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Do guys prefer girls in bikinis?

Do guys only like girls in bikinis? My mom won’t let me get one for summer, but I don’t want to blend into the sand! Dave...
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I love many of the bikinis I see on Pinterest, I wish I looked as good in them as some of the girls they show.

And some of the endless pictures of hot guys I can view on Pinterest is just really awesome. Its like it never ends with the amount of cute guys in bathing suits and their barely there or not there swim trunks. Smile

by fashionqn on 7/8/2013 12:14:07 AM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD I'm showing signs of anorexia. I restrict myself from carbs, sugars, fats, even dairy, and I'm shrinking my portions too. I never stand still and I even exercise a little in public, and when I'm alone or in the gym I exercise like crazy! Even when I see results I still call myself "thunder thighs" and I feel fat. The only reason why it's not 100% anorexia is because I'm not starving myself. I really don't want to live the rest of my life like this. Please help!

 

Hey girlie, find someone to talk to. Your parents or a guidance counselor is a good place to start. You might want to see a professional who specializes in eating disorders from there. Remember that an eating disorder is something that you can't control. See if you can scale back on exercise or try to eat more or not so strictly to see if you can help yourself change and get better. 

Lauren T.

by PuppyCT on 7/7/2013 7:06:30 PM

 
 

I Always wear a 2 piece bathing suit...it makes me feel confident with my body, However i do want to loose some weight on my legs. And i ALWAYS shave before even thinking about wearing a Bikini!

by Olivia_is_luv on 6/29/2013 10:32:33 PM

 
 

I just love how I have the same bikini as the one in the picture. I don't know why it's so exciting to me.

by amelia84 on 6/21/2013 11:04:59 PM

 
 

Personally, i feel i am MORE ATTRACTIVE in my one piece bathing suits, and more comfortable too!

by Mavertishboydrama on 6/21/2013 4:45:45 PM

 
 



mod mod mod
How do you find a bathing suit thats right for your body shape?

 

 

Hey girl!



xo 


Jess D.

by sojo368 on 6/11/2013 9:39:32 AM

 
 



MOD MOD MOD MOD. My hair has a lot of frizz sometimes. Especially after a workout and gym class! And I brush it, but it easily gets back to getting tangled! I shampoo and condition it every day! Plus my hair is pretty curly, not very very curly, but very wavy. What can I do, or what tips do you have to have less frizzy, less tangled, and hard to manage hair?

 

Hey girlie, use a serum or hairspray that's made for frizzy hair. It'll help keep your hair tame. For the tangles, buy a detangling brush. You'll find them in beauty stores or stores like Target. And it'll make it easier to brush your hair. 


Lauren T.

by emmaleeruth on 6/10/2013 6:57:15 PM

 
 



MOD MOD MOD MOD. Whenever the guy I like talks to me or any guy for that matter, my face turns bright red. Do guys think that's cute or just weird.

 

Hey imprettymuchamazing, I'm sure they know you're just nervous, so they make think it's cute. No worries. Embrace that redness. Xoxo Smile 


Lynae P.

by imprettymuchamazing on 6/9/2013 9:31:40 PM

 
 

This is not a dumb question but we all know the answer, they do like to see us in bikinis. I can tell when I wear mine, I have guys come around who normally wouldnt and they make comments. We are all visual but I think guys are just very visual when it comes to seeing our bodies. Who can blame them some of the things we wear are very revealing.

by fashionqn on 6/4/2013 2:08:44 PM

 
 

MOD! MOD! MOD!
The guy I like (I think he likes me too) said he rates girls from 1 to 10 of how pretty they are. I know that it doesn't matter, but I really want to know what I am! Should I ask?

 

Hey girlie, if you want to know then ask. But remember that you might not get the answer you're looking for and it might hurt your feelings. Whatever he says, it doesn't matter. You're pretty, and we both know that even if he doesn't! 


Lauren T.

by WinnieGirlie on 6/3/2013 8:01:55 PM

 
 



mod mod mod!!!!
i've had the same question about swim suits forever thats asked above. And i know for a fact guys love bikinis but in all honesty i hate all swim suits. Because eery pretty girl wears a bikini, i never wear a bikini and all guys like the "hot" girls in bikinis so i have absolutely no chance. I'm kinda sad.

 

Hey girlie, it's not about what you're wearing, it's about how you feel in what you're wearing. If you're rocking a one piece suit and feeling good about yourself, it'll show. I know a lot of guys who tell me the most attractive thing about girls is confidence. It doesn't matter what you're wearing or what you like, if you love it and feel confident, guys will notice you. 


Lauren T.

by Icecreamluver on 6/3/2013 6:39:21 PM

 
 

I love Dave's answers..he's always right

by maggie183 on 6/3/2013 5:55:09 PM

 
 

K no offense but Bill is kind of creepy;)

by puddinface7 on 6/3/2013 4:59:47 PM

 
 

Swim suits are revealing enough, a few more inches of fabric really doesn't make a different! Rock what you're comfortable in!

by JuliaE on 6/3/2013 4:46:50 PM

 
 

Mod
I really like this guy. He is a year older than me and we are pretty close. The other day I told him that I liked him he told me that he would go out with me but he had a new girlfriend. He just broke up with her and I thought it was to be with me. He still hasn't talked to me since they broke up. I don't have his number and I am afraid we will lose touch becasue he is going to the high school next year, and he told me he was thinking about going to a priate school. Everyone says I should get over him, but I just can't I really like him. What do you think I should do? I feel like is a bad idea to bring it up again. Thanks!

