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The dos and don'ts of flirtexting

True, there's nothing like flirting with your crush in person, but it's a pretty awesome feeling seeing his name pop up on your phone. Wanna take your cellular charm up a notch? Here's how...
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I met this guy on Instagram beacuse he said I looked fermiluar and I thought he did to! We r the same age but he lives in Minnesota and I live in Arizona. We have never met in person but we snapchat so I know he is not a creepy old guy. We text but sometime he does not respond to my texts! I am always the one to start the convo. He seems to be flirting a little and I flirt back. He says he thinks I am sweet and loves talking to but sometimes I think he is avoiding me! ??? I think about him all the time! Idk what to do??? Please help!!'

 

 

Hey girl! Guys you haven’t met in person can always be
dangerous- and scary. It’s a good (and safe) idea to stop texting him, and
occupy yourself instead with a local cutie!

 

 

 

Melissa T.

by Summertime2828 on 7/18/2013 4:59:26 PM

 
 



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So I like this guy and I've known him for awhile. We have this weird relationship where at times we'll be flirting a bunch, then lime the next day all we do is fight, then we'd just hangout and laugh a bunch. Then yesterday we were texting and after awhile we ended up telling each other that we like each other. But he likes this other girl to. And now we are going to go to our friend's play together. I'm sorta friends with this girl and don't really want to lose a friendship over a guy. What do I do???

 

Hey girlie, it'll only upset her if she likes him too. If she doesn't then there's no problem. If you're worried about it then talk to her and see what she thinks. 


Lauren T.

by ashley1467 on 3/4/2013 7:58:37 PM

 
 



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I have liked the same guy for a little over four years. I don't know what to do. I tried to stop liking him and crush on other guys,but as soon as I see him all my feelings come back. He's in a relationship, so I can't exactly go out with him. I just really don't know what to do. I like him so much.
Thanks(:

 

Hey nwagirl, remind yourself he has a girlfriend, so there's nothing you can do. Jot down all the things you like about him and look for those qualities in someone else. I'm sure there are other guys just as awesome out there. Hope this helps! Xoxo Smile 


Lynae P.

by nwagirl on 1/18/2013 7:43:33 PM

 
 



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I know you guys get this question alot, but, do you think this guy likes me? I think one of my guy friends might like me. We texted almost everyday over the summer, sometimes 'till around 2am! When we're together, we're pretty much insuperable. He's always inviting me places, and complimenting me. Some include, "Ur perfect, You're an angel, You're really smart, You're awesome" and we tell each other pretty much everything.
So, do you think he likes me? And if so, how should I proceed?
THNX! Smile

 

Hey! It sure sounds like it. The best advice I can give is to stay his friend and see if something happens naturally. That way if he likes you you'll get together but if not you can stay pals and nothing's ruined. That's just been my experience. 


Helen S.

by loveTC247 on 8/13/2012 7:34:40 PM

 
 

I sent my guy friend a txt yesterday, and his little brother responded! I was like "give Luke his fone back" but his little brother said no and I was like Ugh! Siblings.

by loveTC247 on 3/1/2012 4:15:27 PM

 
 



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My causin was going out with this guy in my grade I fell for him, and i flirted with him,the next weekend i spent the nite at her house and he came over and we were playing hide and seek in the dark and me and him hide with each other and he KISSED me!!!(i liked it too!) then he ask me out, i asked "what about my causin?" he said he woulddump her for me.. but she has feelings for him. i didnt tell her it happend..... its been 2 weeks i havent awenserd him and im fakking harder! WHAT DO I DO!!!!




Hey girlie,

I really don't think this is a good idea. It's bad enough to steal a BF away from a friend...but from your cousin? Absolutely not. Family should be way stronger than this. It's ok that you fell for him - we can't control how we feel sometimes. But you CAN control your choice here. Take the moral route and tell him no, that you respect your cousin and her feelings. Tell him you like him but you don't want to hurt her, so you appreciate the offer for the date...but no. I know it'll be hard because you do have feelings for him, but you need to do the right thing here. He's not the last guy you'll crush on! <3 Timing is just as important as liking each other. If the timing/situation isn't right, you can't force it. And this definitely is not right.
Lauren C.

by country girl99:) on 1/14/2012 10:59:14 PM

 
 



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so i like this guy but....... he's my besties ex. She said it was okay if i went out with him and he asked me out so i said yes.... then she got all mad at me for saying yes and i told him that we should just be friends because i didn't want to lose my BFF.... he said it was either all or nothing because he couldn't take the torture of just being friends...it was like i was there all the time but he couldn't have me.... WHAT DO I DO?!




Hey girl,

That "all or nothing" logic is kinda flawed... if he really liked you, he might not like it but he would be content with whatever arrangement made you happy. You're not in a great situation here but you really do have to decide between crush or bestie. Personally, I think you made the right choice. You don't want to drive away your best friend because of a guy. She's been there for you and is worth way more than that! If it's meant to be with him, and you both still like each other once your bestie has gotten over him 100%, and the timing is right to date...it'll work out. But if he's so quick to drop you just because you aren't ready when he is ready, then maybe it isn't right after all <3 Try to trust fate and keep an open mind! Your right guy is out there Smile
Lauren C.

by twiggyskittles on 12/25/2011 11:55:16 AM

 
 



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Hey, I am freakin out. I was passin notes w/ mah bestie in Sience and I told her who i like. Someone found the paper later and it wasn't someone I would trust w/ it. She told his ex and another person I don't like and people are slowly beginning to figure it out themselves. How long do u think it will be b4 it reaches my crush's ears?! Lots of people know now and I'm feakin out! What should I do? My friends told me 2 just make a move but he's stil getting over his ex. HELP!




Hey girlie,

He could already know, or it could take a week, or he might never even find out. Either way, keep going into school acting cool, confident, and normal. Don't let this make things awkward between you - if you stay laid back and happy, there will be an even better chance of him crushing back! So try not to worry about it TOO much. Just go on with your normal day, talk to him and flirt in a subtle, non-aggressive way, and see how it goes! Smile
Lauren C.

by Echosong on 12/2/2011 10:29:18 PM

 
 

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How old is the best to have a bf becuase my best friend has one and i want one but i dont know when it will be a good age?!?!?!
Thanks!




Hey babes! 

The best age to have a boyfriend is when you're ready to have one and when your parents are ok with it! There's no set time stamp on these types of things, do what feels right to you! xoxox 
Devin A.

by bblevins0824 on 12/2/2011 7:02:49 AM

 
 

How old is the best to have a bf becuase my best friend has one and i want one but i dont know when it will be a good age.

by bblevins0824 on 12/1/2011 8:01:43 PM

 
 

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ok im kinda confused. I like this guy in my science class,only he's one grade above me. the BIGGESt problem is that my BFF likes him too. They kinda hung out in the summer so im a little nervous to text him and stuff even though he gave me his number. He has joked around with both of us before tho. But he seems to likeme as a friend and has even started chat convos with me. Any thoughts?




Hey Girl,

Before you start texting this guy, you should talk to you BFF and tell her that you think you like him. She'll probably be mad, but it's better than having her find out you're texting him behind her back. If she's really upset, then back off of him. You should never let a guy ruin your friendship, But if she says it's ok for you to text him, then go for it.  
Rachel N.

by lalakkc on 11/24/2011 4:53:26 PM

 
 



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Is 10 too young to have a bf?




Hey babe,

I don't think so, as long as you feel mature enough to split your time between him/your other responsibilities, to go only as far as you are comfortable with, and to be honest with your parents about all of it. Some people aren't ready at 10, while others totally are!
Lauren C.

by hermione&ron on 11/17/2011 6:23:54 PM

 
 

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i like this guy that is in two classes with me. i want to get his number but how do i ask him?? Smile




Just casually toss out there that you should be better friends, could you text him later to get to know each other.  Or pick him for a group project and ask if you can have his number for the project! 
Jordan S.

by littlemissawesomness on 11/10/2011 6:38:39 AM

 
 



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im bi sexual and i have a girlfriend but im only 11 is it normal to already know if i like girls or boys???




If that's what you feel, it's what you feel Smile




Brittany G.  
Brittany G.

by lovechild33 on 10/18/2011 8:59:38 PM

 
 

K, thanksSmile Blahhh, I hate having a crush:/

by sarah.sjworm on 10/14/2011 8:27:08 PM

 
 



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I was thinking more along the lines of "can I just make myself stop liking him?" I wouldn't ever make a move on anyone if he's in a relationship! That's just mean!




Sure! make yourself stop liking him. Its gonna take time. but you can do it Smile xoxo kerra 
Kerra S.

by sarah.sjworm on 10/14/2011 8:23:26 PM

 
 



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Okay so I like my guy friend, but he already has a girlfriend. But he also always flirts with me. He flirts with other girls all the time too, though. (Not in a creepy way like smacking butts... ew.) But he flirts with me SO much. He always teases me and one time I was texting him and we were talking about relationships and I was telling him how I had never had a boyfriend before. (I didn't like him yet so it's not like I was dropping hints for him to ask me or anything. I don't want to ruin him and his girlfriend's relationship.) And I said "Well I don't like anyone, and nobody asks me so yeah." And he said "Frown I would ask you if I wasn't so in like with my girlfriend" And yeah. And then me and my friend were talking and she was like "You and him would make a really good couple." And I could actually see it (Again, at this point I still didn't like him, I only just started liking him today) And yeah... help?Smile




Since he has a girlfriend theres nothing you can do. You gotta leave him alone because it wouldnt be fair to the girl for you to do anything about liking him. xoxo kerra 
Kerra S.

by sarah.sjworm on 10/14/2011 8:10:06 PM

 
 



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How do you send in a question to be answered online?




Im not sure i understand this question...If you have a question for me just put a mod before it like you just did. xoxo kerra 
Kerra S.

by sarah.sjworm on 10/14/2011 8:02:41 PM

 
 



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I have this huge crush on this boy and we are going out in a group thing this saturday, it is to a haunted house thing. I really like him but i have no idea what to talk to him about. like we talk on facebook all the time but we only have to classes together so i barely get to talk to him but we talk a little in person. Also his sister is one of my BFFs and my other BFF had a crush in him before. And both of them are going to this group thing and his cousins. HELP WITH EVERYTHING!!!




Hey girlie,

Since you're at the haunted house with him, use that and Halloween as a talking point! Ask him if he likes Halloween, what he's going to be for Halloween, what his favorite part of Halloween is, what his favorite holiday is, etc. Let the convo progress and try not to have too many talking points prepared. Be friendly and remember to smile, listen to what he's saying, and don't be afraid to say what you're thinking. You can do this!! <3 
Lauren C.

by Cheer_Princess4785 on 10/13/2011 10:22:26 PM

 
 

*MOD MOD!!
Why aren't my questions going through? I've sent them more than once on separate days and they keep not showing up! Thanks! <3

 

Hey honey, I'm not sure why they aren't going through. What questions did you post?

Amalia E.

by inluvwithboyz on 10/12/2011 1:49:32 AM

 
 

That sounds much better! Thank you!

by smartpaws on 10/8/2011 7:00:31 PM

 
 

I always try but never can. I was gonna ask if he knew when every ones monaloges (cheesy i know and spelled wrong.) were do but I never saw him. I talk to him sometimes. Every once in a while if i do something funny or cute he stares and smiles at me but I get nervous to talk to him.

