MOD*MOD*MOD ok so i have not gone to connecticut to see my 3 year old cousin and my family in months. I really miss my cousin and he keeps asking his mom when i am going to visit. Because of all my softball practices and games and my brothers crew scheduele, the next available weekend to go to connecticut is Memorial Day weekend. The problem is, one of my best friends asked me if i want to go to her beach house with her and our other friend over memorial day weekend. I really want to go to the beach house with my friends, but I want to visit my family as well. Another thing that makes this decision hard is that my little cousins birthday was over president's weekend, and i was supposed to go, but did not because i chose to go to another friends lake house and go skiing. I really want to do both things, and i don't want to let anyone down... Help!!! what should i do?