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by m.lacovara on 6/29/2012 4:27:22 PM

 
 

Omg this reminds me soooo much of my bestie!!! She's the best!

by louisianadiva4435 on 6/23/2012 9:39:35 PM

 
 



MOD MOD MOD my bff and i have been together forever,but i have a twin sister and she likes to tag along when ever i do something fun she feels that i am leaving her out so she tells my mom and i get in trouble.i really want her to have fun but she doesnt have many friends so i basically have to let her be friends with ALL my bffs.today me and my bff got in a fight basically because of her HEEEEEEEEEEELLLLLLLLLLLLP

 

Hey cutie! That's a tricky situation. Have you tried talking to your sister? Maybe you can explain to her (in an extremely nice way!) that you love her and you love hanging out with her, but sometimes you want some one-on-one time with your BFF. Maybe you could even introduce her to some fun girls (or even guys!) in your grade that you feel she would get along well with. If not, it won't be like this forever. Most importantly, explain to your BFF that she is your sister, and you understand why your BFF might be mad, but you're just trying to be a good friend and sister. Your BFF should understand and maybe she can even help you find cute new friends for your sis! Just make sure never to ditch your sis'....sisters are for life!


Catherine C.

by hawii12328 on 6/21/2012 4:32:23 PM

 
 



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I just wanted to tell you how appreciated you are by us gals. We LOVE the awesome advice you guys give! Keep on rocking!

 

hey! Wow! You are so sweet to say that. We love giving ya'll advice. If you ever need anything, holla at yo girl here ;) 


Helen S.

by Christiangal345 on 6/12/2012 5:43:56 PM

 
 



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Everyone has a best friend and I don't! Some days I think nobody likes me. Help!




Hey babe, you don't have to have one best friend to have friends. Some gals just have a whole posse of friends that they flit between. So it's okay to be between groups, but if you're really lonely, try joining a club or something new. Don't be shy, and introduce yourself to some new chicas. You've got tons a fab qualities - just let 'em show!   
Carrie R.

by Christiangal345 on 6/12/2012 2:57:46 PM

 
 



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So recently this girl (Sal) stole my sweatshirt from my BFF's closet when she was over her house. She basically refused to give it up until I confronted her directly and she doesn't like me to say the least. Sal was always rude to my BFF she made fun of all her mistakes, told her secrets, and constantly used her. My BFF would rag about her all the time and finally ended the friendship after this incident. Now her and Sal are 'best friends' again. Sal is crazy! I don't understand, she is such a bad friend! Why would my BFF go back to being friends with her?




Hey girlie,

She might like the attention, she might have too much history with Sal to "dump" her, or she might genuinely like her for reasons that you can't see. We don't always loooove our bestie's other friends - and that's ok! Just try to understand that your friend is allowed to have her own friends, and she has to make her own judgments and mistakes. (If Sal is a bad friend, your BFF has to find that out on her own.) It's no fun, but try not to let it stress you out! Just hang out with your BFF on your own without Sal around and try to focus on the awesome friendship you have together!
Lauren C.

by skf97 on 6/7/2012 8:37:18 PM

 
 

My friend rep hasnt been so good this year soooo next year at a new school im going to not talk alot and let friends come to me.

by XxUTookMahFonexX on 6/6/2012 5:31:12 PM

 
 

AWWW Smile this is such a cute article cuz all of the things listed are true for me and my bestie

by mccarthy99 on 5/19/2012 1:00:59 AM

 
 



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Hi, well the situation is kind of like this; I have a group of best friends and they are all so lovely, but two of them started going out and it is quite awkward, they act differently around us than usual. We tried writing a letter to tell them how we were feeling about the situation, but they just completely dismissed it.
I don't want to loose these friends, but I'm not sure about what to do. Also, they keep hugging and all that stuff.. in front of my friend (E) who obviously liked my other friend (R) and they knew it.
It's okay if you don't have any advice, this is too confusing for anyone.




Hey girl!

