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Is my online relationship a good idea?

He says he loves me, but I don't know how to explain it to friends and family.
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Hey girls, I need help with a problem I'm having. You see there's this guy at school I really like. He's kind considerate,funny, everything you'd want in a guy. The problem you ask is that there's another girl who also likes him. She talks about him ALL the time and says very inappropriate things about THEM as a joke. I really like this guy and I would be devastated if I lost him to this kind of girl. What should I do?

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by basketballcutie11 on 8/22/2011 8:26:34 AM

 
 



Mod Mod!! Thanks For Your Great Advice! Smile I Have One More Thing I Need Help With Please! I Really Like This Guy And in Really Shy So I Always End Up Doing Something Stupid Or Teasing Him And Not Being Sweet I'm Sweet It Just Doesn't Come Out When Im Around Him Because I'm Nervous So Do You Think I Can Redeem Myself? or Do You Think He Thinks In. A Total Creep? He Would Act Flirty Towards Me Putting his Hand On My Shoulder And Staring At Me He Noticed My New Hair And Told Me He Liked My Shirt And I wanna Flirt With him And Be Confident But I'm Sometimes Really Quiet And Don't Talk To Him Even Though I Know I Need To I Know Im The Problem So Please Tell me what I can do!! Thanks Mod!!




Hey girl, you're not the full problem; you're just a little lovesick. So just focus on being you for now and embrace your quirks. You may hate them but the guy you go with will love every single one.

xoxo
Alyssa B.

by Colorful1 on 8/18/2011 10:56:45 PM

 
 



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My BF Ryan goes to a different school than me. We know eachother from Sunday School and his friend, Jasmine (who's also my friend now) who goes to his school has told me things like how Ryan never talks about me and how I'd look cuter with Ryan's best friend. When I told my BFF she said she's probably just lying to break us up because everyone at their school knows Jasmine likes him. And then when I told my older sister she agreed with my BFF and said if he doesn't talk about me to Jasmine he most likely talks about me to his friends because guys will usually get a girlfriend and brag about her to their friends. It's started to get em to think that Jasmine's trying to break Ryan and I up so SHE can have him. My sister said just wait a week or 2 after their school starts and see what happens. What should I do? Please help!
Jordan




Hey, Girl! Sorry for the “stock” message. We’re psyched you’re here but since this is a super busy time, mods aren’t able to answer personal advice or contest questions. We’re approving your comments now so the girls can start offering feedback right away! If you still have questions, please come back, we’re happy to help…or just let the other chicas answer now! (They give awesome advice, trust us!) Love and thanks! ♥, Your Blog Patrol Babes 
Alyssa B.

by cutiegal100 on 8/18/2011 6:28:24 PM

 
 



MOD MOD MOD!!!!!!!!!!!! ok so the guy i like knows i like him and he told my friend he thinks im cute so at open house for school i was walkin down the hall and i saw him and we both looked baack at eachother at the same time it was soo wierd!! anyway i really really like him i love his personality hes really funny and nice and he has a good family too and i talk to him at school sometimes but hes not really a texter and never gets on facebook. But hes nice to me and stuff everytime he gives me gum i save in this folder i have haha but so if i hav classes with him or not should i act casual and just talk to him and be my self or what because i want to see if maybe theres somethin between us or not. ThanksSmile




Hey girl.

The number one thing to remember when it comes to guys is to always be yourself. If you try to act like someone you're not, you'll never be able to be who you are around him, and that's never good! I would say definitely try striking up a conversation with him whenever you can. Don't overdo it, but anything casual would be good. Especially if you're the brave one that strikes up conversation--it shows your confident, which guys love! 

