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Hey natalieb92095, it sounds like he's going through a really rough time right now. The fact that he doesn't want you or his friends around, is proof of how sad and down he's feeling. Sometimes when I get sad I don't llike to have people around either. Divorce is a hard thing to accept. So give him time to get through this. If he needs you around he'll call you. Hope this helps! Xoxo

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Ok so me and my boyfriend of a year and a half recens tly broke up. He decided to call it quits because his parents are going through a divorce and said he can't give me the atention I deserve. I'm having a really tough time accepting that it's over I mean I've been with him since this all started I don't understand how all of a sudden he doesn't need me anymore and now he doesn't even want any of his friends around either. I have kind of forced myself to stay in his life and be his friend since he is pushing everyone away. Am I doing the right thing? Should I wait til he gets through this or move on? I mean we're going to be a juniors this year and have been together since the very begining of Freshmen year, we thought we were going to be highschool sweethearts til this happened. Do I need to give up on all that or is he worth the trouble? I really need help! Lynae P.

by natalieb92095 on 5/12/2012 4:19:38 PM

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I have been friends with my ex for over a year and things have
Been going good, we laugh at each others jokes and talk casually.
We recently got back together after being friends for a long
time. I really like him but I'm not sure how to make the transition
without it being too akward,.... any tips?

Hey girlie,

Congrats! Just keep things casual, exactly how you were while you were becoming friends again. The important thing is to have fun, feel comfy around each other, and keep things light-hearted. Just because you're in a relationship again doesn't mean things have to get serious and awkward! Just be laid back and see where things go. Enjoy every moment and get to know him even better again. And if you're relaxed, he'll TOTALLY pick up on the vibe and be relaxed about it too. You can do it! <3

Lauren C.

by future moviestar on 2/19/2012 12:13:30 AM

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My boyfriend is always hanging out with my ex best friend and her friend. At school she is always bragging about it! I'v told my boyfriend about it but it's like he doesn't even care, and he's starting to not text me. What should I do!!??

I know this might hurt, but you have to let your BF be his own person. That might mean accepting the fact that he has his own friends and he's going to hang out with them...even if you don't love them. He's not forcing you to be their friend! Part of any good relationship is TRUST, so you gotta apologize for freaking out and try try try to push this outta your mind <3

by Haileygab on 2/4/2012 9:08:27 PM

There was a new guy in my class at the beginnning of the year, he looked cute and sweet so I started liking him..big mistake! I didn't actually get to know him, I was just guessing how he would be like. He didn't really talk much, so I "guessed" he would be this shy guy, which I adored. Before I even got a chance to talk to him yet, they transfered him to another class! Months went by and 6 months later, he's back to our class because apparently he was "noisy". I was a little confused, because I didn't think he was that type of guy. Then I started talking to him and I hear him talking to other people and he's really obnoxious! Sometimes when he talks to me, I sort of ignore him and I try to convince myself he's not right for me, but for some reason I am drawn to him!!! Why is this happening?? What should I do?? How should I act around him now????

by lemontwist213 on 4/27/2011 7:01:13 PM

One time I was dating this guy and then he broke up with me and then went out with this other girl, and then broke up with her and went out with me and then broke up with and went with her. Boy, was I stupid!

by 789koolme1 on 4/23/2011 10:51:26 PM

That's so unfair to his current girlfriend. If he tells you that he'll date you as soon as he's through with the girl he's with right now, he might have said that to his current girlfriend about you before you broke up! Think about it!

by basketballchick98 on 4/19/2011 5:15:14 PM

MOD MOD MOD, ok...the thing is m body and mind have matured faster than my friends, so like idk y but i tend 2 fall 4 older guys... my friends say its slutty but i find it feels right, like they r only 2-4 years older and idk like im happier with them than guys my own age...but my friends find it wrong like if they think that what will others think..?

hey girlie,

Don't worry so much about what others are thinking. If you believe the guys you are hanging out with are good people, then there is nothing wrong with hanging out with them. Just be careful not to feel pressured to do anything you are not ready for--hang out with people who will truly respect you and your boundaries

Ruth S.

by jetaimebeaucoup on 4/16/2011 9:10:31 PM

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my friend just got a new boyfriend and i told her i liked him before but she got with him anyway

idk why she did it.i wrote her a really long note.how can our friendship stay the same?we haven't been hanging out becuse my friend kendria is her new hanging out buddy

Hey girl, it's good that you wrote her a note telling her how you feel--honesty is the best bet in this situation. If she still doesn't respect your feelings and you haven't been hanging out, then perhaps she doesn't value this friendship as much as you do--and in that case, it's probably not worth your time to continue the relationship. Try hanging out with other girls at your school and spending more time with people who care about you.

Jess D.

by ☮Dreamlover on 4/16/2011 1:21:18 AM

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Hey, so I broke up with my bf on Wed and he said he was totally cool with it. He said he agreed that he thinks we should just be friends and that he had planned to break up with me on Thurs. But today a friend of mine and his told me that on Thurs he looked really sad and now I feel sorta bad. Not to mention I'm a bit sad cause I'm thinking too much about all the great things he used to do with me. I don't want to go back with him (I think, and plus I'm planning on hitting the beach with my gals for some hot guy hunting ;) but I am sorta wishing we didn't break up... We're still friends and were talking today during play practice, but it's still sorta awkward and not the same. Is there anything I can do to make it like it used to be? When he was just my BGF?
Thanks!

Hey girlie, just try giving him space for right now. That way, it'll give both of you time to recover from the breakup in order to get back to being good friends.

Brittany G.

by inluvwithboyz on 4/15/2011 10:02:22 PM

He is just playing with you. Since he is your ex we all know how hard it is but since he has a gf and is doing that he is a creep. Just stay away from him because since you two have a past he could end up cheating and I am sure you wouldnt feel great after wards.

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