 

Maybe you could ask him to help you pick out a monologue from the library. That way you can get his number and hang out with him. How does that sound?

Lynae P.

by smartpaws on 10/8/2011 6:42:36 PM

 
 

Mod Mod Mod!! I know I already asked this but I need help again. How can I ask for my crushes # without it being awkward? I have drama with my crush and cant ask to exchange #'s for homework purposes cause we don't get homework in drama. PLEASE PLEASE HELP ME AGAIN!!

 

Hey chica, mhmm let's see. First, do you talk to him at all in or before class? Smile

Lynae P.

by smartpaws on 10/8/2011 6:28:12 PM

 
 



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This may sound silly but how could I get my crush's # with out it being awkward? I really like this guy and I'm worried he'll be a lil suspicious. My mom told me not to let a guy know you like him and play hard 2 get but I also have no idea how to do that. I think he kinda likes me cause he responds to things I do like if I'm doing something cute or funny he just stares and smiles at me. I'm not sure if that's good or bad. PLEASE HELP ME!!!




Do you guys have any classes together? If so, ask to exchange numbers for homework purposes. If not, see if you guys have any of the same hobbies or if either one of you needs help in a subject the other knows well Smile




Brittany G. 



Brittany G.

by smartpaws on 10/8/2011 1:09:12 AM

 
 

Another don't, don't text him "I didn't get to dance with you Frown" yeah, guys don't exactly know how to respond to that, and you'll end up feeling awkward the next time ypu see him. I learned that the hard way

by sassygirl93 on 10/5/2011 10:44:02 PM

 
 

Another don't, don't text him "I didn't get to dance with you Frown" yeah, guys don't exactly know how to respond to that, and you'll end up feeling awkward the next time ypu see him.

by sassygirl93 on 10/5/2011 10:38:30 PM

 
 



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FIRST OF ALL, WHAT DOES MOD MEAN? SECOND, I REALLY WANT A BF! ANYBODY THAT'S POPULARISH WOULD BE GREAT. BUT IM KINDA SCARED! BUT THEN AGIAN IM NOT! HELP ME!




Hey girlie,

"Mod" stands for moderator - which is me! I'm part of a team of girls who are a lil older and who have been through it all. We help clean up comments to remove offensive or vulgar language, really personal info, and spam... PLUS we answer all your advice questions Smile As for your question... I've been there! But what I realized is that there's a big difference between wanting any old boyfriend and wanting a certain guy to be your BF. Instead of focusing on scoring a BF, focus on branching out, trying new things, and meeting new people - girls and guys. By broadening your horizon and social circle, you'll be more likely to find a guy who you click with. And once you find that guy that you spend so much time thinking about, who seems like he's perfect for you, you won't be quite so scared Smile 
Lauren C.

by emma.and.lightning on 9/29/2011 7:07:49 PM

 
 

I got my crush's # from him today, and we've been txting a little. It was so sweet how he gave it to me.

by basketballcutie11 on 9/24/2011 7:17:20 PM

 
 

I have a crush on a guy. I started to think he liked me because when I said I was getting a phone he automatically wanted my #. Then, he barely ever called or texted me. Then, he started giving me all the attention in the world. He would be at my locker when I got to school. Texted me all the time, and always making small talk during subjects. Then, he totally ignored me after that. Am I doing something worng ?

by -Maia:) on 9/22/2011 11:59:25 PM

 
 

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Ok so i got my crushes # (yaaaaaayyy!) anyway, i text him,
(i dont text him like every second, maybe every minute, jkjk.) and normally he doesnt respond. Its probably bc is very athletic and in middle school we have tons of homework, but i just kind of feel like hes avoiding me. we're on the same bus, so that gives us a little bit of talk time, im just soo confuzed. thanks!

 

Hey girl,

It kinda does sound like he's ignoring you. He's an athlete so naturally he's away from his phone a lot, but if you text often and he doesn't write back at all, you either got a wrong number or he doesn't wanna continue the convo Frown Try starting a relaxed convo in person to see how he responds to it. If he seems excited and involved in the convo, he's prob just not great with his phone. But if he seems rushed, guarded, or uninterested, it might be that he's crushing elsewhere or doesn't think you would be a good match. Which isn't a bad thing! It's better to know, then scope out your activities, job, mutual friends, etc. for a guy you have more in common with - because it's amazing when you like a guy and he likes ya back!

Lauren C.

by foodiejr99 on 9/22/2011 6:59:31 PM

 
 



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Theres a boy at my school that i have a major crush on. I finally got his number and I really want to get to know him better but we are both pretty shy people and its hard to keep a convo going. Ant tips for me???




Hey girl,

Totally been there! Try to remind yourself that he is also shy, so take control and make the first move. Show him you're able to be confident and put yourself out there to get what you want! So just go for it and text him - "hey what's up?" Remember never to ask him YES or NO questions - ask him open-ended questions that require him to give a lil bit of an explanation. That way, you can read his answer and find something to push the convo along further. You can either ask him a follow-up question or offer your own thoughts/experiences/opinions. And understand that it's ok for the convo to stop sometimes too - it doesn't mean you aren't compatible, just normal Smile
Lauren C.

by sweetswimmie on 9/17/2011 10:28:57 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD I need help with this because the guy I like he texts me sometimes and then we dont txt for a while . Then at schools we talk for a few days and like when we dont talk we always make that eye connection in the hallway . Then one morning in the hallway he bumped into me in the hallway and gave me a hug. I just wanted to know if he likes me or we just really close friends.

 

Hey chicky, of course he likes you!!! He talks to you all the time and even hugged you! Time to make a move girly!! Smile

Lynae P.

by angel563346 on 9/17/2011 5:30:11 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD SO there's this guy that I've known for awhile. He texts me all the time like sends me a text saying good morning or something like that and then gets upset if we dont talk for awhile. The problem is he has a girlfriend and he always tells me that he loves her. He is also older than me(like 2 years) and he said he wants to come to my graduation or to come visit me sometime(he lives in another state.) I'm confused!! Does he like me or not?

 

Hey girl,

It sounds like he likes you, but also sounds like he wants to keep his GF and have you on the side. And that is not ok! You and his GF both deserve someone who will focus on you and want to be with only you, not split his time! Next time he gets upset if you aren't talking, try to be a little firm with him (but not mean) - tell him something like, "Look I kinda feel uncomfortable being in constant contact sometimes because you have a GF right now." Talk it out and set this straight!

Lauren C.

by Bornagain on 9/15/2011 8:32:36 PM

 
 



MOD MOD MOD I have a real problem, i have this new boyfriend of about 2 weeks and we've already kissed a few times, and it was really weird and awkward. There were no sparks or anything. When he holds my hand or wraps his arm around me it just feels wrong with him, and our convos are always short and alot of pauses. I just don't think he's 'the guy'. Should i break up with him or give it a few more days?? thanks for your help




Hey girlie,

It sounds like you've given this some time and are just not feeling it. And that's totally ok! Being young is all about figuring out who you are and what you want. And now you've learned a lesson - there are certain things about this particular guy, and your interactions with him, that you aren't looking for in a partner. You're still young and have plenty of time to meet "the guy," so learn from this experience and trust your instincts. It's ok to move on Smile
Lauren C.

by dagymnast on 9/15/2011 7:49:14 PM

 
 

I recently got a new boyfriend, and we kissed, but I don't think he's ' the guy' it was really weird and awkward and there were no sparks or anything, and whenever he holds my hand or wraps his arm around me, it feels really weird and our convos are always awkward, and im thinking of breaking up with him....is this a good idea or should i give it more time?

by dagymnast on 9/15/2011 7:45:02 PM

 
 


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So I have a long distance boyfriend of about 9 months and we've made out and stuff and he's visiting in a couple of months and always tells me what kind of "Stuff" we're going to do when he gets back. We have two or three skype dates a week and today he asked me if he could see me in my bra next time. I'm totally fine with sharing my body with him because I love him a lot and hes really trustworthy, but is it a bad idea to do it over skype? Thanks Smile


 


Hey chica! I'd be careful with this. You never know who may be on the other end of the computer. Sure, you may only see him, but other people could be there in the background... leaving you super embarassed.


xxx


Becca G.

by PhantomPhan1 on 9/11/2011 8:58:05 PM

 
 


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So I still like my ex... a lot. Before I (sadly) broke up with him, we were telling each other that we loved each other, and I truly believe that we did. Then we got in this big fight and I broke up with him. I cried myself to sleep for about a week. We didn't talk for the rest of the school year (this happened in April) or over the summer. Well he has since gotten a gf. He is in my best friends math class and apperntly he told her he still loved me. We have started texting each other lately and he ask me questions like if I miss him and stuff and I don't answer cause he has a girlfriend. But then he told me he still liked me. I don't know what to do. Please help!!
Thanks


 


Hey chica! I'd be honest with this guy and let him know how you feel. But, also be firm with him and let him know that you're not going to act on your feelings until he is single...


xxx


Becca G.

by horsenerd411 on 9/11/2011 5:40:48 PM

 
 



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Ok so i like this guy and he likes me, but we are really good friends but now that I'm almost positive he likes me I get all shy around him! Usually I talk all the time! What should I do?




Hey babe,

You're good friends like you said, so try to remind yourself that he's a friend, not a stranger! There's no need to be shy or awkward around him because you know him well, have things in common with him, and have had plenty of conversations with him before. So tell yourself that you are a great girl with confidence and, even if you don't genuinely feel it at first, challenge yourself to be out-going and friendly. Now is the time you should feel great about chatting with him - you both like each other! So he'll love it if you reach out and start convos, letting him get to know more about you Smile 
Lauren C.

by SwimGirl945 on 9/11/2011 12:27:52 PM

 
 

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I know this guy who is my neighbor and really annoying. My friends tell me he likes me. He constantly texts me and won't leave me alone. He isnt very cool and is a bit of a bore and I can't get him to stop texting me. Once he even came up to my house when I told him i didn't want to hang ouit right now. I feel bad, but the only way to shut him up is to be totally cruel and nasty. Any ideas on how to tell him to back off nicely.




Hey sweetie! 

This guy crossed the line when he came to your house, so I think it would be appropriate to get mom and dad involved in this. Let them know that his actions are making you uncomfortable and that you don't want him to come into the house. I'd send him a text message along the lines of, "Hey! I think you're a really great person, but I think you have feelings for me that I can't reciprocate right now. Let's be friends! I'll text you when I'm free to hang out soon." This way, you're leaving the friendship in your control.  Good luck!  
Devin A.

by Pumpkinbabby101 on 9/5/2011 12:21:17 PM

 
 

when i txt a guy friend or if im flitexting, i sometimes ask if they want to play a game by txt like truth or dare, would u rather, etc. so it will be fun and i get to know them. (and u can ask them almost anything!)

by julismiles on 8/31/2011 1:15:58 PM

 
 

Okay so I really like thisguy right? And I know he likes me too and weve gone outa few times. And I'm ready to be over him but if we keep texting and talking it'll never happen. The only problem is I can't seem to leave him alone! Any other question I would be able to handle but Ive tried EVERYTHING! Please help me!