Katelyn L. Katelyn L.

by TexasCutie08 on 8/18/2011 3:16:40 AM

 
 



MOD MOD MOD so my sister always wants to look at my diaries and journals and notebooks and stuff. Most of those is very private and it drives me crazy when she always pressures me because she can say nasty things and be really mean. How can i tell her that she needs to stop without having her yell at me?




hey! you can tell her how you feel, or you can always buy a diar that has a lock on it, or if you can't do that, hide it somewhere she won't find it. 
Helen S.

by PuppyCT on 8/17/2011 7:48:01 PM

 
 



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So I REALLY Like this guy, and he likes me back, but were like best friends, and even though we go to diffrent schools, he lives on my block. We hang out a lot, and text and talk on the phone, but if I go out with him, I don't want to lose our friendship. What should I do?!




Hey Girl,

If you really want to date this guy, go ahead! It might be work risking your friendship for. But before you give him the green light, think about how you two would work as more than friends. Don't take the decision too lightly. It might even be a good idea to talk with him -- let him know you have feelings for him, but make sure he understands your concerns. Together, you guys can work this out.  
Sarah G.

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by club2date on 8/17/2011 12:15:30 PM

 
 

MOD! I NEED YOUR HELP!
I've liked this guy for a really long time. Last year was when we started to get close because I'm really good friends with his best friends. We started talking on Facebook and we swapped number then and started talking more each month. Sometimes he makes effort, sometimes he doesn't. I sometimes catch him looking at me but he's so shy and I can't tell if he likes me. So he went on holiday a few weeks ago and the day he left was the day his best friend started talking to me, we've grown closer coz of it. We talking about him a lot about Nathan and he mentioned that his friends think me and Nathan suit, he also said that Nathan talked bout me a few times and that he said I was cool. I told him that I liked Nathan and he kept saying we suit so I said 'he doesn't like me' and Joe replied 'he might'. Just confused coz N is friendly with other girls. What does the convo me and Joe had mean? Does his friend like me or not?

 

Hey girl,

 

You won't know for sure if a guy likes you unless you ask him directly - he may even be a little miffed you talked about him to his friends. Next time you talk, ask if he likes you - and don't be afraid to say you like him, too!

Meghan D.

by JusticeStar on 8/17/2011 6:17:15 AM

 
 

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by cutiechik419 on 8/16/2011 8:43:25 PM

 
 



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Ok, so i met a guy at camp and hes a rising freshman and i'm going into 8th grade. we facebook chatted and yesterday he told me he wished i was a rising freshman because he was attracted to me. i like him too and i'm probably going to the same high school as him. but, he didn't ask me out or anything and i might go to a gifted and talented school instead of the same high school. i don't know what to do....




Hey girl!

It's totally possible to make a relationship work even if you're in different grades or go to a different school. It's all about the effort that you put in. Talk to him and see what he says. You could also check out this article--it might help ya out! 


Katelyn L. Katelyn L.

by petlover7898 on 8/16/2011 7:57:25 AM

 
 



MOD!
I Really like this boy how do i get him to notice me?




Hey chica,

Read our flirting guides! We've got loads of tips for starting convos and catching your crush's attention once and for all Smile http://www.girlslife.com/post/2009/02/04/Flirt-Alert-Vday.aspx // http://www.girlslife.com/post/2009/09/03/flirt-school-crush.aspx // http://www.girlslife.com/post/2007/11/17/Flirting101.aspx 
Lauren C.

by purpletoenails on 8/15/2011 10:09:07 PM

 
 

not a good idea to have an online boyfriend

by tswiftluver13 on 8/13/2011 10:42:31 PM

 
 

i dont think its a good idea to have a online BF you dont even n=know who he is he he could be old and you wouldnt even know it

by sabers13! on 8/13/2011 6:07:33 PM

 
 


MOD MOD MOD i can never keep a bgf. it's soo annoying! they always end up liking me. they start to act weird and flirt. then when they ask me out and i say no we shud just be friends, they get mad. once all this over we arent even friends anymore! HELP!


