I have started to developers feelings for this guy. He's perfect in every way imaginable. I have him my number a while backs ma we've texted a lot. He's always texting me, at late at night too. He asks to me a lot at school and sometimes I catch him looking at me. My friends see him look at me. His friends told me that he's always talking about me and they think he likes me but he has a girlfriend nobody knows why he likes her beacause literally there is nothing good about her. But how can I tell or do something to make him like me

by audrey16 on 5/14/2013 7:13:04 PM

Okay, so my BGF (who I happen to have a major crush on) texted me the other day, and just said yes. That was it. Then I started a conversation with him (or tried to) and all he would respond was Yes (with various punctuation.) It wasn't really a conversation, but it still felt like one. He's normally really deep and sweet and mature. He told me that he didn't actually send the first message, and he couldn't tell me who did, but he was texting me the rest of the time. Does this mean anything? Thanks
PS. His bday is this Sunday and I was wondering if it was creepy that I wrote him a song as a present? (He's a musician.)

by rebecca18 on 10/13/2012 10:17:37 PM

Hey Maddie5321, now is the perfect time to make a move. Try talking and flirting with him. Get his number and ask him if he'd like to hang out sometime. Good luck girl and hope this helps! Xoxo

by Lynae P. on 2/25/2012 8:43:37 PM

by hisayzme on 2/4/2012 10:39:36 AM

Hey girl, sounds like he likes ya to me. Start flirting and talking to him more and see what happens.

by pepper444 on 12/23/2011 6:05:25 PM

MOD MOD MOD!! i have a best guy friend and i was texting him yesterday and i was talking about this boy i like and i sed im probly annoying you by talking about him too much and he sed exactly this "No i care u can keep talking if it makes u feel better and i like to listen so if u ever hav anything to say i will always be here for u" do u think he likes me or is he just being nice? Thanks

I think hes being a supportive friend keep him around. Hes a good friend to have. xoxo kerra 

by FigureSkater08 on 12/20/2011 5:13:14 PM

by novalesko on 12/13/2011 3:07:27 PM

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I have liked this guy for a VERY long time. He is so sweet and we talk constantly. He sends ;) and after just about every text he also puts x) because he knows it cracks me up. My family just had to put my grandmother in a nursing home and it was extremely hard on me and the whole time I was going through this he made sure he kept my mind off of the subject. We went to homecoming together about a month and a half ago and at the time he said he kind of liked me but like I said that was a while ago. He also had told me he liked this other girl who lets face it ALL THE GUYS LIKE. Today we talked about who we like and he said he still likes that girl but he isn't sure anymore because they are just really god friends and he wanted to know who I like. I told him idk if it would be the best thing to talk about and he asked me why so I said if you knew you would understand and he said well if you ever want to talk to me about it you can. Should I have told him how I feel?

by immarunner1881 on 12/11/2011 8:00:15 PM

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I need your advice!! I really like this guy but he is two years older than me and goes to a different school-i only see him at school events-like basketball games-against his school-but every time he sees me he comes over to talk to me-he teases me all the time-and my friends say he always seems like he is looking for me at the games and stuff-so do you think he might like me back?? what do i do??

by cowgirlup7 on 12/7/2011 7:19:11 PM

by Jaypaw8 on 11/21/2011 12:43:07 PM

Hey chicky, before he even goes in for a hug, give him a high five or fist pound. Hope this helps!

by jesusluverjkm on 11/19/2011 8:08:24 PM

by gymnastera on 11/17/2011 4:48:03 PM

Thnx my ex nvr sent me any of these

by macaronimusic on 11/13/2011 8:12:36 AM

So, there's a guy I like. And he likes me. But we've had our ups--- and our downs. He said he loved me and I really took it to heart.. Yet, there's things I ind out that bother me.. He told me he's told 2 OTHER girls that he loved them in his like (He's 14 by the way so thats pretty young!) and we had a fight about it. I soon forgave him because he said it was a one-time mistake. Then after the week goes on I hear that he lost his virginity at 13. I flip out at him and he said it was an honest mistake. Is it wrong for me to keep forgiving him? Should I have given him that chance? Help!

by ItsBayls on 11/12/2011 2:50:23 PM

That really helps! I just got my crush's number! He asked me if I saw anything while I went hunting!

by Cra-Z-Brunette on 11/10/2011 11:27:22 PM

by littlemissawesomness on 11/10/2011 8:05:45 PM

Hey chica, you just have to try and calm yourself when he comes around you. Try breathing in and out slowly or maybe drinking water. Remember he's a human being just like you, just a guy so no need to get nervous. And thank the other guys for asking you but tell them that you're going with your girlfriends or that you didn't want a date. Hope this helps and have fun at the dance!!