 

Hey chica! I agree, bad idea to bring it up. If he knows you're interested and that you're there for him, you've done what you can. Just because he broke up with his girlfriend, doesn't mean he wants to date you, unfortunately. If he wants to hang out, he'll make it happen. Have fun this summer, and if it's meant to be it'll be. Hang with your friends and make new crushes. xx

Hannah M

by lizzierox on 6/3/2013 4:40:09 PM

 
 

I don't think it matters if one wears a bikini or not. It's not like girls dress JUST for guys. I am really tall, so I have to wear a bikini, because a one piece it too short for my torso, I don't think it a big deal. It also make a difference by the KIND of bikini you wear.

by blueberrywaffles101 on 6/3/2013 3:46:28 PM

 
 

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Guys don't seem to like me. I'm not popular, not unpopular. I don't wear all the latest fashions but I do wear nice clothes, though not revealing ones. I'm taller than a lot of the guys in my grade. I have a few guy friends, but we don't have romantic feelings toward each other. Why don't guys like me and/or how do I get one to like me? Thanks a bunch

 

Hey chick! No worries. If guys see you as a friend that's sort of half the battle - it means your cool, friendly, and nice to be around (all building blocks to the boyfriend). If there's no guy you like right now, don't force it, just have a good time. When there is a guy you have a crush on, try to hang out with him. Text him, talk to him, and smile smile smile! When you have fun, people will be attracted to you - all kinds of people (friends, boyfriends, etc.) Just be the awesome girl you are and a boy will notice, I promise. xx 

Hannah M

by puella94 on 6/3/2013 3:39:51 PM

 
 

wearing a bikini is the exact same thing as walking around in public in your bra and underwear. i have no idea why this is socially acceptable.

by tswiftluver13 on 6/3/2013 2:00:30 PM

 
 

Also classy girls wear one pieces the guys that like girls in bikinis are usually pervs and only have one thing on there minds :-(

by redvelvetluv on 6/3/2013 1:56:48 PM

 
 

I hontestly do not care what boys like and dont like girls you can look just as hot while wearing a one piece (not a les or bi) but yeah a LOT of models wear one pieces if you feel like showing off some skin just get a one piece with cutout sides

by redvelvetluv on 6/3/2013 12:42:32 PM

 
 

If their unthankful jerks, (like most guys,0 they'll probolay only want you if your showing skin. If they are the nice kind, they'll care for you even without it.

by fashionfreak802 on 6/3/2013 12:40:16 PM

 
 

It depends on the guy. The jerks only like you for what they see as to where if there's a more conservative guy, he'll care more about what's on the inside

by myfatsquirrel on 6/3/2013 9:37:27 AM

 
 



MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD
So there's this guy I like, and I sit next to him in one of my classes. He also like playfully kicks me, and puts his foot up on my chair super close to my butt or right next to it. Also, when I sit down and I have flats on I always like take my heel out of my shoe for some reason, so my toes are in my shoes but the rest of my foot isn't. Lately whenever I do this, the guy will like gently rub the back of my foot. And he's started to talk to me outside of school and text me more, and include me in his life. Do you think he could like me?

 

Hey cheerfulcheer, aww yeah I think he's interested. You just need to be sure you're showing interest back. Flirt a little and see what happens. Xoxo Smile 


Lynae P.

by cheerfulcheer on 6/3/2013 1:04:08 AM

 
 

I honestly think think they do prefer girls in bikinis. i mean they're guys, what kind of question is that???

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by basketballcutie11 on 8/22/2011 7:23:12 AM

 
 

if boys dont like u because of what they wear then ther jerks

by nikop4 on 6/30/2011 6:40:14 AM

 
 

OMG I LOVE BIKINIS I LOOK GREAT IN THEM

by greekprincess98 on 6/6/2011 5:38:48 PM

 
 

Try some of those shorts that you can swim in--not guy's trunks, they're girl's and they are about the same size as a normal pair of shorts. You where them over swim bottoms, and you can wear them with one-pieces and two-pieces. Sorry, I can't remember the name!

by BeCAZOWIFIED on 6/5/2011 2:18:06 PM

 
 

Maybe try a tank-ini?
But really, the guys who give you attention when u bear all that skin...they're usually not very nice and not bf material...
a nice guy wouldn't care a whole lot about what you wear Smile

by dina22464 on 6/3/2011 12:32:31 PM

 
 

you better talk with your mom about all this bikini stuff! you are a teenager! and if you have a good body you should better!!!! go like right now and buy a pair or even more bikins!

you aren't gonna be pretty and young always

love ya i hope it help!

by sweetphobe15 on 6/3/2011 12:11:29 PM

 
 



MOD MOD MOD MOD!
So next week, my grade is having a swim party. I'm in 5th grade, and sometimes stuff in the kid's department doesn't fit. I'm worried that I will have to get a swimsuit from the junior's department. I really don't want to do that because I don't want to look too mature. What should I do?