I'm sorry to hear that two of your friends have started acting differently. Writing a letter was a great idea to talk about the problem in a non-confrontational way. Try setting up a time to talk to both of them face to face, this might help them understand how important the situation is to you.  If that doesn't work, give them some space. Call your other great friends and catch a movie!

Marisa D. Marisa D.

by xaddalyn on 5/7/2012 7:24:35 AM

 
 

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Hey, what are some great tips for making new friends 'cause my aren't very good friends??



The best thing for you to do to open up some new friendships is to start off with common ground or interests.  Find people you play the same sport with, that you have a similar affinity for math, you have a mutual friend with, etc. Jordan S.

by just_me12 on 5/5/2012 6:49:19 PM

 
 



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Ok I'm having some friend troubles... So I'm pretty close with about 4 girls that I hang out with almost everyday at school with but I feel that I'm not getting anything out of the friendship but I'm putting a lot in. There is another group that I hang out with about once a week but I want to hang out with them more because I feel I will be more compatible with them. How do I hang out with them more without making my other friends feel ditched??
Thanks!! xoxo

 

Hey girl! This is a tough situation, but it's important that you do what's right for you. It's no fun to be taken for granted, so it sounds like you might need to reevaluate the friendship. Are you the one always calling them to hang out and going above and beyond to make sure that they are always included? It sounds like you are, which means you're a great friend, but they're not reciprocating. If you think you are a better match (in terms of interests) with the other group, then just start sitting with them at lunch more and plan an activity with this group over the weekend. Just don't ditch your four friends completely. Tell them that you're going to sit at the other girls' lunch table beforehand--maybe sit there twice/week and sit with your old friends three days. Do it gradually and be honest with yourself and your old friends. Still make an effort to hang out with them, but maybe not as frequently. Try to balance your time between both sets of friends, if possible!


Colleen K.

by HorseGirl2998 on 4/16/2012 10:34:39 AM

 
 



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Ok so there is this girl who goes to my church and I play basketball with at school. I did a horrible thing. I sent her boyfriend of her and another guy holding hands. It was while they were going out but she claims she loved him. However, during basketball season she always made fun of how bad I was and how much I sucked, mean while she always coulnt do any of the stuff we were required to do. I still have classes with her, including confirmation, and she's knows some of my deepest secrets. How do I get her to forgive me so we can still talk?!?




Hey girlie,

Ouch. If enough time has passed for her to cool off a little, try talking to her one-on-one or writing her a note. Be very clear about what you did wrong (so she knows you feel sorry about it) and apologize for hurting her. Tell her you've learned a lot and you've grown up since then, so you can really see just how wrong it was. Ask her if she'll forgive you and tell her you think she's a good person, so you'd love to someday be friends - or at least not enemies. She doesn't owe you anything so she doesn't have to forgive you... but at least you'll know you tried <3
Lauren C.

by Jessica971822 on 4/15/2012 1:00:41 AM

 
 

My bestie is my missing puzzle piece, I love her to death we know everything about each other, I love her for who she is and I know she loves me.

by daddyzlilgurl on 4/8/2012 7:58:32 PM

 
 

my bestie kicks butt she is awesome she is like all of these she is awesome she would never leave me even if she could

by carly#1 on 3/31/2012 1:47:40 PM

 
 

Mod!!!!!! Me and my friends now play the family game. Im the mom and 5 of my BFFL"S are my daughters. We just refer to each other as "mommy" or "daughter" or "sister" I asked them who the father was and they decided my ex boyfriend.Then at lunch today they started texting him things like "daddy i hate you for what you did for mommy" or hi new daddy. hes in a cruise right now, but im worried that if and when he figures out the game he"ll think that i like him which is false but still. HELP!!!!

 

 I think it will be OK. Its all just a joke and if he asks you anything about it you can just tell him that.

