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Sometimes I want to hurt myself

When I do something wrong or stupid, I get really angry at myself and get this incredible urge to hurt myself.
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Hey girlie,


I can only imagine how tough things are for you. Because we wish you only the best, it’s extremely important that you speak to a trusted adult, such as a family member, doctor, guidance counselor, teacher, etc.


 



Also, for additional help, check out: http://www.girlslife.com/post/2008/08/04/HELP!2.aspx



 



, Your Blog Patrol Babes


 

Meghan D.

by Invader Vazzimi on 3/8/2013 11:26:10 PM

 
 



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Is there anything I can eat for lunch that wont hurt my sore throat? Swallowing water hurts a lot too.

 

Hey swifty #1, any soups, jello, tea, and ice cream. Gargling warm salt water may also help. Hope your throat feels better! Xoxo 


Lynae P.

by swifty#1 on 12/2/2012 12:54:03 PM

 
 

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please answer this.
I'm really hungry (I skipped dinner) but I have a sore throat and it hurts to swallow ANYTHING! - even just water. What should I do?

Hey girl

If you have a sore throat, water and liquids can really help, even if it hurts. And you should eat if you didn't have dinner, even though it might hurt a little! I would talk to your parents about your throat so they can give you medicine if they think you need it and take you to the doctor if you're sick. Feel better!

Meghan D.

by swifty#1 on 12/2/2012 12:38:59 AM

 
 

I have been cutting myself for a year now, mainly because of bullies and family problems. I feel like I don't have a good friend to confide in that won't judge me and my family, well, I can't talk to them. What should I do?

by bandnerd13 on 11/12/2012 8:49:58 PM

 
 



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A couple months ago, I tried to kill myself. I did a overdose. Before that, I cut. I seriously regret it. All of it. My mom always thinks I'm going to do it again. I'm not. But recently I've been doing strange things.
I've been talking to myself, being mean, then after being mean, crying. Feeling weird, and I'm scared everytime I have a stomach ache. I want to starve myself, I lie all the time. I'm mad for no reason. I don't like my mom's boyfriend, but in the same way I do. I hate being touched. Even by my mom, I don't have any motivation to do anything, all I know is I want out. I don't want to die, I've realized, but I'm sad because I don't have a fairytale life. Whats wrong with me? Help please.




Hey girlie,

I totally understand your desire to need everything to be perfect - to be upset and feel like you have nothing just because you don't have it all. But I also understand regretting what you've done before, because it's clear your mom is worried about you. But you don't need to feel embarrassed or guilty about feeling these emotions - you're feeling them, and that makes them real. Please please please talk to your mom and tell her you're feeling overwhelmed by things right now. Ask her if she can help you find a counselor or a therapist that you can talk to, even just once a week. I know it might seem weird at first (to talk to a stranger about your problems), but more people have therapists than you would think - and they've heard it all. When your fears and worries get this big, it is SO SO hard to get rid of them on your own. It helps so much to have someone trustworthy to talk to, to help you work through your problems, and to team up with you to find solutions to them. Promise you'll try this so you don't have to live with these worries forever? It'll eat away at you if you let it - but if you tackle them head on with help, you'll feel SO much better <3
Lauren C.

by MingMingToo on 7/27/2012 12:56:46 AM

 
 

i cut so yeah...

by caca35 on 6/9/2012 6:08:17 PM

 
 

i was here too, up till a few weeks ago. i would pinch myself where i knew it would hurt the most, and it got so bad i contemplated suicide, but then my best friend saved me. she made me realize that there would be someone that missed me, and i couldnt leave her like that. she helped me realize the whole reason i hurt myself was because i have an inferiority complex, and shes been the most supportive friend in the world. i love her so much, and if it weren't for monica i wouldnt be writing this to you. it gets better, i promise, even though sometimes it feels like it wont.

stay strong!
love,
morgan

by njrox09 on 4/14/2012 6:57:49 PM

 
 



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Please help me. I think I have an aniety problem, sleep paralyis, and a over the scale imgination. I sleep with the lights on and I can't sleep until I'm exausted because I'm scared of what will happen when I close my eyes. on certian night I'll wake up and see what's above me but then I'll try to move and can't and then I'll try to scream and I can't. after a few minutes I'll wake for real and I think I'll hear someone breaking in or feel someone watching me and I can't sleep a wink until I know for sure what's real then a few hours later I'll wake up in the same fear until I see day light in the sky. then I have to get out of my room and be sure my family is still alive. what are these terrors?! I'm only 11 and this happens every night! I'm so scared from just talking about I'm crying! help please.....

