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Is there a way to flirt without being obvious?

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MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
help I got a crush on this boy that lives 3 houses away from me and goes to my school and im to shy to tlk to him and his friend told me tht he liked me and I don't kno wat to do


Hey girl! Just try saying hi one day! Smile big and ask him how his weekend was. Try to start up little conversations every day and see what happens.


Taeler L.

by shyfamimi21 on 8/3/2013 2:04:57 AM


So I kind of have a love triangle going on. I like this guy that likes my friend. She had me tell him she didn't like him and he was really understanding. She said I should try to get him to like me back. I was talking with him for a while and he was finally starting to like me. I told my friend that, and for some reason she was jealous. She told him she might like him after that, and now he's starting to go back to her... But she doesn't even like him. She told me she only likes the idea of him liking her, but she gets annoyed by him really easily. I don't want to be mad at my friend, but I just don't know what to do... Help? Thanks.


Hey cukoclook, no it's understandable why you're a little annoyed. I understand where your friend is coming from too. Some people like the attention others give them, even if they don't like the person. Maybe your friend is a little insecure, and only feels good about herself if someone is constantly chasing her or complimenting her. Though it will be difficult, I would leave this guy alone and try to get to know other boys. Are there any other cuties in your grade? Xoxo Smile 


Lynae P.

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by Beauty134ever on 6/1/2013 12:55:54 AM


I do not know how to flirt. Can you please help?

by mkwilli on 5/30/2013 6:59:09 PM


Theres this guy I really like and I think he likes me too because I catch him staring at me a lot. We also hang out and talk during school. Problem is, hes really quiet and shy. What's the best way to flirt with him?


Hey babe- this is super exciting! You should try to flirt with him in private as much as possible because he is the shy type.  If you flirt infront of your friends or his he may feel pressure and extra shy then.  Just go up to him and talk to him, compliment him, make him laugh... you know.   

Elizabeth K.

by Macaw4eva on 5/27/2013 12:16:09 AM


Thank you so much Lynae! Smile Now to find a time when he's not with his friends... o_O

by SmileyFace_98 on 5/25/2013 5:28:22 PM


Okay theres this guy and he told me that he has liked me for 2 years. Then he took me to the movies and was okay with me not kissing him. For a couple of months, he kept trying to kiss me. He knew that it would be my first kiss. A couple of weeks ago, it was an early out and we were in TA and he wrote on my hand 'I love you' and he said that well he has liked me for awhile. Then he always wants hugs and stuff but I heard from one of my friends that he has made out with his ex. Then him and his ex are always talking. And he still always wants to text me and get hugs from me. Then today I saw him holding hands with his ex and he still smiled at me today and texted me and wanted a hug. I'm confused!! Help!

Hey girlie,

If you two aren't dating, there's not really a rule to keep him from flirting with or holding hands with other people. If you like him back, maybe it's time to talk to him about being in a relationship officially and whether or not it will be exclusive! If you're not ready to commit to a relationship, though, you can't really stop him from flirting with other girls, so it's up to you what relationship you want to have with him.

Meghan D.

by oceansunset on 5/24/2013 10:03:27 PM


MOD MOD MOD Help please!!!
So I have a crush on this guy in my grade, but I don't know him very well. We only had one class together this year, and the only time we got to properly talk was when we are waiting for our parents to pick us up from school for a few minutes. I'm trying to get to know him as a friend first, but it's really hard, especially since the next (and probably last time I'll probably get to see and talk to him before summer vacation is on our final on Wednesday. I want to get his number so we can keep in touch over the summer, so is there a way I can ask him for it without making it obvious/ awkward? I read the article on the clever ways to get your crush's number, but since we don't have proper classes anymore they don't apply to me. Please help! Sorry this is so long!


Hey SmileyFace_98, mhmm do you guys have any friends in common? Give a friend your number to give to him. Or think of all the times you see him. Is it when you're going home after school? in the morning? Take the opportunities then to make a move. Hope this helps! Xoxo Smile

Lynae P.

by SmileyFace_98 on 5/24/2013 7:45:55 PM


So there's a boy at my school, and we've been friends and classmates for ten years, because it's a private school. It's now our last year together, and then we're going to different high schools. When I was in kindergarten I liked him, but that was it. But now I realize, I really like him. And from the way he's been acting around me, he likes me too. I only have four school days left, and he gave me his number but I don't have a cell phoneFrown and I'm 14...should I tell him I like him? How should I stay in contact with him? He said he wants us to stay in touch, and I really want to...