by honeycakes on 11/9/2011 5:52:12 PM

by 4202_luver on 11/7/2011 5:53:37 PM

Those are great starts!! Instead of trying to plan great topics to talk about, try letting each convo progress on its own. Keep an ear open for questions you can ask about his hobbies/fam/friends/ideas/life, opinions you can give on the topic, etc. while you're already talking. Just stay calm and be attentive - that's MUCH easier and MUCH more natural than trying to write a script!  

by kt_catlover on 11/5/2011 9:08:12 PM

Hey girlfriend, I think he still likes you. You just need to make it clear that you like him too. Maybe the teachers are less strict in your class, and allow people to talk. No worries girl. You just gotta get your man lol. Hope this helps!!

by FigureSkater08 on 11/5/2011 6:25:53 PM

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so I finaly asked my crush (of 7 years) for his number! im so happy so anyways we started texting & first off he didnt know who it was which i understand cuz there are 2 of us with the same name so yah anyways but we started talking and i said what up he said eatting i said me too he said "yum stuff" and i said yup he never replyed i dont want to text him again and seem like obsesed or anything so i really like him we are in 8th grade and I really want to become closer so idk what to do plz help... I mean he is the guy of my dreams he is a football player, on swim team, track, cross country, and he is super smart and hes cute... so anyways how can I get closer to him, when I talk to him at school I get nervous, and have butterflys in my stomach, so yah I dont know how to get closer to him please help! I feel like I need a Taylor Swift song to explain this lol thanks mod
Luv, Peyton

Its hard to reply to a text that says "yep" so try responses that will keep the conversation going. Say yep and then ask him a question. That will keep the convo from dying and youll get to know him better xoxo kerra

by girlzrock123 on 11/4/2011 8:21:24 PM

by lilgymnast11 on 11/3/2011 10:39:13 AM

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by Bornagain on 10/27/2011 4:27:13 PM

Hey missy, sorry I can't answer your question right now! Check in with some of your other gal pals on here for advice, I'm sure they'll be willing to help you out. Thanx a bunch for understanding!!!

by allykat2496 on 10/26/2011 1:39:05 PM

Can you talk to him in person about this? Don't get too serious about it, but just playfully ask him - "why is it my fault we haven't talked?!" And then you can talk it out. Apparently you stopped chatting with him or did something to make him stop, but it doesn't sound like we know what that is! So do a little work to see if there's something key that you did in the past or if he was just being silly. It's worth it if ya wanna save your text-relationship  

by angel563346 on 10/22/2011 9:09:33 PM

MOD MOD So the guy that I like and I have like little inside jokes and stuff. he does this thing & it's super annoying, he texts me & he'll just say "k" no matter what I says because he knows that I hate it when people do that. He says "it's funny because you don't react". Do you think it's a joke or is he flirting? Also, he's super smart so I asked him to help me out with my worst subject and he said yes. So he helped me so much, like I have never understood anything about this subject and he made me understand it. He was so patient and nice about it when I didn't understand what he was trying to say. Do you think it would be okay if I asked him for help just before tests so I can bring up my grade or is it a bad idea? I don't want him to feel like he has to just to be nice. Also, someone told him that I liked him before I even asked him to study and he wasn't awkward or anything. I want to tell him I like him, but is there actually hope that he likes me too? How do I tell him

Hey chicky, with the "K" thing, I think he's joking and flirting. He probably thinks it's cute and funny that don't react, so that's why he always does it. Aww that was so sweet of him to tutor you. I think you should defintely ask him for help before a big test. Seems like he would be more than happy to help you. It also sounds like he does like you. He always texts you, you guys have inside jokes, and he helped you study. Maybe ask him to hang out or something. Hope this helps!!

by freshh123 on 10/22/2011 8:08:13 PM

MOD!!! Ok so there's this guy i like. We used to talk everyday on Facebook and he sits next to me in 2 out of 6 classes and I play basketball with him at lunch, so we hang out alot. Well he likes to make "funny jokes" and every time he makes them, I never realize until he tells me "he's just kidding"!!! 2 examples are : 1) He gave me a starburst candy (which i thought was cute) and right when i put it in my mouth and started chewing, he tells me he found that starburst in an open pack of them on the floor in our science class! 2)He told everyone that I stalk him on Facebook and when he saw i was angry, he told me he was kidding after practically the whole class knew. I tell him I don't like when he does that kind of stuff, but he still does it :/ How do i let him no i'm serious???? I still like him it's just that it gets annoying.

