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Its getting hotter out and people are starting to open up their pools, I'm terrified to get in the water because of my peek-a-boo hairs! How do I ask my mom if I can trim them up?


Hey girlie! Your mom can probs relate, so don't be afraid to let her know what's up. Just tell her your concerns about pool parties and beach days. xo

Caroline M.

by Nialler_4_ever on 6/4/2013 4:25:14 PM


My friend just showed me something where they discussed how its not good to completely shave down there because it said we have hair there for a reason and its to help keep things away from our vagina. But then I heard since we wear modern underwear and its not like in ancient times where bathing and keeping clean was tougher, that its good to shave.

Plus if our hair is there to keep away things then why do guys even have pubic hair because their parts all hang away from their body. So I think shaving is good for a number of reasons.

by fashionqn on 12/3/2012 7:21:00 PM


MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD!! I don't shave my hair down there, but I do trim it to make it less messy when I'm on my period. Is there a certain way that I need to trim it though?


Hey girl-

shaving down their is a personal preference-- there is no certain way to trim. Just make sure you aren't causing any uncomfortable ingrown hairs! xoxo 

alexis g.

by Savvy0facebook on 11/27/2012 7:14:12 AM


HELP ASAP I really need help!
Ok, so my period ended (I thought so) 2 days ago and it came back just now. Tomorrow for PE my class is doing a water polo lesson. I'm really scared cause 1) I don't know how to use tampons. 2) what would yhe guys in my class say? and 3) what do I tell me teacher? Do u think I should try to use a tampon, or just skip the lessons? (They are today, tomorrow and the next day)plus my mom only has super jumbo tampons.


 Hey girly, why don't you ask your mom to pick up some smaller tampons, like a sport tampon. Read the directions in the box and check out this article for extra help. If your still having too much trouble, you should talk to your teacher. Talk to him/her privately before class and just say that your having girl problems and won't be able to get in the water. They'll understand. And don't worry about the guys in the class. It's non of their business! If you need an excuse, tell them you arnt feeling well or have a headach or something. But boys know that girls have periods and its not that big of a deal. Good luck!

Lauren I.

by fantastic8805 on 10/10/2012 1:35:07 AM


mod mod mod mod mod mod mod mod
One of my boobs hurts a lot. I dont have medicine. What should i do?


Hey! the only way to really feel reassured is to talk to your doctor about all of these questions Smile To be honest, that's what we mods just have to tell you guys when you come to us with any health concerns. You may very well be fine, but since we're not doctors and we can't even see you face to face, it's not for us to tell you what's fine and what isn't. You know your body. Trust your instincts and talk to your doc! 

Helen S.

by fantastic8805 on 9/29/2012 2:41:58 PM


my period ended like 3 days ago, and i still have the worst cramps! Why wont they go away? A hot bath/shower doesnt work and im not allowed to take midol or any medicine.


Helen S.

by swifty#1 on 9/29/2012 2:36:57 PM


Helen S.
(I have my period and my mom isnt home. U said to use toilet paper)
1) how much toilet paper should i use?
2) how often should i change it?


hey! take the TP and fold it in the shape of a pad, then keep rolling it up until it has about the same thickness as a pad. Check it every hour and change it if you need to. hang in there Smile 

Helen S.

by Sarah_12 on 9/29/2012 1:53:51 PM


mod mod mod mod mod
Help!!! I dont know what to do!?
My period (not my first) started, and my parents arent home, the nearest store isnt in walking distance from my house. What do i do?????!!?


Hey! Take some toilet paper and roll it up to make a temporary pad until your mom gets home and can take you to the store. Change it more often than you would a normal pad, too. good luck! 

Helen S.

by Sarah_12 on 9/29/2012 1:18:57 PM


Do you think i should tell my mum before i shave down there. i have never asked her but im sure she said something like now untill your 13!!!!! i cant wait till that long. I am 11 and its like really thick. I did actually shave once without telling her and it made me more confident but i dont know what to do! Please help

Hey girly, you could try having a convo with your mom. Make sure your calm, whining always makes parents want to say no. Ask her if it's okay and tell her that it makes you feel better when the hair is gone. Ask her what her concerns are and see if you can make her feel better about your shaving. If she still feels like your too young, try trimming to keep things neat and tidy until your older.  Best of luck.

Lauren I.

by lilbabestar on 9/21/2012 12:39:07 PM


Its a personal choice!

A lot of people believe you dont need to start shaving until you start becoming intimate with guys because thats how they like it but you should start shaving when you want and when you feel you are ready. Personally, it makes me feel better about myself when I shave and take care of down there but do what you want.

by fashionqn on 9/20/2012 2:01:41 PM


This is really embarassing but, I have a really big clit and I'm scared to tell my mom because I don't want to have to go to the doctor for it but what can I do and is it bad that it's that big.