Hey alexia_directioner<3, maybe you could write him a letter explaining your feelings. Sometimes things written are better because the person can always read it whenever they want and keep it with them forever. Do you have a house phone? If yes, call him on that. Have a Facebook, Twitter or Instagram? Add him as a friend on those too. Are your high schools far apart? You could always visit him after school if they are close together. Hope this helps! Xoxo Smile 

Lynae P.

by alexia_directioner<3 on 5/24/2013 5:43:20 PM


I have a problem. Ok, so there's this guy that I've been really close friends with for a long time..and had a crush on. We are close family friends and he is such a nice guy..in person. The problem is he's started getting really mean online. He's said multiple racist things on Facebook and Twitter and even got into trouble with the school for something he said about a kid at my school's ethnicity. I've known him and his family so well and for so long that I'm in shock that he's appearing to be racist/prejudiced. I don't know what to do about it...I feel really betrayed and confused.
Thanks for any advice


Hey babe! What he is saying online and at school, is def not OK. I understand why you'd be upset about it because you're so close with him. I am sure his parents know about his behavior because he got in trouble with the school, so it is likely that they are trying to get him to stop. If you're comfortable, you could try saying something to him. You could let him know in a nice way that what he is doing is not cool/OK. It might help to hear it from a peer! Best of luck! xx

Caroline M.

by maggie183 on 5/23/2013 3:33:37 PM


My Q is, do y'all know of any summer dates for a VERY outdoorsy girl and her BF? Also, how can a couple who's been together for almost 9 months keep in touch over summer, with the girl having dance recitals and camping trips? Another Q... what do you do when a girls BF is getting slightly agitated with a 9th grader that's obviously flirting with her? He's gotten so mad before, that he left the lunch table.
One final Q... what should a girl wear on a summertime date? Sorry this is so long!


Hey girlie! Whew! OK, 1) Go for a hike or camping! Or garden, that would be fun. 2) Letters, emails, phone! Every communication medium you can think of! Distance makes the heart grow fonder, after all. 3) I'm not sure who you are in the situation, but these things usually work themselves out. Eventually the BF will get fed up and explain to the 9th grader to stay away. 4) Sundress! Or whatever you normally wear. Be yourself! xx 

Hannah M

by KenzieC84 on 5/23/2013 7:59:31 AM


We only have about nine and a half days left of school, should i tell my crush i like him or should i wait??? Also my friend wants to ask him with a note but i am scared that he will read it in front of everyone, and i dont know his cell number or if he even has one for that matter, what should i do???

by hottie1250 on 5/22/2013 9:45:50 PM


I wish I werent so obvious. The funniest thing about flirting is that our friends know best when we are flirting and when we arent. We let each other know when we are seeming desperate or being to forward with a guy, but there are times when we just let each other flirt until the end.

The worst is with a hot guy you just met or an older guy when you cant help yourself.

by fashionqn on 5/22/2013 8:59:21 PM


How do I flirt without leading someone on?


Hey girlie! You should only flirt with someone if you're interested, that way your won't be leading the person on. xx 

Caroline M.

by ilove_nerds143 on 5/22/2013 3:58:12 PM


Does it mean a guy and girl are dating when a girl is pulling a guy by the hand? Because I like this guy and he has a lot of friends that are girls, but when he was talking to her I think I saw him look up at me and kind of paused, because whenever I see my crush I usually pause in mid sentence. SO should I just back off unless he comes up to me or what should I do?


Hey, sweetie! They might be dating, but they also might not. Her pulling him by the hand doesn't mean their dating, they could just be good friends. You could try talking to him if you're very curious or you could wait for him to approach you! xx

Caroline M.

by HockeyLuver on 5/22/2013 3:54:20 PM


So this guy that I have a crush on is making it obivous that he likes me. But alot of the other girls in my class like him, including one of my bestfriends! At a camping trip last weekend the girls in my class and me were playing truth or dare and I asked her If she had to kiss one of the guys in my class who would it be, thinking she would pick the last guy she dated. I didn't want to make it awkward so when she asked me I lied. Im pretty sure this guy will ask me out sometime soon and I dont want to hurt her but I REALLY like him. WHat should I do?

