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I have started to developers feelings for this guy. He's perfect in every way imaginable. I have him my number a while backs ma we've texted a lot. He's always texting me, at late at night too. He asks to me a lot at school and sometimes I catch him looking at me. My friends see him look at me. His friends told me that he's always talking about me and they think he likes me but he has a girlfriend Frown nobody knows why he likes her beacause literally there is nothing good about her. But how can I tell or do something to make him like me

by audrey16 on 5/14/2013 7:13:04 PM


MOD MOD MOD Okay so I was talking to my crush on Facebook message and he said "I'm gonna go, speak to you soon Smile and he has never put a smiley face to me before accept for like last year when he asked me if we had any homework and when he was laughing at something I'd said. What does it mean? Could he possibly like me?

Hey girlie! I think it's a little too ambiguous to tell from just the smiley alone. Maybe see if there are any other possible signs that point toward him liking you; if there are, then I'd say 'definitely!'
Florence N.

by Confused_Girly13 on 4/10/2013 11:54:45 AM


Okay, so my BGF (who I happen to have a major crush on) texted me the other day, and just said yes. That was it. Then I started a conversation with him (or tried to) and all he would respond was Yes (with various punctuation.) It wasn't really a conversation, but it still felt like one. He's normally really deep and sweet and mature. He told me that he didn't actually send the first message, and he couldn't tell me who did, but he was texting me the rest of the time. Does this mean anything? ThanksSmile
PS. His bday is this Sunday and I was wondering if it was creepy that I wrote him a song as a present? (He's a musician.)

Hey girl,

If he didn't send the message at first, I don't think it necessarily meant anything romantically, he was probably just playing along with the first message. But if he's your BGF and loves music, a song sounds like a pretty sweet gift!

Meghan D.

by rebecca18 on 10/13/2012 10:17:37 PM


so there is a guy (isnt there always) i have had a crush on him since forever. one of my bffs just recently started to like him and when she asked me if i liked him i denied it and now i just want to tell he i do. how do i do it

by Hailiethecool on 7/29/2012 10:08:01 PM


Hey Maddie5321, now is the perfect time to make a move. Try talking and flirting with him. Get his number and ask him if he'd like to hang out sometime. Good luck girl and hope this helps! Xoxo

by Lynae P. on 2/25/2012 8:43:37 PM


I just found out my crush likes me. BUT he doesn't know that I like him OR that i know he likes me! So... now what?

by Maddie5321 on 2/25/2012 8:15:29 PM


My bf and I have been d8ing for about 2 monthes and idk if he still likes me! He txts me a lot but at school he just treats me like a friend which is kinda annoying because he was one of my BGF's we danced at skool dances together and he hugged me but only because his friends told him to! He won't hold my hand because my hands get really cold when I'm around him. Kind of because I'm nervous. We have a lot of the same friends and they all keep telling me to hang in there except for my BFFLs who tell me to do what I want. I tried to sit at his lunch table but he didn't really talk to me and I asked my friend to ask him if he still likes me and she said he did. Is he just shy or is it time for splitsville?

Hey girl,

Try talking to your guy before you making any big decisions. He may be going through something serious at home that's causing him to be distant, or school might be stressing him out more than usual. Calmly tell him you feel distant and want to know what's up, and see how he responds.

Meghan D.

by hisayzme on 2/4/2012 10:39:36 AM


Mod mod mod mod!
So I have known this guy my whole life. He's sweet smart and funny. We used to flirt everyday since we are in all the same classes. But then one day at break I caught him staring at me when I was sitting right next to him... When I looked at him, he kept staring, when I looked away and looked back, he was still staring. He sat there for 5whole minutes staring at me, and only stopped when the bell rang. Later I texted him saying what was up with you at break. He said "looking into the future, space, time, oh yeah... And the homework... Well ttyl..." then he signed off. Ever since then, things have been choppy with us. He wont even look at me anymore, let alone flirt with me. Last year he asked me to dance but I panicked and said no (big mistake).he also told me I have the most amazing smile...
What do you think he means by "future space time etc.?


Hey girl,


The only way to find out what he meant is to ask him! He may have been shy and not sure what to say, so I wouldn't read too much into it. If you wish you had danced with him last year, why not ask him to dance?

Meghan D.

by Butterfly_lover on 12/31/2011 10:39:26 AM


MOD MOD i have a crush on someone, how can i tell he likes me back. i've caught him staring at me and some times he cuts my conversations by saying hi to the people i am talking to. however, he looks at me when he says hi to them. please help! Sarah


Hey girl, sounds like he likes ya to me. Start flirting and talking to him more and see what happens. Smile Smile

Lynae P.

by pepper444 on 12/23/2011 6:05:25 PM


okay so i like this guy but i dont even know if he knows if i exist how do i get him to notice me and how do i satrt talking to him?

Hey girlie,

Try giving him a quick compliment one day! Say something like, "I love that plaid shirt!" or "The patches on your backpack are so cool." It'll make him feel good - and also let him know you exist. Win-win! Then take advantage of the fact that you're speaking to him - ask him a question about the homework/his hobbies/his plans for the holidays. Over time, you'll get better at starting convos because you'll have a better idea of what he likes to talk about! Smile Start off with your goal as "I'm going to get to know him better." The rest will come!
Lauren C.

by init2winit99 on 12/22/2011 9:37:11 PM


MOD MOD MOD!! i have a best guy friend and i was texting him yesterday and i was talking about this boy i like and i sed im probly annoying you by talking about him too much and he sed exactly this "No i care u can keep talking if it makes u feel better and i like to listen so if u ever hav anything to say i will always be here for u" do u think he likes me or is he just being nice? ThanksSmile

I think hes being a supportive friend Smile keep him around. Hes a good friend to have. xoxo kerra 
Kerra S.

by FigureSkater08 on 12/20/2011 5:13:14 PM


my crush is always sending me ;) ....

by usmcbratknc on 12/20/2011 3:03:24 AM


So my closest guy friend is really sweet and sensitive. He always makes me laugh and i really want to go out with him. The only problem is he only likes me as a friend. How do i get him to change his mind. Please help me!

Well, you can't force it, babe.  Your best bet is to start towing the line between friendships and more than friends.  Start being extra cuddly or flirtatious and see how he reacts.  Does he play back?  Then you've got the green light to keep trying.  Does he act strangely?  Then you know to cut it out. 
Jordan S.

by novalesko on 12/13/2011 3:07:27 PM


My bgf is so cute and he would always txt me asking what the homework was. The thing is were in different classes. Does this mean he's crushing on me?

Hm, that's definitely suspicious.  Sounds like he may have some interest in you, he's just unsure. 
Jordan S.

by novalesko on 12/13/2011 3:04:48 PM


I have liked this guy for a VERY long time. He is so sweet and we talk constantly. He sends ;) and Smile after just about every text he also puts x) because he knows it cracks me up. My family just had to put my grandmother in a nursing home and it was extremely hard on me and the whole time I was going through this he made sure he kept my mind off of the subject. We went to homecoming together about a month and a half ago and at the time he said he kind of liked me but like I said that was a while ago. He also had told me he liked this other girl who lets face it ALL THE GUYS LIKE. Today we talked about who we like and he said he still likes that girl but he isn't sure anymore because they are just really god friends and he wanted to know who I like. I told him idk if it would be the best thing to talk about and he asked me why so I said if you knew you would understand and he said well if you ever want to talk to me about it you can. Should I have told him how I feel?

I think you should have. You two seem super close and im sure he likes you too. Not positive though. If you are willing to take the risk i say you tell him. xoxo kerra 
Kerra S.

by immarunner1881 on 12/11/2011 8:00:15 PM


SO there is this guy i know from my karate class. He is cute and really fun to hang out with. Next year ill be a freshman and i hope to get accepted into this school. i didn't know he went there but when i found out i nearly fainted! lol there is only one prob is 3 years older then me so what do i do? he will be a senor but i don't know haha helpppp!!! i know he likes me cuz we are always talking and hes just so nice

Just keep talking to him! If you get to know him its going to be easier to get closer with him. Good luck! xoxo kerra 
Kerra S.

by just another prob on 12/11/2011 7:23:19 PM


I need your advice!! I really like this guy but he is two years older than me and goes to a different school-i only see him at school events-like basketball games-against his school-but every time he sees me he comes over to talk to me-he teases me all the time-and my friends say he always seems like he is looking for me at the games and stuff-so do you think he might like me back?? what do i do??


Lynae P.

by cowgirlup7 on 12/7/2011 7:19:11 PM


Okay, so I have been texting my crush and he said that he liked me about a week or two ago. Lately, he hasn't been showing much interest to me. He used to send an occasional smiley face, but now he rarely sends them. Plus, at school we hardley ever talk, but we are starting to talk more... Should I be worried that he doesn't like me anymore?