Hey chica, maybe you should do it to him, so he knows what it feels like.  Say something that's really going to make him mad, let him get angry, and then say "just joking". He'll understand how you feel and will stop. Hope this helps!!!

by chocolatecharme on 10/22/2011 6:36:48 PM

I Talk To This Guy Alot hes 2years Older Than Me and I Like Him But I dont know if he likes me? He Says he Loves Me , But I Dont Know If He likes me . Plz Help

by Rabiah<3 on 10/21/2011 4:15:30 PM

First off, well-played. You did exactly the right thing here - you were mature and pleasant even when you found out bad news. That's great!!!! Who did you find out from that he likes your bestie? Because the way he responded to your text is a little odd - it could mean that he likes her and didn't know how to respond to a text about it, OR that he was confused where you got that info, OR that it was totally wrong. Since he winked at you afterward and made sure you were happy, he seems like he's at least still interested in being friends. Hang in there and let this one play out - you'll figure out over time if he really does like your bestie and not you, and you'll also come up with ways to be his friend even while all this is going on. As for those other two guys, it's always smart to keep your options open! Who are they? Are they cute? Get to know them better and see if you might click with one of them! Who knows! 

by Balletgirl1198 on 10/16/2011 1:14:01 AM

by BehindHazelEyes on 10/15/2011 10:47:37 PM

by athena1006 on 10/15/2011 11:27:09 AM

Does he do this to other girls too? Or only you? That's the best way to guess if he's crushin' or if he's just a clown-around kind of guy. If the playful footsie and jokes are for you alone, it's a good sign he might like ya  

by soccerreb on 10/14/2011 10:48:21 PM

by crazydreamer16 on 10/13/2011 5:38:16 PM

Thanks!

by LAS625 on 10/8/2011 9:48:13 PM

Ooooh, I get it! Sorry I just signed up and i got really confused! Thank you!

by LAS625 on 10/8/2011 9:15:45 PM

There is this guy I like, and sometime I think he likes me but sometime I think he likes some one else. Like one day he will totally flirt with me and the next he is talking with girls on the bus. He asked me for a hug once, but I am not sure what that meant. I am getting mixed messages, help!

by LAS625 on 10/8/2011 12:34:28 AM

by ilovepiano15 on 10/7/2011 10:22:37 PM

It sounds like it! Start talking to him more and if you like Bryan back, turn on that flirt girl! He'll definitely give ya some clues (beyond the eyebrow wrigglin' and the smiles) if he really is crushing on you  

by warrior rose on 10/6/2011 6:40:19 PM

MOD MOD!!!!!! So a few weekends ago for my bday party we went chalking and I chalked the guy I like who knows I like him and we talk sometimes and he sed I was cute and stuff but today in class I was sitting on my desk talking to my friend and he sits a few desks in front if me and he was talking to his friend and then out of the blue he turns around and says "hey you should chalk me again! I have a plan this time to catch you!" and I sed "haha yah I should it was fun" and then we started talking about it and he kept looking at me sometimes in my other classes. Does it mean he's been thinking about it all this time and wants me to chalk him again? Could he possibly like me? What do you think he means? Thanks

Hey missy, of course he likes you! He probably was thinking about it and just had to say something! So chalk him girl.

by FigureSkater08 on 10/5/2011 8:23:21 PM

by shammie5 on 10/2/2011 12:41:15 PM

by SnowBoarder88 on 10/2/2011 11:52:16 AM

It's possible that he might be crushing on you, but it's also possible that you're just acting like close, best friends. Since it doesn't matter one way or the other right now (because you aren't ready to date, which is totally fine), try not to obsess over it too much. If you think he likes you, it could put a lot of pressure on the friendship and make you feel awkward. Laugh and shrug off the things your besties tell you about him and keep on hanging out/talking/laughing with him like you always have. Enjoy your friendship and try not to worry about this - you don't know either way right now, so it's not worth it to speculate and stress yourself out

by jinettejimenez on 10/1/2011 11:06:50 PM

It's possible! But try not to get too set on dating him again, just in case he really is just trying to be good friends with you. Sometimes it's hard to figure out if it's a crush or a best friend, ya know? So let some time pass and try to observe how he acts toward you. Is he flirting with, teasing, and complimenting you more than he does other girls? Or are you just close because you know each other well as friends? You don't wanna ruin a saved friendship by assuming he likes ya, so take it slow and see if you can decode him after a while

by cgirl751 on 10/1/2011 10:22:44 PM

Although it might seem like a good idea to chat with him about this, the jealousy you're feeling is your issue, not his. That's not to say he wouldn't be concerned for you or care about you, but he's allowed to kiss whoever he wants! So instead of going to him about it, try to reflect on your emotions on your own. Write them down in a diary, then shut the cover and try to keep them out of your head. It's tough to see a crush (even an old crush) moving on with someone new, but that doesn't mean you want to be with that person. You probably are just feeling single and wishing you had someone too. Which is totally fine! So try hanging with your besties and getting involved to meet new guys. Over time (and after you realize there are definitely other options out there for you), the jealousy will get less and less intense - until you don't feel it at all

by mia847 on 10/1/2011 10:05:16 PM

Hey girly, mhmm I don't know. I would just ask him again.