Hey girlie,

No worries - you're better off finding a suit that fits you well than trying to squeeze into a kid's suit! (That might look even more provocative than shopping in juniors sizes!) Instead of crossing off the juniors dept from the list, look there for a more modest bathing suit. I promise they exist! One piece, tankinis, or even a bikini with a flirty skirt around the bottom and a full-coverage top (that means no triangle bikinis or deep V's) could do the trick. Go to the store with an open mind and grab a few choices to try on. It feels weird to show more skin at first, but it isn't bad - it just takes some getting used to Smile
Lauren C.

by CherryGirl316 on 6/2/2011 8:37:15 PM

 
 

@luckykel. haha yeah and nope hes mine. were biffles but if i need your help ill totaly come to you, thanks. lol his friend was like (blank) really likes you he thinks your pretty and wants you to go out with him and (blank) was behind me and hes like dude stop telling everyone lol

by greekprincess98 on 6/2/2011 8:25:36 PM

 
 

greekprincess98, it sounds like he was just being flirty with you. If he was dirty he would have asked to see other things and he would want to show other things to. I think guys get like that at times just like we do, but we arent the ones usually saying it, they are. And if its just his abs he wants to show I would take him up on it. Its summer, its time for fun.

by luckykel on 6/2/2011 10:42:31 AM

 
 

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by diaroze on 6/1/2011 8:55:44 PM

 
 

MOD MOD
ok so this guy that likes me was texting me and as a joke im like the guy from the movie that last song is so cute he has a 6 pack. and then he said when we go to the pool ill show you my abs i i see you in a bikini. But i wasn't mad because i known him since forever, but 4 some reason i was laughing. Do you think he meant it in a dirty way?? i dont think he did though

by greekprincess98 on 5/29/2011 3:25:31 PM

 
 

. this isn't funny anymore.

by lazyass on 5/27/2011 8:58:50 AM

 
 

ARGHH! is this acctaulllly working???

by lazyass on 5/27/2011 8:57:40 AM

 
 

MOD
i need a new bikini, any ideas wear a good shop would be to buy one??

 

Hey girlie!


My suggestions would be Target, American Eagle, Old Navy and Pac Sun Smile Happy Shopping!


 

danielle D.




danielle D.

by lazyass on 5/27/2011 8:56:27 AM

 
 

No matter what type of swimsuit you choose, make sure you feel completely comfortable in it! Think about if it can handle the diving board, the slide, laps, and serious splash fights. DO NOT GO STRAPLESS! When I was 12 I had a removable strap bathing suit. I did not have the straps on and went to pull myself out of the 4 feet section of the community pool. When doing this my bathing suit came down and my chest was totally exposed. Only a couple of girls saw but I learned my lesson. I never got in the pool with out my straps again.
And when trying to impress the guys, keep it simple, simple, casual, covered. In my many years of experience, guys approach me way more when I am in t-shirts than low-cut dresses.

by BehrendBlues on 5/25/2011 12:51:40 AM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD
Alright so I'm not sure my parents would let me--I'll reason with them--but I need to ask a swim-apparel related question.
So, I need help deciding what kind of swimsuit to get! Here's some facts you'll need: I'm a 34C or 36B cup (either fits), which usually makes it hard to find a tankini that's big enough for my boobs but not insanely loose around the rest of me; I hate suits that have no padding in the bra area; I've always found myself a little chubby in the lower stomach area (though everyone tells me I'm too skinny) so I'm not sure how a bikini would look; I don't want anything too low-cut.
Any ideas on swimsuits that would work for me (bikini or otherwise)? Thanks so much for the help!




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by pandagirl21 on 5/19/2011 7:25:42 PM

 
 

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im trying to get that bikini bod (mainly wanna flatten out the stomach though) before summer. any work outs or tips to help? thanks Smile




Hey, Girl! Sorry for the “stock” message. We’re psyched you’re here but since this is a super busy time, mods aren’t able to answer personal advice or contest questions. We’re approving your comments now so the girls can start offering feedback right away! If you still have questions, please come back, we’re happy to help…or just let the other chicas answer now! (They give awesome advice, trust us!) Love and thanks! ♥, Your Blog Patrol Babes 
Alyssa B.

by the band geek on 5/19/2011 7:03:50 PM

 
 

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I need advice on what to do. There’s this cute guy who’s my neighbor and he’s older than me, around 3-4 years older. I see him at the bus stop almost every day but I don’t have the guts to talk to him. What should I do?
(from my friend!!!!)

 

Hi Girl,

You can always start with a "Hey, How are you?" and ask how his day was. Try to just make small talk as you are waiting for the bus. Time passes faster when you are talking. It will never hurt to go out of your way to try and make a new friend. Just smile and feel confident in yourself.


 

danielle D.




danielle D.

by jellybean368 on 5/19/2011 5:16:51 PM

 
 

MOD MOD M-O-D! okay so the day before skool gets out, our team (which is like half the 6th graders, they just divide it to make it easier)is going to the pool for a field trip. and i need to buy a new bathing suit because we arent allowed to wear "string bikinis" and so i was wondering if u had advice about wat kind of bathing suit to get. like i want a 2-peice but i just dont know. and i guess i am really self-critical and think im fat so i am kinda uncomfortable with all hese guys i see everyday seeing me in a bathing suit. so yeah plz help!!