 

hey girl! this sounds like sleep paralysis. no worries, this happens to me sometimes too so i totally get how it feels completely frightening but its more common than ya think! this is simply your body transitioning from being awake to sleep mode. sometimes it doesnt transition smoothly so thats when the sleep paralysis happens. dont worry, you're completely safe! xo, erin m.


erin m.

by tabbycat627 on 3/27/2012 3:42:11 PM

 
 



MOD MOD MOD! Hey, I've noticed that i have been becoming depressed... I have been going to my room right after school and have been blocking out my mom and brother.. I made a very terrible mistake on new years and ever since my mom and family look down at me including my friends... I feel as if no one cares about me anymore.. I have attempted suicide before and no one knows besides my best friend.. I feel like there is no way to be happy again after what I have done,, everyday at school, I hide my feelings and fake a laugh or smile... Im tired of it




Hey girl,

I'm so sorry to hear you feel this way! You should try to talk to a counselor, your parents or any other adult that you can trust! We all make mistakes; nobody's perfect! No matter how badly you messed up on new years, it's time for forgiveness and time for you to move on! Please visit www.nineline.org or call 1-800-999-9999 if you'd rather talk to someone that has a more objective view on the whole situation! Keep your head up, girl! Don't give up on life and always remember that you're not alone! XoXo,
alicia m.

by SkilletLover0810 on 3/6/2012 12:00:32 PM

 
 



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So I'm a little freaked out. I didn't know that pinching yourself when mad was self harm. I've done it before. Only when I am really mad, but that is at least once a week. I never do it very hard, and it barely seems to help, but now I'm scared. I thought only cutting was self harm! I've also been feeling left out recently. It's not that I don't have friends, because I do, but I just feel left out sometimes. I'm not depressed. What do you think it might be? I'm in 6th grade if that helps. (So much drama!)




Hey girlie,

Nope, "self harm" doesn't only mean cutting - it can mean pinching, hitting, burning, or any number of hurtful things that you do to teach yourself a lesson, punish yourself, feel physical pain, and/or escape emotional pain. This pinching might not be a huge problem because it doesn't happen very often and doesn't leave lasting damage, but it is absolutely self harm and definitely is a sign of a bigger issue here. If you're feeling left out, challenge yourself to take more control of your life! Invite friends to hang out so you're around people and being social. Join a new club to branch out and meet even more people. Surround yourself with friends/family and hobbies that make you feel really happy. And don't beat yourself up if you make a mistake or get emotional. Channel those feelings by writing in a journal, going to the gym, or scribbling your angry triggers on a piece of paper, then tearing it up and throwing it (and your worries) away. <3
Lauren C.

by msbubble5 on 1/19/2012 8:08:47 PM

 
 

This is my reply to.....
Lynae P./ImJustMe96

DEAR LYANE,
I am sooooooooo sorry this is happening. Even though he told you not to tell anyone, you should. He could eventually kill himself with these habits. Take my advice, or you could loose him forever.

by Singeratheart on 1/16/2012 6:01:30 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD What I want to know is, am I just overreacting or is this something more serious? Please help, I don't know what to do.

 

Hey girl,

 

I can only imagine how tough things are for you. Because we wish you only the best, it's important for you to speak with a trusted adult (family member, teacher, doctor, guidance counselor, etc. as soon as you can! You can also refer to the links at the bottom of this post, which include hotlines of people willing to speak with you about difficult issues. http://www.girlslife.com/post/2008/08/04/HELP!2.aspx.