Hey chica,

Does this boy know you feel the same way about him?   If he likes you and knows you like him too, you two just need to hang out together more often until the pieces fall into place.  But, if he doesn't know that you like him, he's probably scared to make a move or worried that you'd turn him down. Next time you see him, try to get a little closer than usual by hugging, cuddling, or simply "accidentally" brushing by him and see how he reacts. If it seems like a good sign, tell him how you feel!

Good luck, lovely!

Jordan S. Jordan S.

by AlLiEwAzHuRr on 8/31/2011 12:58:37 PM

 
 




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ok, so I am totally crushing on the new kid! Only, he's in the grade above me. I totally am dying for his attention. He's so cute! I am good friends with one of his friends! Anything i can do to get his attention?








Brittany G. 
Brittany G.

by LAXchick174 on 8/30/2011 6:39:55 PM

 
 

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i've had a crush on this guy for a long time, but ive never told anyone
just last week, three of my close friends told me that he had a crush on me
they said our teacher even said it
what should I do?

 

Talk to him, girl! Try getting his AIM username or friending him on Facebook, then chatting a little. It doesn't have to be about anything super serious - just your classes/homework/recent tests, the upcoming football game at school, or the new smoothie store at the mall. Keep it light and use this as a chance to get to know him better. It'll totally make ya nervous, I'm sure, but that's part of the fun! And as you get to know him better, you can talk more about things you know he likes or even schedule some hangout/homework time together <3

Lauren C.

by orangeache on 8/29/2011 4:42:19 PM

 
 

I like a guy who is cute, funny, and talks tome a lot what do I do?

by Caila on 8/25/2011 11:17:24 PM

 
 

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so lately this summer ive began to start getting noticed by guys. its basically the first time ever in my life, and it makes me feel really, really good. ive gained a lot of confidence and have learned a thing or two in flirting. well the thing is yesterday me and some of my friends kept crossing paths w/ these kids that were about our age. one of the guys was SUPER hot and he was totally smiling at me and checking me out/staring at me and saying stuff to make me laugh. even though we didnt even really talk it felt so good to be noticed by him. anyways im headed w/ one of my other bffs to a popular hang out spot for teen on fri. and i was wondering if u can give me and advice on talking to cute guys i c. like ice breaks, flirting, ect. and should i be bold, like if i c one staring and smiling at me say something smart, but flirty (NOT hurtful!) thnnx

 

Hey girl,

Yes! Be as bold as you feel comfy with (and don't be afraid to push your comfort zone a lil bit). Smile at a guy if you like him, then go back to your BFF and focus on having fun with her. Then later, try to casually move closer and closer to the cute guy and his friends. Pick something to start a convo with - "I love this song!" or "Your shirt is so great" or something along those lines - and chat him up! Go with the flow of the convo and don't forget to smile, be friendly, and don't be overly bubbly/flirty. You'll figure out the balance in time Smile The most important thing is to remember that confidence, babe!

Lauren C.

by iheartu? on 8/22/2011 11:41:00 PM

 
 



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my friend told the guy I like someone likes him and he guessed me. Then, my friend asked the guy I like on fb if he liked me and he told her "... as a friend haha". He doesn't know for sure that I like him cause my friend never answered back. now what? does she answer him I like him? Do we deny it? please help. I'm kinda heart broken and don't know what to do. ):




Hey girl,

Just try to let it go - I think that would be best here. Next time she chats with him, have her chat about normal things and leave you out of the convo. He's made it clear how he feels, so focus on making yourself happy - clubs, hobbies, your besties. Keep them close and remember that there WILL be a guy who shares your feelings out there. It might not be this one, but don't let that get you down! We have lots of boys in our futures before we find the right one. <3
Lauren C.

by swimgrl911 on 8/22/2011 6:36:21 PM

 
 

MOD.MOD.MOD.MOD.MOD.MOD. HELP! I honestly LOVED this one guy. I have loved him for a year. We used to send texts like "i love you<333" and he would say it back. then one day my best friend told me that she liked him. and the next day they were going out. previously the guy i liked said that he loved me and that he has loved me for so long and he wouldn't go out with any girl before me. i believed him and took him for his word. i don't know what to do, am i supposed to fight for him? or move on? i think i still love him...

 

Hey girl, tell your friend and your crush that you are confused. Maybe they will explain to you what is going on. It's okay to still like the boy, but don't limit yourself to him, there are tons of other great guys out there!

 

xoxo Tory

Tory N.

by i<3suz on 8/22/2011 2:16:09 PM

 
 

I am offering up all of my clubs to other people, because I am not in a position to keep them running. Instead of deleting them, I would like to transfer ownership. Here are the ones that are up for grabs:

Helping Out Club
Girl 2 Girl Talk
Performing Arts Club
The Trauma/Drama of Middle School

by basketballcutie11 on 8/21/2011 9:15:44 PM

 
 



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I have just recently started liking this guy. I don't text him very much and in 6th grade I had first period with him. We talked but not that much. My friends and I had just gotten our schedules for school and I have 3rd period with him this year! Also my gym class (1st hour) has two teachers and he has one and I have the other so we kinda have gym together. Finally my friend is having a party and we both we both are invited so I can't wait! Any tips on how to make a move at the party? THANKS SO MUCH!!




Hey girly!

Try checking out these posts for some tips! Good luck and have fun at your party!


Katelyn L.

by birdgirly11 on 8/18/2011 2:35:28 PM

 
 



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Theres this guy I like. The thing is, when we're alone I don't know what to talk about. We've known eachother since we were like 4 so I can't ask him what he likes to do and things like that...Also, its kind of hard to get in touch with him because he rarely answers his texts (not just mine everyones) and hes never on facebook...He only answers if you call him and its kinda awkward to call him for no reason...Do you have any ideas on what to say to him (well, when he does answer)
?




Hey girly!

Since you already know what he likes, try striking up a conversation about something you know he loves, but you love too! He'll see that you have something in common. You can also check out these articles for some ideas on what to say, both in person, and over text! Good luck!


Katelyn L.

by gleek97 on 8/18/2011 1:04:32 AM

 
 

Haha what i usually do, is send him a message like: "What was our Geometry homework?" And then immediatly send another one saying "OMG that wuzn't supposed to go to u! Srry!" Then he usually responds like hahahaha it's ok, so then i usually ask a random question to get a convo startedSmile Works every time i wanna talk to him, but am too shy to just txt him. Try it!

by kalei896 on 8/17/2011 5:23:52 PM

 
 

i can only flirt by text! in person, i just freeze up!!

by bubbles3956 on 8/17/2011 11:51:31 AM

 
 

Hey girls! If you ever need advice on anything or you just need to talk, I am here! Visit my profile and leave a comment, I will get back to you! I am trusting, smart, kind, and I love to talk and help all girls!
Love yall - Sophia Laughing

by dreamcatcher on 8/12/2011 2:13:32 PM

 
 

Hey girls! If you like to read, write or both could you please join my club "Bookworms & Writers"? I am trying to reach at-least 55 members by the end of the week and right now I'm at 43. I would really appreciate your help! Smile
~Lexi♥

by LexilicousCandy on 8/9/2011 10:20:49 PM

 
 

What do you say to him if you want his cell number but you dont want him to know you like him?

by me1 on 8/9/2011 8:32:33 PM

 
 



***MOD****
I really like this guy, but I don't know how to get his number since we go to different schools and the only time I ever get to see him is when he is with his buddies. Any advice?




When you see him, casually ask if he'd like to hangout and catch a movie or a bite to eat and ask if he wants to exchange numbers Smile




Brittany G.  
Brittany G.

by jonasbrothersrule on 8/9/2011 7:10:16 PM

 
 



MOD
I am super crushing on this guy and i see him at partys but i always become shy and kinda avoid him or dont start a conversation and hate myself later because i didnt. WHat do i do to get over my shyness!




Hey girlie, just talk to him! I know it's hard, but if you can talk yourself into it, you know it'll be completely worth it! 
Lauren T.

by kay5la141516 on 8/6/2011 2:09:29 PM

 
 

omg it helps to just write a comment to the mod i did and i realized the truth Laughing yay!!! thank u mod!! (even though u did nothing since i didn't even post it lol) Smile

by madsterw1 on 8/3/2011 1:49:21 PM

 
 

Mod: So I have a really good friend, we text, talk, and hang out a lot. We do swim team together and always mess around with each other, but lately I've been thinking that I like him. He is going into 9th grade and I'm going into 8th, so we will be in different schools. We will see each other a lot still because of sports. I don't want to ruin our friendship, but still think of him most of the time as more than a friend. What should I do?

 

 

Hey girl. Try flirting with him a little and see how he reacts. Also, why not invite him to hang out with a mixed group of friends of both guys and girls?

mary h.

by pitbullgal97 on 8/3/2011 10:36:56 AM

 
 

MOD: So, I like this guy and he is always really nice to me. We have known each other for a couple of years because of swim team and we would see each other in school every so often. Some times when we would be in the library, we would talk and hang out. We are really good friends and I don't want to ruin our friendship. He is also a year older then me (meaning, I'm in 8th he is in 9th kind of older). How should I go through with this??? Please help!

 

Ask yourself if you want to take a chance and explore the possibilities, then take it from there!

 


Brittany G.


Brittany G.

by pitbullgal97 on 8/2/2011 8:17:16 PM

 
 

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Ok so I live across the street from this really cute guy I like, and this would be really helpful except for one small problem.... i don't have his number! We'll be in the same school next year(I'll be the new girl)so I'll see him way more. Any tips on how I could get his number?




