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MOD! MOD! Ok, so me and my BGF (also who I like) have been amazing friends for a while. We can tell each other anything. But things get complicated between us. One night he texted me and asked if I wanted to go to a movie with him then on Thanksgiving, he asked me if I liked to which I told him yes, and he said he kinda likes me back. When I bring back up that situation, he gets all jumpy and aggravated. and he said a couple weeks ago, he may have a girlfriend soon. then he said he is getting me something from disney. i'm confused. please help. does he like me or are we just friends to him?

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by *MusicGirl16* on 11/19/2011 5:59:30 PM


Me and my bf always go hiking together, its fun and it makes you feel so close

by Lissie487 on 11/11/2011 4:44:47 PM


MOD MOD MOD so I met this guy a couple days ago in my school who i like. we went on a field trip and I hung out with him and some other people. we talked and he would come up to me an talk. he is so nice. I only have one class with him every other day. How can I hang out with him when we dont have class together. How can we get to know each other better. WHat can I say to him and how can I start a conversation???? thanks!

Just find similar interests and talk about those! once you get used to each other youll be able to talk about anything! Good luck! xoxo kerra 
Kerra S.

by rockerchick411 on 9/16/2011 5:23:50 PM


okay , i like this guy in a grade below me. I never talked to him , i just find him very attractive. but i have never talked to him before. sadly. I always see him in the halls, but i have no classes with him (obviously). he might like me back , because my friend Taylor said he looked at her , then looked at me and smiled at the football game. What do you think that means? And do you think i have a chance with him ? i know that he plays football, he is the QB (; but i told 3 people in my school that I like him. 2 out of the 3 were like "YOU GUYS WOULD BE PERFECT TOGETHER!!!!" and the other friend did completely the opposite. She was like "I'm gonna go and ask him out for you!" But anyways, do you think that he would like me? not to sound conceded or anything, but I kinda am pretty. and would he like me more just because Im a grade ahead of him? Help please D:

Try talking to him--even though you guys don't have class together, there could be many opportunities to talk that you are missing out on! When you see him in the hall, shoot him a smile or wave, gradually increase to asking how he is, etc. and take things from there Smile

Brittany G.  
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by LeahLoserr on 9/13/2011 9:48:56 PM


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by stardom96 on 8/31/2011 3:16:40 AM


My best friend met her boyfriend at a bowling ally when she dropped her bowling bowl on his foot. Nothing was broken. Nothing brings 2 people together like crushed toes!LOL

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by basketballcutie11 on 8/21/2011 9:29:03 PM


Mod mod!!!! Pls pls answer!! I know this sounds stupid but could u pls help! So I got my crushes number from my bff and texted him once ( he doesn't hav my number) and I sed " hey it's kat!" but he never responded and it's been like 5 hrs. Do u think I can txt him again without being annoying?


Hey chica, don't worry about any question sounding stupid! I'm here to help ya out! Smile He could be busy and hasn't had an opportunity to text you back yet. See what happens between tonight and tomorrow. Smile

Lynae P.

by Nmun2000 on 8/19/2011 8:55:03 PM


Continued from last comment. sorry told you it was gonna be long!

When I first walked up he was staring at me. The next day I walked past his tent and he looked out at me. I have a feeling he likes me but idk. My family found out because I cant lie and when asked I started smiling and laughing :/. Later on my brother told me that the boy I like burps and farts a lot :/ gross. Hes also 6"1 and 250 some pounds so hes kinda fat :/ ALSO hes a highschool football player (linebacker). I told my friend who at first told me to talk to him and she said to just forget about him because he "probably has lots of friends and a girlfriend" Frown I almost cried when she said that but she doesnt even know him. My brother and male cousin said the age difference is fine (about 3 and a half years). My dad pretty much said he is adult size and gross and I shouldnt like him but I cant help it!! SHould I talk to him? and do you think he likes me? What should I do MOD please help its tearing me up inside!

by xxxEmilyxxx<3 on 8/7/2011 7:17:55 PM


Help! My best friend knows this one boy who goes to our church (i know him too just not as well) and hes coming to our school this year. I'm so excited because hes so sweet and funny! I'm seeing this as a chance to finally get a BF! but theres two problems: all the guys end up liking my friend and idk how to grab his attention! Please help because more than once have i had my <3 broken cuz the guy i liked liked my friend. Help!!! Thanx

Hey girl, just be yourself around this guy. If he doesn't like you, know it's not your fault. It's hard when there are so many girls, and he's just following his own heart too.

