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by Invader Vazzimi on 3/8/2013 11:26:10 PM
by swifty#1 on 12/2/2012 12:54:03 PM
by swifty#1 on 12/2/2012 12:38:59 AM
I have been cutting myself for a year now, mainly because of bullies and family problems. I feel like I don't have a good friend to confide in that won't judge me and my family, well, I can't talk to them. What should I do?
by bandnerd13 on 11/12/2012 8:49:58 PM
by MingMingToo on 7/27/2012 12:56:46 AM
i cut so yeah...
by caca35 on 6/9/2012 6:08:17 PM
i was here too, up till a few weeks ago. i would pinch myself where i knew it would hurt the most, and it got so bad i contemplated suicide, but then my best friend saved me. she made me realize that there would be someone that missed me, and i couldnt leave her like that. she helped me realize the whole reason i hurt myself was because i have an inferiority complex, and shes been the most supportive friend in the world. i love her so much, and if it weren't for monica i wouldnt be writing this to you. it gets better, i promise, even though sometimes it feels like it wont.
by njrox09 on 4/14/2012 6:57:49 PM
by tabbycat627 on 3/27/2012 3:42:11 PM
by SkilletLover0810 on 3/6/2012 12:00:32 PM
by msbubble5 on 1/19/2012 8:08:47 PM
This is my reply to.....
I am sooooooooo sorry this is happening. Even though he told you not to tell anyone, you should. He could eventually kill himself with these habits. Take my advice, or you could loose him forever.
by Singeratheart on 1/16/2012 6:01:30 PM
by SquishyKitty on 12/19/2011 11:20:10 AM
by Lissie487 on 12/11/2011 5:54:34 PM
by baileybluu on 12/2/2011 9:35:52 PM
by rocketships_and_radios on 11/26/2011 11:21:36 PM
MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD!
My older brother is seriously depressed and he is drinking too much and smoking weed and cutting himself because his girl friend broke up with him. he has A.D.D. and he says that she is the only one besides me that saw the real him and didn't run away (this is partially true). He just told me tonight about all of this and he's 21 and im 15 he told me he's going to get help but not to tell anyone. i don't know what to do! Every since we were little we were told to watch out for each other and we are and i don't think he realized but i've already told him that "He's my big brother. There's nothing i wouldn't do for him" and he knows that. He's been drinking every day and he carrys around a brisk iced tea bottle filled with rum and another one with white wine. WHAT AM I GOING TO DO!!!! BUT I CAN'T TELL ANYONE!!!
by ImJustMe96 on 11/26/2011 7:07:10 PM
I'm 13 and in July my parents told me they were getting a divorce after 20 years of marriage. My mom moved out and I live with her half the time. She got a boyfriend and my dad got a girlfriend. I was okay with the whole situation I guess until about 2 weeks ago when my dads girlfriend died, in our house. Out of anger, sadness, and confusion I broke up with my own boyfriend and started cutting myself. Ever since my mom left, my dads girlfriend died, and I dumped my boyfriend I get mad about everything, cut myself, then cry myself to sleep. Last week I met a new guy and I really like him and his parents are getting a divorce too so he understands what I am going through but when he found out I cut myself he started being really shady and ignoring me more. I wish I don't do it but I can't help it, it's the only thing that makes me feel good right now. I just want it all to stop. I never wanted this to happen, and I wish my life could be normal again. I know I need help so what so I do?
by echeer32898 on 11/24/2011 11:04:14 PM
hey girl! I am so sorry that you have been feeling this way. I am sure your mom would take the time to help you once she realizes how badly you need it. Check out nineline.org for some extra help and talk to people who can give you some better advice. I hope everything works out! Ana D.