Amanda P.

by ladyinlike on 3/28/2012 3:59:13 PM

 
 

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me and my 2 besties lets call them A and B were gonna go rollar skating on sunday well I invited both of them but B is having C (this girl I really don't like from a different district) sleep over the night before so C would have to come with us. I don't like C because I toke her on my vacation with me because she was my bestir at the time we made all these plans and then she moved and never talked to me again, so obviously I wouldn't like her. But she had to come with us if I wanted B to come (which I do) I have to decide what to do soon do please help thanks <3

Hey girl,

If she's friends with your buds, why not give her another chance? She might not have meant to leave you out, and if you were friends before you might get along well if you start hanging out again!

Meghan D.

by trackgirl9 on 3/2/2012 9:05:44 PM

 
 

Gosh....I just realized my BFF doesn't do any of these things...not even my Birthday. She has ditched me waaaaayyyyy to many times for other girls. She NEVER means BFFL and she NEVER keeps my secrets. Wow,that was kind of like a wake up call for me.

by FrenchRose on 2/28/2012 7:51:21 PM

 
 



mod mod mod okay so i have three friends and they are always telling me things about the same problem but there to different stories how do i no witch 1 is true and witch 1 is a complete lie? help me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!




Chances are that some combination of the stories is what is actually true. Just remember to not be so quick to believe everything you are told.  
Amanda P.

by sbnine on 2/27/2012 4:20:21 PM

 
 

My bestie totally rocks! We're so close. Smile

by LittleRockstar on 2/25/2012 11:05:43 PM

 
 

Mod mod mod lately I have been feeling left out because my best friend goes to a different school so I never get to see her. I try to get together with her but she's always busy what do I do?

 

Hey girl! It can be difficult to make plans with your bff when you have different schedules, but if you're important to her, then she'll carve out the time. Just try talking to her and telling her that you miss hanging out. Maybe you could plan a girls' night with just the two of you--rent your favorite movie, bake a batch of cookies, and pick up a new bottle of nail polish. Ask her when she has free time and then stick to a day to hang out.

Colleen K.

by Cooper08 on 2/20/2012 1:18:32 AM

 
 

Mod Mod Mod! Me and One of my Best friends Have Just Gotten to be best friends this year when I Switched to a New school and We Became Best friends sense then! But she Spraned her Ankle and has not been able to hang out or go to school for a week! And so I Have been Hanging out with my other friends... And I Feel like they should be my best friends to.. But I don't know how to become there best friends.. When ever I hang out with them during Lunch I call it stalking.. Please help me!

 

Hey ♫Erin♫, just like you did with your other friend, take the time to get to know them. No one becomes best friends with someone overnight. The more time you spend with them, the more you guys will learn about each other and you'll get closer. Hope this helps! Xoxo

Lynae P.

by ♫Erin♫ on 2/8/2012 8:43:00 PM

 
 

Every1 has some1 in the group there closet 2. Some of my other friends feel offended that i don't tell them every thing
should I tell them?

by kenzielynn on 1/29/2012 8:25:00 PM

 
 

At school, I have 6 friends in my main group. two of them, one I will call S and the other B, are closer than the rest of us. When we do anything in class that you get to choose partners, S and B are together. B will not let me be partners with S. How can I be friends with S if B is always stuck to her? Plus i have known S longer that B! And this is not the first time she has done this to me!
Someone help me!

by sbieber13 on 1/21/2012 9:54:10 PM

 
 

Hey treehugger15, read this article for some advice. I think it will really help you! Xoxo

http://www.girlslife.com/post/2008/08/25/left-out-of-group.aspx



MOD! MOD!
Hey, so lately i feel like my best friend and i are losing each other. . this happened last year i feel like but me and her are best friends around the beginning of school then one of my other friends (i think) trys to take her away from me. So please help. i dont want to lose her. :\ Lynae P.

by treehugger15 on 1/18/2012 7:57:28 PM

 
 

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okay so for my besties birthday she wants these shoes that are kind of expensive (3 of my friends are going to team up to buy the for her). We can afford it but i don't think shes going to wear the shoes very much and was thinking she might be happier with three presents shes going to actually use. But she REALLY wants the shoes so idk wat to do...please help




Hey girl,


If your friend says she REALLY wants the shoes, maybe she will wear them a lot. If that's what she wants and you can afford them, get them for her. If you get her the other presents she might be disappointed when she doesn't get the shoes she asked for.