 

Hey girl,

Tankinis are a great option for a two-piece suit that offers plenty of coverage. If you want, you can also wear boy shorts too. Another suggestion is to get a cut-out one piece swim suit as well.


 

danielle D.

danielle D.

by NOTMOTAB on 5/19/2011 4:55:58 PM

 
 

mod mod mod! So this guy asked me to prom. I'm not sure if I want to go with anyone thought. I already saud yes. He wants to spend time with me there but I would also like to hang out with my friends. The thing is my friends dont really like him and I will have to be going between him and my friends. So should I cancel the date, just go anyways, or what should I do? I don't want to say no because I know it takes a lot of guts to ask someone and I dont want to be shallow.

 

Hey girlie! Unfortunately, you already said yes and it would be kinda harsh to reject him now. Talk to him before prom and make sure he knows that you want to hang out your pals just as much as you wanna hang out with him. 

Erin G.

by musicfanalyssa on 5/17/2011 4:17:38 PM

 
 

this really helped except i like this guy named cody and we r really good friends we laugh all the tim together and we went out once before but everyone say we r perfect together and i really like him but i am a big tomboy so he says " tenictally your a dude" and i laugh a joke but i want him to think of me as a girl not as a guy plz help me show my girly side plz comment give me some tips


by drama318 on 5/16/2011 11:20:34 PM

 
 

THANK YOU SOOOO MUCH, MARIE.H!!! U HELPED ME SOOOO MUCH!!! IM GONNA ASK HIM OUT TOMORROW!! BEFORE SUMMER VACA!!! YAAAAY!! SmileSmileSmileSmileSmileSmileSmileSmileSmile

 

You're welcome!! I'm SO glad I could help.  And remember - however it turns out, you should be proud of yourself for having the guts to go for it. Smile

Marie H.

by jellybean368 on 5/16/2011 7:32:46 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD thankss a bunch!!! I have the courage to do it!! i'll DEF give it a try. do u think this convo will be good??? : Me : What's your fav movie? Him: (Tells me his fav movie.) Me : Cool! Sooo, ru hoping to see any new movies? (I hope so) Him: (Hopefully tells me a movie he wants to see) Me : Wow! I wanna see that one too! Do you wanna maybe go together? Him: YESSSS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! will it work??? i hope soooo!!!! Laughing

 

Hey chica!  Yep, that definitely sounds like a good start!  If it gets stuck, you could also talk about a movie you wanna see, and see if he's into it too. Smile

Marie H.

by jellybean368 on 5/16/2011 7:24:45 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD hey its me again Tong thanks for the advice!!! I'll stop thinking about the "popular" thing problem. anyway, he actually happens to be in my class and sits behind me in most of my classes. so i think that helps Laughing but HOW do i ask him out??? as i said im COMPLEEETLY new to this stuff :/



Hey chica!  Yeah, I know what you mean, it can way confusing (even if you've been through it for a while!).  Sometimes the convo naturally leads to it - like, if you were talking about a certain movie or ice cream place, you could suggest going together.  Otherwise, you just have to make it happen.  Like, if you were walking out of class together, say "Hey, I was wondering if you would want to [insert activity here!] this weekend?  It's can be super nerve-wracking, but sometimes ya just gotta give it a shot! Smile

Marie H.

by jellybean368 on 5/16/2011 6:46:24 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD hey Smile i need advice on what to do. basically theres this guy i met this year and i reallllly like him!!! the problem is hes 'popular' and im not Frown so i dunno if he would like me or not. btw, i think he might like me because of some signs. what should i do?? AHH oh and also this is my first serious crush ever!!! i've never dated or liked any guy!!! im confused!

 

I know it can be stressful, but don't freak!  First off, try to take the "popular vs. not" thing out of the equation.  It will only affect you if you let it.  How you approach this sitch all depends on how well you guys have gotten to know each other.  Talk to him between classes, and smile and say "hey" when you see him in the hallway.  If you're ready to take it to the next level, you could suggest studying together after school, or try to exchange numbers with him.  Good luck chica!!

Marie H.

by jellybean368 on 5/16/2011 6:27:51 PM

 
 

Be beautiful on the inside not outside

by crafthands on 5/16/2011 5:32:14 PM

 
 

MOD!! i really like this guy but i have never talked to him. should i tell him i think he is cute? or should i het to know him better? if i should get to know him better how do i ask him to hang-out? what do you think?

