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Do I have to be popular to snag a BF?

I'm not in the coolest clique at school. Will that ruin my chances with guys this fall?
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all the good guys in my school are the popular guys.. the others are either the nerds, gays, or just plain weirdos. so in my school if you want a good guy, you have to be popular.. so id say the best advice in here would be to go after a guy from a different school! i found one from a different school and he actually got to know the real me, and not just my social place.. Smile

by Cherries51 on 8/26/2011 8:18:44 PM


Wow, sorry, but this seems like kind of a silly question to me. My boyfriend and I are self-declared nerds and would NEVER have been considered "popular", but we're unbelievably happy with each other. Interestingly, on the last day of school, a whole gang of popular girls came up to us and told us - in complete honesty - that we were adorable together.

by tera213 on 8/18/2011 10:18:05 AM


Boys in my middle school only date popular girls so I hope that changes in high school because it seems like girls and boys date each other for popularity and not because they really like each other.

by risabdive on 8/4/2011 6:25:19 PM


wow. very true Smile

by 4202_luver on 8/4/2011 10:45:57 AM


MOD MOD MOD!!!! so im going to the mall really soon, and i want to break out of my shell and talk to some guys.. haha, i know that might sound weird, but do you have any tips on how do start a cono or introduce yourself? thanksss

Hey girl, that's tough when you're in a public space like the mall. Maybe complimenting a guy on something he's wearing or asking one for directions? It's the most practical way.

Alyssa B.

by sugarandspice on 7/30/2011 1:01:19 AM



by nevierose on 7/26/2011 12:15:49 AM


I'm really unpopular at school and very VERY shy. all the boys at my school either dont know i exist or think that I'm a freak because I'm different and they make fun of me. I'm way to shy to talk to the guy i like and even if i did he probably wouldnt even know who I am. Sorry for sounding so pessimistic!Smile
P.S.- I'm not allowed to date until i turn 18 so is there any way to change my moms mind about that, because I really dont want to wait 5 years! thx

Hey girl,

I totally understand - it's common to lose all of our confidence when we think about making conversation with a guy we like. But you gotta relax and try it if you're ever going to be comfortable around them! Like this article says, I doubt they think you're a freak - they just don't know you well enough to chat with you all the time. So break the ice! Take the article's advice and make small talk now and then. Be confident when saying the opening line ("Phew, what'd you think of that test?") instead of awkward. Just give it a try - you'll get better at it!

As for mom, you're going to have to give that one time. It's better to wait until you've met a guy you trust, who respects you, and who treats you well - then make the case to mom that you like him and are mature enough to date him without letting him pressure you into anything. Until then though, try to respect her decision Smile 
Lauren C.

by nevierose on 7/25/2011 5:55:15 PM


Ok i like this guy a lot, and he likes me. But then i moved. Is there any point in long distance dating? Or should i just move on?

hey! i think you should probably move on  
Helen S.

by juliajellybeans on 7/23/2011 4:00:03 PM


Usually the "popular" couples who go out with each other just for the sake of dating aren't having that great of a relationship anyway. There's a good amount of people at my school who started to date in freshmen yr (or earlier) and remained together even after they've graduated. A lot of them weren't even in the same group of friends/social circle to begin with. If he truly likes you, the last thing on his mind would be if you're popular or not.

by Stargirlcandy3 on 7/21/2011 8:08:44 PM


From personal experiences this is not a problem at all! I never compare myself to "popular" group because I know that even though they seem perfect their lives are filled with drama and fake relationships alot of the time. Girls that are confident not full of themselves are what guys look for. SO as long as you don't compare yourself to those so called "popular" girls and you are confident in yourself the right guy is probably already got you on his radar. Smile

by purpletiger<3 on 7/20/2011 1:24:35 PM

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