Hey girlie,

Try not to over-react! He might have run out of things to talk about, he might've gotten a little spooked about dating, or he might've gotten busy. It's possible his crush faded a little, but it's not the ONLY thing that could've happened! Instead of texting him a lot, try talking more in school/online. Grow closer as friends so there isn't a lot of pressure put on each text - then try to start it up again Smile 
Lauren C.

by kt_catlover on 12/2/2011 11:32:47 PM


MOD I met this guy over the summer in a month long summer camp. Lately, we've been texting nonstop... He lives in a city about three hours away and knows how to drive. I really like him and I'm pretty sure he likes me back, but it's kind of hard to see him because of the distance and the fact we're both seniors and have busy schedules yet my parents travel to the city he lives about once or twice every two months... I really want to spend some time with him but I'm not sure how to arrange it, any ideas?

Hey babe! 

Do you two have Skype or Ichat accounts? They let you virtually hang out with each other when you can't get to spend time together face-to-face. And if he lives far away, ask your parents to take you in to the city so you can meet up and hang out! Good luck! xoxox 
Devin A.

by Jaypaw8 on 11/21/2011 12:43:07 PM


Ok so there's this guy (hes one of my guy friends. hes real cool!) who every time he sees me high-fives me and tells whoever im with that im awesome, and hes always asking if the other guy i am hanging out with is my bf, n my friend thinks he likes me, but i cant tell...

Hey girlie,

He sounds like he could just be an interested, friendly friend, but personally it sounds like he might have a lil crush on ya! Try talking to him more, hanging out, and flirting a little - teasing him, complimenting, joking around, etc. Give it a try and you'll get a better idea of his feelings! <3
Lauren C.

by JBgal33♥ on 11/20/2011 7:20:21 AM


MOD MOD MOD! ok so there is a guy that likes me, and hugs me alot. I am okay with him hugging me every-so-often, but he does it every time he sees me! what is a nice and polite way to tell him not to hug me as much. i really dont want to hurt his feelings, but its making me a little uncomfortable.


Hey chicky, before he even goes in for a hug, give him a high five or fist pound. Hope this helps! Smile

Lynae P.

by jesusluverjkm on 11/19/2011 8:08:24 PM


help there is 2 guys guy#1 lies me and i told him i liked him because my friends want to go out with him but i dont want to his bestfriend is guy#2.guy#1 told my friend that guy#2 likes me but hes not going to do anything to show it because he wants guy#1 to "get me" but i like guy #2 help !!!!!!!! (p.s. i would tell guy#1 that i dont like him but he sits beside me in to classes)

by jordy123 on 11/17/2011 11:37:39 PM


hey! so i really like this guy, & he likes me too. we go to different schools but we live in the same town. we don't get to see each other much, but we text almost everyday. but we've been running out of things to talk about! i don't wanna have boring "hey whats up" conversations....i want them to actually go somewhere! & also, what are you're suggestions for what we should do when we do get to hang out? we're not going out (yet!), so just some suggestions for things to do as friends.

Hey Girl,

If he texts you "hey what's up" first, respond with something else besides a basic "oh not much,..." or however you usually respond. Tell him something interesting that happened to you that day, and make sure it's something that he can ask you questions about. This will make your convo longer. Ask him for advice or help with schoolwork. Since he goes to a different school, he might have a different way of looking at things, and guys love helping out girls! You can also just play a game of questions where you ask each other any questions that you don't know the answer to– think deep questions, like what's his dream job, what movies he would take on a desert island with him, and what he would do if he won the lottery. Then, let him ask you things he wants to know. It's a fun getting-to-know you game and it will bring you guys closer!  
Rachel N.

by gymnastera on 11/17/2011 4:48:03 PM


I rally like this guy and we went out for & months but then we broke up. I still really like him but i'm not sure if he still like me. I can't stop thinking about him and want to ask him back out. what should I do?

by Buzzy Lizzy on 11/17/2011 4:08:42 PM


Thnx my ex nvr sent me any of these

by macaronimusic on 11/13/2011 8:12:36 AM


what do I do when when someone asks me for my number and I don't want to give it to them, but i don't want to be rude and and tell them no they can't have it.

Hey girlie,

Good question! You could say a couple of things - 

1) "Oh, I rarely use my phone. It's better if we just talk in person the next time we see each other!"

2) If you don't know him that well... "I would, but I don't think my boyfriend wouldn't like that!" then laugh

3) "Only my close friends have this number. Sorry!"

Just be direct and confident when you're saying no. It's your personal number - it's not rude to say no! <3 
Lauren C.

by macaronimusic on 11/13/2011 8:01:57 AM


So, there's a guy I like. And he likes me. But we've had our ups--- and our downs. He said he loved me and I really took it to heart.. Yet, there's things I ind out that bother me.. He told me he's told 2 OTHER girls that he loved them in his like (He's 14 by the way so thats pretty young!) and we had a fight about it. I soon forgave him because he said it was a one-time mistake. Then after the week goes on I hear that he lost his virginity at 13. I flip out at him and he said it was an honest mistake. Is it wrong for me to keep forgiving him? Should I have given him that chance? Help!

by ItsBayls on 11/12/2011 2:50:23 PM


I'm having some trouble here with this guy I'm liking..... A lot. He tells me he loves me all the time. Do u think he means it? He holds my hand he hugs me he play wrestles me he calls me beautiful and he kissed me on the cheek once. I really like him. We have cute pet names for eachother and we have been so close since first grade. He told me he loved me over text message and that I'm his favorite girl. And in school he tells me he loves me randomly. I believe him. But then trouble came...... This girl flirts with him 24/7 and he sometimes returns the favor. But people tell me he likes me a lot but I'm starting to think he likes this other girl. What am I suppost to think??? Please help I really like him.

Hey Girl,

Set this cutie straight by telling him how you feel. Saying "I love you" is a big step for any relationship, and if he's telling you this before you even date, you have a right to know what he means. It sounds like he likes you a lot, but you need to make sure it's just you he likes and that he's not just a big flirt. The next time you're hanging out one-on-one, tell him you like him. Since you're close, it won't seem desperate or creepy, and this way he'll have to tell you how he feels instead of just showing it. Good luck sweetheart! 
Rachel N.

by greekprincess98 on 11/11/2011 11:30:51 AM


That really helps! I just got my crush's number! Smile He asked me if I saw anything while I went hunting!

by Cra-Z-Brunette on 11/10/2011 11:27:22 PM


MOD MOD MOD the guy I like knows I like him and I've liked him since 7th grade and now were in 8th his friend told me he thinks he likes me nd yesterday he said he was talkin to him and his friend said so r u takin someone to 8th grade banquet? And the guy I like said yah and his friend said are u gonna ask so nd so? And he said noo!! And then his friend said my name and he said yes probably. Does this mean he likes me? Because he's already thinking about somethin 6months away and wants to take me? ThanksSmile)

Hey chica! If what your friend is saying is true and your crush does ask you, then that's a pretty big hint that he likes you Smile


Becca G.

by FigureSkater08 on 11/10/2011 9:06:05 PM


i have a crush on a guy that is in 2 classes with me. we make a lot of eye contact and we have had conversations at school. im too shy to text him! how do i find out if he likes me or not???

Hey girl! The best thing to do is to be brave and go for it! Talk to him a little more and get to know him. Ask him questions about classes or music. It can be super intimidating, but put on a little confidence and a big smile! You'll shake your fears in no time! 

Taeler L.

by littlemissawesomness on 11/10/2011 8:05:45 PM


MOD!; so me and this guy have been through a lot and i havent treated him the best, ive realized that and have been trying to get him to talk with me, and he really likes me too, but now he has a gf and said its cause he didnt know i still liked him and wish i wouldve told him sooner, now ive poured my heart out to him and i dont know what else to do, what do you guys think?


Hey girl, aww I'm sorry. You have to accept the fact that he's with someone else now. Maybe you guys will get back together, you never know. And just think there are other guys out there who will like you as much as this guy liked you, so no worries. I hope you feel better and let me know if I can help with anything else. Smile Smile

Lynae P.

by koolaidkait on 11/9/2011 6:11:02 PM


Okay so I definitely like this guy mike bc my face goes red and my hands sweat and stuff like that when I'm near him. I want him to ask me to semi formal but he isn't going bc he is going on a trip for the weekend. My friend says he would ask me if he was able to go bc she says that he likes me too or at least he looks at me and talks to me a lot. I'm kinda disappointed now but also happy at the same time that he probably would have asked me. Kay so now for my questions: is there anyway that I can stop getting soo red when I'm near him? What should I do if someone else asks me to semi? How do you say no to a guy nicely without hurting their feelings if u really don't want to go with them?


Hey chica, you just have to try and calm yourself when he comes around you. Try breathing in and out slowly or maybe drinking water. Remember he's a human being just like you, just a guy so no need to get nervous. And thank the other guys for asking you but tell them that you're going with your girlfriends or that you didn't want a date. Hope this helps and have fun at the dance!! Smile Smile

Lynae P.

by honeycakes on 11/9/2011 5:52:12 PM


ok there is this guy who i kinda like (iw ouldnt be heart broken if he went out w/ someone else) we txt and email, he will tell me i am pretty just not in that way, he never has crushes or anything and there have been truth or dares and stuff, and he "claims" to "like" a girl who is in our close group of friends but she doesnt like him and he doesnt care i am so confussed, i have glasses/contacts i say i look dorky or geeky or ugly he will tell me thats not true, and then i will say every boy in school hates me except a cousin i am close with and he will say 'you forgot i am not on that list i dont hate you' he confuses me so much but things normally arent awkward except when i get flutters when he tells me im pretty. SO CONFUSED PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Hey girl, I don't know if he's crushing on you, but he does like you as a friend at least. It sounds like he's not really attracted to you romantically, but he still cares about you and cares about bringing you up. So embrace his friendship. He seems like a nice guy and he can't help who he does or doesn't have a crush on.