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by basketballcutie11 on 8/22/2011 8:30:31 AM


mod mod
k so me and by best guy friend really like eachother i mean we both like eachother alot how can we take it to the next level(DATING)

Hey girlie,

Since you both already know you like each other, the next step is as simple as speaking up - ask him to hang out one-on-one at the movies or bowling, a "typical" date spot. Keep doing that and see how it goes! Over a lil bit of time, you'll definitely have that dating convo soon.
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by mickyabc on 7/25/2011 10:57:17 PM


Can anyone give me advice on a boy.... So this guy is my older brothers friend and I really like him, but I'm not sure if he likes me. Is there any hints that a guy gives to tell you that he likes you? Thanks! Smile

by aaugurl35 on 7/18/2011 7:50:08 AM


MOD MOD MOD OK. I don't know why but for some reason lately i have been having weird dreams of my guy friends asking me out or kissing me and situations like that, but I don't like them like that. What does this mean? Is my mind trying to tell me something or what? Please help.



Hey chica! Sometimes, dreams don't mean anything more than you've been spending a lot of time with these guys, and so your brain is still thinking about them, subconsciously, at the end of the night. I wouldn't read too, too much into it Smile


Becca G.

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by <3luvlife<3 on 7/13/2011 7:32:10 PM


Dear Carol, I like this boy and we've datd before but only for 3 days he broke up with me on my B-day and it was the last day of school i see him almost everyday now and he even told me sorry and it's obvious he still likes me and i still like him but i don't want my heart broken again should i go back out with him?

by lolmindless on 7/6/2011 5:12:34 PM


Hey girlies I need some helppp!!!! So there's this guy I've like literally for 8 years I've always been friEnds with him but never like bgf close and a few weeks befOre school let out he found out Iike him. He was really sweet aabiut it and didn't want me to know he knew bcuz he didn't want me to be upset or embarrassed. But he never said he liked me back but he did tell my friend he likes talking to me bcuz I can make him laugh and I'm nice So here I am absolullty lovestruck and I'm too chicken to talk to him he never responds to texts but he will talk on facebook what's sOmething I can say just to talk but nit seem like random or cheesy. I wanna seem like I actually wanna talk what's something good to say?????

by D00dleg4l18 on 7/3/2011 11:51:39 PM


So on the last day of school I asked my crush if he liked someone and he said he did, so then I asked if that someone was me, and then he said no, and I felt stupid (because I realized I sounded too serious when I asked) so then I wrote a note saying "oh cuz I like u" and I left it inside his desk. An hour after I left it there he saw it and showed this girl who absolutely HATES me (idk why) and she started laughing, and then my BFF overheard him joking to his friends about the note. So now its summer and a guy friend invited me to his party, and he also invited my crush. What do I do????? I am so confused! Should I avoid him or make him jealous? SOO SORRY THIS WAS SOO LONG!

You should go and keep your head up--don't give him a second thought, which means no "making him jealous" Smile

Brittany G. 
Brittany G.

by Live.love.swim on 7/1/2011 9:55:34 PM


Is rubbing each others shoulders a way of flirting because (this guy who isnt my bf), its when we see each other we have rubbed each others shoulders, but we have only done it in a friendly way not in a way to give the wrong idea. Maybe we are being to touchy with each other, but it feels good when we do it?

any sort of breaking of the touch barrier can be seen as flirty. just make sure you're clear about where you two stand and it should be fine though Smile

Helen S.

by luckykel on 6/29/2011 6:00:44 PM


MOD, my first question is, if im 13 and the guy im crushin on is 16, is that not "ok"? anyway, hes a lifeguard and every once in a while i look over and hes looking at me, or when im playin with the kids im babysitting or just hangin out he kina like "circles" around me or pulls up a chair and sits right infront of me. then there was this party type thing for the members and i went, while we were by the pool i was cleaning my lil sisters mess on the table and one of the guys shouted "hey "so-n-so likes you!" I was the only older girl around. am i making this up in my head or could this be 4real? and im not the best flirter. the last time someone flirted with me i gave him a thumbs up :/ LOL, thanks!

Hey girl, 1) no, it's totally fine to like a guy who's older. It's like celeb crushes. You can admire him, but you just aren't likely to get together because of the age gap. 2) I think you're right to be hesitant here. I would definitely play it by ear and see how the guy acts. Again, he's a little old, which means his interests are likely elsewhere/he sees you as a friend, so I would wait to see him prove otherwise.