Hey girl,

You could tell him that since you guys live so close to each other, it would be great to exchange numbers in case one of you is sick and needs to get schoolwork from the other person. x0x0 
Casey L.

by tweety2238 on 8/2/2011 4:36:54 PM

 
 



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ok so i like this guy he likes me and i like him nd he asked me out but i cant date but we super flirt all the time he i s so funny and he thinks im funny n sweet n gorgeous n nice ne he likes my voice n all of that but lats night we were playing truth or dare and he picked truth so i asked what do u think of me ? and he said the world n its super sweet but i know that he thinks the world of me but what does that actually mean ? so im asking what he mean when he says .he thinks the world of me ? thx so much Smile




Hey girl, he thinks a lot of you. It sounds like he may be crushing on you totes though. Let him know you like him too and see where it goes. Next time there's a truth, ask him if he has a crush on you too. (;

xoxo 
Alyssa B.

by warrior rose on 7/30/2011 10:59:16 AM

 
 

MOD so i like this guy who goes to another school but hes my neighbor. Im not sure if he likes me but i like him ALOT and we hang out and text alllll the timeee. My friend thinks he might possibly like me and he actually is texting me now and he said do u wanna talk abt tht embarrassing thing? (my friend told him i like him and i was embarrassed) what should i say to him and also any advice on the sitiation? ThankssSmile




Hey girl, why not ask him if he wants to talk about it and play it by ear. That way you're putting the ball in his court. His interest seems piqued.

xoxo 
Alyssa B.

by FigureSkater08 on 7/26/2011 10:48:21 PM

 
 

MOD i was just wondering how often Lauren C mods because i <3 her advice!! Thanks




Hey girl, you can catch Lauren 5 p.m. to 1 a.m. EST on Mondays or always leave a comment on her profile!

xoxo 
Alyssa B.

by FigureSkater08 on 7/26/2011 9:09:50 PM

 
 

MOD ok so wen i text the boy i like i usually text him at about 6ish but i dont text him like a lot just every once in awhile but he always replies aroung 11 or later for some reason. Is that a bad thing or is he just wierd or somethin guys do?? Thanks:o)




Hey girl,

He could be doing any number of things - he might not be that into texting, he might not be by his phone at that time, he might be waiting to answer so it doesn't seem like he's too eager, or he could not be in any hurry to text you back. The last one is kinda lousy, but it's hard to tell at this point which one it is! Wish I could help more but I really can't tell just based on this <3
Lauren C.

by SnowBoarder88 on 7/25/2011 10:59:31 PM

 
 



MOD MOD!!!!!!
i want to kiss a boy but i want to read a article on KISSING first
plz help!!!!! thanks Smile




Hey chica! Check out these links!

http://www.girlslife.com/post/2010/01/11/kissing-guide.aspx 

http://www.girlslife.com/post/2008/08/18/Never-Been-Kissed.aspx 














 

Jess W.

by remyodensimon on 7/25/2011 9:59:10 AM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD I have been at a church camp for a week. There was this guy I liked (B). We got pretty close. We were on the sports field for about four hours one day and we were together the entire time. He would go get me drinks, take a sip, then hand it to me. I would drink some and he take it back and drink more. We were at a singing outside at a gazebo. Everyone stood up to sing and wrapped their arms around each other. I was standing next to B so he wrapped his arm around me and put his hand on my shoulder. I started with my hand on this shoulder but he is taller than me so my arm started hurting. I moved my arm to his waist and we got closer. We held hands during the prayer. He walked me back to my cabin. This morning everyone was going home. I hugged him a few times before I left. I have his email address, but I don't know when I should email him. He lives 3 hours from camp so he isn't home yet. Should I wait for him to email me or should I do it first?

 

Hey chica!  It's really up to you.  It sounds like you guys really clicked, so I don't think it really hurts to reach out to him first.  You could just send a quick line to tell him it was great to meet him and you hope he got home safely. Smile

Marie H.

by spunkygirl03 on 7/23/2011 10:47:14 AM

 
 



modmodmod
i want to break up with my bf but i dont want to hurt his feelings. i dont know if i liked him in the first place. we were firends before and im scared we wont be friends anymore if i dump him. plus he'll probably be in some of my classes for school.should i?




Hey babe! The best way to handle this would be to talk to him about your feelings, just be honest and tell him that you would rather be his friend. There's not much else you can do and hopefully he's a stand-up guy and is understanding about it.  Even tell him that you really hope you can still be friends because you want so badly for him to understand. Good luck! xoxo
Jess W.

by jblover257 on 7/22/2011 9:35:28 AM

 
 

flirtexting is how i first became close to my BGF. we had a class together a few years ago, but didn't talk much. then during the summer he asked for my number, and things only got better from there. before we knew it, we were super close, and not just in phone conversations - in person, too! we started hanging out more, and now what do you know? we just had our first kiss and he asked me out!

i won't say that flirtexting did all the work, but it definitely helped the whole BGF-turned-BF process along. Smile

by heathernotfeather on 7/21/2011 9:40:02 PM

 
 



MOD MOD
I find myself being the one who usually starts the flirtexting with my bf. I dont have an issue with being the one who starts it but I started to feel weird about being the one who gets things going at times until I read where we flirtext and are into sexting more than guys. And I am not talking about sexting and sending pics which I think is wrong but since we are the ones who seem to be both flirtexting and sexting more do you think its normal to flirtext as much as we do?
My opinion on flirtexting is that it is really fun, especially when its with your bf but you have to be careful not to let things get to crazy.




I agree on your last statement. You can have fun with it. But dont go overboard. Do only what youre comfortable with. If you do that youll be fine. xoxo kerra 
Kerra S.

by luckykel on 7/20/2011 11:46:38 PM

 
 



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Hey I'm kinda new here so I don't really know how to do this so I'm going to wing it Haha okay so me and my ex would text each other 24/7 I use to get annoyed but after awhile I started to like talking to him all the time Smile The only probblem now though is that he dosn't do that any more :/ He dosnt even really talk to me anymore unless I send the first message. I don't understand what happened he says he still loves me and that he is going to ask me out agian he is just waiting for the right moment but I think I did something wrong Frown any help?




Hey! it sounds to me like this guy is leading you on. you shouldn't wait around for him. I think you should try to move on. good luck! 
Helen S.

by <3EscapeTheFate<3 on 7/20/2011 6:37:04 PM

 
 

Did u guys c the ad on here and it says: Need Guy Help Like Now?


That Guy is Pretty Darn Cute

by 526love on 7/19/2011 9:15:35 PM

 
 

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ok so i like this guy he likes me i used to call him bad boy n he would call me sexy girl until i..i got in trouble n i told him to stop i told himm he could call me beautiful n stuff he has called me that before but now he doesnt call me anything i want a dif nickname for him n im running out of things to say n ask him beside the usual hey whtya doin, how r u stuff like that so PLEASE ANY IDEAS




Hey girl,

If something funny or interesting happened to you during the day, you can tell that to him, and then laugh and ask if anything like that's happened to him, or if anything interested happened to him. That should start a bunch of conversations. x0x0
Casey L.

by warrior rose on 7/19/2011 2:48:24 PM

 
 

Thanks so much MOD! i guess I'm just scared because he's my first crush that i don't just think is cute, but i actually want to make a relationship. Any suggestions for convo starters? I mean how could i start talking to him online? i'm kind of shy. and i also got his number from a friend who got it from his friend. would that be creepy to text him? and if i did text him how could i start out? thanks so much you guys are the best! Smile




I think it'd be best if you chatted online a bit first, to break the ice and make it not-so-weird if you did text him later on. Just try starting off the convo with "Hey!" and let him respond. Then ask him what's up, how's his summer going so far, how he's handling the crazy hot weather we've been having lately, etc. Try light-hearted topics that'll let him talk about himself a lil bit and see how it goes Smile It's gonna be a little scary at first but just jump right in and go for it. And hey, if it gets awkward after a bit, you can always just say you gotta go, talk to you later, and sign off!
Lauren C.

by swimgrl911 on 7/19/2011 12:02:40 AM

 
 

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sorry i'm kind of obsessing over this one guy. I really like him, but don't have the guts to tell him. and after he got a facebook he's been talking to other girls and commenting on things. Like one girl he said she was really nice and he had fun with her because she was so happy and so much energy she made any lame class fun! does he like her? i'm thinking I should give up on him, but i'm having trouble. him liking other girls makes me want him more! maybe i'm paranoid, but this guy is really sweet and i think other girls might like him because he's cute and stuff, and i don't know but i kind of want to be his girl friend. what do you think? should i forget him? and does he like her? thanks so much!!




Hey girl,

He could definitely like her, but he could just be flirting! It's totally normal to flirt with people, whether we're super-crushing on them or not, so try not to let that discourage you. Instead of just sitting by and watching this happen, try to chat with him! Online, in person, whichever. Be upbeat and positive in your convos with him and try to get to know him better (and let him get to know you as well). See how he responds. If he seems into your convos and responds back like he's interested, he either likes ya as a friend or as something more. Either way, at least you tried! You shouldn't run away just because he's chatting with other girls. Get in there and see how it goes before you throw in the towel Smile
Lauren C.

by swimgrl911 on 7/18/2011 11:50:55 PM

 
 



mod!! pleasee helpp! okayy, so first of all, i just wanted to let you know that i dont have a mother.. (she died when i was very little) i only have a dad. SO, i've been texting this one guy a lot lately and we have so much in common and hes always saying how he wants to hang out sometime, but the thing is, is that im not even allowed to go to friends' houses without my dad knowing their parents and their family background and stuff like that. so i'm a little afraid to ask my dad about hanging out with a GUY. and i dont have any women adults in my family that i can talk to, so thats why i am confiding in you on girlslife.com. thankyouu so much for your advice, in advance. also, how would i go about starting the conversation about dating and stuff. and not to be vulgar or anything but i want to make sure my dad knows im not going to be doing anything inapropriate like having sex or anything until i am married.  pleasee help ASAP ;(




Hey babe! It's always tough transitioning from Daddy's Little Girl to Grow-Up, Individual Woman. And it makes it so much harder when you don't have a female influence around. I would suggest sitting your dad down one evening and asking him for his permission to date. You can offer the boy to come over and meet him if that's what he wants. Just be honest and assure your father that you have pure intentions and would really appreciate his approval with this step to move forward. Hopefully he'll appreciate your attempt to include him in your life and decision making process in a grown-up and responsible way. If he doesn't see it that way, then tell him that this is your intention. You want him to like this boy and you want him to appreciate the fact that you're growing up and need a little independence. Good luck! xoxo
Jess W.

by xginabeex on 7/18/2011 11:04:50 AM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD!!! I broke up with my X around a month ago becuase I was going through a rough time and didn't have the time for a boyfriend, but now I like him again, and I really miss him. He's said that he still likes me , but him and my cousin were going to go out , like , 2 weeks ago . What should I do ? Thanks !! P.s. He's really nice and treats me so nicely , but he's going to highscholl , and I'm not

 

 

Hey girly girl! I'd talk to him about how you feel and ask for a second chance. Your cuz should understand. After all, it was only last month!

xxx

Becca G.

by musicgrl98 on 7/17/2011 11:24:07 PM

 
 


ok so theres this guy i really, really like. we kinda flirt but im scared to ask him out or ask him if he likes me or tell him i like him.I am only 12 but i really wanna go out with him.he is like my dream guy.His brother asked me a couple times if i like his brother which i do, but ive said no. His brother said i act like i like his brother. So my crush texts me and calls me nd he wants to hang out sometimes. he just broke up with his girlfriend.Is he triing to tell me something? HELP ME.!!! thank you.. lovee ;] Jess W.

by knottyhair on 7/15/2011 2:01:09 AM

 
 

Thanks SOO much! It might be hard 'cuz he lives on my street, but anything is possible!

by Cra-Z-Brunette on 7/11/2011 3:48:21 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD! SO it was a few days before Christmas Break this year & our class had a "wear PJ's & watch movies & eat nachos" day. So I was sitting close to the back of the room with my friend. We were laughing about so many things, movie based or not. We stopped to watch part of the movie because we knew something funny was going to happen. Since I had already seen the movie I wasn't paying attention. The only people behind me were three guys. I heard them making eachother guess who they liked. So he said, "Her first name starts with a J and her last name starts with a C. She's in our class." I heard one of the guys say my name & then they moved on. Then he signed my Memory Book and it read, "youre a really great friend and a really nice person over all. have a great summer." and his name. He's been in my class every year since we both transferred to my school. He's one of those guys who think they're really cool. I can't help but like him, but I shouldn't. What should I do?

Hey girly,
If you don't want to like him, then the best thing to do is to distance yourself from him. Just try not to think about him and get involved with your girlfriends or other guys. If you feel that you shouldn't like this guy, then chances are that you will eventually loose interest in him as long as you keep him out of your mind as much as possible. Good Luck!