Hey girly, don't worry! The same way we all have different sized, shaped and colored eyes, or noses or hands or toes, we're all different in our down there area as well. You are perfectly normal!

Lauren I.

by Roxizzy on 9/17/2012 1:50:24 AM


It is NO ONES bees wax about whatever is going on down there it is fine to tell your mom but nobody needs to know other than your mom and maybe your doctor because your friends could tell and it may get out to boys which you wouldnt want so i wouldnt tell my friends if I were you

by HelloKitty9298 on 8/27/2012 2:27:24 PM


I have a yeast infection Frown ive had it for a few days like 3 maybe but yesterday i made a good decision and told my mom even tho it was really embaressing for me...but she gave me like garlic pills and other stuff to take that she says will help and i put on some of that yeast infection cream...but is all of this neccisary or what are the most affective things to use? bcuz i really want to get rid of it!!!


Hey! antifungal meds from your doc are the best medicine Smile good luck! 

Helen S.

by picklegrape on 8/7/2012 4:56:11 PM


I feel exactly the same way! But DON'T make the dumb mistake of shaving or waxing down there! The skin of your pubic area is very sensitive! If they say something mean to you, tell their parents and yours too. That's YOUR business ONLY!
So I know you can do it girl! Smile

by pokemonchic on 8/3/2012 5:38:03 PM


Hey how r u
I haven't been on in a while because everything about my life has been fine..../ till now
So I posted this on another question as a comment but it's taking forever so can I please answer this:
I started my period (not my first I've had if for a year) and like I always do I put a tampon in. Exept this time it wouldn't go in all the way. Idk why it's so hard for me now when I've been putting in tampons in for a year. And then since I couldn't get it in, I started to get nervous so it made my down there tense up. Now it's even harder to get it in! So here are my q's
1) do u have any idea why it won't go in
2) and how do I calm down? I'm nervous that there is something wrong with me Frown


 Hey girlie! Now that you're worrying about it, you are tensing up and making it not go in.  You may have just been going in from a weird angle and not realized it.  Wait a day and try again.  I don't think anything is wrong, but if you still can get it in later today or tomorrow, talk to your mom and she might be able to give you advice.  xoxo 

Kate G.

by swifty#1 on 8/2/2012 3:15:08 AM


Ok so Im just starting middle school and we have to change into our gym clothes, in the locker room. But i don't feel comfortable changing around every girl! So got any tips?
Also I have a male homeroom teacher, thing is I never know when my period could start. So got any other tips where its not awkward (just in case if I need to tell him whats wrong)in case i get it in his class!


Hey! Have you ever been to sleep away camp? i sort of learned how to change in front of people there. You just sort of have to put clothes on over your clothes and take off the ones underneath using the new clothes as cover? It's hard to explain. I would just always carry a pad with you in your purse or pocket and if you notice it's happening just go to the bathroom like you normally would to change into the pad. There's no need to clue your teacher in unless you feel more comfortable that way. 

Helen S.

by JeniferHelp on 7/9/2012 8:06:29 PM


This is extremely awkward and embarrasing for me, but I need to ask. I have alot of hair "down there", and it falls out alot! I notice the hair falling out in the shower, in my panties, in my hands when I wash down there, and on the floor when I change! It's freaking me out and I'm too embarassed and afraid to talk to my parents...let alone my male doctor! Please help!

Hey girlie,

Don't worry, that's totally normal! The hair "down there" is usually wiry and coarse, so when it rubs up against your undies it can sometimes fall out. It's not a big deal! Smile To cut down on this, you could always trim the strands a bit to keep them a little more manageable. But that's a personal decision and totally up to you!
Lauren C.

by mckenster on 6/28/2012 8:20:33 PM


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by chloe4137 on 6/20/2012 1:13:32 PM


Mod mod mod
Okay so this is like the 3rd time I've asked this but no one replayed. Well here we go: so about a week ago I noticed I was getting hair on my vagina, should I tell my mom? Also if I don't is it ok to shave it anyway or should I ask my mom before I do? How would I ask? And finally I saw u mention 'Nair' before, what is it and how does it work? Thx and please reply this time.

Hey chica! If you feel comfortable talking about it, you can tell your mom. I don't think you have to though. It's totally normal, and whether you shave or not is your preference. Nair is basically a lotion that gets rid of hair. Personally, I think it's a little messy and doesn't always leave you as smooth as shaving does. 