Alyssa B.

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by Bootsie753 on 6/28/2011 2:16:01 PM


Mod Mod Mod There's this guy i really like and i think he likes me too but hes been leading me on for a while. Like he asks me to slowdance with him at every dance, says im really pretty, and i catch him staring at me a lot. He's really popular though and im not that popular. I get really nervous around him and im afraid he thinks i dont like him because i dont talk that much around him. What should i do?



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mary h.

by crzyk42996 on 6/28/2011 10:53:49 AM


mod mod mod. is there a way to find out if a guy is using you or actually likes you? thanks !




mary h.

by annie r on 6/28/2011 10:01:21 AM


MOD! MOD MOD!!!!! Thank you so much for b4!
OK for a while now everyone has told me the all star and the most liked guy in my class likes me, like i told him my friend was texting him but it was actually me and when i said it was actually me he started talking to me! last year and on the last days of school he always talked and flirted with me he gave me a hug on the last day of school he also always tells other people to leave me alone and stands up for me if they are being mean to me and all of that good stuff, and i'll see him at my ex's party too!!! omg im so confused, do he like me too or is he sorta looking out for me cuz he's my BGF? help please! sorry for another question!

It definitely sounds like he might like you! It's tough to tell since he's your best guy friend and these could just be protective/friendly gestures, but flirting with you and chatting a lot is a good sign. What happens when you flirt back? Try doing that - flirt, tease him, playfully touch him while you're talking, etc. If he seems comfortable with it and responds in a good way, he definitely could be into you! (And don't be sorry for another question - that's what we're here for! <3) 
Lauren C.

by luvshorty5 on 6/27/2011 9:04:29 PM


So this thursday im going to my ex's bday party, he's been texting me and told me im really funny so im nervous on how awkward it will be especially my sorta kinda friend is his new gf but he doesnt really like her that much anymore! he's been confiding some secrets to me, and he said he doesnt really text his gf anymore and he texts me all of the time! do you think he likes me? Help please!

Hey girl,

It sounds like he might be bouncing back to those old feelings he had when you were together - you're probably a nice, familiar person to come back to since his GF didn't really work out. But as of now, they're still together, so try to keep things strictly on a friends level! At the party, wish him a happy birthday and spend some time with him, but try to also chat with other people and spend time in other groups as well. It's great to be there for him to support him, talk to him, and laugh together, but you also wanna make sure he's flirting/crushing for the right reasons before you get too involved!
Lauren C.

by luvshorty5 on 6/27/2011 8:51:35 PM


MOD Smile
There is this guy that I like, and he used to like me BIG TIME. He never asked me out or anything, but that was like a year ago. Now its like he doesn't even notice me! He used to flirt with me and all of my friends and family would always tell me he liked me A LOT. I'ts so confusing HELP!

Hey girlie,

Since it's been nearly a year since he definitely liked you before, a lot of things could've happened. He could've been waiting to pick up a vibe from you that you liked him back; he could've been waiting to work up the nerve to ask you out (and never did); he could've just had a change of heart and the crush cooled down; he could like someone else. I can't figure out which of these it is though since I don't know him personally! If you still like him though, try starting convos yourself instead of waiting for him to do it. Flirt with him and try to make it a little more obvious that you like him. If he seems into it and starts talking to you again, that's a good sign. But if he doesn't seem too interested, he's probably moved on <3 
Lauren C.

by Rosalie1996 on 6/27/2011 6:09:56 PM


Ok, so there's tis guy I may like and I think he used to like me. The problem is, I was questioning my sexuality for a few months, and came out to most of my grade as gay. I know think I may be straight or bi, but I'm not sure. I don't think this guy likes me in that way anymore, because he thought/knew I was gay. After telling him that I don't think I am fully gay, what should I do???

Hey babe! A lot of girls question their sexuality during their youth. If you're still questioning it's probably not something you'll be sure of until later in life. If you still like this guy then you're probably not a lesbian. If you're attracted to both girls and guys then you may be bisexual. You can always be honest with this guy and tell him that you're not sure what your sexual orientation is yet, but you're sure you like him and find him attractive. He should understand, if he doesn't then are you sure he's worth your time? xoxo 
Jess W.

by pamina9 on 6/27/2011 11:12:18 AM


Ok, so there's this guy I sorta like, and I think he used to like me. The problem is, I was questioning my sexuality awhile back, and came out to most of my grade as gay, but I may actually be bi or straight. I don't think he would like me, because he thought of me as gay and sort of one of he guys. Any suggestions on what to do?