Catie C.

by Cra-Z-Brunette on 7/11/2011 3:12:26 PM

 
 



MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD heyy well theres this guy i like... i like him sooo much..i even hadd a dream about him last night. the problem is he has a girlfriend and his girlfriend is my BFF.. i really like and i tried to get over him once and it didnt work... only two people know.. and i hope it stays that way..... HELP i dont know what to do!!!!!




Hey babe! First of all, never let a guy come between you and your BFF, honestly, that friendship is way more important. A guy can always be temporary but a best friend is for life. Second of all, you absolutely cannot do anything about the way you feel about him. Not only does he have a girlfriend (which makes him SO off-limits) but his girlfriend is your BFF. It sucks, but you need to get over him. Just let him go and find someone new. It sucks, but there's nothing else you can do. Start convincing yourself you're over him and soon enough you will be. Good luck! 
Jess W.

by chocofeet on 7/11/2011 10:42:03 AM

 
 



MOD MOD MOD!!!
there is this boy i like. we are like really close. he is like my brother. i really like him alot and i know he likes me because he said so. should i wait for him to ask me out. i just cant get him out of my head. he broke up with my twin for me. how do you think we could hang out together. thanxSmile




hey! well if you guys are really close just ask him to get lunch sometime Smile 
Helen S.

by LemonLime18 on 7/8/2011 7:10:42 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD MOD Okay ,, so there's this guy who i really like.. and he said that he'd Probably date me.. but he's 2 years older than me. I want to just flirt with him while texting for now. What kind of stuff should i say ?

Hey girly,
Just go with whatever feels natural to you. That will work fine.


Catie C.

by lilgymnast11 on 7/8/2011 1:57:37 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD, So there is this guy I think is really cute and is friends with my BFF. She found out about it and wants us to meet.I've only ever talked to him once in april and he still remembers me. Which is a good sign right? I just want her to introduce us so I can get to know him, but she's been doing a lot more than that. Today she texted him asking if he wanted to talk to me and he sent back hi(meant for me), I didn't text him back. I'm afraid to let him think that this set up was my idea at first and that I'm attracted to him. Is playing it cool the right thing to do,even when I know he wants to get to know me too?




Hey girl, I think right now you should assume you guys are going to be friends. Don't ignore his text. He's being friendly. He's going to think you don't like him period as a person and he was stupid for taking initiative if you do. Just see this opportunity as one to make a new friend for now. Don't worry about looking too attracted to him. Just be yourself and make sure you let this guy know you like being around him.

xoxo 
Alyssa B.

by arg5890 on 7/7/2011 10:25:09 PM

 
 



MODMODMOD!
k sooo im counsellingg at a camp for this week, two of the other counselorss are cutiess!Tong although the kids are giving me a bit of a hard time, im rlly gonna miss the counselors ..theres one in particular that i kinda want his number...but im too scaredd to ask! it's kinda awkwardd cuz we'vee only spokee a little ...but he's pretty cool. any ideas? (i only have 2 days left)




Just get to talking with him!! If you start to get to know him then asking for his number will be easy Smile good luck! xoxo kerra
Kerra S.

by lili545 on 7/6/2011 10:29:20 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD!!!
At the end of the year (last week), I asked my crush how we could still keep in touch (we're kinda okay friends). He told me that he didn't have a phone or facebook so instead he gave me his email address. I have no idea when to email him and what to put in the email! Do I say, "Hey! How's your summer been so far!" or just a simple "Hi! What's up?" And then I don't know when to email him because if I email him too soon it might make me desperate...
Thanks Laughing
~Reensie




Hey girl,

If you use the "Hey! How's your summer been so far?" it will definitely start a conversation between you two. You can e-mail him now or in a couple days, but either way, it's already been a few days since you've seen him. Since he gave you his e-mail address, it means he does want you to contact him, so why wait? Good luck! x0x0 
Casey L.

by reensie17 on 7/5/2011 1:21:00 PM

 
 



*MOD*
Okay, so my bgf (and one of my brother's best friends) and I have known each other since 5th grade. He and I have always had sort of a flirty relationship, but we never admitted to anything more. I'm 90% saure he likes me, and I had a GIANT crush on him, but I moved to a different state. Recently, I've been texting him and watching old videos of him and me, and my feelings for him are crazy big. I'm going back to where I used to live soon, and I want to make my move. Any advice on how to tell him I like him?




Hey girlie,

Try asking him to spend the day with you hanging out! Go back to all your old fave places...and turn up the flirt factor while doing it. Then, when it feels right, take a deep breath and go for it - tell him how much you've missed him and that you really like him. It'll make ya nervous no doubt, but that's the best way to get it out there!
Lauren C.

by taylorswiftoursong13 on 7/4/2011 10:47:32 PM

 
 

These tips were actually quite helpful!

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by Freakout911 on 7/4/2011 7:07:15 AM

 
 



MOD! MOD! MOD!
I really like this guy but his ex gf is always hanging around him. Everytime I go up 2 talk 2 him in like gym or at break she is always with him (he is not with her, she is just following him). Me and her r friends but when I told her that I liked him she asked him out again (he said no). He acts like he likes me but me and him can never talk because whenever we aren't in class its like she is like stalking him and following him everywhere. What do I do about her?




Hey babe! That's s mean of her to ask him out again! It's going to be hard but she needs to get over him. He's clearly not interested in her. Just forget about her the next time you want to talk to him. Just go up and talk to him, maybe that will make her realize that he's over her and she can go away. She's acting really creepy. Maybe tell some of her closer friends about her behavior and they can help save her from her stalking habits.  Good luck! xoxo
Jess W.

by Salkehatchie on 7/4/2011 2:14:31 AM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD so i was wondering, if you go swimming after the day your period ends, can you get pregnent?? this thought randomly occured to me after i did it and was just wondering if i was at risk.. my friends say no, but im just making sure.. Thanks!!

 

Hey girly! The only way you can get pregnant is if you are sexually active.

xxx

Becca G.

by Cherries51 on 7/2/2011 9:36:17 PM

 
 



mod mod mod!
ok so i was at a pool party and me and my BGF we were talking and then my phone buzzed he loked at the text b4 me and said WHAT! he practicly yelled and i took my phone and it read "figure out who i am i got ur # from a friend" and he gave me clues to find him and my BGF said ill "handle" this and he followed the clues to the guy and said leave her alone you here me! does he like me or is he just being protective?




Helen S.

by lovepeace101 on 7/1/2011 7:16:32 PM

 
 

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I really like this guy but my bff likes him too...he calles me babe and everything but i feel gulity flirting with him...what do i do!?




Hey girl, I think you need to talk to your friend about this and you two should reach the conclusion of what you both should do together. It's OK to like the same guy, but should he like/ask out either of you, you need to have a plan.

xoxo 
Alyssa B.

by rawrhannah10 on 6/30/2011 9:29:30 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD!!!
Okay so this summer I got a job as a junior counselor at a near by day camp. When I went to the orientation, there were already place cards on the tables that told us where to sit. I was sitting next to another junior counselor, lets call him "harry". So we chatted in between presentations and it was all cool. As I have been seeing him at camp and stuff, I have started to really like him. The problem is that we aren't in any of the same age groups for things so I can never get a chance to talk to him. The only free time the JCs have to hang out with each other is when (at our camp we have giant story lines that go on all summer) all the JCs get sent off to go "find something" or "set a trap". So the only time I even can hang out with "harry" is during these times when the whole group is together. So basically my question is what do I do? I mean, how would you handle this situation? I just at this point don't know what to do. HELP!

 

hey! well i guess I would get his number so that we could coordinate when to hang out Smile

Helen S.

by emonroe26 on 6/29/2011 7:16:29 PM

 
 



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by mckey101 on 6/24/2011 7:34:49 PM

 
 


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Hey!
I Was Texting My GuyFriend And I Think He Started Flirting With Me Because He said me and Need 2 Hang when he comes back from his vaca! One Time When we where at the mall i almost fell down an excolater and i said i almost die and he said no u didnt if u would have fell someone would have cought you! And i said yeah bt u no how dumb i em and he said your not dumb! he also said he would be sad if i didnt go 2 the same High school as him because i said i wanted 2 go 2 a Preforming Arts High School and He Was Like NOOOO!! Anyway I Just Want 2 Know If U Think He Likes Me? I Asked Him Out Once (Big Mistake) and He Gave Me The "Lets Be Friends Because Im Not Ready 4 a Gf act" Bt That Was Last Year... I Really Want 2 Be His Friend Bt Everytime He textes Me I Smile and Stuff Ik its Weird Bt What Do u THink? Also If HE Was Flirting With me How do I flirt Back !?
Thanx Sooo Much !


Hey girlie, there's definitely a chance that he might like you. But don't ask him out this time. When you hang with him make sure you look him in the eyes when you're talking and touch his arm occassionally. It'll let him know that if he's interested you are too!


Lauren T.

by kikiluvzu28 on 6/23/2011 4:34:45 PM

 
 

MOD!
My crush knows I like him, we are still really good friends though, what are some ways to flirt that aren't so obvious? And we go to a private school so we are always in different classes, and almost NEVER see each other! please help!
<3 Lindsey




Hey girl,

You could try texting him something nice like "How's your day? Smile" with a smiley face, or saying something funny and smiling after, so it comes off flirty. Good luck! x0x0 
Casey L.

by lindseyd9 on 6/23/2011 3:27:52 PM

 
 

Hey, girliesSmile I just wanted to say if you need advice on anything, I'm your girl. Honestly ANY, and I mean ANY question I will be so happy to answer, and I will really give thought to and try my best to help you out with the problem/question!! <3

by titania4_97 on 6/23/2011 10:38:21 AM

 
 



MODMODMOD
Okay so last night I was texting my crush when he asked out of the blue he asked if I liked him. Since he has kind of a reputation of ignoring girls when they tell him they like him, I said no & asked why. He said "Cuzz" and then immediately told me it was actually his friend Zach texting me even though I know for a FACT it wasn't. Now I'm wondering if he likes me back & if I made a mistake not telling him I like him. What should I do?
Thanks!