Becca G.

by CottonCandyCutie on 5/28/2012 11:48:02 PM


Okay I'm 15 and i started shaving my boobs and some down there and I am starting to regret it due to to the stubble and bumps What can I do?

by Takeru04 on 5/21/2012 12:49:37 PM


MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I want to use tampons for swimming and such but i don't know how to ask my mom. I texted her and asked her before but she said no Frown but that was a while ago. Please help!!!!! SmileSmileSmileSmileSmileSmileSmileSmileSmileSmileSmileSmileSmile tankss

Hey babe,

Let her know that you'll be swimming a lot during the summer and would feel much more comfortable if you could use a tampon.
Jordan S.

by Jojo1120 on 5/19/2012 5:59:37 PM


Well one thing I know is I am NOT shaving my hair down there. I don't want to be a bigger risk of getting an infection. If the hair wasn't "needed" down there then it wouldn't be down there.

by BabyDahl13 on 5/10/2012 7:02:11 PM


Claire, Most of us shave, some of us, like me, shave it completely and some like my friends leave some hair so its up to you on how you want it to look. As far as the sex thing, just because you shave all of it doesnt mean you are active because I have friends who are sexually active and dont shave all of it, they just trim it really well. So that part is your decision. But I do understand we want it to look a certain way when we start doing things with guys. And to get rid of bumps and rashes use a good moisturizer every day.

by luckykel on 5/10/2012 3:33:17 PM


Thanks so much but still I won't understand where to insert.. Awks. I also used the last tampon in the house and I don't wanna ask my mom to buy some!

Hey pinkkattie1999, it may be best for you to just wear pads. They’re comfy and easy to put on. Always has some great products. Hope this helps! Xoxo

Lynae P.

by pinkkatie1999 on 5/5/2012 4:56:01 PM


I cant use a tampon! I tried today and I wasn't even close to doing this right! Frown I know to wash your hands, take it out and push the tampon out and stuff but I don't know where to out it. I guess, was I putting it in the wrong place? It was to hard! What am I doing wrong I just can't find where to put it in. I think I also used the last tampon in the house so no more trying for me. I don't wanna ask my mom though.. Help?!

Hey pinkkattie1999, it’s okay calm down and breathe. It’s understandable why this is a little difficult for you, considering this is your first time inserting a tampon. There’s only one place for it to go. So the next time you want to wear one, take your time putting it in. Get into a comfortable position, maybe propping one leg up on something, like the toilet will give you a better angle to insert it. If you really can’t figure it out, visit the tampon website for help or search google for directions. No worries. Hope this helps! Xoxo

Lynae P.

by Pinkkatie1999 on 5/5/2012 2:50:18 PM


I too am really confused about what to do with my bush;). I hate my hair down there, but when I shave it off, I get a rash, it doesn't even come off all the way, and it grows back in like 3 days. I want to know what the normal thing is for shaving the hair down there. And please don't tell me its whatever feels most comfortable because I want to know what most people do, so when I'm finally ready for sex,I won't be embarrassed when my pants come off.

by Claire7899 on 5/4/2012 9:06:06 PM


Help I just got my period for the first time, and it's really heavy, I have cramps too, what do i do?


Hey girl, don't worry! Go to the school nurse or your mom and ask for a pad. Maybe try a small dose of Advil for the cramps, but talk to a trusted adult first! You'll be fine! xx

Jess D.

by fantastic8805 on 5/4/2012 12:10:57 PM


I answered your question in your profile. Check it Laughing

by swifty#1 on 5/4/2012 11:52:25 AM


I know that I have like a ton of questions, but I hope you can answer this one.
Even though I know (now, thank you) that my teacher will understand if I have my period, I'm still REALLY REALLY REALLY nervous about having it at camp, because I can't stay calm if she does ask me, and my friends will probably laugh at me, and I won't be able to do all the activities, and what if i leak? Please help, how do I calm down.

Hey girl,

The truth is, everyone at that camp - your teacher, your friends - will have their periods at some point. It's a fact of life. You can't prevent it from coming, so you might as well accept it and stay calm when dealing with it. If people find out, you'll deal with it when it happens. You'll shrug your shoulders and you'll tell them yeah I have my period, so what? No one will laugh at you - chances are, they'll be interested in it. I had my period before my best friends got theirs and they were SO interested, they always asked me questions about how I dealt with it and what it felt like. It's actually fun to be the person who is experiencing something that no one else has before, because they're all so curious about it. As for saying "I can't stay calm when she asks me" ... yes you can. Fake it til you feel calm for real - even if you're feeling crazy inside, take a deep breath and talk like it's no big deal. You can trick yourself into being laid back about it, I promise!
Lauren C.

by swifty#1 on 5/3/2012 8:44:40 PM


thanks sooooooooooo much!!!!
how many pads/tampons should I bring to camp (it's 3 and a half days) I normally have a regular or heavy flow.
thank you for answering my questions!!