Alyssa B.

by rockinretro on 11/7/2011 6:17:24 PM


WHat do guys mean when/intentions when the trust you with their like deep dark secrets now one else knows? Like good or bad?

Hey girl, that's good. It means they really trust you and don't mind telling you things they wouldn't tell anyone else. Be careful though: if those deep dark secrets are ever dangerous or life threatening, it's your job as a friend who cares to let an adult know so your guy friend can get the help he needs.

Alyssa B.

by 4202_luver on 11/7/2011 5:53:37 PM


Mod mod 
So I started texting my crush the other day (I Finally asked him for his number). I have liked him for almost 6 years. When we started texting it was a short convo like  me: "hey what's up"  b: "nm eating beans and cheese u?" me: eating pot roast" b: " yumm stuff" me: "yup" Well we only said that then we didn't text, I text him yesterday to ask what the spanish hw was(even though i already knew) he told me what it was then I sent back "thanks" he never replied I was a Little heartbroken.  Is there anyway I can get us into a longer convo? I really like him, whenever he text me my heart skips  a beat. He is really nice and charming, smart, cute, athletic...I could go on forever.  I just don't know how to act around him? Please help! Btw we Are in 8th grade. 
Thanks mod! 
Luv, Peyton


Hey chica! If you want to engage in more conversation you have to quit the small talk! Try not to ask him questions that only require a "yes" or a "no" or short answers like that. Ask more open-ended questions. For example, you could start off by saying the usual "what's up, how are you?" then maybe ask him about his plans for the weekend. He should more than likely tell u in a few sentences then hopefully he'll ask you about your plans. That way the convo will be a bit longer. You'll start to get more comfortable with each other after a while. Just let it flow, more conversation topics will come up as the days go by. 

Amalia E.

by Girlzrock123 on 11/7/2011 2:35:04 AM


Mod** So... there's a guy. I like this guy. But, more than a friend. I think he knows that I like him, but he's not the kind of guy to show his emotions... He's very confidential. So, the problem? I don't know what to say to him. He doesn't have the cleanest mind, so I tease him about that. And there is other stuff we talk about like how i work where his dad manages and stuff, but other than that, I am very dead locked. Any ideas?

Hey girlie,

Those are great starts!! Instead of trying to plan great topics to talk about, try letting each convo progress on its own. Keep an ear open for questions you can ask about his hobbies/fam/friends/ideas/life, opinions you can give on the topic, etc. while you're already talking. Just stay calm and be attentive - that's MUCH easier and MUCH more natural than trying to write a script! Smile 
Lauren C.

by kt_catlover on 11/5/2011 9:08:12 PM


I know this totally amazing guy that is a sophomore and i am an eight grader. We text all the time, but hes like my brother. But lately, I have been noticing that when i text him, my stomach gets all tingly. Do i like him? But that would be weird because he is one year younger than my brother?

by Jsizzle12 on 11/5/2011 6:30:03 PM


MOD MOD MOD!! I'm so confused! There's this guy I like and my friend and his friend thinks he likes me. There was a Halloween party and they said he looked at me alot and he even talked to me. Last year he told my friend he thinks I'm cute. But now I'm afraid he likes this girl whos in my 2nd and 5th period which he's in too. She talks to him in those classes and so does he an it seems more than just talking. My friend who has both of them in 1st period said they never talk or even look at eachother in there. Then why does he talk to her in the classes w me?? Does he like her? Does he still like me? Does he like both of us?? Pleeeaasse helllppp!!!!!


Hey girlfriend, I think he still likes you. You just need to make it clear that you like him too. Maybe the teachers are less strict in your class, and allow people to talk. No worries girl. You just gotta get your man lol. Hope this helps!! Smile Smile

Lynae P.

by FigureSkater08 on 11/5/2011 6:25:53 PM


Ok well there is this really cute boy i like alot the i can barly breathe when i am around him and if he looks at me my heart jumps. Anyways I went to a dance and he was there and I brought my sister. Well this guy that likes me asked me to dance so I said sure. While we were dancing he told my crush to dance with my sister the whole time so he could dance with me. I was super upset. So I only got to dance with my crush once. Then i find out the whole world told him i like him but he likes my sister. That made me depressed. Well we took his number from my friend and I texted him. We flirted alot. We texted for 6 hours straight then he stoped texting me. Since then he has been ignoring me and I wont see him to talk about it. Then a couple of days ago he sent me a texand i responded but he never did repsond back. I am super confused on whats going on. Please help!

Hey girlie,

If you've heard rumors that he likes you sis (and he's shown behavior to support that), it's possible that he does like her and was chatting with you a little bit in order to get closer to her. It's a bummer, but sometimes this stuff happens Frown The upside is that there WILL be guys out there who like you while you like them - the timing will be perfect and it'll feel amazing! But this isn't it. So instead of freaking out about it, respond if he texts you...but don't text him first. Instead, focus your attention on your besties, your activities, your sports, and your hobbies. Put yourself out there and be outgoing the next time you're in a public place/a party/a school function. Talk to everyone and keep your eyes peeled for new crush prospects. He didn't do anything wrong or mean to you - he just followed his own heart - but you don't wanna get hung up on him if his mind is elsewhere, ya know? No sense waiting for him and wasting your own time! <3<3
Lauren C.

by polkadotruby7 on 11/4/2011 11:21:49 PM


mod mod
so I finaly asked my crush (of 7 years) for his number! Smile im so happy so anyways we started texting & first off he didnt know who it was which i understand cuz there are 2 of us with the same name so yah anyways but we started talking and i said what up he said eatting i said me too he said "yum stuff" and i said yup he never replyed i dont want to text him again and seem like obsesed or anything so i really like him we are in 8th grade and I really want to become closer so idk what to do plz help... I mean he is the guy of my dreams he is a football player, on swim team, track, cross country, and he is super smart and hes cute... so anyways how can I get closer to him, when I talk to him at school I get nervous, and have butterflys in my stomach, so yah I dont know how to get closer to him please help! I feel like I need a Taylor Swift song to explain this lol Smile thanks mod
Luv, Peyton

Its hard to reply to a text that says "yep" so try responses that will keep the conversation going. Say yep and then ask him a question. That will keep the convo from dying and youll get to know him better Smile xoxo kerra
Kerra S.

by girlzrock123 on 11/4/2011 8:21:24 PM


MOD MOD MOD! Please help! I really like this guy and people said that he likes me too. But hes 18 and I'm only 13.Right now hes off at collage and theres really no way I can talk to him or any thing except through facebook.(but we never seem to be on the same time) Any who... am i to young for him? and how can we talk to each other? Oh yeah we have never talked to each other. Thanks it really means alot.

Hmm that does seem like a big age difference. Plus I'm pretty sure there are laws about people over 18 dating kids under 16. Im not positive though. It depends on the state. So be wary of that. Plus if you two never talk how do you expect to have a relationship with him? Just be careful. xoxo kerra 
Kerra S.

by Ndadgirl on 11/4/2011 5:08:00 PM


How can i flirt with a guy in public places without too many ppl noticing ??(: Thanks

Hey girly! Dont be to obvious about it because guys can be really shy when it comes to feelings. with out being all over your guy just let him know you are there by touching his arm or holding his hand every once in a while  
Ana D.

by lilgymnast11 on 11/3/2011 10:39:13 AM


Ok so my crush and I text sometimes. I usually have to text him first. He always says"sup" when I say hey. And what are some cute things to say and what are some questions I could ask him?

by GotDance13 on 11/1/2011 10:43:04 PM


MOD MOD MOD!!! I really need some advice! So a boy at my school said that he liked me on text... then he asked me if i liked him...i said kinda. Then the next day he gets a GF. They only lasted for about a week. the next day he says that he loved me. I told him that love is a big word and he was positive that he loved me. Then the next month he gets another GF. Before he had a GF he said i was beautiful and amazing. He asked me if we could have a relationship.. but i said no because im too young. He wasnt too happy. We r still good friends but its starting to get awkward. He is really sweet but he is flirty to allllll girls. when he breaks up with one girl he has another GF the next day. idk wat to do if he ever asked me out. i dont just want to be one of those other girls. but i want to stay as friends.. what should i do?


Hey honey, your intuition is right about this boy. He seems like a player. I'm not sure if you should get involved with someone like him because he could end up hurting you. He may be doing this same thing to another girl. You can be his friend but as far as a relationship, you deserve better. 

