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by PlushPurplePanda on 6/22/2012 2:08:42 PM
by clang848 on 6/14/2012 2:34:31 PM
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Me and my friend have had our on-and-off problems since elementary, but now in middle school it seems worse. She lies about almost everything (what people have said, that she's psychic, what she's said, etc.)and she can also be rude to me and one of her ex-friends (who is one of my best friends, we used to be at trio). I get upset and confront her about these things, but she just denies the lies and begs for me to accept her apology when shes rude. I'm getting really annoyed and frustrated to the point where I don't even like spending time with her much.She even gets upset when I hang with new friends. Should I continue this friendship (we've been close since 3rd grade)?
If you're not happy, then there's never any really to stay in a relationship or a friendship. You should never do something that makes you unhappy. If she doesn't change even after you talk to her about it, then I think it's understandable for you to end the friendship or just gradually let it die off. Jordan S.
by AvatarTLA on 6/13/2012 8:31:42 PM
by mainbunny1 on 6/8/2012 12:37:59 PM
by hermionegirl12 on 6/7/2012 6:59:08 PM
by momo221 on 5/3/2012 7:09:23 PM
by CookieMonster246 on 4/26/2012 9:55:44 PM
by turdle_eclipse on 4/25/2012 10:10:27 PM
Yes, it does sound like a terrible idea. If she tries to pressure you into stuff like this, is she worth being your friend? Don't do anything you don't want to, just because you feel like you have to.
by chameleongirl on 4/14/2012 4:09:25 PM
I really don't think you should lie to your parents. If she really is your friend, she would never ask you to do that. Just look at the way she treats you. Does she treat you a little different from the time she got the new crowd? Well then she isn't worth the lie... Think about it...
by Jensenacklecraze on 4/12/2012 2:18:54 AM
So over spring break me and me best friend got in a huge fight... Because she is dating a guy who cussed my out and told me to go kill myself.. And I told her I didn't want her to date him because of this but one day I was sick and he asked her out. She said yes and I was so hurt that day.. So finally spring break comes and I just tell her the truth of how I feel that I feel that she choose this mean boy over a trust worthy friend and it seemed as if she didn't care on how I felt.. So I said to her you can choose him or me.. And she choose him.. I wasn't really hurt but kind of relived but now were back at school and it's weird because shes in all of my classes and we won't talk or look at each other.. I still really want to be her friend but I dont want to be her friend while she's dating him... Please help me I dont know what to do here..
by Lovepink9798 on 4/11/2012 10:44:15 PM
I have this friend we just go back and forth. We fight don't talk for awhile and then a few days later we are fine. but then 2 weeks ago she said she is done being friends with me. this is the longest we ever haven't talk to each other. I kinda hope to be friends with her again but I don't want to apologize or be the one to say hi. I don't know what to do. HELP!
by peanutk1618 on 3/30/2012 4:48:15 PM
by Eb Emily on 3/19/2012 2:29:41 AM
by MissFrizz73 on 3/15/2012 1:38:40 AM
MOD MOD MOD!!! Okay well im having somewhat of a crisis!! In my part i have flakes of dandruff! Not much and not very noticable, except i have black hair and its white! I only have very little but idk why! I wash my hair everyother day so its clean!! I feel like people can see it and i dont want people to think im gross! I occasionaly use head and shoulders (as apposed to my normal garnier fructis) which is supposed to help with dandruff but it doesnt!! Please help me by telling me some easy and hopefully not hard/gross ways of getting rid of the dandruff! I'll be forever grateful!!(: thanks!! (ik this had nothing to do with this article...i didnt know where to post this!)
If the Head&Shoulders shampoo doesn't help at all, then search your local drugstore for other shampoos that are specifically made for dandruff.
If it still doesn't seem to affect anything, then your best bet is to visit a dermatologist to prescribe something just for your problem. Jordan S.
by Laughlots on 3/12/2012 5:59:12 PM
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My best friend A don't have any classes together so our friendship is drifting away. I try to make convo with her but it ends in awkward silence. I want to hang out with her outside of school but I don't think her mom likes me or thinks I'm a good example. Her mom doesn't like her hanging in my house. Last friday we were suppose to decide on two activities together and we did. but then my other (sort of bossy) friend M wanted to do something else and I agreed. It wasn't until the weekend I remembered I was suppose to be doing the activities with A! I totally ditched her and I feel horrible! I don't know if she is mad at me or not so I texted her saying"hey" she hasnt replied and its been a week! I don't blame her, if someone were to ditch me I would not talk to them! What should I do?
by torrie55 on 2/25/2012 6:31:33 PM
If u lie 2 ur 'rents then they will lose their trust in u ... and that is not a place u want to go! Trust me!
by bandnerds41698 on 2/18/2012 2:02:20 AM
Hi! No matter how badly you want to go to that party, you should NEVER lie to your parents. If they say no, listen to them! Your friends should never influence you to do wrong things.
by LacrosseLoverJB on 2/3/2012 4:44:38 PM
Hey sushi20025, mod is short for moderator. And moderators are girls like me who help you girlies out whenevr you have a question or problem. So if you ever need advice on anything, just send a comment in with MOD at the top and then your question. Xoxo
i have a question wat does mod mean Lynae P.