Hey babe! A lot of girls question their sexuality during their youth. If you're still questioning it's probably not something you'll be sure of until later in life. If you still like this guy then you're probably not a lesbian. If you're attracted to both girls and guys then you may be bisexual. You can always be honest with this guy and tell him that you're not sure what your sexual orientation is yet, but you're sure you like him and find him attractive. He should understand, if he doesn't then are you sure he's worth your time? xoxo
Jess W.

by pamina9 on 6/27/2011 11:07:56 AM


i have a crush on a celeb big time but the problem is that i am falling for him so hard that i can't get him out of my head and the worst part is i had dream about him and i think i have become a super crazy pyshco because i keep on looking for ways to contact him or meet him .

by victoriangels on 6/26/2011 4:48:48 PM


MOD MOD So I finally met a really great guy and he is so sweet to me, and I love being around him. The only problem? He lives an hour away! We met at camp, and from what little I told my friends, they all say he really liked me. He told me to keep in touch, but when we text, the fireworks are not there and it doesnt seem like he wants to talk as much. What can I do?? I still like him too!



Hey chica! Maybe, you could try to meet up sometime halfway. I'm sure he liked you at camp, but the distance is probably getting in the way. Out of sight, out of mind, right? Maybe, you could Skype with him so that you can see each other Smile


Becca G.

by Surfergurl97 on 6/25/2011 9:58:36 PM


MOD MOD MOD~ So, I was at a party the other day and I awas flirting with my best guy friend.I would like put my arms around his neck(from the back).lol. But like the first time i did it he held on to my arms,and i really liked it.. But i did it again & he didnt do anything. I can never really think how to flirt.. And i dont wany to flirt the same way ever other girl does.(like touch his arm,or talk to him &just like that) . 1. Is there any ways i can flirt without it being the normal flirting? 2. How do i get him to kiss me, Cause we both kinda wanna kiss each other.? THANK YOU ALOT! XOXO



Hey girly girl! Since you both want to kiss, I'd tell him that you like him! And then, maybe invite him to hang by yourselves sometime... maybe at the movies or somewhere else fun. He's more likely to kiss you when you're alone Smile


Becca G.

by ikechick98 on 6/25/2011 8:30:31 PM


jackieluvz, dairy can cause acne and cellulite for some people, so it may be not such a bad thing to avoid. Make sure you are taking some calcium supplement and try almond milk. It's delicious and has more calcium than milk. May sound gross, but try the vanilla and chocolate flavors. My very picky friend LOVED it and made her mom go buy it at the grocery storeSmile Also try eating more broccoli and other fruits and veggies, which have a good amount of calcium.

by bluheelerz08 on 6/25/2011 8:14:47 PM


Thanks Becca Smile

by Im.Unique.YAY! on 6/25/2011 5:59:35 PM


mod! Do you think not eating dairy is healthy?



Hey girly! Some people get sick from dairy, so they can't eat it. However, dairy provides calcium, which in turn makes your bones strong. So, even if you don't eat dairy, you should take some kind of calcium pill or suppliment.


Becca G.

by jackieluvz on 6/25/2011 5:44:10 PM


Thanks Becca Smile Also my friend is telling everyone i like a certain guy but i really dont. And everyone believes it. I think the guy might too and i dont really know him. How do i set everyone straight without making it a big deal. i've kinda been trying to ignore it but whenever he goes online on fb my friend goes and writes,' shes here, she loves you' and its so annoying. She says dont worry he's ugly, ur pretty he wont believe it, but he might. thanks again.



No problem, chica! I'd definitely have a talk with your friend and let her know that it's really uncool, and unfriendlike that she'd doing that! Let her know how embarrassing it is, and how much  it's bothering you. Also, that it's pretty mean to get this guy's hopes up. And, I'd also have a talk with the guy and let him know that while you're sure he's a great guy, you don't even know him well enough to like him. Just laugh it off with everyone else, and try not to show that you're too upset about it. Just be honest with then, and let them know that you don't even know him.