Amalia E.

by basketball911 on 10/30/2011 6:23:57 PM


MOD MOD MOD I have a question! I have a guy friend I really like,if u know what I mean. I would really like to work up the courage to ask him out. I'm pretty sure he likes me back. I am scared to ask him because if he really doesn't like me I don't know if we could go back to being friends. Another thing to complicate all this is that my other BGF has an obvious crush on me and has even asked me out. One part of me really wants to date the guy I like, the other part is confused and muddled up. I need your advice! Thanks

Hey girlie,

Listen to your heart on this one! Don't let that confusion get to you - you have a crush, so try to focus on pursuing that and don't let the stress of it ruin the experience Smile Since you don't wanna ask out your BGF before you know for sure (I wouldn't either!), try flirting with him and hang out with him more to see how he acts towards you. Compare that with how he acts around other girls. And the more you get to know him, the better you'll be able to judge the vibes you get from him (if there are any) Smile 
Lauren C.

by ktkittykat11 on 10/29/2011 9:47:21 PM


i HAVE A REALLY CRAZY SITUAION. I've liked this guy since last year and he knows I like him. I know he liked me last year, and we even dated for like two days. Sometimes he texts me but we never get as far as "hey whats up nothing u same cool g2g bye" this morning he texted me saying "very" and i said what and he said "idk u tell me" and it continued to be a very strange convo. the problem is i dont even know who's using his phone. And I know he likes other girls that are actually VERY different from me. By a lot. and I still really like him but it's SUPER awkward to get even 2 feet away from him, no way would i talk to him....everytime I try to find a new crush and i tell myself "i don't like him anymore" i will always love him!!! please help!!!!!!!!! i am soooo lost. also everyone thinks he's weird. :/

Hey girlie,

It is a little odd that you keep having these strange convos, but just because everyone thinks he's weird doesn't mean he really is. Personally, I would try to see if I could turn those convos into something. Instead of just letting the convo die, ask him questions! Open-ended questions that he can't just answer with one word. That way, you encourage him to communicate with you, show you're interested, and also learn something about him. Pretty good, right? It'll feel awkward at first to do something different like this, but just take a deep breath and go for it. The more you push your comfort zone, the easier it'll be! But he could also just be "That Guy," that one crush that you never truly lose feelings for. But over time, if you stop talking to him so often and try to force yourself to think about him a little less, he could end up being a nice memory - and not something that holds you back from connecting with other crushes <3
Lauren C.

by skinnyblonde99 on 10/28/2011 7:33:50 PM


okay. so my best guy friend(crush)switched classes.
some girl i know likes him too. the thing is, he always talks to me and says shes ugly and fat and says im much prettier...idk what to do!!!! agree or tell him to knock it off???

by fuzzmonkey on 10/27/2011 7:49:02 PM


Okay, so there's guy I like and he's a couple years older than me. All of my friends think we would be really cute and even my mom thinks we should go out. We text a lot but whenever we text he always talks about this girl Amanda that he likes and I mean ALWAYS. He says he really likes her and they're eventually going to go out. I thought that he liked me because he flirts with me a lot. He calls me pet names like smurf and we had a "sword" fight. He even let me sit in his lap one time. One time when we texted I said something about what if he liked someone else and he replied "sorry but you're too young;)" ad he texts with winky faces all the time. Does he like me or not???

Hey cutie!

This is reeeallly tricky.  If he likes that other girl, then there's really no way to deflect that interest back onto you until he's done with her.  For now, I'd just play the faithful best friend who's always there for him.  Then, when he seems to lose interest in this "Amanda" you can try testing the waters, and weighing how many signals you're getting.
Jordan S.

by Bornagain on 10/27/2011 4:27:13 PM


MOD MOD MOD! ok so theres this guy that i've been talking to for a few days and so far hes really awesome we've been texting non stop and he been asking me why i don't have a boyfriend and what not so he i know he likes me, its just he's a senior and i'm only a sophomore and he kind of has a bit of a reputation but he hasn't been going out with anyone in about a year so has he changed? one of his friends says hes a lot nicer now but i'm not sure if i should go for it or not...


Hey missy, sorry I can't answer your question right now! Check in with some of your other gal pals on here for advice, I'm sure they'll be willing to help you out. Thanx a bunch for understanding!!! Smile Smile

Lynae P.

by allisonkrum12 on 10/26/2011 5:58:49 PM


MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD Hey, I have a HUGE problem. I don't know how to flirt. When I meet a cute guy, and I don't flirt, I come off as being friend-material. What do I do??????


Hey missy, sorry I can't answer your question right now! Check in with some of your other gal pals on here for advice, I'm sure they'll be willing to help you out. Thanx a bunch for understanding!!! Smile Smile

Lynae P.

by allykat2496 on 10/26/2011 1:39:05 PM


but what if he's sending the sticking tongue out face? what does that mean?

by ashley4evr on 10/23/2011 10:45:32 AM


Help me , i need something to text this guy i like that I think likes me to get interested again because I texted him a few days ago and i said , " hey , we haven't talked in a while and then he said " because of you " ! Then after that i txted him back saying WHY and he never answered. The strange thing is that we use to txt literally everyday . I want that to start happing again and hopefully he will be interested again . What do you think is up with him !

Hey girl,

Can you talk to him in person about this? Don't get too serious about it, but just playfully ask him - "why is it my fault we haven't talked?!" And then you can talk it out. Apparently you stopped chatting with him or did something to make him stop, but it doesn't sound like we know what that is! So do a little work to see if there's something key that you did in the past or if he was just being silly. It's worth it if ya wanna save your text-relationship Smile 
Lauren C.

by angel563346 on 10/22/2011 9:09:33 PM


MOD! Were are good places to go to meet new guys? The only places i go to regularly atm is school and the stables, and trust me, no guys there!! It just seems like i don't ever meet anybody!


Hey missy, check out movie theatres, skating rinks, the mall, music stores and skateboard parks. You should be able to find a cutie at, at least one of those places. Hope this helps!!! Smile Smile

Lynae P.

by Switch-Blade on 10/22/2011 8:32:12 PM


MOD MOD So the guy that I like and I have like little inside jokes and stuff. he does this thing & it's super annoying, he texts me & he'll just say "k" no matter what I says because he knows that I hate it when people do that. He says "it's funny because you don't react". Do you think it's a joke or is he flirting? Also, he's super smart so I asked him to help me out with my worst subject and he said yes. So he helped me so much, like I have never understood anything about this subject and he made me understand it. He was so patient and nice about it when I didn't understand what he was trying to say. Do you think it would be okay if I asked him for help just before tests so I can bring up my grade or is it a bad idea? I don't want him to feel like he has to just to be nice. Also, someone told him that I liked him before I even asked him to study and he wasn't awkward or anything. I want to tell him I like him, but is there actually hope that he likes me too? How do I tell him


Hey chicky, with the "K" thing, I think he's joking and flirting. He probably thinks it's cute and funny that don't react, so that's why he always does it. Aww that was so sweet of him to tutor you. I think you should defintely ask him for help before a big test. Seems like he would be more than happy to help you. It also sounds like he does like you. He always texts you, you guys have inside jokes, and he helped you study. Maybe ask him to hang out or something. Hope this helps!! Smile Smile

Lynae P.

by freshh123 on 10/22/2011 8:08:13 PM


Ok, I have a BIG! crush and this guy. He's in my social and gym class. He looks at me a lot. Whenever I look at him he's looking at me. My BFF say that he looks at me a lot. I dont know if I should smile or.....I thought he liked me but at the football game he was flirting with girls older then us. Am I over-thinking this or does he really like me. HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


Hey chica, I'm not sure. Whenever you catch him looking at you, try smiling back and/or waving and see what he does back. If he starts smiling, waving, or talking to you a lot after that then he may like you. Hope this helps!! Smile Smile

Lynae P.

by heartgirl0214 on 10/22/2011 7:48:27 PM


MOD!!! Laughing Ok so there's this guy i like. We used to talk everyday on Facebook and he sits next to me in 2 out of 6 classes and I play basketball with him at lunch, so we hang out alot. Well he likes to make "funny jokes" and every time he makes them, I never realize until he tells me "he's just kidding"!!! 2 examples are : 1) He gave me a starburst candy (which i thought was cute) and right when i put it in my mouth and started chewing, he tells me he found that starburst in an open pack of them on the floor in our science class! 2)He told everyone that I stalk him on Facebook and when he saw i was angry, he told me he was kidding after practically the whole class knew. I tell him I don't like when he does that kind of stuff, but he still does it :/ How do i let him no i'm serious???? I still like him it's just that it gets annoying.


Hey chica, maybe you should do it to him, so he knows what it feels like.  Say something that's really going to make him mad, let him get angry, and then say "just joking". He'll understand how you feel and will stop. Hope this helps!!! Smile Smile

Lynae P.

by chocolatecharme on 10/22/2011 6:36:48 PM


I Talk To This Guy Alot hes 2years Older Than Me and I Like Him But I dont know if he likes me? He Says he Loves Me , But I Dont Know If He likes me . Plz Help

by Rabiah<3 on 10/21/2011 4:16:58 PM


I Talk To This Guy Alot hes 2years Older Than Me and I Like Him But I dont know if he likes me? He Says he Loves Me , But I Dont Know If He likes me . Plz Help

by Rabiah<3 on 10/21/2011 4:15:30 PM


MOD MOD MOD lately this guy has been flirting with me like crazy! We've never talked much before, we are more classmates than friends. But he's been showing a lot of interest, but he's also sworn up and down to his friends that he doesn't like anyone! Should I take this as I sign that he likes me or what?! I need help!