Kathryn S.

by loveurself19 on 1/16/2012 2:37:33 PM

 
 

I love my best friend...cause its my ipod!!!

by LCV554 on 1/14/2012 9:29:58 PM

 
 

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by SoccerBabe07 on 1/14/2012 8:00:29 AM

 
 

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My friend is having her birthday party at an ice rink. The problem is I have no idea how to ice skate. I don't want to hurt her feelings by not going, but I also don't want to get hurt ice skating. I feel bad because I still haven't told her whether or not I am coming. What should I do?

 

Hey girl,

You are def not gonna be the only one at this party that doesn't know how to skate. And this party is the perfect opportunity for you to learn how! It can't hurt to just give it a whirl, and if you end up not feeling comfortable you can always just chat with a friend on the bleachers and stay for the cake. I'm sure it would mean a lot to your friend if you came!

Kathryn S.

by purpleluver716 on 1/13/2012 11:30:20 AM

 
 

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should friends be shy of each other?
I mean I feel this really awkward silence sometimes and I don't know what to say I really like her she's like my BFF is it to do with the fact that I'm incredibly shy and insecure if it is please help me out I WANT TO MAKE MY FRIENDSHIP BETTER. thx sooo much

 

Hey girl,

This shouldn't have anything to do with how shy you are. If you are truly BFFs, you should feel comfortable around each other no matter what! It sounds like maybe you girls are running out of stuff to talk about. Try doing fun activities together like going to the mall or the movies, and you'll have plenty of stuff to chit chat about!




Kathryn S.

by paris_mi4 on 1/13/2012 5:54:50 AM

 
 



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okay so there's this girl in my class who dosent like me...i dont know why because im really nice to everyone. i wouldnt really care about one person not liking me but she started talking to all of her younger friends about me and making up lies about what i've done (she said i called one of her friends fat, but when i went to talk to her friend about it her friend said that i didn't and that the one girl didn't like me). So now im getting a rep for being mean by the younger classes and i havent even done anything!!! i dont know what to do without confronting the girl and im afraid that would just make her cry and report me to the teachers for something that i didn't do!!! please help!!!




Hey chica! This girl sounds like trouble, plain and simple. It's hard to tell why she doesn't like you. She could be jealous of you. She could be insecure and her way of feeling better is to bring others down. Or, she could just be a mean girl, end of story. I'd keep being yourself and being nice to everyone. If everyone sees how nice you are, then I can't imagine why they would believe her. Maybe, try talking to a teacher or guidance counselor that you trust and sell them the sitch. Then, when you do want to confront the girl, they'll know what's up and not to believe her Smile

xxx 
Becca G.

by loveurself19 on 1/9/2012 9:11:00 PM

 
 

Hey shopaholic44, you guys can always do something else together. You two can go shopping, head to the movies or grab a bite to eat. Hope this helps!! Xoxo



mod mod!!!my bff has the itchy head and i cant have sleepovers what can i do? Lynae P.

by shopaholic44 on 1/6/2012 8:33:33 PM

 
 

So true! I have literally known my best friend for 75% of my life. We can share anything with each other, and no matter how long we're forced apart - days or months - we don't forget each other.

by singingsongwriter101 on 1/3/2012 11:47:11 PM

 
 