Meghan D.

by SquishyKitty on 12/19/2011 11:20:10 AM

 
 

someone please help. ive been really depressed lately, for about 6 months, and a few weeks ago i let someone hurt me because i didnt care and i have no one to talk to. i already tried talking to my parents, a teacher, and a friend's mom, but no one understood or cared how depressed i am. i have been cutting myself deeper and deeper and sometimes i want to kill myself and try to, but back out at the last second. someone help me, please




Hon I'm so sorry youre so stressed and depressed and feel lost Frown i suggest you talk to your guidance counselor again. Really tell them how you feel. Tell them about the cutting and how you feel hopeless because you cant get out of this rut. I guarantee they'll care. If they dont understand what youre going through and you dont tell them the whole truth then they wont notice, but if you tell them really how bad you feel theyll listen. Good luck hon.. I hope you get better. Remember - many people will be completely heart broken if youre gone. Plus life is precious. You have a big future ahead of you. Dont throw it away <3 xoxo kerra 
Kerra S.

by Lissie487 on 12/11/2011 5:54:34 PM

 
 



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ive been really depressed lately. Im usually happy, perky, in a good mood, fun, and and thats what friends love about me.. but ive noticed im starting to change. my parents are always on my nerves, i dont want to go to church, see or talk to my distant sister, or be the friendly person i usually am. it makes me so mad at myself for not being me. even some of my friends have noticed. if you can help, thanksSmile




Hey girlie,

Don't be mad at yourself for this! We all go through emotional phases in our lives, and some are worse than others. But don't get frustrated with yourself - it's not your fault! Are you getting enough sleep each night? Are you taking care of your body? Are you participating in things you love, rather than being overwhelmed by work/homework? Are you taking time for yourself to recharge? Are you being honest about your feelings instead of bottling them inside? All of these things can help center your mind and bring you more peaceful happiness. Try writing down all your frustrations in a journal, joining a new club/volunteering at a local charity, writing a screenplay, working out...whatever it is that brings you happiness. Take time for yourself and do this every day! If you're still having trouble overcoming these feelings, try talking to a counselor at your school. They can help you talk it out and get to the real reason behind it!!!! <3
Lauren C.

by baileybluu on 12/2/2011 9:35:52 PM

 
 



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My best friend doesn't like people who cut themselves, because she thinks they're crazy. This affects me because I cut every one and a while. I'm her best friend, and I really want to tell her (Because she knows almost everything about me) but I don't want her to think I'm crazy. How can I tell her? Should I even tell her at all?




Hey girlie,

If it's a secret that is weighing on your shoulders and you think you would feel better telling her, consider it. She has this attitude because she's never had someone bring cutting close to home for her - she thinks of it as this "crazy person's problem" without knowing the true reasons behind it (or the people who actually do it). If you do tell her, do it in person and one-on-one. Tell her that she knows practically everything about you, so you want to share this with her no matter what. Show her your reasons behind cutting and make this personal for her now - you're her friend, a real person, who sometimes feels overwhelmed and uses this to help cope. Tell her you are rational and know this isn't healthy, but that you aren't crazy and you hope she'll still be here to support you until you can heal. Give her the "facts" of the situation so she learns something - and hopefully she will change her way of thinking about it <3




And I think this goes without saying, but PLEASE PLEASE don't cut again. I know it feels like a temporary fix for a huge problem, but in reality it's not fixing anything, disrespectful to your own body, and a habit that is life-threatening. Please get help for this! <3 
Lauren C.

by rocketships_and_radios on 11/26/2011 11:21:36 PM

 
 


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My older brother is seriously depressed and he is drinking too much and smoking weed and cutting himself because his girl friend broke up with him. he has A.D.D. and he says that she is the only one besides me that saw the real him and didn't run away (this is partially true). He just told me tonight about all of this and he's 21 and im 15 he told me he's going to get help but not to tell anyone. i don't know what to do! Every since we were little we were told to watch out for each other and we are and i don't think he realized but i've already told him that "He's my big brother. There's nothing i wouldn't do for him" and he knows that. He's been drinking every day and he carrys around a brisk iced tea bottle filled with rum and another one with white wine. WHAT AM I GOING TO DO!!!! BUT I CAN'T TELL ANYONE!!!


