



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Hey, so Im in a bit of a sticky situation.
The grade 7's that go to my school are going on a trip to Ottawa! IM SUPER EXCITED! The problem is there is 4 people per room and my teacher put random people in our rooms so it would be fair. The problem is that Im with my bestfriend which is awesome! But were with 2 other girls who are really rude to me and her. We want to try and be polite and try a be there friend but they just say rude things to us. So how can me and my friend but up with these 2 girls for 4 days? I want this to be a good memory not a bad one.
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Hey girlie -- you should talk your teacher about your situation, as she was the one who placed you guys. Explain to her everything you just told me, and that you and your friend are trying to be the bigger person, but it doesn't seem to be working and you would like her input.




Brittany G. 
Brittany G.

by dragonbee on 4/22/2011 6:49:37 PM

 
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