Alyssa B.

by kknngg<3 on 7/27/2011 12:26:41 AM


How do you ask a guy to go hiking with you? He's actually my BGF, but I have a major crush on him, that he may or may not reciprocate, not entirely sure. I'm only planning on going with my parents, and I'd really like to have someone else to talk to lol. And do you have any tips on how to convince his parents to let us borrow him? They know me all right, and they like me, know I'm responsible, etc.

Hey girly,

Since he's your BGF, asking him shouldn't be too hard. Just tell him you'd like someone else there because you don't wanna be with your 'rents the whole time.  As for his parents, tell them it'll be a really fun activity and you'd love to have him there because he's one of your best friends. Good luck! x0x0 
Casey L.

by sarah655 on 7/20/2011 2:09:04 AM


MOD MOD MOD plz help me. i really like this guy and he likes me and we were gonna meet up and go skating or something, but when i asked if we could double with our other friends he said hed rather not. what does it say about me tht i would feel kind of awkward with jst the two of us?

It doesn't say anything, you were simply inquiring Smile

Brittany G. 
Brittany G.

by disneychik on 7/8/2011 10:31:23 PM


My BGF since the sixth grade just recently asked me out last week. Were both in ninth grade now & hes dated once before but i havent. i dont want to have to leave it all in his hands but i have no idea what to do. these ideas help but does anyone else have more advice? Our town doesnt have anything special to it so we wouldnt be able to go on about half of these dates. Thanks!!

by spazzychick14 on 6/30/2011 10:54:29 AM


I know this is sort of weird, but I used to have a crush on this guy I didn't know to well, and I looked on his Facebook page a lot...but we're not friends. You probably don't know, and I sound really stupid for asking, you know when people that aren't your friends look at your FB page? Don't laugh, I'm really paranoid! Thanks!

Hey girl, nope, you don't. And don't sweat it. Trust me, my friends and I would do that with guys we thought were cute from our school. They won't know. (;

Alyssa B.

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by Bootsie753 on 6/28/2011 2:14:38 PM


MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Hey girlie,

First off, be there for him to support him through the breakup. Don't rush him into anything just yet - you'll just end up being a rebound, which usually never lasts! But after some time has passed, start dropping hints that you like him. Flirting, teasing, compliments...they'll all help you give off the vibe that you're crushin'. Then see how he responds. If he seems interested and flirts back, that's a great sign!
Lauren C.

by cranberryfrost on 6/27/2011 9:48:45 PM


im going on my fi9rst ever date this weekend and i cannot wait! Me and the boy are going on a "double date" with my bff and another boy...The only prob is he isnt actually my boyfriend...Its just a date for the day. We are going to an amusment park and i cant wait! I have one problem though...i dont know what to wear...We are going to darien lake and i wanna look good for him. What should i waer and how could i flirt with him to make him my bf?

by alison99 on 6/23/2011 10:17:19 AM


My parents are separated. My mother doesnt like the idea of me dating, and my father says it absolutely not allowed. this guy i like likes me back, and i could really see us dating in the near future. I am worried though that we wont be able to spend enough one on one time together, because my mom wont let us unless we are in a group, and if my dad sees me hanging with him at school he could get suspicious. What are ways we can hang out or suggestions on how to fix my situation?

Hey girly!

     Even if you are seeing him in group situations, that's not the end of the world. Try just sitting next to him when you and your friends go out to eat to get some one-on-one time. I know it may seem hard, but you can def make group situations work by finding ways to get near him, like sharing a bumper car or suggesting a group study sesh where you two are paired together. You don't want to disobey your parents' rules though, so try sticking to group situations and you'll show your parents that you can be trusted with a boy. Hope that helps! x0x0 
casey l.

by k326 on 6/16/2011 1:21:37 AM


so ive been with my BF for a week and hes really sweet and funny and cute. we had our first kiss yesterday (my first ever, not his though) and it was adorableee and we spent like the whole day together before that and we are the type of couple who can sit in silence just with our arms around each other and not talk and just enjoy each other. its not akward at all. its the same way whenever we are in person or if we video chat together. but when we text its soooo akward, like we have nohting to talk about or if i have a convo going hell just give 1 word answers!! what can i do to get past this??


Hey Girlie! It sounds like you've got a keeper! Maybe he just doesn't like to text? You can casually ask him sometime, like, "hey, what's with the one word replies?" If this is the only flaw is his character, I wouldn't let it be a deal breaker. Good luck!

