all the good guys in my school are the popular guys.. the others are either the nerds, gays, or just plain weirdos. so in my school if you want a good guy, you have to be popular.. so id say the best advice in here would be to go after a guy from a different school! i found one from a different school and he actually got to know the real me, and not just my social place..

by Cherries51 on 8/26/2011 8:18:44 PM

Boys in my middle school only date popular girls so I hope that changes in high school because it seems like girls and boys date each other for popularity and not because they really like each other.

by risabdive on 8/4/2011 6:25:19 PM

by sugarandspice on 7/30/2011 1:01:19 AM

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I'm really unpopular at school and very VERY shy. all the boys at my school either dont know i exist or think that I'm a freak because I'm different and they make fun of me. I'm way to shy to talk to the guy i like and even if i did he probably wouldnt even know who I am. Sorry for sounding so pessimistic!
P.S.- I'm not allowed to date until i turn 18 so is there any way to change my moms mind about that, because I really dont want to wait 5 years! thx

As for mom, you're going to have to give that one time. It's better to wait until you've met a guy you trust, who respects you, and who treats you well - then make the case to mom that you like him and are mature enough to date him without letting him pressure you into anything. Until then though, try to respect her decision  

by nevierose on 7/25/2011 5:55:15 PM

Usually the "popular" couples who go out with each other just for the sake of dating aren't having that great of a relationship anyway. There's a good amount of people at my school who started to date in freshmen yr (or earlier) and remained together even after they've graduated. A lot of them weren't even in the same group of friends/social circle to begin with. If he truly likes you, the last thing on his mind would be if you're popular or not.

by Stargirlcandy3 on 7/21/2011 8:08:44 PM