by sushi20025 on 1/28/2012 4:44:50 PM
Hey GrassFairy, mhmm it's weird that they're treating you like this. Although they said they didn't have a problem with you, something must be up. But if they don't want to tell you, then there's nothing you can do. Whenever your friend isn't around, don't hang with them. You deserve friends who will treat you better than this. Hope this helps! Xoxo
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Since the new school year started, I feel as though i've almost become a third-wheel. One of my friends is moving soon and we've all been kind of sad about it. There's four of us that all usually hang out together. Only one of these four has a class with me and over the year we've become better friends. But I feel like my other two friends almost don't treat me like they treat her. Sometimes they roll there eyes and all I say is hi. I feel almost as though they don't always want me there. They act different when our other friend is around they act nicer I guess. It kind of hurts my feeling. I don't know if its just the fact that they've all know each other since they were younger or what. I've tried asking them if there's anything wrong or if they're mad at me but they both say no. They weren't like this until this year and I wish I knew why. Any advice? Lynae P.
by GrassFairy on 1/25/2012 6:54:05 PM
by shelbychristine333 on 1/24/2012 1:15:42 PM
You should tell your parents the truth.A lie is a sin and tells the person that there stupid.Your friends are lying then don't be their friend they could take you to jail.
by girlygirl5202003 on 1/13/2012 10:07:52 PM
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by DUCKYSHORTS on 1/11/2012 10:03:25 PM
by sunnybubbles on 12/29/2011 3:31:13 PM
by BlackDragon on 12/19/2011 1:51:54 AM
If your parents do not allow you to go, there is probably a reason behind it. Its even worse if you lie to them. If you do, don't expect to play dumb with them. Soon enogh, they will find out and punish you. It's a whole lot more fun and less stressful if your parent said yes then lying and getting busted in the process.
by Kristina_195 on 12/9/2011 8:52:46 PM
by rupertgrint014 on 12/3/2011 6:56:15 PM
You should never lie to anyone. And you should never EVER lie to your parents.
by mocking❤jay on 11/25/2011 11:37:26 AM
I once omitted some details about where I was going to my parents and it didn't turn out well. I knew my parents would not want me to go so I did not tell them the whole truth. They never found out where I tried to go. However it turned out to be a complete disaster. I don't totally regret going because I learned a valueable lesson: if there is somewhere that your parents would not let you go, there is probably a good reason.
by BehrendBlues on 11/14/2011 12:02:39 AM
by lovingcaringsocial on 11/5/2011 6:17:51 PM
Don't lie to your parents if they don't want u to go dont go! I learned that the hard way a few years ago my friend was throwing a 'homie' party my parent knew that she was a bad kid and all thay said i cant go but my friend said i should say im going to the 'mall' and go anyway and i thought that if i did that i would be consideres a 'cool' kid I went to the party and there was drinking no parental supervision and all the girls were half dresses u regret going cause when i got home my mom noticed i was kinda late it was about midnight and the mall closed at 8 so I would say trust your parents and DON'T GO!
by lovingcaringsocial on 11/5/2011 5:55:47 PM
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okay so im a freshman this year and i was going to a high school that no one else from my old school would go. I used to be bullied and beat up in middle school so that's why i made sure to go to this school so i would have a new start. I knew two girls from other schools so i made sure to build up my friendships with them because one knew a lot of people and one was a cheerleader. I was in the popular group and everything was perfect for a month. But then they all started to like turn on me by like excludidng me from partys and football games. Now they hardly talk to me and it absoultuely kills me. Ive talked to counselors and theyve said to rely on my other friends and to leave the other girls. But part of me can't let go and it's ruining my highschool experience. Please help...i don't what or how to do whatever i ned to do.
by RainKisses on 11/5/2011 3:50:43 PM
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by applea123 on 10/25/2011 10:29:35 PM
Two words: DON'T GO!! If your parents don't want you to go, and your gut tells you that its wrong, then its probably not a very good idea to go. Friends shouldn't force you to lie to your parents, at least not true friends. It just isn't right. DOn't listen to her!!
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by facebooker1240 on 10/21/2011 3:24:01 PM
I know what you're going through. It's tough
by taylorswiftlover101 on 10/20/2011 10:49:42 PM
I wouldnt lie but I know it may be hard not going but if you do think things will be getting 'wild' you may not want to be around anyway, but then again it may be good gossip at school.
Honesty is always the best but I hid me having a bf from my parents because I knew they would not have approved. But use your own judgement, maybe your mom will let you go.
by luckykel on 10/19/2011 4:18:43 PM
by sweetswimmie on 10/19/2011 12:20:01 AM
i didnt have room to say thanks but THANKS! haha srry about the really long message....
by mypuggl3 on 10/18/2011 6:21:10 PM
i would not go!
by horselover408 on 10/18/2011 5:51:24 PM
I wouldn't go. I wouldn't risk it.
On the other hand, handing out candy to little kids dressed all adorable seems kinda fun. I've never done it, because I live out in the country. :/ But I bet it would be fun!
by indesicive1 on 10/18/2011 5:44:12 PM
I wouldn't go! I'm not going to a girl's party this weekend cuz I'm not sure about it, instead I'm going to hang out with my cousins.
by nerdisthewurd26 on 10/18/2011 5:20:18 PM
maybe you can have fun too.................... by scaring to make them pee in their pants!!!!!!!!
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