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I think my friends are talking about me

I know I talk about them behind their backs, but are they chatting about me, too?
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MOD MOD I asked this before but i dont think u got it so im gonna ask again my so called bff's has been being rude to me lately i was playing soccer at school and i fell in the mud and i needed to go to the washroom (To clean myself up) when i asked all my''BFFS''they said "oh sorry we already went" Then i Told them to look at me and when they saw the mud on my pants they still wouldn't go.i told them they only cared about themselves (also i had to go with someone)and they just ignored me and walked away then in class all the girls rolled their eyes at me and laughed i told them im sorry for whatever i did to u but i need an apology cuz i dont think what u guys are doing is fair and they didn't say anything so i said now who's being rude now and they said Um u are And they all laughed at me.I dont understand why their doing this Any advice PS i tired to get new friends but they weren't the same


Hey girl,


Maybe they just didn't want to embarrass you by watching you clean yourself up! A girl can go to the bathroom by herself, right? Tell them you may have overreacted, but that you want to be included in their group. If it was just a misunderstanding, you can both apologize for being rude and move on -- that's the great thing about friends!

Meghan D.

by mozilla10 on 12/31/2011 9:50:15 AM


Ive got a problem. My best friend since kindergarten is changing... and for the worse. She was extremely helpful, fun, and always there to talk. But now, her neighbor rides her bus, (I dont take the bud anymore) so they've been hanging out a lot. Her neighbor, 'K', is terrible. I trusted her once, and she blew it. She swears, she wears clothes that her butt look good (she told me) and she dates every boy possible. My best friend has been hanging with K more and more. She swears more, she lies (parents), she lets K cheat, and when I talk to her, she 'accidentally' gets distracted. She keeps secrets from me, and has completely lost my trust. Frown When K wanted to talk to me personally, my bff tagged along and listened in. My bff thinks she's the peace keeper when really, she's overprotective of anything bad happening that might affect her.
Bottom line, how do I tell my best friend that she's not herself anymore? How can I tell her that K is a bad influence? Please help


Hey Girl,


You need to be straight-up with your BFF and tell her exactly what you told me. The truth might hurt her, but hopefully she will try to see things from your perspective and realize that she has indeed changed for the worse. She might be angry with you at first, but if she is truly your best friend, you will not lose your friendship with her over this. 
Kathryn S.

by novlist1307 on 12/29/2011 10:30:42 AM


Mod Mod Mod
so a few weeks ago my friend's friend commited suicide. and i am now worried about my friend because she didn't see it coming at all. today she showed me and four of my other friends a video that a boy from her town posted on Facebook. (And even our local news broadcasters featured the video on one of their broadcasts.) It was soooo sad and the guy mentioned Nyree (my friend's friend) and my friend looked like she was going to cry. Is there anything i can do to help her through this? and i would recomending anyone to check out the video it is posted on Nyree's page,if you knew her.

Hey girlie,

Grief is a really tough thing to suffer through for anyone, especially when you lose someone so close to you, so young, and so unexpectedly. She's going to be pretty fragile right now - she's going to be angry, she's going to cry, and she's going to have mood swings. She might even try to push you away, since she might think being alone is the best medicine. There's nothing you can do to press fast forward on all these emotions - she has to go through the process and feel it all. But you CAN let her know you're there to listen whenever she needs you and, if she wants to do something fun to take her mind off it, you'll be there for that too. Just assure her that you love her and support her. That's all you can do - and that will mean so much <3 
Lauren C.

by Prettytough14 on 12/15/2011 5:30:46 PM


People and friends think im weird =(?
every sense 7th grade ive always been kind of a goofball, its just me. I like to be loud and silly and crazy. But im in high school now so i guess its too much =/. I recently found out that some of my teamates have been saying oh she acts like shes still nine and shes soo weird and other people not on my team say the same thing. I feel really bad about myself and i wanna change myself but then i dont cuz its me what can i do to feel better this is the worst feeling =(

Being outgoing and loud is never bad! It may be what youre saying. If you try your hardest to be a nice person and not say anything mean about others - then they will have no reason to talk bad about you. If they continue to then theyre the ones at fault and you should just ignore them. Good luck hon. xoxo kerra 
Kerra S.