 


Lynae P.

by ImJustMe96 on 11/26/2011 7:07:10 PM

 
 

I'm 13 and in July my parents told me they were getting a divorce after 20 years of marriage. My mom moved out and I live with her half the time. She got a boyfriend and my dad got a girlfriend. I was okay with the whole situation I guess until about 2 weeks ago when my dads girlfriend died, in our house. Out of anger, sadness, and confusion I broke up with my own boyfriend and started cutting myself. Ever since my mom left, my dads girlfriend died, and I dumped my boyfriend I get mad about everything, cut myself, then cry myself to sleep. Last week I met a new guy and I really like him and his parents are getting a divorce too so he understands what I am going through but when he found out I cut myself he started being really shady and ignoring me more. I wish I don't do it but I can't help it, it's the only thing that makes me feel good right now. I just want it all to stop. I never wanted this to happen, and I wish my life could be normal again. I know I need help so what so I do?

by echeer32898 on 11/24/2011 11:04:14 PM

 
 

hey girl! I am so sorry that you have been feeling this way. I am sure your mom would take the time to help you once she realizes how badly you need it. Check out nineline.org for some extra help and talk to people who can give you some better advice. I hope everything works out!  Ana D.

by savvylula on 11/22/2011 12:46:02 AM

 
 

ive been thru the same exact thing. but later i learned u cant solve ur problems by injuring urself u have to love urself and just move on everyone makes mistakes

by Camryn123 on 11/20/2011 6:58:29 PM

 
 



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My mom smokes in secret but I know. I really want her to stop because I used to go through self harm and I lost a friend due to it. What can I do to help her stop without letting her know I know she smokes.




Hey girl, you could mention how hard it was with your friend as an indirect hint to her that you wouldn't want to go through that again, especially with a family member. Just tell her how you feel, but don't call her out for her habit directly. It's all you can do in this sitch (besides let your dad or another family member know).

xoxo 
Alyssa B.

by angelicjade on 11/14/2011 7:49:52 PM

 
 

Hey girl, first of all, know you're not the only one going through what you're going through. It's not easy, but I think now more than ever it's important to reach out and take help: from your guidance counselor or a trusted adult. Your friends' threats stem from the care they have for you: they want you to take care of yourself. It's up to you to take the first step to getting better: accepting the help around you. Just realize that there are so many people who care about you and who want you to reach out and take their hand and do so.

xoxo
Alyssa B.

by dancerchic_4 on 11/14/2011 4:58:32 PM

 
 

I clench my teeth I don't know why but when I get mad I do or sad or anything like that

by MO2112 on 11/12/2011 2:43:17 PM

 
 

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At a basketball game, one of my best friends ran into me. We collided and I fell to the floor. She hit my head, which caused my mouth close hard, giving me a bruise and a little fat lip. I was okay, because I have a "hard head"(haha), and I'm tough. I think she hit her eye when we collided, too. Today, for basketball she was not here and the coach told us that she got a black eye and because it is so swollen she can barely open it. If he is exaggerating, I know not. I feel really bad, even though it wasn't really my fault because she ran into me. However, when we go to school everyone is gonna think it is my fault, and feel "oh so bad" for her. I think everyone will turn on me, too. What do I do? what do I say?




Hey babe! 

I don't think everyone will turn on you because this was an accident. I think you should call your friend today and let her know you're sorry about what happened - even though it wasn't your fault, it's a good way to clear things up. You could get her a little something for her black eye, too - like a cool-shaped ice pack! She'll really appreciate it. Good luck, girl! xoxox 
Devin A.

by Danielle:)3 on 11/11/2011 2:39:42 PM

 
 

i cut, i told my parents, they didnt care. i told a friend, she yelled at me

by Lissie487 on 11/10/2011 11:34:17 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD My great grandma died almost three months ago, but I still really miss her. I'm never really hungry I just eat because I know I need to and because my family would think I was anorxic if I didn't. Activities I used to enjoy or that I at least didn't mind I can't stand now. I'm always sad and I've tried so many things to take my mind off of her, but nothing works so I have resorted to cutting my self. However, I am not suicidal. I know I shouldn't but it seems like the only thing that helps. I can't let anyone know that I cut myself because they would tell my mom and my mom would yell at me and tell me how stupid it is. I don't know what to do anymore. Please Please help me.