Jess W.

by mkroberts96 on 6/10/2011 3:28:38 PM


MOD MOD MOD All the guys in the town I live in are really akward. They never try to keep a conversation going, and I always have to keep talking. Guy friends AND boyfriends! So these date ideas are great, but I cantt use them on the guys here becuase everything would be akward! I really want to know what to do to get them out of their shell! How do I let a guy know that its ok to talk to me! Starting a conversation about it woul make it worse! HELP


Hey missy, when you talk to them try not to flirt. If you talk to them like you would a friend, or a girlfriend, they won't feel like they're under pressure, and will be more comfortable talking to you. See if this works and let me know. Smile

LYnae P.

by Lambert on 6/4/2011 4:12:50 PM


ok im really getting irritated with my boyfriend now because we're trying to plan that double date and he wont even tell his parents because he said it would be awkward. at this point i dont even really care if he goes or not. i'll go anyway. he seems different than i thought. just by texting him, he seems...idk...just different. idk what to do...what do you think? cuz like sometimes i really like him but now its just!!! thanks Laughing

Hey girl, I wouldn't judge your BF too much from a text message. It can be very hard to get your guy's real tone from a text message or written words. I'd call him and see what's up. Ask him why it's awkward and hear him out -- he may have a good reason. If things are a little too heated tonight, talk to him about it tomorrow and give him some space. He may just be stressed and chances are super bummed he can't go too. I don't think he's doing this to upset you.

Alyssa B.

by nobody25 on 6/2/2011 10:47:04 PM


ok me my friend her boyfriend and my boyfriend are going on a double date and we dont know what to do. its gonna be during the week. we were thinking either skating or bowling. any ideas??? thank you!!!!!!!!!! (no links pretty please?) Laughing

Hey girl, I'd definitely go bowling, but both sound like great bets! You guys could also have a picnic in the park and just spend the day there too if you'd like a free option. Maybe have a doubles tennis tournament!

Alyssa B.

by nobody25 on 6/2/2011 10:05:16 PM


ok im 12 so i cant drive and its summer and i really want to see my boyfriend. what should i do? thanks Smile

Hey girlie! Your parents would probably be cool with driving you to hang out with him every now and then if you got together with a group of your mutual friends instead of just the two of you. 

Rhea R.

by nobody25 on 5/31/2011 3:28:32 PM


This guy asked me out, and I keep saying maybe. I thought I could tell him this summer that we could hang out, get to know each other better,and maybe start dating. I told my mom that he asked me out, and she said, did you say no because you couldn't date? I haven't said no. and I want to say yes. I'm 12, so it's not that big of a deal, and she was only 13, and I'm responsible and he's nice too. How can I get her to let me date, and I can't talk to her face to face. I already tried, and I couldn't do it. Help!!

Hey babe,

Read this article about parents not letting you date. It's totally your situation - I think it might help! <3 
Lauren C.

by DUCKYSHORTS on 5/30/2011 9:54:22 PM


this is for fun, but

1. Say your name 10 times.
2. Say your mom's name 5 times.
3. Say your crush's name 3 times.
4. Paste this to 4 other quizzes. If you do this, your crush will kiss you on the nearest Friday, but if you read this and do not paste this, then you will have very bad luck! SEND THIS TO 5 QUIZZES IN 143 MINUTES. WHEN YOU'RE DONE PRESS F6 AND YOUR CRUSH'S NAME WILL APPEAR IN BIG LETTERS ON THE SCREEN. THIS IS SO FREAKY BECAUSE IT ACTUALLY WORKS

by mookie98 on 5/30/2011 8:23:11 AM


**MOD** im going out to Massachusetts this summer to stay with my uncle and aunt, my "cousin" who isnt really my cousin but we call him that, who is the same age as me, is going to be out there with me too. we're both fourteen and we need stuff we can do while we're there. what should i search for? we can go anywhere and do anything we want and i want to do something thats fun but that we'll both enjoy, my cousin who is 6 will be with us during the day too so maybe some kid friendly stuff tooo? im so bad at vacation planninggg and my uncle left it all to me and my "cousin"



Hey chica! I'd research the area that you'll be staying in... the city and surrounding areas... online. Typically, each city has a tourism  bureau or site where you can find lots of fun things to do!


Becca G.

by zxander417 on 5/29/2011 11:15:31 PM


Okay, so this guy I like told me he liked me last month and we've been flirting and texting and that kind of stuff, Yesterday school ended and that means we might not see eachother again because next year we start High school and we are going to two different high schools. Well he told me we should hang out this summer and I asked him what we should do, and he told me. I asked him if he was still single and he said "Yes I am, I just dont want a girlfriend" To me it doesnt make any sense because he likes me and everything (or so he says) but He doesn't want to go out with me. What should I do? I have no idea why he tells me he likes me and then tells me he doesnt want a girlfriend.I also dont feel like I am good enough for him because his family has money, and I'm what you would call middle class.