I would play it safe, just in case Smile

Brittany G. 
Brittany G.

by becool101 on 10/18/2011 11:44:35 PM


MOD MOD MOD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
ok so there is this guy that i am totally in love with!!! i know that going to love is a very strong feeling but it is truly the way i feel!!!!!!! so he had liked me for 3 months and i had liked him for the same amount of time but when i learned at a football game yesterday that he likes my best friend instead of me i was holding back tears so i texted him and said
"so i heard u like so-and-so shes nice!" and he replied "........" so then i didnt reply and then he winked at me and said he thought i was mad at him (when in reality i am but i would but i would never tell him that) i am trying to get over him because i know we will never have a future together now and i am really confused at the same time!!!!!! the worst part is that 2 guys i dont like like me and i dont even know 1 of them!!!!!!!! help!!!!!!!

Hey girlie,

First off, well-played. You did exactly the right thing here - you were mature and pleasant even when you found out bad news. That's great!!!! Who did you find out from that he likes your bestie? Because the way he responded to your text is a little odd - it could mean that he likes her and didn't know how to respond to a text about it, OR that he was confused where you got that info, OR that it was totally wrong. Since he winked at you afterward and made sure you were happy, he seems like he's at least still interested in being friends. Hang in there and let this one play out - you'll figure out over time if he really does like your bestie and not you, and you'll also come up with ways to be his friend even while all this is going on. As for those other two guys, it's always smart to keep your options open! Who are they? Are they cute? Smile Get to know them better and see if you might click with one of them! Who knows! 
Lauren C.

by Balletgirl1198 on 10/16/2011 1:14:01 AM


this goes along with my friends question from before:
he finally text back, they talked for a little while (p.s. she told him she liked this other guy shes been crushing on forever) shes freaking out... what should she do? she is so the opposite of hard to get... she is super flirty and texts him a lot.. what should she do?
thanks so much
BHE and her friend Smile
Lauren C. PleaseSmile

Hey again,

Ooo ok well then, she told him she liked someone else...that's different! He could've been feeling awkward because she admitted she liked someone else! Or he could've not known how to go back to talking normally with her after going into such a personal subject. Either way, if he's texting her now, that's awesome! She just needs to relax and take it one day at a time. Don't text him too much without him responding, give him his space, and see what happens! I'm sure the next time she sees him in person, it'll be fine as long as she acts normal (not awkward!), warm, and happy Smile
Lauren C.

by BehindHazelEyes on 10/15/2011 11:18:28 PM


mod mod mod
why didnt my last post get a respond. my posting has been off for awhile. i dont know whats up with it

Hey girlie,

I'm not sure! Did it get a response yet? If not, I don't see any other unanswered questions here from you. Try posting again, possibly in a different web browser to see if that works <3 
Lauren C.

by BehindHazelEyes on 10/15/2011 10:47:37 PM


Hey, i am with my friend right now and she has a question:
"I like this guy and i have been texting him a lot lately, i asked him who he liked and he wouldnt tell me, i told him though, ive been trying to text him for the past day but he wont text me back, but he texted my friend. is he ingnoring me? Am i texting him too often? (i text him a little more than a few times a day) but he is the type of guy who likes to text a lot, im just not sure why he isnt texting me back, help!" -BHE's friend Smile

Hey babe (and your friend!),

If you told him you like him and he doesn't feel the same (or he does but he doesn't wanna admit it), it might make him feel awkward to know that you like him. So he might not be answering because he isn't sure how to answer! Definitely stop texting so much (especially since he didn't answer) and play a lil hard-to-get for a while. Be busy and let him talk to you. If he doesn't, the next time you see him in person, talk to him and say something like - "Hey! Is everything ok? You seemed a little weird the past couple days." Then let him explain for himself <3 
Lauren C.

by BehindHazelEyes on 10/15/2011 10:04:15 PM


mod mod mod mod
so i have a bf now for like a week since yesterday. hes my first bf and hes a year younger than me.the past couple of days or so ive been kinda confused with my if i actually like him or not..i like him but idk if i really like him as a bf? or if i just like him in that cute little boy way instead?? should i break up with him??
im soo confused!! please help!!!

Hey girlie,

You're probably just freaking out because the whole "relationship" thing feels so new to you. And you don't wanna get trapped with a BF you don't like. But that doesn't actually mean you don't like're just doubting yourself. Stick with it for a little while and make sure you hang out, chat, flirt, etc. so you get to know him better. That's the point of dating - to enjoy your time with someone and to get to know them even better to see if you might be able to spend a long time with them. If you can't, that's ok! But don't give up so early on in the game. Get to know him first! 
Lauren C.

by athena1006 on 10/15/2011 11:27:09 AM


Mod Mod Mod
Ok so I've already asked a question asking if my crush likes me and the mod who answeres said probably. Lately he has been acting different though. He looks at me fairly a lot (from afar) but he is always sorta hiding when he is looking at me. Like for example he he will look at me but stand behind his friend and look over their shoulder. We did a scene together and he got really close. I mean like our faces were less than inch to touching, but with the other girl who played the same part he was llike two feet away from her. The day was the last time we talked but he still looks at me. We don't have any classes together since he is a grade ahead of me. Also I asked my friend who is a boy what the hiding and staring thing meant and he said that the boy doing this didn't want his friends to know me. Do you think he still has a crush on me or has moved on? I'm so Confused. Thanks in advance.

Hey girlie,

It's possible that he is still crushin' but, like your friend said, he doesn't want his buddies to know about the crush. His behavior during the scene with you compared to with the other girl says a lot about how he felt - getting that close to you means he's definitely interested in you in some way. But he might not be comfortable with having a crush (especially one who is younger) or might feel awkward after feeling like he might have come on too strong. Try smiling at him the next time you catch him looking! Look interested in him so he relaxes a little and see how it goes Smile 
Lauren C.

by tikidance354 on 10/14/2011 11:13:22 PM


MOD MOD MOD! There is this guy I like who sits across from me in a class. He is always joking and smiling at me or starting staring contests and smiling. Sometimes he kind of kicks me under the table, but never in a mean way, just joking. I am not sure if he likes me or if hes just a funny guy...

Hey chica,

Does he do this to other girls too? Or only you? That's the best way to guess if he's crushin' or if he's just a clown-around kind of guy. If the playful footsie and jokes are for you alone, it's a good sign he might like ya Smile 
Lauren C.

by soccerreb on 10/14/2011 10:48:21 PM


UGGGG so i have a sortof major delema. I reallllyyyy like this one guy, but i think my 2 best friends like him too. I want to ask him to dance (just for like one song not like the whole night) but my friends can be a little judgemental with my crushes. I don't want to hurt their feelings but i know ill get upset if they start dancing with him. Oh yeah and i forgot to mention this but i think he likes me back Smile im just super confused so thanks sooo much!!!!

Hey girlie,

It might be smart to chat with your friends and, first, try to agree that you're all friends first and you'll put boys second. Friendship lasts longer, after all! But this guy must have feelings too, so maybe you all could try to figure out who he likes - that way, if some of you don't have a shot at dating him, you don't hold a grudge as if the other one "stole" him from you. Dating is a two-way street, you know? It takes two people mutually liking each other to make it work - so it's not like it's totally your decision! 
Lauren C.

by sunshinestar106 on 10/14/2011 10:30:26 PM


I asked out my crush last year, and he said yes. He was my first boyfriend and vice versa. Because of that, we didn't talk, and we broke up after a week. I still like him though. This year, we don't have any classes together but when I see him in the halls, I catch his eye. I got his number, and we started texting. We've had some pretty long conversations. I see him when I walk home, but I never really talk to him face to face. I have maybe once or twice, but I always start the conversation. My first question is do you think that maybe things could work out and we might end up going out again? My second question is why won't he talk to me face to face? Thanks!


Hey girlie,

Challenge yourself to smile or even say a quick "hey!" in the hallway when you pass by him! You're already talking via text, so saying something in person isn't anything crazy. So start there - stop waiting for him and, instead, YOU take it to the next level and slowly go from a passing "hey" to "hey what's up?" to full convos in person. Then, once you're more comfy with each other, take it to the next level by flirting - or even apologizing for how things went while you dated. Be honest and explain that you were nervous, inexperienced, and are now disappointed that you might have messed up a good crush situation. He could have a hard time forgetting your relationship and could also be worried that you'll fizzle out again like you guys did before. So just try to assure him that you're happy, laid-back, and a good friend - and then take it from there <3

Lauren C.

by crazydreamer16 on 10/13/2011 5:38:16 PM


One of my best guy friends and i ave been texting alot lately. Almost every day. We have some funny conversations and out of the blue her said "your pretty." Confused, I said "huh?" And he goes "I just wanted to see your reaction." Im confused now. i keep getting mixed signals from him. Hes really outgoing person and im not sure if he was just being himself. occasionally he hugs me. PLEASE HELP.