 


Hey girly! You should take this as a compliment, that so many guys like you! To avoid any confusion, though, maybe avoid flirting with them. Keep a safe distance and make it clear that you're just friends with them.


xxx 


Becca G.

by Mya S. on 8/13/2011 5:11:17 PM

 
 

No DONT do it!

I would never have an online relationship but I know people who have online bfs they have never met, personally I cant see how they do that. If I was dating a guy and he moved away then I could do it but you dont even know if these online bfs have other gfs.

I am not judging because I know how easy it is to start to flirt online and feel you are close but I wouldnt do it. And then when you start exchanging pictures it can get very weird so I wouldnt do that either.

I think of some of the things my friends are telling me they are doing with guys online and my mom would punish me forever if she knew I was doing that to.

by luckykel on 8/12/2011 10:50:22 PM

 
 



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i like one of my old guy friends from florida(i used to live there before i moved 2 years ago). and we talk on facebook and stuff and do you think it would be ok to have a relationship with him?? and it wouldnt just be bound to end with us not being friends anymore? im not sure what to do because im pretty sure i like him(even before i moved) and hes like a brother to me because weve known each other for so long. if it would be alright to be in a relationship, how would i kind of hint that to him? im pretty sure he doesnt know i like him...and i really like him! please help me!!! i just dont know what to do!!!!!




Having a long distance relationship, as well as what will happen if it ends, is something only you and he can decide. Ask him how he feels about you, as a start and take things from there Smile




Brittany G. 
Brittany G.

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by brightblueyes on 8/12/2011 9:17:19 PM

 
 

i dont do the whole online relationship thing. if someone says something creepy or nasty ill block you unfriend you all that. most of those people end up to be 40 year old creepers who still live w/ their moms

by liv*laff*luv on 8/12/2011 4:43:37 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD i have questions 1. does this sound like a cute outfit for back t s? a tie die tank top, orange skinny jeans, black flip flops, pink flowery headband, and permed hair (mine is blonde short and curly) ? be honest!

Hey girly,
There seems like a lot going on here. Take away a couple of the colors and make sure that everything matches. Then you will have the perfect outfit. Remember, less is more.


Catie C.

by britgirlivy on 8/12/2011 4:23:01 PM

 
 

dont mean to be rude, but i would never get myself involved in something like that!

by filaluvva on 8/12/2011 4:18:19 PM

 
 

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by Dansu on 8/12/2011 3:05:49 PM

 
 

From when I read the title, I had a instant answer! Don't wanna be a downer, but it is a bad idea. My friends, friend,friend got killed because of an online realationship.

by nerdisthewurd26 on 8/12/2011 2:50:31 PM

 
 

Me? I don't really do the online dating thing because I feel that you only know who they really are if you see them in person. An over-the-computer relationship? It doesn't work for me. And they can be dangerous!

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by cheekymonkey1 on 8/12/2011 1:16:27 PM

 
 

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by artistchic99 on 8/12/2011 11:08:23 AM

 
 

yeah, online relationships can be dangerous. Don't EVER give out your address to him! this sounds cruel, but you never Know!Smile

by twilight*gurl on 8/12/2011 11:07:28 AM

 
 

Hey girls! My name is Maggie and I have been giving you guys advice here on GL for a year now and I absolutely LOVE doing it Smile I just wanted to let you know that I am now an ADVICE QUEEN! My advice queen page is going to be kept for guys/dating only but if you ever have a question about anything else NEVER hesitate to comment on my profile! Please join my advice queen page...I can't wait to start helping you guys figure out the boys in your lives!

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by maggie183 on 8/12/2011 10:01:55 AM

 
 

MODOMODMODMODMOD this guy i have a crush on has finnally txted me back!! It was fun but now im running out of things to say and i dont want to be a stalker or anything. how should i talk to him. also hes on the other team or whatever. HELP!

Hey girly,
Just find something that you both have in common, such as school or a sport or something like that and find something to talk about from there.


Catie C.

by bluedevils5 on 8/12/2011 9:28:05 AM

 
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