 

Hey girlfriend, sounds like you need another way to release your emotions, because cutting yourself is not a good route. Try other things like listening to music, or jotting your thoughts down. Confide your feelings into a friend or family member. It's okay to feel sadness over your grandmother's death, I certainly would. But just think your grandma would want you to be happy, and feeling good when you think about her, not being sad and cutting yourself. I hope you feel better and let me know if you have anymore questions. Smile Smile

Lynae P.

by ScarShadow15 on 11/9/2011 6:32:29 PM

 
 



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Could you explain why so many people think it's funny to make fun of "emo" people? I would just like to understand their thinking. I know cutting is kind of a funny way to deal with things, not in the haha sense of course, but strange. Are their brains just too small to understand that people think and do things differently? Does it just scare them that people would cut themselves?




Hey girlie,

I think there are two different types of people that criticize emo people: 1) People who are like "Well I have a lot of problems too but I don't have to cut myself, gosh you're being so dramatic." It's so close-minded but these people, I think, just feel like there are other ways of dealing with problems. They're correct in that there are other ways of dealing with problems...but, for some people, cutting does seem like the right way. So they're kinda closing their eyes to a really big issue, which isn't good. And 2) People who hear "emo" and think of boy bands with floppy black hair and eyeliner who sing about losing the girl they loved. That's more of a cartoonish way to think about "emo," but it's a way that many people see it! Try not to worry about the critics - that's a lesson that applies in ALL areas of life, not just this one Smile 
Lauren C.

by taytay724 on 10/28/2011 12:07:34 AM

 
 

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just gone in to middle school and the homework is coming on a bit stressful and i dont no how to keep up wiv it ??xx

by lilyella on 10/12/2011 2:29:05 PM

 
 

MOD so people say im AlWAYS cranky. my moms friends say it my brothers say it my mom says it. but not my dad. even my family that i dont live with treats me like dirt. every one treats me like dirt. i dont try to be cranky. or mean to.




Hey babe! 

Try to think about why you're coming off as cranky. Are you stressing about your math test, or is your BFF insulting you? Try to pinpoint what you're going through or what behaviors could make people think you're being cranky, and try to change those actions. If you still can't figure it out and still need someone to talk to, try calling one of these numbers: http://www.girlslife.com/post/2008/08/04/HELP!2.aspx Good luck girl!   
Devin A.

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by AppleFrizzle22 on 9/25/2011 6:20:37 PM

 
 



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Tomorrow, my parents are going to talk to this counselor that I had to see because my parents think I have ADHD and stuff like that, and I'm really scared to hear the results (I'm not going to the meting but my parents will tell me when I get home) I'm really scared. What should I do? They already had a meeting with the school and they tested me and said they don't know if I have ADHD (that's what the counselors for) but I do have a learning thing like ADHD or Dyslexia. Please help!
Chloe




What exactly has you scared love? Instead of being afraid, think of it this way: there is something going on and your parents are looking for a solution to help you Smile 




Briitany G. 

  
Brittany G.

by cutiegal100 on 9/20/2011 10:31:16 PM

 
 


Hey girl, you need to continue talking to a counselor and perhaps a close neighbor or family member too. You can't give up, but you can't fight this fight alone. Hang in there and continue to speak up.

xoxo 
Alyssa B.

by sarahm.(: on 9/19/2011 7:30:14 PM

 
 

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Hey! Okay, so I love being topless. Mainly at night in my bed when everyone is asleep. I've talked to my best friend(who's more like my sister) and she said she's totally comfortable with me doing it while she's sleeping over. I'm not just gonna randomly rip my shirt off, but how do I do it? Sometimes when I'm not topless I feel bound down. She's knows I trust her, so she comfortable with seeing me topless. I really want to do it, but once again, I don't know how to. So of we're laying down at night, how should I do it? Please help! Thanks!




Hey chica! 

Why don't you go to the bathroom as she goes to sleep and take your shirt off? xoxox 
Devin A.

by EgirlH.97 on 9/19/2011 8:52:33 AM

 
 



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Some times I feel like dying.I cut myself nonstop.I feel like committing sudicide.No ones there for me.Not my dad or mom,not my bros,or my BFFs.Everyone hates me.One time I came so close to killing myself,it was only one sec before I coudlve been dead.The only thing tht stoped me was my thoughts.Iwas thinking tht maby I could kill myself quicker.Plz help me before I go over the line.plz.im begging!Please.