He could, but your best bet is to ask Smile




Brittany G. 
Brittany G.

by emilyroxmysoxoff96 on 6/21/2011 3:59:58 PM

 
 

Mod!
There is a guy i like, i'll call him "Bob". He is my good friend and my younger brother's best friend (though Bob is my age) He is also my neighbor and he goes to my school. He's told me that he thinks people our age are too young to date and he thinks that it is stupid. (He didn't say that just to me, there were some other people hanging out with us too). It sometimes seems like he likes me back. Idk if i should tell him how i feel. Also I've tried getting over him because i don't want to mess up our friendship but i just can't.
Thanks




Hey girl,

     If you feel like you really want to turn your friendship into a relationship, just try pulling him aside one day and having a private conversation. Tell him exactly how you feel, but that you don't want to ruin your friendship over this if he doesn't feel the same way. Good luck! x0x0
Casey L.

by kelaboo on 6/21/2011 3:00:02 PM

 
 

OK I really need help! Im so confused over this guy, Stanley. One day he will hold my hand in science, wink at me, pass me notes, and all that love-dovey stuff. But then the next day he just dosnt talk to me! And he goes out with my friend kayla and I really really like him and just dont know what to do! Can you help?

by Annacoco123 on 6/20/2011 10:59:10 PM

 
 



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hey i really like this guy joe n he really likes me alot so i want to be extra flirty like um i said if we were together right now what would we be doing , or like something along the lines of i lost my teddy bear can i snuggle with you , something like that so yeah




Hey babe,

That's cute! But first, make sure he's that type of guy - some guys might enjoy that, but for others that might totally weird them out. Start out slow by complimenting him and teasing him in a flirty way. Try to slowly take it to the next level (more and more affectionate) and, if he seems into it, then you can say this kinda stuff Smile 
Lauren C.

by warrior rose on 6/20/2011 10:12:51 PM

 
 

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by LexilicousCandy on 6/20/2011 8:58:49 PM

 
 



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Ok, I saw the guy I like at the ball park during a baseball tournament for his younger brother. Well, his little brother and I had a few convos, his dad said hi to me. And his mom gave me a hug! Our families are close and I only get to see him a few times a year because he goes to a different school. And while his family was chatting w/ me he said not a word to me, but yet he talked to my mom!Um, is he advoiding me?? Should I steer clear of him?? Whats going on we haven't talked for like a year and he doesn't even say hi to me! Last year we went camping for 3 days and we played bball with my cousins and talked quite often! Whats wrong with him or even ME??




Hey girl,

There isn't anything wrong with either of you! I doubt he's avoiding you - he might've felt awkward since you haven't talked in so long. He just might not have had anything to say! If you wanna talk to him again, try running into him at the local pool, movie theater, mall, or even host a BBQ with your fam. It's hard to get a vibe on how he's feelin' towards ya from just one situation like this Smile
Lauren C.

by brenlxl on 6/20/2011 4:18:19 PM

 
 

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The guy i like, likes me back, and i could see us ending up dating. But i am not aloud to date. I would hang out with him at school, but my dad is the vice principle. I dont know what to do, because i really like him. So far we only talk through text and online. How can i improve my situation or spend more one on one time with him?




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by k326 on 6/16/2011 7:22:40 PM

 
 

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ok, so my friends r throwing this end of the school year party, and my friend told me i could invite anyone i wanted in our grade. I want to invite my crush, but im not sure how to invite him, since technically, it isnt my party, and i dnt have the nerve to go up to him and say, hey want to go to this party? What should i do?




Hey, Girl! Sorry for the “stock” message. We’re psyched you’re here but since this is a super busy time, mods aren’t able to answer personal advice or contest questions. We’re approving your comments now so the girls can start offering feedback right away! If you still have questions, please come back, we’re happy to help…or just let the other chicas answer now! (They give awesome advice, trust us!) Love and thanks! ♥, Your Blog Patrol Babes  
Alyssa B.

by OMG123 on 6/16/2011 5:53:23 PM

 
 

MOD! MOD! MOD!
I like my BGF. I was texting him a few weeks ago and asked him who he likes. He wouldn't tell, so I made a deal with him. I said I'd tell him who I like if he told me who he liked. He actually took the deal, and went first. Then I told him I like him and he was freaked out for a sec, but then we went back to our regular convo. He's still flirting with me, even though he said he likes this other girl. He says stuff like "You're perfect the way you are." He recorded my laugh on his phone and says he "likes my laugh," and even though everyone makes fun of me when they hear it, he says he never would. Does he like me? Or is he just being a good friend?




Hey babe! That was really brave of you to tell him! Everyone likes being liked, he may just be doing this so that you keep liking him so that he can feel good about himself. Although, that wouldn't make him a very good friend. Or maybe now that you've said how you feel he has realized that you're the girl for him. Unfortunately, we can read guys' minds (I wish!). So you'll have to settle for not knowing. But you can check out this link for more help! Hope this help girlie and good luck!

http://www.girlslife.com/post/2009/09/16/advice-love-crush-dating.aspx
Jess W.

by fashionluva on 6/14/2011 10:19:07 AM

 
 

MOD
I like my BGF and he knows it but he said he doesnt like me that way. And doesnt want to ruin our friendship. He likes my best friend, but she doesnt like him at all. Should i keep trying to get him to like me or just move on...? i've liked him for almost 2years.

 

Hey girlie! That's pretty rough. There's nothing you can do to make him like you, unfortunately there are no love potions yet Smile Just be his friend. You can try to get over him, especially if there really is no hope that he will like you too. And you can tell him that you BFF isn't interested. Make sure he knows you're saying it as a friend so that he doesn't think you're jealous. Good luck babe!

Jess W.

by NinjaNumberTwo on 6/13/2011 1:18:18 PM

 
 

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HELP!
i was at my grandmas house and i was riding my bike around her neighborhood. My crush was outside his house (idk it was his house!) and he was like what are u doing here?! I said i was in the neighborhood. Then i left my friend gave me his number and i said hi but he said back ur a stalker! im not! i had no clue that was his house! now hes not texting me back Frown please help!!!!! what can i do to make him not think im a stalker and have him text me back!!!!

 

 Hey girl! This guy sounds like the creep. If he immediately assumes you're stalking him because you said hi, he's the weird one. Ask him why he thinks you're a stalker? Make HIM feel like the idiot for assuming the worst. Say something like, "because I saw you when I was visiting my grandmother and because my friend gave me your number? That makes me a stalker?"  He seems like the crazy one, not you. Good luck girlie!

Jess W.

by alex18903 on 6/13/2011 11:57:11 AM

 
 



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i really like this guy. We are like best friends. I have told all of my friends that i like him. Some of my friends ask if he likes me back, but i say i do not know. I really want to know if he likes me back. How do i find out if he likes me back?




Helen S.

by cheerstar96 on 6/10/2011 5:02:02 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD!!!!There's a guy I like and he likes someone else.It's like I'm a nobody 2 him.If I try to talk to him.My friends will freak.Nobody knows , even though I told some friends and they think I'm lying.What should I do???




Hey girl, I know it's hard to try talking to him. Aim to be his friend and go from there. He may like someone else, but chances are he doesn't know you yet. You might just b a pleasant surprise for him.

xoxo 
Alyssa B.

by julia65773 on 6/9/2011 11:48:45 PM

 
 

MODMODMOD!!! I like my BGF but he doesn't like me backFrown His friend knows this and he knows i still like his best friend. All my friends know I like both of them. I flirt/text my BGF's friend all the time but idk what my BGF would say if i went out with him! I still like both of them too!!!HELP




Hey Girl,




If I were you, I wouldn't fret about this. I'd enjoy the attention from your BGF's friend. That might make your BGF realize what he's missing! At the same time, you can continue to hang out with your BGF, of course! Just feel out each situation, see what feels best to you.
Kelly H.

by moosempepper on 6/9/2011 12:25:12 AM

 
 

MOD
So i really like this guy. We were really close a couple of months ago. One night i said i kinda liked him and he said we should get to know each other better before we date. We flirted every single day and he would even wait until i had to get picked up at 4:30 and school ends at 2:50. After the night of saying i maybe like him and he said we should get to know each other better he hasnt been the same. We hardly talk and he never texts me anymore. I still really like him. What should I do?




Hey Girl,




It seems like this guy would rather make the moves on his own, in my opinion. Instead of pushing it any further, just relax and let him come to you. A lot of guys like it if you keep the mystery alive, so to speak!  
Kelly H.

by summergirl1234 on 6/9/2011 12:15:42 AM

 
 

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There's a new girl at my school and she's really nice and my friend but I can't help but be so jealous of her. She models with Ford models, she's an amazing dancer, she makes good grades, and she has the "perfect" body. I LOVE HER TO DEATH shes one of my besties btu how can I get over the little pints of jealousy??




Hey girl, it can be really hard to not be jealous of others when they seem to have it all. But trust me, she's insecure too and chances are jealous too. Realize that while she may be lucky, her life is far from perfect. So set the feeling aside and focus on reminding yourself of your amazing qualities whenever you start to think negatively of her.

xoxo 
Alyssa B.

by 13.seconds.to.LOve on 6/7/2011 9:18:58 PM

 
 



MOD MOD MOD!!!! Smile
I was txting my crush till late at nite on friday. I tried to txt him again on saturday and sunday but he didnt answer. My friend who's known him longer txted him and he didnt txt her back either! I didnt txt him yesterday, but im afriad if i txt him today he'll think im desperate! (he knows i like him) should i txt him or not today??? Smile Your reply means alot!




Hey girlie--give him a few days Smile




Brittany G. 
Brittany G.

by paramoregurl on 6/7/2011 7:26:57 PM

 
 



Mod mod Mod Mod Mod MOd!
kae so im fourteen, about to turn fifteen, i have three days left in my freshman year. hes gonna be seventeen (not till after im fifteen) and hes a sophmore.. we've been talking about dating for the past two months, and weve kissed a couple times. he walks me to some classes and hugs me multipler times everyday. in just a week, hes moving in to the appartment complex that me friend lives in, and im staying with her for most of the summer... we plan to hang out with him and her boyfriend almost everyday. when she asked him if him and i were gonna date, he just said he didnt know... how do i get him more open to the thought of dating?!?!




Hey girlie--don't pressure him, as it could push him away. Just go with the flow and things should move that way soon Smile




Brittany G. 
Brittany G.

by carlierhiannon on 6/7/2011 5:40:04 PM

 
 



MOD!!! I have a BGF who iz also my crush, we txt all the time and ive opened up 2 him, but i feel like he hasnt opened up 2 me and wen we meet n person we have nothing 2 talk about. wat should i do?




Hey girlie! Ask him what his deal is--explain that you enjoy your friendship and just want to know how he feels.




Brittany G. 
Brittany G.

by wolfy2149 on 6/7/2011 5:16:40 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD ok i like this guy who is going to be a fresman and i will be an 8th grader and i really like him and idk if he likes me. we flirt alot and the other day he said that we should hang out sometime but he hasent said anything about it since. we text almost every day. i dont want to be to pushy. he is very picky about the people tht he dates and has had only 2 or 3 gfs. can you help me score some more points? Thanks

Hey girly,

If he said that you guys should hang sometime, then you should definitely say something about it. Just send him a text that says something like, hey you up for a movie this saturday? Just be really casual about it.
Good Luck!


Catie C.

by Brandi658 on 6/6/2011 3:08:14 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD, HELP. Okay so I like this kid in my school, we talk a lot on msn and even in school. I asked him to go to the movies with me and my best friend and he said yes. Then I asked him to go to Harry Potter with me and he said yes. I don't know if he likes me back so I am trying to figure that out! Embarassed

Hey girly,

There is a really good chance he likes you. Ask your friend to leave you and him alone for a little while and see what happens. If everything goes well, than just go with it. If something isn't working, then your best friend will come back and save you from whatevers going on.
Good Luck!