No problem, girl! If you're using tampons, I'd personally probably stash a whole normal-sized box of regular tampons (I think it's about 18) in your duffel bag. It's wayyyy more than you'd ever use over 4 days, but that way, there are no surprises - if you have to change one after two hours one day, you won't panic because you're running low. As for pads, try to figure out how often you change your pads - every 4 hours? Every 3? Every 6? Divide that into each day and then always bring about 5 extras, just in case Smile 
Lauren C.

by swifty#1 on 5/3/2012 8:29:41 PM


but what do I say if she (my teacher) does ask if I have my period? If I say "yes" she's probably going to have the talk with me the whole way back, and it's a long long walk. If she doesn't ask, how to I make sure that the conversation won't go to that topic?

Hey babe,

If she doesn't ask, just stay calm and act confident, like nothing is wrong. Nothing IS wrong - you just have your period, which is a totally normal thing! Don't act awkward and don't talk too much - just take a deep breath and act normal. She won't suspect a thing Smile If she does ask, just shrug and stay calm. Tell her yes you have it and you've had it for a while, so it's really no big deal. (Even if you don't REALLY think that yet.) If you act like you're cool with it, she won't try to talk to you about it because she'll know you're mature, you're used to it, and you don't need any help dealing with it! 
Lauren C.

by swifty#1 on 5/3/2012 8:21:47 PM


okay, I have one very important question. I'm going camping, with my class on Monday, and lucky for me, it's my time of the month Frown. My teacher said that we always have to have an adult with us, when we go the washroom, because it's like far away from the cabins, so I'm scared to change my pad or tampon because they will hear me open the wrapper (FYI, my teacher is a girl) Plus I fell like I'm the only girl in my class who has their period. I'm scared that she's (my teacher) is going to ask me if I have it or not. HELP, how do I change my pad/tampon there?

Hey girlie,

It's nothing to be afraid of! Especially since your teacher is also a girl, she'll totally understand - she has her period too, after all. She probably won't even mention it even if she does hear the wrapper, but if she does it is not to embarrass you - if she DOES ask, she'll be asking in case you need help/have questions, etc. She wants to help ya and make sure you feel comfortable no matter what, so don't panic. She's someone you can totally trust with this kinda stuff! Smile
Lauren C.

by swifty#1 on 5/3/2012 7:41:40 PM


I only use pads but I really want to try a tampon, but I don't wanna tell my mom! Anyway I kinda do know how to insert one, but then again I don't. Do they hurt? How do you get them in just right? Help please!?

by pinkkatie1999 on 5/1/2012 6:32:20 PM


I know that this is not on topic, but I need help.
How do i know if i need a new size bra, and how do i tell my mom that i think i need a new one? Thanks a bunch!

Hey girlie,

If your bra is on the loosest hook, the straps are totally loose, and you feel discomfort because your boobs are sagging/busting out of the bra, you should probably try a new size. Your current bra might have just gotten worn out though, so make sure you try the same size too just in case! And to tell your mom, take a deep breath and catch her at a time when she is relaxing and not stressed out. Explain how your bra feels and tell her you don't want to go crazy buying bras, but you need a new one because your current one is making you feel sore/uncomfortable. Be mature about it and she'll understand! Smile
Lauren C.

by swifty#1 on 4/19/2012 5:58:23 PM


My flow is always regular or really heavy! And my friends always borrow my pencils and stuff, so they'll see it. Not just my friends either, the boys in front of me borrow them too.

Well, there are a few brands of tampons that are really tiny just for times like these.  You could snag some of those from a drugstore and then slip them in your pants pockets! Jordan S.

by swifty#1 on 4/16/2012 7:43:22 PM


is it okay to use a tampon for the whole school day, and not change it? (8:35-3:00 is my whole school day) How am i supposed to change it at school without the whole class seeing me? I have to go all the way inside the school to go to the bathroom, and the cloakroom (bags and jackets) is on the other side of the room from where i sit. What do i do?

Oh, that's tricky if your bags are across the room.  Not changing it should be fine on days when you have a light flow.  Otherwise, maybe you could tuck a small tampon in your pencil case and slip it under your shirt until you get to the bathroom?