Hey girl,

I know it won't be of any help if I say, "People do care about you, people will feel bad without you there" because you're already convinced otherwise. And that's ok - it's because you're feeling so lost and so depressed right now. It's amazing how those feelings can swallow us up. But please - PLEASE - if you don't listen to anything else we say on this website, PLEASE listen to this: GET HELP. Speak up now to a guidance counselor, clergyperson at a local church (even if you aren't religious or a member), or another counselor you know of. Do not wait. Do not think you can fix this on your own. Do not think that death is the answer. You might be feeling all sorts of horrible things that you don't think you can EVER come back from, but I promise you there is help out there. And there are people who care. Call 1-800-SUICIDE immediately - it is totally free and will let you talk to someone who understands. (Click here for more hotlines/websites that can help.) And it might feel like you are totally alone in this, but there are people who have felt this way before - and who are enjoying happy lives right now. Read this article with advice for someone in a similar situation. Just please remember you aren't alone - and please get help NOW. <3
Lauren C.

by big time rush on 9/18/2011 12:25:17 PM

 
 



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I'm frustrated because for the past couple of days every time I try to eat, it's really difficult to swallow and I feel like I'm going to choke and I gag. I have to swallow really hard to swallow at all and I'm really concerned because I'm hungry and want to eat! It took me 4 hours to have soup today because I kept taking breaks and coming back to it. My dad thinks it's a virus because his work friend has the same thing and that's what his doctor said but I don't know, it feels like a lump in my throat. I'm nervous about lunch on Monday back at school because I don't want to weird/creep out my "friends" because that's how they'll react or think I'm overreacting. Whenever I have a problem they say "Get over yourself." I'm trying to not be their friends but they're clingy and I'm scared of being alone. My dad is also at the store getting throat spray and coughdrops for my throat. What should I do?




Hey babe,

It sounds like you have a virus and might just be gagging because your stomach is uneasy/your bod isn't ready to eat but, if you're concerned and it lasts until Monday, a trip to the doctor might not be a bad idea. Explain it this way to your dad - that you feel like there is something there in the back of your throat that is making it impossible to eat. It doesn't hurt and you're not mucus-y back there, but you've got a lump in your throat like you've never had before. It's worth going to the doc to make sure you're ok! As for your friends, no worthwhile friend will ever tell you to get over yourself when you're having a problem. Friends should be there to support you, help you, and listen to you whenever you need something. Personally I'd try harder to meet new people in clubs, sports, a part time job, youth group, volunteer center, etc. Be out-going and challenge yourself to talk to new people, make plans to hang out, and open up to a new group. You deserve great friends, girl!
Lauren C.

by dance_on_dreams on 9/17/2011 9:57:34 PM

 
 

Yeah, I used to do something like that, like they said though, know that it dosen't last forever. Eventually, if you try hard enough, you can get over it(:

by memyselfandmusic on 9/17/2011 9:27:53 PM

 
 

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by facebooker1240 on 9/17/2011 8:36:57 PM

 
 

I do the same thing...today I ran a knife over my skin just to see how it felt...it didn't bleed or anything, though...

by MissMeggles on 9/17/2011 8:19:09 PM

 
 

i do like the same thing.....

by tabbycat627 on 9/17/2011 5:53:28 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD Okay, Halloween is coming up, as you already know. I am 14 years old, and in my family, not going trick or treating is not an option. What can I dress up as, not making me feel like a little kid? Thanks, Caitlynn

 

Hey missy, you could dress up like one your favorite celebrities, a storybook character, a fashionable clown, a cowgirl, a teacher or a preppy girl. Let me know if you like any of these options! Smile Smile

 

Lynae P.

by XxxXCaitlynnXxxX on 9/17/2011 5:52:09 PM

 
 

I know how you feel, girlie. I used to scratch myself too. I really didn't want to tell anyone, but now that I have told my youth pastor and am dealing with my issues head-on, it's so much better. I promise that keeping this to yourself will make everything worse. I'll pray for you. I love you.

by rachelcooker on 9/17/2011 5:51:56 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD MOD 1.i have a friend who has a loooww self esteem. me and her, we both used to cut. we're still kind of sad. she thinks no one will ever like her in that way... but i do. what do i do 2. help me i'm addicted to smelling nail polish!