Becca G.

by Im.Unique.YAY! on 6/25/2011 5:42:37 PM


MOD!! I have several friends that are guys/girls and we hang out all the time but sometimes we just sit around and talk and they usually talk about who they like or liked and who they've kissed or dated and its awkward for me cuz I've never kissed or dated anyone. were all 14/13 and they've all had several relationships already. so i dont know what to say when they ask me questions about who I've dated... so what should i say or dooo Thanks mod!! Smile



Hey chica! I'd be honest with them, but make a joke out of it. Maybe say that you haven't met any guys that have been worth dating yet! They're your friends, so they should know that you aren't dating anyone, anyway Smile


Becca G.

by Im.Unique.YAY! on 6/25/2011 5:01:37 PM


MOD !!!!!! How come my questions never get answeredd, like i know u guys can get busy but my comments are never posted. sooorry if i sound like im complaining Frown but if this gets posted then i'll post my question again and would u answer it? thank you Smile



Hey girly! From the looks of it, we were pretty short-handed over here this morning. However, I'll be moderating until 1 a.m., so I'll answer whatever you post, between now and then, I promise Smile


Becca G.

by Im.Unique.YAY! on 6/25/2011 4:47:12 PM


Thanks! That's some pretty good ideas Smile

by samigurl on 6/25/2011 3:14:07 PM


modmodmod i just got my period again during my dance recital so my mom had to help me use tampons. the only thing is that they were uncomfortable. is that supposed to happen? and do you have any tips for using them?


Really, if you get it in right, it shouldn't be uncomfortable.  The best thing you can do is just practice to get more used to them.  Give yourself some time to do so during your next period.  This article also has some helpful tips and a how-to:   

http://www.girlslife.com/post/2009/06/23/007-Period-Advice.aspx xoxo

Marie H.

by freeflyer759 on 6/25/2011 5:50:17 AM


modmodmod k so over this school year i got to know this one guy. for a while he was dating someone else, so we were just friends, but when he broke up with her, i started flirting more. and so did he. he would wear my sweatshirts and play with my hair, and one time i was standing next to him and he just took my hand in his and held it like that for a while! but he never asked me out or anything. I just can't help but think that he liked me too. so do you think he's worth it? because in other classes he sort of ignores me. also, he signed my yearbook with a "love [his name]" and then he put his phone number! the only catch is that i dont have a phone so i can't get in contact with him. Thats my second question. is there a way to txt someone without a phone?

Hey chica!  It definitely sounds to me he likes you!  I'm not sure why he hasn't said so (perhaps he's shy!) but saying "love" and including his number is a big deal.  The next step is to get in contact with him.  I'm not completely sure how it works, but I know you can use Skype to call someone (it does cost a bit, though).  It's not texting, but it's something!  There are sites that say they can allow you to text without a phone, but I haven't used them before, so I don't know if they're legit.  If you're interested, ask an adult to help you check them out.  Good luck!! xoxo
Marie H.

by freeflyer759 on 6/25/2011 5:47:38 AM


My friends call me at expert at flirting and some of them even have gotten upset with me because I play with guys. Some guys are so gullible, flirting takes time to master but when you are good at it, it stays with you. I still do it even when I shouldnt.

by luckykel on 6/24/2011 9:09:06 PM


MOD: I'm trying to start a conversation with the guy I like. He just got a truck, and posted a pic of it on FB. I wrote to him, nice truck, what year is it? Do guys find it strange if a girl asked them what year their truck is?


Brittany G. 
Brittany G.

by iwantsomeonetoloveme on 6/24/2011 7:45:55 PM


MOD MOD MOD I have had TONS of crushes (maybe 50...) I am a major flirt too. The funny part is I've never had a boyfriend... I don't actually think I'm ready for a real relationship..... How can I tell if I'm ready?

hey! There's nothing wrong with flirting as long as you aren't leading anyone on. You'll know when you're ready because you'll develop feelings for someone special and you'll just know when it's right for you Smile 
Helen S.