Jordan S.

by swifty#1 on 4/16/2012 7:38:13 PM


greengirl, You can shave what you want. But most of us at least trim and so many of us shave all or part of it. Im thinking of going to the gyno soon and was concerned because I shave the whole area down there, but I was reading that its very normal to be completely shaven down there, even when going to the gyno.

by luckykel on 4/12/2012 3:35:05 PM


are u supposed to shave all the hair down there or just the bikini line????? somebody tell me!!!

by greengirl1001 on 4/7/2012 10:30:55 PM


Okay so im really scared to tell my mom i need to shave down there because i dont shave my legs but the hair really annoys my what do i do?

by annaf on 3/31/2012 11:16:11 PM


Mod Mod Hi im 15 Years Old Today i was sitting on my bed watching tv and Didnt even really notice that i had to go to the bathroom but i peed in my pants and i tried to stop but i couldnt!!Frown iM sO Embarrassed B/c of my age can you tell me what made this happen to me and how i can make it not happen again

Are you sure you went to the bathroom?  It's more likely that it would be discharge than pee.  If it is though, it's just that you have a weak bladder. Jordan S.

by parkerbell on 3/26/2012 6:40:37 PM


I finally got the hang of tampons, but only the plastic ones... there are only cardboard ones left at my house, and i don't have any lubricate, the only reason i can get the plastic ones in is bcuz they slide in there without much effort, the ones with the cardboard applicators though, don't slide in, and i need to change my tampon soon, so do u have any tips for sliding in tampon with a cardboard applicator? (other that using the luricate you get in stores, bcuz i dont have any)

I don't personally have much trouble with either but I would imagine that you could use water to help moisten the area to help the applicator slide in more easily. 
Amanda P.

by swifty#1 on 3/19/2012 3:08:50 PM


Mod mod mod.if you get a cramp under you'r belly duse that men you'r about to get you'r period and some times even on top of my belly it herts just like right now.

Hey girl,

Usually, one pang of pain isn't a sign that your period will be starting. It typically lasts a little longer, feels achy, and could even make your back, legs, and rest of your bod sore. It could also be gas pains, a sign that you have to use the bathroom, or any number of other pains. I wish we could tell ya for sure that it is a period pain, but it's hard to tell since we can't feel them for ya Smile
Lauren C.

by sandra 2 on 3/18/2012 12:50:52 AM


MOD MOD MOD MOD!!!!! so I really want to get a thong, because I have horrible pantylines when wearing my yoga pants and sweatpants. Tomorrow my friend and I are going to the mall, so I can get like 2 there.. But how should I ask/tell my mom?

Hey girl,

You can find other underwear with less bad pantylines that aren't thongs, and if you're still having an issue, maybe try going up a pants size! But if you want mom's advice on thongs, explain the situation to her and stay calm no matter her reaction. Good luck!

Meghan D.

by Tayincali on 3/16/2012 9:32:41 PM


thank you to everybody who helped me!!!
(Channa R., Erin M., Ana D., and Lauren C.)

by swifty#1 on 3/16/2012 6:08:30 PM


I need more pads but how do i bring up the subject to my mom?


Hey girl!  Moms totally get it, trust us. Just ask her and I'm sure she'll buy you some!


Channa R.

by swifty#1 on 3/16/2012 2:36:24 PM


okay.. my mom scheduled an appointment for me at the gynecologist, but she scheduled it for tomorrow... i will still have my period! I thought they would but something up *there* but what if im wearing a tampon or a pad. And i thought they ell u to be fully naked, no underwear..
so, if they do tell me to be naked, where do i put the pad? (by the way.. the appointment is because my period is really heavy, and because my PMS symptoms are really bad.) So to sum it up... which(pad or tampon) should i use and do they put something in your vagina? Does it hurt?

Hey girly! Generally for your first appointment they do not do a real evaluation, especially if you are on your period. They just ask you questions and see if there is anything too abnormal going on. If they think that you may need an evaluation then they will have you come back at another time, when you wont have your period. 
Ana D.

by swifty#1 on 3/16/2012 12:50:05 PM


yay, my period is not that heavy anymore! On the other side... i keep getting these killer cramps in my lower stomach! I's so bbad.. i dont think i can walk for that long. I'm on my bed right now, and for some reason lying on my stomach relives the pain! but.. i dont think i can lie on my stomach for that long.Anyways... thank you so much for the help! M mom came home early! Smile she came at about 2 o'clock Also, is this normal that my stomach and head hurt I thought pms was supposed to last only till you start your period!!
Do u have any tips on reliving these symptoms?
thnk you, again

Hey girl,

It's totally normal! Don't sweat it. Our periods are natural but they also take a toll on our bodies, so they can make us feel tired, achy, irritable, etc. all throughout - not just in the beginning! To help ease these symptoms, I always like to get LOTS of rest during my period. Popping an Advil can help with the pain, while a heat pad/hot water bottle/microwave "bed buddy" on your stomach/back can loosen up your muscles and soothe cramps Smile Hang in there, babe!
Lauren C.