Hey babe, 

Since this guy's sending you such mixed signals, why don't you call him out on it? Next time he tries to flirt with you, playfully tease him and see what he does. Good luck! xoxox 
Devin A.

by GrEySoNxFoReVeR on 10/10/2011 1:31:24 PM



by LAS625 on 10/8/2011 9:48:13 PM


There is this guy I like, and sometime I think he likes me but sometime I think he likes some one else. Like one day he will totally flirt with me and the next he is talking with girls on the bus. He asked me for a hug once, but I am not sure what that meant. I am getting mixed messages, help!

Hey babe,

He sounds like a flirty guy! He might like you for sure, but no one is required to only have one crush - not even you! So he might just be keeping his options open by liking a few different girls for different reasons, and/or he's just flirty by nature and likes to talk to girls that way. If you like him, enjoy it and flirt back! But don't get your hopes up - he might just wanna stay single right now so he can enjoy the "flirting life" too. <3
Lauren C.

by LAS625 on 10/8/2011 9:16:55 PM


Ooooh, I get it! Sorry I just signed up and i got really confused! Thank you!

by LAS625 on 10/8/2011 9:15:45 PM


What does the MOD MOD MOD thing mean? I am confused...


Hey missy, MOD is short for Moderator. We moderators help you guys with any problems or concerns you may have. So if you're ever confused about anything let me know!!! Smile Smile

Lynae P.

by LAS625 on 10/8/2011 5:28:30 PM


There is this guy I like, and sometime I think he likes me but sometime I think he likes some one else. Like one day he will totally flirt with me and the next he is talking with girls on the bus. He asked me for a hug once, but I am not sure what that meant. I am getting mixed messages, help!

by LAS625 on 10/8/2011 12:34:28 AM


MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD okay so there is this guy i like, we go to different schools but this evening i was at his high school's football game, and he came over and was talking to my mom. anyway, whenever i'm around him in person i get really nervous and don't know what to say. any tips? thanks!

Hey girl,

This is a little tough, because you don't have classes or hallway time to connect with him. But that doesn't mean you can't go for it! He's clearly out-going since he chatted with your mom with no problem, so try to fake being confident and out-going yourself until it comes naturally to you! Next time you see him (at another game soon, maybe?), go up and say hi! Did mom say anything about her convo with him? If there was something there that you could bring up again, give it a try. If not, try asking him a question about the game or giving him a compliment about him/his outfit/his friends' enthusiasm, etc. Try to be a little creative and like I said, fake it til ya make it! Smile
Lauren C.

by pinkguitar98 on 10/7/2011 11:49:20 PM


This guy texted me saying will you go out with me. I said i rather just be friends because i didn't like him back. But he didn't respond. I texted him earlier today and he still hasn't responded. Do you think me saying no ruined our friendship?

Hey girlie,

Just give this some time. He might be feeling awkward or a little disappointed! So if you give him time to get better, then try to talk in person in a friendly, warm way (like nothing had happened and you're still good friends), you might be able to get him comfortable with you again. Don't force it now though! Texting him too much (and having him ignore the texts) will only make him feel more awkward <3 
Lauren C.

by ilovepiano15 on 10/7/2011 10:22:37 PM


This cute guy who I've heard likes me asked for my number. We texted for a while and that was two days ago. Should I text him or wait for him to text me? I want to seem interested but not desperate. And if I should text him first what would be something to say to get the conversation going?

Hey girlie,

Three days is the perf amount of time to wait before texting again, so you don't smother him with attention or make yourself seem desperate. All you need is a simple "Hey Smile what's up!" to get the convo going again. It's ok to show interest by making the first move in a convo sometimes though, so don't feel like you're bothering him! You sound like you definitely know how to give him his space.
Lauren C.

by madicadaby on 10/7/2011 9:11:43 PM


so ths guy lets call him bryan so i think bryan likes me n he flirts with me n my freinds notice 2 i walk with him to and frm the classes we have together he lirts with me n he like trys to make me laugh n stuff . so when in algebra my class was going to a test in the computer lab so we were standing outside n he was in his class n he saw me n all started smiling n winking at me n wiggling his eyebrows at me so do u think he likes me?

Hey babe,

It sounds like it! Start talking to him more and if you like Bryan back, turn on that flirt girl! He'll definitely give ya some clues (beyond the eyebrow wrigglin' and the smiles) if he really is crushing on you Smile 
Lauren C.

by warrior rose on 10/6/2011 6:40:19 PM


There's this guy I like who's a Junior and I'm a freshman... We text a lot and he's like my big bro.. He doesn't know I like him and I just found out that he likes my BFF, who isn't really friends with him. Every guy I have ever thought was cute or liked, who knows her, has liked her over me. She has always been prettier and skinnier (not that I'm fat). He didn't want to tell me because he thought it would make me mad. I told him I wouldn't get mad, but I couldn't help it. I told him that I was kinda upset and when I told him why he sent me the sweetest text ever. He's like 6'2" and I'm 5'1" so he calls me "Munchkin" and as a joke back I sometimes call him "Giant". He told me that he would never choose her over me and that I'm his munchkin and he's my giant. I was tellng him about this weird stalker guy who wouldn't leave me alone and he said "if you tell him to stop and he doesn't just tell him that youll call your big bro on him Smile" Do you think he likes me? Or what?

Hey girlie!

At this age, even if he does like your BFF, you know they won't be together long IF they even get together.  Chances are, his feelings for her will wear off or she'll hurt him in some way.  If that happens then the best thing you can do is show him that you'll be there for him, whenever he's down no matter what.

And if you want him to start thinking of you as more than just his little sis, then try to push the boundaries of friendship by getting closer to him, like cuddling up to him next time you have a hang out sesh.
Jordan S.

by kickinchic on 10/6/2011 3:28:08 PM


MOD MOD!!!!!! So a few weekends ago for my bday party we went chalking and I chalked the guy I like who knows I like him and we talk sometimes and he sed I was cute and stuff but today in class I was sitting on my desk talking to my friend and he sits a few desks in front if me and he was talking to his friend and then out of the blue he turns around and says "hey you should chalk me again! I have a plan this time to catch you!" and I sed "haha yah I should it was fun" and then we started talking about it and he kept looking at me sometimes in my other classes. Does it mean he's been thinking about it all this time and wants me to chalk him again? Could he possibly like me? What do you think he means? ThanksSmile


Hey missy, of course he likes you! He probably was thinking about it and just had to say something! So chalk him girl. Smile Smile

Lynae P.

by FigureSkater08 on 10/5/2011 8:23:21 PM


MOD MOD MOD Ok when i comes to boys i crush on total Geeks Really total geeks and this this boy likes me and hes one on the ''Geeks '' im talking about well hes in love with me and im afraid if i like him back my friends would be like ewwww u like him or somthing like that , hes not cute at all!!!! but hes really nice and when im around him he's i dont know hes nice to be around (dont get me wrong but when it comes to looks it doesn't brother me)Smile but my friends are just plain IMMATURE and boys in my class would tease me and i don't know if i can risk getting teased for a boy.What should i do?

Hey girl! Don't worry what others think. If you like the boy go for it! For the first week or so you may catch some heat but after that it will die down and your friends can start to see how nice he really is. And who knows, you may even start a trend. 
Ana D.

by mozilla10 on 10/4/2011 6:56:23 AM


MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD! EMERGENCY! So me and my friends went on a triple movie date with our bfs. One of My friends and her bf have been going out for a while and my other friend and me just got bfs. they both talk to them like no prob and hold hands all the time. Not my bf. He says he is too nervous to hold my hand and talk to me. We've only been going out for three weeks and i was thinking about breaking up. He is really nice but can't talk to me! Only text! What should i do??????

Hey babe,

Don't break up with him without really trying to get your point across. He's using the "I'm nervous!" excuse and not working hard enough to get comfortable around you because he's probably scared to open up and really let you get to know him. But he needs to know that, if he isn't willing to open up, show his affection in some way, and really be a BF to you, then that's not what you're looking for. So try to have a heart-to-heart and tell him that - then make the decision whether you'll stay or go <3
Lauren C.

by shammie5 on 10/2/2011 12:41:15 PM


My bf said he is really nervous to talk to me and i recently went on a movie date with him. He said he wanted to hold my hand but he was too nervous... He also said that he is way too nervous to talk to me. I dont know what i should do! Help me!

by shammie5 on 10/2/2011 12:31:44 PM


MOD MOD MOD!!!!!!!! The guy I like knows I like him and he talks to me sometimes and I just freeze up and I'm always scared to say hey to him and his friend thinks he likes me and my friend thinks that too but I just can't see him liking me too. He told my friend last year that I was cute but wanted to wait till highschool to date (were n 8th grade) But I just wanna get closer to him and be able to talk to him without being nervous. What do you think my situation means and what do u think he means by what he's said and what shud I do to talk to him without being awkward? Thanks:]

Hey girlie,

Why can't you see him liking you? I know you may not think so, but I'll bet you're a catch, babe! It sounds like he could definitely like you and want to date you when you get to high school, so try not to withdraw yourself from him. It makes ya nervous, but remind yourself that he definitely could like you - and that you're totally likable. Be confident and talk to him! He's not an alien - he's a boy and you have more in common than you might think. It'll make you nervous at first to be so far outside your comfort zone but, as you prove to yourself you can handle this and can carry on good convos, you'll get more and more confident. You just gotta fake it at first til you get there! Try Facebook chatting with him at first, then over time start talking more in person and even through texts. You just gotta take that leap if you wanna get to know him better! 
Lauren C.

by SnowBoarder88 on 10/2/2011 11:52:16 AM


Hey! My first question didn't go through for some reason... so if it's still there sorry :-/ Anyway, I still like my ex bf, a lot, and I think he likes me too. We went out over a year ago, so I don't think the fact he's my ex is really an issue. It may be, idk. How can I get him to start texting me again? We used to all the time, and I think he still has my number, I know I still have his. I would really like to text with him, or talk on the phone, but I don't know how to, or if I should first. We're friends and all, and we flirt... but I feel strange about doing it first. Is it possible to get him to text me first? If it has to be me, what should I say? Thanks so much!

