MOD MOD MOD!!!! My mom and I get in fights, multiple times a day. I'm getting scared she doesn't love me because I get mad at her for being mean to me. I don't know what to do, and I just wnat it to stop.... Please help me!

 

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Ok so this isn't about my mom and dad it's about my Grandparents. Well you see my grandma's very very controlling. You do what she says or else... Then my grandpa he always corrects you and makes you do what he wants. So you understand how I can get annoyed. Well my brothers worse. I normally just take it and listen because I don't like being rude to them but he stands up for what he wants and doesn't always let them get their way. Well we were on vacation with them all week. So they acted the way they always do and so every day my brother and I were always grumpy and annoyed. But on the last day we went to our uncle's house. (our grandpas bro) and hes really fun and awesome and doesn't like them either so we were happy around him and exited then when we left our grandpa started acting rude to us all the way home to our house. He told our mom and we realized he was acting like that out of jealousy.I feel bad now. I thought about e-mailing them. What should I do???

*MOD MOD* I used to be a "Daddy's girl." I'm 12, almost 13, and things have not been going well between me and him.
My Mom and I get along great now, and before we were just "standard." He only wants to take my 7 year old brother out places, he thinks Im too sensitive, I don't see him much except on weekends and i really miss the way it used to be. His temper is very short and he has high blood pressure. His face is always red and hes always so stressed. he said he has more work to do than he has days. He leaves at 4 in the morning and comes home at 7 at night. Hes so tired and falls asleep before 9pm. I dont see him in the morning b/c he leaves so early and I don't see him at night b/c I have gymnastics 4 nights a week from 5-9:30. He'll yell at you for every little thing you do wrong and I really miss him and his past personality. I still love him and I know he loves me but he doesn't know how much he doesnt show it. Can you please help?

It really just sounds like he's very stressed from work and he's taking the tension out on you. Try doing something really nice for him on the weekend when you see him, like make him breakfast in bed or make him a picture frame and put a picture of you two inside of it. Once he sees how much effort you're putting into trying to make the relationship better, he'll wanna put the effort in to. Good luck! x0x0 

Mod Mod Mod my grandmother is so mean to me and has been since I was 4 yrs old. When my younger cousin and I spent the nights over her house every other weekend, is when it all started. Mod she had done so much to me and last night my mom went so off on her. Because she is also a trouble maker and she hurts peoples feelings. And messes up families by lying and acting like she is so innocent! Mod i was always a great child and i still am now she lives with me! It is a living nightmare! My mom knows about her horrible personality, but it took my mom a while to see how she really is. And it is just horrible. My mom loves me it is just my grandmom. But my grandmom is only my grandmom because of marriage. I am not related to her. And because she felt i was better looking than my cousin she mistreated me! She actually said that to my face. Mod help me please i need relief from all of her nonsense. thanks

 I'm so sorry that your grandma's so mean to you. I would say that it's best to just stay away from her, and hope that one day soon she'll realize how she's hurting your feelings. You could try to have a talk with her, or have your mom tell her how much she's hurting you, also. Good luck! x0x0

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I've been in some fights with my mom lately. It's because apparently we're having some financial problems, y'know, and my mom has been stressed. I'm trying to be better about it, and trying to get some $$$, but she's still stressed. My dad's a little bit better, but he could blow at any time, so I try to steer clear of both of them. I feel as though they're going to crack and something bad will happen. I haven't really told anyone how I feel. I have a pyschiatrist (spell check) for my stressed and active mind, but I haven't seen them in a while. Any advice???
~Love, Me~

Hey babe! It's always tough when you fight with your parents, but the added stress of financial problems makes it so much worse. I suggest talking to your parents more about how you feel. The next time you're in a fight with your mom just stop and say how much you dislike fighting with her. Apologize for anything, even if you still think she's wrong. That could lead into a conversation about how you know she's really stressed and want to do anything to help. Good luck! xoxo