 

Hey girlie -- I say go for it! At least strike up a convo and try to get to know him a little better. Here is a link with some tips for how to approach a guy you like:

http://www.girlslife.com/post/2007/11/17/Flirting101.aspx


Good luckSmile

Katie B.

by HelloThere on 5/16/2011 4:22:08 PM

 
 

I've been crushing on a guy in my P.E. and music class since the beginning of the school year about 9 months, my friend (who isn't much of a friend now) gave me his cell phone number so I sent him a text that said I had a crush on him.
Then a couple days ago I asked him to be my BGF and he asked about this other dude and I said he is weird so my crush said he would be my BGF. Is that strange or creepy?

by hollylover5 on 5/15/2011 10:42:35 PM

 
 

My friend likes this guy who is going to a different highschool than us. Most likely she'll never see him again. I think she should tell him. She doesn't know how to start the convo since she doesn't talk to him. What should she say if she should go on with it? She's really close to me and he's one of my best friends. They're so much alike it's scary. I think they would be great together.

by Fashionable_Chica on 5/15/2011 9:06:04 PM

 
 

Dear Mod! So I've liked this guy for awhile, and were like really good friends. Were always flirty, and it seemed like we liked each other. Well the other day, he asked me for advice - on how to ask out this other girl. Should I give up and just be friends, or should I still try to be flirty? I really really like him.

 

 

Hey chickadee! It's possible to move on, but still harbor feelings for him deep down. I'd stop focusing on him, and start talking to other guys too!

xxx

Becca G.

by shrimpsauce on 5/15/2011 8:45:59 PM

 
 

Thank you luckyel! I appreciate your advice!

Flower child Smile

by magicbananaturtle on 5/15/2011 6:17:33 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD Is it possible to be falling in love with a boy whom I am not even dating? I have been crushing on him since the start of highschool, about 9 Months. Hes funny, smart, shy and cute. And were always glancing at each other. Then Im too scared to talk to him because when I do I get tounge tied and my body starts to tingle. So I just look at him alot and be cute and giggle. I think he likes me, but were both shy when it comes to this stuff. I've never felt like this or been in this situation before, and I have no Idea what to do! Please Help me. Any advice that you have would be amazing. -Annie

 

 

Hey girly! It's possible to think that you love him, but it's most likely just lust. Love is a whole lot more complicated. I totally know the feeling though. Do you both have any of the same classes? If so, why not ask him to study together sometime. Or, make things less awkward by casually mentioning that you and a big group of friends are going to the movies next weekend, and invite him along Smile

xxx

Becca G.

by AnnieClark on 5/15/2011 5:04:11 PM

 
 

majicbananaturtle, if he just turned 17 that means you could be as close as 2 years apart and that isnt that much. Plus guys that age are probably just as mature as we are but what would your mom think about dating a guy that age? I would think its okay but you dont want to be hiding a relationship. Personally I like older guys and so do many of my friends but guys who are 17 may be expecting more and wanting to do things so you may have to be ready for that.

by luckykel on 5/15/2011 3:31:07 PM

 
 

MOD!!!!! help! so i like this guy and he likes me. We have gone on four plus dates and he cares about me a lot. I like where things are and it seems like we are in a relationship. How do i bring up this topic of our status without seeming pushy, overbearing or making things awkward??? help!

 

Hey chica, that's a really good question!  If you're really hesitant, you could wait for him to bring things up, or wait for another date or two.  But if it seems right, bring it up when you guys are talking one-on-one.  Start by telling him you've really enjoyed hanging out with him.  If you like where things are, don't freak - they'll gradually progress as the time is right. Smile

Marie H.

by jellybean666 on 5/15/2011 1:36:31 PM

 
 



MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD!!!!!!
Ok so I am having some boy issues. Lets call my boyfriend Josh, and the guy that has a crush on me Jake. Josh and I have been together for 6 months now and everything has been great. Well, my BGF, Jake, has had a crush on me for a year now, and he is not giving up any time soon. Yesterday (Friday), Jake told me that I was very pretty and that Josh was very lucky. He knew that I knew that he had a crush on me, and makes sure I remember that every day. Both of them are SUPER sweet, and I think I might like Jake. Josh is so sweet,smart, and funny, and I still like him a lot and I would never ever want to hurt him (or Jake). I am so confused! What do you think I should do? Thank you so much!




hey girlie!

that is a tough situation--but I am sure you are in it because both boys see something really great in you, so keep it up.  I know that it is very hard to make these decisions, bc both boys mean a lot to you, and the last thing you want is to lose one of them or hurt them.  But trust me, dragging it on will only cause more hurt--so sometimes you just need to make a decision.  If you believe you do have feelings for Jake, then you have to end it with Josh.  There is no need to drag on the relationship or lead him on--just be honest with him, and let him know that you need to end it with him bc you don't want to lead him on or hurt him more.  Unfortunately, he will still be hurt and things may never be the same between you two---but time will heal, and you're doing the right thing.  So good luck with everything, girlie! thanks for sharing Smile
Ruth S.

by LolliPop:-) on 5/14/2011 2:17:06 PM

 
 



MOD MOD MOD
this guy i like is always flirting with me and always wants to sit with me we will call that guy guy 1 anyways we were going to an assembly guy 1 and guy2 were both trying to sit by me they tried secretly to get by me guy 1 ended up getting by me first there is this other guy 3 sits by me in class and always draws pics of me as a robot (joke going around) and gives them to me then guy4 is always softly hiting me as like a hi everytime he sees me and said to me in a friendly way i love you
i like guy 1 and guy4
i dont know wht to do about guy 2 and guy3
sorry if you dont get it but im sooooo confused about this whole thing




Hey! sounds to me like you should get to know guys 1&4 to decide who you like better, the other two just subtly int that you're not interested Smile 
Helen S.

by soccergirl43 on 5/13/2011 7:04:26 PM

 
 

Hi!!! Do y'all think that a 17 year old and a 14 year old is a terrible difference? My crush just turned 17 and I REALLY like him and want to ask him out, tell me what y'all think!