by pandagirl12 on 6/24/2011 7:12:26 PM


So there's this boy I'll call DC who says hes madly in love with me. I have some really mixed feelings about him and I think I like him, but I'm not really sure. The problem is, my best friend really likes DC and when she started liking him, he still really liked me, but I didn't like him. A couple of us(including DC) are going to the movies really soon,p and me and my BFF had a bet. If she could go without texting for a month(when he comes back from Tanzani) I would have to share a bowl of popcorn with DC, my bff and my other bff would get to pick my clothes out and do my hair, and DC and I would have to talk after the movie and hug goodbye. On the otherhand, if she lost, she would have to do those. So my BFF lost the second day of the bet(lol Smile aand now everythings really tense..
because I might like DC(I actually think I do Smile
my BFF loves sedekia..
WE JUST REALLY NEED SOME ADVICE (from non parents lol)

hey! you and your friend need to have a good long talk. ask her how she would feel if you got together with DC. how would you feel if she did? Once you talk about that you'll be on the same page and a lot less likely to get hurt. good luck! 
Helen S.

by phixxee3 on 6/24/2011 4:46:31 PM


Today, actually a few hours ago, my friend tricked me. She said that my boyfriend and her were dating. She also said that my bf said that I broke up with him. I said no I didn't. I started crying because he was cheating on me until my friend calls and said it was a joke. Now, I feel like she betrayed me. Should I tell my boyfriend about this because he didn't know? Or, should I not be her friend anymore? Thanks~JellybeanxD

 Hey! your friend didn't mean to upset you, but what she did still wasn't cool. let her know that you were upset and that she needs to be more considerate. Don't write her off yet unless she does stuff like this again. good luck!
Helen S.

by jellybeanxD on 6/24/2011 4:23:00 PM


1. Say your name 10 times.
2. Say your mom's name 5 times.
3. Say your crush's name 3 times.
4. Paste this to 4 other quizzes. If you do this, your crush will kiss you on the nearest Friday, but if you read this and do not paste this, then you will have very bad luck! SEND THIS TO 5 QUIZZES IN 143 MINUTES. WHEN YOU'RE DONE PRESS F6 AND YOUR CRUSH'S NAME WILL APPEAR IN BIG LETTERS ON THE SCREEN. lol

by dramaqueen122 on 6/24/2011 2:06:32 PM


What are some good flirting tips to use when youre on facebook?

Hey babe! Flirting through texts and online chatting is always difficult because you never really know what the other person is thinking. Try using cute emoticons! Here are some good ones:   Hope this helps xoxo
Jess W.

by OMG123 on 6/24/2011 8:55:51 AM


1. Say your name 10 times.
2. Say your mom's name 5 times.
3. Say your crush's name 3 times.
4. Paste this to 4 other quizzes. If you do this, your crush will kiss you on the nearest Friday, but if you read this and do not paste this, then you will have very bad luck! SEND THIS TO 5 QUIZZES IN 143 MINUTES. WHEN YOU'RE DONE PRESS F6 AND YOUR CRUSH'S NAME WILL APPEAR IN BIG LETTERS ON THE SCREEN. lol


by chinchilla<3er on 7/28/2010 4:36:12 PM

by Lalainya on 6/24/2011 8:06:45 AM


MOD MOD MOD! I really like this guy and he likes me; but the problem is that my best friend likes him too. I feel really bad because she's liked him for such a long time and she has been waiting for him to ask her out. I feeel like im barging in on her crush. I told her I wasnt going to date him or even flirt with him for that mattter. But its sooooooooooo hard getting over a guy you really like! :-( I know a guy should never get in the way of a friendship, but I just cant get over him!

Hey girl! I totally know how you feel! My BFF and I had the same problem. You want the truth? Neither of us got him and we both got over him. It kind of sucked, but we both knew that liking the same guy would never work. Whoever wins him will feel guilty for taking him away from the other girl. So we both gave up on the guy and it opened our eyes to a ton of new ones! It was kind of liberating in a way. There's really not much else you can do.  You can't make yourself get over him, but just try to hang out with new people and eventually you'll find someone even better. xoxo
Jess W.

by turgeonitee;<3 on 6/24/2011 8:05:26 AM


Thanks. This is gonna help. All my friends I say I flirt and I really wanna stop...showing it.~JellybeanxD P.S-The Lovebirds of America is my club where anybody can join!!!! You can be any religion, any size, any shape, anyone! Even someone who lives in China can join! I give people advice and we can talk about random things!!!! Please join! I want 50 members by Christmas! Thanks!!!! First people get positions!! And, tell your friends about it!!!! Smile!

by jellybeanxD on 6/24/2011 7:11:56 AM

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