by savvylula on 11/22/2011 12:46:02 AM
ive been thru the same exact thing. but later i learned u cant solve ur problems by injuring urself u have to love urself and just move on everyone makes mistakes
by Camryn123 on 11/20/2011 6:58:29 PM
by angelicjade on 11/14/2011 7:49:52 PM
by dancerchic_4 on 11/14/2011 4:58:32 PM
I clench my teeth I don't know why but when I get mad I do or sad or anything like that
by MO2112 on 11/12/2011 2:43:17 PM
by Danielle:)3 on 11/11/2011 2:39:42 PM
i cut, i told my parents, they didnt care. i told a friend, she yelled at me
by Lissie487 on 11/10/2011 11:34:17 PM
by ScarShadow15 on 11/9/2011 6:32:29 PM
by taytay724 on 10/28/2011 12:07:34 AM
mod mod mod
just gone in to middle school and the homework is coming on a bit stressful and i dont no how to keep up wiv it ??xx
by lilyella on 10/12/2011 2:29:05 PM
by biebersnumber1 on 9/30/2011 2:06:52 PM
! Stop Bullying once and for all!!!!
by AppleFrizzle22 on 9/25/2011 6:20:37 PM
by cutiegal100 on 9/20/2011 10:31:16 PM
by sarahm.(: on 9/19/2011 7:30:14 PM
by EgirlH.97 on 9/19/2011 8:52:33 AM
by big time rush on 9/18/2011 12:25:17 PM
by dance_on_dreams on 9/17/2011 9:57:34 PM
Yeah, I used to do something like that, like they said though, know that it dosen't last forever. Eventually, if you try hard enough, you can get over it(:
by memyselfandmusic on 9/17/2011 9:27:53 PM
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by facebooker1240 on 9/17/2011 8:36:57 PM
I do the same thing...today I ran a knife over my skin just to see how it felt...it didn't bleed or anything, though...
by MissMeggles on 9/17/2011 8:19:09 PM
i do like the same thing.....
by tabbycat627 on 9/17/2011 5:53:28 PM
by XxxXCaitlynnXxxX on 9/17/2011 5:52:09 PM
I know how you feel, girlie. I used to scratch myself too. I really didn't want to tell anyone, but now that I have told my youth pastor and am dealing with my issues head-on, it's so much better. I promise that keeping this to yourself will make everything worse. I'll pray for you. I love you.
by rachelcooker on 9/17/2011 5:51:56 PM
by happygoluckycharms on 9/17/2011 4:45:33 PM
mod mod mod well those r few n far between n the way i've realizrd n been blutly told your alone n have to endure lifes blows cuz your not always gonna have someone to help and just be ready for a horribble rough road if u started with one you'll always be effected n have one n theres ni hope dont get bother involved n cause more crap sugarcoating it does nothing
by BlackVeilBridesGurl on 9/17/2011 3:41:14 PM
i know EXACTLY how you feel.
by tswiftluver13 on 9/17/2011 12:59:10 PM
by BlackVeilBridesGurl on 9/17/2011 12:55:08 PM
my friend cut hesrself.. and wanted to comit suiciced... She doesnt get special help but me and my friends and counsler keep an eye on her
by abbygirl12 on 9/17/2011 12:39:16 PM
There was this new girl in our class this year, and she cut so my friend and I went straight to the guidance counselor and she got the help she needed and now shes back and better!
by nerdisthewurd26 on 9/17/2011 10:02:18 AM
Good Advice GL Personally,I had to deal with this & 2 of my closest friends used to self harm.Actually,3 out of 5 teens is going to self harm at some point, somehow.It's not the end of the world.If it's tiny cuts on your arms or huge burns on your thigh OPEN UP,GET HELP,YOU ARE GOING TO BE OKAY. You desrve a better life so PLEASE don't be afriad to REACH OUT.I admire how celebs like Demi Lovato has opened up about such problems.at first,If u don't feel comfortable 2 talk about it with a therapists or a parent open up to someone you trust & know won't jude like a friend or cousin.SIMPLY TALKING ABOUT IT CAN HELP YOU.
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by haneen.pop.princess on 9/17/2011 6:16:36 AM
i do the same thing
in soccer i scratch my thigh or wrist/pinch myself
i have even hed scissors up to my wrist but nvr done anything with them
by peachygirl90 on 9/17/2011 1:31:58 AM
by wakeboardchick7 on 9/17/2011 12:50:43 AM
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