by swifty#1 on 3/15/2012 11:40:50 PM



Hey girl! First of all, BREATH! This is not the end of the world! Its totally natural! Take some paper towels and fold them to make an impromptu pad. When your mom comes home ask her to buy you some more period supplies. For extra help visit Hey girl! Make sure to check out: ! It has everything you need to know about all things period! 

xo, Erin M.



erin m.

by swifty#1 on 3/15/2012 12:52:17 PM


Hey girl! In the begining it will def hurt but you will get used to it! You could def try the mirror trick to see if it helps ya. For more info check out: ! It has everything you need to know about all things period! xo, Erin M.  



erin m.

by swifty#1 on 3/15/2012 12:34:50 PM


Hey girl! You could try out hair remover gel!

xo, Erin M. 
erin m.

by swifty#1 on 3/15/2012 12:30:45 PM


MODMOD MOD!! (Jordan s.) sorry for all the questions but I just want to make sure I do everything right!!!!! What's the best way to get the hairs in the back? Because I want to be like hairless lol because I hate when I have strands sticking out and stuff!! Also, what should I moisturize with after, lotion or what?!?! Thanks so much again<3

It's fine! I don't mind!

The best ways to get the hairs in the back is to lift your leg on a countertop or shower ledge, that way you can get a better view of what you're near.

Lotion works!  There are also some bikini-line specific brands that you can find at your drugstore too to prevent ingrown hairs.
Jordan S.

by Tayincali on 3/12/2012 6:36:24 PM


MOD MOD MOD MOD!!!(Jordan S.) okay, thanks. But also should I trim the hair on my inner thigh and lips of my vagina first because I have never shaved that part, would that make it easier, because I usually just stop when I get to my labia.??????? Also, does it itch after a few days I usually shave down there every two day, just to stay clean, I hate being hairy down there, is it okay to shave my vagina that often because I don't want it to each!???? Thanks for answering all my questions, you've helped alot!!! THANKS(:

It may itch from the hair growing back in, but if it does you can calm it down with some hydrocortisone cream or aloe.

It's perfectly fine to shave that often!  Just make sure you moisturize afterward so that you can avoid any irritation.

When shaving for your first time there, I would trim it down a bit so that it's more likely for the razor to really get the majority of the hairs.  Just be careful with the scissors!

Good luck, babe!
Jordan S.

by Tayincali on 3/12/2012 6:09:25 PM


MOD MOD Mod!!!! So I shave my vagina, almost all of it but I don't go in between my thighs and I stop right above the lips or labia of my vagina. But I want to shave everything because I'm tired of being almost hairless and then having some hairs stuck out atough I do trim but it doesn't get it all. What are some good tips to make sure to get all hair only vagina gone and like behind my vagina towards my butt gone with out cutting myself?!?!?!? Also, is it unhealthy to shave everything because my friend said that your not supposed too?!?!? THANKS

Hey babe,

When shaving down there, it's really just a practice makes perfect situation.  You should avoid shaving in two different directions, and it's best to directionally go with the hair.  If you go in multiple directions, you're likely to get ingrown hairs since the area is particularly prone to them.

Try sitting on the edge of the bathtub,  so you can avoid blindly shaving and possibly nicking yourself.  Soon enough you'll get the hang of it and you won't need to.

And it is perfectly safe!
Jordan S.

by Tayincali on 3/12/2012 5:30:20 PM


MOD MOD MOD MOD!!!!!!!!! so I shave my vagina. Almost all of it of except near my "lips" or labia, it used to be really long but I trimmed it so it's short. Is it OK to shave everything off like even near your thighs (on the inside)? With summer coming up, I don't want to have any hairs hanging out. But I want to be safe. Also, what kind of a razor should you use to shave pubic hair i just use a disposable razor(BIC) is that okay, or should I use a different type? Please answer my questions. THANKS(:



Hey girly girl! It's totally OK, as long as you're very, very careful. You don't want to knick yourself... that hurts! As far as a razor goes, I'd say a disposable one is fine, as long as you use shaving cream or lotion. Otherwise, it may hurt.