Flower Child\Cat Smile)

by Magicbananaturtle on 5/13/2011 6:28:32 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD MOD
Hi, first of all! (: Second, I never feel good about myself. I want to lose a few pounds espeacially since I have soccer camp coming up this summer. I try to excercise but I dont like it. The exercise I like is soccer and the season is over... Also I have areally hard time sticking with healthy foods... any suggestions? thanks!


 

Hey girlie! The teenage years are a time in your life when your body is constantly changing, but you just need to learn to love it the way it is. Soccer camp will be a great time to get some "fun" exercise in, which is definitely good for all our bods. Good luck!


 
Katie B.

by rmr16 on 5/13/2011 4:55:11 PM

 
 

MOD!!! I'm graduating from middle school, and at the end of the year we have a semi dance. Almost everybody in my grade had a date except for me. A lot of people are going as friends, but no boy has even asked me to go as friends. I know I should embrace being single, and I will if that's how it ends up, but can you give me tips on how to maybe get a guy to ask me? And can you give me an option other than me asking a guy? Also, if I don't get a date, what should I do during the slow dances? This is the part I'm most worried about. :/

 

Hey girlie -- try asking different guys (that you know that don't have dates) about the dance and slip in the fact that you don't have a date yet, but would love for someone to ask you. As far as slow dancing, there will be people who won't be dancing -- spark up a conversation with them Smile

 

Brittany G.

Brittany G.

by funinthesun4ever on 5/12/2011 8:13:06 PM

 
 

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im chubby and our next school field trip is to a water park. what kind of bathing suits should i consider?

 

Hi Girlie!




There are a lot of cute one piece options this season. I also like tankinis. If you want more coverage on the bottom try wearing boy shorts! Here is GL post with some cute options: http://www.girlslife.com/post/2010/06/04/bathing-suit-coverage.aspx

 

danielle D.

danielle D.

by howcutegirlccd on 5/12/2011 2:09:25 PM

 
 

Hey I've never felt great in a bikini and you know I found that tankinis are just as adorableSmile

by littlemissrose on 5/10/2011 8:04:23 PM

 
 

My friends and I went shopping this weekend for new bikinis, I spent way to much one one and got a great deal on the other. Some are just too expensive, you have to sometimes wait for the deals because they are there if you look.

by luckykel on 5/9/2011 10:37:29 PM

 
 

I totally agree. I've never felt comfortable with the idea of wearing a bikini anyway. I don't really like showing tons of skin >///<
*sigh* If only thoughtful guys who looked at girls hearts instead of their bodies lived around here..

by metal-luvr on 5/9/2011 7:48:40 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD!!!!!
I feel like I'm losing interest in my boyfriend.. It's been a month and it's not purposely, it utter disgust. I can't even talk to him, I ditch him to hang out with my friends and I never respond to his texts anymore. I kind of wanna break up but I don't want to hurt him...




Hey gurl! One things for sure. You'll hurt him more in the long run if you stay with him just cause you feel like you have to, rather than if you just break up with him now. Sure, it may be hard and you may feel bad, but do you really want to be in a relationship because of obligation? Probably not. 
Erin G.

by XoxoStaceyxoxo on 5/9/2011 3:53:19 PM

 
 

MOD mod mod mod!!!!!!! Wat should I say to ask my crush out?

 

 

Hey girly! You could just casually invite him out one weekend, just the two of you. Invite him to the movies, or bowling... somewhere fun Smile

xxx

Becca G.

by emilyrm1903 on 5/8/2011 7:53:19 PM

 
 

Bikinis have their ups and downs. If you want a two piece than get a tankini. They are great and don't show two much off.

by pixiedust5 on 5/5/2011 10:31:05 PM

 
 

Yeah get a hot red one piece! Or get one with cut outs if your mom will let you!

by Photochickie on 5/5/2011 4:08:21 PM

 
 

wearing a bikini have pros and cons. while wearing a more conservative outfit doesn't. you might not get all the guy's attention but one approach is a high probability of interest on your personality, not on your skin alone. another thing is, personality contributes a more larger part on being beautiful, rather than outfits.

by erica100 on 5/5/2011 1:55:48 AM

 
 

i wear tankinis and sometimes one pieces but never bikinis

by girlslifeluver on 5/4/2011 11:40:18 PM

 
 

I wear bikinis because i hate the feeling of being wet when i get out of the water when I'm wearing a one piece or a tankini. i wear shorts though because most bikinis come with really skimpy bottoms that make me feel ackward.

by iheartpurpleconverse on 5/4/2011 6:40:43 PM

 
 

Something WAY more important than how revealing your suit is how you act in it.

A girl can wear a skimpy bikini, but as long as her behavior is really modest, she won't look so slutty.