Hey girlie,

I know the label is important to a lot of us (being someone's girlfriend or being in a relationship), but you like him because of him, right? If he's offering to hang out and chat over the summer, try it out! That means that, even with your money differences and his preference not to have a GF, he still wants to get to know you better and be around you. Try to appreciate that and just see how it goes. If you really want to be more than friends after a little while, bring it up again. Obviously if he's really against it and you NEED that label, it isn't gonna work out. But don't give up the chance to have an awesome summer with him before you even give it a shot Smile
Lauren C.

by lettybaby.23 on 5/28/2011 10:55:55 PM


Hey MOD,
So like two days ago a guy friend kissed me, and now we're dating. I really really like him, but I'm not sure if I'm okay with kissing him. It was my first kiss, and it was nice, but I didn't know what to do, and it was a little awk. Im seeing him tonight, should I try kissing him again? Thanks!

Hey girlie -- never do anything you're uncomfortable with. Nonetheless, if you want to kiss him again, give this article a look:

Brittany G. 
Brittany G.

by misfitsfreaks on 5/28/2011 8:30:43 AM


Hey MOD my bf and I are really close, we've been friends for a long time and I talked to him a lot when we were just friends but now that we're bf/gf we don't really talk much, I usually just talk with my eyes by looking him in the eyes. I want to be able to carry on a conversation with him though, and the only bad this is that we don't have in common is that he knows a lot about sports and I don't. Please help me carry on a conversation with him besides " hey wat's up" and I say " nuthin much what about you? "

hey! talk about your day, the things you did, what made you laugh, something interesting you learned. those are the foundations of relationship conversations Smile 
Helen S.

by wenhua9 on 5/27/2011 8:23:29 PM


I really like my BGF, and he knows it. He used to have a GF but now I'm almost positive he doesn't (cuz he went to prom with another girl as friends and was trying to decide if he wanted to date her, but decided he didn't want to.) So we were texting back and forth for more than an hour one day and finally I'm just like, "You know we should hang out over the summer sometime it would be fun! Like go bike riding or go to the arcade or something like that." And he texts back saying "yea sounds cool." What I'm not clear about is if he considers this a date? That's kinda what it seems like in my mind. And also, if he likes me back, why do I always have to start the convo? I mean once we get started he seems to want to talk to me, but I'm always the one that starts things off. Please help, I'm confused!

hey! if you want it to be a date be clear about that because guys are confusing that way.If you're always starting the convo then he might see you just as pals. guy usually make more of an effort if they're actively pursuing you. 
Helen S.

by Ruffian10 on 5/27/2011 5:32:50 PM


Ok so I really like my boyfriend...Whenever we hug, I feel warm and safe and happy. But idk if I'm ready to kiss him yet. Is that ok? Also, since I've kissed another boy before, I feel like I owe it to my!!

Hey, Girl! Sorry for the “stock” message. We’re psyched you’re here but since this is a super busy time, mods aren’t able to answer personal advice or contest questions. We’re approving your comments now so the girls can start offering feedback right away! If you still have questions, please come back, we’re happy to help…or just let the other chicas answer now! (They give awesome advice, trust us!) Love and thanks! ♥, Your Blog Patrol Babes 
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by Getfitwithme on 5/26/2011 9:36:55 AM


Today my crush's and my mutual friend came up to me and told me that my crush would date me!!! Do you think he likes me or would just rather date me than any other the other girls in our grade???


Hey chica! That sounds totally awesome! I would take the opportunity to say thanks and of course! 

Chelsea B.

by gracerules617 on 5/26/2011 1:02:24 AM


I like this guy and there's a dance coming up. I want to ask him but I don't know if he likes me. I don't know what to do! Please help!

Hey girlie. Ask him if he has a date. If he says no, ask him to go with you. The worst that can happen is he says no. Good luck! 
Marly Z.

by milkyway7117 on 5/25/2011 8:12:54 PM


My best guy friend (and ex-bf) just put down his beloved dog today. She was really sick, and I know she's not hurting anymore. However, I feel so bad for him. He's really upset, and I have no clue what to do. I wanna send him a text, but what would it say? I also don't wanna sound super clingy. Please help! Thank you in advance. Smile

Hey girlie. You could just say something like "I'm so sorry to hear about your dog. I'm here if you need to talk." Something short and simple like that should be a good thing to say.  
Marly Z.

by mckenna1234 on 5/25/2011 7:03:55 PM


Would you risk ruining your friendship with your bgf by telling him you like him? I dont know what to do i dont want to ruin our friendship, but i dont want to miss out on a potential relationship with him. If you were to tell him-how would you? thanks a lot!!!