Becca G.

by Tayincali on 3/11/2012 9:14:36 PM


My down there hair is super long and i plan on trimming it!
But i want to shave it but i dont feel i can (im 12) and i dont wanna ask my mom permission
To cuz i know i cant but its gross now and when i get my period i feellike everythings a mess down there

by Gypsygirl555 on 3/6/2012 6:43:00 AM


heeey me again my friend slept over my house yesterday and she had white knickers on. she has dark hair (on head) and i seen her hair down there though her knickers when she was getting changed into her pjs we both slept in my bed then when i woke up she was still asleep! and when she woke up we went to get up and she said i think i started my period i was like go have a look then. she said im to scared i was like stand up and have a look i will turn away and she did, she started her period ! and leaked tough on my bed i just gave her a pad she got into clean clothes and every 10-20 mins she was cheacking her pad because she tought it was full !xx Ana D.

by sarahrose on 2/24/2012 2:03:41 PM


tell your friends to shut up, your "friends" aren't sopposed to judge. My advice tell them "Why you lookin down there anyway?"

by cbear66 on 2/18/2012 12:54:44 AM


MOD MOD MOD I started puberty when I started 4th grade. Now that just turned 11 I have hairs down there. at first it wasn't that bad but now it's a forest . I ever told anyone so can you tell me what to do ?


Hey DivaD01, you can start shaving down there. You could try Nair bikini cream, which is a lotion you apply and leave on for 10 minutes or less and wipe with a warm cloth or off in the shower. Or you could get bikini shaving cream and use a razor to get the hairs off. Hope this helps! Xoxo

Lynae P.

by DivaD01 on 2/17/2012 4:04:32 PM



by anonomysyeaa on 2/14/2012 7:49:40 PM


Mod Mod!!
So my hair "down there" always pokes out of the side of my underwear. It's embarrasing, and really annoys me. I don't want to shave it off because I know that it will irritate my skin, but would it do any harm to kind of..trim it, so it's shorter, and wont poke out? And is this normal for a girl to do?


Thats completely normal! If it makes you more comfortable i say do it Smile xoxo kerra 

Kerra S.

by anonomysyeaa on 2/14/2012 7:42:09 PM


i have hair down bellow too! and trust me there is alot its thick and dark brown. my mum says its like a forest down there. I gess you could imaging whats it like. i have also got my period so it does get a bit messy so you think i sould shave my area ? please reply soon im due on tomorrow and i no it will be messy !xx

by sarahrose on 1/28/2012 2:30:56 PM


MOD MOD MOD this makes me embarrassed to say but is it bad to masturbate? like touch your self down there ?

Hey girl,

While some cultures or religions may frown on masturbation, it's a personal choice, and there aren't any health risks, so it's really up to you if that's something you want to explore. Check out this post, too!

Meghan D.

by mozilla10 on 1/28/2012 9:00:39 AM


Mod mod!
I'm 12. I am obviously a virgin. I got my period when I was 11. I always had my period every month except this month. I didn't have mine this month so far. I'm freaking

Hey babe,

This is totally normal! Even if your period has been completely regular until now, it's still normal for it to be irregular sometimes. It can be affected by changes in diet, sleep, stress, etc. Don't worry! Just keep on going with your routine and it'll come. Even if it's a few weeks late, don't panic! <3 
Lauren C.

by mimi_girl12 on 1/26/2012 8:31:31 PM


ok how do your friends see your hair down there ????? eckkkkkkkkkkkkkkk i dont even wanna think about it!!!!!!!!!!

by livelovelax123 on 1/20/2012 10:24:47 PM


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by melaniegrace<3 on 1/15/2012 6:08:28 PM


That means there not real true friends. Thats not good. im sorry that happened to you. You need to find a real bff you can trust conpleatly and talk to her about it. Just see what you can do.

by kkgirl2203 on 12/20/2011 7:25:37 PM


You could tell them to mind their own bush, when I read that comment from someone else I laughed. But that is the truth, you dont need to tell anyone what you do 'down there'.

by luckykel on 12/7/2011 4:35:10 PM


you need to tell them to shut there mouthes or you will find other friends who be respectful!

by winxclub37 on 12/4/2011 12:48:59 PM


keep ur hair right there dont wax or shave it is sooo irratating and it feels like a mans beard YUCK! you can just tell them you shave it, its not like there gonna see it. or you could say to them to mind your own busness

by gingeriscute22 on 11/9/2011 6:10:56 PM


that was mean of your friends

by glfan88 on 11/8/2011 8:56:07 PM


Wow that was mean of your friends to do that. Next time they make fun of you you need to tell them to stop. Your mom is right it is supposed to be there so dont worry

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by DivaD01 on 11/8/2011 1:29:30 PM


your mom's right it's supposed to be there. and tell your friends that they should mind their own buisness-in a nice way of course!- Confidence is key...

hope this helps
xoxo BubbleGumKitty11

by BubbleGumKitty11 on 11/7/2011 7:28:46 PM


I'm not being horrible, but how do they know about the hair there? :/ I would DIE if my friends saw down there on me! :O

by sophsoph555 on 11/3/2011 5:45:47 PM


Guys, some best friends talk about this stuff!! My bestfriend and I do it ALL the time! But she'd NEVER tease me about it! She's just cool like that(: talking about this stuff makes you feel closer to your BFF. But, anyway, that's not nice!

by EgirlH.97 on 10/28/2011 8:38:29 AM


MOD MOD MOD so this might sound weird, but whenever i shave under my arms, the hair grows back like a week later! and when it does, it's only on my right side, not my left. do you know why this happens? and is it normal?