Hey mossy, it's always tough when your 'rents don't like your friends. I think you should invite her over for dinner so your mom and dad can sit down and actually talk to her. Hopefully they'll see what you see in her. Hope this helps!!!! XoxoMOD MOD
I hav a friend who I am really close to
she listens to me and we can talk about anything
the only problem is that my parents don't like her
when my mom and I picked her up her mom didn't
care about meeting my mom. And t a sleepover her mom was
Gone for a little while.
My mom and dad had a talk with me about how I can't
be friends with her outside of school. My dad even said
won't be surprised if she gets pregnant before high school.
I tried telling them that she was a nice girl, I don't even
think she has kissed a guy yet. Whenever I mention her
my dad rolls his eyes. How can I show them she's a really
nice girl.
Pppllllleeeeeaaassseeeee help Lynae P.

by Kui on 12/30/2011 2:49:27 AM

 
 

MOD!My bff and I have been bffs since the second day of school seven years ago, and I've never felt awkward around her. Now she's told me that she has a crush on this girl at her school. She also has a crush on a guy. I'm ok with her choice, but the thing is that it's sort of awkward for me now. My dad isn't all for gay rights. Last night he even got mad because there was something online talking about a "don't ask, don't tell" law, and the picture for it had two women kissing. It made me remember my bestie. She told me not to tell anybody, but the thing is, if word gets out that my best friend is bisexual, my dad may flip. I may be stressing over nothing, but growing up in a house where you're taught homosexuality is wrong while you find out your bff is bisexual, it make you tense, wondering when something may go wrong. She'll be like a sister, but I'm still scared about my dad/feelings. She doesn't even know, and Im the only she's told about her secret!!!

 

Hey girl,

 

Ouch. This is a tough sitch, and I'm sorry you've been placed in that position. Try not to mention anything to your dad, and if he does find out, tell him that she's still your friend and her personal decisions don't affect your friendship. Good luck!

Meghan D.

by MileyCyrusROX! on 12/22/2011 3:00:35 PM

 
 

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I never get invited to hang out with my friends or do things. Sometimes they might invite me to go to the mall or something but not to sleepover or just hang out. But they do all the time. They pretty much spend the whole weekend together, without ever inviting me. We aren't the friends that are like deep talkers I guess so I can't say like why didn't you invite me. I really don't want to go to a new group of friend because they are super awesome at school. And starting middle school we joined with another group of people that we won't be going to high school with. But it seems like they like them more than me. But I've been friends with them like from 1st grade. I don't know what to do. Do they not want me to be friend with them or what? Thank you so much!




Hmm thats tough. Im not sure whats going on. I suggest you invite them to come sleep over at your house and see how it goes. Try and show youre a fun friend and really do like their company and im sure things will get better. xoxo kerra 
Kerra S.

by danceforever58 on 12/18/2011 7:36:39 PM

 
 

My Bff just had a long talk yesterday. We had been going through rough times but now we=re totally O.K. with each other. But my second BFF had a talk with me yesterday and I told her that she's making me feel like she doesn't like me anymore but she said no. She also said that she wanted to take a break! I'm losing her! What should I do. She's not being honest! Thanks!

 

Hey girl,

 

If your friend wants to "take a break" and you think she's "not being honest," it might be time to reassess your friendship. Why not focus on your relationship with your first bff and see how things go with your other one?

Meghan D.

by yellowfluff on 12/17/2011 8:47:54 AM

 
 

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i have this friend, and shes amazing, and i love her to death. but its annoying cause just this weekend we were skyping this guy that i like, and he kept on hitting on her, and telling her to text him, and calling her hot. and it alwaaays happens. every guy i like, or every guy we meet when we go out, they always hit on her. we look alot alike, actually. were both about the same height, and thin (but im more busty and stuff then her.but not by alot.), and have the same hair, but they always go to her. i feel,like, fat and huge and ugly next to her. like why do i even try?
any tips to get my confidence up?
thanks. happy holidays (:




Hey Girl,

Constantly comparing yourself to your friend isn't good for your self esteem, so instead of thinking about qualities she has that you don't, find what you love about yourself. Celebrate your accomplishments, no matter how small, and remember that there isn't one standard definition of beautiful. You have to love yourself before you can be in a good relationship, so start finding awesome things about you! Start by checking out this post on our fave confidence boosters. Try one the next time you're feeling down! 
Rachel N.

by friendsrforever on 12/12/2011 11:58:00 AM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD Please help..I have a lot of pretty close friends. I hang out with them and tell them all kinds of stuff. Within our big group of friends, everyone has their own "best friend." Except for me. I cant imagine myself being best friends with anyone outside our group; there are tons of people I talk to/hang out with but none that I really feel comfortable sharing everything with. I have lots of friends so I know that there will always be someone there for me, but i really want to have one person like the one described here that I can always count on. What should I do?