 

Hey missy, I know it doesn't seem like it right now but things do get better. You have to go through the bad to get to the good. The first step to changing is to start thinking positive. When you think positive, postivity will eventually come into your life. And put the nail polish down lol. Switch the nail polish for a nice perfume. Try sniffing the Juicy Couture or Chanel Mademoiselle fragrances. Hope this helps! Smile Smile Smile

Lynae P.

by happygoluckycharms on 9/17/2011 4:45:33 PM

 
 

mod mod mod well those r few n far between n the way i've realizrd n been blutly told your alone n have to endure lifes blows cuz your not always gonna have someone to help and just be ready for a horribble rough road if u started with one you'll always be effected n have one n theres ni hope dont get bother involved n cause more crap sugarcoating it does nothing

by BlackVeilBridesGurl on 9/17/2011 3:41:14 PM

 
 

i know EXACTLY how you feel.

by tswiftluver13 on 9/17/2011 12:59:10 PM

 
 



mod mod mod just letting u kno telling girls to trust ppl at school is HORRIBBLE advice one of the schools I went to before my mom had me homeschooled put us through holy terror even got cp my moms invloved but my mom managed to get us out of it but as a partial result the already not that great relationship with my mom has been completely sabotaged and my emotional issues havev more rhan escalated schools cannot be trusted!




I totally understand, but there are some schools that actually can be trusted. To write-off every school can make the problem worse, when in reality, many schools do offer supportive care to their students Smile




Brittany G.  
Brittany G.

by BlackVeilBridesGurl on 9/17/2011 12:55:08 PM

 
 

my friend cut hesrself.. and wanted to comit suiciced... She doesnt get special help but me and my friends and counsler keep an eye on her

by abbygirl12 on 9/17/2011 12:39:16 PM

 
 

There was this new girl in our class this year, and she cut so my friend and I went straight to the guidance counselor and she got the help she needed and now shes back and better!

by nerdisthewurd26 on 9/17/2011 10:02:18 AM

 
 

Good Advice GL Smile Personally,I had to deal with this & 2 of my closest friends used to self harm.Actually,3 out of 5 teens is going to self harm at some point, somehow.It's not the end of the world.If it's tiny cuts on your arms or huge burns on your thigh OPEN UP,GET HELP,YOU ARE GOING TO BE OKAY. You desrve a better life so PLEASE don't be afriad to REACH OUT.I admire how celebs like Demi Lovato has opened up about such problems.at first,If u don't feel comfortable 2 talk about it with a therapists or a parent open up to someone you trust & know won't jude like a friend or cousin.SIMPLY TALKING ABOUT IT CAN HELP YOU.
GIRLS ,IF U HAVE ANY COMMENTS OR Qs ABOUT THIS ISSUE I'D BE HAPPY TO ANSWER YOU!!JUST POST ME ON MY PROFILE Laughing PLEASE!

by haneen.pop.princess on 9/17/2011 6:16:36 AM

 
 

i do the same thing
in soccer i scratch my thigh or wrist/pinch myself
i have even hed scissors up to my wrist but nvr done anything with them

by peachygirl90 on 9/17/2011 1:31:58 AM

 
 



MOD!!! my best friend goes to a different school then me, and we don't really talk anymore. Sometimes I feel like she's replacing me with her new friends. I'm happy for her, but I seem that I can't make friends, so I'm kinda jealous. I was texting her today, and she disnt answe for nine hours. That isn't like her, and by the time she texted back, she was at her school dance, with all her friends. Does this mean she doesn't like me as much? Please help me!!




It seems she is trying to make new friends at her new school (not that she is ditching you) and I believe you should try and do the same Smile Try talking to her about how you feel and see if she has any tips for how to make new friends and if you guys can work on your communication Smile




Brittany G. 
Brittany G.

by wakeboardchick7 on 9/17/2011 12:50:43 AM

 
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