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The dos and don'ts of flirtexting

True, there's nothing like flirting with your crush in person, but it's a pretty awesome feeling seeing his name pop up on your phone. Wanna take your cellular charm up a notch? Here's how...
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Theres a boy at my school that i have a major crush on. I finally got his number and I really want to get to know him better but we are both pretty shy people and its hard to keep a convo going. Ant tips for me???

Hey girl,

Totally been there! Try to remind yourself that he is also shy, so take control and make the first move. Show him you're able to be confident and put yourself out there to get what you want! So just go for it and text him - "hey what's up?" Remember never to ask him YES or NO questions - ask him open-ended questions that require him to give a lil bit of an explanation. That way, you can read his answer and find something to push the convo along further. You can either ask him a follow-up question or offer your own thoughts/experiences/opinions. And understand that it's ok for the convo to stop sometimes too - it doesn't mean you aren't compatible, just normal Smile
Lauren C.

by sweetswimmie on 9/17/2011 10:28:57 PM


MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD I need help with this because the guy I like he texts me sometimes and then we dont txt for a while . Then at schools we talk for a few days and like when we dont talk we always make that eye connection in the hallway . Then one morning in the hallway he bumped into me in the hallway and gave me a hug. I just wanted to know if he likes me or we just really close friends.


Hey chicky, of course he likes you!!! He talks to you all the time and even hugged you! Time to make a move girly!! Smile

Lynae P.

by angel563346 on 9/17/2011 5:30:11 PM


MOD MOD MOD SO there's this guy that I've known for awhile. He texts me all the time like sends me a text saying good morning or something like that and then gets upset if we dont talk for awhile. The problem is he has a girlfriend and he always tells me that he loves her. He is also older than me(like 2 years) and he said he wants to come to my graduation or to come visit me sometime(he lives in another state.) I'm confused!! Does he like me or not?


Hey girl,

It sounds like he likes you, but also sounds like he wants to keep his GF and have you on the side. And that is not ok! You and his GF both deserve someone who will focus on you and want to be with only you, not split his time! Next time he gets upset if you aren't talking, try to be a little firm with him (but not mean) - tell him something like, "Look I kinda feel uncomfortable being in constant contact sometimes because you have a GF right now." Talk it out and set this straight!

Lauren C.

by Bornagain on 9/15/2011 8:32:36 PM


MOD MOD MOD I have a real problem, i have this new boyfriend of about 2 weeks and we've already kissed a few times, and it was really weird and awkward. There were no sparks or anything. When he holds my hand or wraps his arm around me it just feels wrong with him, and our convos are always short and alot of pauses. I just don't think he's 'the guy'. Should i break up with him or give it a few more days?? thanks for your help

Hey girlie,

It sounds like you've given this some time and are just not feeling it. And that's totally ok! Being young is all about figuring out who you are and what you want. And now you've learned a lesson - there are certain things about this particular guy, and your interactions with him, that you aren't looking for in a partner. You're still young and have plenty of time to meet "the guy," so learn from this experience and trust your instincts. It's ok to move on Smile
Lauren C.

by dagymnast on 9/15/2011 7:49:14 PM


I recently got a new boyfriend, and we kissed, but I don't think he's ' the guy' it was really weird and awkward and there were no sparks or anything, and whenever he holds my hand or wraps his arm around me, it feels really weird and our convos are always awkward, and im thinking of breaking up with this a good idea or should i give it more time?

by dagymnast on 9/15/2011 7:45:02 PM


So I have a long distance boyfriend of about 9 months and we've made out and stuff and he's visiting in a couple of months and always tells me what kind of "Stuff" we're going to do when he gets back. We have two or three skype dates a week and today he asked me if he could see me in my bra next time. I'm totally fine with sharing my body with him because I love him a lot and hes really trustworthy, but is it a bad idea to do it over skype? Thanks Smile


Hey chica! I'd be careful with this. You never know who may be on the other end of the computer. Sure, you may only see him, but other people could be there in the background... leaving you super embarassed.


Becca G.

by PhantomPhan1 on 9/11/2011 8:58:05 PM


So I still like my ex... a lot. Before I (sadly) broke up with him, we were telling each other that we loved each other, and I truly believe that we did. Then we got in this big fight and I broke up with him. I cried myself to sleep for about a week. We didn't talk for the rest of the school year (this happened in April) or over the summer. Well he has since gotten a gf. He is in my best friends math class and apperntly he told her he still loved me. We have started texting each other lately and he ask me questions like if I miss him and stuff and I don't answer cause he has a girlfriend. But then he told me he still liked me. I don't know what to do. Please help!!


Hey chica! I'd be honest with this guy and let him know how you feel. But, also be firm with him and let him know that you're not going to act on your feelings until he is single...


Becca G.

by horsenerd411 on 9/11/2011 5:40:48 PM


Ok so i like this guy and he likes me, but we are really good friends but now that I'm almost positive he likes me I get all shy around him! Usually I talk all the time! What should I do?

Hey babe,

You're good friends like you said, so try to remind yourself that he's a friend, not a stranger! There's no need to be shy or awkward around him because you know him well, have things in common with him, and have had plenty of conversations with him before. So tell yourself that you are a great girl with confidence and, even if you don't genuinely feel it at first, challenge yourself to be out-going and friendly. Now is the time you should feel great about chatting with him - you both like each other! So he'll love it if you reach out and start convos, letting him get to know more about you Smile 
Lauren C.

by SwimGirl945 on 9/11/2011 12:27:52 PM


I know this guy who is my neighbor and really annoying. My friends tell me he likes me. He constantly texts me and won't leave me alone. He isnt very cool and is a bit of a bore and I can't get him to stop texting me. Once he even came up to my house when I told him i didn't want to hang ouit right now. I feel bad, but the only way to shut him up is to be totally cruel and nasty. Any ideas on how to tell him to back off nicely.

Hey sweetie! 

This guy crossed the line when he came to your house, so I think it would be appropriate to get mom and dad involved in this. Let them know that his actions are making you uncomfortable and that you don't want him to come into the house. I'd send him a text message along the lines of, "Hey! I think you're a really great person, but I think you have feelings for me that I can't reciprocate right now. Let's be friends! I'll text you when I'm free to hang out soon." This way, you're leaving the friendship in your control.  Good luck!  
Devin A.

by Pumpkinbabby101 on 9/5/2011 12:21:17 PM


when i txt a guy friend or if im flitexting, i sometimes ask if they want to play a game by txt like truth or dare, would u rather, etc. so it will be fun and i get to know them. (and u can ask them almost anything!)

by julismiles on 8/31/2011 1:15:58 PM

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