 

Hey girl, continue getting to know your friends more. Maybe start telling them secrets and ask for advice and see who helps you the most. Eventually, you'll find that one best friend. Hope this helps!! Smile Smile

Lynae P.

by chocolate_lover*13 on 12/3/2011 5:40:26 PM

 
 


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So theres this guy and all my friends think he likes me but I cant tell! Can you tell me if you think he does?
1) We text almost every day from the minute I wake up until I go to sleep.
2) Yesterday he asked me a question I knew he already knew the answer to and then used that as an excuse to walk to class together.
3) He always waits for me after math class to walk with me even if I'm talking to the teacher.
4) He always jokingly makes fun of me.
Thanks so much <3


 


Lynae P.

by swazyelover2497 on 12/2/2011 8:48:29 PM

 
 

I like this article. Girls can be tricky! Check out the 5 tips on friendships at hellokiki.me

by hellokiki on 11/30/2011 9:55:59 AM

 
 

They'd never tell anyone my secrets, they're kind & thoughtful, my #1 BFF is(how do I put it... AH!) 'unique' & she makes me laugh.& my BGFs(is it O.K. if I include them?) they always my me laugh, plus they're really sweet & smart.

by lavlo on 11/16/2011 6:46:55 PM

 
 

But she still kicks butt Smile

by smileysevvie on 11/14/2011 10:10:09 PM

 
 

My best friend lives four hours away :'(

by smileysevvie on 11/14/2011 10:09:55 PM

 
 



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Hi! I am 15, and since April I have been wanting to get my navel pierced. I decided to wait until after marching band season so as to not stress the new piercing or anything. Band is over now, and Thanksgiving break is in a week! I am what most people call a "goody-two-shoes". I make very good grades, I am modest, I don't get into gossip, and I treat people like I would like to be treated. I don't agree with most people's views of navel piercings. They have the view of "she has her bellybutton pierced, she must be mean (or insert another word that I will not say)." I don't like that opinion, but I'm afraid people would think of me like that, even thought that is the exact OPPOSITE of my personality. I don't want to get it to show it off, I want to get it for ME so I know that I have it because I think they are pretty. What is your opinion on this? I really want to get it done, and even though I don't care what people think, I'm still wary! Help! And thanks!




Hey girl, honestly, a belly button piercing isn't something me or my friends associate with a mean personality. I think you might be overanalyzing this a bit. It isn't that unusual of a piercing spot. Just go for it and enjoy it. This is about you and your nice personality will outshine any little earring.

xoxo 
Alyssa B.

by PhotographyGirl on 11/14/2011 7:25:44 PM

 
 

i have a bff and i hope she sees this so hi caitlyn!!

by ilovelyrical on 11/14/2011 4:59:11 PM

 
 

yeah...no. i wish. i HAD a best friend. but i blew it. now, im stuck with these popular girlie snobs who would betray me faster than you can say "mean"

by Gigi17 on 11/12/2011 8:33:00 PM

 
 

TESTING...
sorry comments arent working! but while im here:
my bestie and i are exactly like this plus more! love her<3

by EliseLovesMagazines on 11/12/2011 1:31:03 PM

 
 

I moved to North Carolina for a year because my dad is doing a project and my parents thought it would be easier if we all moved... One of my best friends has texted or Skyped me EVERY DAY since I left in July!! I miss you, Hannah!!! I can't wait for next July

by holtswimmer226 on 11/12/2011 1:24:28 PM

 
 

