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My parents want to adopt another kid

I think it’s a great idea, in theory. But I’m not sure how I really feel about it. What do you think?
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***MOD*** I'm in DESPERATE need of a second opinion right now. My friend (15 years old) has had the toughest time as of late with just life and stuff. Her parents have done some pretty crazy things for her "own good" that even I have to agree are a stretch. But now, she's told me that she wants to run away with her boyfriend. This isn't just some random guy though, they've dated for almost two years and they are really in love. However, I KNOW that running away isn't the answer!!! There is no way for them to support themselves and they will cause major heartbreak (me included). She trusts me more than anyone else and only told me because I'm the only one she trusts. However, I know this isn't right and I'm HATING the situation I'm in right now because no matter what I say I feel like I'm talking to a wall. Did I mention I'm really stressed already to begin with so now this is putting me on edge?!!? What do I DO? HELP!!! Cry


Hey girlfriend, you're right, running away is defintely not the answer! We defintely need to get her some help, maybe you could refer her to your school counselor. She probably needs to get away from her family, so see if she can spend some weekends with you, because you seem like you're a pretty positive influence in her life. Whenever you get the chance try to talk her out of it. Hope this helps ya!!! Smile

Lynae P.

by whitedress26 on 9/17/2011 4:22:50 PM


my parents think i dress innapropitly even though i just dress like a NORMAL 13 year old girl. They sometimes have fights about what i wear, yell at me for it and take some of my "innapropiate" clothes away...they recently even took away all of my skirts! they tell me i cant waer the same things and its embaressing to think about and i get really mad that them...i mean i have a good reason right? I think all of this is getting into my self esteem and social life too how do i get them to stop? im never going to trust them if the keep sneaaking around like this behind my back! my friends dont even believe this when i tell them because we dress a lot alike and their parents have no problem at all with it! what do i do?

Try sitting them down (when you guys are having a good time/when things are positive) and talk to them about how you feel. Explain your self-esteem issues and ask them their reasoning and if there is any way you guys can compromise Smile

Brittany G.  
Brittany G.

by kmbarrette on 9/17/2011 10:03:13 AM


i think my older sis is anorexic.and im also angry because shes always been thin, even wen she did eat, and ive always been the bigger one, the uglier one, the one who doesnt get any guys, and it seems as if im more confident than HER, and theres been countless times ive cried myself to sleep becuz of tht, but i wood NEVER become anerexic just cuz ive gained a lil weight, also, my sis has (or had) depression, n wen she was 13 or 14 she started cutting, and i think she stopped, and now shes 16, shes gorgeous, shes thin, she has big boobs, and a hot bf, and SHES anorexic, im just so angry, sad, confused, worried, idk to break down and cry or scream in her face and knock her out, what am i supposed to do?!?!?


Hey girly! It sounds like you have a really good head on your shoulders, which I'm very glad to hear. As for your sister, though, you definitely need to talk an adult about this and let them know what's going on with her. Try talking to your parents about it. Show them the site and let them know how worried you are. If you can't talk to them, I'd talk to an aunt or uncle, a grandparents, or even a friend's parent that you trust. Also, guidance counselors at school would know what to do. The bottom line is, your sister needs help before this gets any worse.




Becca G.

by guitargirl7321 on 9/11/2011 6:22:35 PM


There's this guy that I met in an after school thing when I was in 8th grade and he was in 7th, and now he's a freshman at my high school. We didn't talk much except for when we were at our volleyball thing for a couple months, and it was pretty obvious we liked each other. Now whenever I see him, there's this wierd eye contact that I can't figure out. It's like "I know you, but I don't know if you remember me so I'm not gonna say hi but I'm kinda trying to say hi." Idk if it's even that, but I think you know what I mean. Help me figure this guy out? And should I just say hello next time this happens?


Hey girl,

Ugh, that is SO awk! I've totally been there. Be the bigger person here and break the ice once and for all. Next time you see him, make eye contact and smile. It's something subtle and simple, but it'll make him feel much less awkward around you. As time goes by and you settle into this routine, start working in a relaxed "Hey!" or a lil wave. It's hard to tell if he still likes you since some time has passed, but by being warm and friendly even in the midst of awkwardness, you'll definitely make him feel more comfy around you. Once you do, you can try talking to him a lil more and picking up on any signs that he might still feel the same Smile

Lauren C.

by smileysevvie on 9/8/2011 10:11:32 PM


Hey girlies! Please visit my profile and leave a comment if you want advice on anything! I can give advice on guys, friends, mean girls, popularity, sports, growing up, middle school, tough stuff, beauty, fitness....practically anything! Just leave a comment (i think I said that) and I will answer it as soon as I can.

by basketballcutie11 on 9/4/2011 7:38:05 AM


wow, that something interesting... i never thought about that... wow! if you ladies need any advice comment on my profile!(:

by purpleorchid on 9/4/2011 12:18:45 AM


Hey, girlie. I totally know how you're feeling right now. My family did foster care for about four years before we adopted my eight-year-old sister. I'm not going to lie, it was hard getting used to having another sibling besides my brother, and having to share my parents attention between 3 people, but it got easier. So whatever your parents decide, hang in there. It will all work out.Smile

by hippiechick96 on 9/3/2011 10:07:43 PM


A lil wierd I think. I didn't like adoption when my step mom did it.

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