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MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD I NEED HELP> Today i had a massive break down from being frustrated by many things. 1) I'm always babysitting my bratty brothers and sisters who never clean up or anything.
2) everyday I clean and everyday its messed up within 10 minutes. not little messes like a plate here and a napkin there, I'm talking Clothes on the floor, toys everywhere, food left out, and dishes broken and scattered to the four winds.
What can i do to at least have the house somewhat decent, all my ideas get shot down by both mom and dad. and what can i do get my siblings to do there chores (their ages go from 1, who cant work, to 14 who is more then capable of picking up. ... I have 5 other siblings. and our house is a huge mess... If you could help I would be ETERNALLY GRATEFUL

 

Hey girlie! That sounds pretty bad and it sounds like your parents aren't doing much to help around the house either, that's pretty rough. It shouldn't be left up to you to clean everything, that's not fair at all.  Ask all your siblings nicely to help out, and sit down with your parents and explain to them that keeping the house together is not your job. You can't force your siblings to do their chores, but if you keep doing them for them, they'll never start because they know you're there to pick up their slack. Focus on your chores and keeping your space clean. Soon enough everyone else will realize that it's time to pitch in, even if that only happens because the house is intolerably messy. Sorry babe. I hope everything works out. Be sure to talk to your parents though, really try to get through to them. Good luck!