by _Sunshine_101 on 12/13/2011 8:38:37 PM


I was sick last Wednesday and didn't go to school, and ever since that Thursday, one of my friends has BARELY been talking to me at lunch (which is the only time we see each other). She talks to our mutual friend (who sits at out table) just the same. So I talked to our mutual friend and said, "Hey, have you noticed that ______ hasn't been talking to me a lot lately?" and she's like, "Yea, kinda," and I was like, "I'm kinda mad. It's been bugging me since Thursday!" and so she talked to my friend and tried to get her to sit next to me and talk to me, but my friend was like, "I'm not talking to her!" So I talked to one of my other friends and she was like, "She's being a bad friend! You should talk to her and see what's going on," Then I talked to one of my other friends (who's also a mutual friend of the friend I'm having problems with) and she was like, "She has a very stressful life. You wouldn't understand," I HAVE A STRESSFUL LIFE, TOO! What should I do? :/


Hm, stay away from these kinds of chains.  You never get proper information by going from person to person who heard something from somebody else, etc. Gotta' go right to the source! Your best bet is asking your friend what's up.  If she refuses or avoids the question by saying "it's fine" or something, then make it clear to her that the problem will never have a solution if you two don't work it out. And awkward tenseness between people is never fun.

Jordan S.

by ILoveBigTimeRush1 on 12/7/2011 2:55:45 PM


MOD. Mod. There is a problem am having with a person on my basketball team. The coach is her aunt and she gets to start every game. Her Aunt never takes her out and she doesn't even play the people she dosen't like. The girl on my team even corrects us whenever we are practicing like she is so perfect at the sport. I don't know what to do because the rest of the players on the team work twice as hard and some are a lot better than her. I don't want this season to turn out like the last one

Well it sounds like the coach is choosing favorites and theres not gonna be a whole lot you can do about that. However you could try to join a different league so that you can have more fun and get more play time. Its up to you. xoxo kerra 
Kerra S.

by blondie15laine on 12/6/2011 6:13:26 PM


Bad Case of Procrastination?
I always get distracted when I actually TRY to focus on hw, etc...Any tips for procrastination?

Hey girl! Trust me I know exactly how you feel, I am the queen of procrastination. I have found that listening to music is the best way to keep me focused because it blocks out all other noises and just becomes routine. 
Ana D.

by sready on 12/6/2011 1:11:11 AM


ok so this doesn't exactly pretain to this subject but all my "friends" copy me and follow me i've told them like i can go somewhere by myselfim just fine by myself and its so annoying they copy everything i wear to i've gotten so sick of it i've started wearing sweatpants tshirts and tennies everywhere and surprise have they:p people tell me to take it as a compliment but i don't i hate it and i go to a small private school with a class of 16 and half of them try to look just like me the only different thing is that im alowed to dye my hair unlike the rest of them so i dyed it red like cherry red so yeah i've tried telling them to stop and they act like i'm causing the problem. what do i do?????

by belieberinbieber on 11/19/2011 10:34:15 PM


Well This has happend to me alot too but I always remember this verse my grandma tells me your lies will always be found out about so yea.....also im new here so can u add ppl as friends or what all can yhu do can yhu chat??

by Camo Country Chick on 11/19/2011 9:51:55 PM


Mod MOD!!!!!! please answer
My friend is SO mean to me. Like we were doing a class project where we had to cut these slips of paper up and sort them. She rolled her eyes and said," I'm just gonna let you cut them." and turned around to talk to my bff Olivia. When I had two left I asked her if she could do the rest. She sighed really loud and took it. Then, the teacher told us to sort them. I did, but she was too busy talking. I gently shook her shoulder to tell her to do It but she pinches my hand and shakes it off! I tried again and she rolled her yes and turned around and said " what?" in a really bratty tone. Then I told her she had to do the assignment and she goes," maddi, y don't u just do it" and when I told her I did she throws the leftover paper on my desk and starts. She does stuff like this all the time and then always acts like it's ok. Sorry this is so long!!! Thanks!!!

Hey girl,

Whoa... this is SUPER witchy (with a B...). Who says she has the right to treat you like this? Who says she is entitled to making you do all the work? You deserve WAY more respect than this! Personally, I'd probably stop talking to her so much and, instead, hang out with my other friends a lot more. She'll probably notice the fact that you've become less available...and then you can tell her straight: you want to spend time with friends who respect you, don't walk all over you, and are nice people. (Vary that up depending on the situation - you don't want to go down to her level and be totally mean, but you want to get your point across.) Be strong here and stand up for what you deserve! <3
Lauren C.

by Nmun2000 on 11/18/2011 12:02:22 AM

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