A girl can wear a modest 1-piece, but if she behaves a certain way, she can still come off as slutty.

by basketballchick98 on 5/4/2011 4:43:00 PM

 
 

wow lot of negative comments
girls its not really saying u shouldnt wear a two piece! its really kinda for those girls that wanna snag a guy this summer and is wonder well if i wear a one piece will i not attract guys?? its more in that sense then oh its saying that we shouldnt wear two pieces.


WWJD rocks!!! All those christian girls out there PLZ post on my wall!!!


love ya all

butterfly

by butterflygirl14 on 5/4/2011 4:22:54 PM

 
 

Hey dude if you think a guy won't like you in a one piece than he is not worth it! Be your self girlie! And emrace your inner Hippie!!!

by Magicbananaturtle on 5/4/2011 3:09:07 PM

 
 

See now this article make girls feel bad who do want to wear two pieces!!!

by kenzie1001 on 5/4/2011 12:48:40 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD Hi for end of the year trip at school we r going a lot of places to swim but i don't have a swim suit. I have big thighs and a small belly but with a little fat.So what would be the bet swim suit?

 

Hey girl. Have you tried asking one of your parents to go bathing suit shopping? If you ask them nicely for bathing suit and tell them that you really do need one for your school trip then hopefully they'll take you to go looking. Once you're at a store, I would suggest looking for a tankini or bikini with a ruffled skirt, those types tend to look great no matter what body type you have. But no matter what, just make sure you buy a bathing suit that you feel comfortable in. You won't have fun on your school trip if you waste your time being self-conscious for no reason!

kara g.

by kayleestarlet on 5/4/2011 12:02:12 PM

 
 

i only have one peaces my parents wont let me get any thing else.

by Ndadgirl on 5/4/2011 10:59:11 AM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD I'm VERY petite, and since I am, most people don't realize that i'm 13! It's very frustrating (not to mention ANNOYING) when people treat me like I'm 2! What kinds of clothes should I get to make me look older this summer? Thank you! ♥

 

Hey chica. If you want to look a little older, it's fine to try out some floral sun-dresses, fitted shorts, or cute sandals. But just remember that when you're getting dressed you should be wearing clothing that you feel comfortable in. Dress for yourself! Not for others.

kara g.

by babygirlk on 5/4/2011 8:43:28 AM

 
 

one peices are uncomftorble

by ljlove on 5/4/2011 12:29:16 AM

 
 

Sometimes its better not to have a bikini and go old school. YEAH ONE-PIECE!

by toadie101 on 5/3/2011 9:42:16 PM

 
 

Not trying to be offensive or anything but honestly I think bikinis look like a bra and underwear so I don't dig that too much! I looooove tankinis though, they are super cute!

by Heepwah123 on 5/3/2011 7:19:14 PM

 
 

OMG my friend has this REALLY cute one piece. Its like green with white polka dots and it has a sweetheart neckline and thick halter straps. it looks sooo cute on her!

by girlsliferocksss98 on 5/3/2011 6:42:09 PM

 
 

Hey, girls! Need advice? Check out my advice queen page, volleyball514, for real, honest advice from a real, honest girl! I can help out with anything under the sun...be it school, family, beauty, guys or whatever else. Just ask Bee (that's me)! ;)

by volleyball514 on 5/3/2011 4:37:22 PM

 
 

mod mod
i like this guy who is really good friends wit my best friend, but he doesnt know me all that well. my best friends really wants me and him to go out. so i got a phone recently, and (without telling me) she texted him and was like, "anna got a phone. do you want her number so you can txt her?" and was like, "nah, not right now." and she was like, "why not? do yo hate her or something?" and he just said "nah". WHAT DOES THAT MEAN? and would it be wierd if i texted him cuz i have his number but he doesnt have mine and he probs thinks in a psychofreak that stalks him. HELP ME!!!!!

 

Hey girly! If you're into this guy, ask your friend to have a small get together and invite you, him, and some other friends. If you're hanging out in a group setting, the situation won't seem forced and you can get to know each other a little bit better without feeling awkward. Texting him without knowing him may freak him out a little, so I'd steer clear of that until you two hang out. Good luck!

Katie B.

by munchkin112096 on 5/3/2011 3:51:46 PM

 
 

Mod mod mod!!!!!!!! my mom wont let me get a bikini and i really want one. im 13 and everyone wears one in my grade and thats not even y i want to i think there cute and comfy. how do i get my mom to let me get one?




Hey chica! Talk to your mom and figure out why she won't let you get one. Then make a list of the reasons why you think you should be allowed to wear one, and discuss them with her. Make sure you talk to her in a mature way that might make her see it your way, and avoid yelling and arguing. Good luck girl! 
Erin G.

by cait010 on 5/3/2011 11:30:31 AM

 
 



MOD MOD! There's this guy that i talk to a lot and recently he's been telling me he loves me. I like him, but we're not going out, so I don't want to say i love him but i don't know what to say! Help?




Hey girlie,

Wow... that's moving a little fast! Sometimes guys and girls use the phrase "I love you" to tell you how much they like hanging out with you, appreciate you, etc. without actually meaning the love part. I totally respect the fact that you don't want to use it just yet! Instead, respond with a smile and say something like "You're SO sweet!" That way, you don't force yourself into saying something you don't mean but you still acknowledge what he said <3
Lauren C.

by chocolate_lover*13 on 5/2/2011 10:29:32 PM

 
 

If a guy isn't capable of liking you without a bikini he doesn't deserve you.

by kayla9 on 5/2/2011 10:23:14 PM

 
 



MOD MOD MOD!!!!!!!!!!!! what kind of razor should i use for my armpit and bikini line? should i use the same one as for my legs or a different kind? thanks!!!