by crazydreamer16 on 10/1/2011 8:34:06 PM

Hey chica, smile and always wave to him, hold conversations, compliment him, and ask him questions. If any of your friends know him, get them to introduce you two.

by Pro_Gymnast_32 on 10/1/2011 7:50:26 PM

Hey chica, mhmm this is a tough one. If I were you I would defintely want to get the tracphone and pay for it myself, but then you would get in more trouble if your parents found out. And what if you ran out of money to pay for the texting? Do you get an allowance? If you do, and you spend all your money on texting and you never have any left over, they may start asking where all your money is going, and then you would get in trouble. I would just ask them again, and explain to them all the benefits to allowing you to text. You don't have to do this, but some people make a powerpoint whenever they're trying to explain things to their parents, so that's one way. Let me know if any of this helps chicky!!!!

by sgn_dancer on 10/1/2011 7:26:47 PM

Hey girlfriend, as long as he knows you're not into that and that he shouldn't do it around you, you're fine. There will always be some differences between the people we get into relationships with, as long as it's something small like this, you don't have to worry. Hope this helps!

by kotahliz on 10/1/2011 7:04:02 PM

MOD MOD MOD. My ex boyfriend, some other tight friends, and I, went to m friends homecoming party. I had a lot of fun...until the game. My Bff didn't go to my friends party and my ex sat next to her at the game. They had some Smarties and my friend was like "feed them to me! HAHA!" So he did. I sat behind them with my BFG, forced to watch. I thought I was over him until I say that and it brought back the time we had together. I texted him and said "Looks like you're having fun down there", and he said "Ughh seriously?" and texted back and said bye. See, I broke up with him so it makes me totally regret the time we shared. I'm not so sure he cares about me anymore. What should I do? Thanks MOD. Much love to ya!

by birdgirly11 on 10/1/2011 12:04:19 PM

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my mom just got a new phone today. Its amazing and its a smartphone and a touch screen. i want one so i called her (she hasnt activated her new phone yet, thats how i saw it;it was on the counter) at work and asked her about it. she said it costs a lil bit of extra cash every month for a smartphone. but i REALLY want one! my phone is fallin apart a bit like its dented chipped and scratched but works fine. but im allowed to get a new one on our family plan and i want a phone like her! she said no cuz of the money, but do you think there is any way i could get her to say yes? like say i'll pay half the extra money every month or work it off? thanks in advance!

by krazykotabug on 10/1/2011 1:52:42 AM

She could have spilled the beans...oops! But what is done, is done. Now you know you may not be able to trust that friend with secrets - it's not like she's a bad friend, but you know now that you should keep some info from her if you don't want it to get blabbed around. But this particular piece of info is already out, so own up to it! If someone else asks you, just shrug and say "I might," then walk away. He could like you back, but it's hard to tell just from this interaction - try talking to him and his friends a little more to see if you can pick up on a crush vibe  

by pottergirl135 on 9/30/2011 10:01:36 PM

Try being in a group situation with him where you talk about finally getting your first phone. You can be like, "Omgosh I love it, wait - here, everybody put their number in" and pass around the phone. It's super subtle because you're snagging a bunch of numbers at once, but totally does the job! And that way the ball is in your court - you can text him whenever you want

by jollymoemoe on 9/30/2011 9:08:17 PM

This is random, but I just gotta let it out: I like this guy, but he barely knows me, but he's friends with lots of my friends. Once he was sitting close to my 1/2 friend at lunch. Like, right next to each other. I almost died right then. And this other friend of mine has a crush on him, and she doesn't know I do, but he obviously likes her. At least more than me. And it's sooooo frusterating!!!!!

by AlwaysDreamer on 9/30/2011 8:15:41 PM

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so i have thisguy friend and we are like best friends. he has a nickname for me and is always trying to trip me cuz i have horible balance and he always puts his arm out to catch me. he and one o my other friends were arguing about my hair. he kept touching it and saying he was fixing it. we constantly talk and mess with each other and tease each other. lately my friends have been telling me that they think he likes me. he says that he doesnt though. do you think he likes me? i kinda like him... how do i get his attention more??

by dancingchick on 9/30/2011 6:12:48 PM

i am sooooo gonna get my future boyfriends number......... as soon as i find my phone!

by softballismyBFF on 9/30/2011 4:48:13 PM

I don't have a phone :/

by iluvmusic♥ on 9/30/2011 11:25:15 AM