Try to find a best friend who you can ALWAYS TELL ANYTHING TO. Someone who will listen and not judge.

by tsquasha on 11/11/2011 12:12:43 PM

 
 

whats sad is that my friend used to be all of those things......but just this year she found a "cooler" group of friends and she only spends recess with us and lunch with her cooler group. she says she will never leave me but i slowly see her drifting and it just brings me to tears....we were besties for 3 yrs and i nevr thought anything could tear us apart....i was wrong. she has totally changed charecter and i just feel upset...ive tried to tell her how i feel but she just dosent listen....so i guess ive decided to just let her go and make her own decisions.... :'( but ill def miss her...

by sillygal on 11/7/2011 9:15:34 PM

 
 

WOW my best friend is the best!!!

by littleducksis on 11/7/2011 8:30:29 PM

 
 

Aw this makes me miss my best friend. She moved to a different school, and is going to a different high school Frown
we always thought we would graduate together. But reading this, I realized that we will TRULY be best friends forever <3

by TheCuteNerd on 11/7/2011 8:24:02 PM

 
 

I am in highschool and I am now starting to realize the friends that really matter to me and those are the ones that have stuck with me for a long time. Through everything. Through my weird mood swings, through times when I have changed and everything else. We are there for each other. Girls don't be friends with people who just make u popular because they will just slip away. If you find friends who will be true to you for a long time you will have a much better life because you will know that you will always have someone to lean on. If anyone needs advice about this or any other topic or you just want to talk comment on my profile

by bff61 on 11/7/2011 7:12:05 PM

 
 

1,2, and 6 are SO her. And, omg, 7 is, like, the ULTIMATE truth! Devin A.

by EgirlH.97 on 11/7/2011 2:53:28 PM

 
 

Now that I think about it, my bestie's not really that great. She's a really bad influence on me and my mom and sister have been warning me about her forever, but I was being too defensive to listen.

1. She drank twice which means she doesn't care and she doesn't have any limits, she feels like she can do whatever she wants.
2. She showed up to the dance wearing a very revealing dress and loads of makeup. In our religion, you're supposed to be really modest about what you wear and what she wears doesn't define that.
3. She doesn't care about her sister and family. The only person she likes is her brother.
4. She can be very mean and ignorant plus really annoying.
5. She hangs out with more popular girls and boys, leaving me alone.

But I am not the kind that sits there and waits for something to happen. I started talking to other girls and branching out. Now, because I am nice and I am genuine with myself, I have lots of friends here and there and I am living happily Smile

by lemontwist213 on 11/7/2011 11:29:38 AM

 
 

I don't reply have a bestie that's a girl. But I have 2 amazing BGF's u can't exactly talk to them about you period. But they tell me all of their awkward stuff... So I guess we r pretty close

by Stormynow on 11/7/2011 12:50:20 AM

 
 

Totally true!!

by fallsb-ball on 11/6/2011 6:07:58 PM

 
 



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by facebooker1240 on 11/6/2011 12:53:16 PM

 
 



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Hi. My brother is 16 and is 4 years older than me. He is really mean to me, but I know that if anything bad happened he would be there for me. He hits me all the time and it hurts a lot. He also teases me really badly and says that can't dance. It usually doesnt bring me down if people tease me, but he's my brother so it hurts. He threatens me and one day he said that he could kill me if he could. I told my parents millions of times but they dont believe me or if they do they just tell him to stop but it never works. I've tried ignoring him, teasing back, and telling him to stop but he never does. Please help.