Hey girl,

Just a normal disposable razor (by BIC, Gillette, or another similar company) will do the trick! I use the same one for my underarms, bikini area, and legs Smile
Lauren C.

by frogzzx on 5/2/2011 9:25:56 PM

 
 



MOD!
I've been really wanting to know whether the guy I'm crushing on likes me back. He used to want to be around me and hug and carry me around, and he also used to text me about every other day. He isn't as touchy-feely with me anymore, and he doesn't even text me at all, though he still responds to mine. I still like him, but there are rumors that he's seeing (but not getting back together with) his ex-girlfriend. My friends are saying that he's playing hard-to-get, but I have no idea.
I want to know for sure if he likes me. I can't ever get him alone at school and he's busy all the time. Can I tell him over text? Should I be so straightforward? I'm tired of trying to be subtle, and it's not working. I really want to know!




Hey girl,

He could be trying to play hard-to-get, but it sounds to me like his feelings might have changed over time. If you've got the confidence to do it (and you should), be straight with him: tell him you do like him, but you don't want to force him into convos and stuff if he isn't into it. It'll really be worth it - you'll find out either way and won't waste time being uncertain anymore!
Lauren C.

by coconutkittycat on 5/2/2011 9:23:35 PM

 
 

i'm always afraid that the bikini might fly off when i jump in the pool or go down a waterslide or something, so i don't wear them! i wear tankinis.

by puppylover1152 on 5/2/2011 9:00:53 PM

 
 

well i got a boyfriend last summer when i was at the pool in a bikini and he ended up cheating on me so ya..but i always feel cuter in a bikini

by aries1201 on 5/2/2011 8:10:31 PM

 
 

I used to wear bikinis a lot, but I have a sort of chubby belly, and I don't like one pieces that much, so instead I wear Tankinis!!! I LOVE tankinis soooo much!

by caitlingirl1997 on 5/2/2011 7:41:36 PM

 
 

I have my first kinda bikini. i made sure it had boy shorts. i Usually get tankinis or one pieces and wear board shorts over it.

by daninic on 5/2/2011 7:09:47 PM

 
 

My bod doesn't work with a one-piece(My torso is too long and if I go a size bigger things rarely work), and I can't wear bikinis, so instead I wear tankinis! They can be uber cute!!! <3
~baconlvr711~

by baconlvr711 on 5/2/2011 6:29:32 PM

 
 

Woah!! I have this swimsuit!!Smile Lol

by hannahbear33 on 5/2/2011 5:57:08 PM

 
 

i agree with topchef88. i have a curvy figure and one pieces look better on me. plus i would feel really uncomfortable if guys would be staring at my body if i was wearing a bikini :/

by tswiftluver13 on 5/2/2011 5:50:31 PM

 
 

okay so i wear bikinis and i love them! its just who you are and what you like that should matter

by Kristin95 on 5/2/2011 5:32:12 PM

 
 

i agree with dave!!! good advice!! i <3 bikinis tho!! thats all wear!!!!

by pink and purple girl on 5/2/2011 4:44:35 PM

 
 

I absolutely HATE bikinis! They look so weird plus my stomach looks kind of hairy(ew). I look pretty good in a one-piece! Can someone say curves?? If you wear one-pieces it looks better becuase it give your body more shape! YOU ARE FINE GIRL! ROCK WHAT YOU GOT!

by topchef88 on 5/2/2011 4:26:29 PM

 
 

I have a nice body and I've worked hard with dieting and workouts to get it that way, so I'm going to be showing it off in my itsy bitsy bikini Smile And I feel super confident so I don't think I should cover up just because guys will give you more attention for showing some skin! If you like the way you look then show it to the world! XOXO

by jesusfreakhrdcore on 5/2/2011 3:56:02 PM

 
 

I so agree with Dave! I don't want a guy to like me cuz of my body but cause of what' s on the inside!

by *Sigh* on 5/2/2011 2:46:22 PM

 
 

Haha, WWPD is funny!

by pointeprincess on 5/2/2011 2:44:19 PM

 
 

This is good advice if you dont want attention. When I wear my bikini I get the most looks, some of them I dont want, when I have worn my one piece its less attention.

So I would listen to your mom if you want or talk to her about letting you wear a bikini. My dad still hates when I wear a bikini since some of the one I have are kind of small but its no worse than what a lot of my friends wear.

by luckykel on 5/2/2011 12:23:57 PM

 
 

Hey Ladies! Do you need advice? I would love to give you some! I will answer any questions, or just talk to you when you are sad. I can give you advice about friends, guys, family, food, sports, school,growing up, or even yourself! I would be absolutely happy to help! I will give you an honest answer ASAP, and hun, nothing is too personal so don't be afraid!Thank you(:

by gracieb123 on 5/2/2011 8:46:17 AM

 
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