Hey girly, I'm not exactly sure why this is happening. Mhmm maybe it's because you're shaving with a certain type of soap. Use shaving cream instead. You should also try using nair, that might prevent the hair from growing back so fast. Hope this helps!! Smile Smile

Lynae P.

by MusikRox1999 on 10/26/2011 8:43:23 PM


MOD MOD MOD So at our school (i am in 7th grade) the girls all change together in the bathroom. My hair "down there" is like a forest and it pokes out of the sides of my underwear and it is embarrasing when we have to change. I am pretty sure my mom won't let me shave it and I also don't want to shave it because I have heard that it is itchy and irritating. What should I do?


Hey chica, try going into a stall by yourself to change. You may also want to tell your teacher that you aren't comfortable changing in front of all the other girls. Hope this helps!! Smile Smile

Lynae P.

by Pinklife on 10/26/2011 6:59:47 PM


how do your friends know how much pubic hair you have ?

by maddieboo786 on 10/19/2011 5:13:05 AM


The GOOD and BAD about SHAVING!

Your friends should not do that, obviously they shave everything and a lot of us do that but that doesnt mean you have to. Its fine to shave it all to or leave some of it, if you do shave it all or some, our vulvas and what we have down there becomes more visible and easier to see.

So I think if you keep it neat just tell them you shave some of it because a lot of girls our age leave some to. Shaving has its advantages but it is also a pain, and shaving it all takes a lot of time to keep things smooth and plus you have to moisturize. I have even heard guys talking about girls who dont shave and it makes me think they are saying that and they probably dont even shave themselves down there. So just do what you want with it.

by luckykel on 10/16/2011 6:27:15 PM


If a friend does that too...that's totally WRONG!! That should NOT be your friend. Your business down there is YOUR business...not theres!! You deserve better..

by MusicTaughtMeHowToLive on 10/15/2011 8:36:40 PM


mod Mod MOd MOD I am 14 and I wear a size three in kids shoes. I can't fit into a size 5 in women's and I'm not supossed to grow anymore. Do you know any brands that run really small or that have grown up looking shoes in kids sizes? Thanks!!(:


Hey girlyfriend, try steve madden, and look into stores like dsw, nordstrom and macys. Hope this helps! Smile

Lynae P.

by hannah15 on 10/15/2011 6:28:36 PM


That's why I wait till I get home to take a shower....

by *sTaRsTrUcK* on 10/15/2011 6:28:22 PM


mod mod mod!!

i like this guy at school and i think he might kinda like me too, although i've only talked to him once and was saying thanks cuz he complemented me on my shoes...a few years ago lol. anyways, i think i've caught him looking at me multiple times but how do you know? so i have two questions.
1) how can you tell if a guy is looking at you?
2)how do you know if a guy is in to you?

by princess6066 on 10/15/2011 4:55:34 PM


@jennal923 @strawberries949 I bet she didn't TELL her friends how much hair she has. They could've saw her changin or showering in the locker room.

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by maggie183 on 10/15/2011 12:14:34 PM


MOD MOD MOD so lately just one of my boobs has been hurting. It's kinda hard I guess. Do you know what it could be from? Thanks!

Hey girlie,

Our boobs can feel tender before our periods because of our hormones, they can hurt as they grow, it can be sore from working out, or it can be another reason entirely. Make sure you don't feel any small hard lumps. If you don't, try taking an Advil to see if that helps alleviate the pain. If it continues for a while, don't be afraid to call your doc! It's probably nothing, but it's good to check with a professional just in case.
Lauren C.

by Dancer1846 on 10/15/2011 11:48:27 AM


Okkk yeah I'm with jennal923 and on earth would they know that?! Try having more normal conversations with ur friends and it might help ur friendship Smile haha

by maggie183 on 10/15/2011 10:00:43 AM


My only question: How would they know how much hair you have down there?

by jennal923 on 10/15/2011 8:46:08 AM


Why on earth would your friends know anyway???...

by strawberries949 on 10/15/2011 8:21:30 AM

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