Hey girl,

The teasing is no big deal, but death threats and physical violence IS a big deal. The next time he hits you, show your parents the bruises/red marks to prove your case. Tell them you love your brother and you aren't trying to get him in trouble, but you can't live constantly feeling like you're going to be in danger. You need to be mature and calmly tell them what's happening - don't freak out and don't act desperate. Keep telling them, over and over, what's happening until they listen to you. You could also try talking to a teacher or guidance counselor at school about what's happening, who could call your parents and speak to them adult-to-adult. I'm sorry you have to go through this - but keep trying so you don't go through it alone. Talking to him won't make a difference because he's 16 and probably doesn't understand what he's doing hurts you.  
Lauren C.

by Ballerina55 on 11/6/2011 10:50:53 AM

 
 

That totally describes my two BFFs! I love the and they're always there for me. Smile

by LittleRockstar on 11/6/2011 10:18:20 AM

 
 

i dont really have a best friend...

by LCV554 on 11/6/2011 9:51:45 AM

 
 

I love my bestie(s) because they're ALWAYS there for me and they're really funny!!

by sweetooth on 11/6/2011 9:45:21 AM

 
 

my bestie literally kicks butt. she does hapkido ;)

by Kalulah on 11/6/2011 9:18:46 AM

 
 



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My old best friend, C from about 1 grade to maybe 4 when I switched schools and left her behind. We tried hanging out and were pretty close in 5 and 6 but in 7 we drifted a bit. I'm in 8 now and I don't want to even try anymore. A new girl went to their school in like 6 or 7 gr. and she and that girl got rly close. That girl moved to florida last summer and C skypes and facebooks her constantly. I realised, she never facebooks me, she never texts or calls me, she never tries to hang out with me. I don't want to try if she doesn't. We don't talk about over half the stuff up there in the article when we do ever hang out. My mom and her parents and aunt are friends though, whenever my mom would come pick me up sometimes they'd just talk for an extra two hours!
I want to move on, but she was like my sister we signed all our cards and letters lylas and I only used that saying with her. What should I do?
Thanks in advance, sorry it was so long! Now back to writing nanowrimo!




Hey girlie,

I know you feel a responsibility to keep this friendship alive, but it's totally normal for friends to drift apart as they grow up. And it's ok to accept the fact that you need to move on! Especially with distance between you both, it's naturally going to be difficult to keep your friendship strong like it was. But that's ok - use this time to grow closer with the other friends you have and maybe even meet new ones. What matters is that you gave it a try (which you did) - you did everything right and it just didn't work out <3 That's ok, babe!
Lauren C.

by LLL328 on 11/6/2011 9:01:17 AM

 
 



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I'm feeling really depressed right now because my friends always tease me and call me weird or a freak or whatever. I"m starting to believe them because I honestly can't seem to say anything right! I've tried talking to them about it, especially my best friend, but she never seems "to recall saying any of that stuff". I love my friends most of the time and I don't want to get a whole new group because these are the friends that have the same passion as me so everything I do they do too. How else can I say that I don't like what they say?




Hey girl,

WHY oh why do you love these friends? They're turning you into an insecure, self-conscious gal! While it's ok once in a while for friends to point out flaws or mistakes we're making, overall you should be able to rely on them to be supportive, loving, and on your team. These friends are stomping all over you - which is NOT ok! So personally, I'd try to get to know other people and find friends who don't enjoy putting me down. But if you really want to stick with these girls, you need to be firm. "I don't care if you don't remember, because you said it - and you've been doing it often. It hurts me and I'm tired of it." Be confident (even if you don't feel it, fake it) when you say this! You have to be firm in order to make them realize that they're really hurting you with what they say <3 
Lauren C.

by rellim on 11/6/2011 8:59:05 AM

 
 

She Is CRAZY like me!!!

by EQC123 on 11/6/2011 7:13:51 AM

 
 

People say my best friend and i are nothing alike. We don't like the same boys, have the same style, or share the same interest. But... we do share the same values and the same humor!(: She will always be there for me... even when everyone else won't! I love you hay!

by purpleorchid on 11/6/2011 2:28:46 AM

 
 

So true!!! I love my bff shes practically my sister!!!!

by sparrowchavez on 11/6/2011 1:46:01 AM

 
 

first comment! yay! i love my best friend because we can laugh about the same thing without even talking!

by sdx17 on 11/6/2011 1:18:03 AM

 
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