Catie C.

by lululemon-gal12 on 6/6/2011 3:02:30 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD!!! There is this this boy I like in another class and one of my friends like him too. I'm in fourth grade and it's hard to talk to him.What should I do?=(




Hey girl, I know it's hard, but I'd try talking to this guy: maybe ask about summer plans or a mutual class you share if you have any. Sometimes taking that first step -- speaking to him --  is a good way to show you might just like to be friends or later more.

xoxo
Alyssa B.

by julia65773 on 6/2/2011 9:36:31 PM

 
 

Mod Mod Mod!!
So there's this guy who was in my math class this past schoolyear (but I have known him since elementary school), and he really like me. He is really sweet and hugs me all the time, but im not sure if I like him, or just the attention he gives me. Now that its summer vacation and we aren't seeing each other every day, should I give him a chance?




Hey girlie! You don't want to lead this guy on if you don't actually like him. You can hang out and test the waters, but don't agree to date him unless you're sure you like him and not just the attention. 

 
Rhea R.

by jennntheswimmer on 5/31/2011 3:34:22 PM

 
 

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ok so i dont know what im supposed to do about this because im 12 (yeah yeah i know im young but hes almost 14 and im almost 13 and we're going into 8th grade) and its summer and and i really want to see my boyfriend and idk how im supposed to do that. have any suggestions? thanks Smile




Hey chica! That's a tough situation. Do you guys live close to each other? If so, you could try biking or walking to his house and vice versa. If you don't I'm not sure of any way you guys could get together unless you got a parent to drive you. Maybe your parents would be more comfortable with the idea if you met at the mall or the park or if a group of your friends got together. If you had a group get together, you could get a ride with on of your friends. I hope that helps. 



Rhea R.

by nobody25 on 5/31/2011 1:56:56 PM

 
 



MOD MOD MOD so my boyfriend wont say good bye to me after school. and he wont hug me then either. i want him to so how do i bring it up to tell him how i feel about it?? thanks!




Hey girl,

He's your BF, so be honest about what you want outta the relationship! If you wanna hug him, take control and hug him! Just do it quickly and softly, then see how he responds to it. It might make him nervous at first, but if you let him know you want to take your relationship to that level, he'll probably be on board Smile 
Lauren C.

by dancingchick on 5/30/2011 7:20:26 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD!!
aghh so i've been single for a while. and its especially depressing ever since my best friend got a bf (noo no, i know what youre thinking. but no, im not jealous of him & her. and i am SUUUPPEERR happy for them!) but yeah so my issue is that im bad at flirting and stuff. cause first off, all the guys at my school are hooorribbleee... so i want to try to meet someone outside of school. but i dont know how to meet other guys! or how to really flirt with them without being creepy... heelpp!




Hey girlie! If you wanna meet guys out of school, try striking up convo with boys your age at the pool or park. As for flirting, here's a link with tons of helpful tips!: http://www.girlslife.com/post/2007/11/17/Flirting101.aspx


Erin G.

by ~!katie!~ on 5/30/2011 3:07:44 PM

 
 

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(thanks for the article)!
ok so this guy we have talked before and we wave at each other and he asked me out and i had to say no because i cant date yet Frown but now we txt alot and he says i dont want to be a moron but ive been thinking of you all day. then he rides bikes and he said if i wanted i could ride with him and he would buy me a helemet with my last name or i could wear his,he is really sweet and funny and nice and when we txt we have different ways to say hello like he will say good day too u my lady and i will say ello mate stuff like that and im kinda running out of ways now the bad part is *MY SISTER HATES HIM* my sis hates him thinks he is a jerk n a player n a potty mouth .... now he is a potty mouth because his parents just divorced and he said he wouldnt curse around me .... my sis thinks he hates her but he just finds her annoying he said he would be nice to my friends so my questions are: (sorry its long!)
1. what are some more ways to say hello

 

Hey girlie! First of all, I would talk to your sister about the way that you feel about him and say how much you would appreciate it if she accepted your interest in him. She doesn't have to like him but she should be respectful. And second, get creative! Write him a letter instead of a text or sing him a voicemail instead of calling! Good luck!

Chelsea B.

by warrior rose on 5/30/2011 9:02:21 AM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD Ok. So I've been texting my bgf Will for a while now, and we went out on v-day, but the thing is, he's soooo one-wordy! It drives me so insane. and he just randomly stops texting me randomly in the middle of a conversation. any tips? :/

 

 

Hey girly! I'd make sure to ask him open-ended questions that he can relate to. Like for example, don't ask him something with a yes or no answer. Ask him questions that he has to elaborate on, that'll keep the conversation going Smile

xxx

Becca G.

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by beaniebaby10 on 5/29/2011 6:47:01 PM

 
 



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1)I have graduations soon and I was wondering what jewelry to wear. My dress is really simple and black. Any suggestions?
2) I really lik ethis guy and he flirts with me alot. School is ending soon and I ant to tell him I like him before I go on vacation. I was gonna tell him at the graduation pool party. Does that seem like a good idea?
Thanks a bunch




Hey babe,

1. Keep it simple since your dress is simple too. Personally, I probably would wear a couple rings (maybe a pearl and a colored one? go with what you like!) and a bracelet or two Smile

2. Go for it! You'll always wonder all summer what would have happened if you hadn't said anything, so try talking to him a bit more this week (to make him even more comfy around you and also to get an idea of his feelings toward you) and then, when the pool party rolls around, take a deep breath and just say it. GOOD LUCK!!
Lauren C.

by smart_chick12 on 5/28/2011 11:45:40 PM

 
 



MOD
how do i get my crushes # ?
n once i get it wat should i do with it?
do i txt him ?
or wait 4 him 2 txt me ?
should i invite him places ?
or should he do that ?
should they be in a group ?
or alone ?




Hey girlie,

Do you have any mutual friends who might have his number? Or try this super sassy way of exchanging digits! As for the actual convo though, ya gotta just go with the flow! Text him and ask him what's up, then see how the conversation goes. Let invitations to hang out come naturally based on how into the convo he seems, what his interests are, and if you think you might need a group date to ease any awkwardness. Try not to force anything though - just see how it goes!
Lauren C.

by boy crazy<3 on 5/28/2011 10:49:20 PM

 
 

May I just say that this article is amazinggg! It helps so much and is so true! THANKS TO GL FOR PUTTING THIS OUT THERE!!!!!!!!

by kguyer123 on 5/28/2011 8:53:25 PM

 
 



Mod
Thanks mod! also i need help talkin to this guy better in person. we text alot and i tried the dream thing on him before and he said "i love dreams! telly me about it please!!!" hes so funny! anyways we can text no problem, but when we try to talk in person we both clam up and i feel really akward. this guy says he has trouble talking to girls he really likes and i asked "so why do you and i have trouble talkin?" he never replied. was he trying to say he liked me and i shut him down? or what? also what should i do bout talkin to him in person? thanks!








Brittany G. 
Brittany G.

by Bootsie753 on 5/28/2011 10:03:44 AM

 
 



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I really like this guy a grade ahead of me- he's in seventh. I don't get to see him, but I want his number. Do you think I should find a way to get his number? Also, if I did get his number and I texted him, my parents read my texts!!! I don't like to talk to my parents about this stuff! What are some ways to get them to stop reading them?




Hey girlie -- if he's okay with you texting him, go for it! As far as your parents, your best bet is to talk to them; it's the only way to get through to them and explain how you feel.




Brittany G. 
Brittany G.

by alkrox17 on 5/28/2011 9:35:49 AM

 
 



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Last night my bff told me she liked the guy that she knows Ive liked fro 4 months. I don't wanna hurt her, but this guy has told me he doesn't like her like that at all. But this girl talks to our crush in person a lot, unlike me. this guy and i don't really talk because we both are pretty shy and the words get all chocked up in our throats when we try to talk to each other. my friend wanted the guys # last night, but i know she'd text him and never stop texting him til he replied, which could be up to a day or more sometimes. So i reminded her that his phone has been glitching a lot (it has)and she was like oh that's fine. but i just wish she'd let me have this guy, cause shes had literally 7 BFs and i havent had 1 yet. what do you think i should do?




Hey girlie --  you should try talking to her about how you feel, especially emphasizing that you really liked this guy and would like him to be your first boyfriend (just remember, never let a guy come between you and a friend)




Brittany G. 
Brittany G.

by Bootsie753 on 5/28/2011 8:27:21 AM

 
 



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I want your honest opinion and thoughts please Smile ... :
So, I just graduated from 8th grade and my parents gave me $100 so I could get something special because I didn't know what I wanted and so they figured that should cover it. Also, I worked my butt off this year and pulled off straight A's the whole year so I'm going to be able to get something really special my mom said. I super badly want a new phone. Specifically the BlackBerry curve 3G.my mom said before I could get an iPhone if I paid for the data plan. But I don't want an iPhone lol. Do you think 14 is too young for a blackberry? If I take my graduation $$ I could afford one and if needed to it could be my good grades present. I love my sisters BB curve but Idk if a BB is too much for a 14 yr old girl and if I would get bored with it :/ I'm very involved in sports especially my club soccer team and I do a lot with my friends. I'm going into HS this fall so I need a better phone.. what's your thoughts? Smile thanks Smile




Hey girlie -- it all depends on what type of person you are; Are the features included on the phone something you would take advantage of, or will the thrill wear off after a few weeks? Your should to talk to your mom about her beliefs, regarding that particular phone and how you feel as well Smile




Brittany G. 
Brittany G.

by selena_wiz_lover on 5/27/2011 11:10:18 PM

 
 



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okay i am in 8th grade. my parents have known ive liked this guy for a year and a half now. they cant accept im not 2 anymore. they found out we kissed one time and i was in HUGGGEE trouble. i told the truth about it and everything but now they are getting mad about his arm being around me. they think its bad. i tell them that i would never ever do anything bad and that i would regret but obviously they dont believe me. they dont trust me at all now and they are threatening to talk to him. what am i supposed to do to get them to ease up about it and know id never do anything i would regret and to let them trust me? please help.




Hey girlie -- sit them down and talk to them about their fears and concerns regarding you and this guy. At that time, do your best to tell them that you  would never do anything regretful and that you respect them, as well as yourself.




Brittany G. 
Brittany G.

by cutieme03 on 5/27/2011 10:43:13 PM

 
 



MOD MOD MOD! I read in one of the issues, that starring at a crush too long is kinda stalkerish. But I find me and my crush starring at each other during class all the time (I think he likes me back) Is that a bad thing? But we're only 13 year olds in middle school and I know the magazine is for more teenagerish girls. Plz help!




Hey girlie -- it sounds totally fine Smile




Brittany G. 
Brittany G.

by stylediva on 5/27/2011 8:51:51 PM

 
 



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I'm pretty good friends with the guy I like. We banter a lot, and no one can ever get us to shut up when we're together. People have always thought we liked each other, but I've never admitted to it, because I didn't want him to find out. Recently, everyone's been teasing him (until now, it was just my friends). Apparently, he was considering asking me to dance, but never did. He's always denied it. I'm not sure what to think, and he doesn't know I like him. Should I say anything? Thanks Smile




hey! I think it sounds like you guys have a good thing going. why ruin that? I think you should just stay friends Smile 
Helen S.

by rrox on 5/27/2011 7:04:28 PM

 
 

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I'm gonna try texting my crush tonight because I think its the right time. I'm gonna try that blank text idea to start the conversation.But I'm kinda nervous. I'm afriad he won't respond I mean its a 50/100 percent chance he will just because I know he likes me. But I keep telling myself that the worst that could happen is him not answering. Got any tips or suggestions to help me not be so nervous and have confidence in texting him? Thanks!
P.S I'm gonna try this tonight!!