Hey girlie,

Try to give this some time and gradually talk/flirt more and more in person before you move to text. That way, the texting will seem totally natural because you've actually grown much closer as friends! Then you can text about homework help, the subject of a convo you two were having before that strangely made its way into your day today, a question about something he loves (a sport, a club meeting, a fave TV show), or even just a "hey! what's up?" They'll all seem totally normal once you've grown a lil closer Smile
Lauren C.

by mememe6 on 10/2/2011 12:20:24 AM


MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
My BFF is friends with my bgf. She thinks that he likes me. I believed her the first couple of days...then I asked my other BFF (Also bgf and Bff 1's friend) and she thinks that he likes me too. I think they are out of their minds. My bgf is always nice to me(ever since 1st grade). I haven't noticed that he has been purposely catching up to me at recess until Bff 1 and 2 told me what they thought. I told bff 1 this and she said that my bgf is a lot nicer to me than he is to her,and i told her that i am probably nicer to him..and she agreed. I guess this year he is paying more attention to me...and he always comes to my table at the end of lunch and tries to take my snack.(he didn't do that ever before) Do you think he likes me? I don't want a Bf bc we are only in 7th grade..I just want to know Thanks!

Hey girl,

It's possible that he might be crushing on you, but it's also possible that you're just acting like close, best friends. Since it doesn't matter one way or the other right now (because you aren't ready to date, which is totally fine), try not to obsess over it too much. If you think he likes you, it could put a lot of pressure on the friendship and make you feel awkward. Laugh and shrug off the things your besties tell you about him and keep on hanging out/talking/laughing with him like you always have. Enjoy your friendship and try not to worry about this - you don't know either way right now, so it's not worth it to speculate and stress yourself out Smile
Lauren C.

by jinettejimenez on 10/1/2011 11:06:50 PM


I don't think any guy has said any of these things to me... no guys talk like that!

by facebooker1240 on 10/1/2011 10:40:51 PM


well i have been hanging out with one of my ex bfs a lot and he was the first guy i loved and he was my first kiss. we were friends before we started dating and we've been sort of friends after even though it was akward for a little while. well i went to a football game with my cousin him and his sister and my cousin and his sister kept asking if we were dating again and if we liked eachother but he never answered could he like me again?

Hey girl,

It's possible! But try not to get too set on dating him again, just in case he really is just trying to be good friends with you. Sometimes it's hard to figure out if it's a crush or a best friend, ya know? So let some time pass and try to observe how he acts toward you. Is he flirting with, teasing, and complimenting you more than he does other girls? Or are you just close because you know each other well as friends? You don't wanna ruin a saved friendship by assuming he likes ya, so take it slow and see if you can decode him after a while Smile
Lauren C.

by cgirl751 on 10/1/2011 10:22:44 PM


Im a freshman and I have a crush on one of my sophmore friends. He walks me to gym and we eat lunch together. I'm not sure if he likes me but sometimes when were talking, his friends will come up to him and tell him to stop flirting with the freshman. Whenever they say this he never denies it. He just laughs and smiles at me. What does this mean?

Hey girlie,

It definitely sounds like he might be crushin' on ya! Especially since his friends tease him about it and he keeps on hanging out with you, without defending himself/denying it. Keep doing what you're doing - and even try taking it to the next level by asking him to hang out after school, or study together, or go to the football game together, etc. You're friends at the very least, so why not? Smile
Lauren C.

by earthyartist on 10/1/2011 10:21:13 PM


Mod Mod Mod
There is this guy and he is not really my guy friend but he's not my enemy. Today I caught him kissing this girl at the library. Thank god he didn't see me but after a while there is this jelousy forming in me and I don't know what to do?! I used to like him but I'm over it but still I kind of feel betrayed. I don't know if I should talk to him about it or just stay quiet and if I talk to him about it, what should I say??

Hey girlie,

Although it might seem like a good idea to chat with him about this, the jealousy you're feeling is your issue, not his. That's not to say he wouldn't be concerned for you or care about you, but he's allowed to kiss whoever he wants! So instead of going to him about it, try to reflect on your emotions on your own. Write them down in a diary, then shut the cover and try to keep them out of your head. It's tough to see a crush (even an old crush) moving on with someone new, but that doesn't mean you want to be with that person. You probably are just feeling single and wishing you had someone too. Which is totally fine! So try hanging with your besties and getting involved to meet new guys. Over time (and after you realize there are definitely other options out there for you), the jealousy will get less and less intense - until you don't feel it at all Smile
Lauren C.

by mia847 on 10/1/2011 10:05:16 PM


MODMODMODMODMODMODMODMODMODMOD So this guy I really like started facebook chatting me quite randomly...we don't talk on fb much except for about homework or assignments...well he just says yo. I was wondering if that perhaps means something more? and he's kind of unresponsive like he doesnt want to talk but he started the convo but guys are like that sometimes right? I'd just really like some help trying to understand what he means. Thanks(:


Hey girlfriend, mhmm guys can be tricky like that. Maybe he just wants to stay friends, since it's just facebook chatting. So keep it friendly, and no worries. Hope this helps! Smile Smile

Lynae P.

by raerae815 on 10/1/2011 8:45:53 PM


MOD MOD MOD! I texted the guy that I like saying Hey! What's up? He only replied by saying hey. What does that mean?


Hey girly, mhmm I don't know. I would just ask him again. Smile

Lynae P.

by crazydreamer16 on 10/1/2011 8:34:06 PM


Thanks Lynae P. I am still not sure what to do.


Hey girl, just think about it some more, you'll figure it out. Always follow your heart! Smile Smile

Lynae P.

by sgn_dancer on 10/1/2011 8:11:33 PM


MOD MOD I really like this guy and I'm pretty dang sure he likes me too... but how do I show him I'm intersted without being to obvious in case he doesn't? THANKS!


Hey chica, smile and always wave to him, hold conversations, compliment him, and ask him questions. If any of your friends know him, get them to introduce you two. Smile Smile

Lynae P.

by Pro_Gymnast_32 on 10/1/2011 7:50:26 PM


Help!!!!!! I really like this one guy, and often text him saying hey because I don't have any classes with him Frown so I don't see him a lot. Whenever he texts back, we always get into a great conversation and he compliments me and we talk for a really long time, so that I'm sure he likes me. After a day or two I'll text him again after our convos, hoping to have another one, but most of the time he won't even respond. All my friends say he's playing hard to get, and I don't text him obsessively, so why do you think he's doing this?


Hey girly, he could just be busy. I know sometimes I don't text people back until days or hours later, because I'm busy and don't feel like talking. That could simply be it, so no worries. Try not texting him back sometimes. Hope this helps! Smile Smile

Lynae P.

by reesesgal16 on 10/1/2011 7:40:24 PM


MOD Hi so im in a situation, i have a cell phone, but i cant text. i asked my parents about getting me texting, and they never gave me a straight forward aswere. it was like a latter, but not now time of thing. the thing is i know that latter, is almost always not going to happen unless i keep reminding them. for example, i asked for a rubics cube, and i my mom said she would get me one, i reminded her a few times but after3-4months we went to walmart and i finally got one, only because i asked there. anyways, i want to be able to text, so i was thinking about getting a tracphone. i have enough money to pay for over 5 years, so that isnt a problem. only thing is if i ask my parents they will most likely say that they will get me texting latter and i will never get it. so do you think that i should just get one without telling my parents? i am pretty sure i can keep it from them, and if they find out i am sure they wont care. btw i am 16. if you dont think that i should, how can i ask


Hey chica, mhmm this is a tough one. If I were you I would defintely want to get the tracphone and pay for it myself, but then you would get in more trouble if your parents found out. And what if you ran out of money to pay for the texting? Do you get an allowance? If you do, and you spend all your money on texting and you never have any left over, they may start asking where all your money is going, and then you would get in trouble. I would just ask them again, and explain to them all the benefits to allowing you to text. You don't have to do this, but some people make a powerpoint whenever they're trying to explain things to their parents, so that's one way. Let me know if any of this helps chicky!!!! Smile Smile Smile

Lynae P.

by sgn_dancer on 10/1/2011 7:26:47 PM


so this guy i really like just told me tht he drinks.. as in alcohhl. should i ditch him or just ignore it? PLZ HELP!

by kotahliz on 10/1/2011 7:06:11 PM


MOD MOD MOD!!! there's this really awesome guy that i've been talking to and we like all the same stuff but he just told me that he drinks.. as in alcohol. should i ditch him or just ignore it? cuz i'm totally not going down tht path.. plz help!!!