Hey girlie. If you like him, I think you should tell him. You're right. You don't want to miss out on a potential relationship. Just be up front and tell him that you like him more than a friend. Good luck. 
Marly Z.

by sgn_dancer on 5/25/2011 6:59:28 PM


MOD MOD MOD!!!!! So yesterday this guy I like told me he likes me!! And since I didn't read that he had put that in my yearbook till after I walked away I texted him later basically saying that I like him back. So now we both know that we like each other and today in class he seemed a lot more happy and confident but he still hasn't asked me out!! I've never had a boyfriend and I know he hasn't ever had a girlfriend soo this is all new!! Do you think he might ask me out soon???

Hey girlie. Probably! Hint to him that you want him to!  
Marly Z.

by kath on 5/25/2011 6:54:31 PM


my boyfriend of over a year invited me to go to his grandmas house tonight for his grandmas birthday ik it sounds great but im so nervous ive met his grandparents briefly but i still wanna leave a good impression im so nervous of wat they will think of me do u have any advice how to calm down

Hey girlie. Be yourself! Seriously. Just go and talk with them like you would with your family. You will be fine!  
Marly Z.

by luv2run on 5/25/2011 6:23:40 PM


MOD!!! I used to date this guy, but then he started being very innapropriate and he started threatening me. So I broke up with him. But now my bestfriend is saying she is in love with him, and is always talking about him when im around. Ive told her that it makes me feel uncomfortable, but she wont listen. How can i deal with it without losing my best friend?

Hey girlie. Have you told her what happened between you and him? Sometimes girls have to experience things for themselves and can't take other people's word for it. Try to give her time and talk with her about it more. Good luck. 
Marly Z.

by 19gracie97 on 5/25/2011 5:32:45 PM


Coolio Smile I'll totes tell my bf about these ideas Laughing! And join my stop the bullys club and words do hurt club...OR if you need help join my advice queen thing! Or ask a question on my profile! Don't be shy!!! Laughing~JellybeanxD

by jellybeanxD on 5/25/2011 5:21:16 PM


MOD MOD MOD! So my crush just asked me out my mum said i am too young for a BF but that we can go on a date. He is totally fine with that, but we haven't really moved forward from there. since he asked me out should he be the one to make a move on going on a date? i know he still likes me, cuz last night me and a bunch of my friends went to watch a movie at a friends house, he was there and we sat next to each other. he inched his hand closer, and before a knew it we were holding hands! him and my mums both saw when they came to pick us up, and now my whole fam is teasing me, gotta love fam! but if you can please help! thank you

Hey girly,

If he hasn't made the move yet, he probably is a little bit shy. There's nothing wrong with sending a text saying something like, oh there's this movie that I would really like to check out. Give him a hint as to what you want to do. If he doesn't take it, then there is nothing wrong with saying, would you like to see it with me? He might really appreciate your being so upfront.
Good Luck!

Catie C.

by stormysea on 5/25/2011 3:30:22 PM


MOD MOD MOD! I was planning on working out everyday this summer,I wanted to lose 20 pounds by August 5. But I will have a fever and a cough for atleast another week,what should I do?

Hey girly,

Sorry to hear about the fever. My best advice is to take a break and rest. This will help you get better faster and ready to get back to the gym. Don't try to rush it. Working out when you're sick could make it worse.
Good Luck!

Catie C.

by MadMaddie911 on 5/25/2011 2:23:16 PM


MOD! so i like this one guy , but he's three years older than me . and he said that we shud go to the movies . but my mom totally wouldn't go for it with out some friendss . how can i change her mind . i'm thirteen and this totally seems impossible . thanks so much!


Hey girly,

The best advice I have is to just be mature about it and have a plan. Think about the different reasons that she might have a problem and come up with some solid answers to those problems that will make her feel more comfortable with letting you go on this date alone. Also be willing to compromise. Maybe some friends can come, but who says that they have to be sitting in the same row as you?
Good Luck!


Catie C.

by farmer's daughter(: on 5/25/2011 1:33:13 PM


These are so cute! What nice ideas! When I find the courage to talk to my crush, I will totally suggest one of these ideas!!

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