 

Hey girl,

First of all, I wouldn't recommend you sending a blank text at first because he might get confused and not respond. Just send a "Hey what's up?"  text first and get the conversation going before you tell him how you feel. Second, if you are scared of him not responding, I would tell him how you feel in person. But when you text him tonight, just take a deep breath. I would watch a movie or your favorite tv show to help keep your mind from worrying about if he will respond. I am sure he will, and if he doesn't, then know he is missing out!


 

danielle D.

danielle D.

by shizzleQ on 5/27/2011 12:28:44 PM

 
 

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There's a guy who I almost never talk to in school but I've always known that he liked me. He's really sweet and has given me presents and lately we've been texting a lot and he's really sweet and nice to me I'm not sure if I should actually try and be bf/gf with him or just friends becuz im starting to like him back but do u think that he would be different in person. We still don't talk much in person because we're both extremely shy and he's moving soon any ideas on if I should try and keep in touch or just let it go? Thanks so much! <3




Hey girl, I think only you can find the right answer on this one. Follow your heart because both sides have pros and cons. I'd suggest asking to get together with him sometime before he leaves though — just as friends for now. See where it goes and test the waters a bit. Hang in there and trust your judgement!

xoxo 
Alyssa B.

by Emily241997 on 5/26/2011 9:02:13 PM

 
 

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This guys always staring at me. I like him, a lot. Today, he kept staring at me. My friend wanted me to throw her a pen, so i accidently threw it at him. He hid the pen between his feet, and was like "Im gonna keep the pen" then i chased him around the room and he still didnt give it back. So then, he went out to the hallway and i kept chasing him and he didnt give it back. So eventually, i kinda sorta hit him playfully and he playfully hit me back and was PRESSED against me. Then, every time i mentioned he owes me a pen he would smile. Do you think he likes me back? He never flirts with other girls like that. Hes kinda shy.
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Hey, Girl! Sorry for the “stock” message. We’re psyched you’re here but since this is a super busy time, mods aren’t able to answer personal advice or contest questions. We’re approving your comments now so the girls can start offering feedback right away! If you still have questions, please come back, we’re happy to help…or just let the other chicas answer now! (They give awesome advice, trust us!) Love and thanks! ♥, Your Blog Patrol Babes 
Alyssa B.

by rawritsmedina on 5/26/2011 7:45:49 PM

 
 

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So my friend was texting my crush to find out who he liked and she was forwarding their conversation to me. She told him that she knew someone who liked him. He guessed it was me who liked him. and he could tell that I liked him. I have had a crush on him since January. So he knows that I like him. what's should I do ?




Hey, Girl! Sorry for the “stock” message. We’re psyched you’re here but since this is a super busy time, mods aren’t able to answer personal advice or contest questions. We’re approving your comments now so the girls can start offering feedback right away! If you still have questions, please come back, we’re happy to help…or just let the other chicas answer now! (They give awesome advice, trust us!) Love and thanks! ♥, Your Blog Patrol Babes 
Alyssa B.

by SummerButterflies on 5/26/2011 6:49:13 PM

 
 

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I have a crush on a guy who's in 2 of my classes, but we don't sit by each other and we're both pretty shy... with so little time left in school, how do I get something going?

 

Hey girlie!

add him on facebook or get his number and ask if he would like to hang out with you and your friends this summer!


 

danielle D.

danielle D.

by lol_girl224 on 5/26/2011 4:10:13 PM

 
 

Hey can anybody help me!?!? i need boy advice!! ok so i like this guy a ton....and he's super popular like no joke....and im...not. he told my friend that im super pretty but he just doesn't like me. but he said that a long time ago. i want him to notice me. but im too afraid to talk to him Frown everybody says he the perfect guy. blonde hair, blue eyes, athletic, tan and very loose and fun. he always makes me laugh in class but that's when he says stuff out loud. we've talked a bit when we sat together but idk what to do. im hoping to grab his attention before my school ends which is in two days :/
sorry if this is a ton to ask for but thank you all girlies!!
love'
claraton0202 <3 oxox

by Claraton0202 on 5/25/2011 8:28:06 PM

 
 

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Today on the bus, this guy that I use to like told me he used to like me. I said, oh I used to like you too and he was okay with it. That was right before I was getting off the bus. When I got off, I looked back, and he was laughing with his friend and I heard them say my name. I'm afraid he didn't really like me, and he was just saying that, and now I told him I liked him! i think he was just trying to get me to say that, and I should have thought before i talked, but it just kinda came out. I don't want him telling all my friends or his friends. HELP!
Thanks! (:




Hey girlie. What's done is done and you can't worry about it anymore. Whatever he said to his friends will pass, so try not to think about it. Those boys will be talking about something new tomorrow.  
Marly Z.

by abbyoc16 on 5/25/2011 6:19:15 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD!!! So theres this guy I like, we'll call him bob. Bob has a girlfriend, but i still like him. we barely talk, but we see each other all the time. He knows me, but didnt know i liked him..until yesterday. My friend told him, and asked if he liked me too but he said 'I cant answer that question because I'm going out with someone' so my friend asked again in private and he said 'Wow, she really does like me?'. Do you think he likes me, but doesnt want to tell??

Hey girly,

I'm not really sure at this point, but I would leave it until he doesn't have a girlfriend. I don't think he is going to be honest about anything until then.
Good Luck!


Catie C.

by Symphoni789 on 5/25/2011 4:28:14 PM

 
 

MODMODMOD i have a dance this weekend and i have never danced with a guy before. i really like this guy and he seems to b liking me and i was wondering if u had any tips for how to ask him and HOW TO DANCE WITH A GUY!!! cuz im CLUELESSSSSS!

Hey girly,

The best thing to do is to position yourself near the guy when a slow dance comes on. They casually glance over and catch his eye. Smile and simply ask him nicely if he wants to dance. Act confident and like you aren't nervous at all. When you dance, all you have to do is place your hands on his shoulders and sway with the music.
Good luck and have fun!


Catie C.

by freeflyer759 on 5/25/2011 4:26:27 PM

 
 

Hey girlies if you need advice for anything im your gal. I promise you I will try respond. Thanks! Smile

by littlemissy226 on 5/25/2011 4:08:34 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD My and my crush and some of our other friends are going to an amusement park this summer. Got any cute ideas I can do with my crush at the park?

 

Hey Girly,
Check out this idea.


Hope this helps!


Catie C.

by shizzleQ on 5/25/2011 1:12:59 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD How do you ask a guy for his number? i knbow a guy at my church and i really like him but its so hard to get his number! any tips?

 

Hey chica. Before asking your guy for his number, try striking up multiple conversations with him. Once he sees that you guys have tons in common, he'll probably ask for your number too! Just don't rush into it cause that may scare him off. Take it slowly, let your friendship grow, and see where it leads you two. Good luck!

kara g.

by LissieLou on 5/25/2011 9:35:09 AM

 
 

Ok so you have soo many articles and stuff on how to texta guy and stuff. But how do you actually get their number in the first place. Do you just flat out ask them because that would be embarrasing!! Please help me!

by LOLLYPOPS... on 5/24/2011 11:52:43 PM

 
 

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by justadream11 on 5/24/2011 9:35:27 PM

 
 

I would never tell a guy I had a dream about him that would be WAY to uncomfortable!!!

by bella.lady44 on 5/24/2011 9:20:17 PM

 
 

haha. i've dreamed about my crush about 7 times in the past two months. and the creepy part? i usually never have dreams, i either cannot fall asleep or i'm to tired to.

by lyssie17 on 5/24/2011 8:37:24 PM

 
 

ummmm... I would NEVER say I had a dream about a guy *even if* I did....that will just make him unconfortable....and it's too heavy to be flirting.....

by Samocin97 on 5/24/2011 6:41:20 PM

 
 

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by melaniegrace<3 on 5/24/2011 5:21:47 PM

 
 

thanks so much, it totally does Smile hope u and all the other MODS are having a great day!! thanks for all u guys do for us here at GL!!!!

by mkroberts96 on 5/24/2011 4:54:23 PM

 
 

ok thankssss for the advice Smile one more question on the same topic. my bgf doesnt really want to break up with our friend and i dont think he ever would, just the person he is. in the mean time, theres another guy i like who im pretty good friends with and i have a guy friend who is close to him, so i think if i wanted to i could date the guy i like. i was wondering if i should wait around for my bgf to be single again and go for him (theres always a chance he doesnt like me or that it could take a really long time, but i deff like him wayyy more then this other guy) or go for the guy who is single that i sorta like??? im getting tired of being single (ive dated before) and im looking for someone with more experience, like my bgf has, but would dating this other guy or trying to help me be distracted from liking my bgf or just a bad idea in general???

 

Hey girlie! I definitely don't think you should date someone just because you're bored and waiting around for another "better" guy...that's not fair to either one of you. If you truly like him, that's another story! But you really shouldn't start being with this other guy just to stay distracted and because you're tired of being single. Hope this helps!

Katie B.

by mkroberts96 on 5/24/2011 4:48:53 PM

 
 

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im in love with my bgf, but he is dating a mutual friend or ours. they love each other and have been on and off a few times, and she uses him just to have a bf (she hasnt said it but evry1 says she does and knowing her, its extremely likely) and doesnt treat him very well sometimes. this is recently coming out and he is thinking a lot abt it and ppl r encouraging him to end the relationship. my bgf knows i like him and weve talked abt it, he didnt say he doesnt like me but at the time he was getting back with our mutual friend again. the prob is, ik he loves her but he always flirts with me, and very noticably too. like we were at a party with a photo booth and he told me so tht 4 of us could fit i should double up and sit on his lap, and he was acting as a bodyguard 4 me tht night (he offered) cuz of some other guy bothering me. even 2 teachers of ours have commented and said its obvoius he likes me and is flirting!! whats going on???

 

Hey girlie! It sounds like this guy does like you, but you def shouldn't make any moves until this other friend he likes is out of the picture. If you still like him when they break up (which it sounds like might happen soon) then you need to talk to him and figure out his feelings. Good luck!

Katie B.

by mkroberts96 on 5/24/2011 4:37:59 PM

 
 

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Ok, so hi!! Um so I need some advice. Me & my ex broke up like a year ago, but I think he still likes me cause he keeps staring at me & keeps talking about me, in a nice way. And he's a bit shorter than me though..so what should I do?? But I dont really know if I should go out with him again...

 

Hey girlie!! Only you know if you should go out with him again -- if you still have feelings for him and he treated you well the last time you went out then go for it! Good luck!

Katie B.

by iAwesome! on 5/24/2011 4:24:43 PM

 
 

mod!
i use deoderant every morning before school and when i have gym class but my armpits still get sweaty. why is this happening? thnks!

 

Hey girlie! This is completely normal -- sometimes deodorant can wear off after even a short period of time. Try keeping a spare deodorant in your gym locker so you can reapply right before you exercise!

Katie B.

by mrslautner2016 on 5/24/2011 4:03:52 PM

 
 

Cool I just got a phone...this will be handy! Yay!

by topchef88 on 5/24/2011 1:42:52 PM

 
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