Hey girlfriend, as long as he knows you're not into that and that he shouldn't do it around you, you're fine. There will always be some differences between the people we get into relationships with, as long as it's something small like this, you don't have to worry. Hope this helps! Smile Smile

Lynae P.

by kotahliz on 10/1/2011 7:04:02 PM


Mod Mod!!!! The guy I like knows I like him and he talks to me sometimes and I just freeze up and I'm always scared to say hey to him and his friend thinks he likes me and my friend thinks that too but I just can't see him liking me too. He told my friend last year that I was cute but wanted to wait till highschool to date (were n 8th grade) But I just wanna get closer to him and be able to talk to him without being nervous. What do you think my situation means and what do u think he means by what he's said and what shud I do to talk to him without being awkward? Thanks:]

by SnowBoarder88 on 10/1/2011 1:44:51 PM


MOD MOD MOD. My ex boyfriend, some other tight friends, and I, went to m friends homecoming party. I had a lot of fun...until the game. My Bff didn't go to my friends party and my ex sat next to her at the game. They had some Smarties and my friend was like "feed them to me! HAHA!" So he did. I sat behind them with my BFG, forced to watch. I thought I was over him until I say that and it brought back the time we had together. I texted him and said "Looks like you're having fun down there", and he said "Ughh seriously?" and texted back and said bye. See, I broke up with him so it makes me totally regret the time we shared. I'm not so sure he cares about me anymore. What should I do? Thanks MOD. Much love to ya!

by birdgirly11 on 10/1/2011 12:04:19 PM


MOD please!

There's this guy that I really like who's only two years older than me. We text all the time and the vibe I'm getting is deff. flirty... but before he really knew me, he asked another girl to homecoming as friends. He's very nice to me and makes an effort to talk to me everyday, and he's let me see that he's a big softie, but I can't tell if he likes me or her! Any tips for how to tell? Thank you!

by lakefairy22 on 10/1/2011 10:58:41 AM


my mom just got a new phone today. Its amazing and its a smartphone and a touch screen. i want one so i called her (she hasnt activated her new phone yet, thats how i saw it;it was on the counter) at work and asked her about it. she said it costs a lil bit of extra cash every month for a smartphone. but i REALLY want one! my phone is fallin apart a bit like its dented chipped and scratched but works fine. but im allowed to get a new one on our family plan and i want a phone like her! she said no cuz of the money, but do you think there is any way i could get her to say yes? like say i'll pay half the extra money every month or work it off? thanks in advance!

by krazykotabug on 10/1/2011 1:52:42 AM


I recently started high school, and I'm not really used to the whole friend-making thing. We're 3 weeks into school, and I haven't really made many friends yet. I talk to people, but nothing has really stuck yet. Do you have any tips? Any ice breakers? Thank you!

Hey girl,

This takes time! It's great you're already talking to people, so keep working at it. Sit at new lunchtables and make an effort to jump into the convos there. Join a new club or sport in order to meet even new people. Be the first one to ask a classmate to partner up for a project. It's all about taking risks - these things help put yourself out there so you can meet and talk to new people. Then, over time, these acquaintances will grow into friends. Soon you'll feel more comfy asking them to hang out outside of school - and from there, the rest will be history Smile 
Lauren C.

by proudhufflepuff on 9/30/2011 11:27:01 PM


SO i like this one guy (yay! score one for originality) and i told this one girl who i had a fight with last year but now it seems like she has forgiven me. Now the friend is friends with the guy so she tlks to him for me. But today, my locker neighbor, another guy, says to me "i hear you like so-an-so..." and i just said no. I think my friend told him, because the other friends i told would never do that. We have been friends too long. What should i do? Does the guy i like possibly like me back and he wanted to see if i liked him? i'm confused. Thank you and sorry this is so long

Hey girl,

She could have spilled the beans...oops! But what is done, is done. Now you know you may not be able to trust that friend with secrets - it's not like she's a bad friend, but you know now that you should keep some info from her if you don't want it to get blabbed around. But this particular piece of info is already out, so own up to it! If someone else asks you, just shrug and say "I might," then walk away. He could like you back, but it's hard to tell just from this interaction - try talking to him and his friends a little more to see if you can pick up on a crush vibe Smile 
Lauren C.

by pottergirl135 on 9/30/2011 10:01:36 PM


Mod! Mod!
I really liked this guy last year and we flirted a lot, and I think he might of liked me. But this year, we haven't talked at all and we don't even say hi to each other anymore. I still like him a lot but i don't know how to talk to him or even say hi because it feels out of place and awkward. I have his number but it feels weird to text him and idk what to do because I wish I could find a way to talk to him. Plz Help!! (sorry its so long and thx in advance)(:

Hey girl,

Try getting back into contact slowly. First, start by warmly smiling as you pass him in the hallway. Then, catch him online or via text and say "It's been forever, yikes things have been so busy. How are you?" or something like that. Make it all about catching up and blame the break in contact over life being busy. I'm not sure exactly what happened to make you guys lose touch, but it's worth a shot like this to get back on track! 
Lauren C.

by theatreluver26 on 9/30/2011 9:14:50 PM


I finally got a phone an want to be able to text my crush but i kind of want to hint on him asking for my number without being to suttle if that doesn't work how can i give him my number without screaming it to the world that i like him?
Thanks a bunch!

Hey girlie,

Try being in a group situation with him where you talk about finally getting your first phone. You can be like, "Omgosh I love it, wait - here, everybody put their number in" and pass around the phone. It's super subtle because you're snagging a bunch of numbers at once, but totally does the job! And that way the ball is in your court - you can text him whenever you want Smile
Lauren C.

by jollymoemoe on 9/30/2011 9:08:17 PM


mod mod mod
sooo im dating this guy from a different school...hes great!! he's athletic, funny, and the sweetest guy i know...but theres an issue...hes in 9th grade and im in 7th...and hes older for his class and im young for my class...hes 15 and im only you think that that is too big of an age difference?? thanks in advance,
<3 CourtneySmile

I dont think its too big! Dont worry about such things Smile xoxo kerra 
Kerra S.

by swimmersweetie99 on 9/30/2011 8:58:55 PM


This is random, but I just gotta let it out: I like this guy, but he barely knows me, but he's friends with lots of my friends. Once he was sitting close to my 1/2 friend at lunch. Like, right next to each other. I almost died right then. And this other friend of mine has a crush on him, and she doesn't know I do, but he obviously likes her. At least more than me. And it's sooooo frusterating!!!!!

by AlwaysDreamer on 9/30/2011 8:15:41 PM


I'm a freshman and I recently started hanging out with some sophmores and junior guys. Im just friends with them but I sort of like one of the sophmores. I told my friend and she that I would look desperate if I flirted with him. I like him and he's a really nice and smart guy. Should I go ahead and flirt or play it safe?

I think you should talk to him and get to know him. As that happens youll find out whether its safe to flirt or not. Good luck! xoxo kerra 
Kerra S.

by earthyartist on 9/30/2011 7:00:12 PM


so i have thisguy friend and we are like best friends. he has a nickname for me and is always trying to trip me cuz i have horible balance and he always puts his arm out to catch me. he and one o my other friends were arguing about my hair. he kept touching it and saying he was fixing it. we constantly talk and mess with each other and tease each other. Smile lately my friends have been telling me that they think he likes me. he says that he doesnt though. do you think he likes me? i kinda like him... how do i get his attention more??

I think he does like you. And im pretty sure you have his attention hon hah. Just keep talking to him. see where things go. xoxo kerra 
Kerra S.

by dancingchick on 9/30/2011 6:12:48 PM


homecoming was the other night so i put pictures up on facebook and theres one of my standing by a tree. my crush whos also my good friend who has a girlfriend commented on it and said "woah, what a nice looking tree!" and that kind of confuses me soo any suggestions??

I think hes just being weird. I wouldnt worry about it too much. xoxo kerra 
Kerra S.

by sportsgirlcookie on 9/30/2011 5:26:42 PM


i am sooooo gonna get my future boyfriends number......... as soon as i find my phone!

by softballismyBFF on 9/30/2011 4:48:13 PM


MOD MOD MOD So today one of my close guy friend said my nose was perfect outta the blue.... Does tht mean anything?

Hey chica! 

It doesn't necessarily mean anything - but keep an eye out and see if he flirts with you more throughout the week! xoxox 
Devin A.

by SkaterGirl129 on 9/30/2011 3:55:33 PM


I don't have a phone :/

by iluvmusic♥ on 9/30/2011 11:25:15 AM


wow this is gonna help when i get a cell phone this Christmas. im probably just gonna text my bffs. but who knows who else might text me lol

by volley_ball2341 on 9/30/2011 9:17:58 AM

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